Successful Black Woman Talks Waiting Too Late To Find a Husband... Is the Dating Market Dry For Her?

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024

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  • @afterhourswithad
    @afterhourswithad  5 месяцев назад +4

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  • @etf42
    @etf42 5 месяцев назад +117

    i really dont know why people even care to comment on these type of women anymore....let them deal with the consequences of their choices that they wanted....

    • @PhoenixRising82672
      @PhoenixRising82672 5 месяцев назад +13

      Exactly

    • @mack....
      @mack.... 5 месяцев назад

      What consequences?

    • @etf42_
      @etf42_ 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@mack.... all of them. any results or effects of their choices or actions.

    • @Khurr
      @Khurr 5 месяцев назад +1

      💯💯💯

    • @g.t.i.dhopgood3369
      @g.t.i.dhopgood3369 5 месяцев назад +1

      U said a mouthful

  • @navyboy120
    @navyboy120 5 месяцев назад +76

    She been in a high value market for years and still no one picks rotten fruit.

    • @rwgino3757
      @rwgino3757 5 месяцев назад +4

      Classic line.

    • @larenda318
      @larenda318 5 месяцев назад

      Do she have kids

    • @bighou2359
      @bighou2359 5 месяцев назад

      @@larenda318Nopers

  • @elhar3761
    @elhar3761 5 месяцев назад +21

    Older women always have the answers when it’s too late

  • @markbay6775
    @markbay6775 5 месяцев назад +30

    A successful man doesn’t want to deal with that

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 5 месяцев назад +4

      its always unsuccessful men out here speaking for successful men...

    • @seekeroftruth45
      @seekeroftruth45 5 месяцев назад

      He's right

  • @seensay2132
    @seensay2132 5 месяцев назад +119

    One important point and this speaks to double standard. She mentioned C Suite executive level jobs and she’s unmarried and childless. Men in Corporate America regardless of race Do NOT rise high in CorpAm without a wife and usually family as well. So this broad is competing with married men who had to assimilate to reach that level whereas she got a pass, socially. Saying that to contextualize this idea of BW like her not finding BM on her earnings level. A big part of the reason is because her Corporate counterpart had to marry before attaining the level of social acceptability to reach C Suite heights. Unmarried women reaching that height without the same standard tanks the idea she’s gonna find a Man in her field or industry because they’re taken. And the ones who aren’t, for their high earnings and status, aren’t checking for some masculine 44 yo childless Boss Chick rocking blazers with shoulder pads and flexing her career mobility.

    • @schwanhumes323
      @schwanhumes323 5 месяцев назад +24

      this is an excellent point i never considered, the men had to get off the market to get past a certain point she didnt; so by not having to...she has essentially disqualified herself

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 5 месяцев назад +23

      @@schwanhumes323Brooooooo I see it in real time! The element that’s not promoted enough in the Black community is this concept for Most careers, there’s a social networking element that’s every bit as important as having the right education, the necessary skills and tenure to advance on the job. Especially the more Corporate where most big promotions come down to the big bosses liking someone socially - the golf buddy, the candidate with the right social capital, the right look, temperament and even political opinions, in their eyes, to be worthy of high level promotion. And Men being married with families is part of that package. These Boss chicks allowed to advance without being held to the same standard is likely feminism giving them a pass to earn a seat at the table. But when these same unwed, childless Boss Chicks start aging and suddenly looking around for husbands on their level, they’re stunned they can’t find them or are unwanted by so called financial peers . Lol when it’s really quite obvious. This lady in the video seems like a good hearted person, obviously intelligent and accomplished. But you’ll notice the one time she wavered and seems unsure of herself is in talking about finding a “special kinda guy.” The math ain’t mathing for her yet because she gotta pass and doesn’t even realize it.

