It's so crazy hearing him say these things; how he's depressed quite often and how happiness doesn't always come easy, as he is the brightest and most positive member in the group, in my eyes. It's true when people say, the darkest souls shine the brightest lights. Changmin, thank you for staying happy for us and your members, but don't fake it if you dont want to! You are allowed to feel and to take a break from being the happy one all the time!!
you couldnt have put it any more perfectly. this is so true, and I agree!!! Changmin is allowed to be sad, unhappy, depressed, etc. whenever he needs to
agree 100% - you said it so well. To me, he is the only that radiates the most positive energy on stage & just a flash of his dimply smile makes all my worries go away, yet this is not the first time he has expressed this 😥 which blows my mind each time & makes me so sad. I am glad tho that he is comfortable enough to express it openly. If finding more success & recognition is part of his happiness equation, let''s all give it all our might, deobis!
When this happens to me all the time... Well, truth is hurtful... Fact is Hurtful... But all we can do is nothing because the greatest way for a person to realize and learn something is basically by getting to know the real thing even tho it's hurt.
"is there no one you can to talk to?" "it's not that there's no one to talk to, I'd just rather not let it out so as not to give them a hard time." I felt this in my soul.
it’s kinda crazy how he’s breaking away from his smiley character and connecting with the fans about how he truly feels at times. it just makes me wanna give him a hug and tell him it’s okay to feel like that (-“:
i think i heard kevin talked about how they always check up on each other everyday at the end of the day, so they can express their feelings or solve problems at the moment,, so at least I think between them they can trust and tell each other 💗
@Bong Jaehyun and Choi Bomin's non-existent lines yah, I remember that too.. like really reassuring of their great relationship on and off cam. Like, with the loads of content and vlives they're providing us, their personalities and interactions are pretty consistent --- and that's hard to fake and put into script.
I feel sad for the fact he said "I feel depressed, quite often" He always shows his happy and cheery side of him....and hides his depressing side... CHANGMIN IF I COULD I WOULD GIVE YOU A MASSIVE HUG AND TELL YOU HOW MUCH YOU MEAN TO US!!
I can feel what that feeling can cause. I am the same. I don't share with people much and hear them out any time they want to talk. I feel like I will make them sad along with me. And it is hard. I hope he live a happy and healthy life along with the people he love!! ❤
창민아 사랑해 곁에서 응원하고 평생 함께 있을게 앞으로 창민이가 한 말들이 일상 속에서도 신경 쓰일 것 같아 그러라고 얘기해 준 것들은 아니겠지만... 그리고 나는 항상 창민이가 행복해 보이는 것 같았는데 생각해보니 아니었나 봐 내가 모르는 창민이는 행복해 보이는 것만큼 우울하고 힘든 날도 많은 것 같아 몰라줘서 미안해 그리고 이렇게 얘기해 줘서 고마워 많은 용기가 필요했을 텐데 정말정말 고마워 닿을 수 있는 만큼 힘을 주고 싶어 앞으로 힘든 길은 같이 걷자 혼자 너무 짊어지려고 하지 않아도 돼 보고 싶어 창민아 너무너무 사랑해 :-)
i love him for being so brave about this. often, we don't see idols talk about struggles or their negative thoughts, so this must have been to some degree, a lot to reveal.
changmin is a type of person that hold his emotions and didnt want his friend to feel bothered because of his problem. He shines outside but inside, he has a lot emotions. He helps his friend with their problem but he hold his problem himself. i know what changmin feels cause my personalities is simmiliar with changmin
*CHANGMIN NOT BRINGING WHAT DEEP IN HIS MIND.* BRB I'LL JUST CRY IN A CORNER. IMAGINE, HAVING THE SAME THOUGHTS AS HIM. JI CHANGMIN, SWEETIE WE LOVE YOU
창민아 힘들면 내려놓고 항상 밝은 면만 보여주지 않아도 되고 가끔은 너가 행복하고 싶다고 생각할 때는 이기적이여도 된다고 생각해 우리 사람 모두는 살면서 행복을 추구하니까 창민이도 힘들어하지 않았으면 좋겠어 하고 싶은 거 하면서 지금보다 더 많은 행복을 추구하자 내가 언제든지 응원할게 힘냈으면 좋겠어
When Changmin said " hope is like clouds. " For me, what I think it means is that.. just like clouds, hope will be always be there. Even it's a storm or sunny day, clouds will be always be there. In sorrow and happiness, there's always be hope. I hope Changmin can open up to his members more and not think that it gives trouble to other people. Feeling sad together when you tell other people your problem? It's just the way human connect through emotions. We always love you Q 💕 Fighting
I never really saw him get negative... He was the least person I could think that would have this deep thoughts within him, specially during THE100, he lead everyone and brought the positivity to them...
all of these interviews are very relatable to Deobis, whether it's about being honest, being inferior to one's self, or just your usual overthinking habits... I'm so glad that The Boyz are tackling these in a very respectable manner.
i think the reason why changmin is my bias because i can relate to him on a personal level. i get depressed quite often and it's hard to tell everyone or anyone about my problems and hardships and try to solve them on my own. i don't want anyone to be burdened by me because im used to it. to me, changmin is a bright soul even if he has his dark times. im thankful i gave the boyz a chance and stanned them. i think i have never related much to an idol than changmin. thank you for not giving up changmin! we all love you and i hope you know that!
