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I would like for you spend some of your time and energy on yourself before you wear yourself out. And make sure he pays child support and spousal support. We love you Yumi Auntie Kiki said so. Stay true to yourself
@@onyeenoma This is awful, honestly. I hope somebody outs him so nobody else gets hurt. I'd be against "outing someone" but not taking care of your child[ren] is sickening to me.
Exactly! He should kno better after the time he's been in her life! She uses more energy than she needs to rn & dude just left her in the most critical position! I'd slap the guy myself if i could!
@@1045310453 i agree i've watched her video years ago when she first introduced him on here and he always gave me the creeps and never to me seemed like he was interested in her for her the way he interacted with her was very weird to me it felt like he was always infantilizing her
Have you thought about teaching your native language online? As a language teacher it pays fairly well and you would be able to stay home still and care for your son
Good idea! She could even offer tutoring for people already learning the language who want extra help. Another idea could be offering sewing and alterations online or within her area. That way she could be at home with her son and also manage how many clients she takes on so she can spend as much time with her son as he needs 💕
"That's awful", "I feel bad for her". Honestly, I am glad that they divorced because he was always condescending towards her. In front of the camera, he tried to expose her in a negative way. And always complained about her weight and looks. Also, he always seemed really annoyed. Therefore, I think it's the best for her that they are no longer together, although this is of course a hard time. But in the long term perspective I think this is better.
Yeah I remember when she introduced him dudes a old fart and gave me some weird creep vibes that I thought he seemed to like her looking child like or something, would talk down to her, and act as like a parent of some sort like that. Dudes barely even a man. Bad vibes all around. Hopefully she can get child support from him or at least some money to help her.
It takes a certain kind of man to leave a woman just after she had her child. I always got bad vibes from him but did not want to comment anything since you were happy. You are an incredible strong woman and you will get through this. I think it’s best you keep your child away from him. I still remember that time he told you to lose weight, I was so annoyed 😑
i am so sorry to hear that your marriage did not worked out i hope for the best but now life goes on so be strong and Jehovah will give you strength to mount up like an eagle to support yourself and your son you will find someone more worthy of your love and who will love you and your son stay strong and be blessed 😘🙏🏾❤️
@@xdraygul5169 you people just slander him nonstop with no evidence. then if it comes out you were all completely wrong you’ll look like huge clowned and won’t even apologize or admit you’re wrong.
Yeah, when living in an international dorm, I saw a lot of guys like this who had fetishized Asian women. Idk if this is the case, it may just look that way. I hope she can use this time with her son to heal 💛
I don't wanna be that person, but I'm going to be that person. I have been disgusted by your, soon to be ex, for years. I'm glad you're moving past him. I'm sorry that you have to go through this, you're a sweet person, and a good hearted woman.
I recommend you file for CHILD SUPPORT. The courts will order him to help you pay for you son's needs. You can also apply for government help, I'm not sure what the benefits are called in other countries, but they're known as Wick checks, EBT cards, etc. It'll help with buying food for both you and the baby and certain stores accept EBT cards whether you're buying groceries/cold food or hot food. I do hope your situation gets better and you get the help you need, especially when it comes to making sure your ex husband is doing his part. It takes two to create the baby, you both wanted the baby, so it's only fair that he takes responsibilty for the human being he helped bring into the world.
Yumi I’ve been watching since before there was anyone involved in your life. I watched and kept watching because of who you are. We understand and we are all here to support you. We love you!!
You are not childish.. just creative and cute. That is a cute thing Like your clothes and your style. Being mom as well ☺️❤️✨ Remember, you are so strong ✨❤️
True i learned how to make cosplay costume from Yumi-chan and my niece and other people who wants to have a costume or cosplay they are happy about it. You can do it, your much stronger now unlike before you are a bit shy.
I think many of your followers have been around since the sewing days, if you feel up to it maybe you could make some outfits for yourself and your son to match? Halloween themed sewing? It's nearing the best time of the year to RUclips, maybe you can can some banger videos out to win with the algorithm again and be able support yourself with more stability (patreon is very good too, glad you've started it) ❤️❤️
I'm so sorry Hun. He's disgusting. And I hope karma hits him hard for this. You're a strong and smart woman. You're also a good mum to your baby boy. You will get through this, and you will be stronger for it xx
What happened? I don't want to get into their lives, but since the first time I saw him I didn't trust him, it was weird the fact that she looked so young and still that man looked way older, idk if is the case why they broke up, but still, I hope Yumi is doing better now
it was probably because of the baby, when we have a child everything gets harder, we don't have that much time to take care of the relationship after that, so we ended up drifting apart.
The way you light up when you talk about how big your son is and how smart he is is just the most pure thing I've seen all day. The love is so apparent.
I am sorry to hear this, it really shocked me. This must be very hard, there are a lot of women going through the same thing. You're going to be an inspiration to many women out there to keep moving forward♡
@@ocelot8321 that’s exactly my point you think it isn’t that deep but to people like me it is that deep because I struggle everyday of my life with understanding peoples intentions and social ques so while it may be a comment in passing to you it can be insulting and hurtful to others…be mindful try not to take your privilege of being able to understand situations for granted and be thankful
He always gave me that vibe of being that type of guy who is attracted to young asian women and treated them like kids. I'm so sorry Yumi. You and your son deserves better and we will support you though this. Im sorry I'm in a financial tough spot myself because i would totally help you. I can definitely watch more videos in the future so you can earn more. You got this!!! ❤
Oh my, so sorry to hear this :( I've been following you for like 5 years now, I clearly remember when you just announce your wedding, and time later the notice of your baby. I really hope too you get better through this process, maybe this could sound strange, but since the beginning I didn't trust him, I am really sorry for the situation he put you in, I know you and your baby can be really happy without him.