    • @schwanhumes323
      @schwanhumes323 5 месяцев назад

      the guys they want arent interested or available; the guys who wld want them/date them they dont want due to money/status@@seensay2132

    • @carlosrob6494
      @carlosrob6494 5 месяцев назад +3

      You made good points. Alot of men not really married in Corp but definitely have hired women for events. Professional hired

    • @CliffNotesAnesthesia
      @CliffNotesAnesthesia 5 месяцев назад

      @@seensay2132agreed, I was in a locker room talk with a man who told me he won’t bother doing business with a man who doesn’t have any family or stability in their life. He saw it as a red flag if a man is trying to come up and doesn’t have his head on straight nor have a family. It is something missing in our community. Needless to say he’s not in our community and he has strong conservative views. People with money tend to lean that way! It is what it is. No one who kills themselves to get to a level is willing to frivolously invest in people who have no standards and willing to trick their money off on bs. It’s temporary and won’t last… I say more of us need to understand how old money thinks if that’s the direction we want to head in.

  • @gj0628
    @gj0628 5 месяцев назад +31

    There were plenty of equal or greater counterparts in college. They just prioritized school education and career over marriage. Plenty of other ethnicities found both husband and career. They just were being taught how to be wives by Their mom.

    • @butterflyygyrlsworld5106
      @butterflyygyrlsworld5106 5 месяцев назад +3

      “They”…I went to an HBCU in the late 90’s and early 2000’s and the dudes were DEFINITELY NOT choosing wives. We had no choice but to conform. In the black community (in my opinion) both women and men have morphed into battling each other, not trusting each other, competing with each other and not seeking counseling for our past baggage. All this keeps us from truly investing/signing up for the family structure and have us (men and women) looking fir the wrong things in each other, in relation to marriage.

    • @gj0628
      @gj0628 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@butterflyygyrlsworld5106 I was a del state in 80s. I found my wife early but the Guys I know wanted wives they were just not the popular guys. The issue is looks swag and all that were the priority just like it is today.

    • @seekeroftruth45
      @seekeroftruth45 5 месяцев назад

      They were hoeing.

    • @seekeroftruth45
      @seekeroftruth45 5 месяцев назад

      A lot of you women don't get the phenomenon of men you're not attracted to being almost non-existent in your minds. There were guys on their way to being something but meant girls develop reputations as whores and it's a wrap for them at that point because the actually "good men" are done with them after that.

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 2 дня назад

      ​@@butterflyygyrlsworld5106none of those black men wanted wives? Not one,

  • @G44052
    @G44052 5 месяцев назад +35

    What a waste of a beautiful woman. What modern woman must realize after you climb the corporate ladder waiting on the perfect man, while making a lot of money and buying all the LV, and huge house or condo to live in alone, girls trips etc…. Eventually no one will remember you after you’re gone. No kids, no husband or even ex husband…. The corporate structure and not even the company you founded and built will think about you after you’re gone. It’s actually sad these women have missed the point of enjoying life. Can’t tell me no good man tried to lock in with her. Probably several. He just wasn’t good enough! Perfect enough! I meant women like this all the time. All the youth has been drained so they aren’t as attractive and they still can’t let go of over serving capitalism even though they want what they missed out on. They still serve the same master.

    • @markmunroe-hz8rf
      @markmunroe-hz8rf 5 месяцев назад +1

      Well spoken. Too often we chase material things or false perfection, unwilling to grasp the people or things that are important until it is too late.

    • @milanC4659
      @milanC4659 5 месяцев назад +1

      All the above you just said goes for men also everybody going to get a visit from the death angel including yourself and me everybody got there on problems in life !!!

    • @realantagonist5324
      @realantagonist5324 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@milanC4659 Most successful men are married with children thats the difference.

  • @fathersfightforfamilies4443
    @fathersfightforfamilies4443 5 месяцев назад +44

    Who cares what she think ALPHA is for men... MEN... MEN ... MEN determine the Alpha. He told on him self asking her. the silliness

    • @untitled2012
      @untitled2012 5 месяцев назад +7

      I felt the same way. Skipped it because who cares what someone who isn’t male thinks about male archetypes

  • @interstatebullly3nyg551
    @interstatebullly3nyg551 5 месяцев назад +37

    She's a fellow east new Yorker.. for that reason alone she gets my respect. Coming up out of east new york Brooklyn one of the worst if not the worst neighborhood in Brooklyn to this day is rough. So for a man or woman to make it out and not be a product of those streets is a big deal 💯

    • @ezdinero456
      @ezdinero456 5 месяцев назад +11

      That's a fact I grew up in the Ville and went to Jeff so I'm very familiar with the east for to reach the level of success she's achieved is to be commended much respect to her.