창민아 안녕 오늘도 네가 너에 대한 이야기 하는게 좋아서 이 영상을 보러 왔어 나는 창민이가 정말 행복했으면 좋겠어 어렵겠지만 힘들지 않았으면 좋겠고 네가 힘든 일이 있다고 해서 주변에 힘듦을 전파하는 게 절대 아니니까 힘든 일 있으면 공유하고 공감 받는게 어쩌면 더 도움이 될 수도 있을 것 같아 가끔은 솔직하지 않은 게 정답인 거 같기도 하다는 말 듣고 진짜 눈물 나더라 솔직히 말하면 나도 창민이랑 많이 비슷하거든 혼자 해결하려고 하고 남한테 딥한 얘기는 절대 안 하고 남한테 내 힘듦을 나누고 싶지 않아서… 진짜 모순이지만 너는 안 그랬으면 좋겠거든 그냥 마음만 더 힘들어지고 마음이 지치니까 몸도 지치고 물론 네가 정 그렇다면 뭐라고 할 순 없겠지만 그냥 속상해서 말해봤어 항상 행복해 보이는 창민이만 보다가 가끔 이런 인터뷰 내용 보면 창민이가 생각보다 훨씬 더 속이 깊은 아이구나 라는 걸 많이 느껴 이런 점 때문에 나는 너를 오래 좋아하고 싶다 공개적인 영상으로 이런 이야기 하는 것도 쉽지만은 않았을 거 같은데 네가 이렇게 이야기 해줘서 너무 너무 고마워 정말 창민아 내가 너 덕분에 행복을 얻고 즐거움을 얻고 많은 걸 얻었어 창민이도 더비들한테 좋은 감정, 좋은 것만 받았으면 좋겠다 오늘 하루도 좋은 하루 보내기를 바라 식상한 말이지만 나는 정말 네가 좋은 하루를 보냈으면 해 정말 사랑해 많이 보고싶다
솔직해지겠다는 말 조금씩 지켜나가는 것 같아서 너무 반갑고 고마워 가끔 우울하고 깊은 내면의 모습까지 보여줘도 괜찮아 세상에는 생각보다 창민이 너가 어딘가에 존재한다는 사실만으로도 행복해하고 밝고 긍정적인 에너지를 얻는 사람들이 많더라 나도 그 중 한 명이고! 누군가의 행복을 아무 대가없이 온전히 빌어주는 경험 살면서 해보기 쉽지 않을 텐데 널 만나고 다 해보네 고마워 창민아 지창민 사랑해
Such a caring character Q..I wish you can balance being honest and not ..regarding the situation, when you think to much it does make you depressed..so talk to someone you trust..it will reduce your anxiety..either you have the solution or not from them..fighting
이번에 콘서트 갔다가 다시 보는데 진짜 애기같으면서도 말하는거 보면 나도 괜히 찡..하고 그러네 너가 가는길에 행복한 일만 있길 바라고 가끔은 쉬어가도 되는거 알지??열심히 걷다 보면 우리 앞에 행복이 기다리고 있을거야🫶🫶그날까지 우리 같이 오래오래 함께 걸어가보자🍀🌻🍀❤️
창민아 네 선택은 언제나 존중하지만, 항상 스스로 감당하는 것만이 정답이 아닐때도 있다는 걸 언젠가 네가 깨달았으면 좋겠어 나는 잘 숨기고 있다고 생각해도 주변 사람들은 알거나 그런 내 모습으로 인해 힘들 수도 있더라고... 그리고 민폐도 어느 정도는 끼칠 수 있다고 생각해 서로 터놓고 들어주고 기브 앤 테이크 하면서 사는게 인생 아니겠어? 너도 항상 남들에게 힘을 줘야만 한다고 생각하지 않았음 좋겠어 가끔은 그렇지 않아도 돼 그리고 그런다고 우리 생각만큼 큰 파도가 덮치지도 않을수 있어 항상 우리한테는 밝은 모습만 보여주려고 노력해줘서 너무 고맙고 우리도 너에게 조금이라도 힘이 되는 존재였음 좋겠다 항상 응원해
큐의 마음을 조금이라도 이해할 수 있었어요 저랑 생각? 마인드?가 비슷해서 더욱 이해할 수 있었구욤 사람마다 힘든 것의 가치는 함부로 정할 수 없다고 생각해요 각자마다 힘든 게 있고 하루에 그 힘들고 우울한 것이 얼마나 차지하는 것은 자신말고는 누구도 못아니까요 솔직한 게 저는 세상에서 제일 힘들어요ㅋㅋㅋㅋ솔직하지 않은 게 습관이 되다보니까 그리구 상대방이 어떨까를 먼저 생각해요 저는. 큐처럼 솔직해지려구 마음의 짐을 덜 지려고 노력중이랍니다! 이 영상을 통해서 큐라는 사람을 잘 알 수 있었어요 지금 큐 덕질중이라ㅎㅎ 로드투킹덤 너무 잘보고 있구 저는 더보이즈가 킹덤나가서 1등하는 장면을 종종 생각하곤해요ㅋㅋㅋㅋ앞으로도 더보이즈가 널리널리 알려지고 매력과 실력을 알리는 무대가 많아졌으면 좋겠네요 파이팅!
