Why you're disappointed in relationships [ASMR]

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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

Комментарии • 93

  • @rafaeljoestar224
    @rafaeljoestar224 2 года назад +102

    I recently discovered your channel. I’m studying psychology and I find it useful and amazing there’s people talking about emotional health the way you do. Just, thank you.

    • @themashakata
      @themashakata  2 года назад +23

      Welcome home! I'm glad we connect!

    • @johnathanmandrake7240
      @johnathanmandrake7240 2 года назад +2

      As a amateur philosopher, I will ask you this question, do emotions guide thoughts and actions, or do thoughts guide emotions and actions, or do actions guide emotions and thoughts? What is the root of 'who am i?'? Mental health/emotional health is a labyrinth. Answers wont be easy to come by, so be hesitant to latch onto answers that come together to quickly and to simply. Life is simple but not quick.

    • @montadarahmed9601
      @montadarahmed9601 2 года назад

      Are you a social worker?

  • @syedazmiharoon7263
    @syedazmiharoon7263 2 года назад +7

    everything you say makes so much sense, whenever I see someone confused or not being able to find a way, I recommend them one of your videos

  • @Matthew-sr8ib
    @Matthew-sr8ib 2 года назад +9

    best soft spoken voice in ASMR right now, hands down! THE BESTTT

  • @sirjah106
    @sirjah106 2 года назад +7

    The way she said "fathom" just melts my heart

    • @threlab5228
      @threlab5228 2 месяца назад

      she just meant phantom

  • @jasminebakshi8973
    @jasminebakshi8973 Год назад +2

    Man this video is exactly what i needed to hear right now. It has so many truth bombs (much needed) which are delivered with such compassion and grace. Thank you ❤

  • @rekapetrala
    @rekapetrala 2 года назад +4

    Your videos really help me with distancing myself from and getting rid of toxic and draining people. That's something I've been in need of recently, so thank you.:))

  • @graciekinsey2735
    @graciekinsey2735 2 года назад +8

    I recently found your videos, and I’m so glad I did! Keep it up girl, you are beyond your years in wisdom 🫶🏼

    • @ommanipadmehum4975
      @ommanipadmehum4975 Год назад

      The person who can recognize wisdom from an other has wisdom too in her/his self [mirror]
      You can now go find out that part into you gracie !

  • @riyozakii
    @riyozakii 2 года назад +5

    Such simple thoughts, but without you I would not have thought of it. apparently simplicity requires great skill
    Thank you for your work ❤

  • @akosyt4540
    @akosyt4540 2 года назад +5

    This video is just a treasure !I will rewatch as many times as I can bcz most of the situations happened to me in the past and now I learn how to learn from them to improve myself so thank u for everything🙏 😘

  • @McLaineAC
    @McLaineAC 2 года назад +2

    Out of ALL the ASMR channles....
    Ive never heard a Background as SILENT as yours...and its AMAZING
    not even wind,just silence and ur voice

  • @jrojas2520
    @jrojas2520 2 года назад +2

    Hi Masha. Just wanted to say that you are amazing and how much I appreciate your videos.

  • @SphereofCygnus
    @SphereofCygnus 2 года назад +5

    What I love about Masha is her ability to wed popular ASMR triggers with wise words that I know at least I need to hear (I'm sure there are others who feel this way as well). You're more than just an ASMRtist, Masha. You're wise and you touch on some very personal yet universal issues we all deal with in our own ways. Thank you endlessly! ❤

  • @pedros.s1547
    @pedros.s1547 2 года назад +1

    her voice is like a velvet, magical.

  • @sigmanerd8553
    @sigmanerd8553 2 года назад +3

    I love how she gave a heart to all the early comments. Very lovely thing.

  • @classiccinemac9480
    @classiccinemac9480 2 года назад +7

    Hello Masha, hope you are having a great Tuesday today 🙌 An ASMR video about relationships is definitely therapeutic and much needed as it’s really helpful. Relationships can be a little tricky to handle depending on who you’re with but a video like this is definitely the best for the evening 💙 Happy to watch more of this and keep being the best Masha 🙏

    • @themashakata
      @themashakata  2 года назад +2

      Your support means everything!!

  • @MasterKnutA
    @MasterKnutA 2 года назад +12

    I normally don't comment on videos like this.
    However, this was such an interesting lecture (yes, you're a teacher). You made me think about this in different ways than I have explored earlier.
    You probably know this, but you are extremely intelligent. Very helpful for understanding the dynamics around relationship with friends, family or romantic partners.
    Your voice is so soothing and hypnotic. I can't explain it. It's like your voice melts in the air.
    Lastly, I'm not sure if you are aware of it, but there is energy healing happening when you speak.
    Thank you for sharing your gifts ✨

    • @kirdot2011
      @kirdot2011 2 года назад +1

      so spot on! Exactly what you said!

