I think that the two main reasons why relationships don’t last is because we often ignore red flags - which is discernment needed to assess whether or not a person is worth our time & energy. We also fail to be transparent with our feelings when we’re not happy in the relationship - which will save us a lot of disappointment & confusion if only we would confront the problem by being open and honest.
yes!! lately Ive been thinking a lot about this quote I read somewhere that reminds me of what you are talking about: "when people show you who they are, believe them".
I just don’t understand how every time I’m going through something big sister Breeny comes in and shakes me to reality I didn’t even see this and I know it’s going to be amazing. Love you sis
The main reason why relationships fail is because people give up and they don't fight for each other. They give up once God starts putting people through the storm! FACTS
First people we need to build a relationship with God that God will send the person . However we do the opposite we go our ways and then want the person to change and become holy.
it takes pursuit of purity to build a relationship with God but we live in the generation where lust is everywhere.this generation mistakes lust as love
I’m realizing I’m happier single. I’m just over the energy and effort that a relationship takes, and it’s very disappointing that today most people don’t value things like loyalty, respect, consistency. I better keep the love of my friends and family. Love your videos!
Dito! Working on myself and relationships to family and friends. Trying to live with God in my life. Believing that when the time is right for me there will be someone. But for right now I’m in a period of self realization into the person god intended me to be.
Yeah I totally agree that theres no bond or real relationships nowadays. People only want other people who agree with them and give them passes for the bad choices and behaviors they indulge in. No one wants to get deep AND do the work.
THANK YOU LOVES FOR WATCHING! FEELS SO GOOD TO BE BACK, HOPEFULLY I'LL START PUTTING OUT 2 VIDEOS A WEEK FROM NOW ON. PLEASE REMEMBER TO LIKE, COMMENT AND SHARE
"Just because someone disagrees with you does not have to be an argument"... WHEW CHILE I have never been dragged this much in my life but this is so true!
I think that affirmations like "you don't need anyone to make you happy", or "you are enough" have been misunderstood or they've been taken to the extreme and maybe we've heard it so many times that we truly believe them.. but the truth is that we need people and people makes us happy and happier. Thanks Breeny!
Breeny you’ve absolutely done it again! Dropping gem after gem! Here’s the awesome summary I got from this video with a few of my personal interpretations sprinkled in :) I’m sure you’ll find it helpful: APOLOGIZING: - are you really sorry if you continue to do what you said you’re sorry for? - apologizing is taking accountability for your wrongs/actions and owning up to it. - avoid: “I’m sorry that you feel that way” - do not apologize for their feelings, apologize for what you did (accept responsibility for what you did that caused that person to feel that way). COMMUNICATION: - you are not always right (and even if you are, there are ways to express that w/o belittling the other person). - a disagreement should not equate to an automatic argument (learn to effectively communicate). - focus on the main issue at hand; - avoid assassinating the other person’s character (aka bringing back old/past sh*t that person did) - accept/embrace one another’s differences - avoid judging! if they knew better, they’d do better! educate don’t criticize - you are an imbecile :) you are not better than another just b/c you know something and they don’t (“I know that I know nothing” - Socrates) - learn to exercise patience, compassion, and grace. - you are not perfect :) but that’s the magic of it all. learn from one another. - avoid swapping and switching friends like Breeny swaps and switches her hairstyles :) INTIMACY: - forming deep connected bonds; seeing eye to eye; soul to soul. - build bonds -> build trust -> via actual conversations (that involve spoken words) - being antisocial is not an excuse (antisocial does not equate to being an introvert) - call your friends! connect with them and have a heart felt conversation (grow those relationships) - stop being disrespectful! avoid always making it about me, me, me! - heated conversation? that’s fine because you’re not arguing or trying to come for them (avoid irrelevancies) - avoid “you always,” “you never” when trying to communicate with another - if you have an issue, handle it then and now (do not store it and allow it to simmer!) - don’t be a coward!! do not hold grudges! stop laying those bricks and building those walls! - put your big girl/boy panties on and tackle/confront those issues head-on (communicate!) REMEMBER: • when iron sharpens iron, sparks are going to fly (b/c two strong personalities will clash, but will make one another better) • do not shy away from commitment • relationships/friendships are hard work (but that’s what makes them worthwhile) • realize and embrace your differences! opposites attract; different people will enable your growth • be humble! let go of your pride! • love is unconditional and sacrificial (it keeps no record of wrongs) • even if you have ONE good friend, you are blessed! • human beings are social by nature; no man is an island • apologize if you need to; go extend that olive branch! :) Thank you for reading!