우울을 공유하면 같이 처질 때가 있어서 꺼내놓기 힘들다고 했는데 그런 경험 또한.. 괜찮다고 생각해 상대한테 너무 미안해 할 필요없는 것 같아 그 순간은 정말 인생에서 점만큼 작은 순간이잖아. 괜찮아 나는, 너가 가끔은 깊은 감정을 타인과 공유해보는 경험도 했으면 좋겠어 그게 생각보다 시작이 어렵지 얻는 것도 많더라구. 물론 과정 속에서 상처가 있을 순 있겠지만 그 또한 말 그대로 '과정'이니까 그 속에서 또 배움이 있을거고.. 그렇더라고 근데 이것도 그냥 나의 작은 바람인거고 결국엔 너가 편한 방식대로 너의 우울과 동반하며 잘 지냈으면 좋겠어 속마음을 타인에게 잘 드러내는 경험이 적다면 이런 질문들에 답하기도 어려웠을 것 같은데 얘기해줘서 고마워~ 그리고 제작진분들도 너무 감사하네요 저는 사람들이 자기 자신에 대해 많이 얘기했으면 좋겠어요 그런데 아이들에게 이런 기회를 주고 영상으로 담을 수 있다는 게 진짜 소중한 것 같아요
" The more I pursue happiness, the faster it runs from me " Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Changmin, I hope you're able to overcome hard times that will appear in your future, Sharing with someone can be helpful, don't be too selfless, keeping your worries or problemes to yourself is not always good for a healthy and happy mind
MUST PROTECT THIS BEAUTIFUL SOUL!!!! We ALL need hope. Every single one of us. His sincerity cuts deeply and connects us all to him in such an intimate way. I hope that we, your fans can bring you happiness the way you bring us happiness Changmin! WE LOVE YOU!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Changmin’s words really speak to me. Since I’m the type of person to hide my feelings in consideration of the people in my life. I slowly getting better at opening up a little even if it’s hard
i have never related to something more than that. Depression is no joke, and it sucks that it hits him the hardest. I really hope Changmin is able to find more support among his members and fans now that he’s comfortable enough to share this with everybody
Omg, this is so deep. The way he talked about how being honesty could cause damage. He's so thoughtful. Tbh, I've always felt this way. As I was watching this video, I couldn't believe what I wanted to say came from Changmin's mouth. I never open up about my feelings because it's too hard to. And I wouldn't want others to worry and feel the same way as I do. I wouldn't wanna bring them down as well. And I also find it hard to find happiness as well. It's not easy. I'm happy to be someone like Changmin. We relate so much. I hope he finds the happiness he deserves. Love you, Changmin!❤️💖💗💓💞
I really loved Q and it's funny how much I relate to him and how he feels in regards to depression but being positive for others. I do wish he would talk to someone about how he feels though. It's not that you're both depressed it's that you have a friend to help you carry your load. And I'm sure there are people who want to be there for him just as he is there for them.
i watch this whenever i feel bad about myself cause i know someone feels the same, i've never related to someone so much. i'm happy thanks to you, changmin.
"Happiness is very elusive to me, the more I pursue it, the harder is to catch the more I pursue happiness the faster it runs from me" Boy I feel exposed-
Awww.. You always try to lighten everyone else’s mood by not being a burden to them. That’s selfless of you. It shows how much you care about the people around you. They are truly lucky if they are a part of your circle. Stay hopeful! We love you.
I love how Changmin is able to express how he feels and how hes not always the positive energetic boy we see how sometimes he gets depressed and how he tried not to be too honest because it does damage and too much honesty can hurt. I'm glad that Creker is doing this and validating all the members feelings 💖😭
Q, i love you so so much and I pray for you and the rest of the boyz to always be happy and open your each other. I never want you to feel alone and always want you to feel at ease sharing your emotions. I always want your spirit to never die out and always be happy inside, but its okay to be sad sometimes. I promise you. Happiness isnt something to pursue but it will find you sweetie...have hope and live well. I love you
I think that the reason why Q always seems like the member who is usually bright is because he knows how emptiness feels and when someone has been through depression, they hope that no one else has to go through it. Kudos to Changmin for speaking up about it because a lot of people are going through issues like this. I hope we continue to speak about about mental illnesses so we can create a world that is safer to talk about our vulnerabilities and that we're not alone.
