The person you marry is the exact same person you divorce. If he had a harem of women when you met him, what made you think he was going to be faithful to you? If she wasn’t satisfied with your income when you met her, what makes you think she’s going to stop wanting that G Wagon. People lie to themselves, they don’t change.
She was mesmerized by his looks and failed to use her common sense. Ladies do not let these dudes fool you, always, always, always sign up for a prenup and the only time you should never EVER sign up for a prenup is when the man is rich, that is when you need to work day and night to ensure you marry that man without signing anything. Fool them, never let them fool you.
@@samz6388 girl, I do not support that. That’s the definition of a gold digger and inequality. Marry for love but also for protection, not to use people for their money. I think both parties regardless of funds should sign a prenup. Your viewpoint to hurt your partner in that manner is very toxic. Everybody male or female should have a prenup.
@@wakanda6547 No more like an opportunist taking advantage of a victim. She should have not love blind her. She's intelligent but not wise to make this dumb decision
@@MsDesiree39 explain how was that love if he was gone all day she only saw him a few hours, seem she was so set and having a wm, love is blind.. But she overlooked that woman's intuition, discernment, attorney 5 senses& common sense! of "girl that boy dont want you"!!!!
@@jmm4940 oh pls, there are so many bw out there loking fr men to date just so they can go to fancy restos/be stepdaddies. he vlosed his practice in one State to move fr her convenience, etc and if it was the other way around he'd be the one paying, so welcome to equality besides she was the one who was thirsty fr a ring on the show and wouldnt wait. most bw will never be married to any man black or non black
@@rubiirae Not!..A prenuptial agreement is often the more straightforward of the two because it's made before a couple combines assets...If one party doesn't want to sign a prenup, they will not sign a postnup.
They last longer than most Bachelor couples so, they were right for each other for a good minute there. They proved all of us who said they wouldn’t last after the finale wrong
@@sandrafernandez3839 we don’t know these people in real life, how often they saw each other in person, how often they zoom called. and it’s not bizarre for couples to leave for work
1:54 "The person you marry is not the same person that you divorce." This is one of the most objective, rational, and logically sound reasons as to why everyone should get a pre-nuptial agreement, if only for peace of mind. It may even contribute to more trust and inspire more open communication within a marriage. A marriage, first and foremost, is a legal contract that is rooted in the merging of finances, wealth, and capital of two independent entities. Thus, outlining an exit strategy in the event of dissolution is extremely prudent. Airplanes do not have emergency protocol and features on every single plane because they expect every plane to crash. They are there in the event of an emergency, there are measures in place designed so that there are the least number of casualties and damage possible. That is the purpose and function of a prenuptial agreement. Thank you Rachel for speaking so candidly about this topic.
I see a lot of comments calling her "dumb" but what's dumb is marrying someone you plan on divorcing. This is why you don't rush and definitely don't settle. Wait on the Lord too many divorces are common and it's because people are so afraid of being lonely that they will join themselves to any available loser and trick themselves into thinking it's "LOVE".
Everyone with lot of money should get one but if you really don't have that much money it's not of consequence to get a prenup if you are making 50k there's just no point.
@@justthatdude1119 Who is y’all? Only idiots would generalize an entire group of people. Thats stupid - this is why racism, sexism and all these toxic isms exist. Educated women has always gotten prenups because they understand exactly what it is - my partner makes more than me and I am urging him for us to get a prenup when we marry. He keeps saying I don’t care what’s mine is yours and if we separate I will always take care of you if you need anything which I don’t because I’m doing well on my own so I won’t need his financial assistance but I want him to protect what he earned before me and I want to protect what was passed on to me from my parents. We both have assets to protect! Some of Y’ALL have a limited education without a career so a prenup would never be an issue because you have nothing to give - if you have a child and you have to pay child support pre nuptials don’t protect your from court ordered child support. So broke men have nothing to worry about. If you dint understand the HISTORY of American marriage and how the women gave up their passions and careers to raise children which is noble then left to pick up the pieces of their life after a divorce is real. You don’t have wealthy man problems so don’t worry this is not your lane and you know it. Cut it out 😂
I think Bryan love bombed Rachel from the very beginning because he saw the financial potential in her. I was suspicious of him from the beginning. It still doesn’t make sense why he is divorcing her since according to court documents, she earns $700K annually
Love bombed?? lol Rachel gave up the one who really loved her on the show, and ended up with the leftovers. Both of them were just opportunists using each other. I don’t understand how no one else saw that?
@@LA-ty2ug Peter simply asked fr more time, most pple dont get married after 3 weeks, he wanted too get to knowher off camera, obviously he was the smarter man
@@LA-ty2ug his business grew through his own hard work/affiliations. he got the last laugh, that break up vid on the show was real/emotional but she was thirsty fr a ring
it doesn't matter where you live or how much you make. whether you're together forever or divorce after a period of time. ALWAYS GET A PRENUP. if either party refuses or makes a fuss, that is not your person.
@@Servingahigherpower Chile’ everybody “seems” to be in love. Lol. Until reality kicks in after the “honeymoon” phase of marriage is over. That can’t sustain a marriage! Friendship and communication will. Also, you have to genuinely LIKE being with the other person, feel comfortable around them. To me, he seemed to be in it for the cameras and TV fame. Not that he really liked “her.” I saw it coming to this from day 1 of their “relationship”. 🙄
These men have noticed our desperation to be married and they sure are taking advantage of it. And for a lawyer in her 30s (not a naive young girl) to not sign a prenup was extremely desperate of you, Rachel.
Women have been forever taking men to the cleaners, maybe the men are finally waking up and asking for what is rightfully theirs...This so-called lawyer has said on numerous occasions that she never could have achieved what she has without her husband's support. Give him what he is legally entitled to and be done with it.
