How to Approach Confession According to Bishop Barron and Fr. Mike

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  • Опубликовано: 30 янв 2025

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  • @AscensionPresents
    @AscensionPresents  2 месяца назад +22

    Join Fr. Mike Schmitz this Advent in his new program FACE TO FACE, only available in the Ascension App: link.ascension-app.com/FY7OH8QkSOb

    • @hdskl2150
      @hdskl2150 2 месяца назад

      Did not like your message on the app today. Many people grow up without fathers. You’re out of touch.

    • @nikkif.409
      @nikkif.409 Месяц назад

      Are these interviews on the app? Or is it only these 3 with Bishop Barron, Monsignor, and Sr. Miriam?

  • @Jwelly963
    @Jwelly963 2 месяца назад +250

    As a convert to Catholicism from Protestant, Confession has been my greatest blessing. I have never felt such peace and calm leaving the confessional knowing that I have been forgiven and also have the priest give me advice on how to deal with stubborn sins. God Bless the Catholic Church

    • @RacoonsAreJustForbiddenCats
      @RacoonsAreJustForbiddenCats 2 месяца назад +34

      I’m a Protestant going through RCIA now and I’ve never felt more grace in a church. There is so much beauty in the Catholic (true) church.

    • @retrorenegade1967
      @retrorenegade1967 2 месяца назад +3

    • @Sarahbetho
      @Sarahbetho 2 месяца назад +12

      @@RacoonsAreJustForbiddenCatspraying for you! The best is yet to come! 🥰 from a fellow convert. Bless you

    • @Sarahbetho
      @Sarahbetho 2 месяца назад +14

      As a fellow convert, agreed! I LOVEEE the sacrifice of the Mass and its beauty and that we can celebrate and receive Jesus literally every day except Good Friday throughout the year but there’s something about Reconciliation! I thought through RCIA id dread going but I love it! I love it every single time! It never gets old. It gets maybe scary or even like he said humiliating or whatever, but it’s so incredibly transformative and powerful. Whether it’s just about the humanness of confessing wrongs in our lives but I know something beyond a shadow of a doubt spiritual is happening in that Sacrament. Thank you Jesus for the institution of this Sacrament

    • @empackmanmueller1725
      @empackmanmueller1725 Месяц назад

      Welcome home!

  • @gail4721
    @gail4721 2 месяца назад +156

    Having been away from the church for over 25 years for personal reasons but wanting to come back and didn’t know how, God opened the way for me at the hospital as I was waiting for my husband to come back from surgery. I saw the priest whom I had chatted with a bit about my life and suddenly I found myself asking him if I could go to confession sometime. He answered “How about now”. I had even forgotten how to start. He led me step by step then gave me absolution. It was undoubtedly the happiest moment of my life. Tears of joy still come to my eyes recalling it. ❤Thank you priests for always being available. We need you.

  • @AW-tc4hy
    @AW-tc4hy Месяц назад +73

    I am so happy today. I have finally made the best confession I have ever had. God has forgiven me all the past 38 years of my grave sins. I can finally be at peace and move on with confidence, gratitude and grow in holiness. Thanks be to God. Amen

    • @Donna-cc1kt
      @Donna-cc1kt Месяц назад +3

      Wow. What a glorious blessing. I understand.

  • @judykelly5477
    @judykelly5477 Месяц назад +58

    As a almost 67 year old cradle Catholic who has gone to confession numerous times, it has never crossed my mind that the priest might be nervous or feeling uncomfortable because he doesn’t know what I will be confessing. I have been very blessed especially these past several years with a variety of priests who have heard my confessions. The sacramental graces that flow through them, as vessels of mercy, are profound indeed.

  • @ConvincedofChristianity
    @ConvincedofChristianity 2 месяца назад +87

    "Confession is humiliating." True words, Bishop

  • @donnaostojski5478
    @donnaostojski5478 Месяц назад +26

    This is the third time I'm trying to relate my confession experience. I was plagued by two sins for years. I confessed them regularly. Through the grace of God and many priests I have been freed of these two serious sins. I've got more to go but that liberation is God's gift of grace.
    Don't give up.

  • @davidmorton2780
    @davidmorton2780 Месяц назад +48

    I love these two Priests. They have helped me more than I can say. Watch over these two Priests dear Lord. We need them on this earth.

  • @mariehoheim3207
    @mariehoheim3207 2 месяца назад +22

    My first confession was at age 58 and it is the greatest blessing in life and more healing than years of psychology. God bless you both for saying yes to the priesthood. I never considered how it must be for the priest to hear confessions❤ 🙏🏼😇

  • @sisterveronica3338
    @sisterveronica3338 2 месяца назад +42

    Thank you Bishop Barron, after 52 years in Religious life I still find Confession
    very difficult, yes, I feel great and free afterwards, but it's not easy

    • @AlexanderBrown77
      @AlexanderBrown77 2 месяца назад

      Romans 2 KJV 16 Now to him that is of power to stablish you according to my gospel, and the preaching of Jesus Christ, according to the revelation of the mystery, which was kept secret since the world began,
      1 Corinthians 15 KJV ✝️🩸
      1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
      4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • @anitavaughn1968
    @anitavaughn1968 2 месяца назад +43

    I hate going to confession but it’s a good motivator to not sin. I want to do right before The Lord.

