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  • Опубликовано: 15 июн 2023
  • HEY GIRL HEY!
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  • @florizellathompson1562
    @florizellathompson1562 Год назад +56

    Labor is no joke, I was shaking like a leaf and that back pain😢. Thank you lord, 18 years later, I have no regrets. I love my baby boy🙏🏾

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 Год назад +9

    " why are you lying to people ... Is it because you want grandkids? " THIS!!! 😂😂😂😅

  • @TheEagleslover
    @TheEagleslover Год назад +32

    I’m so glad your labor and delivery went well. All of my children were born via C-Section because I have malformed pelvic bones so I’m thankful for the ability of medical professionals. I will tell every woman to remember to not judge their experience by anyone else’s but embrace your individual experience and to give yourself grace if things don’t quite workout the way you expect. Then just love on that precious person and enjoy them.❤❤

  • @cmenowOn
    @cmenowOn Год назад +53

    I love the analogy of bringing a soul through a portal, because that’s EXACTLY what I believe it to be as well! Congratulations on such a beautiful experience and your baby girl! ❤

  • @NaturalDaniah
    @NaturalDaniah Год назад +6

    Bring on the toilet doesnt seem weird to me. During my monthly cramps i feel better sitting on the toilet even if im not doing anything

  • @miniminott48
    @miniminott48 Год назад +31

    Jenn, thanks for sharing your birth story. My son is 24 years old and I still remember his birth. Being a mother is an honor.

  • @sylviasimiyu7396
    @sylviasimiyu7396 Год назад +9

    It was six weeks ago for me. I was induced since I was at 41weeks.
    Natural unmedicated birth.
    I thought I would be calm like the women I watch on RUclips but I screamed. Thank GOD I still had the energy to push.

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 Год назад

      I screamed and pushed at home. They came and tried to scoop up everything that came outta me, lol. They really need all that blood from your placenta huh

  • @cetriyasArtnComicsChannel
    @cetriyasArtnComicsChannel Год назад

    For all that women go through i really wish the medical ststem and busibesses was more supportive. Now the whole world is complianing we're not havibg kids meanwhile the chance of having more issues during labor has gone up due medical negligance.

  • @audreysaunders9775
    @audreysaunders9775 Год назад +4

    Honey, I gave 3:41 birth 5 times! Only by the grace of God! 🙏🏽😂 No regrets. They are 5 of the best gifts I’ve ever gotten! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @msmj9102
    @msmj9102 Год назад +2

    Stooping squatting is a very primal action since the beginning of time.

  • @Amaspiritartist3
    @Amaspiritartist3 Год назад +11

    I am so glad you came through this safely…you were in my prayers…

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад +1

      Ah thank you 😊

    • @YvonneOnline
      @YvonneOnline Год назад

      You were constantly on my thoughts too, especially after sharing that they were concerned about the baby’s growth and wanted to schedule your labour; I trusted God for you, I was so relieved and happy when I saw your update on how things went; God is indeed our Father.

  • @7339memo
    @7339memo Год назад +4

    Five children all natural

  • @carlisabulwer1040
    @carlisabulwer1040 Год назад +9

    Congratulations! Great job doing your own research, advocating for yourself, and trusting your body. ❤🎉

  • @vonne2003
    @vonne2003 Год назад +1

    Back labor pain is no joke. I had it with two of my children.

  • @jaynel0919
    @jaynel0919 Год назад +11

    Girl you said it perfectly...women are portals used to bring souls to this side of life! That is why I always say that women should NEVER be mistreated... Congrats!!!!!!TFS 💜

  • @neilajoseph223
    @neilajoseph223 Год назад +9

    Congratulations on your baby girl 💕 and way to advocate for yourself and do your own research!!!

  • @wiser0185
    @wiser0185 Год назад

    I saw a RUclipsr put her labor on here and let me tell u it was real different seeing it from this end look like real pain don't mind I have a son😅🤦🏽‍♀️
    Yes I don't ever forget my birth pains and my son is 26yrs old.

  • @noxlove2151
    @noxlove2151 Год назад +2

    I cannot even begin to imagine. The little I experienced had me in tears, no sound just water works. I had a cesarean because his heart beat was dropping way too much with each contraction.

  • @brklyn2922
    @brklyn2922 Год назад +6

    I haven't had a child yet but women are so strong and beautiful, especially after giving birth. You look so happy, and congratulations on baby. Thank you for sharing your birth❤❤❤

  • @mz.shinelite7779
    @mz.shinelite7779 Год назад +1

    I 😂 There's only one exit how are you lost lol..🤣 😆

  • @0kaypray
    @0kaypray Год назад +5

    A very classy way to explain a very primal experience. Glad it worked out well for you.