Whoopsies! Breeny I noticed that you pinned this and the tiny perfectionist in me just saw a typo that had to be corrected so I edited it. I just realized editing a pinned comment will unpin it (RUclips safety I’m sure)! I hope you can repin it so that others can find it
One prob we women, we want to change men and raise them....you can't raise a man I my a boy...stop saying "He has potential"....start seeing him for who is a "boy" not ready for a women.
Being antisocial can go hand in hand with social anxiety, but because most people are so addicted to their phones they claim to be antisocial when in reality we dont know how to communicate irl. Thank you sooooo much for this video. we need to notice these trends of depression stemming from social media.
"YOU CAN'T HAVE PRIDE IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE." OMG I FELT THAT. YOU ARE REALLY AMAZING AND ALWAYS ON POINT. I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS! ❤️ ANOTHER VALUABLE AND LIFE CHANGING CONTENT HERE ON YT.
I believe that you must forgive so you set yourself free and then keep away from that person so they don't hurt or abuse your trust again.. Love them from a distance xx
You posted this right when I needed it. It’s so hard having little to no friends who barely seem to care AND being totally single. I feel alone all the time and I’ve been trying to figure out what’s wrong.
A best apologies is “CHANGE OF BEHAVIOUR” 💯 % TRUE! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience. From now on I will let it go even if I’m right to save the relationship and friendship.
That’s how I was with my cousin, I over valued her n it wasn’t until my graduation this year that I realize that she has always under valued me and I said yeah we are DONE n we don’t talk now but I feel no guilt bcuz she has NEVER apologize for making me the way she did n does and takes no accountability for it so I’m good off her n until she acknowledged that we will never b anything then what we are n u just made me feel better about my decision, thank you Breeny
I love you and your knowledge. And there is so many value lessons we have to learn as even a generation. I know I have to learn to not get mad so quick at people and continue to act certain ways. We are all human but we can practice to do better!! You can’t just pray but you gotta show action
Please do more videos on friendships. More specifically how to know when to let go of a friendship and how to let go without having resentment built up.
Wowww you really came for me in this! I was literally just upset about a guy that Im interested in, but I felt wasn’t at the same intellectual level as me and this just taught me that we learn at different paces and the carbon copy of a man doesn’t exist. Thanks girl I really needed this !
Breeny Lee, my friend and little sister (in my head), this video was Sooooo on-point! I am that person who is all ALONE because if my inability to form relationships with the people I care about and LOVE. And it really makes me Sad. I'm 57 years YOUNG now and it's been this way since I was a child.
You are right in some ways. I believe in always forgiving. But it doesn't prevent us to cut off those that are not walking the same way as you. So for me, forgiveness always essential but keep the friendship or relationship depend on what you said. Which is accountability. So yeah !! I agree 70% but the forgiveness bit I have a different view. 😘😘😘I am really glad I follow you. Being single for only 4 years, had allowed me to change to be better, confident, strong emotional and now I know what kind of love I want. Good man do exist. And I'm unique! So yeah. Have a great night
Always learn a lot from your videos. A lot of it comes down to character. Truly looking at our characters and also the characters we allow ourselves to be around. Thanks Breeny ❤
I agree with all of this, the thing is no one has time to talk to one another or open up to and people actually don't want to as everyone is fighting their own battles and can't handle others issues so the worlds depressed and lonely and for relationships you're right couples no longer fight for one another just like friends don't. Ever since time has started to speed in the last several years,- everything has changed. There's no love, peace and joy left anymore. No one cares about anyone or is willing to communicate and resolve issues or listen to others problems. Those days are completely over. It's all feels like a bad dream and due to everyone being fake and friends moving on as there's friends per season, ı wouldn't have any one to call on my wedding day. It's a lonely world to be in. The people and world will not change and time will not slow down for us or we can't go back in time when there was love between humans and patience. It will continue getting worse just like it is. Before people felt loved and had friends and were able to give love to others but now that the world is lonely, depressed and suffering, they are not able to support and comfort others. True love only comes from parents otherwise it doesn't exist but no one wants to be on their own and want to be in relationships despite not willing tomake it work. What a scary and lonely world to be in
Thanks Breeny, I completely agree with your perspective on forgiveness! I believe in forgiveness if the other person takes responsibility & accountability for their behaviour, but if they cannot acknowledge it/ the hurt they've caused you and basically take you for a joke, then they don't respect or care for you and you must let go for your own sanity, or else you'll wind up in the same situation again with them & continue to put yourself in harms way! Boundaries... we need stronger boundaries! Thanks for this video!❤
I am an empath. I feel when people are changing up on me or feeling different and i usually confront them early. They say "No ain't no issues you imagining things". LOW AND BEHOLD a couple month later i'm going through something and there is excuse after excuse why they can't be there for me. That's how you get cut off. It took me years to learn how to cut people off. I RARELY get any apologies or admission of guilt so I stopped waiting for them.