  • @marykopydlowski4654
    @marykopydlowski4654 2 месяца назад +26

    Ive never heard anyone ever say confession was easy. Grace makes it precious and helpful

    • @marykopydlowski4654
      @marykopydlowski4654 2 месяца назад +4

      I received Grace in Confession. My Priest experienced it too. Amazing gift

  • @maggieb5326
    @maggieb5326 Месяц назад +39

    Is there anything more precious and beautiful than a self sacrificing holy priest who takes the sacrament of Confession seriously and generously? Love you guys! ♥️🕊️🙏🏼

    • @smithface8791
      @smithface8791 Месяц назад

      Seriously and generously. I’ve, unfortunately, had two disgusting confessors. One wanted to get out of the confessional five minutes yet to go who told me that he was only going to give me one sin and one sin only. This led me instantaneously to screech to a halt. It bamboozled me and he had to go through a list of sins until I found one to confess. I left the confessional wondering if I had made a good (or maybe real) confession. Many years later, I went to confession in my new parish. I had only just begun, about 20 seconds, when the priest interrupted saying: “Now for your penance say…” I said: “I haven’t finished, Father”. He then showed some irritability. Some months later, he did exactly the same. This time he was shocking, telling me to “hurry up”. I then found I couldn’t get my words out as I’d become perplexed. He then shouted at me: “Look, you’ve even written them down!” Not only did I never go back to him (and thankfully he has been moved) but it has made me nervous, hoping I’ll not get something like that again. He obviously doesn’t respect the Sacrament.

  • @AllToTheGloryOfGod
    @AllToTheGloryOfGod 2 месяца назад +25

    Confession is one of the most beautiful things about Christianity. When I started going more regularly, my life really improved. it is an uncomprehensible grace and just shows how God loves to forgive!

  • @Donna-cc1kt
    @Donna-cc1kt 2 месяца назад +13

    Excellent. When the Bishop talked about the relief when confession is ended I don’t get that elation. Instead I’m humbled!

  • @lawrencesamuel1371
    @lawrencesamuel1371 Месяц назад +2

    Thank God for priests who have said yes to me when I needed to confess my sins.
    Thank you to all you priests who made time for me.
    Thank you Lord Jesus Christ for these priests.
    Bless them and protect them from the evil one.
    Amen .

  • @corinabecerra953
    @corinabecerra953 21 день назад +2

    🙏🏼Always pray for our priests, our church, our leaders 🙏🏼

  • @jacktough
    @jacktough Месяц назад +8

    Really enjoying these dialogues between Bishop Barron and Father Mike. Two thoughtful, communicative men of Faith sharing great wisdom in simple ways. Thank you so much for sharing

  • @nickrugg
    @nickrugg 2 месяца назад +26

    Two of the Lord’s heavyweights!!! ✝️🙏🏻❤️💪🏻

  • @Robert_SM
    @Robert_SM Месяц назад +7

    God bless both of you 🙏 Proud to be a member of the Catholic Church.
    Father Mike "Oh she's cute" 😂

  • @sac1303
    @sac1303 Месяц назад +5

    Appreciate this honest, humble discussion. God bless you both.

  • @mday0423
    @mday0423 2 месяца назад +7

    Two of the heroes given to me by our Lord Jesus. May He always keep you and bless you so that there'd be more people like me you have pulled back to our Lord's church. Your videos are always worth the time and sharing to others. Thank you! Please pray for me and my family. I'm praying for you two always. God Bless! 🙏

  • @TruthWillprevail13
    @TruthWillprevail13 2 месяца назад +15

    Heavenly Father give me your strength being a single mother is one of the most difficult job in the world both have special needs. Please help me. Lord I will lean on you to renew my spirit each and every day give me courage while I struggle to provide for my sons. Every month is a battle to pay my bills. Jesus help me to always put your will first.💕❤️

    • @Yesica1993
      @Yesica1993 6 дней назад

      NOPE! You're not going to use your new screen name to keep on with the same old scam!

  • @Manuwala223
    @Manuwala223 Месяц назад +10

    After confession, i feel like celebrating life😊, filled with peace, joy, and comfort. Thank you, God ❤

  • @CommonSenseChrist
    @CommonSenseChrist Месяц назад +4

    So grateful for these men and out church for reaching out and really evangelizing and educating the world about our amazing Church. God bless their mission. May I be half as good at evangelism in my own life.

    • @imeldaareola3579
      @imeldaareola3579 Месяц назад

      I am always grateful for the opportunity to go to confession and for the priests who absolve my sins in persona Christi! ❤

  • @jordanyeatman4532
    @jordanyeatman4532 Месяц назад +2

    I've just discovered the Ascension app! It has made listening to The Bible in a Year so much easier! Love the fact that I can see how much I've completed everytime I finish listening to an episode. Thank you Father Mike and the Ascension team for all your hard work and dedication. God bless 🙏

  • @DawnLapka-c8i
    @DawnLapka-c8i 2 месяца назад +17

    Every time I have heard this "what if I wake up dead on Christmas" as the primary focus of Advent study, my brain says, "remember the Serenity Prayer," and my heart follows immediately after. Ignatius of Loyola was the Patron for Sister Ignatia, who worked with Bob and Bill as the 3 of them formed AA and the 12 steps for addictions and Al-Anon. My biggest fear, right now is that if God grants a banquet in Heaven, please don't sit me too close to the desserts. Thank you Bishop Barron and Fr. Mike.

