I've just started to listen to Byran Katie it's only been 2 weeks and I feel I've found a missing part of me through her. I'm already relaxing into my life like never before. I'm a meditation facilitator and healer through words . I use visions given to me by spirit and guide people on journeys. I have no prepared script and totally rely on the peace and love of the peasant moment that my guided meditation will be of service and healing for my clients. It's taken me years to feel relaxed about receiving money and over the years I was met with many people who reflected my beliefs of not being paid for my service's, so many would come and not pay so I stopped practising because I needed to live pay bills eat raise children etc. I started practicing again just for the love of it but this time I made it clear that for the energy to be received, there needs to be energy expelled as this is what I believe now, I'm always paid now and I have full confidence that if I'm not it will work out somewhere at some time. Thank you BK for the work.💞🙏
This would absolutely torture my ego if I was David. It was shining the light on it anyway just from watching from my phone. Hot. Byron Katie 🙏❤️🔥🙇♀️🪷 David, thank you for all your one-liners & your bravery! 🙇♀️💗
Thank you so much for sharing the wonderful conversation with Byron Katie. You did a great job. All the questions were answered here, which I’ve been carrying in my head for a long long time. I wish you every success you wish in your career. Good luck.
@@solutionbox You should notice what a great listener you were for her. It’s the one who make a teacher rock, isn’t it? She needs someone to share her findings. Your conversation is with far more values than the one with Jon Cabatt-Jin, because he, I guess, hasn’t gone to School. (Maybe I should do the Work on my guessing…lol) I’ve already watch the video four times and I’ll watch it again and again. How about you? I highly recommend. Here’s a present for you. As you know our thinking and believing is so powerful. You can say this to you and anyone else. You don’t have to vocalize it. Just thinking will give them the power. Try it and you’ll know what is. It’ll help you surviving until you do the work on the problems. I have a perfect and very happy future waiting for me, and all the problems I feel I have now will be solved in a moment by happy happenings. I am determined to move towards a happy future in no time. I get my money, my partner, my family, whatever I want. I am okay.
I’m a big fan of Katie! Here’s what came to my mind. I spent the last 2.5 years and all the money I had (was given) on investing in my musical career. Now, I have a budget for 1 month left and no planned/regular income from my music AND songwriting course/workshops I designed. I worked my ass off the last 2.5 years only to come to this point. Which a part of me calls a failure. However, here’s what I’ve learned: 1. People will come to me to be coached on songwriting only AFTER I have shown what I can do with my songwriting. (Even though I teach regularly at a very prestigious music production institute, yet that only happens twice a year and it’s not enough to pay the bills). 2. I feel like I had it backwards because “I wanna make a living with my music” - means putting the carriage in front of the horse. So I changed it to “I intend to pour my heart into my songs and share through them the knowledge and experience that has helped me become a happier, more balanced person.” If people out there find it valuable and worthy of booking me and paying money to see me perform, that’s a sign that I’m ready to make a living with music. Not earlier than that. 3. If my own music becomes successful, so will my songwriting workshops- after all who wouldn’t want to learn from someone who made it? 4. Everything happens in its own time. You can’t force a growth anymore than you can force a tree to grow faster. So I am now humbly looking for a part time job or two. I continue with recording my new album, including making live performance videos to offer to bookers. The rest is none of my business. They like it, great! They don’t, fine, too. I gave it all.
Your #2 really impacted me, Petra. Realy spoke to where I've been as an artist. Particularly artistic work really is a function of letting go of what you can't control, but also finding the better intention--which you can.
I have no interest in this topic but every time I hear Byron Katie speak, I expand, I myself literally grow just listening. He and she are saying the same thing, but some simple words from her mouth are like fireworks.
Awesome video. I have had two coaching sessions where there were stretches of several minutes where nothing was said and both were incredibly powerful per the feedback of the client
Love that BK thinks of others as "friends".....this is how The Buddha and his disciples addressed others ...💙.....thanks for another wonderful video .....both of you ....
BK: " I don't know who/how I am going to be on stage. We all find out together." A statement so authentic, and a thought we could all begin our day with for ourselves. You can feel the breath expand in that thought. She never gets old.......literally and message "wise." Love her! We have been programed what value is. as a facilitator of change, I have learned, everyone that is drawn to me, is me. The value :) is always great to me, and I can not know what it is for them. I will say that it has often happened, that years later I have often heard about profound movement that happened in clients/friends lives, as a result of our "loving/equal" exchange. This was a wonderful exchange, thank you so much! And David you are a sweetheart.
