I’m a boring person; that is nice to know at this point in my life. Boring is being content, safe & happy in my own space. I don’t have to entertain a woman child anymore. I don’t have to worry about the unhappiness when it comes around worry about be betrayed again. I play games, workout, skate, study and can be a peace doing it.
This is true. Every time we are going good they pick a fight with you then when you defend yourself they gaslight you. After a narcissist gets you they barely show you love unless they want something… you start to feel lonely and unwanted then eventually you realize you’ve changed everything about yourself to satisfy them then you end up feeling drained.
My narc literally said when we first started dating that I’m such an innocent flower, and he just wanted to pluck some of my petals out. Literally evil I thought he was going to say something like love and protect you 😂. I didn’t understand at the time but I understand now
mine said something similar. he always used to say that "you were just a pure soul that wanted to be loved, but i took advantage of that now i broke you" also he mentioned "i can't wait to treat the next person better"
@@hitherebro they don’t ever treat the next person better !!! What a cruel thing to tell you mean and hateful !!! I’m so sorry! Mine would just say the worst things o have ever heard anyone say ever !!!
@@InfinityFinds-ge6gu i genuinely believe he got his chance to abuse me because his mom is so verbally abusive and would say the meanest things to him and he, i guess, used to take that frustration out on me. but with time we will get through it.
@@weeziii8193 They’re definitely more calculating than they let on. It took three years. I caught trying to cheat, again. I broke up with him over the phone while he was at his mom’s house and he never came home. I moved out. It was crazy. He downloaded hinge and found his new supply the day we broke up. I told her everything he did to me. She stayed anyway. It was the most bizarre thing. If someone told me this man was an alcoholic, manipulator, gaslighter, physical abuser, liar, cheater , emotional abuser, yelling, whining, narcissistic, man child who just wants his momma-I would’ve taken heed. But he painted me as crazy and him as the victim. But I bet she knows now, too bad she’s trauma bonded just like I was. And the ones before me. Such a predictable group of people
Man you have helped me a lot in shutting out toxic people, my life has become more peaceful. Your videos are very educational. Some have taken my kindness for weakness and your videos give me more strength to see more clearly who I have around me.
" I knew then it was a wrap after that." WHOYOUTELLIN'!!!!!!!!?????? dude texted me that "we both are strong-minded." yeah. that was a wrap for me, for sure!!!!!!! PEACE!!!!!!!
Wow . I didnt like him at 1st , he wasnt my type but i agree to stay friends and i found myself falling for him just for him to get bored 5 months later and start hiding and laying. We broke up 3 times and i took him back 3 times till i couldnt anymore. He gave me too much anxiety and didn't want to change. And yes he love the challenges, he told me that...
When I look at my ex now I laugh to myself. 😂 Bro even if the world DOES END…..you will never be it. Once you see this and heal from this they can’t touch you. But this is also when they get MEAN AF. So be ready!
Thanks, Lee. Two caveats: 1-they are less than (I didn't think there was such thing until I was around narcissists consistently) 2-they aren't even your last choice Don't buy into the "playing hard to get." That feeds narcissistic delusion! Some of us are completely disinterested to the point that Narcy looks like a buffoon to pursue. Riddle me this: at what point does Narcy realize you're not playing hard to get, you're full on rejecting them? Consider: "they hate rejection" but they set themselves up over and over again, for more and more rejection because of their inflated ego.
This is the question I've been asking myself!!?? It's been clear for 10 years that I don't want her and she still acting like I do. Many experts have said their desire to believe their own delusions is Paramount to them not collapsing. They have to make themselves believe you still want them or they will collapse. I'm not supporting the illusion I'm just not responding to the same hateful B's we all know w this ish.
@@johnnycorn7225 Well explained. I would add, however, that the narcissist literally needs to collapse. It is their only hope for change-bottoming out, coming to the end of self, quitting, so to speak. 99.9% can't do it, and we know their fate.
@@johnnycorn7225 Good explanation. If someone is not texting you almost daily, you are not in a r.relationship. If someone is not holding your hand often, you are not in a r. relationship. If someone is not encouraging you consistently, because they love to (!!) you are likely not in a healthy r. relationship. Relationships are mutual, especially mutually joyful, not burdensome. De nial ain't just a river in Egypt.
My narcissistic family used to try to break me into doing what they wanted me to do. Narcissists love to break people down and wear them down till they get what they want
Lee!!! I love you so much. You make me laugh in my pain. Even though you a narrcist, when you talk about them, seem like you be exhausted!! I love hou you honest but be funny!!! Anytime they ware you out explaining them.....that is saying something. Thank you Lee!!
