Have to save this for when I’m at work tonight. You and your husband are so inspirational listening from LA. Mi feel proud and boastful that Asafa picked an intelligent and sensible woman yeeeees!!! Love uno keep on coming up with these practical contents
Women seek intellectual stimulation, which doesn't necessarily equate to what most people consider intelligence. Instead, it involves qualities she perceives as eloquent, articulate, insightful, and charming.
❤❤ the key to a good n great relationship is communication and honestly. If you are feeling uncomfortable about a situation do not let it fester. Can you imagine if you were both working full time and have to do what you doing also? Keep talking guys.
Love listening to you guys, never really commented but I listen and watch your videos all the time to keep me awake while driving for long periods of time 😊.
I like these conversations. Not sure if you guys have discussed finances in relationships previously. Like sharing financial responsibilities, prenups, splitting assets in separation etc. I'll appreciate your thoughts. 😊❤
Great convo. I personally don't go above 5 years but overall, I think over 15 years is too much. I think jealousy is part of loving someone. Full display of jealousy where you are causing drama or making your partner miserable is insecurity. Healthy jealousy keeps the relationship solid because you're going to take care of your partner so they don't seek validation elsewhere or when offer validation its not needed because they already get it from their spouse/partner. Alyscia is so right men are often blind to some of the female schemes. Asafa date your wife put the boys to bed and have a late night picnic on the pool deck under the stars. You live busy lives but try to squeeze a date out every month.
I agree with Alysha, read the room. one should have emotional intelligence when in a relationship for sure. Otherwise, this will cause unnecessary issues. I agree 20+ age gap is a lot. This need a part 2. Great conversation!
Very interesting topics...good job The Powells. Age gap for me is 10 to 20. I have not seeing Asafa as a friendly person. Keep up the good work. Praying for your marriage that it will get stronger and stronger. Love you both
I loved the conversation. You communicated, made each other uncomfortable, but respected each other. Alyshia attacked like women always do and Asafa closed himself up like a typical man. He heard the message and will work on it but Asafa feel free to open up with what you are uncomfortable with, and she'll work on herself too. Marriage is so beautiful and fun❤. Don't mind them. That fire will lead to baby making 😂
Q. Do you have a problem if someone sends you a birthday greeting or some kind of greetings with some social media picture message? I totally have a problem with it I think if someone wrote just simply happy birthday they took the time,not short cut.❤
Society have a way of trying to dictate how we live and like you both have said maturity please are very important part in the relationship. I have family members who are married and having the greatest marriage ever and are over 20 years apart from their partners no issues. I’m more beautiful union you have never seen, so the age is not the issue it’s the level of maturity and whether or not both parties will be happy in that relationship as long as you’re happy that is all that matters Abraham was hundreds of years older than Sarah think about it ❤
👍🏾 Oh, suh dis was recorded a while back! We saw that you enjoyed your birthday, for sure! Y'all are 11 years apart. In general, I would say no more than a 10 year gap. For myself, my favorite # is 3. So I would say 3 no more than 5 years. And I would prefer the man to be older, but I've dated 11 years older and I've dated 3 years younger, in past years. Not dating at this time. Never been married. So Alyshia's love language it sounds like, is Quality Time (QT). That is mine too. Asafa, please listen. I love you two, together.🤗 Our Father blessed you both. The jealousy thing to me, can be both sometimes.🤷🏾♀️ Thanks for sharing...#enjoylife🎈 #enjoyeachother #GodblessThePowells✨
Yea and social media can destroy a good thing! We have to stay vigilant! Right after this, saw a short titled - 34 year gap. We're always being monitored. So stay vigilant. 👀...😆...🤦🏾♀️
Alyshia is articulated without getting angry and shouting. Learn ladies and take note. If you always complain that your man doesn't listen, learn from Alyshia. The guy is listening ❤😂
Leaving GOD out of our daily lives will make us very ugly as well. Everything is social media, no prayer , reading the Bible, going r taking the kids to church no time for GOD. Social media is many of us gods. This is so sad.