  • @AdamFishkin
    @AdamFishkin 2 года назад +2

    "A lot of people, I hate to say it, they suck." Right on time for the 10:00 mark .... it took us 10 minutes to get there, which definitely feels right context-wise for the path the average person has to take before their optimism on humanity reaches its limitations. Being social animals has probably helped us less and less as we've evolved. I love people, but I'm not a people person. Relationships are either the worst idea with the most appeal, or vice versa.
    Anyhow, I hope everyone is getting through the January weather okay. 😊

  • @StoriesFromTheLabyrinth
    @StoriesFromTheLabyrinth 2 года назад +4

    Masha is forever changing the world one video at a time. I’m so here for it and only wish to do the same soon ~ thank you for being an inspiration on my journey! You could talk about putting shoes on and I would find so much meaning in it. 🌸 keep. Going. Goddess. ~

  • @tonyutter
    @tonyutter 2 года назад +1

    This one hit home for me today, Thank you. I really needed to hear this.

  • @jessiesasmrr
    @jessiesasmrr 2 года назад +2

    Masha, do you have a podcast? I could listen to you all day. You are elegant, well spoken, wise, and of course relaxing :) thank you for your videos

  • @enkherdene8046
    @enkherdene8046 2 года назад +2

    I discovered this channel today and im happy for that, so relaxing, nice content

  • @alejandroperezfernandez5736
    @alejandroperezfernandez5736 2 года назад +2

    Masha´s new video = good sleep tonight

  • @matslundberg
    @matslundberg 2 года назад +1

    So so good!🌹 I liked how you explained the difference. And as you said, I know that the times I have lowered my standards it didn’t work out well, ❤️ so now I will never do that again,🌹even if it takes a little longer time to get a relationship, it’s is much more important that it’s working in the long run! ❤️❤️

  • @StanleyTheDog
    @StanleyTheDog 2 года назад +1

    Great timing as always, these videos always help 👍

  • @johnphillipadams3060
    @johnphillipadams3060 2 года назад +1

    I love what your saying and I respect what your trying to get across from your ways. I love you anyway .

  • @angiemycine6509
    @angiemycine6509 15 дней назад

    Thank you so much for this video. I’m going through a very difficult breakup right now and trying so hard to recover from the abandonment by someone who I deeply trusted. I’m crying very hard, and this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

  • @brandonlimones3873
    @brandonlimones3873 2 года назад +7

    TIENES UNA VOZ ENCANTADORA ❤💖😍

  • @anderson_c_oliveira
    @anderson_c_oliveira 2 года назад +1

    Amazing as always! Your help, great advice and your life wisdom is very important to all of us! Masha, thank you so much! You're wonderful!!

  • @ThexBorg
    @ThexBorg 2 года назад +1

    Another great video Masha 🥰

  • @midoricries
    @midoricries 2 года назад +4

    I just ended a toxic relationship with my ex, it hurts so much. I can’t help but think I won’t connect with anyone but I hope it’s not the case

  • @michalaleskandr3985
    @michalaleskandr3985 2 года назад

    Whenever I've put a 5 year plan together... in the end it's way better and far deeper than I ever could have imagined. Fulfillment wise I mean. Everything else is just a bonus!
    The future is too ambiguous to plan for... but it's good to have tenitive plans and to deal with the pitfalls or "short comings" along the way as they come.
    Plus I love surprises! 😉

  • @travismattson4172
    @travismattson4172 2 года назад +1

    you teach people how to treat you

  • @asim9519
    @asim9519 2 года назад

    I really respect you😭

  • @JesusCarreno8
    @JesusCarreno8 2 года назад

    Her soft speaking is... im safe here, i want to stay here for a moment while need to focus & relax...

  • @naeco1602
    @naeco1602 Год назад

    Love your videos😍

  • @robsenponte3308
    @robsenponte3308 2 года назад

    I love your entropy, Masha ;-)

  • @bobbybero7452
    @bobbybero7452 2 года назад +1

    9:54 So true

  • @alessandrosos5979
    @alessandrosos5979 2 года назад +2

    Sei la mia nuova psicologa❤❤❤❤

  • @ripxdoc
    @ripxdoc 2 года назад +2

    just a little comment to support. keep it up rockstar 👏

  • @jonahgoldman2968
    @jonahgoldman2968 2 года назад

    I feel so targeted yet so comforted

  • @waterhead001
    @waterhead001 Год назад +1

    I think sometimes people get bored in their relationships and move on,

  • @leybrasaavedracortes4715
    @leybrasaavedracortes4715 2 года назад +1

    Te ves hermosísima!! 🌹😍
    Me encanta tu voz, y el paisaje de los videos!!! 🔥🧡🔥

  • @starnow2416
    @starnow2416 2 года назад

    I love u mashaaaaa

  • @thomasvleminckx
    @thomasvleminckx 2 года назад +1

    I'm not disappointed in relationships, I'm disappointed in my utter inability to have acquire and sustain them.

