How would that question ever come up though like « hey are you secretly a judge that ran away from her parents and created a life for herself in New York? » 😭
This is what I do. I don't know what other people know about me. I grow up with parents, that discussed everything about me with everybody. So I just assume, that everybody knows information about me without me telling them anything. And they usually do. I do not know how it works, but it works
Girl this is literally me, my friends have been on my ass this month because I didn't tell them Ive been sick for a year and didn't want to tell them 😅 but they didnt ask so
@@KingoftheJuice18 for lots of my friends who think like that it’s usually because they previously had friends or family that made them feel disregarded and like their feelings were a burden
When I was young I talked a lot, over shared, trauma and lore dumped sometimes. And I didn't do it too often, only when the conversation had smth to do with my lore, trauma (not abusive trauma but I guess not trauma at all js horrid things I'd think abt myself and things kids at school would say to me or abt me) or smth else. And I learned that people considered me very weird, peculiar and I got bullied. So then around when I became a teenager I started masking my personality, didn't tell people things and I went from annoying to boring
my dad just casually dropped that he hasn’t had sensation in his right leg since he was like 17. LIKE HUH???? wdym you have been partially paralyzed (he still has full control over the limb, he just can’t feel anything at all in it) and this has just never came up once in my 18 years of life? also i need the story on the cave thing. what happened?
@@averagetomfooleryI have peripheral neuropathy in 2 of my toes and the side of my left foot where I can still move them and everything and walk fine they’re just numb, is it like that?
@@mothmanlol6263 yeah, that’s it! i didn’t know the name for it because he didn’t specify, but that’s exactly what he described with his leg. he didn’t get it checked out until like this year 💀 it’s caused by one of the disks in his spine having slightly shifted??? if i remember correctly. they’re not gonna do surgery since the side effects he experience’s doesn’t actually bother him and is technically harmless, they don’t think it’s worth the risk of such an invasive procedure when he still has full range of movement and the situation isn’t dangerous.
@@MayaVeniceI agree with you on this. Not all friendships are deep right off the bad and it can take time to get to learn things about others, especially if someone is more emotionally guarded. So whether it’s seen as “normal” or not by society’s standards doesn’t really matter
my dad, randomly telling me about that time he got pepper-sprayed, saved a girl in a fight and also someone entirely unrelated to the situation drove a car into a pole while the police where there:
My dad casually mentioning how when he was a little kid in his home country, his dad took him to see a public hanging🧍♀️ (apparently the man was executed for speaking against the govt)
This is reaction to "Why did you never tell me this?". If you blame somebody for not giving you an information (as if I am expected to know what you want to know about me), I will blame you back for not asking
Yes!! I have the most messy childhood and life events and like how the hell would I even fit that into conversations without forcing it. No one just casually asks “so did your mom ever get arrested” or something, so why would I bring it up😂
The "friend" only ever just talks about themselves all the time and never actually listens thinks or asks about anything because they have no interest in anything other than themselves. Then act "surprised"
@@tw8464 There are people that share a lot of details freely, but don't ask too many questions because they expect the other person to be as free with their life as well, and just start sharing what comes up naturally in the conversation.
@solar0wind I agree with that. Good point, there are multiple types of people and approaches. My observation is most people are primarily focused on themselves. Actually if we take a break from just talking about ourselves, we'll realize the other person actually did mention particular things that alluded to other things going on in their lives. That's where, "that's interesting, tell me more" comes in. But people have to be genuinely interested in learning about the other person, which many people aren't and prefer everything centered around themselves.
@@romyarmada2521 I'll be real with you, I can't stand Jeremy at all. Nails on a chalkboard when he's around. He is a good guy and all, but damn if he doesn't work your last nerve. Good on him and her for making it work tho. Couldn't be me.