Well my relationship is just seven years gap with me being the younger one and I lean so much from my partner and I’m grateful and fully appreciative of what my relationship brings!!! We’re also married for 10 years and counting!!!👏🏾💍💙👏🏾💙💍👏🏾
Asafa, for married women jealousy is a sign of love not insecurity. If her husband has his eyes on women's bikinis it's not appropriate. She will start feeling like she's not enough beautiful for you. Being on social media, people observe your every moves. Then they start sending messages to your wife to highlight what you did. It's a lot of pressure on your wife. To be fair she's devoted to you and the kids. She's not looking for 6 packs on IG. Your marriage is beautiful. That's why I like you guys ❤🎉
So, what I have found from my capacity as a Counsellor is this; the age gap never usually present an issue until at a certain stage of the relationship. So, for instance, if the age gap is 20 years, and the male is 50 and the female is 30, that works for a while. However, by the time he turns 70, and she 50, then issues such as the things they don't have in common, becomes an issue. In addition, what some age gaps do, is they very visibly show that the partners are not at the same place in their lives; in relation to what they want, as well as just normal life development factor; as in, at a certain age, some people want to party more, travel more, and not really settling down, while someone in their 50s and 60s are at another stage of their life/development, which is normal. So yeah, in the beginning, huge age gaps don't start out being an issue, but with those who come to me for counselling, the issues start after a while. The last couple I counselled, the issue was that the woman was still young and active, but the man just wanted to stay home, so she was bored and frustrated, and he was annoyed, and it became a HUGE issue.
It is so complicated issue. And there are so many factors to take into consideration, there is not an absolute answer to this question ( talking about adults anyhow) .
My uncle rip was 90 years old when his daughter, a 19-year-old wife 62 years old, she cheated on him with a younger man and then kicked him out of the marital home. At 80 years old. So i think people should state what their golds are in relationships. And as asafa said, it should be a cut-off point.and think of the end gold will you stay with that person until the end or are you in it to gain things😊
I like the honesty therefore let me be honest too, couples need to talk to someone to address the underlying issues that are there. Not saying that there is a problem in the relationship or marriage but sometimes talking to someone or venting to each other can prevent small things becoming big things. Therapy maybe....and this isn't another toxic social media comment.
As for what society frowns on, I think it depends on who is older. There is a certain RUclipsr who is 12 years younger than his wife, and when I asked a male if he would date a woman that much older, he said HECK NO, but he would date someone that much younger though. Society seems to be a lot kinder to when men are much older than when it is the other way around.
Read the Damn! room for real Alyesia , men are too nieve and clueless sometimes, most really doesn't know when to shot it down most time for real, they realise what's happening and keep going. I can't explaine how much I love these sit down
Marriage is not an easy institution There are high and low days but you must know your padner I know the Pow POWs love each other dearly but as everything each one has there faults Communication is the key to a successful marriage Alysia you can have a great date night at home just plan it together Try it and see if it works remember how Safa did it on your anniversary last year Both of you just put your best feet forward and go for it Bring out all the love Each give one another a big surprise and know you can do it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My Jamaican king and my Canadian queen how you doing I meet a Canadian and marry him at that time he was in mid fifties I was in my late twenties we spent 30 years together he died may of this year let me just say he was the love for my life respect he brought to the table love stability maturity he was the complete package and if I had allowed his age to a thing I would not experience all I did with him he is now gone and I am how in my fifties and I am now left to grief but while I do that now and don’t know if I will ever stop Let I just say he was the complete package’s and my life was truly blessed and beautiful because of him and because of that I would not change the time or the age when we got together
That's a tough one to answer. Some younger guys are mature for their age and some are immature. I stop dating people my age group and I'm 34. Younger people comes with too much drama. If you love someone your going to go the distance for that person. Now, jealousy can come about if the person accomplish more than you...or friends or too friendly.. that goes both ways.
U like whom u like u love whom u love...simple as that..I e seen older men act young also young men act older..it's been like that forever so no one shld judge .older men always liked younger women ..so that's that
Ones maturity is definitely a great factor. For me when it reaches double digits I start looking at other factors because our likes and differences may be significantly different. These things can later create issues. If the person can be your parent that's a HUGE NO for me.
