Why you feel closed-off to others

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  • Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 97

  • @landotucker
    @landotucker Год назад +29

    Oof, this hits close to home. I had friends when I was really young, but in my teens I found there wasn't anyone I could count on so I kept people at arms length after that, and the instinct to protect myself has sabotaged any relationships I've had with anyone other than family. I've got a lot of stuff I've kept bottled up because of that 😑

  • @StoriesFromTheLabyrinth
    @StoriesFromTheLabyrinth Год назад +32

    This has me feeling all over the place.. bloody hell.. the video felt like a hug that’s been needed for so long.. certain past events I’m still letting go of. The rare feeling of being too much or a burden. It’s sad people can make you feel this way by their words / actions.
    Thank you so much, beautiful 🤍 I needed this.
    Whoever’s reading this, please know you’re good enough for the right people and especially for yourself. You too Masha.

  • @ahmed_J4
    @ahmed_J4 Год назад +5

    The most important thing is filtering your circle , and be observant when you talk to someone , then you can juge if it's a good relation or not , and at some point you can make mistakes to have a knowledge in relationships speaking but learn from it , I would to thank Masha for this great advices and don't forget to keep your shining smile 😁😁

  • @themashakata
    @themashakata  10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for the support!

  • @karlbockemeier3186
    @karlbockemeier3186 Год назад +1

    I feel like I just had a no nonsense blast of reality and loving comfort from the sister I never had. Thank you for telling me what I needed, even though I didn’t know I needed it.

  • @PrimusJupiter
    @PrimusJupiter Год назад

    She's so smart and intuitive.

  • @momentarymalaise
    @momentarymalaise Год назад +1

    Wow. This is me. You are able to put it in such an eloquent and understanding way

  • @Liz-ol8ig
    @Liz-ol8ig Год назад +1

    All the words you said make me feel like I’m not alone, although I cried, I felt healed🥺 thank you❤

  • @wellingtonsboots4074
    @wellingtonsboots4074 Год назад +4

    Just started a new relationship. Hope and fear all mixed

  • @anderson_c_oliveira
    @anderson_c_oliveira Год назад +1

    Man, here I always have several lessons and receive very important advice for life! Thank you so much and may God bless you!! 🙏🙏🤍🤍

  • @maksim_erin
    @maksim_erin Год назад

    Thank you, Masha. That's for me. I'm much grateful. I wish you best of everything. 🌞🍀🙏👍

  • @sh4desthevibe
    @sh4desthevibe Год назад +1

    This was well said. There’s a lot to think about here. I could elaborate, but in the spirit of taking this video to heart, maybe I’ll just say that it really resonated with me and leave it at that. Thanks for making this. 😊

  • @eldritchdemone3747
    @eldritchdemone3747 Год назад

    This was a deeply impactful ~17min. When you speak about these things with such conviction and fire it reaches on another level. Your words carry a lot of weight.

  • @saularmendariz1341
    @saularmendariz1341 Год назад +1

    I appreciate these talks because they're needed!

  • @simir61
    @simir61 Год назад +2

    Everyone's been betryed, sure. But imagine being betryed by your only brother by the only love you've really known throughout life while losing your home too in the process. Having one's heart, only brother and home lost in one good swoop. I needed that though and oh so happy it all happened the way if did. But still miss my brother, now years later. Love will never be the same and can happily say that I'll gladly die alone. Not sure how many others an relate.

  • @IanJudge
    @IanJudge Год назад

    Hearing brilliant insight by such a young person is heartening.

  • @GRIZZ__
    @GRIZZ__ Год назад

    I never tapped into this part of my life but all of this almost fully describes my childhood and the outcome that came from it. This made me reflect my entire existence. Thank you for making this i really needed it im glad i stayed and watched❤

  • @georgedaman25
    @georgedaman25 Год назад

    Thank you, this......hurt more than I thought it would. Makes a lot of sense though and very true. Wish I knew this year's ago. Would have saved me a chronic heart break and depression. Much appreciated mashakata.

  • @nav579
    @nav579 Год назад

    Your words hit more than I expected.