    • @AscensionPresents
      @AscensionPresents  2 месяца назад +1

      We hope you'll join us this Advent in the Ascension App to reflect more on this topic! 🙏

    • @DawnLapka-c8i
      @DawnLapka-c8i 2 месяца назад

      @AscensionPresents I don't know how I can afford it, Father Mike. I pay my phone bill, so RUclips and my subscription to various accounts comes with that. I even stopped doing story telling tick-tock videos and dropped myself to a slower phone instead of having those posts as a hobby and community service for homeless shelter people. I just got offered a job internally at our local airport terminal, but I don't know when I start, and it's only part time, because I don't have the financial stability to be dropped from SSDI. Eventually I hope that I will be able to be at my new job full time, so that I can participate in the company 401K and be offered internal health insurance, as well. I still have to go through the badging process. (I got my fingerprints done and all the preliminary background checks plus the background checks from when I operated a shuttle in the parking lot, so that helps) Next week, I get to do the training modules and learn more about the specific details of what my job will entail. I still get to keep working on my CDL certification credentials and building toward a permanent job operating small busses as my work experience and I still get to work on adding some more education as I begin this new job. Just listening to these little snippets and the various podcasts that get uploaded are enough. The speakers and interviews do support my personal growth and my spiritual life. They provide me solid ground for my prayer life and I am very grateful and thankful for Ascension Presents and Word on Fire. The diocese that I belong to subscribes to both of these ministries on behalf of their Catholic population as well as providing their own social media because a number of the seminary students who become interested in helping others and providing Mass do end up going to Duluth and St. Paul and Mundeleine or way out to PA, and beyond. The minor seminary students go to undergraduate school in the "middle of nowhere" SD. (That was said by a seminary student who came to Sioux Falls to the Banquet Downtown to serve a meal with his classmates. It made me laugh, because the seminary really is in the country.) Thank you for the invitation, Father Mike. I really appreciate Ascension Presents ministry.

  • @erlindaestrellado8184
    @erlindaestrellado8184 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank You 🙏 Lord Amen JMJ Amen 🙏 ❤

  • @lilafillmore7437
    @lilafillmore7437 Месяц назад +1

    We have that statue of the Holy Family in our home, in our church and have given it several times as gifts! Love it!

  • @tombrownrigg8794
    @tombrownrigg8794 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you Thank you Thank you

  • @themanhimself5650
    @themanhimself5650 2 месяца назад +1

    Fr. Mike is one of the few who has been able to help me make a better relationship with myself and my lord. I'm greatful God brought me here 🙏 blessings to everyone who finds this video ❤️

  • @justinbrewster4788
    @justinbrewster4788 2 месяца назад +8

    Father. Newly confirmed. Losing a cat. Just watched an old video on "do our pets go to heaven". Thank you soooo much on your insight! I am so glad I returned to Catholic faith from Jehovah's Witness's!

  • @genevieve6122
    @genevieve6122 Месяц назад +1

    Our Priest is the best: he's terrifying but then he doesnt shred you in the confessional

  • @stephenbellbell3925
    @stephenbellbell3925 Месяц назад +4

    Confession is easy when you know what you're doing it for. Reguardless of the sin(s) you've commited. Confess before its too late!

  • @mememaz7310
    @mememaz7310 Месяц назад +3

    I want more of that!!! 👍🙏🙏🙏

  • @AW-tc4hy
    @AW-tc4hy Месяц назад +3

    I am very excited and look forward to make a good confession tomorrow. Please pray for me.

  • @marijo.4694
    @marijo.4694 2 месяца назад +20

    I went years not going and two years ago I made the decision to go at least once a month.
    The first one was tough,but now I feel like I miss, something is missing.
    I never thought about the priests point of view. That's a great perspective.
    I pray we all take time to reconcile this Advent.
    If it's been awhile for you, please know I'm praying for you.

  • @babyshooz
    @babyshooz 2 месяца назад +3

    This is helpful to know that priests also feel nervous to hear confession, as much as I am to give my confession. Also, remembering they are human like we are.
    I was turned off by my most recent confession because the priest lectured me and had such a criticizing tone -

    • @blaiseaimee7098
      @blaiseaimee7098 2 месяца назад +3

      Find another Priest. Don't stop going :)

    • @Vikingstwinsgophers
      @Vikingstwinsgophers 2 месяца назад +2

      It's very nerve-wracking to go. Especially if you have a priest that is not very welcoming.

  • @clarissaviens5778
    @clarissaviens5778 Месяц назад

    Thank you for saying yes! I'm sure it's rough especially when we start crying (which I try and not do, but it still happens)!

  • @not_applicable278
    @not_applicable278 Месяц назад +2

    Confession is such a beautiful and wonderfully freeing gift. If you are afraid or scared of going to Confession, please ask Our Lady of Lourdes and Saint Joseph to give you the courage and the strength to go! Also, it can be helpful to talk to a good priest, friends, and/or family members who are more familiar with this process to help you in going. Hopefully, this will give you the tools you need to make a good examination of conscience and knock your Confession out of the ball park, in a good way!

  • @c181jtd
    @c181jtd Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for this conversation. I confess the same sins repeatedly and I’ve wondered what the priest thinks about this. This does not make it easier to go to confession but I KNOW WHEN I leave the confessional I’m unburdened by the guilt I carry around.

    • @oliverkent8429
      @oliverkent8429 Месяц назад

      Why worry about what the Priest thinks ?

  • @robertahagen6455
    @robertahagen6455 2 месяца назад +3

    I've had 2 experiences with Priests having a temper tantrum at me in the Confessional... these experiences have been a very detrimental effect on my life with Confession and with the Church; praise God that He has influenced me to stay in the Church and realize how many things I have to be thankful for.