Thanks so much for sharing, so insightful. I love recognising the perfect perfection of all beings, wherever they are in life, including myself. Knowing we cannot do it wrong, no mistakes. I've always found the word 'coach' challenging, labels can be....when we are all things, multi-dimensional and want to celebrate it all......but the title helps others find us, which is beautiful. It's also lovely to know that all we need to do is be comfortable with ourselves and that's enough for someone else (or it's not). :) We question our stressful thoughts to lead us to peace and unconditional love. So we fall in love with the dance of life .... We can fall in love with the idea of achieving big, exciting goals, that's beautiful too.... we don't need to question joyful thoughts, only stressful ones. I think of this as awakening to reality.... .....I just love the thought of waking up in Ko Phi Phi for example..... We can have a list of goals and work towards them daily and simply question any stressful thoughts. We can even practise cold showers and short term discomfort for longer term joy...... it's fun, it's playful, life is so beautiful, it's all things....ugly and beautiful, the same beautiful when the mind is peaceful. So clients can enjoy wanting to see results that's beautiful .....a peaceful mind, goals, the future, whatever brings them joy. Notes to myself of course. Love to you.
I think what BK is explaining to a Coach is already one of the core principles of Coaching. Only when we practice real authentic Coaching ,is when we coach really effectively Iam a Coach myself,have also exercised BK work or inquiry ,on myself and also with my client. It is all about being self aware,and acceptance of oneself ,for some people it takes a lifetime to being self aware , because venturing into our dark inner side takes courage.
Great video, great input from Katie! :) One thing about coaching and the principles of coaching: It seems that it gets often mixed up with teaching. When David talked about what value to give, what to say and what to plan... that sounded like teaching. I made the mistake often to think that I had to share stuff, my experiences and to teach people. This often did not land well. Lately I realized that coaching is only about the agenda of the client. That I cannot plan a coaching since I don't know where the client wants to go. And that when I want to teach something I have to ask for permission since it may be off of the client's agenda and their direction. My conversations have gotten so much more enjoyable and impactful. Since it's about the self-discovery of the client, not my agenda to teach or my value. Many beliefs and insecurities around coaching just dropped away by understanding what coaching is, how it's structured and what my job as a coach is :)
So to David; in 2010 Katie gave me a scholarship to the school ( free) and I did the work about I haven’t paid her back... over the last 10 yrs I became a mental health counselor I have taught the work to many many other counselors many many of my clients given her books as gifts, recommended her school her web site her books.... I haven’t paid her back... turned around I have paid her back... I believe I have and I just can’t ever know how much... Katie said every session I show up for me... I find that to be true for me and I invite the day that I stop showing up for me in a session because how else would I know it’s time to stop counseling... if I’m no longer engaged no longer care just there because I have to pay my bills.., time to go... simple
David seems to be Coached by BK,he is simply lucky ,he needs to work on his own raising his self awareness ,in short all Coaches need a Coach ,so do David.
“One person’s gonna be there and that’s you.”
🤯❤️🔥
Byron Katie is the absolute best. 😯❤
I've just started to listen to Byran Katie it's only been 2 weeks and I feel I've found a missing part of me through her. I'm already relaxing into my life like never before. I'm a meditation facilitator and healer through words . I use visions given to me by spirit and guide people on journeys. I have no prepared script and totally rely on the peace and love of the peasant moment that my guided meditation will be of service and healing for my clients. It's taken me years to feel relaxed about receiving money and over the years I was met with many people who reflected my beliefs of not being paid for my service's, so many would come and not pay so I stopped practising because I needed to live pay bills eat raise children etc. I started practicing again just for the love of it but this time I made it clear that for the energy to be received, there needs to be energy expelled as this is what I believe now, I'm always paid now and I have full confidence that if I'm not it will work out somewhere at some time. Thank you BK for the work.💞🙏
so glad you found her. btw a clip from this interview just appeared on my podcast if you'd like to listen -playforreal.life/podcast
This would absolutely torture my ego if I was David. It was shining the light on it anyway just from watching from my phone. Hot. Byron Katie 🙏❤️🔥🙇♀️🪷
David, thank you for all your one-liners & your bravery! 🙇♀️💗
It was a challenge for sure!
I really enjoyed and learned from this. I treasure authenticity from myself and others, until I don't. 😉Then I do The Work. It's always a win.
THANKS for your courage Dave...
feels good to be acknowledged - thank you
Thank you so much for sharing the wonderful conversation with Byron Katie. You did a great job. All the questions were answered here, which I’ve been carrying in my head for a long long time. I wish you every success you wish in your career. Good luck.
you're so welcome Ice. thanks for the feedback. She rocks, does she not?
@@solutionbox You should notice what a great listener you were for her. It’s the one who make a teacher rock, isn’t it? She needs someone to share her findings.
