《 我 》When It's All About Me | A Butterworks Trilogy

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
  • 你 · 我 · 他 | You, Me & The Stranger
    A short film trilogy by Butterworks
    For those of you wondering about the song at the end of the film, it is our original sound track written for this series :)
    The song is called《 你我他 》sung by Yichao Teoh & Rachel Toh.
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    Starring:
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Комментарии • 124

  • @erikagonzales03
    @erikagonzales03 7 лет назад +389

    Butterworks is really doing well when it comes to real-life encounters with your loved ones. Life ain't fantasy. Keep it up guys!

  • @Butterworks
    @Butterworks  7 лет назад +142

    When its all about me, myself and I… unknowingly. The next time a quarrel happens, question yourself too.
    Please support our OST for this trilogy called 《 你我他 》sung by Yichao Teoh & Rachel Toh. Here’s the link: open.spotify.com/album/4g8ResS8xnMUwjZadBUhIg
    Thank you guys for the support :)

    • @chiawei1875
      @chiawei1875 7 лет назад +3

      i love all ur videos 😍😍😍

    • @dorothychoong8848
      @dorothychoong8848 7 лет назад

      Butterworks ur videos inspire me a lot , and I finish watching all ur videos :)

  • @arabesque2222
    @arabesque2222 7 лет назад +45

    the acting is so natural. like!

  • @dulcenayen
    @dulcenayen 7 лет назад +104

    I find this very intriguing. It's not only the guy who is selfish, it's both of them. Relationships falls apart and quarrel happens because both people are selfish and not accommodating to each other. Thank you for the reminder :) I hope people don't think it's just the guy's fault, but also the girl's! It takes 2 hands to clap!

    • @nervxxx
      @nervxxx 7 лет назад +21

      Yea both parties are quite selfish here, the guy for imposing what he thinks the ideal scenario is on her, and the girl for coming in with a shitty attitude without trying to understand what he has done and just demanding that they go back. Both are toxic in their approach, and it's super hypocritical when they lecture the other person on what's 'right'.
      Ideally the guy should have listened to how the girl is feeling and changed the plans / compromised; the girl should have tried to understand what the guy had planned and be more appreciative and willing to make a compromise too, despite being super tired (tiredness is not an excuse for being able to have your way). At the end of the day it's always about communication and compromise.

    • @charvit1811
      @charvit1811 5 лет назад

      That's deep

  • @nildzakheirizzad969
    @nildzakheirizzad969 7 лет назад +49

    Rules to watch butterworks vid:
    1) Click like
    2) Play

  • @heyyyitsjoelle8569
    @heyyyitsjoelle8569 7 лет назад +24

    i love how you guys show the reality of relationships, the bitter part i guess :")) one of the most genuine youtube channels ive came across 🌻

  • @smellypitsbob
    @smellypitsbob 7 лет назад +3

    i know i'll never be disappointed with a butterworks film👍👍👍

  • @greenygreentea
    @greenygreentea 7 лет назад +5

    Tearing... Acting on point, issue so realistic );
    Good job!

  • @bobvin96
    @bobvin96 7 лет назад +9

    你们真棒!期待下一个影片!我个人觉得有时候情侣之间都会为了给彼此一些的惊喜而闹到彼此都不开心,所以惊喜这件事是因人而异的。

  • @thamyi-shen8001
    @thamyi-shen8001 7 лет назад +2

    Seeing the notification pop up on my phone from you guys is the best part of today!!

  • @ny1fanta
    @ny1fanta 7 лет назад +15

    This happened to me and my ex too, planned everything out, and then in the end I was the selfish one. Sometimes I really hate some girls don't appreciate the effort you put in it. And when you don't plan anything, you are fucked too.

    • @douknodawae7805
      @douknodawae7805 7 лет назад +1

      Zee Wil i hope my bf does what u do but im actually being the bf in this rs and my bf is acting like a gf

    • @exghostzplays
      @exghostzplays 7 лет назад

      NoobGamingForLyfe lmao

    • @shawnaw2
      @shawnaw2 7 лет назад +1

      That just means either your approach was wrong, (usually lack of hints for the girl, I'm a guy too so I know that feeling) or she does not consider any of your plans as a plausible plan (no matter situation); for the latter case, she is not the one for you.As for not planning, well welcome to the life of a guy mostly haha. But we still love them don't we?

