I respect that she was interested in reaching out to help those in prison. Or should I say an actual physical prison bc in some way we can all be prisoners of our minds.
For her, I would imagine for myself that she would have seen it so many time that it isn't new. She's grieved for these things already. There are plenty of videos where the whole audience and her cry. It's a true experience and has changed my life.
I'll be honest, at first it's hard to understand what she is actually talking about, except for two points stated hyperbolically which are obvious to everyone, and all of us share. Very few people are full of compassion except for brief moments or short periods of time. To turn growth into a formula for dialogue seems to me a reduction that is not particularly useful. But then watching her dialogue with each person gives a pattern to follow for self exploration and growing. Nice exercise. Seriously.
Wray Rae Mooji was cool until his sexual misconduct came out. Mooji still has a lot of human things to process. Very few mature and clean teachers out there.
@@MegaHealer indeed true. Be your own teacher, all others are mere reflections and never the real one. For the only real one can only be found in the most quiet, empty space that abides in you....
@@waiataaroha 1. Is that true? 2. Can you absolutely know it's true? 3. How do react when you think that thought? 4. Who would you be without that thought? Turn it around...😊
Nearly 20 years since the video was made. The Work still valid.. makes me ponder how no matter the diatance, or time lapsed or personal circumstances, we experience the same pain and same solution works its magic.
I first met Byron Katie while in school to become a Certified Hypnotherapist. One of our instructors Diane Bradshaw had us all go see her to learn "The Work". It is such a simple but powerful technique. I utilized this in my hypnotherapy practice with amazing results. Thank you Byron, much love.
I like this video because she provides examples based on her experience. The work was flushed out really well, which I think is very helpful for people new to the work. Thanks for posting this!
I love how simple Byron puts this. And I am in aw of the work that she is doing these beautiful human beings. 🙏🏻🥰. These four questions bring me out of my darkness and in to peace ✌️
Going to sound corny but when I see these prisoners share their personal stories.. I just fall in love with all of them!!! I just want to lift them up and heal their wounds and show them that they are so capable of love and being the love they are. Humans are so amazing and heartbreaking and adorable. Watching them taste just a little drop of what truly matters and how how starving they are to know love, just makes we want to do what she does. If only there was a place for humans to get a quick and through dose of self-understanding and love... That technology may come someday? Self destruction is such a painful path especially if we have been taught it from the beginning.. Yet each of them has their unique path... I could see how it might be difficult for some of them to hit this work when the cycle of victimhood has been such a part of every day existence. Yet the beautiful thing about Katie is she knows exactly how far she can take each one of them towards meeting their personal truth. Her work is embedded into my daily existence and watching these beautiful men tell their stories quickly opens my heart wide open. Give her work a chance if you are a hardcore resistant-to-life person... like I often can be... Wanting the world to be different than it is.. I would likely have left the planet years ago if it were not for finding her and her work, and so glad to be here. The beauty and depth of "the work" discovered ***her*** and she now shares this unconditional tough-love with the world selflessly. I will forever cherish all the ways this process has touched my life and always fascinated by how beautiful people are at their core. 1000% responsibility is never easy and takes willingness, courage and strength, but the payoff is priceless beyond words. I can't help but fall in love with all of them such beautiful humans.. Her work is way ahead of it's time, yet needed more than ever these days. : ) Perhaps someday humans will finally get it? PEACE on earth, goodwill be done... towards all life, someday, somehow, someway...amen
Profound exercise and Work. Just beautiful.. jaw dropoing wisdom... and on a lighter note, I love that the one guy's problem being in prison is that his family home is painted blue and he doesn't like it.
Our Own Negative Energy Created Our Own World / Mind Of Hell. Our Own Negative Beliefs Created Dark Relationships, Troubles Everywhere In Our Own World. This Is The Ego Which ALWAYS Blames/ Projects/ Looks "Outside" When The Only Way Out Is The Way In. 💜 Deeply Watch Our Beliefs, Thoughts and If We Look Deep Enough... We Will See How It Manifests In Our World. We Must Forgive As Christ Did... For They Know Not... We Must Also Know That The Story Of Christ Is About Us. We Are All The Light Of God. ☀ God Awaken All and Keep All In Our Open Heart. 💜🙏💛
I think people abused more and past the abuse on when they don't question their own thoughts. This is a lesson in taking responsibility for our own thoughts. It doesn't mean that we were not abused, it just means we are looking at how we make thoughts up that Hold Us in a prison. When we begin to do the turn around and find reasons to not be stuck in the prison then we can find reasons to make our own life better and not pass that abuse on.