Your conversation is with far more values than the one with Jon Cabatt-Jin, because he, I guess, hasn’t gone to School.
(Maybe I should do the Work on my guessing…lol)
I’ve already watch the video four times and I’ll watch it again and again. How about you? I highly recommend.
Here’s a present for you.
As you know our thinking and believing is so powerful. You can say this to you and anyone else. You don’t have to vocalize it. Just thinking will give them the power. Try it and you’ll know what is. It’ll help you surviving until you do the work on the problems.
I have a perfect and very happy future waiting for me, and all the problems I feel I have now will be solved in a moment by happy happenings.
I am determined to move towards a happy future in no time.
I get my money, my partner, my family, whatever I want.
I am okay.
I love this lady!!!
right!?
I’m a big fan of Katie!
Here’s what came to my mind. I spent the last 2.5 years and all the money I had (was given) on investing in my musical career. Now, I have a budget for 1 month left and no planned/regular income from my music AND songwriting course/workshops I designed. I worked my ass off the last 2.5 years only to come to this point. Which a part of me calls a failure.
However, here’s what I’ve learned:
1. People will come to me to be coached on songwriting only AFTER I have shown what I can do with my songwriting. (Even though I teach regularly at a very prestigious music production institute, yet that only happens twice a year and it’s not enough to pay the bills).
2. I feel like I had it backwards because “I wanna make a living with my music” - means putting the carriage in front of the horse. So I changed it to “I intend to pour my heart into my songs and share through them the knowledge and experience that has helped me become a happier, more balanced person.” If people out there find it valuable and worthy of booking me and paying money to see me perform, that’s a sign that I’m ready to make a living with music. Not earlier than that.
3. If my own music becomes successful, so will my songwriting workshops- after all who wouldn’t want to learn from someone who made it?
4. Everything happens in its own time. You can’t force a growth anymore than you can force a tree to grow faster.
So I am now humbly looking for a part time job or two. I continue with recording my new album, including making live performance videos to offer to bookers.
The rest is none of my business. They like it, great! They don’t, fine, too. I gave it all.
Petra Jordan thank you for sharing🌺
Start an donation campaign
Hi Petra, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I'm humbled by your candor. Wish you great success regardless of how your music career grows. ♥️
Sending love Petra!
Your #2 really impacted me, Petra. Realy spoke to where I've been as an artist. Particularly artistic work really is a function of letting go of what you can't control, but also finding the better intention--which you can.
I have no interest in this topic but every time I hear Byron Katie speak, I expand, I myself literally grow just listening. He and she are saying the same thing, but some simple words from her mouth are like fireworks.
Yes being in her presence…
Thank you for creating the opportunity for such a great “coaching” with you and Katie, for free!
My pleasure Vahideh
Thank you for publishing this. It’s really helpful.
thanks for letting me know!
This is really helpful. Thank you very much! ♥
You’re welcome!
Awesome video. I have had two coaching sessions where there were stretches of several minutes where nothing was said and both were incredibly powerful per the feedback of the client
silence is golden....
Beautiful interview! Shared it with so many coaches that I know. Appreciate you!
Love that BK thinks of others as "friends".....this is how The Buddha and his disciples addressed others ...💙.....thanks for another wonderful video .....both of you ....
yes, everybody is her friend. You're welcome!
A very honest conversation. Thanks x
you're so welcome Marguerite.
What a powerful session David! Thanks for sharing! :)
my pleasure! Good to see you on this channel Aditya. I'm about to put a lot more attention on social media.
My appreciation💕
This is SO very helpful!!! I'm working with these issues. Thanks!
This is very timely I can’t wait to interview you.
This grows us all. Right on time. Spot on. I DO REALLY keep wondering how life brings this all together. Just in awe. David, THANK YOU!
you're welcome!
I’m not a coach but when I overlay my concepts around dating, this is equally helpful. Thank you! Love BK
my pleasure Denise!
BK: " I don't know who/how I am going to be on stage. We all find out together." A statement so authentic, and a thought we could all begin our day with for ourselves. You can feel the breath expand in that thought. She never gets old.......literally and message "wise." Love her! We have been programed what value is. as a facilitator of change, I have learned, everyone that is drawn to me, is me. The value :) is always great to me, and I can not know what it is for them. I will say that it has often happened, that years later I have often heard about profound movement that happened in clients/friends lives, as a result of our "loving/equal" exchange. This was a wonderful exchange, thank you so much!
And David you are a sweetheart.
beautiful quotes
This was so incredibly helpful 🙏💕 thank you both so much!