This my dad on a random dinner. He casually drops that he almost got kidnapped while working as a mailman, got arrested during a protest, star as an extra in a movie, even did weed and stuff, etc. And I'm always like "you really lived your life" 😂
My dad yesterday mentioned he almost got assaulted by a group of Mexicans in a comical “this is a kidnapping” type van because he’s in the military and they wanted M14’s
@@ItAllComesBackToTheWalllol! ya I definitely wasn't even remotely interested until the part about "weed and stuff". what a gangsta her dad must have been..... I mean, c'mon, it really just doesn't get any more gangsta than "doing weed and stuff"
i feel like i do this. my best friend told me I'm mysterious once and i was so confused. it's true though, they never ask so i only give them the information necessary at the time
Yeah, I remember growing up listening to everyone else and asking them questions cause I was interested in them. No one did the same so I just never told them about me, cause I don’t think anyone was interested enough to ask. Most people love to talk about themselves. I’m older now and understand that when I had people that did finally care to ask about me, I found myself ironically forgetting to ask them the same. It gave me new perspective. Sometimes it’s not about care, but some people just need a moment to reflect when they are asked something and they can lose themselves in it.
@Zhenic00 It's nice to see there are still people who don't like to judge others negatively. It's a virtue that shows class and respect, I hope you're proud of having it. Now, to respond to your comment, it was a mixture of lack of creativity and patience. It was too much to come up with a username that was not being used. What would you want me to put as my username? Kittycat2024, uthought!321, HugzN0tDrugz101, Idaho4life5, th3re4lbombshell? It seemed much easier to copy the results I got after taking that test. Edit: Actually, I might try to put one of those. I got really creative there.
My dad has done this all my life. One night we go for a drive to see Christmas lights and we’re talking and he says he stole a cow once and described in detail how he did it and went to see the judge to be questioned cuz he was a suspect and my dad told him that he has no proof that he did it and he left. Small town in the 70’s
If something / someone ate it means they're really cool or did a good job at what they were trying to do. "That fit ate" means they think the fit is really cool
As someone who does this irl, we say stuff like this casually because it’s not stuff we feel like revealing. “You never asked” is my way of asking why you suddenly care when I sat smth ‘interesting’. I casually told my friend my parents are divorced years ago, after I’d come to terms with it, but she was shocked, made a scene and said she needed time to process that… I really didn’t need the attention that came afterwards and treating me like a fragile item. Sometimes people don’t share things about themselves besucase they don’t want the judgment, pity or change in perspective that comes along with it.
NOOO I feel so called out!😂 but it’s true like my defense is I don’t wanna randomly spill my guts to someone unless they asked 🥲 I just feel selfish doing that (talking about myself) or maybe insecurity has something to do with it(??????) I’m not sure. But if they ask I’m an open book!
same here 😅 I'm an open book as long as they ask super specific questions lmao. Otherwise I don't wanna bother them with my shit and I'm either "you never asked" or "it never seemed like a good time" 😭
I’ll be talking about how my mom influenced my unhealthy relationship with food and that one friend goes “yeah, I used to have an ED and my parents would whoop my ass” like what?!?!
omg after moving to the UK, this is literally me & a core group of friends that i started hanging out with after vibing together in a random night at some club. after continuing about a year of constantly getting together, my friends were shocked to find out im a lawyer. thing is i just never thought it's relevant to bring that up lol. we vibed because of an entirely different reason (music, clubbing, concerts, politics) that has nothing to do with our jobs, and law is just so boring and i'd say lawyering is the lamest fact about me so i never thought to bring it up and they never asked either so
I accidentally do this to my friends all the time. The worst one was when one of my friends asked me why I was more tired than usual and without thinking I was like "Oh, I stayed up pretty late since I had to keep up with how my dad was doing in the hospital after his heart attack".
"You never asked" is accurate though. If it's a game and you needed a lore drop, you gotta go up and hit the TALK button and exhaust all the questions after each mission
This is literally me😭😭😭 I randomly give people who I know life updates only when necessary and then they’re like “I never knew that about you😮” and then they always ask why I don’t tell them and I always say “you never asked”
This is so real sometimes ill be talking to my mysterious friend and she'll drop the craziest facts about herself...like how are you still on the planet atp 😭😭😭
There’s also that one friend that pathologically lies about things like this for attention, and then you find out later that they actually just got summoned for jury duty.
This is me, lol. I have had a crazy life and lived in 5 states in the last 15 years and have a sooo many stories, but in every new city I am in and with each new friend group, no one ever ever asks me about my life before the day we met. No one ever asks me about my personal life now, either. So when a little nugget drops from an off-hand comment people are always surprised lol. Don't be caught off guard just because you don't bother getting to know someone.