Ji Changmin is so strong for opening up like this. I know how hard it is because I feel the same way as him. Maybe that's why he became my ult bias. He's so selfless and caring and just the best. We Deobis will always protect you no matter what. Love you Q!!!
Somehow it's comforting to see your idols become more human with videos like this. I wish that he would not feel depressed, but then it also is completely natural and I struggle with the same thing myself. Getting to know him like this, and hearing his thoughts really brought me a lot of comfort
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It's so crazy hearing him say these things; how he's depressed quite often and how happiness doesn't always come easy, as he is the brightest and most positive member in the group, in my eyes. It's true when people say, the darkest souls shine the brightest lights. Changmin, thank you for staying happy for us and your members, but don't fake it if you dont want to! You are allowed to feel and to take a break from being the happy one all the time!!
Yesss, preach!!!
you couldnt have put it any more perfectly. this is so true, and I agree!!! Changmin is allowed to be sad, unhappy, depressed, etc. whenever he needs to
agree 100% - you said it so well. To me, he is the only that radiates the most positive energy on stage & just a flash of his dimply smile makes all my worries go away, yet this is not the first time he has expressed this 😥 which blows my mind each time & makes me so sad. I am glad tho that he is comfortable enough to express it openly. If finding more success & recognition is part of his happiness equation, let''s all give it all our might, deobis!
“Without hope, I don’t think I can survive.”
Couldn’t agree more!
"If you are too honest you can sometimes cause damage" I FELT THAT----
When this happens to me all the time...
Well, truth is hurtful... Fact is Hurtful...
But all we can do is nothing because the greatest way for a person to realize and learn something is basically by getting to know the real thing even tho it's hurt.
rip hyunjae
SAME
@@zn669 i thought the same
"is there no one you can to talk to?"
"it's not that there's no one to talk to, I'd just rather not let it out so as not to give them a hard time."
I felt this in my soul.
This is basically me.
I couldn’t relate more srsly
That hit hard
That's me.. I keep everything to myself so I won't make others worry.... but it's ok they have their own worries already.
me too. it's awkward haha
it’s kinda crazy how he’s breaking away from his smiley character and connecting with the fans about how he truly feels at times. it just makes me wanna give him a hug and tell him it’s okay to feel like that (-“:
Hope his members will come to him and talk to him.... we never know if he was having so many problems....
i think i heard kevin talked about how they always check up on each other everyday at the end of the day, so they can express their feelings or solve problems at the moment,, so at least I think between them they can trust and tell each other 💗
@Bong Jaehyun and Choi Bomin's non-existent lines yah, I remember that too.. like really reassuring of their great relationship on and off cam. Like, with the loads of content and vlives they're providing us, their personalities and interactions are pretty consistent --- and that's hard to fake and put into script.
Let's hope that his telling all of his worries to his members. And will not keep it to himself..
I feel sad for the fact he said "I feel depressed, quite often"
He always shows his happy and cheery side of him....and hides his depressing side...
CHANGMIN IF I COULD I WOULD GIVE YOU A MASSIVE HUG AND TELL YOU HOW MUCH YOU MEAN TO US!!
changmin is so selfless 😭 he always think of others before himself. He doesn't want to be a burden. Changmin deserves the world ❤️
I can feel what that feeling can cause. I am the same. I don't share with people much and hear them out any time they want to talk. I feel like I will make them sad along with me. And it is hard.
I hope he live a happy and healthy life along with the people he love!! ❤
Honestly he and all of you deserve true joy and much sincere love❤❤❤
창민아 사랑해 곁에서 응원하고 평생 함께 있을게 앞으로 창민이가 한 말들이 일상 속에서도 신경 쓰일 것 같아 그러라고 얘기해 준 것들은 아니겠지만... 그리고 나는 항상 창민이가 행복해 보이는 것 같았는데 생각해보니 아니었나 봐 내가 모르는 창민이는 행복해 보이는 것만큼 우울하고 힘든 날도 많은 것 같아 몰라줘서 미안해 그리고 이렇게 얘기해 줘서 고마워 많은 용기가 필요했을 텐데 정말정말 고마워 닿을 수 있는 만큼 힘을 주고 싶어 앞으로 힘든 길은 같이 걷자 혼자 너무 짊어지려고 하지 않아도 돼 보고 싶어 창민아 너무너무 사랑해 :-)
Q : "without hope, I don't think I can survive"
Me : "Yes...that correct, without hope, we can't survive"
ya agreed
정말 솔직하고 진지하다는 느낌을 받았어요. 고민하고 자신을 들여다보며 성찰하는 것 너무나 갚진 태도인 듯해요.드러내보이는 것과 고민의 내용이 다르다해도 자신이 추구하는 방향과 목적을 가슴속에 품고 작고 큰 성취물들을 꾸준히 이뤄가시길
"I try to solve problems myself. I've managed to overcome those till now."
