Why it feels like you'll end up alone [ASMR]
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- Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2024
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I was convinced that I would just go on being alone indefinitely. Next day someone entered the picture. Letting go has a funny way of allowing things to fall into place.
How did you let go?
@@gustavoalonsolopezwolf9098 watched frozen
@@xiaofengxiaofengxiaofengxi4651 lmao
You don't really know if that person came in to your life despite of your convincement or due to it.
@@roach7191 Things always flow easier into your life when you are not pining for them. A feeling of lack invites a reflection of lack. Feeling whole invites more things that affirm your wholeness. People are also repulsed energetically by those that give off need, while drawn to those that exude ease and happiness.
In theory, it's quite simple. Executing is what we have to work at. All starts with becoming at peace with your current circumstance.
“You feel weak. You think that people are here to get you. As if they have the power. After everything you’ve gone through, after every challenge you’ve overcome. You’re gonna tell me that people have that kind of power over you?”
I needed that.
As someone with green eyes, you are doing exactly what i do YOU DONT BREAK EYE CONTACT. i love it
With her it's not scary though. 🤣
Haha I've emerald eyes also.
I think her hair color and eyes perfectly match each other
is that a green-eyed person thing? never really noticed, but i don't tend to maintain eye contact too much either...
Lol, it's a "look at how pretty my eyes are" thing
this is great and very close to my heart since i'm struggling with loneliness and confused about...almost everything. you have mesmerizing voice and what you say really makes me think. thanks!
Thank you for sharing & your support 💜
It's a weird feeling. I don't feel worthless, I don't feel like a 10 either but I still think if I find the right person I can make them happy. I also have never really been hurt nor am I afraid of being hurt either. Despite all of that, I still have a hard time connecting with people; when I get interested in anyone, I usually just subconsciously convince myself that they already have someone or they aren't looking for anyone, or that they aren't looking for me. That way, I don't disillusion myself and end up losing time and confidence in the process.
I know what I need to change and work on, but as she mentioned, I'm afraid of something I shouldn't be afraid of: opportunity, experience, life.
Damn bro hard relate
Same fr
Very relatable but man I just can’t seem to make good first impressions without people running away (not literally) What I mean is they keep thinking I’m too clingy but really I’m just interested in knowing more about them because I’m afraid of staying alone forever. I’m afraid that the rest of the worlds gonna abandon me. I’ve even been abandoned by girls who had a crush on me because they were too shy to accept my countless questions to go out with them.
Man, this couldn't be more spot on.
Bro I felt this hard man funny that you were at one point looking up the same thing I am rn hope all is well
This isn’t just ASMR, but it’s life coaching advice. This is honestly beautiful! This a whole new level- like, ASMR therapy. 🙏 👏
This is my favorite type of ASMR content. An actual informative video with just soft speaking/whispering, no repeating anything (words, entire sentences) and no distracting tapping sounds or mouthsounds or whatever. 10/10
I am so glad I came across this video. As a woman in my late 20's, it is so hard to make new friends. I put genuine effort out there to get to know people and it's rarely reciprocated. I hope one day I meet some good people and build friendships.
Im 28 and have one friend. I know this feelling.😢
Where are you based?
Are you a psychologist or something? What I love about your channel is how I feel when I hear what you say. There is no need to show your body, there is no need to do some triggers to keep the attention. Just a beautiful and wise girl giving us quality time and helpful advice. Concentrating on your voice, your eyes, your skin or your hair has helped me escape a bit of anxiety and sleep better. And this video helps me learn this thing about being alone and enjoying myself. You deserve everything, I just give you a hug from a distance. Happy new year 🫶🏻
i felt as if i was there listening and hanging onto every word. had me honestly thinking and feeling better about my past. thank you!
The amount of love and comfort I received from this was soul cleansing. Thank you so much❤
Your point about how not having good examples of love in your life can affect you is so true. My parents always fought and got a divorce when I was very young. I’ve never been able to get a relationship in 24 years of living.
9:55 This reminds me of another message I heard today, saying self-improvement should begin from a foundation of already loving what you've got.
If you hate yourself, you're like burnt food, and no amount of added spices will improve it.
You have to become comfortable with and accepting of yourself, and not do everything out of a motivation of hatred or fear, to get the best results.
Exactly this. You could also sum it up by simply being able to see the potential in yourself. If you can see the potential, you can achieve it. Sending love
5:25 The get comfortable with death line. Really wakes you back up
I know I never thought of life and death like that. That it’s supposed to have just you in it. A one person story. I just couldn’t live like that
She never misses, does she...