Thanks so much for sharing, so insightful. I love recognising the perfect perfection of all beings, wherever they are in life, including myself. Knowing we cannot do it wrong, no mistakes. I've always found the word 'coach' challenging, labels can be....when we are all things, multi-dimensional and want to celebrate it all......but the title helps others find us, which is beautiful. It's also lovely to know that all we need to do is be comfortable with ourselves and that's enough for someone else (or it's not). :) We question our stressful thoughts to lead us to peace and unconditional love. So we fall in love with the dance of life .... We can fall in love with the idea of achieving big, exciting goals, that's beautiful too.... we don't need to question joyful thoughts, only stressful ones. I think of this as awakening to reality.... .....I just love the thought of waking up in Ko Phi Phi for example..... We can have a list of goals and work towards them daily and simply question any stressful thoughts. We can even practise cold showers and short term discomfort for longer term joy...... it's fun, it's playful, life is so beautiful, it's all things....ugly and beautiful, the same beautiful when the mind is peaceful. So clients can enjoy wanting to see results that's beautiful .....a peaceful mind, goals, the future, whatever brings them joy. Notes to myself of course. Love to you.
perfect perfection....I like this
We are big fans of Byron's work. Thanks for sharing this exclusive interview.
you're welcome! More on the podcast (including Katie) at playforreal.life/podcast
Thanks for asking this questions
I think what BK is explaining to a Coach is already one of the core principles of Coaching.
Only when we practice real authentic Coaching ,is when we coach really effectively
Iam a Coach myself,have also exercised BK work or inquiry ,on myself and also with my client.
It is all about being self aware,and acceptance of oneself ,for some people it takes a lifetime to being self aware , because venturing into our dark inner side takes courage.
Great video, great input from Katie! :)
One thing about coaching and the principles of coaching:
It seems that it gets often mixed up with teaching. When David talked about what value to give, what to say and what to plan... that sounded like teaching.
I made the mistake often to think that I had to share stuff, my experiences and to teach people. This often did not land well.
Lately I realized that coaching is only about the agenda of the client. That I cannot plan a coaching since I don't know where the client wants to go.
And that when I want to teach something I have to ask for permission since it may be off of the client's agenda and their direction.
My conversations have gotten so much more enjoyable and impactful. Since it's about the self-discovery of the client, not my agenda to teach or my value.
Many beliefs and insecurities around coaching just dropped away by understanding what coaching is, how it's structured and what my job as a coach is :)
David I have loved this from the first time you allowed us to see it. It is so powerful. Call me Ex-guru.
thanks mate!
This is really perfect timing for me, thank you!
I'm so glad...
Thank you David
My great pleasure Emily!
One moment when people listen to Katie you see from one point they really listen and have another deeper look
well said Kati - second look, third look...
So to David; in 2010 Katie gave me a scholarship to the school ( free) and I did the work about I haven’t paid her back... over the last 10 yrs I became a mental health counselor I have taught the work to many many other counselors many many of my clients given her books as gifts, recommended her school her web site her books.... I haven’t paid her back... turned around I have paid her back... I believe I have and I just can’t ever know how much... Katie said every session I show up for me... I find that to be true for me and I invite the day that I stop showing up for me in a session because how else would I know it’s time to stop counseling... if I’m no longer engaged no longer care just there because I have to pay my bills.., time to go... simple
I love Katie
the best video ever. thank you again
is this Gisella from Turn Around House?
Thank you!!!
you're welcome!
Thank you for posting this. This really helped me deeply
Thank you very much for uploading!
so happy to read all this gratitude :-)
Pure Perfection.💜
she is, isn't she Nikki?
Wow! Great topics!
Thanks cooli- appreciate the encouragement
Thank you David and Katie for this video, I've learnt a lot as a young coach.The idea to coach myself first was very powerful for me.
yes, we coach ourselves every day :-)
"The Less Scenario" is a great thought.
Less in what way Kelly?
Thanks David for sharing.
you got it- i'll keep em coming!
If I could seat with Katie, I would definitely turn off my phone. It's time to do the work and judge David 😊
lol - truly!
She is WONDERFUL,,,and still looks like Liz Taylor!
ha - hadn't thought about that- I guess she does James :-)
Insecurity is a big block to starting anything! Gets in the way of daring to be vulnerable and real. Fear of judgment is huge for me.
so true Lena
AMAZING 🙏❤
she is, isn't she?
I'm interested to start giving "coaching" calls for free cuz it helps me and them to inquire together it's a learning process for both involved.
David seems to be Coached by BK,he is simply lucky ,he needs to work on his own raising his self awareness ,in short all Coaches need a Coach ,so do David.
And God is love =D and we are made in his image of love! therefore we are love too!
❤️
Well, Jack wouldn't come there for free...so who is going to pay him!?
❤️🙏🏻
if you dont do sport daylie and you are not vegetarian dont think beeng a couch
she should do asmr