    • @JoeyG-o8r
      @JoeyG-o8r 2 месяца назад +3

      I'm sorry to hear that. Glory to God for giving you the grace to stay the course despite the difficulties.

    • @finas.9577
      @finas.9577 2 месяца назад +2

      I’m sorry that you’ve had those experiences but glad to know that these experiences haven’t led you astray. If we can remember that our priests are imperfect beings just like us and our focus is on Jesus always, then we’ll be fine and able to forgive/see past their behavior.

    • @oliverkent8429
      @oliverkent8429 Месяц назад

      Just confess to God not fallen sinful men

    • @JoeyG-o8r
      @JoeyG-o8r Месяц назад +1

      @@oliverkent8429 Seems better to follow what the Bible says (James 5:16) and to confess to a priest; persona Christi.

  • @raymondtalisic8292
    @raymondtalisic8292 Месяц назад +3

    God continues to speak to me thru your videos. Fr. Mike, Fr. Mark Mary, Fr. Columba of Called to More are a great part of my healing journey.

  • @kcarey7454
    @kcarey7454 2 месяца назад +3

    Often I leave confession feeling sad that I have offended my heavenly Father so much… such contrition … it can last for days. Other times I leave confession with such joy.

  • @travessadasenrahousepress
    @travessadasenrahousepress Месяц назад

    So great. Thank you!

  • @marycostello5812
    @marycostello5812 Месяц назад

    Sorry Lord Help me Love you with mind and heart.may l grow spiritually and imitate the kindness of Jesus Mary and Joseph. Thank you that you speak openly and honesty. The grace of. God gives confidence and strength to be His Ambassador ❤

  • @patodwyer721
    @patodwyer721 2 месяца назад +8

    When I go to confession I always feel like I probably forgot something from the past and I never feel like the slate is wiped clean. I confessed everything I could remember from my past and now I can't come up with anything to confess and I'm not saying I'm perfect. I wish I could find one of those Priest who can tell you your sins and then I would feel like the slate is wiped clean.

    • @eliskamichalcova297
      @eliskamichalcova297 2 месяца назад +1

      Have you ever shared this feeling with your confessor or counsellor? I think he would give you an advice how to deal with it. I had a similar problem and I once asked my confessor about it and he helped me a lot. I only regret that I didn't shared this with him sooner.

    • @aireyc
      @aireyc Месяц назад +3

      God cares more about your heart than the technicality of confessing. The important part is you don’t hold anything back and confess what you remember. I always conclude with a “I am sorry for these and all my sins.” As long as you aren’t deliberately withholding a sin, all of your sins are forgiven. You don’t even have to confess venial sins. This is basic Catholic teaching. No need to worry about forgetting. If you ever remember something after the fact, you can always bring it up your next confession.

    • @OliverAlexandre-d9w
      @OliverAlexandre-d9w Месяц назад

      Fear not - we’ve all felt like this…I tried an all-life confession and it worked! My intelligent confessor got the message and told me not to worry about what you can do nothing about!

  • @cathykennedy3851
    @cathykennedy3851 Месяц назад +2

    I am so anxious to go to confession, I have gone in 2 months, I go to mass daily, and always say I’ll go to confession this Saturday and then I end up walking out

  • @blaiseaimee7098
    @blaiseaimee7098 2 месяца назад +8

    What a blessing it would be to go to confession with these Priests! Unfortunately, not all Priests are good at hearing confessions.

  • @bengaltiger8435
    @bengaltiger8435 2 месяца назад +13

    Please pray for me, Fr Mike. I’m 62, an INFJ, and struggling with relationships: family and non-family.
    (I signed up!)
    ~Marie

  • @rebeccajones8610
    @rebeccajones8610 Месяц назад +1

    Confession is not only humiliating its also embarrassing for me. Sets off a sense of Panic even if i Pray to Jesus to forgive me for my sins it causes great anxiety to present it fo a Priest.

  • @AdamBalbo
    @AdamBalbo 14 дней назад

    "There was a line" - good news

  • @MsRocko99
    @MsRocko99 Месяц назад +1

    Agree!
    💯💯💯
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @bretr7327
    @bretr7327 Месяц назад +3

    I always have a knot in my stomach when I go to confession.

  • @mexicangunslinger915
    @mexicangunslinger915 2 месяца назад +45

    I do not know if its okay if to ask for prayer here but my name is Hector if you guys don't mind praying for me

    • @stefanradovic388
      @stefanradovic388 2 месяца назад +7

      I will pray for you, can you please pray for me? God bless you.

    • @LadyAraceliHills
      @LadyAraceliHills 2 месяца назад +4

      Lord, may your will be done for Hector. Amen

    • @lisaoreilly5406
      @lisaoreilly5406 2 месяца назад +4

      Lord please enfold Hector in your love and grace. We ask for all of his financial, emotional, physical and spiritual needs in Jesus most holy and precious name. Amen!

    • @frankk.777
      @frankk.777 2 месяца назад +1

      Hi Hector, I will pray for you!

    • @laurap4384
      @laurap4384 2 месяца назад +1

      Prayers for Hector. May God be with you and walk with you. In Jesus's name, Amen.

  • @3172bees
    @3172bees 2 месяца назад +4

    What a good video that turned out to be. Thanks for that!