@@wakanda6547 She was already an attorney before they got married, and he should feel really embarrassed and ashamed to take any money from her, does he realize how that makes him look? That's why he did'nt agree with a prenup, he had a motive already in his mind. He's wrong for taking money from her, she earned it, not him.
@@curlyb4c95 just referring to the fact that despite men paying support fr years the courts have allowed to be beastly and not allow the men to see their kids
The order read, “[Rachel] is ordered to pay to [Bryan] temporary spousal support in the sum of $13,257.00 per month.” The judge did not rule on whether Rachel will have to pay retroactive support. In addition, Rachel was ordered to pay Bryan’s lawyer $15,000 to cover legal fees and another $5,000 to cover his forensic expert expenses.
Rachel did not have a house before marriage. She is not being honest because all her interviews on JHud and other show she said all her success were because of Bryan being a supportive husband. She also without Bryan being there for her she couldn’t survived the flak she got with Chris Harrison situation. The initial marriage they were equal now she doesn’t want him to recoup what he lost financially moving to LA.
@@horacefletcher9510 Yes!! So s prenup would not have helped her. As usually that covers the asset before marriage and inheritance from parents. So she may be mad and can say whatever but a prenup would not change her issues. Just do the split, split the money, and go. But it would bug me if he wanted alimony from her. He works and they are young and the relationship made no children so no alimony either way.
This was self inflicted. She had Mary J. Blige, Wendy Williams, Sherri Shepherd, and Halle Berry as examples of the consequences of BW not having prenuptial agreements in place. BW’s biggest mistake is marrying for love. At the end of the day, marriage is a business. You never enter a business contract lightly.
Marriage isn’t a business you silly woman it’s a legacy. A generational legacy …American made it a business 60 years ago with the lax divorce laws. But old fashioned conservatives always knew that love can be there on day gone the next but return again. You silly women are marrying based on feelings over legacy , family , culture and faith. Meaning the seeds sown will survive long after you’re dead.
@@ericdwhitmorec get a clue, a lawyer regardless of what area of law they practice- they are thought a lot of general law, including family law and prenups. in law school ..Think about it ??
Seems he was expecting to ride her coattails to success and money! And when his “exercise/ chiropractic” business didn’t take off but HER career did, a divorce was inevitable! And now he wants half!
Rubbish. True martiage doesn't need a prenup. No one wants to address the elephant in the room. You csnnot go and choose a life partner on a show. Getting to know someone takes time and much prayer. They were never aligned as they were both seeking marriage for their own selfish reasons.
@@mbach003 he had his own practice, gave it up and moved across Country for her, like men have been doing for decades she has to pay up. welcome to equality
I can't even give this podcast a thumbs up. I'm so sorry to hear. Rachel and Brian are getting a divorce. I loved them as a beautiful couple. And I'd hope that one day they'd have children. I know for a while they lived apart which I don't find this to be a good idea (for a long-term relationship of any status). 🙏🏽 Rachel, I wish you well. 🫂 And 100% healing. One of my cousins shared The same information with me less than a week ago. I was shocked to hear this regarding their marriage as well. God is able to heal and carry you through. 🙌🏽
I watched her season of The Bachelorette every single week and I remember being on Twitter every single week too. I remember the fans DID NOT like Bryan AT ALL. I personally thought he was a good match for her (I didn’t know any better just like Rachel). The fans thought he was an opportunist & only on the show for his 15 minutes of fame. Whyyyy Rachel??😫😫
The core things that make you you were set in stone by the time you were 13yrs old. You are the same person at the marriage that you are when you divorce.
Nothing wrong with that. That is what the American woman does. The American woman is strong, the American woman is a career driven woman. The American woman sometimes allows the American husband to wear her bra and underwear while she wears the suit. The American household is built on equality, respect and role reversal, where at times the husband can be submissive and the wife can be dominate and they can switch roles every other week. This is the new way of life.
@@samz6388 that's very true, but growing old, lonely,and miserable, without a husband and no kids, that's a pathetic way of life, I don't see anything strong about that, these are the same kinda of women who start looking for someone to love them, when no man wants them
Nah..too much time done passed and I don’t like how he said yes to doing a podcast interview once their divorce was announced to give a statement about it like…he said nice things but that wasn’t his business nor necessary.
@@MsDesiree39 if he was over it, why did he go onto a podcast to discuss them? especially when he said he wanted to be done with the franchise after the comments that were sent to harass his family etc lol
Bryan was Investigsted for insufficient medical records, excessive charges and unnecessary treatment by the Florida Board of Chiropractic Medicine in 2014 on a 3 year old. he had to pay a fine of $20,000 (including an out of court settlement and was court ordered to attend mandatory record keeping ethics (hiding money isn’t new to him) and medical ethics classes with a permanent record. Then he was sued by Allstate in 2016 as primary along with the other doctors at his chiropractor firm for insurance fraud. Shortly after he signed on to be a contestant on the bachelorette. Then after she moves to Miami FOR HIM then she moves to LA for work… he decides to “close his practice” (because he had trouble finding a medical malpractice insurer (and other firms wouldn’t touch him) and “decided to move his practice to LA” to be “closer to her”. The timing is too suspicious. So, yes I think this guy is a leech. Also, when you have been caught committing excessive treatment (violating the Hippocratic oath of do no harm) and insurance fraud on record and sued by a main medical practice insurer, California wouldn’t allow you to run a medical practice without medical practice insurance policy. He’s full of it. Unless someone else is the main doctor on record for the managing partner of the LA firm on insurance records. This is public record.
Ain't this the facts. Coming for everybody neck while her fake marriage was crumbling trying to say "we trying for a baby" every 5 mins to make us believe otherwise. We not stupid Rachel.