I think I might be that friend. When I mention my siblings, I often get the "didn't know you had a brother/sister" and then I also say "You never asked"
I was that person just two hours ago hahabaha left my friend speechless on the phone cause I dropped a lore bomb about me and my family that I wasn't sure I ever shared and honestly I always think my life isn't interesting until I share bits and pieces and people go "wtf man?!?! Why you never said that?!" I guess I just have major trust issues due to all the bs that happened in my life??
Most of the time these are moments in a person's life that are very difficult to accept because being forced to grow instead of it happening naturally leaves trauma, it just looks different because we believe successful people shouldn't feel what they do or think about where they came from now that everything is fine, like that's what literal trauma is, you are still technically there in that moment living it forever
Me and my friends do this ALL THE TIME- like- I honestly expect it at this point- Tbh, I think it makes the friendship that much better, that we can just trust each other to not freak out when we talk abt life
I act like this. It makes me comfortable because when I open myself to others and tell them about my deepest fears, then just move on, people don't have a change to hurt me in return.
in my experience the "you never asked" thing is less "you never asked if I secretly worked as a judge and am getting married in two weeks" and more "you never asked 'hey how was your weekend' or 'what are you doing tonight' so I never had any reason to tell you anything about my personal life"
It’s me. I’m this friend. A lot of really messed up things happened to me since childhood. I don’t mind sharing it is just I don’t feel like I should make people around me uncomfortable with the details.
The "you never asked" is so fucking accurate. I swear like i have skills in IT, Cars, Management, and Club Management as well martial arts, but no one ever fucking asks 😂
isn’t this how male friendships work
Yes
I can confirm this is true I barely have pictures with my friends maybe 2
Exactly
r yall fr rn 😭 like you don't know what's going on in your friends lives?
@@EloraRose-zo7tj nah
Bro the way she said YOU NEVER ASKED and just walked away like a absolute boss killed me
How would that question ever come up though like « hey are you secretly a judge that ran away from her parents and created a life for herself in New York? » 😭
@@fruitcereal this is gonna be my conversation starter from now on
@fruitcereal fr
It's how quickly she said it that gets me
"4 robux and a dream" that finna be me
Same except I have zero💀
I love ur pfp ❤
we in this together then 😭
@@not-_-choconutella Omg TYSM ❤❤
@@VealanieL4 haha currently have like 23 I think
and they never talk about it again and act like it was obvious the whole time.
tv girll
@igotdatdoginmewhat they doing
This is what I do. I don't know what other people know about me.
I grow up with parents, that discussed everything about me with everybody. So I just assume, that everybody knows information about me without me telling them anything.
And they usually do. I do not know how it works, but it works
"you'll find moonlit nights strangely empty because; when you call my name through them there will be no answer."
Casually let slip that there’s a history of your best friends disappearing
These types of people don’t want to burden others. All they will mostly do is listen to you and occasionally drop lines like these.
Girl this is literally me, my friends have been on my ass this month because I didn't tell them Ive been sick for a year and didn't want to tell them 😅 but they didnt ask so
you mean "to burden others," because somewhere they got the disturbed idea that feelings are a "burden" to those who care about you
@@KingoftheJuice18
for lots of my friends who think like that it’s usually because they previously had friends or family that made them feel disregarded and like their feelings were a burden
@@sweng0717 Of course-from a young age
When I was young I talked a lot, over shared, trauma and lore dumped sometimes. And I didn't do it too often, only when the conversation had smth to do with my lore, trauma (not abusive trauma but I guess not trauma at all js horrid things I'd think abt myself and things kids at school would say to me or abt me) or smth else. And I learned that people considered me very weird, peculiar and I got bullied. So then around when I became a teenager I started masking my personality, didn't tell people things and I went from annoying to boring
It's literally always the "Well you never asked"
@igotdatdoginme Haiiiiii princess
lol princesses in the replies
@@shambhavi._67 I see this princess everywhere lol
Greeting princesses
@@dandelienn Salutations princess ✨ 💗 😌
THIS IS MY DAD LIKE HE REVEALS STUFF LIKE IT WAS NOTHING “oh i got stuck in a cave one time” LIKE WHAT???!!💀💀💀
my dad just casually dropped that he hasn’t had sensation in his right leg since he was like 17. LIKE HUH???? wdym you have been partially paralyzed (he still has full control over the limb, he just can’t feel anything at all in it) and this has just never came up once in my 18 years of life?
also i need the story on the cave thing. what happened?
