Growing Your Marriage in Times of Stress Part 1 - Milan and Kay Yerkovich
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- Опубликовано: 11 авг 2019
- Stress is a normal part of our everyday lives, but it can also lead to unhealthy attachment styles, based upon how we learned to deal
with stress from our parents. Counselors Milan and Kay Yerkovich review how stress interacts with five basic attachment styles.
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They also explore three common responses to stress - fight, flight, or freeze. Milan and Kay come alongside couples to help them understand how their attachment styles impact how stressful situations can be an opportunity for greater connection with their spouse.
One unspoken (addressed in part), underlying issue is trauma, PTSD survivors entering marriage with their stress chronically at a 9 of 10 due to unresolved issues, and it doesn't take much to get them to a 10 compared to someone who has not encountered these things in their childhood and their coping mechanisms don't have to be as extreme. It takes more than just an awareness to dig deep and pull the old bandaids off and cleanse and start to heal the old wounds so the chronic emotional pain can subside and the "normal" 9 of 10 stress can be lower and give them more emotional resiliency. #SafeToHope
You guys did an amazing job! I learned so much today. Great ministry!
Very helpful information. It’s always needed. Thank you for this
God bless 🙏🏼♥️
Love focus on the family.
Love Kays voice and her message.
Very helpful and eye opening. Thank you!
Stress is a big problem
Stress in my marriage comes from so many areas, I deal with chronic illness 24/7 so it affects everything, I would like to see something done on this. I also deal with trauma from past to present and ptsd. My husband hasn’t had to go thru hard times til he met me 4 yrs ago so there’s a lot of stress on our marriage. We aren’t able to even live together due to my health issues right now. Long story. Mold.
We're so sorry about your struggles, Jodi, and we recognize the impact they're having on your marriage. We have some articles on our website that might be helpful: bit.ly/2Z63tPZ, bit.ly/2YSvyPD, bit.ly/33AnHoN), and we also have counselors who can offer guidance by phone (free of charge). If you'd like to speak with one of them, just give us a call at 800-A-FAMILY (800-232-6459). God bless you, Jodi. You and your husband will be in our prayers.
here's several things for making improvements in your partnership
Try to discuss more
Help each other out more
Start to give and take more
(I learned these and the reasons they work from Pavs partner pundit site )
Thank you for this! I'm learning so much from this couple. My husband and I are leading this study with our small group next month. I know this is going to help each and every one of us.
Question. How to love the protester? How to respond in a loving way when they do that?
Thank you.
This is such a good question, Elia, and we'd love to discuss it with you in further depth. If you like, you can call us at 800-A-FAMILY (800-232-6459) to arrange a callback from one of our counselors (free of charge). They'd be happy to offer some insight and guidance in your specific situation. Thanks so much for your comment. We'll look forward to hearing from you!
Thanks very much for your help
Please can you translate into Arabic
Thanks for asking, friend. Although we aren't able to translate our broadcasts, we do have a website with some excellent content in Arabic: www.focusonthefamily.me. We hope this is helpful. God bless you!