Chisom Akabogu, an international student from Nigeria raped another student from Trent University. The student attempted suicide, no justice has been served.
You are an incredible mom and a strong and smart woman! You have moved to a new country, learned a new language, built your own RUclips channel, and ran your own small online shop. You will get through this Yumi. Maybe you could do some tailoring on the side, since you're good at sewing ? You could even do that from home !
Oh my goodness Yumi, I’m sorry that you’re going through a divorce. I’m sending you so much love! You are a beautiful, creative, and loving person, your next partner will be super lucky to have you ❤️ Until then, I hope your joyful and sweet son keeps you laughing and being creative. 💕💕💕 This is just the beginning of a new evolution for you, and you may fall in love with the person you will become in the next few years ❤️
3 words (child support, alimony): You are who you've always been and your husband knew what he was getting when he married you. You keep being you!!!! Thats why we love you!!!🥰😍🥰😍🥰
I stopped watching when you started dating him. He seemed toxic from the beginning! I’m glad you’re safe and you still have your youth and sanity. You are brave and hopefully you will be in peace very soon ❤️
Right the relationship just gave me the heebie jeebies. Something just felt so off, I felt nearly physically ill watching the videos where they were together. It felt cultish, almost. I didn't know what it was but seeing this, just proves sometimes the instinct is right.
I’m so sorry. I was a single mom. Divorced when kids 1 and 3. It’s hard. I hope you have family nearby. It helps. Things will get easier. I promise you that. ❤️
Make sure you get that child support, There's no shame in it. Don't let him fool you into thinking you don't need to go court for it either. Get everything written on paper, verbal agreements mean nothing. I hope everything turns out well for you.
Someone commented about you teaching another language to students, you could even work remotely from your home and be with baby! You would be an amazing teacher!
No tienes por qué compartir cómo sucedió, mientras tú estés bien y sigas adelante todo está bien. Te sigo hace tiempo y aunque no es grato escuchar esa noticia, espero pronto te encuentres mejor. 💕✨
Opino lo mismo que vos, y sinceramente me da pena que ella crea que siempre debe mostrar como se ve y como se siente al público cuando quien realmente es ella quien debe ver eso de sí misma. Aunque también le guardo un gran cariño puesto que también la sigo hace tiempo
Siempre es tan positiva ... tan centrada .. pobrecita y los peor que yo al saber como son los padres asiáticos pueden que la estén apoyando pero también le reprocharan que no se casó con alguien de su misma nacionalidad.. el esposo simplemente se veía como esos hombres blancos de tienen fantasías no buenas con asiáticas. :( mucho desgraciado
I don't want to be this person, but I noticed he was absent as soon as the baby was born. Somewhere on a forum someone said he has a history of dating/marrying women from other countries and he has children from those relationships. When I read that I was expecting this video... I'm so sorry, Yumi..
Yumi, I’ve been watching your videos for sometime now. And you have matured so much over the years. I really wish you strength, support, and love throughout the hardship that you’re experiencing. Thank you for sharing your life with us. ❤️ please continue to stay strong, safe, and healthy. I hope this chapter in life will close and your next chapter be filled with success, good health, and filled with love for you and your son.
I know this is hard on you and i wish you only healing, It can and will only get better from here youre such a dedicated mom with a great support group, we are always here to support you!!
Girl don't feel pressured to share the story. People need to respect your privacy. But just know u have a community cheering you on 💕 your a wonderful person and even greater mother
I am so sorry to hear this news. I hate to say this, but I really saw this coming. I do believe that her husband saw her as a little doll that he could control. It was very unusual his fascination for her to be in those little girl clothes. I know it’s a particular fashion, but something just seemed wrong. Now he sees her in a different light because she is a mother and a good one. She is putting her son first and not playing dress up For her husband anymore. It’s obvious that he can’t handle it. I hope that she can afford a good lawyer so that she will be able to have not on the child support but alimony. Praying for the best.
I left supporting the channel before the pregnancy because it no longer felt right. But honestly i saw the title and felt i needed to check on you. Im sorry you are dealing with what you are and I will be actively participating to help the adsense give you more money
I also stopped watching her because her ex always gave me creepy vibes. Like older guy, Asian fetish, attracted to younger looking women vibes. It made me very uncomfortable cause I'm Asian too so I just unsubscribed.
I’ve been watching since I was a little girl and now I’m a junior is high school , we will always be here for u Yumi. You have made me a more confident person who not afraid to express herself. Stay strong we’re here to back u up ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Stay strong, you're a great mom ^u^ I'll support whatever videos you'd like to make. You doing your best and what you like is enough for me. I love your genuine personality and how hard you try. I've been watching your videos ever since you made the 1 yard lolita dresses. You're a great person ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I would definitely be interested in hearing whatever you feel comfortable sharing about the situation. Best wishes, you're doing amazing and I'm so proud of you :)
You're such a great Mom and I hope that you and your son are staying happy and healthy. I've watched your videos since high school, and I can't believe it has been so long. You are very resilient, and a very dedicated person.
Aww I'm sorry you are going through that. Hope things go in your favor. Don't be afraid to ask for help from your parents. Many of my friends have gone through similar and getting help from their parents helped greatly.
the way you smiled when you talked about your son really made me feel warm. im sure you're a great mom. sending you strength to take care of yourself, and your baby!