4 questions Belief- eg people are not compassionate 1. Is it true?YES! 2. Can you absolutely know its true? No... 3. How do you feel about that thought? 4. Who would you be without that thought? The turnaround: I am not compassionate at the moment that I'm judging others People Are compassionate
This is one of my favorite earlier videos and I am grateful to Guy Madison for uploading it, for the guys who volunteered to share their worksheets, and obviously for Katie! I wonder how many of the gentlemen were long-term well-affected by Katie's visit? So great!
this video has let me know how many resentments in my life i have. how it is me and my thinking that has made me fucked up, amazing!!! turn it all around!!
Thanks Byron Katie. I just saw a story on the news about a prison system that had a book club that inspired men to donate funds to a young student whose parents had lost their jobs do to illness. I don't know if my phone is trolling me or not but I think that is an example of how people like you are giving hope.
This is d first tym I am hearing her. She has an inner light "We are Stuck in a concept we never question" Yes we imagine things, both positiveor negative, n we believe it like robots 'Loving father, not the judging father'
Perhaps the qualifier "adequately " should be used. We can attempt description of things that we know lie beyond language. Anyone who has had a NDE, a lucid or vivid dream, or a trip will experience things that they just can't English. But we try. It's a shame to condemn a person for their (necessarily inadequate) efforts.
at around 17:22 this is a massive paradigm shift - that in this particular case the subject seems to agree with. and in this case alot of insights and revelations come forth. can anyone who has a good grasp of her techniques please comment on a different scenario? say the person who was traumatized by an older person who had authority over them, such as someone held captive and then abused by their mean-spirited captives. is there any value in this type of therapy for a situation such as that? where the victim truly had no influence one way or another as to what horrible things that were inflicted to them... or is there a better, or different, paradigm that a victim can use here to help heal from such a wound. if the victims statement was 'i resent my abusive tormentors for the pain they inflicted to me', how could that ever be turned around to any other type of a statement that could ever give such a victim a different more healthy perspective on such a traumatic situation? Any insights would be very welcome, as I am trying to learn more about how to help heal the pains of victims. Not professionally but in the role of being a good friend.
Byron Katie is not saying that abuse didn't happen. The questions just help us to explore our beliefs and judgements so that we can find peace. It is a way to think about more than our fixed beliefs as we become aware that 1) we only see our one-sided perspective, 2) our imaginations mostly don't reflect reality, 3) abusers are dealing with their own problems and beliefs, and 4) mentally we often are our own tormentors.
After watching the Dahmer series, I wonder what it would be like to watch Katie doing the work with Jeffrey. I'm sure he would've be fascinated to meet someone like her, and doing the inquiry in order to understand his mind.
Bt the end, we see her become severe and defensive rather than to acknowledge the limitations of her method. Her supposed compassion goes away when as she tries to avoid getting exposed.
The answer to question 2 is always "no", as the only thing that we can absolutely be certain of is that we exist (Descartes' cogito). Every belief can be turned around, even the positive ones.
@@Theodolphe If the answer to question 2 is "yes", that is the answer. the work is not about forcing yourself to get the right answer, but to find what is absolutely true *for you*. there were times ppl were answering "yes" to the second question, and nothing wrong with that.
The mind fights hard to hang on to it’s suffering. She’s great
She shared how she did her self-healing process. Thanks Katie. I thank God you were born brave and kind
Katie is a hero for doing this worknwithbtgese guys. They are so often neglected. Thank you Katie.
She needs to teach the guards, the police and the soldiers.
Is that true? 😜
@@taramickeymickeranno8725 lol
sounds controlling
I respect that she was interested in reaching out to help those in prison. Or should I say an actual physical prison bc in some way we can all be prisoners of our minds.
tp
need to teach this to children!!!!!!!!!!