ur relationship do not last cause sometimes we meet ppl that is out to use u...Satan ,can pick out good ppl so he send his kind to come in ur life to kill,steal, an destroy u...that's y they say opposites attracts..it's true...but u will no if that person is of God...they will bring more joy than pain....they build u not tear u down.they will love u not hate u... God is nothing but... love,peace,happiness,an joy....when u got that it's gone work cause God ,put u an that person together.....
You Spoke So Many Facts & I’m In Love with this video because this is really what’s wrong with today’s society & I wish things would change & I have my faults but this video made me want to work on myself & be a better person ; it time to grow up . I love it 💚💚💚💚💚
That thing about people valuing each other at different levels and the space in between leaving room for anger, disrespect tc. Those people haffi get cut arf. Anyway, great video!
I’m currently going through a breakup. The other person doesn’t take any personal accountability. ZERO! If you can’t be responsible for your own actions the relationship is doomed. It’s toxic behavior that I just can’t deal with.
No one in my life has explained it like this. And Ms. Lee always helps me see my weakness with love. You help me grow and I thank you. You have talent for explaining things.
I know you get comments that say you're the big sister we haven't had... but it's so true... I've been sort of binge watching your videos and the way you give the truth... it's just so helpful... TY for not just giving the truth but adding some religious/spiritual essence to it, it really takes it up another level. It shows truly, truly, how much you care which is clearly so much.
I’ve always wondered what it looks where you’re parked. I really find you to really influence my life, you speak my language. I wish there was more RUclipsrs like you. I hope you never stop posting! I find your videos to be very motivational.
I told my ex do not be in a relationship if you still going to entertain other women and I was right he was entertaining another women. I cut him off it’s 7.8 billion ppl on this world and I’m not fighting for somebody who don’t want me
Forgiveness is to be given whether or not the person apologizes. Even when they apologize you do not have to have that person as a constant in your life but the Word tells us to forgives and does not say to forgive only if the person apologizes. Some people will never apologize no matter how wrong they are. Forgive them then move on. Good to have you back 😊😊
so true. I think we need both self love and also other people. I realized without true self love it's difficult to have good relations with others! That's why I love your messages- self love and also having good relationships with other people..all in one and one in all!
Eee I’m addicted to these videos! My ex did that, getting upset whenever I brought anything up that he did and played the victim! Neither of us were good at communicating.
Forgiving someone doesn't mean letting them back into your life. This is a really good video, I agree with you, the negative side of social media made me leave it behind me, now I just follow accounts that help me, we should be patient to become better and allow others to learn and grow just like we do❤
You are such a strong dignified woman, every time I listen to you it helps me grow so much!!! Your giving me the mom/big sister talks I always crave ❤️
I love these videos :) It also makes me sad because I feel like my mind is on the same page as your videos, after a couple months of life slapping me on the face. I feel like the more I realize all of this and change, the hardest it is for me to meet people who are on the same page as I am. I dont really know how to articulate this very well, so I hope it makes sense haha
aw breeny! not only was this the exact video i need at this moment but at the end you mentioned it was your birthday july 9th and that's my birthday as well!! happy belated love! i resonated with you and you spoke directly to my soul since i found the first video i watched of yours. we're all connected. much love cancer sister🖤
Just found your channel on RUclips & I love a positive person, a Sister virtual friend that speaks real, to God honest truths!! So refreshing & and I feel like I am the luckiest person right now to have found you! About to binge watch this channel & become enlightened! God bless you! 💕
I love the lengths of these videos! I listen to them on my way to work and they really have me thinking. Thank you for making these videos it helps a lot.