Definitely any couple should sign a prenup before getting married, you have to protect your money and assets. If one partner wants one and the other doesn't, then don't walk down the aisle
The same person you marry is the same person you divorce. People do not change who they are. Couples simply ignore things that could be major issues down the line. If they are bad with money on the 3rd date, they’re going to be bad with money in year 3 of the marriage. If she has anger issues 5 months into the relationship, she’ll have anger issues as she’s being served with divorce papers. If he’s fat and lazy on day one, he will still be fat and lazy when the judge finalizes the divorce. Simply stop lying to yourselves of force yourself to make the marriage work.
People do mature, change and grow. In this way not the same person. You can definitely be bad at handling money at 21 and good at 31. Regardless, it’s a shame the divorce rate is so high.
@ewright7274 I am much better with money now than I was 30 years ago. That said, I'm still that poor kid walking barefoot to school. Give me $1M, and I will easily spend $50k on bespoke footwear. My point is that people adjust to situations, but at their core, they are who they've always been.
It’s a shame that they didn’t last, they were one of my favorite couples. She’s not ready to be tied down and raise a family; she’s too busy building her career up. And living in different states was a big sign that they were headed for divorce
Peter stop that in its track when he said the past is in the past. Why would he go back to a 39 year old woman when he literally has woman 15 years younger in his dms 🤣
@@MsDesiree39 I watched it and watched the entire season. Rachel was crying and begging because it hurt her ego that her runner up was rejecting her and not sticking to the process to propose to her. She was also comparing him to her ex who she was also trying to force to propose as well. Rachel has a big ego and tries to hold on to things that’s not working which is why she stayed as long as she did in her marriage, ignored red flags, and didn’t get a prenup. I bet even after her divorce to Bryan, she regrets looking foolish and crying about Peter on the show. Peter was acting and never intended on getting engaged from the beginning which is why he’s still single today. He has been able to establish 5 gyms and expand his business which was his plan all along. Y’all pay too much attention to tears and acting and what you see on tv and social media and it’s the reason why y’all get blindsided and shocked by events like Rachel and Bryan’s divorce. I don’t let how things appear fool me. I could tell that none of those men were her person and that we would find out later.
Wow thought she was smarter than that. Every Lawyer knows how key that is. Marriage doesn't last more than 7 years on average. Major Kudos to the many that have made the long journey:)
It's very disappointing indeed. She was trying to avoid the stigma of being a 'never married' woman only to end up with the stigma of being a 'divorced' woman.
The first red flag was not seeing eye to eye on what happens if you divorce. People gotta stop trying to force relationships to work. That was where she went wrong. The marriage never should’ve happened
Good. I hope he takes everything you got Linsday.That's what you get for not picking the brother for your husband my sista. GOOD! Lesson learned. (Courtesy Of MR. X)
I respect Rachel for not giving a tell-all on their ongoing divorce and for not bad mouthing her soon to b ex husband even though she could’ve. It was mature and shows that there’s still respect for one another as I remember even Bryan defending Rachel in comment sections a month or so ago when mere spectators were talking out of their rears. I hope they find a resolution and can move forward. They lasted longer than the fans who watched her great season predicted so at least they tried. That being said, regarding the host of this podcast, Natasha, she’ll forever leave a bad taste in my mouth since I only remember her for being a follower and apart of that mean-girl clique during Peter’s season when they bullied Alayah out the house 🤷🏾♀️ Despicable. Rachel interviewed the women after that tell all and didn’t hold any of them accountable or asked questions about the drama THEY created which was disappointing since she prides herself on being real…she wasn’t real about that. Sydney, the 2 Victoria’s, Lexi, Natasha, all mean girls visibly threatened by the fact that Peter liked Alayah lol.
She needed to give a tell-all. She did not think about Chris Harrison, and the others from the show when she was tearing them apart. What happened she was shocked and ashamed? She deserves everything she is getting right now, and will forever have challenges. her purse is publishing negative things in her book about Raven. The others, people will forget, unless someone brings up how she treated them. But, for Rave, if her book is still out there her name will be there, especially if her kids pick up that book, they will see that this malicious woman has painted their mom as a racist. Please stop entertaining this woman. She needs serious help. She has hurt so many people because of her mouth including her husband.
@@sharleenmagetto5051 And that was on purpose. Rachel wrote blogs about how she did not want to constantly post her and her husband to appease invasive strangers online who would only expect more and more. You thought they weren’t happy bc they didn’t post abt their relationship..that’s the problem many who spend too much time on social media have. It dilutes reality.
@@SupernaturalLove100 I didn't expect them to keep posting, I haven't said anything of that sort. But from how you are speaking about them being really happy, what are you basing that on? How sure are you they were happy, cz she's been on Natasha's podcast and she said they were complete opposites and rarely agreed on anything
@@SupernaturalLove100I always thought Rachel blamed them not posting with wanting to protect their marriage and to stay private. But I knew it was a lie and they weren’t posting because there was trouble in paradise. A public couple doesn’t go from posting and being together a lot to never at all unless there’s been a change in the relationship. She wanted to save face by saying that but the divorce is proof of the real reason.
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The person you marry is not the person you divorce.
JUST AVOID GETTING MARRIED NOW DAYS AT ALL.
NO SUCH THING AS REAL LOVE ANYMORE IT IS ALL ABOUT BUSINESS. $$$😢
She is an educated woman. Why go to reality TV?
Because in her case Reality TV paid more than articling in a courtroom..
The person you marry is the exact same person you divorce. If he had a harem of women when you met him, what made you think he was going to be faithful to you? If she wasn’t satisfied with your income when you met her, what makes you think she’s going to stop wanting that G Wagon. People lie to themselves, they don’t change.
Wow this is a great call
She’s a lawyer and don’t get a prenup? That was very naive.