Been a long time follower and had been a Patreon. Had to stop due to financial stuff, but I can help again, especially since you are in dire need now. I hope that things get better for you and that both you and your son grow to be happy and healthy. You are doing wonderful by him even if it's a very tough time for yourself. You are so very strong. All the good vibes to you both.
Im so sorry to see you go through this. Being a mother is incredibly tough and your work will not go unnoticed. you dont have to share anything you arent comfortable with, alright?
I am so sorry you're going through this. You are a great mom. I've watched you're videos for a very long time and you've always been so positive and strong spirited. Don't lose that.
Hi, Yumi! I'ts been a long time since last time I commented on your videos. I've been following you since long time ago (I was in middle school and now I'm university). I just wanted to tell you that you are such a strong woman, you'll be alright. By the way, I'm so proud of you to put before yourself your son. I'm sure he will grow being a great person. My best whishes for you.
I honestly felt that the relationship was going too fast. But I think your son is a blessing and one of the best things that have happened in your life, it's going to be a difficult process but you are a strong woman and you already graduated from college so you have all the tools to become a great professional.
I see, I'm sorry about your other viewers pushing you to making this video that you weren't felt ready to publicly share. I hope life treats you well in the future, may God bless you and your son 🙏✝️💕
So sorry your going through this I always had a bad feeling about him from all of the videos especially the one where he overreacted about you sitting on his glasses. You are an amazing fantastic youtuber and Mom, maybe you should do some more vlogs, talk about parenting on RUclips maybe even release merchandise. I know its going to be difficult because your rasing you son and trying to work at the same time, I hope your Ex husband helps supporting your son and taking chances on looking after him while your working. Love you from England
That's awful yumi. Honestly, your husband looked so pushy towards you with your emotions in like one vacation video I remember. I remember thinking to myself what the hell is this guy's problem? The point is he seemed really condescending towards you.
Thank you for every video you upload, even during the hard times. Almost every other comment has said it, so this is another one: Yumi, you're amazing and I wish you the best! You see, life brings gifts in many disguises, life can seem difficult, but we just have to go through it... and now you're doing it with a smile and the smile of your son accompanying you, that's the most admirable thing.
I've followed you for a few years, I remember you introducing him as a boyfriend. I'm so proud of how well you're doing without him, how well you're doing for your son. You've grown up so much. I know it's painful, but it's definitely something to celebrate.
i love you yumi! i remember watching you when i was a kid & it was so much fun to see you create awesome things!! you are so sweet & you speak so gently. i bet you’re an awesome mother! proud of you for prioritizing your son over everything else. he will be so thankful for your hard work. you’re a beautiful person. ❤️
Yumi, I have been following you since your sewing video days where you wouldn't speak yet, then throughout the various stages of your life leading to now. I've enjoyed seeing you grow here, becoming more comfortable making videos and your journey to pregnancy. I wish the best for you. If he wasn't right for you and your son, I am glad you are able to separate from him instead of suffer in silence. I'm sorry you ended up in this situation. We support you in everything that you do, Yumi! Your son has a wonderful mother who is very passionate about raising him, and you should be proud of yourself and your healthy baby boy. :)
More power to you. Based on some of the videos on your channel, he didn't seem to be treating you very well, so I am glad you got out of that situation.
I saw this coming the minute he yelled at you for sitting on the glasses. I'm just sad for your son. But all will turn out well. I'm glad you made this decision, no man should treat you wrongly.
Tbh the dude reminded me so badly of my ex that it gave me anxiety to the point I stopped watching for over a year and a half now,I'm so happy she's gotten away from him,and I'm so proud of her.go after that child support,if you need an affordable lawyer I have a few numbers or you can go to legal aid if you are in America or canada
So so sorry to hear that you've been going through such a tough time. I hope your RUclips and shop go well. Love hearing you talk about your son as well, you obviously love him a lot and you both deserve the world
Hi, get help from Dr Steve to bring your ex back and attract your (SP) someone you love to you, you might have try others Spellcasters and they disappoint you, but I can assure you 100% and also staking my life on it that Dr Steve can help you and make your ex beg you for a second chance because he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. I will advise you seek his help now thanks.
I’m sorry this is happening to you :( It can be hard to be a single mother especially in this expensive world. I don’t mean to overstep because I don’t know the details of why you split but you and your son’s happiness is most important so it’s for the best. Wishing you lots of success in life Yumi! 💗
We are sorry that you’re going through this tough time , but I’m glad that you still are trying to stay strong . Wish you and your son all the best of health and happiness during this pandemic . Love and support you , your family , & your channel always ! ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Hi yumi I've grew up watching ur videos since ur cosplay and lolita sewing era back in 2014, You are a great role model and mother, I will still and always support you. You and ur child literally deserve the world, Ik its a tough time rn, but every little thing will be worth it. I hope everything gets better soon !!
I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this Yumi. 😔 If you make content around being a single mother, a day in your life, and what you do to ensure your son is growing happy and healthy I'm sure tons of people will continue to support you and would love to see it.
You are really strong, you can do this but also regardless of things ended between the two of you, he should be helping support the child. It's also his responsibility after all.
Yumi, you did the right thing, even though it's really hard at first.. I know you'll feel better with time.. I watch you channel since your sewing tutorials days and hope u the best
Yumi, I honestly haven’t watched you in a long time but you appeared on my feed again and I’m glad you did. You are an AMAZING and strong woman. You are SO beautiful and deserve the world. Also, your English has gotten so, so good!! I hope that life treats you so good now that you’ve got that negative energy out of your life and positive energy in it. You’re gonna do great raising your child. Much love ❤️
We are here for you Yumi! You are the woman with a capital w. Everything gonna be okay soon and your baby is the luckiest child in the world to have a mother like you. Just like we're lucky to know you and be able to help you.