  • @MrsKinkyNaturalCurlz
    @MrsKinkyNaturalCurlz Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your story I'm a new mom and will be delivering in Oct Im so thankful for your honesty and rawness ❤ congratulations 🎉🎉

  • @joyprice209
    @joyprice209 Год назад +4

    7 weeks already? Wow it really does go fast. So glad you had so much support and knowledge.❤️

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад

      I knowww! she is already 2 months now

  • @cameliamiller4140
    @cameliamiller4140 Год назад +4

    I remember when I first saw the pregnancy announcement. I was ecstatic🎉❤. I'm so happy for you Jenn, words can never Express my happiness even tho we dont know each other.
    I'm only 22 but I'm definitely praying that God will bless me with the gift of motherhood and a family of my own.
    Congrats again Jenn. Much love🇯🇲❤❤

  • @priscillarenfroe7504
    @priscillarenfroe7504 Год назад

    Awesome!

  • @NaturallyEssence
    @NaturallyEssence Год назад +2

    This is so similar to my labour with my first son! The baby being tilted in an awkward position, the midwife stretching the cervix, the back labour, the breaking of the water! Congrats to you🎉

  • @sisibee8532
    @sisibee8532 Год назад +4

    Thanks for sharing your story Jenn. Labor without an epidural is no joke. I did it accidentally. lol

  • @jdd6958
    @jdd6958 Год назад

    Wow!!!!!!

  • @MsLadyAllure
    @MsLadyAllure Год назад

    Thanks for sharing your story!

  • @Lady_Clare4
    @Lady_Clare4 Год назад +3

    Congratulations once again🍼👧🏽❤!! Preparation paid off👍🏾. What a blessing🌹!

  • @keysiaparsely3038
    @keysiaparsely3038 Год назад

    Well done 🎉

  • @1GoldenBreeze
    @1GoldenBreeze Год назад +1

    Much respect for you and all ladies who give birth. I can't even imagine it. When I'm ready for children I'm going to adopt because I have zero pain tolerance and I already know that I don't have to give birth to love a child. Kids are so precious, and I want to be a mom to a couple who would not have otherwise had one.

  • @mekamoohoo9541
    @mekamoohoo9541 Год назад

    Hey 👋🏽

  • @jameelahall7126
    @jameelahall7126 Год назад +4

    Beautiful story! Congratulations!

  • @shelly.v.247
    @shelly.v.247 Год назад +2

    That ring of fire ain’t no joke! I always say, imagine squeezing a watermelon through a lemon. Yup, that’s pretty much the cleanest way I know how to share what it’s like! 👀🤣

  • @drawingclosertochrist
    @drawingclosertochrist Год назад +3

    Congratulations! Thanks for sharing your story. 🎉❤

  • @stacyann851
    @stacyann851 Год назад +4

    Glad everything went as planned.

  • @adorablecuteness03
    @adorablecuteness03 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing!!

  • @christineowori750
    @christineowori750 Год назад

    Thanksss for sharinghh❤❤❤❤

  • @NkNaturalz
    @NkNaturalz Год назад

    Thank you for sharing! I’ve been trying to prepare too so hopefully I have a good experience.

  • @jab0623
    @jab0623 Год назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your story Jenn! You are awesome!❤

  • @SaintdupsieTV
    @SaintdupsieTV Год назад +3

    Congratulations Jenn and thanks for sharing your story!.

  • @lusmilalamothe6709
    @lusmilalamothe6709 Год назад

    I love all this details...

  • @fatoumatabarry9684
    @fatoumatabarry9684 Год назад

    My god I had that pain to the side too n i feel like that was even worse than the contractions themselves... n yeah because of it it was just ongoing pain...

  • @naomiomi4503
    @naomiomi4503 Год назад

    This is horrifying :D, lol thanks for sharing.

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад +3

      It’s not an easy thing and women need to know 🙈

  • @MissMuzikLover
    @MissMuzikLover Год назад +1

    Congratulations! Thanks for sharing your beautiful birth story.❤

  • @ritaenon2878
    @ritaenon2878 Год назад

    Aww this was such a beautiful recount. Thanks for sharing n congrats on your lil bundle of joy 🥰

  • @ramoyarichardson5823
    @ramoyarichardson5823 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing, you definitely created a live vision in my mind. You are a great story teller. Enjoy motherhood. 🎉❤

  • @starmaxx4
    @starmaxx4 Год назад

    Yeah I definitely don’t miss labor .. 😂.. so happy you got thru it and enjoying your baby girl 🥰💙

  • @maria47660
    @maria47660 Год назад

    This was great! I would love to hear more about the preparation for "the marathon."