She has Eboni K Williams disease. Her desperation for a white husband blinded her.
She was mesmerized by his looks and failed to use her common sense. Ladies do not let these dudes fool you, always, always, always sign up for a prenup and the only time you should never EVER sign up for a prenup is when the man is rich, that is when you need to work day and night to ensure you marry that man without signing anything. Fool them, never let them fool you.
@@samz6388 girl, I do not support that. That’s the definition of a gold digger and inequality. Marry for love but also for protection, not to use people for their money. I think both parties regardless of funds should sign a prenup. Your viewpoint to hurt your partner in that manner is very toxic. Everybody male or female should have a prenup.
Did you actually watch the video? She literally addressed very directly why she didn’t get one.
Did she even practice?
That was a big RED flag! He knew what he was doing when he married her.
there's a reason i'm sure why no man before this propsed to her so dont go on about someone u dont reallly know
Iknr....a lawyer and very stongwilled and if she wanted a prenap she would have gotten it, somethings fishy, maybe she expected to extort him?
She shouldn’t have been thirsty ! You went against your thoughts for a man with cheek fillers
@@courtneywilliams1 No 😁. Not the “cheek fillers”. 🥳😳
Agreed
He having a problem with the prenuptial was a big red flag
Exactly
She hated on black men but got finessed by them😂😂
She was in love with him and didn't fight to get it. My opinion, he played her.
Agreed
Yup. He’s a slick talker. She fell for that on the show imo
It's called EQUALITY!😂
@@wakanda6547 No more like an opportunist taking advantage of a victim. She should have not love blind her. She's intelligent but not wise to make this dumb decision
Not Zaddy? HAHAHAHA
I believe this was his Original plan, he stayed long enough to get paid.
Not really, he'd have been better off to stay married longer..
The divorce attorneys will be the true financial winners.
Bingo
nope, the love wa real, most marriages no end in divorce
@@MsDesiree39 explain how was that love if he was gone all day she only saw him a few hours, seem she was so set and having a wm, love is blind.. But she overlooked that woman's intuition, discernment, attorney 5 senses& common sense! of "girl that boy dont want you"!!!!
@@jmm4940 oh pls, there are so many bw out there loking fr men to date just so they can go to fancy restos/be stepdaddies. he vlosed his practice in one State to move fr her convenience, etc and if it was the other way around he'd be the one paying, so welcome to equality besides she was the one who was thirsty fr a ring on the show and wouldnt wait. most bw will never be married to any man black or non black
When he didn’t see eye to eye that was a red flag. Very unfortunate.
I was thinking the same thing. Don't let anyone tell you if you really love me, then you won't ask for a prenup.
Yes. If couples aren't on the same page about prenups, whether they're for or against them, they are not meant for each other imo.
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Well dont divorce him if that will save you from having 2 pay him alimony. Right?
@@jmm4940He filed.
I’m shocked that she didn’t. Emotions can be dangerous in hindsight.
I’m more surprised she didn’t get a postnup, yes it’s a thing and it’s more crucial than a prenup, ask any family law attorneys
@@rubiirae agreed
@@rubiirae
Not!..A prenuptial agreement is often the more straightforward of the two because it's made before a couple combines assets...If one party doesn't want to sign a prenup, they will not sign a postnup.
I always knew he wasn't the right one for her.
They last longer than most Bachelor couples so, they were right for each other for a good minute there. They proved all of us who said they wouldn’t last after the finale wrong
He is white which is what she wants.
I don't know what am said he seems a good person
@@sandrafernandez3839 we don’t know these people in real life, how often they saw each other in person, how often they zoom called. and it’s not bizarre for couples to leave for work
She should’ve known her life with him would end up in divorce the second he told her I am Latino and I live in Miami.
1:54 "The person you marry is not the same person that you divorce." This is one of the most objective, rational, and logically sound reasons as to why everyone should get a pre-nuptial agreement, if only for peace of mind. It may even contribute to more trust and inspire more open communication within a marriage.
A marriage, first and foremost, is a legal contract that is rooted in the merging of finances, wealth, and capital of two independent entities. Thus, outlining an exit strategy in the event of dissolution is extremely prudent.
Airplanes do not have emergency protocol and features on every single plane because they expect every plane to crash. They are there in the event of an emergency, there are measures in place designed so that there are the least number of casualties and damage possible. That is the purpose and function of a prenuptial agreement.
Thank you Rachel for speaking so candidly about this topic.
Cant and shouldnt have any regrets. You thought he was your person and you two really seem to be in love and I am really sad for you two!
The Zaddy worship is sad.
Dude appears in the photo-op like he ain’t no way attracted to her. He don’t even seem comfortable standing next to her 😂
Pause at 0:19 He’s like “Can y’all actually believe this?😂”
I see a lot of comments calling her "dumb" but what's dumb is marrying someone you plan on divorcing. This is why you don't rush and definitely don't settle. Wait on the Lord too many divorces are common and it's because people are so afraid of being lonely that they will join themselves to any available loser and trick themselves into thinking it's "LOVE".
You can't stop a person from divorcing you. Doesn't matter if you plan on it or not.
Everyone should get a prenup.
Everrrrry one!! A prenup is a must!
Now yall acting like yall believe in prenups 😂… ain’t no fun when the rabbit has the gun
Everyone with lot of money should get one but if you really don't have that much money it's not of consequence to get a prenup if you are making 50k there's just no point.
EVERY ONE!!!
@@justthatdude1119 Who is y’all? Only idiots would generalize an entire group of people. Thats stupid - this is why racism, sexism and all these toxic isms exist. Educated women has always gotten prenups because they understand exactly what it is - my partner makes more than me and I am urging him for us to get a prenup when we marry. He keeps saying I don’t care what’s mine is yours and if we separate I will always take care of you if you need anything which I don’t because I’m doing well on my own so I won’t need his financial assistance but I want him to protect what he earned before me and I want to protect what was passed on to me from my parents. We both have assets to protect!