    • @TheDarylMack
      @TheDarylMack 5 месяцев назад +2

      Brooklyn in the house! I grew up in Bed-Stuy Brooklyn

    • @ghostnik
      @ghostnik 5 месяцев назад +1

      Facts!!!
      Brooklyn on a whole is difficult especially coming up as a youngster but some parts are more difficult than others. I am glad she made it out and successful just wish she had prioritised getting a family, maybe she would have made a little less money. I mean she probably would have still been a millionaire because of her grind. But one thing people have to realise is that you can always make money but you can't always make a family. There are biological time constraints to making a family

    • @nikevabrown6614
      @nikevabrown6614 4 месяца назад

      I was born and raised in East New York too. God always knows best despite what we endured at the time. My character, drive, common sense and overall outlook on life has been shaped for the better partially attributed to my humble beginnings.

  • @kendramiddletonwilliams
    @kendramiddletonwilliams 5 месяцев назад +3

    Sir, you’re COOOKIINNNGG IN THIS ONE!!! More conversation, not censoring, getting as much information out on the table to provoke further thoughts and discussion is the goal to growing our own knowledge base. This is so true and I wish people could get past their personal thoughts and opinions and just listen to absorb and let it marinate, then parse it all out at a later time.

  • @Imjusttryingtotellu
    @Imjusttryingtotellu 5 месяцев назад +16

    There’s a whole article on Inquirer about their real estate scam…

  • @DavidRichardson28
    @DavidRichardson28 5 месяцев назад +11

    The way men see women is simple. This joint has all of these so called high power positions and the first thing dude says about her is "oo.. She a cutie".
    Why don't women understand this. Nobody is looking to he with her to learn about business. A dude wanna see what she's like with children and how she can handle the household.

  • @nikk5002
    @nikk5002 5 месяцев назад +4

    As a successful man, when I hear other men say it’s too late for women when they reach a certain height in their career, I automatically assume that they’re jealous of those women. Even if you’re older, you can find someone if you really want a partner. You just gotta open your mind.

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 5 месяцев назад +1

      No one ever discredits an antedoctal experience or that it can't happen. And no man is jealous of a woman, unless he's a man thats like a woman. What men say is, the chances of women at her age, AT HER level, finding a man that she ACTUALLY wants, AT THE LEVEL she wants him to be, seriously decreases the chances. Thats just a fact. It would be no different then a middle aged, broke, overweight man looking for most beautiful, eye appealing woman you could think of. Get it out your head that men say she cant find a successful man. Because regardless, she is beautiful, and that does count for something. And you're right, she needs to have an open mind, which is come down on her unrealistic standards.

    • @nikk5002
      @nikk5002 5 месяцев назад

      @@grindhard4312 Agreed. It all just boils down to them opening their mind to really think about the necessity of their standards. It’s these useless standards that make these women who want men single.

    • @laptoptrappers
      @laptoptrappers 5 месяцев назад

      She not gonna find the man she wants because that man is a unicorn and is piping down submissive younger women who don't wear blazers with shoulder pads.

    • @emperorlivion
      @emperorlivion 4 месяца назад

      you must have skipped the part where she says the type of man she wants...she doesn't just want a relationship...she wants someone exceptional. You have to be delusional to think just because someone wants something a lot that it will happen. Her chances of getting the man SHE wants are extremely low. Stop the cap.

    • @nikk5002
      @nikk5002 4 месяца назад

      @@emperorlivion my reply above your comment pretty much agrees with what you typed

  • @Laoriginal718
    @Laoriginal718 5 месяцев назад +7

    There’s nothing wrong with being single and childfree and there’s nothing wrong with being married with kids. To each their own. God bless her.