@6:00 min - holy sh!t, that's EXACTLY it. It's bc I said no the first time he asked me out. Absolute fkn monster. Thank you for explaining the messed up mentality of these ppl, Lee 💖
Help rather than hurt…love it. Yes, look at the big picture, what do you want your life to stand for? Hurting others? Easing suffering? Pursuing shallow interests? Think: It’s patriotic.
7:00 this applies to family members and friendships as well about how they will want to pay you back or get you back just treat you horribly even though they treated you awful
My spirit is so broken this week after my youngest son said vile horrible things to me, info he could have only gotten from his narcissistic grandmother concerning me considering I don't speak to either one of them on the phone so how would they know what's going on in my life, all LIES! I'm really not sure where to go from here. I'm trying to take care of myself and I feel like I'm being kicked while I'm down and treated like a doormat. I should be celebrating a milestone this week after losing 30 lbs and it took me the last nine months to do that but instead the devil has stolen my joy.
My heart feels for you hun, it's going to be okay. Make sure you pray for yourself, your accomplishments are important ❤️ and God sees them. You're not alone. And congrats on losing that much weight, it's not easy to do. Keep on going! 💪
They like to control people and know they can. My ex would purposely engage in my pet peeves and when I told him to stop cuz I’m sick of it, he laughed and said “why? It’s funny”. He sees it as a challenge to know he could purposely get on my nerves. Same thing applies with your identity y’all. Don’t let them change it just cuz they want you to be a certain way
Mine told me that she breaks all of her toys. I thought she meant sex toys but I was never aware that she had any. Then I had the thought that she was actually referring to all of her boyfriends. We were friends for a long time before we dated and I thought it was weird that she would bring up girls I had dated before. People I had long forgot about. It was like she was scolding me for dating people before here. Also she seemed upset that I was resistant to her HEAVY pursuits at first… failing to acknowledge that she rejected me years prior when I put myself out there for her. This video hits home.
My narc won’t stop. He is texting saying “you miss me yet? What! I didn’t respond. The nerve! He needs to move on! He wasted 5 years of my life. Liar and cheater! This video is the truth
They do, but they lack accountability so they don’t see their exhausting behavior for what it is. They are always unlucky, and life is mean to them, and if it’s not one thing it’s another. They complain about wanting to have peace yet they are the reason for all the drama in the first place 🙄🤷🏽♀️
My narc experience was just like this. I was in a rebellious phase during Covid, cut my hair into a mullet and dyed it bright orange and he was always trying to get me to change who I was. Because he wanted a “submissive” woman. AKA a doormat to abuse. And he called me dumb all the time and treated me like a sidekick - he of course had no education and I was taking the LSAT to get into law school (I did finally get there!). I still can’t believe it took me 8 months to rid myself of that demon man.
Lee!!! I love this video!! Your words are so encouraging. I appreciate you caring so much about us. If you would have been on RUclips years ago, I would have left my narcissistic ex years ago. I had no idea of what narcissism was until I heard his young son call him a narcissist. I began to watch Dr. Ramani’s videos. Her videos have helped me tremendously also, but your videos seem to meet people where they are in every phase of the narcissistic abuse. Thank you Lee for being here for us!!! God Bless You!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Just ended my relationship with my ex she was a super narcissist I made it out tho your videos really been helping me understand stuff & not feel alone 💯
Thank YOU for helping ME Lee!!!! You really have helped me to understand my ex and to stay strong in not going back. I don't know if I would have without listening to your channel and getting your perspective.
Thanks Lee I’ve learned a lot , I admire your channel. Proud of you for seeking help and proud of your family for being strong you Have a great wife by your side.
Mine had a problem with me supporting the LGBT community and tried to convince me that being gay is a choice but also a mental illness somehow. He was so delusional he actually thought I am the one who came up with claim it was a natural thing.
This guy actually said why don’t you go play hard to get !!! I said are you serious? The guy said yes. I said do you like freaking games??? I was shocked!!
They love games….. especially the ones they make. The ones where they make the rules and force you to be a player in a game you did not sign up for😅 Always set up in a way that never allows you to win EVER! 🙄
mine used to say that i don't have enough attitude and that i am too nice. he wished that i was a bit fisty. this is the same man that not only cheated on me, but physically abused me. i swear this man hated me.