Some of Y’ALL have a limited education without a career so a prenup would never be an issue because you have nothing to give - if you have a child and you have to pay child support pre nuptials don’t protect your from court ordered child support. So broke men have nothing to worry about.
If you dint understand the HISTORY of American marriage and how the women gave up their passions and careers to raise children which is noble then left to pick up the pieces of their life after a divorce is real. You don’t have wealthy man problems so don’t worry this is not your lane and you know it. Cut it out 😂
I think Bryan love bombed Rachel from the very beginning because he saw the financial potential in her. I was suspicious of him from the beginning. It still doesn’t make sense why he is divorcing her since according to court documents, she earns $700K annually
Love bombed?? lol Rachel gave up the one who really loved her on the show, and ended up with the leftovers. Both of them were just opportunists using each other. I don’t understand how no one else saw that?
Children!
@@JpragerPeter didn’t love her! He just wanted to promote his business and now runs 4 gyms. None of the men on her season was the one. Period.
@@LA-ty2ug Peter simply asked fr more time, most pple dont get married after 3 weeks, he wanted too get to knowher off camera, obviously he was the smarter man
@@LA-ty2ug his business grew through his own hard work/affiliations. he got the last laugh, that break up vid on the show was real/emotional but she was thirsty fr a ring
it doesn't matter where you live or how much you make. whether you're together forever or divorce after a period of time. ALWAYS GET A PRENUP. if either party refuses or makes a fuss, that is not your person.
women dont respect prenups often
Can’t believe they are divorced they seem so in love
I loved them. So sad
Sometimes loving someone means letting them fly.... not caging them for your personal pet. I think they just had to let go
lol. How many times do you guys get fooled. You don’t know these people
@@Servingahigherpower Chile’ everybody “seems” to be in love. Lol. Until reality kicks in after the “honeymoon” phase of marriage is over. That can’t sustain a marriage! Friendship and communication will. Also, you have to genuinely LIKE being with the other person, feel comfortable around them. To me, he seemed to be in it for the cameras and TV fame. Not that he really liked “her.” I saw it coming to this from day 1 of their “relationship”. 🙄
Y because they took nice pics?
Even those marriage photos I don’t see love in his eyes!! He clearly didn’t want you
That is insanely CRAZY for her not to have a prenup. 😮 If he didn’t want one, she should have NEVER married him.
Facts. I also think it's crazy to think people will find love on these types of shows
women break prenups constantly
especially with a guy she met on a. reality show !
How crazy and she's an attorney.
Not seeing eye to eye on a prenup is the biggest red flag ever lol
I was rooting for them 😢 its so unfortunate
Off of what? Vibes? Lol
White Zaddy, pathetic.
Him being white more like it
These men have noticed our desperation to be married and they sure are taking advantage of it. And for a lawyer in her 30s (not a naive young girl) to not sign a prenup was extremely desperate of you, Rachel.
Women have been forever taking men to the cleaners, maybe the men are finally waking up and asking for what is rightfully theirs...This so-called lawyer has said on numerous occasions that she never could have achieved what she has without her husband's support.
Give him what he is legally entitled to and be done with it.
women constantly contest prenups
@@wakanda6547 She was already an attorney before they got married, and he should feel really embarrassed and ashamed to take any money from her, does he realize how that makes him look?
That's why he did'nt agree with a prenup, he had a motive already in his mind. He's wrong for taking money from her, she earned it, not him.
@@ramonalewis7c are females ever embarassed about taking money from men even when they work too?
@@ramonalewis7c men taking their turn..
He’ll marry someone from HIS culture with HER money lol
men have been paying support fr ages while fighting to see their own kids
@@MsDesiree39 They don’t have kids. What does this comment mean about child support? Genuinely asking..?
@@curlyb4c95 i'm referring to the HER money comment
@@curlyb4c95 just referring to the fact that despite men paying support fr years the courts have allowed to be beastly and not allow the men to see their kids
As he should looool
No prenup. Not a smart lawyer
Not a lawyer I'd hire.😂
The order read, “[Rachel] is ordered to pay to [Bryan] temporary spousal support in the sum of $13,257.00 per month.” The judge did not rule on whether Rachel will have to pay retroactive support.
In addition, Rachel was ordered to pay Bryan’s lawyer $15,000 to cover legal fees and another $5,000 to cover his forensic expert expenses.
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wow that's crazy Rachel such a good person to be played I never thought Ryan was like that
The prenup would not have worked for you. Because all your money came after the marriage. And you would still have to give him money
Rachel did not have a house before marriage. She is not being honest because all her interviews on JHud and other show she said all her success were because of Bryan being a supportive husband. She also without Bryan being there for her she couldn’t survived the flak she got with Chris Harrison situation. The initial marriage they were equal now she doesn’t want him to recoup what he lost financially moving to LA.
@@horacefletcher9510 regardless a man must be a man
@@horacefletcher9510 Yes!! So s prenup would not have helped her. As usually that covers the asset before marriage and inheritance from parents. So she may be mad and can say whatever but a prenup would not change her issues. Just do the split, split the money, and go. But it would bug me if he wanted alimony from her. He works and they are young and the relationship made no children so no alimony either way.
@@blessedblessed4323Can you tell me did Rachel hire a lawyer a few w weeks ago, and what was her purpose , for doing that?
