@@QueenAma18 what's using about this? everyman's dream. we pray for wives like the side chick. you will live longer having multiple wives. don't be deceived by the system you live in.
Madam take this advice and it’ll help you a lot not only you but for your future kids too, child support straight!!! Don’t wait for his decision biaa, he can even watch this video and pretend that he has changed his mind, take him to child support lawfully 👍💯
Get him on the child support system. Think of the kids' future. I think this man is an opportunist. I hope the woman, too, was treating the man well. We can't judge this case by hearing only one side.
@akuaboahene6787 sit the husband up and see the possible cause for going in for a side chick, not the poor thinking way of child support stories. You're all bad nuts in the midst of women. Bad advisors . Emotional thinkers without cognitive reasoning.
@@controller8927 ashock sef. most men dream of having women who think like the side chick. you live longer and at peace. these modern ladies will stress you out and kpai early.
Nice program DJ you should have opened the phone line so people can call in to share their views, because they woman said she needs advice, she would have listened to people advice ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Regardless of the side of the story, A man that is not taking care of his children is stupid not to talk of spending on another lady in Ghana. I understand if you don’t love your wife or whatever but to the extend of ignoring your children?? Come on … this is beyond stupid. She should take him to child support. Too many irresponsible fathers in this generation.
Hmm is reason why i am single mother with 4 childeren now happy with my kids . My sister i used to think the same bt if you are not happy the childeren wil feel it. ❤
Dj nyame the truth is that since he married the first one on documents he cant marry again on documents. But he can marry the traditional way. So he can marry any amount
When she has to travel outside the country with the children, she is going to need consent from the husband. Something to be aware of if the kids are underage. Looks like she is getting into lawyer territory if mediation does not work. Separation agreement first for sure.
My sister, pls do not let it slide as I’ll advise you to put him on child support for deterrent purposes as some Diaspora’s men are fun of doing that once they get their “Nkrataa”
Find a support group of women who are going through this; especially those with children. From the interview she seems to have come to terms of the expected outcome, so she is already mentally strong at this stage. If she gets no child support, she should avail herself of programs available in the country she resides. Also exercise more. The kids are growing and the current state of affairs will also pass. Good luck.
Every relationship has problems so after the prayers know the right thing to do as a woman/ wife and a mother 👩..life is more precious than gold and silver ❤.
Is good to have multiple wife's as a man that's if u have the funds and can satisfy the both woman sexually 👌 but most time's the second wife comes with so much wahala, especially if she's from a poor home because you'll see the greedyness and selfishness in such women, because she has been hungry for long and can go to the extend of killing the first wife or taking the man to juju so that she can get him all by herself ( properties).
My sister child support is the only option, dont listen to all family advice, you also need your happiness,if the child support will make you happy go for that.period
If a man or woman wants to quit his or her marriage the person got a lot of excuses ooo hwɛ if he's fed up let him go nothing can change him or her the mind is made up
When you take him to child support and he doesn't pay. First his D/L license will be revoke .The next step is he won't be able to renew his US passport. So bro if u are reading the comments come bk home and sort yourself with your wife or else you are doomed
I believe if she put him on child support and gets stuck in Ghana without much money, the other woman will leave him. That’s another way to remove that woman. When he is so busy working to pay child support, he will not have time for her or other women. So yes! Put him on child support! Try that, if she leaves him then you go back for him . If not , move on.
Child support is not a punishment. It is meant for people who dont take care of their children's feeding, clothing and schooling. They cant do it themselves and since you made them you have to take care of them. It is bad when the women keeps going for more money due to greed and this leads to abondonment when it is all over at 18yrs. Men see it as the court decides and should continue to decide, so zero contributions.
If you are sure that you dont push yourself away from your husband when he is ready to have an affair with you.infact its really painful,,but again dont break your marriage else you will gain lost but not profit
Madam like your sister said let him go ,no don't allow him to go like that but put him into child support if you allow the other woman in Ghana come in your marriage later you will find yourself at the cemetery
I know a 2 friend in a similar situation. 1, man married another woman in Ghana whilst his wife and children are in the US and introduce her as sister in-law to GH wife. This means the USA wife knows husband is married but the other woman has no clue 😅. 2, Wife and children are in GH and husband married another woman in US for inkranta and also introduced his GH wife as sister to the one in US.
The first scenario woman in Ghana has clue but the wife in US knows she has a co-wife. The second scenario wife in Ghana is fully aware of his husband having another wife in the US. This world is not balanced at all.