Thanks for sharing! You are by far one my favorite RUclipsrs and this is the reason why. Every word and advice it is given with the intention to help us individually - I appreciate that! #patience #compassion
Relate-ing as I call it is all about give and take. There should be a circular flow between the two people involved not one-sided flow. Forgive yes but be wise who you CHOOSE to relate with. Because if you are only giving or just taking, that is not relating in the least and will inevitably collapse. Also understand clearly why certain people are in your life and be clear on the role they play. Excellent talk!
Yep! Unfortunately, a lot of people who apologize aren't even genuine about it anymore. So I totally live by the saying "the best apology is changed behavior" just like you do. If I just get the feeling someone does something that is just part of their character, even if it's early on, I do cut them off. I go by the saying "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".
I totally agree with this video! I noticed a lot of people are so offended if you disagree about something, even if it is very trivial. And also the "if I was you" or "I'm sorry you feel that way", I cannot stand that. I ended up having to cut off a lot of people who lived their lives using these words. A lot of this behavior just boils down to a lack of empathy.
I think that the two main reasons why relationships don’t last is because we often ignore red flags - which is discernment needed to assess whether or not a person is worth our time & energy. We also fail to be transparent with our feelings when we’re not happy in the relationship - which will save us a lot of disappointment & confusion if only we would confront the problem by being open and honest.
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yes!! lately Ive been thinking a lot about this quote I read somewhere that reminds me of what you are talking about: "when people show you who they are, believe them".
thepaulacooper I think that quote was by Maya Angelou. It’s so true as fake people cannot act genuine for too long - the mask eventually falls off.
All of this 💯
True sister
*Relationships are always going to have ups and downs. When you truly love someone you hang on for the ride.*
I agree but there is a limit..
No.
@@temitopejohnson9615 of course
@Cocoa west yes definitely
This is the kind of simple wisdom that gets taken the wrong way, time and time again
“A smart woman know how to love but a wise woman know WHO to love-BL♥️♥️♥️
I just don’t understand how every time I’m going through something big sister Breeny comes in and shakes me to reality
I didn’t even see this and I know it’s going to be amazing. Love you sis
Literally. I was needing this video. Wasted my time with a fuckboy.
It is amazing. Ignorant people thumb down. She is on point.
Love her ❤️
The main reason why relationships fail is because people give up and they don't fight for each other. They give up once God starts putting people through the storm! FACTS
First people we need to build a relationship with God that God will send the person . However we do the opposite we go our ways and then want the person to change and become holy.
Emmanuella Alliali omg so true!
it takes pursuit of purity to build a relationship with God but we live in the generation where lust is everywhere.this generation mistakes lust as love
Say it again for the people in the back!!!...Build relationship on the right foundation which is God!
True dat 😣✊🏾
I’m realizing I’m happier single. I’m just over the energy and effort that a relationship takes, and it’s very disappointing that today most people don’t value things like loyalty, respect, consistency. I better keep the love of my friends and family. Love your videos!
Amen to that!
Dito! Working on myself and relationships to family and friends. Trying to live with God in my life. Believing that when the time is right for me there will be someone. But for right now I’m in a period of self realization into the person god intended me to be.
I'm heading there too.
I feel like i am that person.. i feel love from those little but i always feel like i want more
i agree
Yeah I totally agree that theres no bond or real relationships nowadays. People only want other people who agree with them and give them passes for the bad choices and behaviors they indulge in. No one wants to get deep AND do the work.
I love this comment, OMG 🙏!
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THANK YOU LOVES FOR WATCHING! FEELS SO GOOD TO BE BACK, HOPEFULLY I'LL START PUTTING OUT 2 VIDEOS A WEEK FROM NOW ON.
PLEASE REMEMBER TO LIKE, COMMENT AND SHARE
God is with you sister ❤️
Breeny please could you do a meet and greet in the future. Xx
Your videos are so interesting. Are you a jamaican..Im hearing some caribbean accent💜🇯🇲💚
please, if you don't mind, put subtitles next time, thank you
STOP BREATHE AND HAVE A SNICKERS 🍫🍫😄😄
"Just because someone disagrees with you does not have to be an argument"... WHEW CHILE I have never been dragged this much in my life but this is so true!