No, this is what should be called statutory rape. What is and will a 20 year old offer in any situation-ship with a person 50 plus years old; whether or not its a girl or boy. I will further expound on this later again after another listen But i know for a facts that there are 13 countries worldwide that the age of consent is young as 12 yrs to 18 years, even to 21 yrs. This is a no bueno. The intellectual mindset is not mature enough to not know enough to what is life, the experiences self love and self worth, ones own independence to have that know how to what life brings Even in the church and homes, mothers are grooming and molding their daughters to seek older or old elderly men to help and secure their family survival
A 20 year old is not a minor. You can't throw out rape for that. Really a 20 year old should be mature enough anyway. People back in the day were getting married younger. The thing that we really need to focus on is the increase in homosexuality especially amongst black men. Black men are becoming less masculine and black women becoming less feminine. That's the real problem when it comes to man and woman.
Before the age of social media and cellphones, I think families were more engaging with each other. I think a challenge for some of us would be to put away cellphones for three hours every evening from 7 to 10pm and focus on the family. It would be a struggle for me. Help us Lord.🤦🏽♀️
The saying that love is blind is not always true. One has to be realistic when the age gap is too wide that can lead to potential problems. I know of a murder suicide where the age difference was 35 years. Trust issues popped up, controlling issues and alleged cheating.
My parents anniversary and my uncle anniversary and my grandparents anniversary is on Alyshia birthday. Fun fact all of them have age gap relationships.
I am 61 yrs old, my husband is 13 years older, and my son is 29 years old. Lots of communication. Has we gotten older get away from the cabs and sugar.
So this podcast was taped before the Noah Lyle, Jenelle Bromfield situation. I am asking that you respectfully address the situation. Give your opinion on how couples should show respect to each other. Joking about someone staying injured to give yourself a leg up in a race is very distasteful. 10-15 years is reasonable but if it is true love, do what floats your boat.
Guys people went off on Noah and Junelle yesterday for the same thing you guys are talking about....the pillow talking kept in secret and not having the discussion in the open...Asafa I hope your sensitive countrymen are giving you guys some views instead of being in their feelings...always enjoy your content....
Well guys this is an interesting topic 🤔 sometimes when i see age gaps like 30 40 and such like i think that's too much. There's all sorts of things that will impact the relationship and I believe that will be a very big issue later on in the relationship, trust me !! Especially when the person doesn't take care of themselves and when you go out in public you are asked uncomfortable questions about your partner. Think carefully before you leap into these add age differences.
I wanted to say this for awhile, Asafa's wife is a very smart woman and outspoken. I like her for him and can see why he marries her. One thing tho constantly she a cook fi him n d family sah. Real home maker, boss, beautiful, intelligent, etc. I think she sets the precedence for what women here would want to be as a wife especially in this era. Like to add, she is no pushover and will let her feelings know including to Asafa. I love seeing their relationship. In terms of this particular podcast, I am one of them that doesn't support that nonsense that age is just a number in a relationship. I believe when choosing partners in terms of age difference other things should be consider and come in to the decision such as life experiences, goals both careerwise and for relationships, the person's outlook on life, personality, etc. It might be the detriment of you if you don't factor in these things. I hate hearing mature for age as that makes no sense as life experiences plays a part in maturity and not just people's personality. Someone who is playful, alot of people term this as not mature so its like they don't know the definition of being mature. One thing I would like to add, I think this era of people going in relationships should stop the nonsense of not letting their spouse interact and socialize with people of the opposite gender. I think that's where alot of the insecurity comes from because its not realistic or healthy for an adult to not talk to or interact with the opposite sex other than their spouse when they are in a relationship. Then when persons are caught doing something with the opposite sex its like automatically these people are going to deem whatever they were doing as cheating. Men especially need to socialize with other females as females will help them to understand their spouse better. Not because too a man tells a female friend his business about his female spouse, should it be consider a disrespect because he might genuinely have no other avenues or outlets to talk his mind and let go of his stress. This I believe is contributing to alot of the homicides going on in relationships because people are not leting their spouse have health relationships with persons of the opposite genders. Some people not even co workers of the opposite sex they want their spouse interact with and this is craziness.