Child support is the way! Home people, erh! By this time, the girl has worked things she knows what she's standing on, that's why she is bold to say anything to you
Dj always greetings,my sis forget about the divorce you hv planed to do,and dont listen to your co -wife to be for your husband better focus in your children dont leave this marriage,always push your ear away from that lady..God is your strength What you reap,you soid
@johnahiaba2089 is that the only solution to curb the situation? Think before you speak,don't attach emotions but logical. How does it got to do with child support. Poverty thinkers
I don’t think the man came for you because of documents but over time things changed (15 yrs). Right now, you’ve a choice to accept 2nd marriage or let him go forever.
to tell u the truth, we men love to explore not because we dont love our family but out of curiosity. but it becomes a problem when your husband get entangle with a sidechick who roams on juju men(ive seen alot of such girls in ghana), i would have advised you to take it up in prayers buh honestly, hes not worth it. deal with him as you wish. when hes down, the other lady will also leave, thats when he will come to his senses, he will come and apologise later but itll be up to u to accept.
I ask oo is men finished bcos it's looks like we dnt meet d good n faithful ones. What is happening. God help us. Is this not wickedness. He cnt marry buh he will have kids with her n file for the kids that's is d painful thing n wht he will put u through,is better u divorced n put him on child support n share d properties
If the man hasn't gotten his documents yet she should go to the authorities as soon as possible to make them aware he's started the process of marrying another woman and that she believes he only stayed with her to get documents, she can then ask them to put the process of getting his documentation on hold or cancel it totally. Better if she has some voice recordings of the man admitting to marrying another woman and the fact that getting documents was at least part of the reason why he stayed with her for this long. The marriage can then even be annulled as a sham marriage. And he won't get his documents. If the marriage isn't annulled she can also sue the woman in Ghana for alienation of affection (speak to a Ghanaian lawyer if Ghana has this law, US has it). Good luck, nkwasia buo yeya.
Sister,put him on child support and move on,give him his share of the house in America if possible.Move sister,you will be fine❤,if he doesn' t respect the support and help that you are giving him dont die for him.More over you married him in American style,one wife one husband.leave to live sister.
@@MichaelJato That is the system at work. If you choose to live in it, you get to abide by its rules. Else, you behave like he did... you exit the country. It is interesting that one can fight hard to get status and then also prioritize the high inflation country you came from as the place to make things happen. Human nature is truly difficult to predict.
It’s the man’s choice to be polygamous, you can’t force the woman to be in a polygamous marriage. In fact the man should have said he is polygamous from the beginning so the lady would have decided from the beginning.
@@akuaboahene6787 why men will keep lieing to yall.. accept it, make up your mind early. a man will not hustle his a$$ off to be with only 1 woman who comes bestowed with all previlleges.
Just put him on the child support system when he arrives!
A man who wants to misbehave will find every excuse to frustrate the wife, the woman is not at fault
Am a Man but this( stupidity)just put him on child support
He just used her , I’m glad you agree with her.
@@QueenAma18The same thing women also do to men, because the men doesn't voice out so men are always at fault
Women sleep around more than men but they are good at hiding it.
@@QueenAma18 what's using about this? everyman's dream. we pray for wives like the side chick.
you will live longer having multiple wives. don't be deceived by the system you live in.
Exactly, put him on child support
Madam take this advice and it’ll help you a lot not only you but for your future kids too, child support straight!!! Don’t wait for his decision biaa, he can even watch this video and pretend that he has changed his mind, take him to child support lawfully 👍💯
Get him on the child support system. Think of the kids' future. I think this man is an opportunist. I hope the woman, too, was treating the man well. We can't judge this case by hearing only one side.
Sister, don't divorce him. Take him to child support .
You all lack sense, where from this child support stuff.
@@controller8927
So what do you suggest she do, Mr. Sense.
@akuaboahene6787 sit the husband up and see the possible cause for going in for a side chick, not the poor thinking way of child support stories. You're all bad nuts in the midst of women. Bad advisors . Emotional thinkers without cognitive reasoning.
@@controller8927 ashock sef. most men dream of having women who think like the side chick. you live longer and at peace. these modern ladies will stress you out and kpai early.
@@AfrobeatsMotherland-co9wn 😃😃😃😃
Nice program DJ you should have opened the phone line so people can call in to share their views, because they woman said she needs advice, she would have listened to people advice ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Isaac from UK, my sister don’t worry that God will fight for you
This is sad,but madam dont divorce him,put him on the child support to bind him a little
I can’t judge base on one sided story
Hmmm.... Than wait for December as you said, if still he want the lady, Let him go... It's well
Regardless of the side of the story, A man that is not taking care of his children is stupid not to talk of spending on another lady in Ghana. I understand if you don’t love your wife or whatever but to the extend of ignoring your children?? Come on … this is beyond stupid. She should take him to child support. Too many irresponsible fathers in this generation.