Omg I miss watching your videos it's been a long time how are you doing it's so nice that a narcissist is in therapy and doing the right thing thank you for all of your knowledge
I wasnt even that into my current hoovering ex. She just kept love bombing me and playing jealousy games with me to force me into a relationship. And is still doing it!
Sometimes I feel like my husband discarded me because he was jealous of me and our kids. He was always the oddball in his family, but the longer he and I were together the more his family loved me. Several times he had made comments about how his parents were a lot nicer now than they ever were when he was growing up and his sister had a baby at the beginning of the year and named her after me and shortly after he abandoned our kids and I. I swear that was somehow a final straw for him 🤷🏻♀️
My narc ex admitted to me he loves Challenges😅Right before the discard; he told me that he was going to break me! When i heard that it was like, Im up for that challenge😅I should have ended then, but I stayed about a month after then I discarded him!
YES, narcs love to break you but what they don’t realize, you break my heart once, I’ll never let you break it again. Even if they do, my heart is so full of love and life that will heal ❤️🩹 My heart is stronger than you, I am stronger than I was💕
Can't see that you're a narc yourself! 😂 Narcs would't like to make the world a better place! Peace and success for you, my brother!❤🎉❤ Greetings from Austria.
He got a challenge alright. I am not a narc but am a control freak. Go ahead - try to control me. Not gonna happen. He said he was a Scorpio and had a stinger. I said I am a Cancer (the Crab) with two claws to snap that stinger right off. Yup - he hurt me; but guess who's hurting now.
They're like soul sucking draculas.... for all the wrong reasons 😅 it only makes sense to give good karma and get it back. Especially with ur relationship. . It never makes sense so ppl never expect it. Ridic. They don't get the concept.
The ond dumb thing i did whdn i met him was wanting to touch the fire to see how long it take before i get burn i did get addicted to how good he was at keeping my attention but now am 16days no contact
I’m a boring person; that is nice to know at this point in my life. Boring is being content, safe & happy in my own space. I don’t have to entertain a woman child anymore. I don’t have to worry about the unhappiness when it comes around worry about be betrayed again. I play games, workout, skate, study and can be a peace doing it.
This is true. Every time we are going good they pick a fight with you then when you defend yourself they gaslight you. After a narcissist gets you they barely show you love unless they want something… you start to feel lonely and unwanted then eventually you realize you’ve changed everything about yourself to satisfy them then you end up feeling drained.
Well said. In that order too!
📌LIKE CANCER just eat at u until you just existing and NOT LIVING😡🥲
So true 😢
SooooooooTRUE!
@@TITOPICS777 I know that feeling so well. !!
"If they messed up the first date and came back a different person on the second..." gave me some major hindsight clarity I didn't previously have.
Mine actually said to my face, "you're not challenging enough..." 😮
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Mine put on fb I challenged him to be a man
Y’all still claiming them tho…?
That's good, sounds like you have the upper hands
Basically same You are so boring 😳
They break because they're broken
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I couldn’t imagine thinking like this 24/7
they're mentally disabled. PEACE!!!!
My narc literally said when we first started dating that I’m such an innocent flower, and he just wanted to pluck some of my petals out.
Literally evil
I thought he was going to say something like love and protect you 😂. I didn’t understand at the time but I understand now
mine said something similar. he always used to say that "you were just a pure soul that wanted to be loved, but i took advantage of that now i broke you" also he mentioned "i can't wait to treat the next person better"
@@hitherebro they don’t ever treat the next person better !!! What a cruel thing to tell you mean and hateful !!! I’m so sorry! Mine would just say the worst things o have ever heard anyone say ever !!!
@@InfinityFinds-ge6gu i genuinely believe he got his chance to abuse me because his mom is so verbally abusive and would say the meanest things to him and he, i guess, used to take that frustration out on me. but with time we will get through it.
@@hitherebro truly truly fundamentally flawed
@@weeziii8193 They’re definitely more calculating than they let on.
It took three years. I caught trying to cheat, again. I broke up with him over the phone while he was at his mom’s house and he never came home. I moved out. It was crazy.
He downloaded hinge and found his new supply the day we broke up.
I told her everything he did to me. She stayed anyway. It was the most bizarre thing. If someone told me this man was an alcoholic, manipulator, gaslighter, physical abuser, liar, cheater , emotional abuser, yelling, whining, narcissistic, man child who just wants his momma-I would’ve taken heed. But he painted me as crazy and him as the victim. But I bet she knows now, too bad she’s trauma bonded just like I was. And the ones before me.