  • @macisenpai
    @macisenpai Год назад

    This video is simply perfect. Thanks for sharing these kind of deep thoughts

  • @LivingTheVoid
    @LivingTheVoid Год назад

    Thanks for the advice. ❤ I really recognise sometimes if I am meeting someone new (which is rarely) I tend to give away more personal details when I like the conversation. That I am doing this because I can rarely talk about myself to others, didn’t come to my mind. I will try to remember your words if I am in this situation again.

  • @serzaryan2142
    @serzaryan2142 Год назад

    Thank you for this. This is exactly what I'm struggling with currently.

  • @KingCharles25
    @KingCharles25 Год назад +1

    I always like to say there's strength in vulnerability.

  • @ACDC.ScottYoung
    @ACDC.ScottYoung Год назад

    I was dead... But when I heard your voice I woke up ! ❤️🙏

  • @isaacgilliam8566
    @isaacgilliam8566 Год назад

    I first watched one of your videos because I always called my grandmother Mama Kate and I'm a little dyslexic so your name seemed perfect for some asmr. I'm sticking around for the voice and topics!

  • @roryhatfield6696
    @roryhatfield6696 Год назад

    Powerful words. Thank you

  • @sethfogleman4577
    @sethfogleman4577 Год назад +1

    Love your content masha keep up the good work

  • @magnusoctavius4021
    @magnusoctavius4021 Год назад

    you are the best in therapy, thanks 👍👍👍

  • @efethecaptain6
    @efethecaptain6 Год назад

    If someone could read me like a book like you just did, I'd trust them involuntarily.

  • @josh__f
    @josh__f Год назад

    Thank you for this! Have a great rest of your week.

  • @erickenneycreative
    @erickenneycreative Год назад +1

    How do you effing know me and the one great struggle in my long life?
    I hear you ... and I thank you Masha.
    You are something special.

  • @bigdeuce1127
    @bigdeuce1127 Год назад

    Tysm for the upload with your advice, really appreciate it 😊❤

  • @lucifervalentine5406
    @lucifervalentine5406 Год назад

    Why the fuck are you so knowledgable about my exact life? It's uncanny! 99% of what i heard on youtube is blah blah blah. Do us Slavs have similar psychological wounds?
    You just nailed it. Going from the shy extreme to the transparent one, feeling a rebelious liberation when contacting someone outside the family that traumatized you. Wow!

  • @ivannavarro2317
    @ivannavarro2317 Год назад

    The good these videos could have made with my high school self :')

  • @eaglesix6585
    @eaglesix6585 Год назад

    Alright but why are you piercing my soul with your gaze?

  • @carlos001ld
    @carlos001ld Год назад

    Hey, thank you Masha ❤️

  • @Maltackdark
    @Maltackdark Год назад

    Thank you.

  • @johnnyb3126
    @johnnyb3126 Год назад +1

    That was beautiful ❤️

  • @Michelbrunoo
    @Michelbrunoo Год назад +67

    There is no woman more beautiful and friendly than this 😁

  • @steve5181
    @steve5181 Год назад

    Hey thanks so much. ❤

  • @Patrick12357
    @Patrick12357 Год назад

    My Masha you really awesome and delivered a powerful message, so I subscribed 😊

    • @themashakata
      @themashakata  8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for subscribing.

  • @lyteyearz5810
    @lyteyearz5810 Год назад

    I literally clicked this video accidently and I did NOT expect your voice to sound like this at all! Holy voices of angels lol. Whats even more crazy is that I needed to hear this... all of it. Life leaves me speechless sometimes.

  • @StudMacher96
    @StudMacher96 Год назад

    Wise words lady. Wise words

  • @nedjmmou7906
    @nedjmmou7906 Год назад

    What i respect about you , is your ability to understand your self and the human psychic in general . Wish you the best

  • @sahorycielo01
    @sahorycielo01 Год назад +1

    I really resonate with this video i feel like at some point i was search it because i do contend on social media and i get the point of what you told me so thanks for that 🌹💗i am very thankful that i meet you and heal from being heartbroken and healing 💖

  • @woodman1701
    @woodman1701 Год назад

    Listen to the song Behind Blue Eyes.
    Pretty much sums up life.
    Be thankful for the love of a dog. And a loyal kid.
    Most everyone will disappoint you if you’re not perfect to them.
    Even if you do things in love you’ll be a disappointment eventually.
    Too much info?