  • @queen.in.the.country
    @queen.in.the.country 15 дней назад

    My biggest difficulty with confession is sitting face-to-face with a priest who knows me very well. I volunteer for many church activities/ministries, so I'm known by our parish priest. I fear losing those positions within the church because of my sins. It is said that priests do not remember the sins of those confessing them, but they are human, and it's only natural to be shocked by the sins of a person who should not be committing them. The old "behind the screen" method is not available in our church. If it were, I would be less hesitant to confess my sins.

  • @adamjensen7870
    @adamjensen7870 Месяц назад +2

    The funny thing is, a lot of people have heart attacks and strokes during the holidays. You could very well wake up on Christmas dead. I lost my uncle on Christmas day.

  • @heinoschaapman1584
    @heinoschaapman1584 Месяц назад

    2 huge chads

  • @SolidWorksAcademy01
    @SolidWorksAcademy01 Месяц назад

    🙌 "Such high-quality content! Totally binge-worthy! 🎬⏳ Tune in now!"

  • @BernardK-m8n
    @BernardK-m8n 26 дней назад

    Hector. I would be happy to pray for you! What could we pray for to help you?

  • @herbertkizito6992
    @herbertkizito6992 Месяц назад +1

    Confession, I mean by the authority of an ordained Catholic clergy is the Only way through which sins of men are remitted in order to enter the NEW CONVENANT( Christ's Body and Blood/ Eucharist* / Marriage Supper of the LAMB.

  • @susanrobb3004
    @susanrobb3004 Месяц назад

    Respectfully, Bishop, I am a cradle Catholic and I was one of those terrified children. I felt relief coming out of the confessional, but only relief being out of that little space with that disembodied voice. Ever since you began your catholicism series and RUclips ministry, I have felt a renewed perspective, one of Confession as a source of healing and affirmation. I don’t understand what I’m hearing from you now…” it should be humiliating”? “ don’t make it too easy.”? I don’t know why you’ve changed your view, but it certainly doesn’t encourage one.

    • @PadraigTomas
      @PadraigTomas Месяц назад +1

      It shouldn't be made to be difficult or humiliating, but we should be contrite. _The Catechism of the Catholic Church_ (paragraph 1451) states the following:
      _Among the penitent's acts contrition occupies first place. Contrition is "sorrow of the soul and detestation of the sin committed, together with the resolution not to sin again."_
      The quotation within the paragraph is drawn from the _Roman Catechism_ of Trent.
      During the early days of the Church confession and penance were public. Irish missionaries during the seventh century, inspired by the practice of the Desert Fathers, introduced the practice of private confession and penance, which with the seal of the confessional instituted a fitting mercy.
      The point the fathers are making is not that we should be brought low but that, when we are reluctant and unhappy it is appropriate, and we should confess anyway, because in doing so we hope to grow in sanctity.

    • @caterinadc5567
      @caterinadc5567 Месяц назад +1

      Would it help to reconceptualize the idea of 'humiliation' (in this context) as 'humble-iation'? The words 'humble' and 'humiliation' both come from the same latin root, meaning 'ground'. And where the modern connotation might be slightly different, I think what the good Bishop means is that it's better to feel proper contrition for our sin, than to feel nothing about it and approach confession with a flippant attitude. (I imagine it's a similar thing about how it makes sense that Confession isn't easy; like, we're engaged with our hearts and processing a really deep phenomenon here: the reality of sin, contrition, repentance, forgiveness. Like most authentic experiences, it's got a 'thick' quality to it, not a 'thin', shallow, or easy quality. It's not only touching us at the surface; it's change at the heart level.)
      And honestly for me (as an adult convert who had built up lifetime habits of sin hard to break), I've found even the less pleasant 'humiliation' aspect helpful, exactly because I DON'T like the feeling of humiliation, haha. Insofar as I'd rather not have to tell another person I did something bad, the obligation of Confession is actually helpful incentive to stop doing bad things. Not that a priest has ever _humiliated me_ in the confessional -- they've all been very kind and practical. But you know how it is; in our own minds we feel shame at imagining someone might not see us quite so rosily anymore; very concerned with our own reputations, pride gets involved, and pride is easily humiliated. (Remember that Jesus said that those who sit lowest at the table may be brought higher, but someone who presumes to sit near the head of the table may be moved lower.) But then after Reconciliation of course, we remember and experience how God loves us exactly in the middle of our sinfulness; loves us there so much that He came into it to forgive us, heal us, and lead us out of it. The point of Confession definitely isn't to experience humiliation if by this we mean shame instead of humility, but it's psychologically understandable for a sense of pride brought low (i.e. a humbling process, what one might call a 'humiliating' process) to occur inside us as we make our way to Confession. To admitting how low we dropped. Again, not for the purpose of dwelling down low, but exactly because from that honest place where the humble man sits, God loves to lift us high again.

  • @cmontygman
    @cmontygman Месяц назад +1

    When I was a kid confession was hard, I felt relief and would cry afterwards... Today I feel almost nothing when confessing, I struggle to find peace afterwards and the relief that used to come with it, is there any advice for me?

  • @ccbarr58
    @ccbarr58 2 месяца назад +2

    Priests are so rushed that there is only 15 minutes for confession instead of Saturday's. Worrisome

  • @lifewithadriana3899
    @lifewithadriana3899 2 месяца назад +3

    I am Catholic. I was sadly disappointed when I went to confession after a few years of not going. I was trying to get closer to the church, but I was told I couldn't receive communion because my husband and I were not married in the church. We have been married for 30 years, and I have lived a decent life and brought my children to church. But I was denied receiving the body of Christ just for that reason.
    I don't think I should have to divorce my husband to be good with the church because he doesn't want to get married in the church.
    Am I wrong?