same.
i love him for being so brave about this. often, we don't see idols talk about struggles or their negative thoughts, so this must have been to some degree, a lot to reveal.
changmin is a type of person that hold his emotions and didnt want his friend to feel bothered because of his problem. He shines outside but inside, he has a lot emotions. He helps his friend with their problem but he hold his problem himself.
i know what changmin feels cause my personalities is simmiliar with changmin
창민아 니가 좋아 넌 눈에서 반짝반짝 빛이나 이 영상을 보니 아마 그건 니 깊은 마음속에서 나오는 착한 빛이었나봐
*CHANGMIN NOT BRINGING WHAT DEEP IN HIS MIND.*
BRB I'LL JUST CRY IN A CORNER. IMAGINE, HAVING THE SAME THOUGHTS AS HIM. JI CHANGMIN, SWEETIE WE LOVE YOU
changmin who always thinks of others before himself... changmin who’s heart is full of hope and wants to always
make himself better
We need to protect our precious main dancer
창민아 힘들면 내려놓고 항상 밝은 면만 보여주지 않아도 되고 가끔은 너가 행복하고 싶다고 생각할 때는 이기적이여도 된다고 생각해 우리 사람 모두는 살면서 행복을 추구하니까 창민이도 힘들어하지 않았으면 좋겠어 하고 싶은 거 하면서 지금보다 더 많은 행복을 추구하자 내가 언제든지 응원할게 힘냈으면 좋겠어
When Changmin said " hope is like clouds. "
For me, what I think it means is that.. just like clouds, hope will be always be there. Even it's a storm or sunny day, clouds will be always be there. In sorrow and happiness, there's always be hope.
I hope Changmin can open up to his members more and not think that it gives trouble to other people. Feeling sad together when you tell other people your problem? It's just the way human connect through emotions. We always love you Q 💕 Fighting
가끔은 남한테 이야기를 하면 일이 해결되지는 않아도 기분이 나아지기도 하더라고요. 그리고 남이 자신에게 속깊은 이야기를 해주었다는 것에 고마움을 느끼는 사람들도 있고요. 그러니 마음 꽁꽁 싸매지 않았으면 좋겠어요.ㅠㅠㅠ. 너무너무 잘생쁜 창민이 화이팅👍👍👍
아... 행복 이야기할때 왜 이렇게 슬프지?
창민오빠 덕분에 행복하구 기쁠때두 많아요,,, 더비들이 항상 응원하고 있으니까 오빠도 힘내시구 행복한것을 찾길 바래여 화이또!>_0
I never really saw him get negative... He was the least person I could think that would have this deep thoughts within him, specially during THE100, he lead everyone and brought the positivity to them...
all of these interviews are very relatable to Deobis, whether it's about being honest, being inferior to one's self, or just your usual overthinking habits... I'm so glad that The Boyz are tackling these in a very respectable manner.
큐는 말을 할때 되게 놀라게 만드는듯 하다. 책도 많이 읽고 뭐든 많이 배우려고 노력하는 사람이라서 이런 아이돌의 팬이라서 너무 자랑스럽다😊
창민이 이때 힘들었나보다
주변사람 신경 쓰지말고 너 자신을 항상 최우선으로 뒀으면 좋겠어..ㅠㅜㅠㅜㅠㅠㅜ 보면서 눈물 광광 흘림. 너무 ..비슷함 나랑... 어쩔땐 한번 털어놓는것도 좋더라.. 가장 믿는 사람에게.😢
I think he's so mature in understanding himself and expressing his thoughts. I'm glad I can hear about the other sides of him :) 화이팅!
i think the reason why changmin is my bias because i can relate to him on a personal level. i get depressed quite often and it's hard to tell everyone or anyone about my problems and hardships and try to solve them on my own. i don't want anyone to be burdened by me because im used to it. to me, changmin is a bright soul even if he has his dark times. im thankful i gave the boyz a chance and stanned them. i think i have never related much to an idol than changmin. thank you for not giving up changmin! we all love you and i hope you know that!