This is heartbreaking to hear that you are going through this. I am going to set a reminder for myself to donate to you on my next payday. You are so strong! If you ever open your Etsy shop again I would be very interested in purchasing some of your pieces or ordering a commission. I love all of your DIY lolita dresses and accessories. If this is something that would be possible work for you to do from home I would be your first customer and spread the word about your brand to all of my lolita and alt fashion friends! 💝💝 You are an amazing person and we are all rooting for you and wanting to support you however we can!!
All of your subscribers love you, we support you and we wish you the best. You’re a lovely young lady and a wonderful mother and you’ll get through any hardships life may send your way with your baby boy by your side. 👼🏼💙
I’m so sorry this happened to you :( and can completely support and understand what it’s like to have adjust to the world of having a one year old. You’ll be an amazing mum.
Well congratulations/sorry for your divorce. You and your son deserve the best and I hope you find stability very soon. I'll continue to support you!❤️
I was a single mom too, zero support. My daughter is now 22 and awesome. It’s going to be hard but worth it, and when they are grown you can look back and just be so amazed how different your life was. You got this.
Finally, I'm so glad you are getting away from him. You are too strong and beautiful to deal with his crap. You deserve so much more than that "full grown child man". You Deserve You!
Ive been watching your videos for years and years, and from the first video he was ever in; I got a weird vibe. I'm honestly not surprised and I feel terrible for that. I'm so sorry this has happened Yumi, but please remember you have such a wonderful and supportive community behind you. You are a fantastic mother, and such a beautiful, strong woman; you've got this -- and the moment you don't think you do, we're all here for you. We love you Yumi. ♡
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I would like for you spend some of your time and energy on yourself before you wear yourself out. And make sure he pays child support and spousal support. We love you Yumi Auntie Kiki said so. Stay true to yourself
Sending you prayers. Sorry you are going through this.
I'm so sorry about that yumi but he should be paying child support. You will find someone who loves and supports you😊❤️
@Tami Conley even if he is, it’s a very small amount of $.
@@aobasasaki181 even if he is, it’s not much.
So he WAS A CREEP all along. As soon as you became a mom, a capable mom, he felt the turn off. He is off to other young looking women to use.
This, and it's really disgusting!
@@onyeenoma Yumi openly shared that info? Damn
@@onyeenoma This is awful, honestly. I hope somebody outs him so nobody else gets hurt. I'd be against "outing someone" but not taking care of your child[ren] is sickening to me.
@@ClulssCrs3310 his ex wife came forward and showed receipts
@@onyeenoma how do you know? Was the first wife that young?
I’m sorry, but he definitely should be supporting you especially after giving birth to his son.
Exactly! He should kno better after the time he's been in her life! She uses more energy than she needs to rn & dude just left her in the most critical position!
I'd slap the guy myself if i could!
Her exhusband divorced his own children from his previous marriage. he is not a good man
i believe only wanted her as lolita girl now he will go looking for other you'll see hes a prick
@@1045310453 i agree i've watched her video years ago when she first introduced him on here and he always gave me the creeps and never to me seemed like he was interested in her for her the way he interacted with her was very weird to me it felt like he was always infantilizing her
i dont think a man like this should be around children anyways I hope nothing but the best for her and her son
Have you thought about teaching your native language online? As a language teacher it pays fairly well and you would be able to stay home still and care for your son
Such a good idea. ♥️
Omg that's a great idea!!
Good idea! She could even offer tutoring for people already learning the language who want extra help. Another idea could be offering sewing and alterations online or within her area. That way she could be at home with her son and also manage how many clients she takes on so she can spend as much time with her son as he needs 💕
I'm currently taking a course to get a TEFL certificate to teach english online, I hope it pays enough to survive on!
Omg this is a wonderful idea!!! I really hope she sees this!
"That's awful", "I feel bad for her". Honestly, I am glad that they divorced because he was always condescending towards her. In front of the camera, he tried to expose her in a negative way. And always complained about her weight and looks. Also, he always seemed really annoyed. Therefore, I think it's the best for her that they are no longer together, although this is of course a hard time. But in the long term perspective I think this is better.
What did he say about her weight and looks? She looks perfect I think...
Yes but he still left her with their son...
@@kitty1256x I'll never forget when he said she could lose more weight and she was already so small. That was 2 years ago.
Yeah I remember when she introduced him dudes a old fart and gave me some weird creep vibes that I thought he seemed to like her looking child like or something, would talk down to her, and act as like a parent of some sort like that. Dudes barely even a man. Bad vibes all around. Hopefully she can get child support from him or at least some money to help her.
Her ex is the perfect example of why you don't give a dusty a chance
It takes a certain kind of man to leave a woman just after she had her child. I always got bad vibes from him but did not want to comment anything since you were happy. You are an incredible strong woman and you will get through this. I think it’s best you keep your child away from him. I still remember that time he told you to lose weight, I was so annoyed 😑
i am so sorry to hear that your marriage did not worked out i hope for the best but now life goes on so be strong and Jehovah will give you strength to mount up like an eagle to support yourself and your son you will find someone more worthy of your love and who will love you and your son stay strong and be blessed 😘🙏🏾❤️
@@xdraygul5169 you people just slander him nonstop with no evidence. then if it comes out you were all completely wrong you’ll look like huge clowned and won’t even apologize or admit you’re wrong.