  • @DaniloRockLobos
    @DaniloRockLobos Год назад

    Thank you.

  • @antoniosimilia
    @antoniosimilia 2 года назад +3

    After my divorce last year I’ve been struggling to figure this all out. Getting into another relationship and committing again seems pretty daunting. I’d like to get to that place tho again so thanks for this vid. I really enjoy your work!

  • @MisakiRyou
    @MisakiRyou 2 года назад

    This time I'm going to actually listen Masha

  • @akosyt4540
    @akosyt4540 2 года назад +2

    We want part 2 of french ASMR😍

  • @elgrandesnipe
    @elgrandesnipe 2 года назад +5

    Always go by your gut feeling in relationships if something doesn’t feel right just walk away. There is always better opportunities.

  • @TheAsdasy
    @TheAsdasy 2 года назад +1

    imo nobody deserves anything, nothing good, nothing bad. I have given up all ambitions to rise at my work place, to find a wife and to have children. I chose to live a simple life with myself alone.

    • @bobbybero7452
      @bobbybero7452 2 года назад

      The best thing in life are the simplest.

  • @الصوتالرخيم
    @الصوتالرخيم 2 года назад

    Gorgeous 😍

  • @обнулен-у8л
    @обнулен-у8л 2 года назад

    Очень интересно слушать, ты очень наблюдательная, я в жизни такого обычно не замечал, а ты заметила и рассказала понятными формулировками, буду стараться помнить об этом. Спасибо. Умные девушки такие милые.

  • @XBAKERXBAKERX
    @XBAKERXBAKERX 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for the love!❤

  • @edjdjmejdndsjwek
    @edjdjmejdndsjwek 2 года назад

    we are together, it's us

  • @brandonbencomo8337
    @brandonbencomo8337 2 года назад +1

    Can’t be disappointed if you’ve never been in a relationship 🤔
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    **Depression kicks in** 😰

  • @Abo-Basim
    @Abo-Basim 2 года назад +1

    Let’s sleep 💤

  • @envyyd1175
    @envyyd1175 2 года назад

    Where is your accent from?

  • @FraDonaghyMusic
    @FraDonaghyMusic 2 года назад

    Why you're disappointed with relationships... is because they aren't with Masha? 😉

  • @Abo-Basim
    @Abo-Basim 2 года назад +1

    😴😴😴

  • @danielb1780
    @danielb1780 2 года назад

    It's "fathom".

  • @dennyoliver069
    @dennyoliver069 2 года назад

    she is so beautiful and smart! 👀

  • @kdortearts808
    @kdortearts808 2 года назад

    🌹🌹🌹💕

  • @anthonysvenforsic4760
    @anthonysvenforsic4760 2 года назад

    0:28 the word your looking for is fathom not phantom. One question if I may. I detect an accent in your English. What kind of accent is it?Thank you.

  • @Zack-xz1ph
    @Zack-xz1ph 2 года назад

    because I don't have one 😅😅😭

  • @msmiabobia
    @msmiabobia 9 месяцев назад

    i feel so alone lately n we just keep bickering. i think he feels controlled by me and i feel like shit crying typing this like a dummy. i’m exhausted cos we barely even talk now.

  • @Nicolas14215
    @Nicolas14215 2 года назад +3

    What relationships? lol

  • @montadarahmed9601
    @montadarahmed9601 2 года назад

    Are you a social worker?

  • @BigMoney21
    @BigMoney21 2 года назад +1

    Wow I really appreciate you Thank You Blessings Beautiful Queen 👸🏻 any guy that gets you is the Luckiest Man in the World 🌎 my perspective as the King 🤴🏻 of life I earned it Blessings
    🌹🦁👑

  • @FrostyCat12
    @FrostyCat12 2 года назад +1

    You know that you look like Ana de Armas Right?
    Have you ever considered dating a cat?

  • @starlord7027
    @starlord7027 2 года назад

    I am so curious as to where Masha’s roots lie. Her accent is so good that i didn’t question it at first but something tells me her roots lie somewhere else….

  • @AlejxndroGG
    @AlejxndroGG 2 года назад

    🤍

  • @ingenieureliseufilho2487
    @ingenieureliseufilho2487 2 года назад

    ❤🔥

  • @brandongahm6208
    @brandongahm6208 2 года назад

    44 seconds in. damn yeah no i do not belive anything good is for me. its all bad just a matter of price.

  • @alisonclark4233
    @alisonclark4233 2 месяца назад

    I fancy you please if that's okay

  • @DJVARAO
    @DJVARAO 2 года назад

    And what if my standards are for a woman like you?

  • @zcorpalpha2462
    @zcorpalpha2462 2 года назад

    Simple
    Stay Single & have a bourbon 🥃 ☮️

  • @ChrisBrown-pw2lb
    @ChrisBrown-pw2lb 2 года назад

    Fathom.

  • @ilijastanosevic
    @ilijastanosevic 2 года назад

    Jane breaking bad