  • @feonahho908
    @feonahho908 7 лет назад +9

    Waiting for the next "他” 😍

  • @chriskuahth
    @chriskuahth 7 лет назад +15

    Isn't relationships about sacrifice and compromise? We all can relate to it somehow. But how many of us will let our ego overtake us?

  • @isabelletws
    @isabelletws 7 лет назад

    This series is legit nice and relatable so far! Love the soundtrack and have been listening to it on Spotify!

  • @chrisanne7008
    @chrisanne7008 7 лет назад

    So good and so real. Keep these sketches coming! Never stop making such videos. It's so raw I can feel the emotions piercing through my heart! :)

  • @nickkoh7944
    @nickkoh7944 7 лет назад

    I could resonate to this as I'm guilty...thanks for making me realise that love should be simple. Cherish your love, this is more important than any material comfort. Thanks.

  • @mjforever3531
    @mjforever3531 6 лет назад

    For couples who constantly fight, please remember:
    It’s not
    Him/her vs you
    It’s You & Him/her vs the problem

  • @jdkhry
    @jdkhry 7 лет назад +28

    They're both right..... dangggggg

  • @sushmitasutradhar4880
    @sushmitasutradhar4880 6 лет назад

    Each one of us have a different kind of way of Love, that's it

  • @Identi3Profiling
    @Identi3Profiling 7 лет назад

    Awesome! We collected a sample size of 11,000 people in Singapore and their Empathy traits measure the lowest between 20 - 40 years old. Also shown in your video, how 'Power Struggle' comes into play. When love is gone, 'Power Struggle' crepes in. Each couple suffers from 'Self-Righteousness'. Great video!

  • @mehh4426
    @mehh4426 7 лет назад

    Perfect imperfections, such a beautiful work done with many hidden meanings. break a leg and good luck!

  • @kyronconradjunus7119
    @kyronconradjunus7119 7 лет назад

    Love it so much. Could relate to your stories. Keep up the Amazing work!
    Love from Australia

  • @agnesadisastra7609
    @agnesadisastra7609 7 лет назад

    In love with all of your videos !
    Keep it up Butterworks

  • @stanpentagon5907
    @stanpentagon5907 7 лет назад

    New fan here 🖐 hi butterworks i have been binge-watching all your videos and each movie was great 💯 i love all your works keep it guys! 😘

  • @muthuproductions100
    @muthuproductions100 7 лет назад

    Can we have more of such videos! It's just so damn good, Butterworks deserves so much better and best in Singapore for RUclips!

  • @milOfawx
    @milOfawx 7 лет назад +119

    Male lead actually planned the anniversary dinner for her and was speaking politely from the start, she comes in with some shitty attitude claiming to be tired. Then came up with the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard in my life at the end claiming that "your vision of "perfection" is different from mine". I don't see how the guy is toxic?? *insert confused meme*

    • @yeeshinwoon6867
      @yeeshinwoon6867 7 лет назад +19

      poor guy tho..i guess if she's really considerate she will put some thought into how much effort he took to plan...tired also will go along with his plans bc that's what you do when you love someone dangit.

    • @dexter-ib9ec
      @dexter-ib9ec 7 лет назад +1

      True

    • @garyheng5201
      @garyheng5201 7 лет назад +39

      Sebestian Tan Hmm maybe we can take a look at this situation from a different perspective. Perhaps for the girl, this was something she has always kept inside, she has been trying to please him by always agreeing to go with the kind of planning he wants but it has been exhausting for her to keep up with it. She actually likes things simple, perhaps she has somewhere communicated it but he somehow goes back at it. Until at this point, it erupted. To him, he went the extra mile and she's being unappreciative, to her, she never actually appreciate all these and she felt that she was never really understood by him. He thinks this is what loving her means, to her, she's saying this is not loving to me. The solution? It's always compromise, it's always a continuous giving in that spurs on more giving and eventually they would find themselves in a matured relationship has formed middle grounds that both can either accept or be genuinely happy with..