It's not right for a man to leave you with a young child to care for yourself. Make sure you get him to pay that child support
i believe only wanted her as lolita girl now he will go looking for other you'll see hes a prick
@@soniastewart4972 when was this mentioned?
@@soniastewart4972 spill the tea!
@@1045310453 Her style completely changes after she had the baby.
i agree
I was afraid this would happen but I know you're a strong woman and you can get through this 💕
i believe only wanted her as lolita girl now he will go looking for other you'll see hes a prick
Yeah, when living in an international dorm, I saw a lot of guys like this who had fetishized Asian women. Idk if this is the case, it may just look that way. I hope she can use this time with her son to heal 💛
@@iluvbears4861 it’s true
I always had not the right vibes from him did not know why.. but i never wrote it online. In ghe end its not our business
@@iluvbears4861 I thought the same actually
I don't wanna be that person, but I'm going to be that person. I have been disgusted by your, soon to be ex, for years. I'm glad you're moving past him. I'm sorry that you have to go through this, you're a sweet person, and a good hearted woman.
Yesss. So many of us had a bad feeling about him. Crazy how she didn't see that but glad she sees it now!
@@brokenbylana it's not her fault to not see his behavior especially if a grown man should be aware of his behavior
Wow, going through a divorce that soon after giving birth takes a lot of strength, Your son is lucky to have a mom that cares for him so much!
I recommend you file for CHILD SUPPORT. The courts will order him to help you pay for you son's needs. You can also apply for government help, I'm not sure what the benefits are called in other countries, but they're known as Wick checks, EBT cards, etc. It'll help with buying food for both you and the baby and certain stores accept EBT cards whether you're buying groceries/cold food or hot food. I do hope your situation gets better and you get the help you need, especially when it comes to making sure your ex husband is doing his part. It takes two to create the baby, you both wanted the baby, so it's only fair that he takes responsibilty for the human being he helped bring into the world.
Honestly you do what’s best for you. You deserve better as a mommy.
Stay strong, Yumi😭💕 We're all here for you!
Xiao 🥺 ily
i member you and your annoying voice
@you cannot be serious xoxo
Asian girls really love white men, lol
Yumi I’ve been watching since before there was anyone involved in your life. I watched and kept watching because of who you are. We understand and we are all here to support you. We love you!!
Same! I knew that only she could judge her relationship and if he really wasn't good for her, she'd leave.
Same. She is an absolute sweetheart.
You are not childish.. just creative and cute. That is a cute thing Like your clothes and your style. Being mom as well ☺️❤️✨
Remember, you are so strong ✨❤️
Yes exactly xx
@Susel THANK YOUUU
True i learned how to make cosplay costume from Yumi-chan and my niece and other people who wants to have a costume or cosplay they are happy about it. You can do it, your much stronger now unlike before you are a bit shy.
I think many of your followers have been around since the sewing days, if you feel up to it maybe you could make some outfits for yourself and your son to match? Halloween themed sewing? It's nearing the best time of the year to RUclips, maybe you can can some banger videos out to win with the algorithm again and be able support yourself with more stability (patreon is very good too, glad you've started it) ❤️❤️
This is a super great idea!
Matched witch/wizard hats would be really cool!!
Right and for people who cant afford the dress to have a few patterns to buy ( ones she doesn't use to make hers) double choices more income !
@@christlawillis967 agreed this a great idea!
I'm so sorry Hun. He's disgusting. And I hope karma hits him hard for this.
You're a strong and smart woman. You're also a good mum to your baby boy.
You will get through this, and you will be stronger for it xx
What happened? I don't want to get into their lives, but since the first time I saw him I didn't trust him, it was weird the fact that she looked so young and still that man looked way older, idk if is the case why they broke up, but still, I hope Yumi is doing better now
We don’t know the story it’s better to not judge it’s sad for both people tbh
@@lalalaacc5020 exactly!! Only them knows what happens in his lives
it was probably because of the baby, when we have a child everything gets harder, we don't have that much time to take care of the relationship after that, so we ended up drifting apart.
It's better not to judge a situation we don't know
I feel so bad for her but shes truly so positive even through her darkest days! I pray you can keep thriving!
The way you light up when you talk about how big your son is and how smart he is is just the most pure thing I've seen all day. The love is so apparent.
I am sorry to hear this, it really shocked me. This must be very hard, there are a lot of women going through the same thing. You're going to be an inspiration to many women out there to keep moving forward♡
really? this shocked you? really?
@@ocelot8321 not everyone can read social ques…I’m autistic and I can’t I find it hard to see people’s intentions please be mindful before judging 💕
@@heatherb3785 its not that deep girl
@@ocelot8321 yes it did, chill man
@@ocelot8321 that’s exactly my point you think it isn’t that deep but to people like me it is that deep because I struggle everyday of my life with understanding peoples intentions and social ques so while it may be a comment in passing to you it can be insulting and hurtful to others…be mindful try not to take your privilege of being able to understand situations for granted and be thankful
He always gave me that vibe of being that type of guy who is attracted to young asian women and treated them like kids. I'm so sorry Yumi. You and your son deserves better and we will support you though this. Im sorry I'm in a financial tough spot myself because i would totally help you. I can definitely watch more videos in the future so you can earn more. You got this!!! ❤
I’m so sorry you’re going through this you’re a amazing person and you will find someone who will worship you
I AM SO SORRY ! HE SHOULD PAY CHILD SUPPORT ! PERHAPS YOU AND YOUR SON CAN LIVE WITH YOUR PARENTS ! ❤
Oh my, so sorry to hear this :( I've been following you for like 5 years now, I clearly remember when you just announce your wedding, and time later the notice of your baby. I really hope too you get better through this process, maybe this could sound strange, but since the beginning I didn't trust him, I am really sorry for the situation he put you in, I know you and your baby can be really happy without him.