Such a predictable group of people
Man you have helped me a lot in shutting out toxic people, my life has become more peaceful. Your videos are very educational. Some have taken my kindness for weakness and your videos give me more strength to see more clearly who I have around me.
My ex told me “you just won’t break” I remember it.. like it was yesterday, I was mine-blown..I knew then it was a wrap after that.
" I knew then it was a wrap after that." WHOYOUTELLIN'!!!!!!!!??????
dude texted me that "we both are strong-minded." yeah. that was a wrap for me, for sure!!!!!!!
PEACE!!!!!!!
Mine said, "Why won't you just do what I say?" Also said, "I'm the devil!" God didn't let that go.
Lee - you’re on vacay with YOUR FAMILY!!! Lay off the vids. Take a mental break while staying aware. Make a healthy memory!!! 💪🏼❤️🙌 love & light 🙏🏼🥰
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But how will he supply himself?
@@jcymngo😂
They make “EFFORTS” to be liked (for who they’re not), but efforts don’t last. It’s tiring, and demotivating.
Wow . I didnt like him at 1st , he wasnt my type but i agree to stay friends and i found myself falling for him just for him to get bored 5 months later and start hiding and laying. We broke up 3 times and i took him back 3 times till i couldnt anymore. He gave me too much anxiety and didn't want to change. And yes he love the challenges, he told me that...
You're the only Coach that breaks this Abuse down accurately. Every video you post is what happened to me. I really appreciate your insight. ❤
It’s like this for everyone, once they get the ring on your finger your history
Your not important anymore
Reminds me of a cat playing with a mouse.
yep
When I look at my ex now I laugh to myself. 😂 Bro even if the world DOES END…..you will never be it. Once you see this and heal from this they can’t touch you. But this is also when they get MEAN AF. So be ready!
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Thanks, Lee.
Two caveats: 1-they are less than (I didn't think there was such thing until I was around narcissists consistently)
2-they aren't even your last choice
Don't buy into the "playing hard to get." That feeds narcissistic delusion! Some of us are completely disinterested to the point that Narcy looks like a buffoon to pursue. Riddle me this: at what point does Narcy realize you're not playing hard to get, you're full on rejecting them? Consider: "they hate rejection" but they set themselves up over and over again, for more and more rejection because of their inflated ego.
Thats what he teguses to understand when it comes to why he turne me off every day with his behavior.
This is the question I've been asking myself!!?? It's been clear for 10 years that I don't want her and she still acting like I do. Many experts have said their desire to believe their own delusions is Paramount to them not collapsing. They have to make themselves believe you still want them or they will collapse. I'm not supporting the illusion I'm just not responding to the same hateful B's we all know w this ish.
@@johnnycorn7225 Well explained. I would add, however, that the narcissist literally needs to collapse. It is their only hope for change-bottoming out, coming to the end of self, quitting, so to speak. 99.9% can't do it, and we know their fate.
@@johnnycorn7225 Good explanation. If someone is not texting you almost daily, you are not in a r.relationship. If someone is not holding your hand often, you are not in a r. relationship. If someone is not encouraging you consistently, because they love to (!!) you are likely not in a healthy r. relationship. Relationships are mutual, especially mutually joyful, not burdensome.
De nial ain't just a river in Egypt.
@@anneyoung2310 💯 agree w that!!
My narcissistic family used to try to break me into doing what they wanted me to do. Narcissists love to break people down and wear them down till they get what they want
Lee!!! I love you so much. You make me laugh in my pain. Even though you a narrcist, when you talk about them, seem like you be exhausted!! I love hou you honest but be funny!!! Anytime they ware you out explaining them.....that is saying something. Thank you Lee!!
you’re welcome
❤❤❤
@6:00 min - holy sh!t, that's EXACTLY it. It's bc I said no the first time he asked me out. Absolute fkn monster.
Thank you for explaining the messed up mentality of these ppl, Lee 💖
Help rather than hurt…love it. Yes, look at the big picture, what do you want your life to stand for? Hurting others? Easing suffering? Pursuing shallow interests? Think: It’s patriotic.
Some are just repeating cycles throughout the relationship
7:00 this applies to family members and friendships as well about how they will want to pay you back or get you back just treat you horribly even though they treated you awful
Yep! Dealing with that right now with a parent. I got some heavy boundaries up right now and don't regret it at all.
Thank you so much for being this honest. I used wonder a lot whether my tears my cries meant anything to him
Well this is the first discussion that is exactly what I went through. Thank you for sharing this I actually exhaled 👍🏻
Glad it was helpful!