@@averagetomfooleryI have peripheral neuropathy in 2 of my toes and the side of my left foot where I can still move them and everything and walk fine they’re just numb, is it like that?
@@mothmanlol6263 yeah, that’s it! i didn’t know the name for it because he didn’t specify, but that’s exactly what he described with his leg.
he didn’t get it checked out until like this year 💀 it’s caused by one of the disks in his spine having slightly shifted??? if i remember correctly. they’re not gonna do surgery since the side effects he experience’s doesn’t actually bother him and is technically harmless, they don’t think it’s worth the risk of such an invasive procedure when he still has full range of movement and the situation isn’t dangerous.
Yes!!! Dad's are like this. Like dk I even know you bro?? 😭😭
He's a Dylan lol
AND THEY ACT LIKE ITS NORMAL LIKE BABE ITS NOT😭😭😭
just because it's unusual for you doesn't mean it's not "normal" 🤷♀️ normal is a subjective term that varies for each person
@@MayaVeniceno. this shit she’s saying in this video, isn’t normal
@emmaspeck230 it is for her so 🤷♀️
@@MayaVeniceI agree with you on this. Not all friendships are deep right off the bad and it can take time to get to learn things about others, especially if someone is more emotionally guarded. So whether it’s seen as “normal” or not by society’s standards doesn’t really matter
@@MayaVenicenormal for he tried not to make it normal for others
When you trigger your companions hidden dialogue scene 😅
😂
When ps forgot to inform you an achievement unlocked for the rarest hidden Easter egg
THIS IS SO REAL. Some friends are living in a Hollywood movie and we are the extras.
So true lelouch
my dad, randomly telling me about that time he got pepper-sprayed, saved a girl in a fight and also someone entirely unrelated to the situation drove a car into a pole while the police where there:
😂😂😂😂... savage
My dad casually mentioning how when he was a little kid in his home country, his dad took him to see a public hanging🧍♀️ (apparently the man was executed for speaking against the govt)
Sounds like some world star style shit
@@alien_cult lol the good ol days. 👴
@@alien_cult 🧍♂️: My treasure? It's all there, in one piece, out there on the Grand Line!
The “you never asked” is so relatable bc they expect you to just randomly start spitting out life details.
This is reaction to "Why did you never tell me this?".
If you blame somebody for not giving you an information (as if I am expected to know what you want to know about me), I will blame you back for not asking
Yes!! I have the most messy childhood and life events and like how the hell would I even fit that into conversations without forcing it. No one just casually asks “so did your mom ever get arrested” or something, so why would I bring it up😂
The "friend" only ever just talks about themselves all the time and never actually listens thinks or asks about anything because they have no interest in anything other than themselves. Then act "surprised"
@@tw8464 There are people that share a lot of details freely, but don't ask too many questions because they expect the other person to be as free with their life as well, and just start sharing what comes up naturally in the conversation.
@solar0wind I agree with that. Good point, there are multiple types of people and approaches. My observation is most people are primarily focused on themselves. Actually if we take a break from just talking about ourselves, we'll realize the other person actually did mention particular things that alluded to other things going on in their lives. That's where, "that's interesting, tell me more" comes in. But people have to be genuinely interested in learning about the other person, which many people aren't and prefer everything centered around themselves.
yesss and it’s always the “u never asked” like i meet new people and the first thing i ask them is if theyre a runaway judge married to jeremy 😭
Runaway Judge Married to Jeremy is like a killer title, or if the audience likes a more minimalist taste, the story should be called '4 Robux'
Jeremy is a good guy
@@romyarmada2521 I'll be real with you, I can't stand Jeremy at all. Nails on a chalkboard when he's around. He is a good guy and all, but damn if he doesn't work your last nerve. Good on him and her for making it work tho. Couldn't be me.