Existential dread and relaxation, it's an interesting mix.
Made me smile 💜
Why dread, its the truth. And the sooner you accept it, the sooner you will find inner peace.
this was actually really helpful, normally when i watch asmr i don’t really focus on the words because i’m trying to sleep but this was something i never thought of
I've been feeling like this a lot lately. Thing is, getting out actually helps with that. As in, it actually solves all those baseless thoughts
Yeah... fighting those thoughts is really hard and a pain in the butt
i really need this I’m so thankful for your videos the ASMR is perfect you have the most comforting voice and you have such a special way with your words and great insight on the things I find hard to piece together myself 💖💖
I wont lie. Its the same thing everyday. I get hated. The loneliness is eating me
Real
for what its worth, i dont hate you
Real man :(
Yeah
It's so hard to be original in these spaces but I think that you are doing a great job at that. Keep it up!
This made me think… I will wake up and journal about this for a little bit and evaluate my feelings about everything. 🥰 I’m on my second new beginning of the year and here I am, and I love love being here. Btw, your eyes when you smile brought me so much joy. ❤
I'm glad you're here
I’m still new to your channel but I really like the cadence of your voice, so relaxing! I’m going to take your advice :)
Welcome home! Love reading your thoughts :)
Masha, the one fear I used to have was the fear of hurting people. I was so afraid of saying and doing the wrong thing I used to overthink my words and my actions. Everytime I expressed my true unpleasant emotions and feelings to someone, I ended up feeling guilty and kinda wished I would take it back, even though I was just being honest. I guess this is what made me a people-pleaser who was obsessed with being on the good side of people I interacted with, but not anymore.
As for being alone, I've been so comfortable with that and it kinda worries me. I'm so comfortable with being alone I'm afraid I may unintentionally push someone who really cares about me away. I did it in the past and I'm afraid I might repeat the same mistake. How do I not repeat it, Masha?
That's relatable, you probably grew up around a lot of shame. I'm glad you're doing better. For your q', I'd have to think or have more info!
@@themashakata thanks, and no. I didn't grow up around a lot of shame. I was raised in a pretty loving, warm, and comfortable environment. It's just that I was raised to do things by the book (school, college, career, independence/stability, marriage, kids) which put too much pressure on me and as a result, I ended up being a perfectionist in all areas of my life. The more I tried to be perfect, the further I was from it. I grew up being afraid to make mistakes and I felt like I had no room to make them. That's why I felt so guilty whenever I made a mistake. Perhaps this is what you meant by "shame"? I'm not sure.
My preference for being alone has to do with my personality type.
I finished school and college. I'm still at the career stage, but I'm trying to do things my own way and at my own pace instead of my family's or society's. Hope this helps in providing some clarity on the context when thinking through and researching my question :)
Hello sweet lady, you remind me of a exceptional psychologist🌺 meditation has dramatically changed my life and opened my heart up to be open minded and accepting only good intentions from myself and others🙏
You’re an angel for this. Thank you so so much🤍
This really speaks to me in a very deep and personal way, thank you for this video!
Thank you so much for this :( it did make me feel a certain way too when you said, for me to look into your eyes.. youre very attractive and pure.. I need someone like you in my life and not someone who will stop talking to me even when I'm trying
and your hair too it compliments your skin really good
Thank you my love
@@themashakata you’re welcome 💗
Wow I absolutely loved this video. It was very insightful and comforting at the same time. Your voice is so soothing and put me at ease. Thank you. 😊
Means a lot Juan 💜
No clue how I stumbled on this video... but wow. Thank you, every word you said resonated within me, I'm sure you hear it often and I'm very glad you do. You only speak the truth. All the love, friend!
I can't even list all the reasons why I needed this. Also, your voice is incredible. Subbed!
Such a beautiful person haha but this is very deep and I relate to most of the words that you said, and like you said” reality is you live alone, you die alone”
The rest is just a bonus 💜
started watching your videos at a very low point in my life. dont know where i would be without you
Means a lot to me 💜
It feels like I discovered your channel to watch this video alone. One of the best ASMR videos and wisdom videos all in one. Thank you
“Start as you mean to go on”, is a phrase that I’m reminded of mind when digesting what you said about routine appearing to the other as behaviour that sets expectations of consistency.