    • @milOfawx
      @milOfawx 7 лет назад +4

      In that case, your scenario would've made her response to his efforts a little more adequate. I gave my opinion in contrast to the situation in the skit hence I felt that it is unfair for the male lead ahaha.

    • @yuzhou7614
      @yuzhou7614 7 лет назад

      ye i think so

  • @yummy4567
    @yummy4567 7 лет назад

    Great job guys at Butterworks! I am sure many couples have been through this... including myself.

  • @acm2125
    @acm2125 7 лет назад

    Very nice ! Love the concept.

  • @xiiaoxiiaozinczxc
    @xiiaoxiiaozinczxc 7 лет назад

    Another amazing video. Thanks! :)

  • @juzanordinarygirl8107
    @juzanordinarygirl8107 7 лет назад

    Omg this is so relatable to our own story

  • @Ct239Dzafirah
    @Ct239Dzafirah 7 лет назад +143

    lesson learnt: you can never win an argument with a girl😅

    • @yuzhou7614
      @yuzhou7614 7 лет назад

      you have a story,please start your perform,haha

    • @je77yan
      @je77yan 7 лет назад

      Feminist

  • @lokisenpaiii
    @lokisenpaiii 7 лет назад

    relatable contents :') good job butterworks!!

  • @ybbolb
    @ybbolb 7 лет назад +30

    Both parties are thinking about themselves. Isn't she forcing her idea of a good time on to him as well?

    • @poogledyblue
      @poogledyblue 7 лет назад +4

      ybbolb I don't think so. I don't think she is forcing. She is and already said that she is tired from work and prefers to go home and relax. It is the guy who got angry at her for not being able to make it. I think the guy could have been more reasonable and ask her if they could postpone the date to another day. It's not like it had to be that special day.

    • @shawnaw2
      @shawnaw2 7 лет назад +9

      Well, if you see it the other way,he started off being polite and wanting to bring her out. However, she started off with being extremely rude and stating extreme tiredness and wanting to go her own way (home), ignoring what he has planned.It's the guy's fault for exploding from her statement, BUT its also her fault for not considering his feelings for planning SOMETHING in the first place.Granted if she was really tired to the point of breaking down physically/mentally, politely declining and requesting if he could postpone it, instead of forcing onto him the want to head home.Both are in the wrong either way.

  • @nixeon
    @nixeon 7 лет назад

    This upped the game from last ep m8 nice one lah

  • @amsyarariffin7765
    @amsyarariffin7765 7 лет назад

    THAT COMEBACK. Snaaaap.

  • @lewisloh6719
    @lewisloh6719 7 лет назад

    omg the acting is on point

  • @ngjinwen7710
    @ngjinwen7710 7 лет назад +3

    every relationship have 2 sides of views, 2 different thinking. important is one have to always give in and be soft to the other one. is not easy to maintain a relationship.

    • @shawnaw2
      @shawnaw2 7 лет назад +1

      Correction
      Both have to give in.If one is only the one giving in, you'll have a lopsided relationship which will not end well.

  • @nataliewenmin5894
    @nataliewenmin5894 7 лет назад

    Omg this is so good ! My heart die abit inside :'(

  • @rinhluipialtu3114
    @rinhluipialtu3114 7 лет назад

    Benji 😚❤️❤️
    Good work as always 👑

  • @Dwxk
    @Dwxk 7 лет назад +150

    So how ar? Didn't surprise her say no surprise so boring, got surprise her say I think of myself only omg hahahaha

    • @evangeline7010
      @evangeline7010 7 лет назад +1

      Darren Wong agreeedddd

    • @CKAHYEE
      @CKAHYEE 7 лет назад +22

      Continue surprising your girl, I'm sure the right one will appreciate your effort

    • @jacklau5529
      @jacklau5529 7 лет назад +16

      so moral of the story: The girl isn't the right one, got it.

    • @shivi7062
      @shivi7062 4 года назад

      Totally agreeeee!!!!