창민아 안녕 오늘도 네가 너에 대한 이야기 하는게 좋아서 이 영상을 보러 왔어 나는 창민이가 정말 행복했으면 좋겠어 어렵겠지만 힘들지 않았으면 좋겠고 네가 힘든 일이 있다고 해서 주변에 힘듦을 전파하는 게 절대 아니니까 힘든 일 있으면 공유하고 공감 받는게 어쩌면 더 도움이 될 수도 있을 것 같아 가끔은 솔직하지 않은 게 정답인 거 같기도 하다는 말 듣고 진짜 눈물 나더라 솔직히 말하면 나도 창민이랑 많이 비슷하거든 혼자 해결하려고 하고 남한테 딥한 얘기는 절대 안 하고 남한테 내 힘듦을 나누고 싶지 않아서… 진짜 모순이지만 너는 안 그랬으면 좋겠거든 그냥 마음만 더 힘들어지고 마음이 지치니까 몸도 지치고 물론 네가 정 그렇다면 뭐라고 할 순 없겠지만 그냥 속상해서 말해봤어 항상 행복해 보이는 창민이만 보다가 가끔 이런 인터뷰 내용 보면 창민이가 생각보다 훨씬 더 속이 깊은 아이구나 라는 걸 많이 느껴 이런 점 때문에 나는 너를 오래 좋아하고 싶다 공개적인 영상으로 이런 이야기 하는 것도 쉽지만은 않았을 거 같은데 네가 이렇게 이야기 해줘서 너무 너무 고마워 정말 창민아 내가 너 덕분에 행복을 얻고 즐거움을 얻고 많은 걸 얻었어 창민이도 더비들한테 좋은 감정, 좋은 것만 받았으면 좋겠다
오늘 하루도 좋은 하루 보내기를 바라 식상한 말이지만 나는 정말 네가 좋은 하루를 보냈으면 해
정말 사랑해 많이 보고싶다
밝은기운 주고 너도 받아야죠... 큐야 ㅠㅠ
힘든 이야기를 들어주고 같이 고민해서 해결해가는데 뿌듯함을 느끼는 사람들도 있으니 걱정말고 털어놓으렴
주책맞게 왜 이거 보는데 눈물이 뚝뚝 떨어지나 모르겠네 ㅠㅠ 지창민 사랑한다
Q: I'm curious how it's gonna turn out. I think it's going to be fun.
Me: *CRYING MY FAT ASS OFF COZ I FELT ALL THE THINGS HE SAID*
Fr 😭😭😭
솔직해지겠다는 말 조금씩 지켜나가는 것 같아서 너무 반갑고 고마워 가끔 우울하고 깊은 내면의 모습까지 보여줘도 괜찮아 세상에는 생각보다 창민이 너가 어딘가에 존재한다는 사실만으로도 행복해하고 밝고 긍정적인 에너지를 얻는 사람들이 많더라 나도 그 중 한 명이고! 누군가의 행복을 아무 대가없이 온전히 빌어주는 경험 살면서 해보기 쉽지 않을 텐데 널 만나고 다 해보네 고마워 창민아 지창민 사랑해
많이 웃고 행복했으면 좋겠어 진심으로
Awwe. Q is so selfless 😔😔💗 The way he thinks of others before he acts for himself. Oh nooo he is so heartwarming.
"Without hope i dont think i can survive"
Yes, hope is what keeps us going
힘든게있는걸 알면서 혼자 해결 할라고하는 말이 정말 공감되요
지창민 기분 안좋으면 안좋다고 얘기해주는게 참 좋음 사람이 어떻게 맨날 기분이 좋을 수만 있어 덕분에 기분 안좋을 때는 어떤 모습인지도 알 수 있고 위로도 해줄 수 있는게 좋음 그냥 다람쥐인줄만 알았는데 어른 다람쥐야...
창민이가 혼자 애써 온 시간들이 얼마나 힘들었을까... 창민이 네가 말하지 않아도 다 아시는 하늘의 목소리에 귀기울여봐! 너를 위로하시고 또 너를 평안의 길로 이끄실 거야🤍 네가 진심으로 행복했으면 좋겠어🤍
love you kyu , 더보이즈 건강은 더비를위한 하나의 수입니다. 사링해 ❤❤❤
창민아 넌 나의 행운이야! 내가 너의 행복이 되어줄게
이런 영상 내주셔서 감사합니다 크래커 앞뒤좌우로 절합니다
I relate to so many things that he said, stay strong changmin! ^^
Such a caring character Q..I wish you can balance being honest and not ..regarding the situation, when you think to much it does make you depressed..so talk to someone you trust..it will reduce your anxiety..either you have the solution or not from them..fighting
난 너가 충분히 멋지고 좋은 사람이라는걸 알아 창민아 널 진심으로 좋아하고 있는 내가 뿌듯할 정도로
through this video, i just noticed that Q and i have a lot of similarities on how the way we think thanks for sharing this UwU
이 영상은 볼 때마다 되게 형용할 수 없는 감정이 느껴지는 듯.. 큐는 진짜 생각이 깊다
사랑해 창민아 평생 함께 걷자