Very interesting how he couldn't give a stable answer to the question when his daughter was the subject. No thoughts, no comments? It's kinda telling & disappointing that he couldn't give a solid & properly articulated response. But I think it's because his dating age gaps over time have been really wide so it'd more than likely be hypocritical for him to have a say in this conversation which is why he has taken the neutral/general route when answering.
Yeah I have a limit, if my daughter dating a 30 something or 40 year old I would have some concerns. Especially if the younger person isn't fully matured mind wise
To each is own, if people genuinely falls in love with someone 30 years older kudos to them, for me I wouldn't pass 8-10 years and it not suppose to be obvious like he could be my dad, nah! Compatibility guys don't ignore the redflags
I agree with it depends on where the age starts and finish , anything below 24/25 is mentally too young , your frontal lobe isn’t fully formed as a woman, jealousy stems from insecurity and yes June women are the Best!🏆🩷 enjoyed this podcast
No 20 yrs. Old should be dating a 40 yrs. Old. There is a difference between INTERCOURSE & LOVE. However; it depends on, @ what age the relationship started.
I understand exactly what she's saying it's the same with my Husband and myself we get so focus on the phone it's annoying. I'm talking to him and he's on the phone.I think we need to have a time no phone for a day how would that be.
The title didn't make me interested to hear the podcast. It's your short that brought me here because it was spicy. I hope you can change the title to gain more views because the conversation was very informative. Something like "-Asafa on hot seat-" 😂
She’s telling him what’s missing of course he needs to listen and both of them come to a compromise… relationships be like that from the beginning of time they’ll be fine if they listen to each other
Social media is a death trap for some relationships. If your partner talks to you about things in private, don’t bring it to light on social media.
Alyshia is so honest, it's refreshing, no pretentious crap!!
Life is about continuous growth because things always change. Praying that blessings continue for you and your family Asafa! 💯
Relationship is a team effort
Have to save this for when I’m at work tonight. You and your husband are so inspirational listening from LA. Mi feel proud and boastful that Asafa picked an intelligent and sensible woman yeeeees!!! Love uno keep on coming up with these practical contents
Thank you
It's a Pleasure watching an listening ✔️ to Powell family 👨👩👧👦 blessings
Blessings
A very interesting and enjoyable topic. Keep up the good work guys.
Women seek intellectual stimulation, which doesn't necessarily equate to what most people consider intelligence. Instead, it involves qualities she perceives as eloquent, articulate, insightful, and charming.
Enjoy your day. Great podcast asusual. Always get food for thought from them.
Happy Tursday to the Powells blessings and blessings to you both ❤ ❤ ❤
❤❤ the key to a good n great relationship is communication and honestly. If you are feeling uncomfortable about a situation do not let it fester.
Can you imagine if you were both working full time and have to do what you doing also?
Keep talking guys.
Love listening to you guys, never really commented but I listen and watch your videos all the time to keep me awake while driving for long periods of time 😊.
I like these conversations. Not sure if you guys have discussed finances in relationships previously. Like sharing financial responsibilities, prenups, splitting assets in separation etc. I'll appreciate your thoughts. 😊❤
Great convo. I personally don't go above 5 years but overall, I think over 15 years is too much. I think jealousy is part of loving someone. Full display of jealousy where you are causing drama or making your partner miserable is insecurity. Healthy jealousy keeps the relationship solid because you're going to take care of your partner so they don't seek validation elsewhere or when offer validation its not needed because they already get it from their spouse/partner. Alyscia is so right men are often blind to some of the female schemes. Asafa date your wife put the boys to bed and have a late night picnic on the pool deck under the stars. You live busy lives but try to squeeze a date out every month.
I agree with Alysha, read the room. one should have emotional intelligence when in a relationship for sure. Otherwise, this will cause unnecessary issues. I agree 20+ age gap is a lot. This need a part 2. Great conversation!