Not married yet, they're engaged
in what instance am i supposed to just bring up my husband jeremy and my job we cant just be chilling and i bring it up for no reason
This my dad on a random dinner. He casually drops that he almost got kidnapped while working as a mailman, got arrested during a protest, star as an extra in a movie, even did weed and stuff, etc. And I'm always like "you really lived your life" 😂
My dad yesterday mentioned he almost got assaulted by a group of Mexicans in a comical “this is a kidnapping” type van because he’s in the military and they wanted M14’s
my dad said he went to prison at 16 when i hit 16
Even did weed and stuff
Wow, even weed and stuff?
@@ItAllComesBackToTheWalllol! ya I definitely wasn't even remotely interested until the part about "weed and stuff". what a gangsta her dad must have been..... I mean, c'mon, it really just doesn't get any more gangsta than "doing weed and stuff"
i feel like i do this. my best friend told me I'm mysterious once and i was so confused. it's true though, they never ask so i only give them the information necessary at the time
So true. It makes perfect sense. If you don’t ask it means you’re not interested, so why would I tell you?
@@letterborneVodsI’m interested in aliens but somehow never get around to asking my friends whether they are one
@@SigFigNewtonlol
I just assume they won’t care. Makes me rethink now
And even them we sometimes regret giving off that piece of info. but whatever..
"wh-who's jeremy 🤨"
"my fiancé 😌"
"HUH-" 😂😂
The half eaten pizza on the leg just sitting there
I scrolled and scrolled for this comment, because I felt like no one was even talking about it 😂😭
I thought it was a bag of chips lol
I relate to this too much. To be honest, no one asked about my personal life. They cannot be surprised later.
You’re a nobody.
@Setilaphilomathacquirement-e6x
“That your whole personality?”
Quite literally it is a personality test 😂
Yeah, I remember growing up listening to everyone else and asking them questions cause I was interested in them. No one did the same so I just never told them about me, cause I don’t think anyone was interested enough to ask. Most people love to talk about themselves. I’m older now and understand that when I had people that did finally care to ask about me, I found myself ironically forgetting to ask them the same. It gave me new perspective. Sometimes it’s not about care, but some people just need a moment to reflect when they are asked something and they can lose themselves in it.
@Zhenic00 It's nice to see there are still people who don't like to judge others negatively. It's a virtue that shows class and respect, I hope you're proud of having it.
Now, to respond to your comment, it was a mixture of lack of creativity and patience. It was too much to come up with a username that was not being used. What would you want me to put as my username? Kittycat2024, uthought!321, HugzN0tDrugz101, Idaho4life5, th3re4lbombshell? It seemed much easier to copy the results I got after taking that test.
Edit: Actually, I might try to put one of those. I got really creative there.
@@TheRealBombshellI'm curious to know what was your MBTI type now...
My dad has done this all my life. One night we go for a drive to see Christmas lights and we’re talking and he says he stole a cow once and described in detail how he did it and went to see the judge to be questioned cuz he was a suspect and my dad told him that he has no proof that he did it and he left. Small town in the 70’s
😂😂
off-topic but that fit ATE
What the fuck does ATE mean?
If something / someone ate it means they're really cool or did a good job at what they were trying to do. "That fit ate" means they think the fit is really cool
As someone who does this irl, we say stuff like this casually because it’s not stuff we feel like revealing. “You never asked” is my way of asking why you suddenly care when I sat smth ‘interesting’. I casually told my friend my parents are divorced years ago, after I’d come to terms with it, but she was shocked, made a scene and said she needed time to process that… I really didn’t need the attention that came afterwards and treating me like a fragile item.
Sometimes people don’t share things about themselves besucase they don’t want the judgment, pity or change in perspective that comes along with it.