  • @wendysmith450
    @wendysmith450 Год назад

    I just came across your channel/shorts. You are so animated. I love it.

  • @hibiscustea6886
    @hibiscustea6886 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your story!! Congratulations on your sweet baby. ❤️

  • @crystalrichardson5557
    @crystalrichardson5557 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing. I wish I had been so aware when I had my children. ❤

  • @reginablackshear2630
    @reginablackshear2630 Год назад +2

    Wow!! I love hearing about women's birth, it's a beautiful thing ❤

  • @TheChocBeauty
    @TheChocBeauty Год назад

    I was placed on my back with my first son and was ADAMANT I Would NOT be on my back with my second son. It was absolutely painful!!! I’m so happy for you two!!! Congratulations!!!

  • @Shamon012
    @Shamon012 Год назад +1

    I don’t remember means they don’t want to talk bout it 😂 congrats Jenn Were all so proud of you!! Happy healthy mommy and baby!!❤🎉

  • @blkbeauty33
    @blkbeauty33 Год назад

    I've been patiently waiting for your birthing chronicle! So happy for you both

  • @naturesoundsandscenery
    @naturesoundsandscenery Год назад +1

    Girl I feel like in labor listening to you 😅

  • @aquafina6544
    @aquafina6544 11 месяцев назад

    Wow your experience was so exciting. Mine was an omen the worst experience ever. I had no suppot or help and i wound up getting a c-sec bcus i wouldn't dialate and baby and me had heart problem

  • @diajohn40
    @diajohn40 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing your story! I also chose a non-medicated birth 18 years ago. I trained alot like you did. We have to trust our bodies! It definitely knows what to do. Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl!❤

  • @cheshiredj
    @cheshiredj Год назад

    I think you remember but maybe the memory how the pain felt fades? Great story, so happy for you 😊.

  • @charlotteroberts3763
    @charlotteroberts3763 Год назад +8

    Im enjoyed the birthing story experience. Women are phenomenal to bring forth a human being into the world. Labor and delivery is a story by itself. Congratulations on baby girl 👶🏾

  • @MelvinP741
    @MelvinP741 Год назад

    Hey

  • @MiVidaBellisima
    @MiVidaBellisima Год назад

    I can’t imagine what it’s like to wait almost a year to meet this little human and you have to complete the hardest marathon of your life to get them here! We still have a few more months to go but we’re so excited ❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @kulturallyspeaking7850
    @kulturallyspeaking7850 Год назад

    Tearful and balled up watching you..The birth is an amazing journey.Savor your memories and all things from that day. Your report you were reading from, mom and baby I’d bracelets..maybe keep a journal. I gave my children (2) their baby Id bracelet when they turned 18. Each had a nice box with keepsakes I had….Beautiful…God bless you and your family…it is definitely a spiritual journey..joy from Ghana 🇬🇭

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад

      Oh that’s such a great idea! I kept the bracelet just because but now I have a reason! Thank you

  • @A_Wilson
    @A_Wilson Год назад +6

    Lord willing, my baby boy will be here next month! Was waiting to hear your story! Thanks for sharing! 🌺

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад +2

      You got this! Praying by for a safe and smooth delivery!

    • @A_Wilson
      @A_Wilson Год назад

      Thank you! 💙

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 Год назад +1

      GURLLLLL contract at home as much as possible, meaning take all the pain you can take at home. Lol, then when you can’t take it, CALL OR GO

    • @A_Wilson
      @A_Wilson Год назад +1

      @maiamiimaiam4343
      It’s so funny that you mention that cause that’s exactly the plan!! This is my 3rd child, the other two were c-sections and I’m NOT trying to go that route this time. As of right now, I’m slated to give birth at a birthing center. But if things change and I have to go to the hospital, you’re spot on! I’ll stay home as long as I can!! 💕💙 Thanks for the comment.

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 Год назад

      @@A_Wilson my first I did not find out until like we were 8 months so they didn't get to harass me with their what ifs bs to make me stress or hallucinate about worst case scenarios. With my 2nd I ended up being induced trusting their asses, messed up my epidural and ended having to get an emergency c-section. With my third, I pushed em out at home & made my husband call em after. Lol. I plan to do the same with the rest. All you need is your partner. Be strong, handle all you can but go when you need to

  • @Plants_and_Sustainable_Living
    @Plants_and_Sustainable_Living Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your birth story. You have no idea how empowering it is to me. I have the same thoughts to do your research and educate yourself and your partner as well. You don't go into birth blindly, leaving it up to the hospital and Doctors. Preparing yourself mentally and physically is really great advice. I'm happy you had the kind of birth experience you wanted, and you trusted your gut and your body.
    Please share your postpartum journey if you can. I'll be interested to see how the type of labour you had impacted your postpartum experience, which I know you're still experiencing, so take your time, heal and recover, enjoy your baby and if you ever do decide to share..I'll be here for the education. Thanks again. 😊

  • @carriewalker6731
    @carriewalker6731 Год назад

    This was so helpful! Thank you! How did you train? What exercises were helpful for strengthening the pelvic floor?