Idk what it is about your videos but, I can relax to the point where my physical pains go away and my breathing slows down, a lot of other asmr content creators are just making weird noises 😭 Ty for your content
I like how grounded and real you are, and thanks for this video it is helpful.
I do like all the visuals of this video.
The background, foreground and the lighting are very visually stimulating.
At that point, where ending up alone isnt a fear anymore... Its knowledge.
0:09 i hate spoilers
I love being alone because
1.nobody can betray you
2.peace and quiet
3.less disappointment
4.WAY cheaper
5.i can hear myself think
6.no drama
7.you can do whatever you want under the law.
8. You can binge watch Invader Zim with no one judging you
@@Kayogin W
only a good cope if you are rich
"And when nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. What do you call it, freedom or loneliness?"
@@ItsMxmo exactly
You are so wise! Thanks for being on yt.
I've been alone for a very long time and there is nothing to be afraid of. I just ended up very healthy, very fit, with alot of free time, freedom, and alot of money. You can't really fear something you've never experienced
"You live alone and you die alone, get comfortable with it." You saying it like it's a simple fact while staring at me genuinely sends chills down my spine. Please be lying Masha. I don't feel like I've been living alone in my 19 years, and I hope I won't have to later in life. Or maybe I just don't get what you mean.
You are an individual by nature, not a group. You can live alongside others, but you are still just You. You can be influenced by other people, animals or things that were left behind be these people and animals, but you remain unchanged in the core. You can die surrounded by other people, but they will carry on without you, just like you ended up doing with your grand/parents, pets, friends etc. You are not more significant to strangers than any other stranger. Your death is experienced only by you - in the moment so you are alone. This cannot change, so do not live until you die; live to leave your mark. The only question is where you leave it. You could leave it on your home, yourself, your family, your love, your pets, a wall, a gravestone, the attitudes or memories of people or anywhere else. If you still feel uncomfortable, invest in a candle 🕯, turn off all lights, close the blinds and watch it flow, think about what you're experiencing, think about if it matters, try for the first time to truly engrave this memory so you can imagine it whenever you need, please just think without the distraction of your phone. How do you ACTUALLY feel
They just mean you might die from a car crash instead of with your whole family around you in a death bed.. for being alone well you might always feel lonely so you would still die.. alone in your mind and life even though you are around people and aren’t alone. It’s not always literal, sometimes it is though
I live with depression already 10 years, but finally, for the first time in my life, I'm kinda feel it.....I feel that is the begining of my new life
I don't know why this struck a chord with me but I'm glad that I watched this. Even if it doesn't make the fear go away, it helped a lot. Thank you.
i like the emphasis on the fact that being in a relationship requires you to be whole. i feel like i’m always looking for that “missing puzzle piece” in a person as if to fill a void of loneliness or lack of connection
Really made me snap out of it! Exactly what I needed and wanted to hear today, I’m 22 and feel lost a lot at times and this boosted my confidence today, thank you!
This feels like it was made for someone after a bad breakup, not someone who is genuinely worried about dying alone. Must be nice to have friends and “have a feeling like something is wrong when your watching a movie with a friend.” Everything must look so different in your world.
It's the paranoia that hits when alone, now that's existential dredd , and fomo and being alone in a crowd, it's all incoherent, to the point when u don't wanna go out, i mean why try, and on that turn of mindset its all downhill, so there's only one grueling way up , up to normalcy, now thats whats something u might feel, let me know if I'm wrong, but u gotta act all nice nd stuff to people till they get a value outta u, its not all good but it's better than absolutely lonely, that's what I've figured out though, lemme know if u get a breakthrough.
if you're scared of dying truly alone, I'm afraid you don't like who you are? you don't have a stable self esteem, confidence, etc. I'm not a life coach by any means but if you can't be alone, how could you ever rely on someone else to make your situation better? that ain't fair. focus on yourself first. get a 6pack, eat right, condition your mind. work.
I think the only people who can provide real guidance on how to dig yourself out of a really deep rut, are men who have dug themselves out before. No way can women truly understand the loneliness that men feel. It derives itself from a completely different place of mind than anything that women feel in their lifetime.