Thats literally me i wont tell anyone about my life until it comes up casually two years later 😭
TRUE
Literally my friend: "Oh yeah in sixth grade I went completely bald and became suicidal." GIRL WHAT-
yeah... that sounds about right
Me when I accidentally drop lore on my new friends then my old friend is just like “oh yeah, forgot you guys didn’t know that” 💀
NOOO I feel so called out!😂 but it’s true like my defense is I don’t wanna randomly spill my guts to someone unless they asked 🥲 I just feel selfish doing that (talking about myself) or maybe insecurity has something to do with it(??????) I’m not sure. But if they ask I’m an open book!
youve definitely been bullied
same here 😅 I'm an open book as long as they ask super specific questions lmao. Otherwise I don't wanna bother them with my shit and I'm either "you never asked" or "it never seemed like a good time" 😭
I'm the "you never asked" friend 😭
When you try really hard to listen and not be a burden, but your life can't fit in little boxes and spills out
As someone who survived a war in their childhood i can relate
When i told my friend that i almost died several times her jaw dropped
> Drops randomly some lore
> Leaves as soon as they finish
This is me, now I see why people don’t really talk to me lmfao, just random deep lore drops or nothing 😅😂
I’ll be talking about how my mom influenced my unhealthy relationship with food and that one friend goes “yeah, I used to have an ED and my parents would whoop my ass” like what?!?!
This is when you gotta give the male response:
"damn that's crazy"
THE WAY SHE'S NOT WEARING AN ENGAGEMENT RING 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
"im the judge, and everything that exists in my ignorance, exists without my consent you know😐"
omg after moving to the UK, this is literally me & a core group of friends that i started hanging out with after vibing together in a random night at some club. after continuing about a year of constantly getting together, my friends were shocked to find out im a lawyer. thing is i just never thought it's relevant to bring that up lol. we vibed because of an entirely different reason (music, clubbing, concerts, politics) that has nothing to do with our jobs, and law is just so boring and i'd say lawyering is the lamest fact about me so i never thought to bring it up and they never asked either so
A guy at my work casually dropped that he has a 10 year old daughter that he LIVES WITH yesterday. After months and months of knowing him 😂 bizarrrre
I wish I was 'you never asked' but I'm always 'who asked?' 😂 over sharing for the win
No one is talking about the shirt? (Alana has the most fire fits) 🔥🔥🔥
I've never seen a woman compliment a man's Spider-Man shirt
@@Josh-sz8ip oh. so like you mean only woman get complimented?
“Oh did I not tell you that? Yeah I (the most traumatizing experience ever)”
AND THEY ACT LIKE ITS NOTHING LIKE GIRL😭🙏 LOVE U ALANA UR MY FAV RUclipsR EVER AAA
Lol, this is definitely my friend group. We share something and then say, "Oh yea, I never told you, huh?"
this is peak comedy props to alana
i was in my uncles car and he randomly was like, “yknow, this reminds me of that one time i got robbed and just about died.”
I accidentally do this to my friends all the time. The worst one was when one of my friends asked me why I was more tired than usual and without thinking I was like "Oh, I stayed up pretty late since I had to keep up with how my dad was doing in the hospital after his heart attack".
literally me when i get overstimulated in a conversation for a sec, then realize the reality of being perceived n get anxiety, runnn 😭
NOT THE 4 ROBUX😭😭😭
"You never asked" is accurate though. If it's a game and you needed a lore drop, you gotta go up and hit the TALK button and exhaust all the questions after each mission
Not my friends casually learning I was in a relationship for months after it ended.
This is the moment when you question whether or not both of you are NPCs.
This is literally me😭😭😭 I randomly give people who I know life updates only when necessary and then they’re like “I never knew that about you😮” and then they always ask why I don’t tell them and I always say “you never asked”
This unfortunately is me lol. I dont really give out info about myself unless someone asks, I just never know how or what to bring up 😂
girl,all jokes aside
holy shit your style is impeccable
&you’re a dream
I'm just honored that she named her fiancee jeremy. that's me and my sister's name we use anytime we need a fake boy
This is so real sometimes ill be talking to my mysterious friend and she'll drop the craziest facts about herself...like how are you still on the planet atp 😭😭😭
There’s also that one friend that pathologically lies about things like this for attention, and then you find out later that they actually just got summoned for jury duty.
This is me, lol. I have had a crazy life and lived in 5 states in the last 15 years and have a sooo many stories, but in every new city I am in and with each new friend group, no one ever ever asks me about my life before the day we met. No one ever asks me about my personal life now, either. So when a little nugget drops from an off-hand comment people are always surprised lol. Don't be caught off guard just because you don't bother getting to know someone.