My spirit is so broken this week after my youngest son said vile horrible things to me, info he could have only gotten from his narcissistic grandmother concerning me considering I don't speak to either one of them on the phone so how would they know what's going on in my life, all LIES! I'm really not sure where to go from here. I'm trying to take care of myself and I feel like I'm being kicked while I'm down and treated like a doormat. I should be celebrating a milestone this week after losing 30 lbs and it took me the last nine months to do that but instead the devil has stolen my joy.
My heart feels for you hun, it's going to be okay. Make sure you pray for yourself, your accomplishments are important ❤️ and God sees them. You're not alone. And congrats on losing that much weight, it's not easy to do. Keep on going! 💪
I am actually feeling very emotional disturbed. Im tired of second guessing myself.
I love not doing what they want. It drives them crazy😋
That was his thing. He always liked a challenge
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Your little underlying smile shows you're passionate about helping others!
They want to break me they can try but i wont feel a thing 😂😂😂😂
They like to control people and know they can. My ex would purposely engage in my pet peeves and when I told him to stop cuz I’m sick of it, he laughed and said “why? It’s funny”. He sees it as a challenge to know he could purposely get on my nerves. Same thing applies with your identity y’all. Don’t let them change it just cuz they want you to be a certain way
Mine told me that she breaks all of her toys. I thought she meant sex toys but I was never aware that she had any. Then I had the thought that she was actually referring to all of her boyfriends.
We were friends for a long time before we dated and I thought it was weird that she would bring up girls I had dated before. People I had long forgot about. It was like she was scolding me for dating people before here. Also she seemed upset that I was resistant to her HEAVY pursuits at first… failing to acknowledge that she rejected me years prior when I put myself out there for her. This video hits home.
I'm going through that right now. I ended my relationship and yet he seems to still put himself in my life . I can tell he wants to break me.
My narc won’t stop. He is texting saying “you miss me yet? What! I didn’t respond. The nerve! He needs to move on! He wasted 5 years of my life. Liar and cheater! This video is the truth
You're saving the world! Thank you!
You’re welcome. I appreciate it
Do narc ever get exhausted themselves? Just curious, I'm wondering if they ever get exhausted when they continue in the toxic behavior they display
Not that I've seen in thirty plus years and he never lost one night's sleep.
Some don
They are relentless…. They don’t get tired until they have found themselves in a dead end.
They do, but they lack accountability so they don’t see their exhausting behavior for what it is. They are always unlucky, and life is mean to them, and if it’s not one thing it’s another. They complain about wanting to have peace yet they are the reason for all the drama in the first place 🙄🤷🏽♀️
They think if you get back with them after they do horrible things to you that it erases what they have done.
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My narc experience was just like this. I was in a rebellious phase during Covid, cut my hair into a mullet and dyed it bright orange and he was always trying to get me to change who I was. Because he wanted a “submissive” woman. AKA a doormat to abuse. And he called me dumb all the time and treated me like a sidekick - he of course had no education and I was taking the LSAT to get into law school (I did finally get there!). I still can’t believe it took me 8 months to rid myself of that demon man.
Lee!!! I love this video!! Your words are so encouraging. I appreciate you caring so much about us. If you would have been on RUclips years ago, I would have left my narcissistic ex years ago. I had no idea of what narcissism was until I heard his young son call him a narcissist. I began to watch Dr. Ramani’s videos. Her videos have helped me tremendously also, but your videos seem to meet people where they are in every phase of the narcissistic abuse. Thank you Lee for being here for us!!! God Bless You!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I recognize this dynamic from my experiences, but i didn’t understand the thrill of the challenge.
Just ended my relationship with my ex she was a super narcissist I made it out tho your videos really been helping me understand stuff & not feel alone 💯
stay strong
Thank YOU for helping ME Lee!!!! You really have helped me to understand my ex and to stay strong in not going back. I don't know if I would have without listening to your channel and getting your perspective.
All the souls..that didn't make it...😢❤️this sick..
Thanks Lee I’ve learned a lot , I admire your channel. Proud of you for seeking help and proud of your family for being strong you Have a great wife by your side.
♥️
Tell us the truth 💯🙏🏾
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YES MR.LEE U SO RIGHT I NEEDS TO HEAR THIS BACK N FOURTH WITH A NARC ITS TOO UGLY TO BARE 🙏
Mine said to tolerate them.
Preach Lee❤
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Mine had a problem with me supporting the LGBT community and tried to convince me that being gay is a choice but also a mental illness somehow. He was so delusional he actually thought I am the one who came up with claim it was a natural thing.