I agree. I know no one wants to start drama (me neither) but I gotta say that he always looked fishy to me.
Omggg same. I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt that. I don't like him from the very start
Chisom Akabogu, an international student from Nigeria raped another student from Trent University. The student attempted suicide, no justice has been served.
Wow, it's been that long? I feel so old. It's my birthday.... everything is making me feel old.... 😰
You are an incredible mom and a strong and smart woman! You have moved to a new country, learned a new language, built your own RUclips channel, and ran your own small online shop. You will get through this Yumi. Maybe you could do some tailoring on the side, since you're good at sewing ? You could even do that from home !
Oh my goodness Yumi, I’m sorry that you’re going through a divorce. I’m sending you so much love! You are a beautiful, creative, and loving person, your next partner will be super lucky to have you ❤️ Until then, I hope your joyful and sweet son keeps you laughing and being creative. 💕💕💕 This is just the beginning of a new evolution for you, and you may fall in love with the person you will become in the next few years ❤️
3 words (child support, alimony): You are who you've always been and your husband knew what he was getting when he married you. You keep being you!!!! Thats why we love you!!!🥰😍🥰😍🥰
I stopped watching when you started dating him. He seemed toxic from the beginning! I’m glad you’re safe and you still have your youth and sanity. You are brave and hopefully you will be in peace very soon ❤️
Me TOO
same :[
Same here 😕
So you just stopped supporting her main source of income? not ever video had him in it... you could have still clicked on those ones...
Right the relationship just gave me the heebie jeebies. Something just felt so off, I felt nearly physically ill watching the videos where they were together. It felt cultish, almost. I didn't know what it was but seeing this, just proves sometimes the instinct is right.
I’m so sorry. I was a single mom. Divorced when kids 1 and 3. It’s hard. I hope you have family nearby. It helps. Things will get easier. I promise you that. ❤️
Make sure you get that child support, There's no shame in it. Don't let him fool you into thinking you don't need to go court for it either. Get everything written on paper, verbal agreements mean nothing. I hope everything turns out well for you.
This. Don't let him control you any longer.
That old hag don’t deserve you ! You are so wonderful , and a great mother ! You can do it YUMI 💪💪💕
Took the words right out of my mouth 😊
He looks so old for his age, too.
Someone commented about you teaching another language to students, you could even work remotely from your home and be with baby! You would be an amazing teacher!
I would take chinese Classes with you.
No tienes por qué compartir cómo sucedió, mientras tú estés bien y sigas adelante todo está bien. Te sigo hace tiempo y aunque no es grato escuchar esa noticia, espero pronto te encuentres mejor. 💕✨
Opino lo mismo que vos, y sinceramente me da pena que ella crea que siempre debe mostrar como se ve y como se siente al público cuando quien realmente es ella quien debe ver eso de sí misma. Aunque también le guardo un gran cariño puesto que también la sigo hace tiempo
@@denisearmy903 yo si quiero todo el chismeeeee
Siempre es tan positiva ... tan centrada .. pobrecita y los peor que yo al saber como son los padres asiáticos pueden que la estén apoyando pero también le reprocharan que no se casó con alguien de su misma nacionalidad.. el esposo simplemente se veía como esos hombres blancos de tienen fantasías no buenas con asiáticas. :( mucho desgraciado
Da mucha pena:( espero pueda salir bien
@@denisearmy903 me traduces ?🥺
I don't want to be this person, but I noticed he was absent as soon as the baby was born. Somewhere on a forum someone said he has a history of dating/marrying women from other countries and he has children from those relationships.
When I read that I was expecting this video...
I'm so sorry, Yumi..
how do we know that they didn't just make that up?
Yeah I read the same thing too! He did the same with another woman before Yumi leaving her with kids too.
Yumi, I’ve been watching your videos for sometime now. And you have matured so much over the years. I really wish you strength, support, and love throughout the hardship that you’re experiencing. Thank you for sharing your life with us. ❤️ please continue to stay strong, safe, and healthy. I hope this chapter in life will close and your next chapter be filled with success, good health, and filled with love for you and your son.
Hey, I hope everything is going alright. I'm sorry you have to go through this. I pray everything goes well.
I know this is hard on you and i wish you only healing, It can and will only get better from here youre such a dedicated mom with a great support group, we are always here to support you!!
I wish you the best of luck Yumi. I've been watching you for years and I know you'll be able to get through these hard times. ❤
I think he liked you when you looked like a kid, now he doesn’t because you are a mother. I always felt weird about that guy.
Girl don't feel pressured to share the story. People need to respect your privacy. But just know u have a community cheering you on 💕 your a wonderful person and even greater mother
EXACTLY
I am so sorry to hear this news. I hate to say this, but I really saw this coming. I do believe that her husband saw her as a little doll that he could control. It was very unusual his fascination for her to be in those little girl clothes. I know it’s a particular fashion, but something just seemed wrong. Now he sees her in a different light because she is a mother and a good one. She is putting her son first and not playing dress up For her husband anymore. It’s obvious that he can’t handle it. I hope that she can afford a good lawyer so that she will be able to have not on the child support but alimony. Praying for the best.