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад +2

      I would recommend seeing a pelvic floor specialist so they can asses where you are. It’s not just about strengthening but also learning how to relax/release.

  • @LynnOnVinyl
    @LynnOnVinyl Год назад

    Me not having had children this story terrified me but I know that once the time comes my body will be ready and prepared to give birth.

  • @aruhashya97
    @aruhashya97 Год назад

    Wow I love this Jenn. Could you make another video about what you mean by “you trained”??? Like how exactly does one prepare for birth

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад

      So many asked! It’s in the queue 🤫

  • @Willeneful
    @Willeneful Год назад +1

    I rem😅😅😅😅 remember the actions but not the pain associated with it...😂😂😅😅😅😅😅.now based on the actions or reactions it had to be painful...By the way I have three kids and three different labor experiences..let's talk..lol

  • @NadouLove7
    @NadouLove7 Год назад

    Congratulations again dear this video was very informative.🤱🏾 now my question for you, did you try any of our Haitian traditions? Aka "beny pou nouris" "steaming bath and tightening your belly

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад

      No I didn’t. My mom didn’t do them so I didn’t either 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @tishharris5439
    @tishharris5439 Год назад

    I have three children three totally different births that I will never ever forget. 2 totally natural and the last one epidural and emergency c section

  • @muge1928
    @muge1928 Год назад

    Similar thing happend to my sister (babies growth) and pressure to induce etc when bub was born, she was average weight, placenta was fine...my sister tried to advocate for herself but in they end she didn't get what she wanted.

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад

      It’s crazy how much they pressure you at the end of your pregnancy when you need to be calm and relaxed

  • @jayko4732
    @jayko4732 Год назад +10

    I’m so happy to hear your story Jen! Love that you did your research and that you’re informing us to do ours ESPECIALLY as black women. But either way, congratulations to you and your lil one. Now you can “sit back” and watch her grow ❤

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much and yes, its SO important!

  • @Missrn07
    @Missrn07 Год назад

    ✨it gets risky approaching beyond 41 wks because the placenta starts not functioning at max performance. Perfect timing is around 38wks - 40 wks

  • @PirryMoni
    @PirryMoni Год назад

    I miss your intro: “Hey Guys welcome back to my channel, it’s a girl, eh eh”. Something like that 😂

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад +1

      LMAO! I'll see what I can do next time lol

    • @PirryMoni
      @PirryMoni Год назад

      @@JennJackson Yes please! 💜 that’s unique like u!

  • @angellellis79
    @angellellis79 Год назад +4

    Thanks for finally sharing Jenn😊 Every Mom has a story and will foreverrrrrrr remember it😂

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад

      Always!

    • @angellellis79
      @angellellis79 Год назад

      Girlllll… My babygirl weighed 6lbs 5 oz too, 6 yrs ago😀 Continue to be an inspiration for the new Moms🎉

  • @Missrn07
    @Missrn07 Год назад +3

    ✨Great job ! I’ve been an l&d nurse for 16 yrs and a lot of people don’t prepare for the labor and delivery journey. It’s a pure marathon

  • @ritahagan9305
    @ritahagan9305 Год назад

    Ok🎉😢🎉

  • @hettyj8335
    @hettyj8335 Год назад

    The fact that Your Husband compare you to us Haitian Women 😂😂😂is true. Congratulations 🎉

    • @JennJackson
      @JennJackson  Год назад +1

      I was highly offended lmao

    • @hettyj8335
      @hettyj8335 Год назад

      @@JennJackson don't be 🤣🤣

  • @rhondadenis3469
    @rhondadenis3469 Год назад +2

    Giving birth is magical. The love a mother has for her child is truly beyond description. I remember that pain. Congratulations luv. Natural birth is worth the pain. I was terrified by the epidural.

  • @chardiemarie7455
    @chardiemarie7455 Год назад

    Congratulations! Your birth story and your insight as you share it was really helpful. Thank you. For at least the first year after I gave birth I couldn’t even think about it without flinching. The recovery was crazy. But now my son is almost 4 and It’s no where near the same to remember.Just take it one day at a time

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 Год назад +1

    Was it just you and your husband in the delivery room?