Your videos has helped me a lot. Thank you.
😢😢😢😢😢😢 yes, it happened to me, help me someone.
You should look up Doctor Ramani, she gives some good info for those stuck in narcissistic relationships.
Thanks much ❤
You're welcome 😊
Appreciate your content brother ty ❤
This guy actually said why don’t you go play hard to get !!! I said are you serious? The guy said yes. I said do you like freaking games??? I was shocked!!
Wow. Wth
All relationships are challenging NOT TO SURRENDER TO THE TRICKSTER.. BE STRONG IN SAYING No not nay. 😅
Thanks SO MUCH, LEE!!! GAMES. They enjoy playing games with the insecure, loneliness young girls & old
Seasoned ladies.
They love games….. especially the ones they make. The ones where they make the rules and force you to be a player in a game you did not sign up for😅
Always set up in a way that never allows you to win EVER! 🙄
mine used to say that i don't have enough attitude and that i am too nice. he wished that i was a bit fisty. this is the same man that not only cheated on me, but physically abused me. i swear this man hated me.
Man I rejected mine at first!!!!! 15 years ago. Should have stuck with that! But it’s all good. We grow through what we go through.
😫😫 stay strong
Omg I miss watching your videos it's been a long time how are you doing it's so nice that a narcissist is in therapy and doing the right thing thank you for all of your knowledge
haha Oh no Mufasa, I wouldn't DREAM of challenging you xD
I wasnt even that into my current hoovering ex. She just kept love bombing me and playing jealousy games with me to force me into a relationship. And is still doing it!
Sometimes I feel like my husband discarded me because he was jealous of me and our kids. He was always the oddball in his family, but the longer he and I were together the more his family loved me. Several times he had made comments about how his parents were a lot nicer now than they ever were when he was growing up and his sister had a baby at the beginning of the year and named her after me and shortly after he abandoned our kids and I. I swear that was somehow a final straw for him 🤷🏻♀️
Preach Lee. Thank you 🙏🏽🙌🏽
You’re welcome 🙏🏾
No lies detected!💯🎯
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The delusion is real
My narc ex admitted to me he loves Challenges😅Right before the discard; he told me that he was going to break me! When i heard that it was like, Im up for that challenge😅I should have ended then, but I stayed about a month after then I discarded him!
YES, narcs love to break you but what they don’t realize, you break my heart once, I’ll never let you break it again. Even if they do, my heart is so full of love and life that will heal ❤️🩹 My heart is stronger than you, I am stronger than I was💕
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Can't see that you're a narc yourself! 😂 Narcs would't like to make the world a better place! Peace and success for you, my brother!❤🎉❤ Greetings from Austria.
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He may have been on low end of spectrum for narc but he is actually getting help.
They are demons, or controlled by demons.
FTW
They are arrogant and that is why when we first met, I did not call him. After 3 weeks he had to call me!.
my ex told me he liked me bc i made him wait for sex. i soon realized all he wanted was sex. i believe he has an addiction.
My problem is “my” person has too much difficulty even having sex with me at all. I got so tired of asking for it i lost interest and dont want it.
He got a challenge alright. I am not a narc but am a control freak. Go ahead - try to control me. Not gonna happen. He said he was a Scorpio and had a stinger. I said I am a Cancer (the Crab) with two claws to snap that stinger right off. Yup - he hurt me; but guess who's hurting now.
They're like soul sucking draculas.... for all the wrong reasons 😅 it only makes sense to give good karma and get it back. Especially with ur relationship. .
It never makes sense so ppl never expect it. Ridic.
They don't get the concept.
It works.... Until they are figured out.
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They want to conquer which i think is 50/100 right
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I started smoking weed, she started smoking too , then when I used to ask if she smoked, she'd say no
Just my thought a few days ago: I believe my narcissistic boyfriend doesn't even like me, so why does he keep coming back?
But whhhhhyyyyyy ?
I ended with a narcissistic man last may and recently commented on my Instagram and followed me I blocked him again how long will this go on?
It's funny when they think they fumbled you but you're ex still likes you lol an you got more options .....
The ond dumb thing i did whdn i met him was wanting to touch the fire to see how long it take before i get burn i did get addicted to how good he was at keeping my attention but now am 16days no contact
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Yeah first date she said I love you 2 months in bought me a ring and now I’m sad that she left because of my political views and way I dress.
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You dodged a bullet.
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You can't break what God made. He tried though
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