Stop talking like you know all the details pertaining to her success
I could have one dollar to my name and I’m still getting a prenup lol
It’s okay because she said men that look like her ex were the best option. This what she wanted you go girl 💪🏽
This was self inflicted. She had Mary J. Blige, Wendy Williams, Sherri Shepherd, and Halle Berry as examples of the consequences of BW not having prenuptial agreements in place. BW’s biggest mistake is marrying for love. At the end of the day, marriage is a business. You never enter a business contract lightly.
You can add Adele,....to the list.
@@debspringchannel831At least her man now has money.
Marriage isn’t a business you silly woman it’s a legacy. A generational legacy …American made it a business 60 years ago with the lax divorce laws. But old fashioned conservatives always knew that love can be there on day gone the next but return again. You silly women are marrying based on feelings over legacy , family , culture and faith. Meaning the seeds sown will survive long after you’re dead.
She’s an attorney.. stupid move.
I would say, it's the same person, it's just a side of that person you hadn't seen, until that point.
True
This is crazy ! Your a lawyer you know that people get crazy about money.
A lawyer without a prenup says a lot about this lawyer, it seems she was swayed not to get one. Interesting.
Not very smart is she..😂
Does it, do you even know what kind of law she practices or practiced?
@@ericdwhitmorec get a clue, a lawyer regardless of what area of law they practice- they are thought a lot of general law, including family law and prenups. in law school ..Think about it ??
So sad. Wishing them both the best.
Seems he was expecting to ride her coattails to success and money!
And when his “exercise/ chiropractic” business didn’t take off but HER career did, a divorce was inevitable!
And now he wants half!
He is entitled to half, by California no fault divorce law.
@@wakanda6547 it may have more to do with the state where they actually married. Good luck to them both.
@@Mctfl427
They got married in Mexico, but were residents of Florida when they got married.. what does that have to do with California?
@@wakanda6547 I’m not sure when it comes to a divorce. And honestly, I don’t care. Good luck to them both.
@Mctfl427 Yeah you were just running your mouth and you didn't have any facts. Sit down.
When Brad worship backfires 😭
Top and truest comment.
Never be thirsty for marriage. Noway im well off and getting married without a prenup
I wrote a similar comment. The thirst was real with this one.
She was definitely desperate. She want it, he didn't, she still proceeded. They weren't seeing eye to eye, she still proceeded.
I need to bookmark this comment for myself.
@@naphisa340 Anybody going on this type show is desperate IMO.
Rubbish. True martiage doesn't need a prenup. No one wants to address the elephant in the room. You csnnot go and choose a life partner on a show. Getting to know someone takes time and much prayer. They were never aligned as they were both seeking marriage for their own selfish reasons.
Facts…I think this was truly the deeper reason here. I can’t judge, but for some reason, always felt like their match was off a bit.
Peter smartly asked for more time but she said no
Marriages need prenups. If u broke just say that
Tell to the millions that got married, not on TV and the same thing happened!
@@mbach003 he had his own practice, gave it up and moved across Country for her, like men have been doing for decades she has to pay up. welcome to equality
She can’t say she knew him well.
Natasha quickly said "Yes."
Shes an attorney and her dad is a judge. How did she not know.
Desperado, no other bf of hers ever considered putting a ring on her finger.😂
I can't even give this podcast a thumbs up. I'm so sorry to hear. Rachel and Brian are getting a divorce. I loved them as a beautiful couple. And I'd hope that one day they'd have children. I know for a while they lived apart which I don't find this to be a good idea (for a long-term relationship of any status). 🙏🏽 Rachel, I wish you well. 🫂 And 100% healing. One of my cousins shared The same information with me less than a week ago. I was shocked to hear this regarding their marriage as well. God is able to heal and carry you through. 🙌🏽
Marriage has became a trial now like one ride to another
Sad 😢
I watched her season of The Bachelorette every single week and I remember being on Twitter every single week too. I remember the fans DID NOT like Bryan AT ALL. I personally thought he was a good match for her (I didn’t know any better just like Rachel). The fans thought he was an opportunist & only on the show for his 15 minutes of fame.
Whyyyy Rachel??😫😫
Two opportunists, who got where they did by being on the show..then they started baiting the hand that fed them, and the rest is history.
@@wakanda6547 “Baiting” the hand or “biting” the hand? What hand did they even bite? This comment is confusing
Everybody should get a prenup...prenup team all the way.
I have nothing to say she knows better just blinded by the life of love. It will get you every time. Ladies we got to be smart.
The core things that make you you were set in stone by the time you were 13yrs old. You are the same person at the marriage that you are when you divorce.
I think it’s a red flag when anyone doesn’t want a prenup.
FACTS
she should have talked about that before marriage
She put her career first over her marriage,
Nothing wrong with that. That is what the American woman does. The American woman is strong, the American woman is a career driven woman. The American woman sometimes allows the American husband to wear her bra and underwear while she wears the suit. The American household is built on equality, respect and role reversal, where at times the husband can be submissive and the wife can be dominate and they can switch roles every other week. This is the new way of life.
He would have never stayed with her. She can not make any kids.
@@samz6388 that's very true, but growing old, lonely,and miserable, without a husband and no kids, that's a pathetic way of life, I don't see anything strong about that, these are the same kinda of women who start looking for someone to love them, when no man wants them
@@samz6388this is the new way of life but unfortunately I don’t think it works.
@@Nana720jygi another incel with a revenge fantasy against women who are out of his league lol
Was always Team Peter. Think he's still single sis.
Nah..too much time done passed and I don’t like how he said yes to doing a podcast interview once their divorce was announced to give a statement about it like…he said nice things but that wasn’t his business nor necessary.
@@SupernaturalLove100 pretty sure he was aske about it and he is so wonderfully over it
he can do better
me too, team Peter!!! Bryan was fake from the beginning
@@MsDesiree39 if he was over it, why did he go onto a podcast to discuss them? especially when he said he wanted to be done with the franchise after the comments that were sent to harass his family etc lol
What was the reason for the divorce?