"I'm sorry you feel...."
NOTHING MAKES MY BLOOD BOIL MORE. Ugh
I always try to say: I’m sorry that I MADE you feel this way.....
Psychology at its finest! So annoying!
i just left someone like this
My Lord yes!!!
I think that affirmations like "you don't need anyone to make you happy", or "you are enough" have been misunderstood or they've been taken to the extreme and maybe we've heard it so many times that we truly believe them.. but the truth is that we need people and people makes us happy and happier.
Thanks Breeny!
True, love this! ❤️
Breeny you’ve absolutely done it again! Dropping gem after gem! Here’s the awesome summary I got from this video with a few of my personal interpretations sprinkled in :) I’m sure you’ll find it helpful:
APOLOGIZING:
- are you really sorry if you continue to do what you said you’re sorry for?
- apologizing is taking accountability for your wrongs/actions and owning up to it.
- avoid: “I’m sorry that you feel that way”
- do not apologize for their feelings, apologize for what you did (accept responsibility for what you did that caused that person to feel that way).
COMMUNICATION:
- you are not always right (and even if you are, there are ways to express that w/o belittling the other person).
- a disagreement should not equate to an automatic argument (learn to effectively communicate).
- focus on the main issue at hand;
- avoid assassinating the other person’s character (aka bringing back old/past sh*t that person did)
- accept/embrace one another’s differences
- avoid judging! if they knew better, they’d do better! educate don’t criticize
- you are an imbecile :) you are not better than another just b/c you know something and they don’t (“I know that I know nothing” - Socrates)
- learn to exercise patience, compassion, and grace.
- you are not perfect :) but that’s the magic of it all. learn from one another.
- avoid swapping and switching friends like Breeny swaps and switches her hairstyles :)
INTIMACY:
- forming deep connected bonds; seeing eye to eye; soul to soul.
- build bonds -> build trust -> via actual conversations (that involve spoken words)
- being antisocial is not an excuse (antisocial does not equate to being an introvert)
- call your friends! connect with them and have a heart felt conversation (grow those relationships)
- stop being disrespectful! avoid always making it about me, me, me!
- heated conversation? that’s fine because you’re not arguing or trying to come for them (avoid irrelevancies)
- avoid “you always,” “you never” when trying to communicate with another
- if you have an issue, handle it then and now (do not store it and allow it to simmer!)
- don’t be a coward!! do not hold grudges! stop laying those bricks and building those walls!
- put your big girl/boy panties on and tackle/confront those issues head-on (communicate!)
REMEMBER:
• when iron sharpens iron, sparks are going to fly (b/c two strong personalities will clash, but will make one another better)
• do not shy away from commitment
• relationships/friendships are hard work (but that’s what makes them worthwhile)
• realize and embrace your differences! opposites attract; different people will enable your growth
• be humble! let go of your pride!
• love is unconditional and sacrificial (it keeps no record of wrongs)
• even if you have ONE good friend, you are blessed!
• human beings are social by nature; no man is an island
• apologize if you need to; go extend that olive branch! :)
Thank you for reading!
Wow typed all these
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Whoopsies! Breeny I noticed that you pinned this and the tiny perfectionist in me just saw a typo that had to be corrected so I edited it. I just realized editing a pinned comment will unpin it (RUclips safety I’m sure)! I hope you can repin it so that others can find it
One prob we women, we want to change men and raise them....you can't raise a man I my a boy...stop saying "He has potential"....start seeing him for who is a "boy" not ready for a women.
Agreed you can't change a boy into a man, a boy treats you with disregard, uses you for sex, free everything and gives you nothing in return.
Ebonie Riley totally ridiculous.
This is so rude.
PREEEEACHHH! 🔥❤️
gimme that How's that rude?
You have to preserve your heart, and accountability nowadays is a rare action
The editing, wow- you really stepped in looking like a SNACK snack 😍
for real
Being antisocial can go hand in hand with social anxiety, but because most people are so addicted to their phones they claim to be antisocial when in reality we dont know how to communicate irl. Thank you sooooo much for this video. we need to notice these trends of depression stemming from social media.