I left supporting the channel before the pregnancy because it no longer felt right. But honestly i saw the title and felt i needed to check on you. Im sorry you are dealing with what you are and I will be actively participating to help the adsense give you more money
I also stopped watching her because her ex always gave me creepy vibes. Like older guy, Asian fetish, attracted to younger looking women vibes. It made me very uncomfortable cause I'm Asian too so I just unsubscribed.
I’ve been watching since I was a little girl and now I’m a junior is high school , we will always be here for u Yumi. You have made me a more confident person who not afraid to express herself. Stay strong we’re here to back u up ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Omg me too ‼️😭
same it’s been amazing to watch her grow into a strong young woman
Stay strong, you're a great mom ^u^ I'll support whatever videos you'd like to make. You doing your best and what you like is enough for me. I love your genuine personality and how hard you try. I've been watching your videos ever since you made the 1 yard lolita dresses. You're a great person ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I would definitely be interested in hearing whatever you feel comfortable sharing about the situation. Best wishes, you're doing amazing and I'm so proud of you :)
crazy to see this, i’ve been following your chanel since the beginning and it’s absolutely heartbreaking to see this
You're such a great Mom and I hope that you and your son are staying happy and healthy. I've watched your videos since high school, and I can't believe it has been so long. You are very resilient, and a very dedicated person.
Aww I'm sorry you are going through that.
Hope things go in your favor.
Don't be afraid to ask for help from your parents. Many of my friends have gone through similar and getting help from their parents helped greatly.
the way you smiled when you talked about your son really made me feel warm. im sure you're a great mom. sending you strength to take care of yourself, and your baby!
Been a long time follower and had been a Patreon. Had to stop due to financial stuff, but I can help again, especially since you are in dire need now.
I hope that things get better for you and that both you and your son grow to be happy and healthy. You are doing wonderful by him even if it's a very tough time for yourself. You are so very strong. All the good vibes to you both.
Im so sorry to see you go through this. Being a mother is incredibly tough and your work will not go unnoticed. you dont have to share anything you arent comfortable with, alright?
I am so sorry you're going through this. You are a great mom. I've watched you're videos for a very long time and you've always been so positive and strong spirited. Don't lose that.
Hi, Yumi! I'ts been a long time since last time I commented on your videos. I've been following you since long time ago (I was in middle school and now I'm university). I just wanted to tell you that you are such a strong woman, you'll be alright.
By the way, I'm so proud of you to put before yourself your son. I'm sure he will grow being a great person. My best whishes for you.
You are strong Yumi, you are not alone!! We support you!!
I honestly felt that the relationship was going too fast. But I think your son is a blessing and one of the best things that have happened in your life, it's going to be a difficult process but you are a strong woman and you already graduated from college so you have all the tools to become a great professional.
I see, I'm sorry about your other viewers pushing you to making this video that you weren't felt ready to publicly share. I hope life treats you well in the future, may God bless you and your son 🙏✝️💕
So sorry your going through this I always had a bad feeling about him from all of the videos especially the one where he overreacted about you sitting on his glasses. You are an amazing fantastic youtuber and Mom, maybe you should do some more vlogs, talk about parenting on RUclips maybe even release merchandise. I know its going to be difficult because your rasing you son and trying to work at the same time, I hope your Ex husband helps supporting your son and taking chances on looking after him while your working. Love you from England
Wich video was that? I felt bad about this man too he was so pushy...
That's awful yumi. Honestly, your husband looked so pushy towards you with your emotions in like one vacation video I remember. I remember thinking to myself what the hell is this guy's problem? The point is he seemed really condescending towards you.
Which video
@@thiccredgyal3404 ruclips.net/video/qtFVtgbWjSM/видео.html
Keep your head up Yumi. Life will get better and your heart will heal. Sending lots of love and support to you and your son. 💞
You better get half he owns girl! And get that child support 🔥
As an avid watcher of you that man is a creep. the way he talks about your weight and looks/etc. he seems insincere. Good luck to you and bless you
Very very sorry to hear this but I'm happy to see you being such a great mom
Thank you for every video you upload, even during the hard times. Almost every other comment has said it, so this is another one: Yumi, you're amazing and I wish you the best!
You see, life brings gifts in many disguises, life can seem difficult, but we just have to go through it... and now you're doing it with a smile and the smile of your son accompanying you, that's the most admirable thing.
Oh no. I'm so sorry to hear that. We're here for support.💙
I've followed you for a few years, I remember you introducing him as a boyfriend. I'm so proud of how well you're doing without him, how well you're doing for your son. You've grown up so much. I know it's painful, but it's definitely something to celebrate.
It's okay Yumi I know your son is growing fast And yes, You can be a single mom of you want it is up to you Yumi!
i love you yumi! i remember watching you when i was a kid & it was so much fun to see you create awesome things!! you are so sweet & you speak so gently. i bet you’re an awesome mother! proud of you for prioritizing your son over everything else. he will be so thankful for your hard work. you’re a beautiful person. ❤️
You're such a good mom 🥺😭 I really hope things go well for you, you deserve a beautiful and peaceful life
Yumi, I have been following you since your sewing video days where you wouldn't speak yet, then throughout the various stages of your life leading to now. I've enjoyed seeing you grow here, becoming more comfortable making videos and your journey to pregnancy. I wish the best for you. If he wasn't right for you and your son, I am glad you are able to separate from him instead of suffer in silence. I'm sorry you ended up in this situation. We support you in everything that you do, Yumi! Your son has a wonderful mother who is very passionate about raising him, and you should be proud of yourself and your healthy baby boy. :)
More power to you. Based on some of the videos on your channel, he didn't seem to be treating you very well, so I am glad you got out of that situation.