I love this video. I don't know how she got through this without sobbing.. It's beautiful interaction. Those men who shared were very brave.
For her, I would imagine for myself that she would have seen it so many time that it isn't new. She's grieved for these things already. There are plenty of videos where the whole audience and her cry. It's a true experience and has changed my life.
Next to Jesus, she is my favorite teacher!
I'll be honest, at first it's hard to understand what she is actually talking about, except for two points stated hyperbolically which are obvious to everyone, and all of us share. Very few people are full of compassion except for brief moments or short periods of time. To turn growth into a formula for dialogue seems to me a reduction that is not particularly useful. But then watching her dialogue with each person gives a pattern to follow for self exploration and growing. Nice exercise. Seriously.
Wray Rae Mooji was cool until his sexual misconduct came out. Mooji still has a lot of human things to process. Very few mature and clean teachers out there.
@@davidyatesmckay not even close to J
@@MegaHealer indeed true. Be your own teacher, all others are mere reflections and never the real one. For the only real one can only be found in the most quiet, empty space that abides in you....
@@waiataaroha 1. Is that true? 2. Can you absolutely know it's true? 3. How do react when you think that thought? 4. Who would you be without that thought? Turn it around...😊
How I LOVE her. Thank God for her in the world today.
The turnarounds get me every time. I am in tears again.
That´s wonderful!
Lena K same here!
“My father was abusive to me... I was abusive to my father.. wow that’s true” 🥲
Nearly 20 years since the video was made. The Work still valid.. makes me ponder how no matter the diatance, or time lapsed or personal circumstances, we experience the same pain and same solution works its magic.
I first met Byron Katie while in school to become a Certified Hypnotherapist. One of our instructors Diane Bradshaw had us all go see her to learn "The Work". It is such a simple but powerful technique. I utilized this in my hypnotherapy practice with amazing results. Thank you Byron, much love.
I’ve been interested in doing hypnotherapy. May I ask what school you attended?
Everyone would forget about the past if they could we can’t but we can question it and have a better now 🤯👍🏻
One does not have to forget about thoughts of past and future. They will arise. It is a matter of non-identification and realization of Awareness.
You truly are doing gods work. Your approach is mind numbing in its brilliant simplicity. Thank you.
These beautiful souls.
When Scott and Katie hugged and she kissed him on the cheek it took my breath away. Beautiful.
I like this video because she provides examples based on her experience. The work was flushed out really well, which I think is very helpful for people new to the work. Thanks for posting this!
I love how simple Byron puts this. And I am in aw of the work that she is doing these beautiful human beings. 🙏🏻🥰. These four questions bring me out of my darkness and in to peace ✌️
Going to sound corny but when I see these prisoners share their personal stories.. I just fall in love with all of them!!!
I just want to lift them up and heal their wounds and show them that they are so capable of love and being the love they are.
Humans are so amazing and heartbreaking and adorable.
Watching them taste just a little drop of what truly matters and how how starving they are to know love, just makes we want to do what she does.
If only there was a place for humans to get a quick and through dose of self-understanding and love... That technology may come someday?
Self destruction is such a painful path especially if we have been taught it from the beginning.. Yet each of them has their unique path...
I could see how it might be difficult for some of them to hit this work when the cycle of victimhood has been such a part of every day existence.
Yet the beautiful thing about Katie is she knows exactly how far she can take each one of them towards meeting their personal truth.
Her work is embedded into my daily existence and watching these beautiful men tell their stories quickly opens my heart wide open.
Give her work a chance if you are a hardcore resistant-to-life person... like I often can be... Wanting the world to be different than it is..
I would likely have left the planet years ago if it were not for finding her and her work, and so glad to be here.
The beauty and depth of "the work" discovered ***her*** and she now shares this unconditional tough-love with the world selflessly.
I will forever cherish all the ways this process has touched my life and always fascinated by how beautiful people are at their core.
1000% responsibility is never easy and takes willingness, courage and strength, but the payoff is priceless beyond words.
I can't help but fall in love with all of them such beautiful humans..
Her work is way ahead of it's time, yet needed more than ever these days. : ) Perhaps someday humans will finally get it?