Thank you
Very interesting topics...good job The Powells. Age gap for me is 10 to 20. I have not seeing Asafa as a friendly person. Keep up the good work. Praying for your marriage that it will get stronger and stronger. Love you both
Big up
I loved the conversation. You communicated, made each other uncomfortable, but respected each other. Alyshia attacked like women always do and Asafa closed himself up like a typical man. He heard the message and will work on it but Asafa feel free to open up with what you are uncomfortable with, and she'll work on herself too. Marriage is so beautiful and fun❤. Don't mind them. That fire will lead to baby making 😂
Very interesting and deep conversation.
Always , love to watch you guys. FL
Thank you
I agree with Mrs Powell, June babies are wonderful people. I am June 25.
We are twins 😂
@@Iamthedonett I accept you wholeheartedly .
Yes, of course, no matters. What is a lifestyle and lifetime ✨️ 🙌🏻
Enjoyed listening while working. Both of you made me laugh. Asafa bring Alyshia out on more dates😊
Q. Do you have a problem if someone sends you a birthday greeting or some kind of greetings with some social media picture message? I totally have a problem with it I think if someone wrote just simply happy birthday they took the time,not short cut.❤
Well said. Love the podcasts..
Thank you
Keep being open Alyshia. It helps to release bad thoughts and Asafa will know better how to engage with you and people,instead of guessing.
One of my favorite segment on the channel 😂crazy how the long mins seem very short my goodness 😂😂😂
😂😂 you make me laugh, I am much older than my husband - it’s up to the 2 people in the relationship to make it work.
Society have a way of trying to dictate how we live and like you both have said maturity please are very important part in the relationship. I have family members who are married and having the greatest marriage ever and are over 20 years apart from their partners no issues. I’m more beautiful union you have never seen, so the age is not the issue it’s the level of maturity and whether or not both parties will be happy in that relationship as long as you’re happy that is all that matters Abraham was hundreds of years older than Sarah think about it ❤
👍🏾 Oh, suh dis was recorded a while back! We saw that you enjoyed your birthday, for sure! Y'all are 11 years apart. In general, I would say no more than a 10 year gap. For myself, my favorite # is 3. So I would say 3 no more than 5 years. And I would prefer the man to be older, but I've dated 11 years older and I've dated 3 years younger, in past years. Not dating at this time. Never been married. So Alyshia's love language it sounds like, is Quality Time (QT). That is mine too. Asafa, please listen. I love you two, together.🤗 Our Father blessed you both. The jealousy thing to me, can be both sometimes.🤷🏾♀️ Thanks for sharing...#enjoylife🎈 #enjoyeachother #GodblessThePowells✨
Yea and social media can destroy a good thing! We have to stay vigilant! Right after this, saw a short titled - 34 year gap. We're always being monitored. So stay vigilant. 👀...😆...🤦🏾♀️
Yea it was recorded a few weeks back Yes quality time is mine for sure .blessings
@@AsafaAlyshiaPowell Blessings ✨
My beauty comes from within not what’s outside. When u r beautiful outside and ur heart is not that makes u ugly to me in every way.🙏
Alyshia is articulated without getting angry and shouting. Learn ladies and take note. If you always complain that your man doesn't listen, learn from Alyshia. The guy is listening ❤😂
Exactly Alyshia
Leaving GOD out of our daily lives will make us very ugly as well. Everything is social media, no prayer , reading the Bible, going r taking the kids to church no time for GOD. Social media is many of us gods. This is so sad.
Amen and amen
Well my relationship is just seven years gap with me being the younger one and I lean so much from my partner and I’m grateful and fully appreciative of what my relationship brings!!! We’re also married for 10 years and counting!!!👏🏾💍💙👏🏾💙💍👏🏾
Blessings
I'm truly happy for you!!!❤
Asafa, for married women jealousy is a sign of love not insecurity. If her husband has his eyes on women's bikinis it's not appropriate. She will start feeling like she's not enough beautiful for you.
Being on social media, people observe your every moves. Then they start sending messages to your wife to highlight what you did. It's a lot of pressure on your wife. To be fair she's devoted to you and the kids. She's not looking for 6 packs on IG.