Irreconcilable Differences…believe this was published in an article released earlier this year.
Fertility
@@wakanda6547doubtful they both had money to overcome that
Shes young. She will make more money. Stay in entertainment.
@@nicolem889 she's almost 50 yrs old.
@@lifestyle0889 Mmkay. And?
@lifestyle0889 , how is 39 close to 50?
Bryan was Investigsted for insufficient medical records, excessive charges and unnecessary treatment by the Florida Board of Chiropractic Medicine in 2014 on a 3 year old. he had to pay a fine of $20,000 (including an out of court settlement and was court ordered to attend mandatory record keeping ethics (hiding money isn’t new to him) and medical ethics classes with a permanent record. Then he was sued by Allstate in 2016 as primary along with the other doctors at his chiropractor firm for insurance fraud. Shortly after he signed on to be a contestant on the bachelorette. Then after she moves to Miami FOR HIM then she moves to LA for work… he decides to “close his practice” (because he had trouble finding a medical malpractice insurer (and other firms wouldn’t touch him) and “decided to move his practice to LA” to be “closer to her”. The timing is too suspicious. So, yes I think this guy is a leech. Also, when you have been caught committing excessive treatment (violating the Hippocratic oath of do no harm) and insurance fraud on record and sued by a main medical practice insurer, California wouldn’t allow you to run a medical practice without medical practice insurance policy. He’s full of it. Unless someone else is the main doctor on record for the managing partner of the LA firm on insurance records. This is public record.
And the independent women picked him….
Take your time but be accurate!!
She always had answers to everyone else business but no focus on her own. Interesting.
Still very successful. You on the other hand will continue to remain useless.
Ain't this the facts. Coming for everybody neck while her fake marriage was crumbling trying to say "we trying for a baby" every 5 mins to make us believe otherwise. We not stupid Rachel.
That's every one. "2 cents,"
She didn't get a prenuptial because she was desperate
He used her.
Bingo.
Should've gone with Peter.
yup!! I thought she would, I was shocked she chose fake Bryan !
So what's the settlement?
Pls,Was she a host with E?
Yes, Extra!
@@wakanda6547 thank you,I kept on saying in my thoughts "I have seen this face on E"
She’s not the smartest lawyer on the block.
Lol. Savage comment out there.
Definitely any couple should sign a prenup before getting married, you have to protect your money and assets. If one partner wants one and the other doesn't, then don't walk down the aisle
There were no assets to protect...all assets were accrued during marriage.
@@wakanda6547 Well, who said a prenup couldn't be drafted for future accrued assets?
90% of women wouldn't get married then.
The same person you marry is the same person you divorce. People do not change who they are. Couples simply ignore things that could be major issues down the line. If they are bad with money on the 3rd date, they’re going to be bad with money in year 3 of the marriage. If she has anger issues 5 months into the relationship, she’ll have anger issues as she’s being served with divorce papers. If he’s fat and lazy on day one, he will still be fat and lazy when the judge finalizes the divorce. Simply stop lying to yourselves of force yourself to make the marriage work.
People do mature, change and grow. In this way not the same person. You can definitely be bad at handling money at 21 and good at 31. Regardless, it’s a shame the divorce rate is so high.
@ewright7274 I am much better with money now than I was 30 years ago. That said, I'm still that poor kid walking barefoot to school. Give me $1M, and I will easily spend $50k on bespoke footwear. My point is that people adjust to situations, but at their core, they are who they've always been.
I'm not surprised she didn't get a prenup. Her and her ex had similar salaries. Wasn't till later in the marriage that Rachel acquired wealth
It’s a shame that they didn’t last, they were one of my favorite couples. She’s not ready to be tied down and raise a family; she’s too busy building her career up. And living in different states was a big sign that they were headed for divorce
She had the hots for the other guy but then went on with guy she actually married because he was really into her.
Rachel wanted a diamond ring that her ex's wouldn't give her, she took the one that offered it first, and the rest is history.
@@wakanda6547 Peter got the last laugh tho
She was in love with Peter and I believe they are both still in love with each other... I always felt that Bryan wasn't the one for her.
I remember Peter 😮
Peter stop that in its track when he said the past is in the past. Why would he go back to a 39 year old woman when he literally has woman 15 years younger in his dms 🤣
They aren’t in love with each other and Peter was never in love with her. He wanted on the show for other reasons.
@@LA-ty2ug you sem to not have watched their breakup episode
@@MsDesiree39 I watched it and watched the entire season. Rachel was crying and begging because it hurt her ego that her runner up was rejecting her and not sticking to the process to propose to her. She was also comparing him to her ex who she was also trying to force to propose as well. Rachel has a big ego and tries to hold on to things that’s not working which is why she stayed as long as she did in her marriage, ignored red flags, and didn’t get a prenup. I bet even after her divorce to Bryan, she regrets looking foolish and crying about Peter on the show. Peter was acting and never intended on getting engaged from the beginning which is why he’s still single today. He has been able to establish 5 gyms and expand his business which was his plan all along. Y’all pay too much attention to tears and acting and what you see on tv and social media and it’s the reason why y’all get blindsided and shocked by events like Rachel and Bryan’s divorce. I don’t let how things appear fool me. I could tell that none of those men were her person and that we would find out later.
Whyyy didn’t she get a prenup?! She’s a lawyer, her dad’s a judge. Come on
Because she is not a smart non practicing lawyer.😂
Being in love made her stupid
@@uhrrrrrangels
More like desperation!😂💰
Marriage is the worst business contract you can enter into
That's something I would expect a blk man to say.
@nadedjadannevik6272 yea, because he knows first hand what black women have to offer.