PEACE on earth, goodwill be done... towards all life, someday, somehow, someway...amen
I love 'The Work' for it's ability to allow me to see other people's sweetness. Thank you, Byron Katie. (Thanks for sharing this, Guy.)
Profound exercise and Work. Just beautiful.. jaw dropoing wisdom... and on a lighter note, I love that the one guy's problem being in prison is that his family home is painted blue and he doesn't like it.
Love her! Such an amazing, beautiful soul!
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
"We get really confused when love begins to replace hate and resentment." Truth haha
Pure gold!😃
I need HER to do work with me that warmly. Her compassion and acceptance is so right,
"You introduced yourself to heroin. He didn't hold you down and shoot you up" haha she's great 🙌🏽
This was Amazing, thank you for sharing
Our Own Negative Energy Created Our Own World / Mind Of Hell. Our Own Negative Beliefs Created Dark Relationships, Troubles Everywhere In Our Own World. This Is The Ego Which ALWAYS Blames/ Projects/ Looks "Outside" When The Only Way Out Is The Way In. 💜
Deeply Watch Our Beliefs, Thoughts and If We Look Deep Enough... We Will See How It Manifests In Our World. We Must Forgive As Christ Did... For They Know Not... We Must Also Know That The Story Of Christ Is About Us. We Are All The Light Of God.
☀
God Awaken All and Keep All In Our Open Heart.
💜🙏💛
Expectations are a premeditated resentment. My dad cared about me, but he didn’t do it the way I wanted.
Fantastic lady. Wow.
I'm on awe of Byron Katie's brilliance. Guy Madison, thank you for sharing this. Happy new year.
Anger is an indication that something needs attention.
Byron, remembering a GREAT chat we had about 12 years ago in Prague (at a Tony Robbins event)
some people are unaware of just how much their parents hurt them. it gets denied and hidden.
Yes, no one’s parents were perfect
I think people abused more and past the abuse on when they don't question their own thoughts.
This is a lesson in taking responsibility for our own thoughts.
It doesn't mean that we were not abused, it just means we are looking at how we make thoughts up that Hold Us in a prison.
When we begin to do the turn around and find reasons to not be stuck in the prison then we can find reasons to make our own life better and not pass that abuse on.
“To stand up for truth is nothing. For truth, you must sit in jail.”
-Alexander Solzhenitsyn
Thank you for this wonderful work with Byron Katie. Its very precious.
Thank you so much for showing me this as a reminder for things I already know, but sometimes forget again.
Thank you for sharing this video. I wish Byron Katie could visit every prison and every school and hospitals and families and workplaces!
Now turn that around?😀
what a pretty lady.
Pure Beauty..................WOW
What a beautiful human 💖💜💗 Fantastic work 🙌🏽🕉✝️💟
Thank you for posting this one. ❤️🥰❤️
4 questions
Belief- eg people are not compassionate
1. Is it true?YES!
2. Can you absolutely know its true? No...
3. How do you feel about that thought?
4. Who would you be without that thought?
The turnaround:
I am not compassionate at the moment that I'm judging others
People Are compassionate
This is amazing work .. so glad I found it ♥️
This really helped me.
Incredible.
Awesome spiritual guidance 💗🙏🏻🦋
Beautiful. Powerful.
“For me, to argue with reality is to argue with god.”
This is one of my favorite earlier videos and I am grateful to Guy Madison for uploading it, for the guys who volunteered to share their worksheets, and obviously for Katie! I wonder how many of the gentlemen were long-term well-affected by Katie's visit? So great!
a follow up with these men would be amazing.
I LOVE THIS VIDEO. Thank you 😘
Brilliant teaching
Thank you
This is absolutely incredible work.
This is beautiful.
Such a SWEET and LOVELY lady!!!
An amazing lady with talent to give hope
this video has let me know how many resentments in my life i have. how it is me and my thinking that has made me fucked up, amazing!!! turn it all around!!
Amazing human being
Thanks Byron Katie. I just saw a story on the news about a prison system that had a book club that inspired men to donate funds to a young student whose parents had lost their jobs do to illness. I don't know if my phone is trolling me or not but I think that is an example of how people like you are giving hope.
This is d first tym I am hearing her. She has an inner light
"We are Stuck in a concept we never question"
Yes we imagine things, both positiveor negative, n we believe it like robots
'Loving father, not the judging father'
I loved that you posted this again. Thank you!