Put him on child support and divorce him …you haven’t done anything wrong
The man is charmed. That's always the outcome when a borga starts to cheat in Ghana. The local women make wild.
DJ, he did not love her to begin with, he only married her because of her papers!!!!!
Hmm is reason why i am single mother with 4 childeren now happy with my kids . My sister i used to think the same bt if you are not happy the childeren wil feel it. ❤
Dj nyame the truth is that since he married the first one on documents he cant marry again on documents. But he can marry the traditional way. So he can marry any amount
When she has to travel outside the country with the children, she is going to need consent from the husband.
Something to be aware of if the kids are underage.
Looks like she is getting into lawyer territory if mediation does not work. Separation agreement first for sure.
Please madam, put him on kid support that's the best way and don't think abt the tribe ..kids first, because kids are vulnerable.
Child support will be the best option. Be FAST about it.
This wold😢
Hmmm so sad,may God repair their relationship
My sister, pls do not let it slide as I’ll advise you to put him on child support for deterrent purposes as some Diaspora’s men are fun of doing that once they get their “Nkrataa”
Find a support group of women who are going through this; especially those with children.
From the interview she seems to have come to terms of the expected outcome, so she is already mentally strong at this stage.
If she gets no child support, she should avail herself of programs available in the country she resides.
Also exercise more. The kids are growing and the current state of affairs will also pass. Good luck.
Relationship and problems just pray to GOD
Every relationship has problems so after the prayers know the right thing to do as a woman/ wife and a mother 👩..life is more precious than gold and silver ❤.
Is good to have multiple wife's as a man that's if u have the funds and can satisfy the both woman sexually 👌 but most time's the second wife comes with so much wahala, especially if she's from a poor home because you'll see the greedyness and selfishness in such women, because she has been hungry for long and can go to the extend of killing the first wife or taking the man to juju so that she can get him all by herself ( properties).
My sister child support is the only option, dont listen to all family advice, you also need your happiness,if the child support will make you happy go for that.period
DJ, agree with the question you asked her if she did something wrong that’s why the man left for another woman.
haha.. you are smart. this woman doesnt give kumjeke. and she wants the man to stay loyal. hmm
If a man or woman wants to quit his or her marriage the person got a lot of excuses ooo hwɛ if he's fed up let him go nothing can change him or her the mind is made up
Let’s wait till we hear the man’s version before we pass judgement folks..
I’m confused 😢oh and same man don’t want to tell the truth😮.Madam it’s shall be well 🙏💕
Divorce him and slap him with child support
When you take him to child support and he doesn't pay. First his D/L license will be revoke .The next step is he won't be able to renew his US passport. So bro if u are reading the comments come bk home and sort yourself with your wife or else you are doomed
Child support is good sis do it he will learn sense
Focus on your life, Your kids need you. You did what was necessary for your marriage. Don't blame yourself. If he wants to move away, let him.
Oh sad oo, ewiase mu ns3m
I believe if she put him on child support and gets stuck in Ghana without much money, the other woman will leave him.
That’s another way to remove that woman. When he is so busy working to pay child support, he will not have time for her or other women. So yes! Put him on child support!
Try that, if she leaves him then you go back for him . If not , move on.
Hmm ns3m dey world do you agree
He has to pay huge child support. Leave him and demand child support
Dis life ankasa eno balance oooo, my dream country paaa see how my gender dey spoil our chance .... But lik joke dj Nyame be fresh man oooo
Child support is not a punishment. It is meant for people who dont take care of their children's feeding, clothing and schooling. They cant do it themselves and since you made them you have to take care of them. It is bad when the women keeps going for more money due to greed and this leads to abondonment when it is all over at 18yrs. Men see it as the court decides and should continue to decide, so zero contributions.
Child support is better dont divorce and let him go live in Ghana if he wants to.
If you are sure that you dont push yourself away from your husband when he is ready to have an affair with you.infact its really painful,,but again dont break your marriage else you will gain lost but not profit
Madam like your sister said let him go ,no don't allow him to go like that but put him into child support if you allow the other woman in Ghana come in your marriage later you will find yourself at the cemetery
Madam if u want ur pieces put him on child support n be free
I know a 2 friend in a similar situation. 1, man married another woman in Ghana whilst his wife and children are in the US and introduce her as sister in-law to GH wife. This means the USA wife knows husband is married but the other woman has no clue 😅. 2, Wife and children are in GH and husband married another woman in US for inkranta and also introduced his GH wife as sister to the one in US.