지창민 이 위험한 남자야 진짜 이 콩알이를 어떻게 하지 너만 보면 누나가 에너지 왕창 얻어가 고마워 창민이도 많이 행복했으면 좋겠어
이번에 콘서트 갔다가 다시 보는데 진짜 애기같으면서도 말하는거 보면 나도 괜히 찡..하고 그러네 너가 가는길에 행복한 일만 있길 바라고 가끔은 쉬어가도 되는거 알지??열심히 걷다 보면 우리 앞에 행복이 기다리고 있을거야🫶🫶그날까지 우리 같이 오래오래 함께 걸어가보자🍀🌻🍀❤️
창민아 네 선택은 언제나 존중하지만, 항상 스스로 감당하는 것만이 정답이 아닐때도 있다는 걸 언젠가 네가 깨달았으면 좋겠어 나는 잘 숨기고 있다고 생각해도 주변 사람들은 알거나 그런 내 모습으로 인해 힘들 수도 있더라고... 그리고 민폐도 어느 정도는 끼칠 수 있다고 생각해 서로 터놓고 들어주고 기브 앤 테이크 하면서 사는게 인생 아니겠어? 너도 항상 남들에게 힘을 줘야만 한다고 생각하지 않았음 좋겠어 가끔은 그렇지 않아도 돼 그리고 그런다고 우리 생각만큼 큰 파도가 덮치지도 않을수 있어 항상 우리한테는 밝은 모습만 보여주려고 노력해줘서 너무 고맙고 우리도 너에게 조금이라도 힘이 되는 존재였음 좋겠다 항상 응원해
I LOVE THEM ALL SO MUCH
you really deserve all the happiness in this world
I really mean it
큐의 마음을 조금이라도 이해할 수 있었어요 저랑 생각? 마인드?가 비슷해서 더욱 이해할 수 있었구욤 사람마다 힘든 것의 가치는 함부로 정할 수 없다고 생각해요 각자마다 힘든 게 있고 하루에 그 힘들고 우울한 것이 얼마나 차지하는 것은 자신말고는 누구도 못아니까요 솔직한 게 저는 세상에서 제일 힘들어요ㅋㅋㅋㅋ솔직하지 않은 게 습관이 되다보니까 그리구 상대방이 어떨까를 먼저 생각해요 저는. 큐처럼 솔직해지려구 마음의 짐을 덜 지려고 노력중이랍니다! 이 영상을 통해서 큐라는 사람을 잘 알 수 있었어요 지금 큐 덕질중이라ㅎㅎ 로드투킹덤 너무 잘보고 있구 저는 더보이즈가 킹덤나가서 1등하는 장면을 종종 생각하곤해요ㅋㅋㅋㅋ앞으로도 더보이즈가 널리널리 알려지고 매력과 실력을 알리는 무대가 많아졌으면 좋겠네요 파이팅!
우울해 하지마 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ나도 우울하긴한데 사람들 앞에선 진짜 밝은성격이고 상처 많은 사람인뎅 ㅠㅠㅠ 힝 그래도 더보이즈 보면서 항상 행복해져 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
우울을 공유하면 같이 처질 때가 있어서 꺼내놓기 힘들다고 했는데
그런 경험 또한.. 괜찮다고 생각해 상대한테 너무 미안해 할 필요없는 것 같아 그 순간은 정말 인생에서 점만큼 작은 순간이잖아. 괜찮아
나는, 너가 가끔은 깊은 감정을 타인과 공유해보는 경험도 했으면 좋겠어 그게 생각보다 시작이 어렵지 얻는 것도 많더라구.
물론 과정 속에서 상처가 있을 순 있겠지만 그 또한 말 그대로 '과정'이니까 그 속에서 또 배움이 있을거고.. 그렇더라고
근데 이것도 그냥 나의 작은 바람인거고 결국엔 너가 편한 방식대로 너의 우울과 동반하며 잘 지냈으면 좋겠어
속마음을 타인에게 잘 드러내는 경험이 적다면 이런 질문들에 답하기도 어려웠을 것 같은데 얘기해줘서 고마워~
그리고 제작진분들도 너무 감사하네요 저는 사람들이 자기 자신에 대해 많이 얘기했으면 좋겠어요
그런데 아이들에게 이런 기회를 주고 영상으로 담을 수 있다는 게 진짜 소중한 것 같아요
THE BOYZ BEST BOYS
창민아 그냥 사랑해... 정말
나는 너를 너무 사랑하나봐
" The more I pursue happiness, the faster it runs from me "
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Changmin, I hope you're able to overcome hard times that will appear in your future,
Sharing with someone can be helpful, don't be too selfless, keeping your worries or problemes to yourself is not always good for a healthy and happy mind
MUST PROTECT THIS BEAUTIFUL SOUL!!!! We ALL need hope. Every single one of us. His sincerity cuts deeply and connects us all to him in such an intimate way. I hope that we, your fans can bring you happiness the way you bring us happiness Changmin!