Nah all this "you were born alone and you will die alone" is pure bs. Humans are a deeply social and gregarious living being. It's, at the same time, a biological (just look at how chimps live), a psychological and a sociological thing. Such an immense amount of things in our life is affected by (and affects) how we relate to each other, makes the whole lonerism thing a bunch of crap that goes against both what everyday experience and scientific knowledge both prove. Like lmao not wanting to have friends and loved ones doesn't make you blackpilled, it just makes you self deluded. And wanting to have friends and family doesn't mean that "ugh you just can't figure out your life on your own", it just means that... well, you're a human being
@@gildedbeard081 Humans are social beings. No matter what others say, every person needs a relationship. I am an introvert person, but sometimes even I need the company of other people. And I don't want to be always alone, not because I don't love myself, but because I'm tired being alone. That's just how humans works. Humans are social, some of them more, some of them less.
One or the best content on the platform on absolute scale
Your voice is music to my ears. Thank you for this.
You have the most relaxing voice on RUclips
So, End up alone. Might be the greatest wish one could ask for in this sick twisted reality of 2022 🥃🔥
Bruh
Absolutely correct
With the hook up culture, all the promiscuity out there. The way people are so f up. I can guarantee you that being alone right now is the best thing that could happen to you. You are dodging so many bullets. Go accomplish your goals.
You ok?
Cheers 🍻 Mate
As an introvert who likes his space and being alone I'm grateful to be alone everyday.... only times I want someone is when I am deep in a lustful state....💀 I'm an awful human being for thinking like this but yeah just my honest thoughts lmao....
I struggle with it too tho I’m working on it
im very closely related to the problem but i feel like im on different pole, solitude and loneliness is so developed in me and normal in my life that i dont even consider it hurtful or bad anymore, it's only just exhausting
Then I may have this in a more progressed way…. I didn’t care for so long till the point I started to sob and wanted to be touched or heard and this is my current situation. I’m all alone no family to reach out to (diff. Country) haven’t had a gf in 3 years, losing the little values I have left and feeling more and more demoralized by the things people do and say now a days, how much more solitude can I take? I’m scared.
I'm sure it is exhausting!
@@TheToche88 this right here is my situation exactly, i feel you. it’s a really exhausting path. im constantly thinking if i’ll feel and live this way all my life. hope you find someone or something that makes you feel less lonely :)
How have things turned out?@@TheToche88
@@TheToche88how have things turned out?
I have this fear, thank you sm for this video!
I'm glad I could share some perspective with you!
As someone who has always been most comfortable completely alone, which made me have an allergy to touchy feely nonsense, making all my relationships short or simple flings.
Now I spend a single night with someone I met on the spot and a part of me awoke that I thought was dead.
Like someone threw an ember back in my engine, which ignited something that now I can't put back out.
I thought I knew who I was, yet now that's in doubt.
Who am I? And what do I really want?
... You would think I would know the answers to these questions, yet I do not.
How very uncomfortable.
Yes. I get your point. I feel like different person from day to day. Sometimes I'm strong, sometimes I'm weak. Sometimes I know who I am, sometimes I don't know what the hell's going on. I recently just fell in love with someone, and I was perfectly happy by myself. Now I'm stressed! I guess I don't know myself. Maybe tomorrow I will.
You're really good at what you're doing I hope you realize that.
I don't know if I should feel grateful or attacked over the fact that this appeared on my recommended.
This really spoke to me. You rock Masha
Please make another video where you talk like you did in “crystal collection”, i loved the soft talking
You are so wise! I'm amazed by you each and every time
Yeah. Todays my birthday and pretty much nobody but like 3 people remembered. I got no gifts and got myself no gifts bc all I wanted was to be with friends or something. So useless I honestly am more mad at myself for hoping it’d be different this year. Hope y’all are having a better day
You’re glowing literally
Thank you so much 💜
Your hair color is just ! I don’t know wt to say about it its just so beautiful to look at
I've just accepted it at this point in my life. People have and always will come and leave. You learn to get use to being alone. You still have friends, family and co-workers but you don't need more. It would be nice but in 23 years I have always been alone. ❤
I’m like idk why I have to watch these videos every day but Thank you
Keep up the good work Masha, loving the vids lately ♥
Thank you so much! 💜
This somehow makes me feel a little bit better, but I genuinely believe that I'm probably going to alone for a good while...
Love the new lighting
The one thing I've always noticed in my life is whenever i stop thinking about something, and least expect it, it occurs. But it's so hard not to focus on that. Like i just don't care about anything else, and it's so hard to try not to focus on those things
A lot of people have just been projecting their insecurities on me. They are mad and jealous, because I'm the complete opposite of them. They are fake, liars, thieves.