Just left “I hate being single” to watch this one. I stumbled across your channel and I’m glad I did. I appreciate your words🙌🏼
"YOU CAN'T HAVE PRIDE IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE." OMG I FELT THAT. YOU ARE REALLY AMAZING AND ALWAYS ON POINT. I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS! ❤️ ANOTHER VALUABLE AND LIFE CHANGING CONTENT HERE ON YT.
I believe that you must forgive so you set yourself free and then keep away from that person so they don't hurt or abuse your trust again.. Love them from a distance xx
You posted this right when I needed it. It’s so hard having little to no friends who barely seem to care AND being totally single. I feel alone all the time and I’ve been trying to figure out what’s wrong.
A best apologies is “CHANGE OF BEHAVIOUR” 💯 % TRUE!
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience. From now on I will let it go even if I’m right to save the relationship and friendship.
This is one of the realist vids that i have seen. I am currently going through depression and your videos have really helped me
That’s how I was with my cousin, I over valued her n it wasn’t until my graduation this year that I realize that she has always under valued me and I said yeah we are DONE n we don’t talk now but I feel no guilt bcuz she has NEVER apologize for making me the way she did n does and takes no accountability for it so I’m good off her n until she acknowledged that we will never b anything then what we are n u just made me feel better about my decision, thank you Breeny
This is what our generation needs👏🏾👏🏾
Your the realest here on RUclips thanks for these videos you’ve helped a lot ✨
Ouch, this was painfully true. A real self inventory. Love this fresh perspective. Thank you Breeny!!!
I love you and your knowledge. And there is so many value lessons we have to learn as even a generation. I know I have to learn to not get mad so quick at people and continue to act certain ways. We are all human but we can practice to do better!! You can’t just pray but you gotta show action
ENERGY LEVELS ON FLEEK! loved this video so much. Your content is bigger than we think
Thank you so much, you just called out all of my toxicity I didn't even realize I did...….. thank you.
Well understood from jamaica "Me nuh Care"
Bless you Breeny :)
I've overcome the breakup in two days with you
Oh my gosh I love the intro breeny!! 😍😭
You look like you caught the sun. Your skin is glowing. ❤️
Breeny is back!!!
No matter what video you post ✨
My RUclips big sistaaaa!!! 🤗✨🤪
Please do more videos on friendships. More specifically how to know when to let go of a friendship and how to let go without having resentment built up.
The intro is giving me life 💫😩
30 minutes of breeny?!?!? LET'S DO IT
Thank you Breeny,I needed this. I just reached out to one of my friends. I let pride come in play but I'll work on it. Thank you again.
Wowww you really came for me in this! I was literally just upset about a guy that Im interested in, but I felt wasn’t at the same intellectual level as me and this just taught me that we learn at different paces and the carbon copy of a man doesn’t exist. Thanks girl I really needed this !
you are a natural therapist
Breeny Lee, my friend and little sister (in my head), this video was Sooooo on-point! I am that person who is all ALONE because if my inability to form relationships with the people I care about and LOVE. And it really makes me Sad. I'm 57 years YOUNG now and it's been this way since I was a child.
You are right in some ways. I believe in always forgiving. But it doesn't prevent us to cut off those that are not walking the same way as you. So for me, forgiveness always essential but keep the friendship or relationship depend on what you said. Which is accountability. So yeah !! I agree 70% but the forgiveness bit I have a different view. 😘😘😘I am really glad I follow you. Being single for only 4 years, had allowed me to change to be better, confident, strong emotional and now I know what kind of love I want. Good man do exist. And I'm unique! So yeah. Have a great night
Always learn a lot from your videos. A lot of it comes down to character. Truly looking at our characters and also the characters we allow ourselves to be around. Thanks Breeny ❤
Why dont they start 😭 These days it seems men just lose interest after sex
Big facts
@@DivinelyBellzTarot It's like nothing is even starting for me rn, im so annoyed. Where is my summer bae pls
@@Tan-ns2hr lol it'll come my 5month situationship is already falling apart so don't rush it
@@DivinelyBellzTarot Girrl a situationship shouldnt last that long 😭 Make it a full blown relationship or cut
@@Tan-ns2hr well it was fine until now he cheated so that's why I call it that
I agree with all of this, the thing is no one has time to talk to one another or open up to and people actually don't want to as everyone is fighting their own battles and can't handle others issues so the worlds depressed and lonely and for relationships you're right couples no longer fight for one another just like friends don't. Ever since time has started to speed in the last several years,- everything has changed. There's no love, peace and joy left anymore. No one cares about anyone or is willing to communicate and resolve issues or listen to others problems. Those days are completely over.