    • @lifewithadriana3899
      @lifewithadriana3899 2 месяца назад

      Instead of feeling closer to God, I felt rejected 😢

    • @bethhauck2701
      @bethhauck2701 2 месяца назад +2

      You do not have to divorce your husband, you have to get married in the Catholic church.

    • @Vikingstwinsgophers
      @Vikingstwinsgophers 2 месяца назад

      Going through the exact same thing right now. I feel very depressed about the entire thing.

  • @TJ1920
    @TJ1920 2 месяца назад +8

    Wake up dead
    Went to confession last Saturday afternoon @St Peters
    Examination of Conscience, it’s never easy bearing your soul to another human being even knowing that there is the seal of the confessional
    Find a RC Priest you feel comfortable with and just let it out psychologically good for you
    God already knows what you are going to say before you say it
    The Priest is in the Person of Christ when he hears confessions
    Persona Christi in Latin
    Same with the changing of bread and wine into to the body. and blood in the person of Christ Persona Christi

  • @IamKrii
    @IamKrii 12 дней назад

    What if I was baptized catholic but never had my first confession or communion? I’m in my 30s now, what do I do?

  • @BernardS4
    @BernardS4 Месяц назад

    This is probably something I should look up ina "how to do a confession" but I will ask here.
    Does a confession ever amount to a discussion with the confessor and even face to face? Is this what is done when you go to a regular confessor where there is a mutual acquaintanceship. .

    • @anitavaughn1968
      @anitavaughn1968 Месяц назад

      Face to face is up to the penitent. The person will go in, tell their mortal sins that they have committed since their last confession of the priest has a question he will ask. The priest will give advice, scripture absolve the sin… give penance (more for the heart)

  • @Yesica1993
    @Yesica1993 6 дней назад

    4:15
    "It's a nervous moment in a way, if someone's coming to confess sin, and and I want to be a vehicle of both God's judgment and God's mercy."
    You are neither.
    1 Timothy 2:2-6
    First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. *For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus*, who gave himself as a ransom for all, which is the testimony given at the proper time.

  • @Ghostwriter-o6c
    @Ghostwriter-o6c 25 дней назад

    Going to confession is never easy!! You don’t have to make it harder.
    I believe Pope Francis exhorted priests to not make confession something like a severe punishment. It’s hard enough to get people to go!!

  • @trishdecresce3952
    @trishdecresce3952 2 месяца назад +1

    What do you do if the priest at my church let it be known he doesn't like confession and keep it around 2 minutes. I don't feel good after confession. I feel worse.

    • @achritam
      @achritam Месяц назад +1

      Isnt there another parish nearby

  • @oliverkent8429
    @oliverkent8429 Месяц назад

    Confess to God directly no intermediary needed

  • @willbranson3216
    @willbranson3216 Месяц назад

    Whatever happened to Barron's 2009 RUclips video agreeing with theologian Hans Urs von Balthasar saying that we have a "reasonable hope all men are saved?" Never could figure out Barron's semantic defense of that assertion? If that were true, why would we need confession at all?

  • @marysisak2359
    @marysisak2359 Месяц назад

    In an interview with Ben Shapiro when asked if Jesus is the only way to salvation, Barron told him that "It is the preferred way." Really? So there are other ways to salvation? Barron also said that "We have good hope that everyone goes to Heaven." Well, not according to Jesus. What about that "narrow gate?"

  • @Charbelo
    @Charbelo 2 месяца назад +4

    This makes me think: maybe Christmas Day is every day.

  • @SomeStuff9
    @SomeStuff9 Месяц назад

    Who does a Bishop have for his Father Confessor? A Priest or a higher office?

  • @davidmoore1370
    @davidmoore1370 2 месяца назад

    Anyone feel like the act of forgiveness is a sacrament?
    Not to belittle confession.
    Perhaps both are required and hard to do.
    Thanks.

  • @laurelhalper3751
    @laurelhalper3751 2 месяца назад +4

    Something continues to bother me. While we are taught that God forgives our sins through the sacrament of Confession, we are also to believe that we still must atone for those sins in Purgatory - so have we truly been forgiven? If that premise is accurate then why do we go to confession?

    • @angelicalee6
      @angelicalee6 2 месяца назад +7

      IMO, Despite our repentance, the evil we brought in caused damage and whilst we stop it, we need to repair it, same like when a wall is hit and there's a hole on it. Same like when our Lord was nailed to the cross, he forgave but it doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Our sins have consequences in our physical reality as well in our spiritual one.

    • @FinishedGameFanatic
      @FinishedGameFanatic 2 месяца назад +4

      Your sins are truly forgiven when you make a good confession. Unfortunately like in the Bible and as you've experienced in real life: Sin has consequences. People youve wronged may still hate you. There is the guilt you feel. And many others. And those consequences don't always just dissappear after you've repented. The Church tries to alleviate some of those consequences via indulgences. If you die without mortal sin but while still 'paying' for the consequences of the sins you committed, Purgatory is a way God uses to fully remit them so that you can enter Heaven. It doesn't purify sins, it purifies you from their consequences.