I just want a partner that is nice to me and is loving, i dont care about looks. All i want is someone who i connect with and can trust. Im done with cheaters and people who use me for their own good, relationships are supposed to go both ways meaning both people provide happiness and trust to eachother. Personality is what i care about. Shared interests are a bonus of course, like id love to find someone who i can watch tv series with or just chill with or cuddle with. I havent felt physical touch from a lover in years now, a hug from a stranger would make my week. The sad reality is that men live alone and men die alone. I dont see a future were i dont kms, and i know it sounds brutal but its how i feel.
your whispers ❤🔥
I must say i wasnt expecting a video about this topic!
Thank you so much for reading my comment and giving us your perspective on this, I understand the logic behind your thinking, however it gets quite difficult sometimes.
I believe i have to improve myself on that aspect, lately i've been reading alot of stoic teachings, and i recommend to everyone struggling with this.
Even though I dont use much of social media, I'll definitely follow you on instagram :)
Again, thank you.
It was a pleasure, very interesting question to bounce off of, thank you for sharing 💜
i hope you do russian speaking video someday, im really curious or idk i really want to hear it from you so much 😅❤
Uh... hey. Person... everyone.
YOU'RE RIGHT THERE.
You are you.
You are NEVER alone.
Your entire existence is because of your OWN self.
Forgive yourself.
Then try to do good.
That's really the best that You can do.
Thank you for this video! ❤ this is such a great content
Thank you for your kind words 💜
I always assume if nobody interacts with me, then I'm not really important to them. That, paired with basing my worth on what I can offer to the world really takes a toll on my self esteem.
You’re a blessing, stay real 🤘
Means so much 💜
WoW, i never would've thought i would land on a asmr video ok RUclips , especially about this topic.. But to be honest, you described my inner feelings and situations exactly 💯..... 🙌🏽
Ur never alone,god is always with us❤🇲🇦🤷🏻♂️
I have that same exact carpet in my bedroom, nice choice! It gets along nicely with your eyes' color
Tried to watch this several times for what you have to say on the topic but I fell asleep right away each time ☺😴🙃 lol thank you for creating and sharing with us all
i feel like the only people that have “loved” me or will love me are people that just hurt me. i feel like i am not meant for a caring love
I legit can't stop starring at your gorgeous eyes
This was so helpful, thank you girl! ❤❤❤❤❤
That's so true. Thanks for the perspective
Actions speak louder than words people come in your life and then people leave what has a beginning has an end what has an ending there is always a new beginning it's called moving on starting over it's not a bad thing because starting over is the beginning of something better than what you had before and if your in a relationship it always takes two to manage that relationship communication is also important in a relationship talk to one another talk about a solution to whatever conditions your relationship is facing it's called putting in effort but just remember it's takes 2 both has to put in effort to move forward together
Breakups were never hard for me. They always felt natural. But recently it felt really hard. Something I was not ready for but I had to go through. I am so heartbroken and betrayed. l am scared to be myself again. Thank you for your beautiful video
Heartbreak can make you numb to everything
The best 19 minutes i watched in my life ❤ thank u so much for these golden words.
Btw you are so so gorgeous
once suffered from it. but still, it's nice to hear words of consolation
I have no problem growing up alone. At 13 I just knew it wasn't going to happen and I would drive my mother insane.
There was a time i wanted nothing but love.
But honestly, paying my rent means so much more to me.
I never really knew that I could feel comforted by the cold truth before. It’s crazy
Ur so beautifull, I have no words.
Thank u for ur videos from Russia, Ekaterinburg.
I don't know how it is in English, but у тебя чудесный голос и завораживающие глаза; неужели ты и правда существуешь? Такое чувство, будто в своих детских мечтах от дракона я спасал именно тебя. Что-то в тебе есть такое неописуемо родное.
Гнев и грусть куда-то уходят при виде тебя, остаётся только какая-то наивность. Сразу начинаю верить в сказки и мечтать.
“If you can’t take care of what you already have, what makes you think you are ready for more?”
damn this question slaps me so hard, IN the face.
Thank you :) this helped me a lot
I'm glad
I'm 21. Been alone my whole life even with people around. When I left high school that's when there were less people around. Last June I ended things with my ex girlfriend of 3.5 years. It was shockingly easy to be comfortable with flying solo.
Problem I face is my anxiety and Depression always comes back that it’s wearing me down massively but I’m lost in where to even start to get back on track anywhere