It's all feels like a bad dream and due to everyone being fake and friends moving on as there's friends per season, ı wouldn't have any one to call on my wedding day. It's a lonely world to be in.
The people and world will not change and time will not slow down for us or we can't go back in time when there was love between humans and patience. It will continue getting worse just like it is. Before people felt loved and had friends and were able to give love to others but now that the world is lonely, depressed and suffering, they are not able to support and comfort others. True love only comes from parents otherwise it doesn't exist but no one wants to be on their own and want to be in relationships despite not willing tomake it work. What a scary and lonely world to be in
"I'm sorry you 'feel' that way" hahahaha! That is so me sometimes LOOL! Sometimes we're just too sensitive idec
I'm so antisocial lol I feel like I'm being called out 😅🙃
Thanks Breeny, I completely agree with your perspective on forgiveness! I believe in forgiveness if the other person takes responsibility & accountability for their behaviour, but if they cannot acknowledge it/ the hurt they've caused you and basically take you for a joke, then they don't respect or care for you and you must let go for your own sanity, or else you'll wind up in the same situation again with them & continue to put yourself in harms way! Boundaries... we need stronger boundaries! Thanks for this video!❤
I really hope that we knew each other in real life. I want an older sister just like you. Going through a lot right now and these videos really help!
This is still the best Video 🥺❤️😭😭😭 Thank you so much for sharing your experience and knowledge on this topic. It's so helpful Breeny 😍❤️
Such wise words of wisdom. What a great Motavitional Speaker !
I am an empath. I feel when people are changing up on me or feeling different and i usually confront them early. They say "No ain't no issues you imagining things". LOW AND BEHOLD a couple month later i'm going through something and there is excuse after excuse why they can't be there for me. That's how you get cut off. It took me years to learn how to cut people off. I RARELY get any apologies or admission of guilt so I stopped waiting for them.
ur relationship do not last cause sometimes we meet ppl that is out to use u...Satan ,can pick out good ppl so he send his kind to come in ur life to kill,steal, an destroy u...that's y they say opposites attracts..it's true...but u will no if that person is of God...they will bring more joy than pain....they build u not tear u down.they will love u not hate u... God is nothing but... love,peace,happiness,an joy....when u got that it's gone work cause God ,put u an that person together.....
You Spoke So Many Facts & I’m In Love with this video because this is really what’s wrong with today’s society & I wish things would change & I have my faults but this video made me want to work on myself & be a better person ; it time to grow up . I love it 💚💚💚💚💚
That thing about people valuing each other at different levels and the space in between leaving room for anger, disrespect tc. Those people haffi get cut arf. Anyway, great video!
You definitely stepped up your look book experience for us watchers
I’m currently going through a breakup. The other person doesn’t take any personal accountability. ZERO! If you can’t be responsible for your own actions the relationship is doomed. It’s toxic behavior that I just can’t deal with.
No one in my life has explained it like this. And Ms. Lee always helps me see my weakness with love. You help me grow and I thank you. You have talent for explaining things.
Girl, this was so powerful. Very much needed to hear this. Thank you x
THAT FEMME LUXE AD YESSS BOSS GIRL VIBES I LOVE YOUR ENERGY SM
Your channel is one of the best advice channels I’ve seen..
I so needed this breeny session!! Thank you God for bringing this soul to this wonderful earth we need more breenys🙌
'You can't expect people to think, act, speak..the way you do' this message goes way deep
Breeny stays coming through with the advice at that exact right dam time lol. Im shaking
I know you get comments that say you're the big sister we haven't had... but it's so true... I've been sort of binge watching your videos and the way you give the truth... it's just so helpful... TY for not just giving the truth but adding some religious/spiritual essence to it, it really takes it up another level. It shows truly, truly, how much you care which is clearly so much.
I’ve always wondered what it looks where you’re parked.
I really find you to really influence my life, you speak my language. I wish there was more RUclipsrs like you. I hope you never stop posting! I find your videos to be very motivational.
Deff will be re watching this vid to get it imbedded in my brain!! Too real, much love breeny❤️
Breeny, you are such a blessing! Thank you for advice, this came in a time of need. Thank you for being real and also for making me laugh ❤️
You have helped me a lot thank you❤️❤️😭
I just love the variety of your content. Btw you are glowing sis!