    • @mattchard3592
      @mattchard3592 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes, when we give a good confession and confess ALL our sins with a FIRM resolve to amend our lives and sin no more, we receive the sanctifying grace to be in God's friendship again. However there is the temporal punishment that all sin has attached to it. Just like a young kid playing baseball, hits the ball and the ball goes threw his neighbors window. The neighbor can forgive the boy for the act of breaking the window, however still expect the boy to pay for the window to be replaced.

    • @about48hotchiks
      @about48hotchiks Месяц назад

      The view of purgatory as a punishment is likely the hang-up here. Look at purgatory differently, like your soul is a cast iron pan. Jesus cleaned it and put oil on it, so you could eat off of it, it’s clean, but it’s better to season the pan in the oven for a short time after cleaning. That’s a stupid analogy I know but it’s all I can come up with rn

    • @wnygal
      @wnygal Месяц назад

      Think of it this way. You and your friends play ball next to your neighbors house, you throw the ball knowing it's wrong because it will likely hit their window but you do it anyway and their window breaks. You are really sorry and apologize to your neighbor who forgives you and says don't play there again. But there is still the broken window. You are forgiven but there is still an atonement for your misdeed, which is replacing the glass. While we must atone for our sins in Purgatory, each year Divine Mercy Sunday is a chance to have that punishment removed.

  • @markcahill1146
    @markcahill1146 2 дня назад

    HAIL HOLY QUEEN. MOTHER OF MERCY. PRAY FOR US SINNERS NOW AND AT THE HOUR OF DEATH AMEN. SAINT MICHAEL THE ARCHANGEL DEFEND US IN BATTLE. BE OUR PROTECTION AGAINST THE WICKEDNESS AND SNARES OF THE DEVIL.

  • @PJSMediaLive
    @PJSMediaLive 28 дней назад

    Humiliation must not be confused with humility. I cannot feel that humiliation is ok. Jesus often said to people take courage your sins are forgiven; and yet they had not said a word. The prodigal son says “I have sinned…” but there he is stopped by his father who is only interested in his return. Without repentance all my confessing of sins is a waste of time, no matter how thorough I am. Emphasise repentance not humiliation.

  • @johnpower-m5o
    @johnpower-m5o Месяц назад

    I don't understand, why would you confess your sins to another human being, when he the priest, most likely has also committed a sin? Surely it is only proper and right to pray to God alone - our creator.

  • @lucystephanieproperties
    @lucystephanieproperties Месяц назад

    Huh... makes me think of something. Is this why priests don't wear their priest clothes when outside of church? So they don't have to take any stranger's confession or whatever?

    • @JamesMathison98
      @JamesMathison98 Месяц назад

      No, generally it is to be a “normal person.” But they shouldn’t do that

  • @javiermoretti1825
    @javiermoretti1825 2 месяца назад +1

    This was informative. I was born and raised Catholic, but had an awakening in college. I learned about the western religious traditions and their origins, and I realized what a farce it all was. I’ve been a happy atheist for 30 years and I’ve raised my kids the same way.

    • @DBossMC
      @DBossMC 2 месяца назад +2

      I’m confused reading this, can you elaborate on finding it informative as an atheist

    • @javiermoretti1825
      @javiermoretti1825 2 месяца назад

      @@DBossMC Informative how little has changed since my days as a Catholic. Still the same old mind-numbing quasi-psychology at work to ensnare people's minds.

  • @HoraktyHeru
    @HoraktyHeru 2 месяца назад

    The last hours for the Church and Christianity to breathe their last breath.😐

  • @burnsy1943
    @burnsy1943 Месяц назад

    Have you never read the Lords Prayer??
    Matthew 6: 9 After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father who art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.
    10 Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so on earth.
    11 Give us this day our daily bread.
    12 And forgive us our sins, as we also have forgiven those who have sined against us
    13 And bring us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.
    14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
    15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
    Who do we confess our sins to????
    Read 1John 2,3. and see again who we confess our sin too! 1 My little children, these things write I unto you that ye may not sin. And if any man sin, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous

  • @markantonelli53
    @markantonelli53 2 месяца назад +2

    I’ve found it too embarrassing to go to confession. I can’t bring myself to go. It probably doesn’t help that God isn’t listening to me anyway

    • @TheAwsome306
      @TheAwsome306 2 месяца назад +2

      God loves you, Mark

    • @MarcosLoweVideos
      @MarcosLoweVideos 2 месяца назад

      The priests have heard it all, they’re not there to condemn, fear not! I do understand the feeling though, but really I think the priests are proud of everyone who does appear , because they know it’s hard! So don’t be embarrassed, realize you’re doing a hard thing and it makes you brave and humble. And God always hears, don’t give up on Him! He hasn’t given up on you
      Praying for you Mark! I share your name but in Spanish, Marcos.

    • @markantonelli53
      @markantonelli53 2 месяца назад

      @ unfortunately that’s not enough to make me want to go to confession

    • @dianeangel7171
      @dianeangel7171 2 месяца назад

      ​@@markantonelli53that is between and God then

    • @markantonelli53
      @markantonelli53 2 месяца назад

      @ do you have a problem with me commenting on this video?

  • @hoovercamaro
    @hoovercamaro Месяц назад

    Jesus Tore the Curtain away, there is a Direct Connection to God Through Christ and the Concept of Telling a priest your sins is LUDICROUS.

    • @Justin-kn6dp
      @Justin-kn6dp Месяц назад

      Jesus taught Confession.