Your marriage is beautiful. That's why I like you guys ❤🎉
So, what I have found from my capacity as a Counsellor is this; the age gap never usually present an issue until at a certain stage of the relationship. So, for instance, if the age gap is 20 years, and the male is 50 and the female is 30, that works for a while. However, by the time he turns 70, and she 50, then issues such as the things they don't have in common, becomes an issue. In addition, what some age gaps do, is they very visibly show that the partners are not at the same place in their lives; in relation to what they want, as well as just normal life development factor; as in, at a certain age, some people want to party more, travel more, and not really settling down, while someone in their 50s and 60s are at another stage of their life/development, which is normal. So yeah, in the beginning, huge age gaps don't start out being an issue, but with those who come to me for counselling, the issues start after a while. The last couple I counselled, the issue was that the woman was still young and active, but the man just wanted to stay home, so she was bored and frustrated, and he was annoyed, and it became a HUGE issue.
I believe in a 5- 10 age gap as we can grow old together so none of us would be missing out
There is a lot of factors to consider when choosing an older person. I believe 10 to 15 years the max.
It is so complicated issue. And there are so many factors to take into consideration, there is not an absolute answer to this question ( talking about adults anyhow) .
Valid points Alyisha 😊❤❤❤❤❤❤ always interesting
Thank you!!
My uncle rip was 90 years old when his daughter, a 19-year-old wife 62 years old, she cheated on him with a younger man and then kicked him out of the marital home. At 80 years old. So i think people should state what their golds are in relationships. And as asafa said, it should be a cut-off point.and think of the end gold will you stay with that person until the end or are you in it to gain things😊
I agree trust is form over time passwords or the least people are smart now a days but i belive one should get their sense of privacy and space
I like the honesty therefore let me be honest too, couples need to talk to someone to address the underlying issues that are there. Not saying that there is a problem in the relationship or marriage but sometimes talking to someone or venting to each other can prevent small things becoming big things. Therapy maybe....and this isn't another toxic social media comment.
As for what society frowns on, I think it depends on who is older. There is a certain RUclipsr who is 12 years younger than his wife, and when I asked a male if he would date a woman that much older, he said HECK NO, but he would date someone that much younger though. Society seems to be a lot kinder to when men are much older than when it is the other way around.
Read the Damn! room for real Alyesia , men are too nieve and clueless sometimes, most really doesn't know when to shot it down most time for real, they realise what's happening and keep going.
I can't explaine how much I love these sit down
Marriage is not an easy institution
There are high and low days but you must know your padner
I know the Pow POWs love each other dearly but as everything each one has there faults
Communication is the key to a successful marriage
Alysia you can have a great date night at home just plan it together
Try it and see if it works remember how Safa did it on your anniversary last year
Both of you just put your best feet forward and go for it
Bring out all the love
Each give one another a big surprise and know you can do it
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Respect u both
My Jamaican king and my Canadian queen how you doing I meet a Canadian and marry him at that time he was in mid fifties I was in my late twenties we spent 30 years together he died may of this year let me just say he was the love for my life respect he brought to the table love stability maturity he was the complete package and if I had allowed his age to a thing I would not experience all I did with him he is now gone and I am how in my fifties and I am now left to grief but while I do that now and don’t know if I will ever stop Let I just say he was the complete package’s and my life was truly blessed and beautiful because of him and because of that I would not change the time or the age when we got together
Aweww, sweet❤
That's a tough one to answer. Some younger guys are mature for their age and some are immature. I stop dating people my age group and I'm 34. Younger people comes with too much drama. If you love someone your going to go the distance for that person. Now, jealousy can come about if the person accomplish more than you...or friends or too friendly.. that goes both ways.
I think the 5 to 10 year gap should be the max, 15 Maybe.
There are also discrepancies based on which gender is older. Not balanced at all.
Very interesting topic love it
Quantifying an age gap depends only on the people in the relationship.
It all depends on the mental maturity of the younger individual to be dating/marrying someone much older.
Asada is right. Insecurities are the cause of jealousy. Being too friendly can be misinterpreted as flirting.
I agree with Alyshia
Asafa, take my foolish advice, listen to your wife. Spend less time on the phone and give her more attention.