    • @laptoptrappers
      @laptoptrappers 5 месяцев назад

      God disagrees with you so plz SHUT UP

  • @maniac50ae14
    @maniac50ae14 5 месяцев назад +15

    "Ngas that know everything always be the brokest" -jadakiss in Hopeless

  • @Ripside2
    @Ripside2 5 месяцев назад +36

    As one of the first comments. EYL has performed payola for interviews in the past. Anton makes it sounds like unless they personally profited from the message provided by guests that it is not a scam. I get it. There is nuance to this when someone says "Scam". They lied to us and told us it was organic.

    • @4rtivist
      @4rtivist 5 месяцев назад

      They use plausible deniability like the racists do. 🐍

    • @bradleepitt7409
      @bradleepitt7409 5 месяцев назад

      Why do you say they performed payola for this interview in the past?

    • @XShaZamX
      @XShaZamX 5 месяцев назад

      Stop the 🧢

    • @4rtivist
      @4rtivist 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@XShaZamX so did they or did they not allow scammers to scam their audience not only unapologetically but went so far as to shame their audience for getting scammed or for calling out the scammers, AFTER referring to themselves as Malcom and Martin 😂 straight grifters. 0 accountability didn’t even delete the videos at first

  • @realestateuniversity414
    @realestateuniversity414 5 месяцев назад +2

    You talking good in this one Anton I can’t lie .

  • @PhoenixRising82672
    @PhoenixRising82672 5 месяцев назад +9

    Modern women can kick rocks

  • @SuperMogul
    @SuperMogul 5 месяцев назад +2

    She would trade all that education and money. For one of the guys, she passed on in college.

  • @TheDrew718
    @TheDrew718 5 месяцев назад +5

    “The person who’s always right, is the person who’s always broke.” There’s some truth to that if you define “right” as right in their own mind, but not factually correct. The Dunning-Kruger effect is a cognitive bias where people with limited knowledge or competence in a specific area overestimate their abilities. Therefore, they think they are right.

  • @BheeOrgh
    @BheeOrgh 5 месяцев назад +10

    She doesn't need a partner, family and all that domestic stuff, she has career success, accolades, she's financially stable - EVERYTHING SHE SET OUT TO ACCOMPLISH. She scarified one for the other. Now she wants the other.., what is she going to sacrifice to have that? There will be those who will says she doesn't need to sacrifice anything, if so, why doesn't she have a family and a husband already. Why does she not have grown children already, if she didn't need to sacrifice anything, where are they?

    • @myexperience6813
      @myexperience6813 5 месяцев назад +2

      What's a partner 🤔

    • @BheeOrgh
      @BheeOrgh 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@myexperience6813 A business associate - marriage is a transactional, business arrangement based on financial security, projected increase in marital/financial status, the production of children and their monetary value to the unit, marital assets and ownership, working capital, cash flow, and ROI.

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 5 месяцев назад +2

      she shoiuld just have a baby and she will be fine. oncea woman steps out of tradition, its not going to fit her anymore. she should be a single mom and get spoiled by and screw the men of her dreams, if one sticks great. She has to make her own way.

    • @realantagonist5324
      @realantagonist5324 5 месяцев назад

      @@r.walker7986 Who is going to just give her a baby? She wants a baby from a high level man who wont give his sperm to just any woman.

    • @PremisedaWildChild
      @PremisedaWildChild 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@r.walker7986 so u are encouraging single Motherhood?

  • @edgonzalez186
    @edgonzalez186 5 месяцев назад +8

    Would've love Pocket Watcher Jason Thorton made a call. Is not that EYL are scammers; is that they look away when scammers are in their platform...

    • @bajerian9951
      @bajerian9951 5 месяцев назад +1

      This is the one ☝️

    • @XShaZamX
      @XShaZamX 5 месяцев назад

      How many scammers go on cnbc? How scammers are on these other platforms? Its impossible to Vet people 100% . Every known person that misspoke or were labeled a scammer that was on their platform has been addressed Publicly. Let’s focus on the positive. Also it’s up to you to do your own research they said that for years.