  • @MashoodSabir
    @MashoodSabir Год назад

    ahh amazing and lovely vibes :) and so calming to listen to this masha

  • @KevinPark-ve1nb
    @KevinPark-ve1nb Год назад +1

    You can't be betrayed by a enemy you can only be betrayed by a friend

  • @Jamjamz_
    @Jamjamz_ Год назад +1

    The cadence of your voice is so mesmerizing that I find myself forgetting what you said lmao.

  • @こったこたろー
    @こったこたろー Год назад

    応援しています!頑張ってください!

  • @TheOzpad
    @TheOzpad Год назад

    I love your content so much its really amazing to see ASMR done like this. Thank you

  • @DexterityWay
    @DexterityWay 9 месяцев назад

    yep

  • @JoeyKastelic777
    @JoeyKastelic777 Год назад

    She got dem eyes

  • @iamyourfan9729
    @iamyourfan9729 Год назад

    You are a rare exception of a women that is very pretty yet doesn't rely on their looks on social media to get clicks. I respect that a lot.

  • @nocturnowl_0100
    @nocturnowl_0100 4 месяца назад

    Thanks masha

  • @zitro4494
    @zitro4494 Год назад

    Omg you are beautiful ❤

  • @ThexBorg
    @ThexBorg Год назад

    Still have that Aussie sunshine smile.

  • @bazilj.toyloy136
    @bazilj.toyloy136 Год назад

    This video gave me Christopher Walken's vibes lol How she sounded, her monotone...

  • @user-gf5lmn2vm8u
    @user-gf5lmn2vm8u Год назад +1

    So cute and gorgeous❤

  • @rxaljxy
    @rxaljxy Год назад

    Independent is the key

  • @johnfroembling5396
    @johnfroembling5396 Год назад

    🌻🌻🌻

  • @Litzoh
    @Litzoh Год назад

  • @yby5091
    @yby5091 Год назад

    Can you make a mouth sound ASMR please ?

  • @Patrick12357
    @Patrick12357 Год назад

    ❤😊

  • @djfull4442
    @djfull4442 Год назад

    you should read audiobooks

  • @erniesandoval9669
    @erniesandoval9669 Год назад

    ❤💖❤️

  • @JoachimPersonalAccount
    @JoachimPersonalAccount Год назад

    Damn

  • @rxaljxy
    @rxaljxy Год назад

    I think she’s my mom

  • @ASoundMostRelaxing
    @ASoundMostRelaxing Год назад

    This is like Sakura or Ino giving advice to Naruto or Hinata 😂😂.

  • @clearlyblurry508
    @clearlyblurry508 Год назад

    I watched this video on mute with Boards of Canada playing in the background.

  • @KevinJimenez-wl6lo
    @KevinJimenez-wl6lo Год назад

    👌👏👏👏

  • @BRB-_-
    @BRB-_- Год назад

    and lucifer said to God, "bet you cant make THE perfect face..."
    God: "Bet."

  • @Leonel140
    @Leonel140 Год назад +1

    Are u talking to me?

  • @arefghadimkhani6621
    @arefghadimkhani6621 Год назад

    She is so beautiful that i can't understand what she's talking about 😂

  • @ibrahimmusthafa3656
    @ibrahimmusthafa3656 Год назад

    Are you blonde or brunette

  • @hawasttimelikewater
    @hawasttimelikewater Год назад

    You have nice eyes 😉

  • @ramnivash5687
    @ramnivash5687 Год назад

    Me after 1 shot of weed...

  • @frr-d2b
    @frr-d2b 3 месяца назад

    Why are you whispering?

  • @A-Dilo_Giganosaurs-A
    @A-Dilo_Giganosaurs-A Год назад

    🇮🇶👎🤬😜
    💩🇨🇦

  • @BigTuNeD
    @BigTuNeD Год назад +1

    I found your channel 2 days ago and I just wanted to thank you for your time and humanity 🤍 I never listened so close to someone talking than you thank you so much 🤝🌹

  • @Astrongaverage
    @Astrongaverage Год назад

  • @__allen
    @__allen Год назад

    💌