  • @akam2930
    @akam2930 7 лет назад

    I loveee this!

  • @carislam7627
    @carislam7627 7 лет назад +71

    is this a part 2 of in love with a nameless ghost? 😏

    • @jeevithass115
      @jeevithass115 6 лет назад

      Caris Lam most probably yes..or maybe not...they would know it better

  • @alaashapaan5969
    @alaashapaan5969 7 лет назад

    from Egypt.. I really love your movies I watched it many times. I like the way you sent a important message by your movies
    and your movies help me to realize things in a deffrent way.. thanks alot❤
    and I'm sorry if I mad mistakes in my comment because English isn't my language

  • @KB-vq1sk
    @KB-vq1sk 7 лет назад

    Good job, guys!

  • @soob8750
    @soob8750 7 лет назад

    I love those actors they look cute tgtht

  • @SonLeinhhp
    @SonLeinhhp 7 лет назад

    I see myself in the video. Thank you.

  • @TheRoger0105
    @TheRoger0105 7 лет назад

    very true

  • @fatmatota6571
    @fatmatota6571 6 лет назад

    Butterworks your the best^-^ love u♥

  • @milkteaboba156
    @milkteaboba156 7 лет назад

    wow hen hao
    cannot wait for the next video

  • @RaselHossain-gk8tu
    @RaselHossain-gk8tu 7 лет назад

    awesome video

  • @hannahho1765
    @hannahho1765 7 лет назад

    wonderfully done :,)

  • @jacksonvibes7731
    @jacksonvibes7731 7 лет назад

    I Love it 😍 its awesome 👏 but why the boy is not Yu Lun?

  • @IsabelleHou
    @IsabelleHou 7 лет назад

    Dang so good!!

  • @skynight3778
    @skynight3778 7 лет назад

    This Video Reached me with a want to Change Impact

  • @fanclub11
    @fanclub11 7 лет назад +7

    Arrange sth nice for the girl, she want it simple. Arrange simple for the girl, the girl find you bo xin to plan for a special day. #toughlifeasabf

  • @TheS1lentX
    @TheS1lentX 6 лет назад

    Male actor should’ve known by now that she likes it simple since they have been together for a while now and he believe a lot in fantasy whereas the female actor doesn’t know how to appreciate and want things to go her way

  • @dilciacoffie1105
    @dilciacoffie1105 6 лет назад

    This guy is so handsome.

  • @otterly23
    @otterly23 7 лет назад

    I demand the next video

  • @yepsayunika591
    @yepsayunika591 7 лет назад

    give me some thought.... really like it

  • @shanechan5712
    @shanechan5712 7 лет назад

    nice

  • @MagnificentCreature
    @MagnificentCreature 7 лет назад

    When I'm early

  • @kitotkh
    @kitotkh 7 лет назад +1

    Deja vu...

  • @mariasolis1159
    @mariasolis1159 7 лет назад

    我就喜欢你,怎么了💓

  • @thegreatsensei4131
    @thegreatsensei4131 7 лет назад

    may I get the lyric from the sountrack of this video ?

  • @rorycelsvlogs1673
    @rorycelsvlogs1673 7 лет назад

    I have one question. Okay so Rachel is one of the teachers in my dance class...how does she cope teaching and acting? Mabel too

  • @kristinkoo9355
    @kristinkoo9355 7 лет назад +2

    I love all butterworks videooooooo

  • @ipikeublack5406
    @ipikeublack5406 6 лет назад

    这片尾的歌叫什么名字啊

  • @adibakim5700
    @adibakim5700 6 лет назад

    U didn't put a quote at last

  • @bryanchang1995
    @bryanchang1995 7 лет назад +4

    but then the guy made an effort to actually plan something lmao and the girl should just go on with the plan although she is tired cause then it means that she is willing to sacrifice(her sleep) for the guy lul. no hate pls

  • @julianakoh3987
    @julianakoh3987 6 лет назад

    It's realistic

  • @jintaoho5312
    @jintaoho5312 7 лет назад +2

    很接近生活,不错。我很多年以前就跟家人讲不要以关心我的名义来或者用你认为在关心我的方式来对我怎样,我做工很辛苦在家里就想好好休息,饿了,我会去冰箱里找。我要休息不想被打扰……