Alwaysl love to watch your videos interesting indeed blessings on the Powells family
Read the room bro. She is telling you bothering her.
Very interesting conversation, watching from Germany 🇩🇪.
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Awesome! Thank you!
U like whom u like u love whom u love...simple as that..I e seen older men act young also young men act older..it's been like that forever so no one shld judge .older men always liked younger women ..so that's that
Love from Ghana
Its not the foundation but why not share, what do you have to hide. There's no secret
if they want to
Ones maturity is definitely a great factor. For me when it reaches double digits I start looking at other factors because our likes and differences may be significantly different. These things can later create issues. If the person can be your parent that's a HUGE NO for me.
I don't think password should be so personal. You have a friendship, why hide things in your phone 📱
Hi to my powell family am watching from freeport Bahamas Love the Topic .
olny if he or she is rich ...money see no age .....life rough,,,
No, this is what should be called statutory rape. What is and will a 20 year old offer in any situation-ship with a person 50 plus years old; whether or not its a girl or boy.
I will further expound on this later again after another listen
But i know for a facts that there are 13 countries worldwide that the age of consent is young as 12 yrs to 18 years, even to 21 yrs.
This is a no bueno. The intellectual mindset is not mature enough to not know enough to what is life, the experiences self love and self worth, ones own independence to have that know how to what life brings
Even in the church and homes, mothers are grooming and molding their daughters to seek older or old elderly men to help and secure their family survival
A 20 year old is not a minor. You can't throw out rape for that. Really a 20 year old should be mature enough anyway. People back in the day were getting married younger. The thing that we really need to focus on is the increase in homosexuality especially amongst black men. Black men are becoming less masculine and black women becoming less feminine. That's the real problem when it comes to man and woman.
Sometimes you don't listen to what is being said but what is understood through intuition. If you know, you know lol
Before the age of social media and cellphones, I think families were more engaging with each other. I think a challenge for some of us would be to put away cellphones for three hours every evening from 7 to 10pm and focus on the family. It would be a struggle for me. Help us Lord.🤦🏽♀️
Agreed Asafa, she wants you to sound old 😅
The saying that love is blind is not always true. One has to be realistic when the age gap is too wide that can lead to potential problems. I know of a murder suicide where the age difference was 35 years. Trust issues popped up, controlling issues and alleged cheating.
Likewise we heard of murder-suicide cases with a narrow gap of age difference
My parents anniversary and my uncle anniversary and my grandparents anniversary is on Alyshia birthday. Fun fact all of them have age gap relationships.
I am 61 yrs old, my husband is 13 years older, and my son is 29 years old. Lots of communication. Has we gotten older get away from the cabs and sugar.
Very good chat
Thank you
So this podcast was taped before the Noah Lyle, Jenelle Bromfield situation. I am asking that you respectfully address the situation. Give your opinion on how couples should show respect to each other. Joking about someone staying injured to give yourself a leg up in a race is very distasteful. 10-15 years is reasonable but if it is true love, do what floats your boat.
@@Lindasdaughterdonna what situation?
Guys people went off on Noah and Junelle yesterday for the same thing you guys are talking about....the pillow talking kept in secret and not having the discussion in the open...Asafa I hope your sensitive countrymen are giving you guys some views instead of being in their feelings...always enjoy your content....
My opinion I don't think age is a problem we have to learn to trust Your partner and be honest in what we do and satisfy with small things.
Well guys this is an interesting topic 🤔 sometimes when i see age gaps like 30 40 and such like i think that's too much. There's all sorts of things that will impact the relationship and I believe that will be a very big issue later on in the relationship, trust me !! Especially when the person doesn't take care of themselves and when you go out in public you are asked uncomfortable questions about your partner. Think carefully before you leap into these add age differences.