I think I might be that friend. When I mention my siblings, I often get the "didn't know you had a brother/sister" and then I also say "You never asked"
This is how i am. It took two years for my friends to find out my dad had died. They never asked before then.
I’m very introverted. I can relate to this A LOT!
Honestly! Like my dad never mentioned to me that he used to work in the pentagon until I was
this is so me😭😭i be like “oh yeah i jus went to the emergency room” even tho that was two weeks ago and was jus like “brb” at the time
Did this to my friend the other day. "Yeah back when my sister had cancer" she was like WHAT I Forgot to tell her XD
I was that person just two hours ago hahabaha left my friend speechless on the phone cause I dropped a lore bomb about me and my family that I wasn't sure I ever shared and honestly I always think my life isn't interesting until I share bits and pieces and people go "wtf man?!?! Why you never said that?!" I guess I just have major trust issues due to all the bs that happened in my life??
Most of the time these are moments in a person's life that are very difficult to accept because being forced to grow instead of it happening naturally leaves trauma, it just looks different because we believe successful people shouldn't feel what they do or think about where they came from now that everything is fine, like that's what literal trauma is, you are still technically there in that moment living it forever
Me and my friends do this ALL THE TIME- like- I honestly expect it at this point-
Tbh, I think it makes the friendship that much better, that we can just trust each other to not freak out when we talk abt life
this is how im trying to be but i just cannot function without constantly telling everybody what i been doing
" *dramatically takes off glasses* im the judge" 😭😭
My TA randomly in a conversation "So after I woke up from my 7 year coma-"
Alana isn't a princess... SHES A QUEEN
The queen has posted !!!
The princess you mean 😉
This is just male friendships, except we act less shocked when we find this stuff out.
my mom after dropping some crazy ass family lore
With 4 robux 💀💀💀
I thought she'd hop on a skateboard after, or something 😂😂
“You never asked” so true, it the quiet people that really got that type of life they just don’t talk about it😂
I act like this. It makes me comfortable because when I open myself to others and tell them about my deepest fears, then just move on, people don't have a change to hurt me in return.
The way she interrupted with "You never asked.😐" with a COMPLETE DEADPAN. 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
The unfinished shocked reactions- like huh- who's Jeremy 💀💀😭😭😭
This tells me that I need to start asking people if they are married or not 😂
Honestly this is me💀 I just don’t feel the need to tell people certain details unless it comes up in conversation😭
in my experience the "you never asked" thing is less "you never asked if I secretly worked as a judge and am getting married in two weeks" and more "you never asked 'hey how was your weekend' or 'what are you doing tonight' so I never had any reason to tell you anything about my personal life"
It’s me. I’m this friend. A lot of really messed up things happened to me since childhood. I don’t mind sharing it is just I don’t feel like I should make people around me uncomfortable with the details.
"when were you gonna tell me?"
"you never asked"
mindset
Walks away
"I've said to much"
She's so pretty bro
BRO THEY BE LIKE SAYING STUFF AND THEN ACT LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED LIKE - huh miss ma’am 😧☝️
That “4 robux and a dream” sums up my life 😂
"What do you mean you had a cookout in the middle of college at 2 a.m? And you didn't take any pictures at all?"
"You never asked"
the face @ “i’m the judge” lolol
The "you never asked" is so fucking accurate. I swear like i have skills in IT, Cars, Management, and Club Management as well martial arts, but no one ever fucking asks 😂
This is me, as I never talk about anything in my life until I randomly drop the most randomest lore to my discord friends while playing Minecraft
“4 robux and a dream..” same girl
+ "Sorry, can't hop on tonight"
- "What happened?"
+ "My mission to Mars was moved up early in schedule"
- "WHAAT??"
"4 robux and a dream" the struggle she went through 😞
This gives strong Rosa Diaz vibes
THATS WHAT I JUST SAID😭
Bro said four robux and a dream, man I can’t anymore
“nothing but 4 robux and a dream” she’s to real
This is like trying to follow the plot of a Nolan movie.
This place looks similar to the place where "and then they were roommates" vine was filmed 😂😂
I am literally the "You didn't ask before" type. If you don't ask me, I won't tell you randomly. I don't even know why