  • @alyssakastono
    @alyssakastono 7 лет назад +1

    Early birds 🐦

  • @Pitchoo973
    @Pitchoo973 7 лет назад

    Hum, since when guys pay attention to that lol. Role are switched xDDDD

  • @leewemn222
    @leewemn222 7 лет назад

    Benji gain weight?! 🤔🤔

  • @minatozakisana5036
    @minatozakisana5036 7 лет назад

    How girls always turns things around abd then complain that their bf didnt do this didnt do that and get jealous of other girls bf and what they did to them. Hahaha classic

  • @michelleang97
    @michelleang97 7 лет назад

    benji put on weight? :O

  • @zephyrakira9137
    @zephyrakira9137 5 лет назад

    Hmm I know the girl was so tired, but why didn't she just say sorry after hearing what her boyfriend had done? I mean, yeah, maybe that was not her definition of anniv celebration, but by saying it (what she said on the video), I think she didn't respect him at all. If I were her, I would definitely ask for apology. Dont judge me guys ...

  • @Cikyaniehazel
    @Cikyaniehazel 7 лет назад +1

    plot twist, she has something up at home in her way to celeb the anniversary. both want to go their own way and see their way is the most perfect method to celeb an anniversary. so both are selfish.
    seeing most people blame the girl just because she is tired and showed uneasy reaction to your eyes, does anyone see how was the guy disrespecting the girl by not considering her tiredness and get pissed off immediately even before the girl know what he is up to.
    If the girl had known it earlier and still wanna go home, she deserved that treatment. But she doesnt know, and most of you here saying she is not the right one for that. That is very unfair.

  • @faizinhayathayat6077
    @faizinhayathayat6077 7 лет назад

    thats my ballet teacher

  • @sweetcandysugaarmy8480
    @sweetcandysugaarmy8480 5 лет назад

    The guy shouldn't raise his voice at the girl and answer her questions so sarcastically. Perhaps the girl is really tired or stressed out at work and just want to chill out at his place for a change instead of going to a high class restaurant and being all formal? Maybe she just want to snuggle with him on the couch in front of the tv and eat pizza? It may seem like a 'cheapo' way to celebrate an anniversary but ain't each other's company the most important thing in a relationship? A celebration doesn't have to be so grand, it is the thought that counts. He shouldn't have lost his temper at the girl and instead ask her nicely about her day at work.

  • @aposvlah1855
    @aposvlah1855 7 лет назад

    are they going to brake up?

  • @leechengmeng2942
    @leechengmeng2942 7 лет назад

    A

  • @lawrencewong100
    @lawrencewong100 7 лет назад

    haiz, always want to fight, better break up
    girls and boys had own decisions

  • @clairemasangcay511
    @clairemasangcay511 7 лет назад +1

    Both were selfish not just one

  • @archimedes7703
    @archimedes7703 7 лет назад

    Am i first? C:

  • @yzs2758
    @yzs2758 7 лет назад

    20

  • @dwindarwin7188
    @dwindarwin7188 7 лет назад

    girls never wrong... lol

  • @David-hd8ir
    @David-hd8ir 7 лет назад

    家是讲爱的地方 不讲理由……因为理由多过肉油分不清谁错谁对 爱是永无休止的体谅

  • @jungkookhasnochill3510
    @jungkookhasnochill3510 7 лет назад

    early lol

  • @christinelohzchen3172
    @christinelohzchen3172 7 лет назад

    okay. too deep for me.

  • @Fluff._.y
    @Fluff._.y 7 лет назад

    1

  • @wooottff
    @wooottff 5 лет назад

    I thought she was pregnant in the thumbnail

  • @luciam1660
    @luciam1660 6 лет назад

    Am I the only one who hated the role that the girl played?

  • @reyko-2722
    @reyko-2722 7 лет назад

    Tf is so messed up

  • @syakirah1920
    @syakirah1920 7 лет назад

    10th comment hahaha