I saw this coming the minute he yelled at you for sitting on the glasses. I'm just sad for your son. But all will turn out well. I'm glad you made this decision, no man should treat you wrongly.
i know you’re gonna be an amazing mother ❤️. i wish you the best and i hope you and your son are doing well. love you and stay safe ❤️❤️
Tbh the dude reminded me so badly of my ex that it gave me anxiety to the point I stopped watching for over a year and a half now,I'm so happy she's gotten away from him,and I'm so proud of her.go after that child support,if you need an affordable lawyer I have a few numbers or you can go to legal aid if you are in America or canada
Yumi I don’t know what you’re going through but I can tell you’ll get through it and you are an amazing mother!
I'm sorry to hear what you're going through 😭 And yes your son is the most important. You're a strong mama! Fighting!
So so sorry to hear that you've been going through such a tough time. I hope your RUclips and shop go well. Love hearing you talk about your son as well, you obviously love him a lot and you both deserve the world
Hi, get help from Dr Steve to bring your ex back and attract your (SP) someone you love to you, you might have try others Spellcasters and they disappoint you, but I can assure you 100% and also staking my life on it that Dr Steve can help you and make your ex beg you for a second chance because he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. I will advise you seek his help now thanks.
Message him on Whatsapp
I’m sorry this is happening to you :( It can be hard to be a single mother especially in this expensive world. I don’t mean to overstep because I don’t know the details of why you split but you and your son’s happiness is most important so it’s for the best. Wishing you lots of success in life Yumi! 💗
I’m so sorry you’re going through this, better days are coming! enjoy your time with your baby!!💖
We are sorry that you’re going through this tough time , but I’m glad that you still are trying to stay strong . Wish you and your son all the best of health and happiness during this pandemic . Love and support you , your family , & your channel always ! ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Thanks for opening up Yumi. You are a wonderful human being.
Hi yumi I've grew up watching ur videos since ur cosplay and lolita sewing era back in 2014, You are a great role model and mother, I will still and always support you. You and ur child literally deserve the world, Ik its a tough time rn, but every little thing will be worth it. I hope everything gets better soon !!
I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this Yumi. 😔
If you make content around being a single mother, a day in your life, and what you do to ensure your son is growing happy and healthy I'm sure tons of people will continue to support you and would love to see it.
Stay strong Yumi! You deserve better. Your followers are here for you. Stay amazing! Your son will love you more and more for it.
I’m sorry for your recent struggles. I hope you and your son do well. You’re a good mom.
You are really strong, you can do this but also regardless of things ended between the two of you, he should be helping support the child. It's also his responsibility after all.
Yumi, you did the right thing, even though it's really hard at first.. I know you'll feel better with time.. I watch you channel since your sewing tutorials days and hope u the best
im literally in tears. you dont deserve to go through this. im so sorry ill be praying for you guys.
Yumi, I honestly haven’t watched you in a long time but you appeared on my feed again and I’m glad you did. You are an AMAZING and strong woman. You are SO beautiful and deserve the world. Also, your English has gotten so, so good!! I hope that life treats you so good now that you’ve got that negative energy out of your life and positive energy in it. You’re gonna do great raising your child. Much love ❤️
Yumi I'm so sorry about this, but we know that you can overcome this situation. My best wishes for you and your beautiful son, God bless you 💕✨
We are here for you Yumi!
You are the woman with a capital w. Everything gonna be okay soon and your baby is the luckiest child in the world to have a mother like you.
Just like we're lucky to know you and be able to help you.
This is heartbreaking to hear that you are going through this. I am going to set a reminder for myself to donate to you on my next payday. You are so strong! If you ever open your Etsy shop again I would be very interested in purchasing some of your pieces or ordering a commission. I love all of your DIY lolita dresses and accessories. If this is something that would be possible work for you to do from home I would be your first customer and spread the word about your brand to all of my lolita and alt fashion friends! 💝💝 You are an amazing person and we are all rooting for you and wanting to support you however we can!!
I'm sorry Yumi. I pray for nothing but blessings for you and your baby. Much love from Las Vegas 🖤
All of your subscribers love you, we support you and we wish you the best. You’re a lovely young lady and a wonderful mother and you’ll get through any hardships life may send your way with your baby boy by your side. 👼🏼💙
I’m so sorry this happened to you :( and can completely support and understand what it’s like to have adjust to the world of having a one year old. You’ll be an amazing mum.
I hope you and baby are OK. We are all here for your support
I've seen you grown so much, sending you love, supporting you since I was in Junior High.
Well congratulations/sorry for your divorce. You and your son deserve the best and I hope you find stability very soon. I'll continue to support you!❤️
I was a single mom too, zero support. My daughter is now 22 and awesome. It’s going to be hard but worth it, and when they are grown you can look back and just be so amazed how different your life was. You got this.
Finally, I'm so glad you are getting away from him. You are too strong and beautiful to deal with his crap.
You deserve so much more than that "full grown child man".
You Deserve You!
Ive been watching your videos for years and years, and from the first video he was ever in; I got a weird vibe. I'm honestly not surprised and I feel terrible for that. I'm so sorry this has happened Yumi, but please remember you have such a wonderful and supportive community behind you. You are a fantastic mother, and such a beautiful, strong woman; you've got this -- and the moment you don't think you do, we're all here for you. We love you Yumi. ♡