    • @klccostello1273
      @klccostello1273 5 месяцев назад

      EYL is the scam whisper. The platform for snake oil salesmen

  • @gregorychurch5547
    @gregorychurch5547 5 месяцев назад +1

    What up doe? Man we met recently at MGM Detroit.. Keep grinding

  • @rogercraig1778
    @rogercraig1778 5 месяцев назад +2

    I like her. She never mentioned anything about women empowerment, feminism. I hope she finds the man she desires. She deserves it. She accepted her accountability, and letting it be known so other women in similar circumstances can acknowledge and adapt also.

    • @CorGP
      @CorGP 5 месяцев назад +2

      She’s 50, any man she wants will be settling for her.

    • @keptbygrace6221
      @keptbygrace6221 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@DominantBlackMaleLeadershe doesn't need saving. She's a millionaire with no children. Yes, she's a little older but I'm sure at this point she's just looking for companionship and love.

  • @XShaZamX
    @XShaZamX 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Anton for correcting this false narrative on EYL being scammers. They opened the doors on a massive scale that allowed a lot of us to understand finance, and investing. These people have to stop spreading these false narratives.

  • @slarsp2
    @slarsp2 5 месяцев назад +1

    That alarm went off at the perfect time. Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mysticakhenaton1701
    @mysticakhenaton1701 5 месяцев назад +25

    when a woman hits 30. it only goes down from there. I feel nothing for them. nothing at all. they wasted there prime. either chasing men who didn't want them. or chasing a degree/career. instead of a husband/man who did want them.

    • @eddtoon
      @eddtoon 5 месяцев назад +5

      Damn dude what she do to you

    • @supersaturn956
      @supersaturn956 5 месяцев назад +2

      well said

    • @truthtelleranon
      @truthtelleranon 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@eddtoonhe spit facts tbh. you could argue some sympathy can be lent as most modern women either don’t have a father or were mislead by social indoctrination and simpery. but - ultimately - we all are responsible for our outcomes in life. we* go after what we want, regardless of external influence

    • @eddtoon
      @eddtoon 5 месяцев назад

      @@truthtelleranon dude what does any of this have to do with her. You don't know her family situation lol. She didn't go on a rant of why "men ain't shit" its just a generic post wall comment with no real thought into it. Like I can't tell from reading this comment if this person made this after pausing the video after reading the title.
      There's literally nothing of value he's adding with his comment lol. You saying "facts" is even weirder within context yo that.

    • @truthtelleranon
      @truthtelleranon 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@eddtoon the original comment was a general statement. lots of emotion behind your words

  • @antonib765
    @antonib765 5 месяцев назад +2

    It’s never too late to find a husband , if you cook, clean and have good sex it’s not a problem, obviously ur not doing something right

    • @laptoptrappers
      @laptoptrappers 5 месяцев назад

      No time to cook clean or sex when you running behind Diddy all day

  • @bigsix7
    @bigsix7 5 месяцев назад +1

    PLEASE LET THE VIDEO PLAY!

  • @bradleydavis9340
    @bradleydavis9340 5 месяцев назад

    Awesome video this needs to be blown up expeditiously to the black culture

  • @MM33_
    @MM33_ 5 месяцев назад +9

    Very difficult to be a submissive, nurturing wife and a high powered CEO. Life gives us choices.

  • @TheOneAboveAll_
    @TheOneAboveAll_ 5 месяцев назад +12

    EYL was bringing nothing but scammers on their platform and letting those people target their audience. If they didn't know what Him 500 was saying and doing was a scam then they shouldn't be talking about anything financial. That's why JT is always posting the BS that comes from them

    • @edgonzalez186
      @edgonzalez186 5 месяцев назад +5

      Like and comment on this comment, make a trend; so that Mr Daniel's sees the light.