WE LOVE YOU!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
q i know what “hope is like clouds” means i got you ❤️❤️❤️
가끔은 우리에게 부담없이 털어놓고 기대도 돼 창민아
Changmin’s words really speak to me. Since I’m the type of person to hide my feelings in consideration of the people in my life. I slowly getting better at opening up a little even if it’s hard
i have never related to something more than that. Depression is no joke, and it sucks that it hits him the hardest. I really hope Changmin is able to find more support among his members and fans now that he’s comfortable enough to share this with everybody
Omg, this is so deep. The way he talked about how being honesty could cause damage. He's so thoughtful. Tbh, I've always felt this way. As I was watching this video, I couldn't believe what I wanted to say came from Changmin's mouth. I never open up about my feelings because it's too hard to. And I wouldn't want others to worry and feel the same way as I do. I wouldn't wanna bring them down as well. And I also find it hard to find happiness as well. It's not easy. I'm happy to be someone like Changmin. We relate so much. I hope he finds the happiness he deserves. Love you, Changmin!❤️💖💗💓💞
"I used to keep on pursuing happiness, but the more I pursue happiness, the faster it runs from me."
why does it making so much sense for me 😭
여름밤 듣고 보러왔어 오늘도 사랑해
항상 행복했으면 좋겠다 정말 진심으로..
I really loved Q and it's funny how much I relate to him and how he feels in regards to depression but being positive for others. I do wish he would talk to someone about how he feels though. It's not that you're both depressed it's that you have a friend to help you carry your load. And I'm sure there are people who want to be there for him just as he is there for them.
더보이즈 계속 성장했으면 좋겠다🥲🥲
희망은 구름같다
잡을 수 있을 것 같아 보이지만 잡을 수 없는
i watch this whenever i feel bad about myself cause i know someone feels the same, i've never related to someone so much. i'm happy thanks to you, changmin.
큐야, 잘하고있어 ❤️ 화이팅 🥰
can i hug him
@idk lol ..Idk lol
Okay,but this made me cry. I feel understood,Changmin-ah.
"Happiness is very elusive to me, the more I pursue it, the harder is to catch the more I pursue happiness the faster it runs from me"
Boy I feel exposed-
너가 너무 애틋해서 꼭 더 잘 되고 니가 니 자리에 만족하고 행복했으면 좋겠어 널 보면서 나도 많이 웃으니까 너는 꼭 잘될거야 많은 사람의 기쁨인 너니까
please for anyone whose close to him... u guys must protect him so hard ! he is precious
Awww.. You always try to lighten everyone else’s mood by not being a burden to them. That’s selfless of you. It shows how much you care about the people around you. They are truly lucky if they are a part of your circle. Stay hopeful! We love you.
힘내세요!!! 더비는 항상 너 옆에있어요!!!!!!!!!
I love how Changmin is able to express how he feels and how hes not always the positive energetic boy we see how sometimes he gets depressed and how he tried not to be too honest because it does damage and too much honesty can hurt. I'm glad that Creker is doing this and validating all the members feelings 💖😭
Q, i love you so so much and I pray for you and the rest of the boyz to always be happy and open your each other. I never want you to feel alone and always want you to feel at ease sharing your emotions. I always want your spirit to never die out and always be happy inside, but its okay to be sad sometimes. I promise you. Happiness isnt something to pursue but it will find you sweetie...have hope and live well. I love you
There is a special light that comes out whenever he speaks or dances. So pure.
The way he acts happy on camera and him saying that he's not really like that it kinda breaks my heart
Ok can I hug him now?
I think that the reason why Q always seems like the member who is usually bright is because he knows how emptiness feels and when someone has been through depression, they hope that no one else has to go through it. Kudos to Changmin for speaking up about it because a lot of people are going through issues like this. I hope we continue to speak about about mental illnesses so we can create a world that is safer to talk about our vulnerabilities and that we're not alone.
지창민 진짜 보다보면 배울 점이 많은 사람인 것 같아
What is happiness to Q ?
: Happiness is very elusive to me , the more I pursue it , the harder it is to catch .
i can totally relate ㅠㅠ
昌珉是個很有想法的男生 但這些想法總是在心裡 這點應該跟很多人一樣 明明有很多煩惱 卻選擇隱藏在內心 自己承受 明知道對自己不好 卻因為怕別人覺得自己很有負擔 才偽裝自己……
이제 털어놔도 될거같은데...ㅠㅠ 그래도 대화하다보면 스트레스도 풀릴텐데..너의 행복을 위해서 달려나가보자~더비들도 도와줄수 있으면 도울게!! 비타민 큐~♡♡♡♡♡
"I used to keep on pursuing happiness but the more i pursue happiness the faster it runs from me" man thats deep
Ji Changmin is so strong for opening up like this. I know how hard it is because I feel the same way as him. Maybe that's why he became my ult bias. He's so selfless and caring and just the best. We Deobis will always protect you no matter what. Love you Q!!!
시랑해 진짜 사랑해 너무 사랑해
ji changmin you are incredible. he is so beautiful inside and out and so thoughtful and lovely... i want to hug him so bad
No one can be happy all the time, but I hope you can find yourself feeling happy more often
i love his sincere eyes. I really do.
Somehow it's comforting to see your idols become more human with videos like this. I wish that he would not feel depressed, but then it also is completely natural and I struggle with the same thing myself. Getting to know him like this, and hearing his thoughts really brought me a lot of comfort
Can I just hug him and never leave?
I'm hearing his voice by earphone is really satisfying
His voice is soooooo good to hear