Gracias por compartir !
Beautiful❤
thanks Guy M. needed to go back to this is for growth and found it here
That was incredible
This lovely woman is a genius!
Resentment chapter and seeing our part..its all in the AA big book
AA yes another inspired Work.
Thank you!
27:34 to argue with reality is to argue with god
acceptance.
Not sure how much she helped the second guy by getting him to think he had been nothing but abusive to his father. He just seemed hurt and confused
My situation is unfair so i feel angry and blame my wife.
I m blaming myself and I'm feeling angry at myself, the situation is fair.
Let's do the work😉
"I am what I call you"
ain't that the truth capital T.
this is everything.
But a friend pointed out when she says "this heart mind, there is a heart and a mind"... she basically is describing a SOUL
Noted.
Everything will turn out exactly how you decide?
The choice is yours?
Is it True?
Amazing
Resentment has its roots in envy
I like pepole. I can't understand how a nice guy like scoot can end up in prison. That's sad.
Which year is this?
That's hard.
And yet, so necessary.
🙏💜
Wait, was this held in an actual prison?
YEP she is in a actual prison
There are 83 sad people who are still stuck in their own prisons.
WOW!
@GuyMadison, can I upload and translate this video to russian?
🔥🔥🔥
The Genie Within ........................
🙏
What year is this from? Who are these guys? I love this but I have so many questions
❤️
wow
"an experience that I cannot describe to you....." that she goes on to actually describe in the very next sentence as being "connected."
Perhaps the qualifier "adequately " should be used. We can attempt description of things that we know lie beyond language. Anyone who has had a NDE, a lucid or vivid dream, or a trip will experience things that they just can't English. But we try. It's a shame to condemn a person for their (necessarily inadequate) efforts.
Altho presently we’re living in Orangeville
Yas ! Go girl helpn our brothers get free
at around 17:22 this is a massive paradigm shift - that in this particular case the subject seems to agree with. and in this case alot of insights and revelations come forth. can anyone who has a good grasp of her techniques please comment on a different scenario? say the person who was traumatized by an older person who had authority over them, such as someone held captive and then abused by their mean-spirited captives. is there any value in this type of therapy for a situation such as that? where the victim truly had no influence one way or another as to what horrible things that were inflicted to them... or is there a better, or different, paradigm that a victim can use here to help heal from such a wound. if the victims statement was 'i resent my abusive tormentors for the pain they inflicted to me', how could that ever be turned around to any other type of a statement that could ever give such a victim a different more healthy perspective on such a traumatic situation? Any insights would be very welcome, as I am trying to learn more about how to help heal the pains of victims. Not professionally but in the role of being a good friend.
Byron Katie is not saying that abuse didn't happen. The questions just help us to explore our beliefs and judgements so that we can find peace. It is a way to think about more than our fixed beliefs as we become aware that 1) we only see our one-sided perspective, 2) our imaginations mostly don't reflect reality, 3) abusers are dealing with their own problems and beliefs, and 4) mentally we often are our own tormentors.
❤❤❤❤👏👏👏👏👏👏😳😳😳😳
Who’s the man with blur face
👍
After watching the Dahmer series, I wonder what it would be like to watch Katie doing the work with Jeffrey. I'm sure he would've be fascinated to meet someone like her, and doing the inquiry in order to understand his mind.
@GuyMadison, can I upload and translate this video to russian?
Masquerade
Bt the end, we see her become severe and defensive rather than to acknowledge the limitations of her method. Her supposed compassion goes away when as she tries to avoid getting exposed.
The answer to question 2 is always "no", as the only thing that we can absolutely be certain of is that we exist (Descartes' cogito). Every belief can be turned around, even the positive ones.
@@Theodolphe If the answer to question 2 is "yes", that is the answer.
the work is not about forcing yourself to get the right answer, but to find what is absolutely true *for you*.
there were times ppl were answering "yes" to the second question, and nothing wrong with that.
@@GM1988 yes. In case that the answer 2 th question is: Yes.
Either way we can and must continúe with Next question. I understood like that.
I can't believe I didn't find this lady before
i know.. thinking the same thing