    • @XShaZamX
      @XShaZamX 5 месяцев назад

      🧢 bruh do your own research. I know people who have literally 10x’ed their money legally from Eyl’s advice and Market Mondays. I know I have stop spreading bull 💩.

    • @ninestrong9589
      @ninestrong9589 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@XShaZamX there's always a MF who knows someone bro stop lying just stop it

    • @XShaZamX
      @XShaZamX 5 месяцев назад

      @@ninestrong9589 stop the cap 🧢 botty boi

    • @TheOneAboveAll_
      @TheOneAboveAll_ 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@XShaZamX was Him 500 on that show teaching people how to scam or not.....The Comforting Lie versus the Unpleasant Truth

  • @FrankWhite32nd
    @FrankWhite32nd 5 месяцев назад +3

    Your title I had to hit the like and agree , I saw this and said she failed like many other women who try to fit in not knowing how to play the game and still live . Life work balance in that world doesn’t work from what Dan Peña teaches .

  • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
    @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 2 дня назад

    Once a generation grows up and are set in their ways? Yeah it's too late to change anything. You have to invest in the youth and teach them not to make the same mistakes so that they can change things for the better when they come up.
    So i hope this sista is mentoring younger women. And teaching them to make time for a worth while man and creating a family. Dont expect them to be waiting after you're done climbing the corporate ladder.

  • @carlyletom301
    @carlyletom301 5 месяцев назад +1

    12:00 That part. For quite some time now, corporations have built and fostered teams of emloyees who can get along. I believe it became a practice when HR became the Office Police.

  • @kwb3612
    @kwb3612 5 месяцев назад

    When modern black women change we will see marriage dramatically improve in our community. Most career women cannot separate their ego when they go home after work and therefore it’s almost impossible for a man to exist with them.

  • @garywilliams4154
    @garywilliams4154 5 месяцев назад +5

    Anton right it’s to late

  • @rendek
    @rendek 5 месяцев назад +1

    I wish Kevin Samuels had the chance to interview her.

  • @montezdiamond7065
    @montezdiamond7065 Месяц назад

    It's never too late.

  • @AlternativeFundingSolutions888
    @AlternativeFundingSolutions888 5 месяцев назад +6

    We been telling women to lock in with a man and they said we was hating on them and thought they knew better, when we was giving them the game but they refused to listen to us so now she must live with out till she passes on alone, which is Sad for them, that's true missary

    • @user-sx2lv5gn9d
      @user-sx2lv5gn9d 5 месяцев назад

      Maybe she lives with her pet cat. Everything has priice.

  • @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee
    @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee 5 месяцев назад +1

    An Opportunist. I'd steer away when it came to anything pertaining to my personal life. It would be strictly business with her type.

  • @gunemdown_smokey5297
    @gunemdown_smokey5297 5 месяцев назад +2

    When these women die, their bloodline/genetics die with them. I wonder what their ancestors would think?, after surviving the worst and passing on their genetics so she can even exist today.

  • @conscientiousobserver7444
    @conscientiousobserver7444 5 месяцев назад +1

    Boss women becomes the worse boss man when they get power.

  • @acmaysnetworker
    @acmaysnetworker 5 месяцев назад +1

    Cooperate apex, you need to problem solver, result oriented, networking and able to work across the room in all attributes of the org. to know strategically when to say YES AND NO. reading equals and superiors quickly!!!!!!

  • @johndasilva2686
    @johndasilva2686 5 месяцев назад +1

    A sad but not surprising video.The me too, feminists and modern independent women’s movements are responsible for many women being sad lonely frustrated and miserable for the rest of their life’s. Imagine telling women to be at war with men . To end up and encourage women to be alone was not an intelligent plan. If you’re lucky your suppose to find the love of your life and go through life’s ups and down together .

  • @tonybreez2480
    @tonybreez2480 5 месяцев назад +3

    EYL They're not scammers, but they surround themselves around scandals. Every other guest turns out to be a scammer. We as a culture associate you with scammers , That's our culture. If you're associated with 304s then you are considered a 304. now JT the pocket watcher is held to a legal standpoint where he cannot say they're scammers, but we as a culture. If you keep associating yourself with scammers we're just going to call you a scammer.