Well said
I wanted to say this for awhile, Asafa's wife is a very smart woman and outspoken. I like her for him and can see why he marries her. One thing tho constantly she a cook fi him n d family sah. Real home maker, boss, beautiful, intelligent, etc. I think she sets the precedence for what women here would want to be as a wife especially in this era. Like to add, she is no pushover and will let her feelings know including to Asafa. I love seeing their relationship. In terms of this particular podcast, I am one of them that doesn't support that nonsense that age is just a number in a relationship. I believe when choosing partners in terms of age difference other things should be consider and come in to the decision such as life experiences, goals both careerwise and for relationships, the person's outlook on life, personality, etc. It might be the detriment of you if you don't factor in these things. I hate hearing mature for age as that makes no sense as life experiences plays a part in maturity and not just people's personality. Someone who is playful, alot of people term this as not mature so its like they don't know the definition of being mature. One thing I would like to add, I think this era of people going in relationships should stop the nonsense of not letting their spouse interact and socialize with people of the opposite gender. I think that's where alot of the insecurity comes from because its not realistic or healthy for an adult to not talk to or interact with the opposite sex other than their spouse when they are in a relationship. Then when persons are caught doing something with the opposite sex its like automatically these people are going to deem whatever they were doing as cheating. Men especially need to socialize with other females as females will help them to understand their spouse better. Not because too a man tells a female friend his business about his female spouse, should it be consider a disrespect because he might genuinely have no other avenues or outlets to talk his mind and let go of his stress. This I believe is contributing to alot of the homicides going on in relationships because people are not leting their spouse have health relationships with persons of the opposite genders. Some people not even co workers of the opposite sex they want their spouse interact with and this is craziness.
Alyshia my husband spends more time on his phone than with me
Sad & should not be condoned.😮
Very interesting how he couldn't give a stable answer to the question when his daughter was the subject. No thoughts, no comments? It's kinda telling & disappointing that he couldn't give a solid & properly articulated response. But I think it's because his dating age gaps over time have been really wide so it'd more than likely be hypocritical for him to have a say in this conversation which is why he has taken the neutral/general route when answering.
Sharing a password with your spouse is the normal thing to do. However, I would not share it just to gain someone's trust.
Does age matter what about love, respect and responsibility
2:07 She is saying thst she is boxed down with her husband,she needs to elope
I second that asafa, why a password in the first place.
Asafa you need to be serious about this conversation. I know you likw to joke but its coming over as you are deflecting as your wife mentioned earlier
So true 100
Yeah I have a limit, if my daughter dating a 30 something or 40 year old I would have some concerns. Especially if the younger person isn't fully matured mind wise
To each is own, if people genuinely falls in love with someone 30 years older kudos to them, for me I wouldn't pass 8-10 years and it not suppose to be obvious like he could be my dad, nah! Compatibility guys don't ignore the redflags
The youngest of the two must be atleast 30 years
I agree with it depends on where the age starts and finish , anything below 24/25 is mentally too young , your frontal lobe isn’t fully formed as a woman, jealousy stems from insecurity and yes June women are the Best!🏆🩷 enjoyed this podcast
im 47 years old. i am attracted to women 18 to 24. i am looking to replace the woman my age with a younger woman.
SAF can deflect 😅
the kind of relationship that some people post, that are fake
No 20 yrs. Old should be dating a 40 yrs. Old.
There is a difference between INTERCOURSE & LOVE.
However; it depends on, @ what age the relationship started.
I understand exactly what she's saying it's the same with my Husband and myself we get so focus on the phone it's annoying. I'm talking to him and he's on the phone.I think we need to have a time no phone for a day how would that be.
It is a thirst trap for some.When you are satisfied with who you have social media has no impact on your relationship
The title didn't make me interested to hear the podcast. It's your short that brought me here because it was spicy. I hope you can change the title to gain more views because the conversation was very informative. Something like "-Asafa on hot seat-" 😂
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It depends on love and how that person looks, you might have someone in their 50s looks like early 40s so they can get away with it
ASAFA UR WIFE IS SIMPLY TELLING YOU THAT SHE NEED U TO SPEND MORE QUALITY TIMES WITH HER ❤❤ WHO AGREES ?❤❤
He is spending quality time with her, he is not working.
She’s telling him what’s missing of course he needs to listen and both of them come to a compromise… relationships be like that from the beginning of time they’ll be fine if they listen to each other
What love got to do with age gap.😊
@@KwabenaX alot