Each one of your videos I have watched so far is PURE GOLD.
I agree with you !! Self love my boundaries are much stronger now ♥️♥️♥️
I told my ex do not be in a relationship if you still going to entertain other women and I was right he was entertaining another women. I cut him off it’s 7.8 billion ppl on this world and I’m not fighting for somebody who don’t want me
Forgiveness is to be given whether or not the person apologizes. Even when they apologize you do not have to have that person as a constant in your life but the Word tells us to forgives and does not say to forgive only if the person apologizes. Some people will never apologize no matter how wrong they are. Forgive them then move on. Good to have you back 😊😊
The white top makes ur skin glow, I love it ✨
Love the bit on forgiveness 👌
so true. I think we need both self love and also other people. I realized without true self love it's difficult to have good relations with others! That's why I love your messages- self love and also having good relationships with other people..all in one and one in all!
It’s about time sis... I’ve been waiting for too long.
I just found you out of no where.... WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW YOUR CHANNEL IS AMAZING!
Jeez, Breeny your video really humbled me oml 😭 I’m going to try and do some introspection
Right... my ego was asking for too much i didnt even realize i should be thankful 😭
Eee I’m addicted to these videos! My ex did that, getting upset whenever I brought anything up that he did and played the victim! Neither of us were good at communicating.
THAT LOOKBOOK SNACTHED MY WIG
Loved this! So much truth & encouragement for self assessment.
Gosh your such a wise woman
Crazy how I completely agree with every single thing you said
Forgiving someone doesn't mean letting them back into your life.
This is a really good video, I agree with you, the negative side of social media made me leave it behind me, now I just follow accounts that help me, we should be patient to become better and allow others to learn and grow just like we do❤
You are such a strong dignified woman, every time I listen to you it helps me grow so much!!! Your giving me the mom/big sister talks I always crave ❤️
Damn this video triggered me and gave me chilles all at the same time !
I love these videos :) It also makes me sad because I feel like my mind is on the same page as your videos, after a couple months of life slapping me on the face. I feel like the more I realize all of this and change, the hardest it is for me to meet people who are on the same page as I am. I dont really know how to articulate this very well, so I hope it makes sense haha
you need to write a book Godwilling .. this is wisdom right here dear Breeny !
aw breeny! not only was this the exact video i need at this moment but at the end you mentioned it was your birthday july 9th and that's my birthday as well!! happy belated love! i resonated with you and you spoke directly to my soul since i found the first video i watched of yours. we're all connected. much love cancer sister🖤
Just found your channel on RUclips & I love a positive person, a Sister virtual friend that speaks real, to God honest truths!! So refreshing & and I feel like I am the luckiest person right now to have found you! About to binge watch this channel & become enlightened! God bless you! 💕
I love the lengths of these videos! I listen to them on my way to work and they really have me thinking. Thank you for making these videos it helps a lot.
Thanks for sharing! You are by far one my favorite RUclipsrs and this is the reason why. Every word and advice it is given with the intention to help us individually - I appreciate that! #patience #compassion
I think this is the best video ive ever seen.
Relate-ing as I call it is all about give and take. There should be a circular flow between the two people involved not one-sided flow. Forgive yes but be wise who you CHOOSE to relate with. Because if you are only giving or just taking, that is not relating in the least and will inevitably collapse. Also understand clearly why certain people are in your life and be clear on the role they play. Excellent talk!
Yep! Unfortunately, a lot of people who apologize aren't even genuine about it anymore. So I totally live by the saying "the best apology is changed behavior" just like you do. If I just get the feeling someone does something that is just part of their character, even if it's early on, I do cut them off. I go by the saying "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".
I totally agree with this video! I noticed a lot of people are so offended if you disagree about something, even if it is very trivial. And also the "if I was you" or "I'm sorry you feel that way", I cannot stand that. I ended up having to cut off a lot of people who lived their lives using these words. A lot of this behavior just boils down to a lack of empathy.
Okay this video gained u my subscription 👌🏾 very mature self reflective video 👌🏾
Very true everything you said, I hated when my last partner would say that everything was my fault and play the victim , would make me so mad.
Everybody need to watch this ASAP!
All your videos get me so emotional