  • @AnomalyBelleza
    @AnomalyBelleza 5 месяцев назад +1

    That’s the choice she took. We all make choices. There are pros and cons to every choice. I don’t see the issue with her path, unless she deliberately wanted to be married with children.
    If she did, then she didn’t do a good job of prioritizing it.

    • @keptbygrace6221
      @keptbygrace6221 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yes. It's pretty simple. We all make choices and have to live with the consequences. Good or bad.

  • @moutonnoirnewyork8768
    @moutonnoirnewyork8768 5 месяцев назад

    Immediately she reminds me of Jessica Pearson. From “Suits”. What she illustrated is exactly what the character experienced on the show!

  • @berryjewell3000
    @berryjewell3000 5 месяцев назад

    Great overview and analysis

  • @ratswagger
    @ratswagger Месяц назад

    She needs to have an executive marriage. That's the only way that she will thrive. A marriage that's only built on business and not love.

  • @thehonorablejay2486
    @thehonorablejay2486 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yep they all want a ghost type guy. And those guys are rare.

  • @JB19_92
    @JB19_92 5 месяцев назад +1

    There is evidence that they’ve promoted and had people on their platform that are scammers. That’s truth
    He never called them scammers but they still tried to press him lol

  • @derice7375
    @derice7375 5 месяцев назад

    Listen you cant get it both way,many women pretend independent and looking for high value men with higher standard.this is why dating for some women are difficult.

  • @lankrunnels2925
    @lankrunnels2925 5 месяцев назад

    You're so right @ 16 minute mark T.i interview with KS was terrible like let the man talk

  • @markturner5858
    @markturner5858 5 месяцев назад

    Ai is going to level the field😢 all the mentoring in the world WILL NOT manifest in goals achieved🧐

  • @Ptah1130
    @Ptah1130 5 месяцев назад

    ENY BK in the house!!

  • @sunnu777
    @sunnu777 5 месяцев назад

    I remember reading that the etymological origin of the word "Career" included the word "Combat!" Makes sense now.

  • @steveb3584
    @steveb3584 5 месяцев назад

    14:46 alpha is a word that when used context is required.

  • @lafayettehodge6395
    @lafayettehodge6395 5 месяцев назад

    Honestly I don't know where they got that from too because a lady I know that has a business said the same thing. I was like why would you say but didn't have any documentation. It's ridiculous.....

  • @humus4000
    @humus4000 5 месяцев назад +1

    The question is …what is the right one for her

  • @mandysimmons2769
    @mandysimmons2769 5 месяцев назад

    I am sure someone already said this but are you talking about Iyanla fix my life? Puffy Piddy Daddy made a really beautiful quality cologne called "Empress." I got it and it made me smell rich then I began to think like a rich person ( some from Dave Ramsey ) and I retired quite comfortably at 53. Empress is not being made any more but I'm at that age where cologne aint my friend anymore. LOL I aint gonna be no kerosene granny who don't know when scent is not their friend anymore. LOL.

  • @RonnieTerrell3
    @RonnieTerrell3 5 месяцев назад

    Go into something new with Love, soon as she give requirements I have to pull out mines and see you likely don't qualify

  • @Veganisbadhunter-wx5nt
    @Veganisbadhunter-wx5nt 5 месяцев назад

    James Buchanan was the only US President to never marry. Lifelong bachelor and was a Democrat.

  • @latoyaowens3645
    @latoyaowens3645 3 месяца назад

    Ladies, "He who findeth a wife." You already are a wife when your husband finds you. It doesn't magically happen because you got a ring.