The first scenario woman in Ghana has clue but the wife in US knows she has a co-wife. The second scenario wife in Ghana is fully aware of his husband having another wife in the US. This world is not balanced at all.
@@Yaba-naaba3 What nkrataa can make you do..hhhhmmmm. It's just common.
Take him to child support, he used you to get his papers. Please don’t Listen to people, I’m a single mother myself I know what you’re going through.
Child support is the way! Home people, erh! By this time, the girl has worked things she knows what she's standing on, that's why she is bold to say anything to you
My husband has being doing the same nonsense. I throw him out and his family were saying something different. His life is backsliding now
Madam hmm is painful but put him on child support and move on with your life
Take him to child support
Dj always greetings,my sis forget about the divorce you hv planed to do,and dont listen to your co -wife to be for your husband better focus in your children dont leave this marriage,always push your ear away from that lady..God is your strength
What you reap,you soid
You're the only person making sense.
@controller8927 you just not making any sense ,how will you feel if u were to be the lady?
@johnahiaba2089 is that the only solution to curb the situation? Think before you speak,don't attach emotions but logical. How does it got to do with child support. Poverty thinkers
Wow shared marriage 😂
Dj let her put him on child support please
Very sad story like the men are saying she should put him on child support
Put him to child support
I don’t think the man came for you because of documents but over time things changed (15 yrs).
Right now, you’ve a choice to accept 2nd marriage or let him go forever.
Put him on child support.. he won’t be able to go back anytime soon. #Rubbish
So sad
Some human beings are so wicked,
Don't let him fool on the lady please
to tell u the truth, we men love to explore not because we dont love our family but out of curiosity. but it becomes a problem when your husband get entangle with a sidechick who roams on juju men(ive seen alot of such girls in ghana), i would have advised you to take it up in prayers buh honestly, hes not worth it. deal with him as you wish. when hes down, the other lady will also leave, thats when he will come to his senses, he will come and apologise later but itll be up to u to accept.
It is a man's world in GH, that is why he retreated there.
I really want to know what makes a man left his wife at home and go for other lady
See take go prayers what the other lady in Ghana said means there is something behind.sometimes it’s not everything that physical that men go through
Madam dnt talk too much , put him on child support he will learn the hard way
Is very sad and cheat so don't hesitate to put him to child support
Child support is all ghana women know as soon as you have a kid with them.What advice do you want when you were already warned that the guy is no good
One guy I know did the same thing to his wife. He even had a child with the girlfriend in Ghana. Some of the ladies in Ghana use juju on borgas
Nothing is wrong marrying two... Muslims dont go through this. But rather its bad for his bad treatment..
Child support straight...don't waste time
I ask oo is men finished bcos it's looks like we dnt meet d good n faithful ones. What is happening. God help us. Is this not wickedness. He cnt marry buh he will have kids with her n file for the kids that's is d painful thing n wht he will put u through,is better u divorced n put him on child support n share d properties
If the man hasn't gotten his documents yet she should go to the authorities as soon as possible to make them aware he's started the process of marrying another woman and that she believes he only stayed with her to get documents, she can then ask them to put the process of getting his documentation on hold or cancel it totally. Better if she has some voice recordings of the man admitting to marrying another woman and the fact that getting documents was at least part of the reason why he stayed with her for this long. The marriage can then even be annulled as a sham marriage. And he won't get his documents. If the marriage isn't annulled she can also sue the woman in Ghana for alienation of affection (speak to a Ghanaian lawyer if Ghana has this law, US has it). Good luck, nkwasia buo yeya.
Sister,put him on child support and move on,give him his share of the house in America if possible.Move sister,you will be fine❤,if he doesn' t respect the support and help that you are giving him dont die for him.More over you married him in American style,one wife one husband.leave to live sister.
All you know there is child support, and Police
@@MichaelJato That is the system at work. If you choose to live in it, you get to abide by its rules. Else, you behave like he did... you exit the country.
It is interesting that one can fight hard to get status and then also prioritize the high inflation country you came from as the place to make things happen.
Human nature is truly difficult to predict.
Broken heart 💔 started 😅
This is not funny 😢
God is not against marrying two but he his against divorce
It’s the man’s choice to be polygamous, you can’t force the woman to be in a polygamous marriage. In fact the man should have said he is polygamous from the beginning so the lady would have decided from the beginning.
@@akuaboahene6787 why men will keep lieing to yall.. accept it, make up your mind early. a man will not hustle his a$$ off to be with only 1 woman who comes bestowed with all previlleges.