    • @hoovercamaro
      @hoovercamaro Месяц назад

      @Justin-kn6dp Confessing to God Your Sins Was Not First Taught By Jesus

  • @hdskl2150
    @hdskl2150 2 месяца назад

    The app today was so ~~~~ MANY PEOPLE GROW UP WITHOUT THEIR FATHERS that’s why God is so important to them. Your message was really hurtful today. My son felt so empty because of what you said. He otherwise feels loved by God and to hear a priest say he should feel abandoned by a man he never knew is unsensetive and really more importantly unbiblical

    • @v-veritas
      @v-veritas 2 месяца назад

      How would you give advice that was 'biblical' then?

  • @jacktracy8356
    @jacktracy8356 2 месяца назад

    Romans 5:1 KJV "Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with GOD through our LORD JESUS CHRIST:
    8 But GOD commends HIS love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, CHRIST died for us. 9 Much more then, being now justified by HIS blood, we shall be saved from wrath through HIM."

    • @dianeangel7171
      @dianeangel7171 2 месяца назад

      Catholics are not longer lukewarm.

    • @drstewart
      @drstewart 2 месяца назад

      Ol' trolling Jack back at it in the comments of yet another Catholic video. We are saved through Him, but what did He say?
      “Whose sins you shall forgive, they are forgiven; whose sins you shall retain, are retained.” (John 20:23)
      Not "pick up a book and cry and your sins are forgiven."
      Not "Say My name and your sins are forgiven."
      Not "Post in the comments section of every Catholic video to argue and your sins are forgiven." No.
      "Therefore confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man has great power in its effects." (James 5:16)
      So yes, confession of sin is necessary, and to go to those whom God has given the ability to absolve would be the most prudent. Funny how the Sola Scriptura splinter sects stand on one verse and try to make it mean whatever they want while ignoring literally the rest of the Bible.

    • @jacktracy8356
      @jacktracy8356 Месяц назад

      @@drstewart As a King and Priest of the true Church which is spiritual and not a palace in Rome I too, as all true believers, have the authority to inform you that your sins are retained and you even agree with me since you believe you still have unforgiven sin to be forgiven in a mass therefore you cannot even say where you would go if you died right now because of your sin which absolutely denies CHRIST Who gave HIS real body and shed HIS real blood on the cross for the forgiveness of all sins. CHRIST said repent and believe this good news and HE would give you eternal life. YOU deny all of that. That's why you do not know where you are going when you die.

    • @drstewart
      @drstewart Месяц назад

      @@jacktracy8356 Nope. Tremendous word salad though, congrats for that I guess.
      Jesus wasn't speaking to all believers. As such, you have zero authority Jack. Typical fundie though, they think every word of the Bible is literal and to them personally, but the literal parts are just symbols. Utterly laughable.
      You definitely don't know where you're going, trollin' Jack. You believe in Once Saved Always Saved which is utter presumption and pretends that all one has to do is pick up a book and cry once and that's it. No matter what sins they commit (if you even believe that the "saints" are capable of sin lol) they're already forgiven. Of course, you accept Luther's insertion of false doctrine so you'll pretty much believe anything that Pastor Billy tells you.
      But if you were actually the Bible believer you cosplay as, you'd know that when it comes to salvation, it's not one and done. As Paul says our salvation is a continuous process, worked out with fear and trembling. So a genuine Bible believer, which is of course a Catholic, believes that they have been saved (Ephesians 2:5, 8), are being saved (1 Corinthians 3:15, 5:5) (Romans 13:11), and hope to be saved (Philippians 2:12).
      Deal with it Joe Jack Jim Bob. Your faith is based on Luther, mine is based on Jesus and the only Church he gave to the world (Matthew 16:18, 1 Timothy 3:15). You accepted an imitation as genuine.

  • @itsspiritual8645
    @itsspiritual8645 Месяц назад

    Confessing to a, so called, Priest is sin for both persons involved, it eliminates the one and only Father, Son and Holy Spirit from the Process. Matthew 23:9: "And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven"
    2 My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous:
    2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world.
    8 If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
    9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
    1 John 1:8-9 King James Version

  • @biblebill6206
    @biblebill6206 2 месяца назад +1

    Always be dressed in white the bible says . Think about it

  • @margaretwandel5660
    @margaretwandel5660 2 месяца назад

    I do not believe in the Catholic practice of confession. Most Catholics in this age do not go to confession. I find it interesting and puzzling that some people greatly value the practice.

    • @paulapareja3089
      @paulapareja3089 2 месяца назад +4

      Whenever I go to confession, there is always a line of people waiting to go to confession. Even longer during Advent and Lent. I’d have to say that more Catholics attend confession these days then decades past.

    • @margaretwandel5660
      @margaretwandel5660 Месяц назад

      ​@@paulapareja3089The statistics on the use of confession compared to the 1950s and 1960s is way down. I don't recall the actual percent of Catholics that currently go but it is low.

  • @biblebill6206
    @biblebill6206 2 месяца назад

    Not biblical confessing sins to another sinful man as if he was God . See Isa 28 : 7 [Niv] bible

    • @awesoman00
      @awesoman00 29 дней назад +1

      “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” James 5:16

    • @awesoman00
      @awesoman00 29 дней назад +1

      “If you forgive anyone’s sins, their sins are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.” John 20:23

    • @biblebill6206
      @biblebill6206 28 дней назад

      @@awesoman00 Right confess sins to each other that's Christian to Christian is the priest in the confession booth confessing his sins to you ?