@@tchakeemn No, it's because blk men know they themselves have nothing to offer any woman.
@@tchakeemn Too bad blk men have nothing to offer...
Wow thought she was smarter than that. Every Lawyer knows how key that is. Marriage doesn't last more than 7 years on average. Major Kudos to the many that have made the long journey:)
He knew what he was doing
Good for him!
😂💰
She is so cute. I've always liked her face, she's adorable.
She's too old to be cute...😂
I can’t listen to this. To see ignorance in a young educated Black woman makes me puke.
It's very disappointing indeed. She was trying to avoid the stigma of being a 'never married' woman only to end up with the stigma of being a 'divorced' woman.
The first red flag was not seeing eye to eye on what happens if you divorce. People gotta stop trying to force relationships to work. That was where she went wrong. The marriage never should’ve happened
I love it when men succeed in women-dominated areas. Secure the bag, KING 😂👑
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Isn't she a lawyer???? OMG!
Don't let desperation speak louder
Finally the logic is kicking in for them.
Pain is the best teacher
❤ just keep growing precious 😊
Agree on not being on same page forever. We grow at a different pace for sure.
Being in love is not always like that if you can't deal with the ups and downs so many things will happen
Good. I hope he takes everything you got Linsday.That's what you get for not picking the brother for your husband my sista. GOOD! Lesson learned. (Courtesy Of MR. X)
I hope he takes everything too.
A prenup does not work for money you earned after marriage. obviously. When they support you to do your carrier then they get compensation.
I respect Rachel for not giving a tell-all on their ongoing divorce and for not bad mouthing her soon to b ex husband even though she could’ve. It was mature and shows that there’s still respect for one another as I remember even Bryan defending Rachel in comment sections a month or so ago when mere spectators were talking out of their rears. I hope they find a resolution and can move forward. They lasted longer than the fans who watched her great season predicted so at least they tried.
That being said, regarding the host of this podcast, Natasha, she’ll forever leave a bad taste in my mouth since I only remember her for being a follower and apart of that mean-girl clique during Peter’s season when they bullied Alayah out the house 🤷🏾♀️ Despicable. Rachel interviewed the women after that tell all and didn’t hold any of them accountable or asked questions about the drama THEY created which was disappointing since she prides herself on being real…she wasn’t real about that.
Sydney, the 2 Victoria’s, Lexi, Natasha, all mean girls visibly threatened by the fact that Peter liked Alayah lol.
She needed to give a tell-all. She did not think about Chris Harrison, and the others from the show when she was tearing them apart. What happened she was shocked and ashamed? She deserves everything she is getting right now, and will forever have challenges. her purse is publishing negative things in her book about Raven. The others, people will forget, unless someone brings up how she treated them. But, for Rave, if her book is still out there her name will be there, especially if her kids pick up that book, they will see that this malicious woman has painted their mom as a racist. Please stop entertaining this woman. She needs serious help. She has hurt so many people because of her mouth including her husband.
@@mjmcarson-gn5in
Not reading all that trash, Karen. Keep crying tho 💀
@@mjmcarson-gn5in
I ain’t reading all that Karen. Seek therapy
Because they didn’t have a prenup, he got a fortune out of the marriage.
What do you call a fortune?...A big chunk of change will be spent on lawyers.
She knew the drill, pay dude the money he is owed and be done with it.
women have been doing so fr decades, welcome to equality
He was never the right person for her
I didn't like that guy from the jump.
Wait…how are they still living together??? What the
They are no longer living together, Bryan moved out about 3 weeks ago.
@@wakanda6547lmao probably with a finer girl too
@@DrippleDragon
👍And he can now fly first class for a change 😂👑💰🤑
Prenup is like insurance for the future which is unforeseeable.
Divorce is never pretty but I pray that the both of them will find peace and move on.❤
Black woman will always be a Black woman; strong, independent, spiritual, free flowing, God loving, will always strive to be the best!
This black woman needs to be in a category all by herself. A black woman knows how to take care of their husband.
And arrogant, combative, and narcissistic. Get over yourself. Your race is not a personality trait.
The person you marry is not the same person you divorce
Yes it is. You just didn't get to know the other half
"Go and live your mediocre life" 😂😂😂
Iconic episode lol. I don’t believe she lived one tho since she and Bryan were really happy until they began having issues.
@@SupernaturalLove100Were they really happy though? Cz we only got to see them once in a blue moon
@@sharleenmagetto5051
And that was on purpose. Rachel wrote blogs about how she did not want to constantly post her and her husband to appease invasive strangers online who would only expect more and more. You thought they weren’t happy bc they didn’t post abt their relationship..that’s the problem many who spend too much time on social media have. It dilutes reality.
@@SupernaturalLove100 I didn't expect them to keep posting, I haven't said anything of that sort. But from how you are speaking about them being really happy, what are you basing that on? How sure are you they were happy, cz she's been on Natasha's podcast and she said they were complete opposites and rarely agreed on anything
@@SupernaturalLove100I always thought Rachel blamed them not posting with wanting to protect their marriage and to stay private. But I knew it was a lie and they weren’t posting because there was trouble in paradise. A public couple doesn’t go from posting and being together a lot to never at all unless there’s been a change in the relationship. She wanted to save face by saying that but the divorce is proof of the real reason.
She got here N wake up call that’s all it is. She’s a sellout
He said no she wanted the ring so bad. Real love wasnt there so obvious to see the writing on the wall.
Very CORNY on her part not to have a prenup, she knew this man/woman didn't like her.
City’s boys up !! Get your money Brad!! You knew the assignment and you got A. Hee hee.
She said mmmmmmmm like that group of women comedians who do round tables. 😂 Lol
Wow..I actually thought she was smarter than that..smh
Seems like the chiropractor is smarter than a lawyer.😂