  • @belafonte5519
    @belafonte5519 5 месяцев назад +3

    Successful aka corporate

  • @chace96
    @chace96 5 месяцев назад +2

    25:20 what is an equal counterpart? I think that this over inflation has a stranglehold on Black women.
    I often see corporate attractive, success women of other nationalities with regular guys who work with their hands.
    We have to admit that what a man looks for in a women is different than what a women looks for in a man.
    These other demographic of women are marrying their counterpart according to the marker. But for some reason the some Blk women think their financial status put them in the atmosphere to marry a guy in that financial atmosphere.
    But the reality is that guy is an 8-10 and her market placement is a 5-7.

    • @seekeroftruth45
      @seekeroftruth45 5 месяцев назад +1

      An equal counterpart to a successful man is a woman who does a wife's duty at the level that he can do a husband's duty. These career woman are usually not on the wife level.

  • @NEW-CHAPTER.564
    @NEW-CHAPTER.564 5 месяцев назад

    She hit my nail right in the whole....at 27:47-28:18.

  • @sircharles820
    @sircharles820 5 месяцев назад

    Who in the fuxc is EYL??? lemme see what Anton talkin bout. 😆
    **20 seconds later**
    Ohh I'm subscribed to them. 😂

  • @4rtivist
    @4rtivist 5 месяцев назад +6

    They pulled up on pocket watching JT when he was with his wife….. 😂 they one of those types that “know who to try” Ik some 14 year old would’ve crashed out on em 5 star restaurant or not. They CORNY. Grifting. Sad they not leveraging more for the community w their brand instead of using it to push their hustle culture narrative.
    The gathering spot doing 10x the impact without attacking the character of the miseducated and underfunded. 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @myafrosheen
      @myafrosheen 5 месяцев назад +2

      JT was a wrestling state champion, he would have held his own against those clowns

    • @4rtivist
      @4rtivist 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@myafrosheen it was funny they pulled up cause he ain’t back down from them. They supposed to be a teacher and a finance major PULLING UP ON PEOPLE 😂 to not do sh… comical. Then turning around calling themselves Malcolm and Martin 😂

    • @TruthSeeker30_
      @TruthSeeker30_ 5 месяцев назад +1

      They hang with Diddy & the rest of the industry

    • @4rtivist
      @4rtivist 5 месяцев назад

      @@TruthSeeker30_ 😬

  • @bighou2359
    @bighou2359 5 месяцев назад

    She's not married or no kids because her circumstantial corporate choices did not allow here to do so. She never put a man on the pedestal as her next position or accolade. A man is an additive to her, not a goal. Relationships are not goals to her. Welp, maybe the finally are now.

  • @latashabryant689
    @latashabryant689 5 месяцев назад

    Unique as in not common not as in widely sought after

  • @rickjay2011
    @rickjay2011 5 месяцев назад +3

    My father told me a woman that makes her own money, you can't tell them nothing. This relationship talk is really silly these days. If you're going to be a career woman, you're sacrificing motherhood and being a wife. If you are going to be a traditional wife, and mother, that means no career. You can't successfully have both, unless you choose a career that doesn't require you to leave home. This woman isn't necessarily doing anything "wrong" but if she's expecting to find the kind of man she wants at this stage of her life, good luck. The problem for women isn't finding a man, it's keeping one

    • @leebruce3340
      @leebruce3340 5 месяцев назад

      You can have both, I have witnessed career HAPPILY MARRIED WOMEN WITH CHILDREN in my family. They are still married and some are even widowed. Stop believing these INTERNET fallicies. If you truly want a life partner, it will work, look at Jay Z and Beyonce...tons of relationships like that dont even get mentioned online.

    • @AnomalyBelleza
      @AnomalyBelleza 5 месяцев назад

      SO FALSE 😂

    • @AnomalyBelleza
      @AnomalyBelleza 5 месяцев назад

      There are PLENTY women existing in both worlds. Married with children husband and career.
      What I will say though is yes, a TRADITIONAL at home woman of course will not work outside the house.

  • @keptbygrace6221
    @keptbygrace6221 5 месяцев назад

    @30 he is unique bc there aren't many of them out there

  • @LeoNell125
    @LeoNell125 5 месяцев назад +2

    Damn. She’s from ENY? That’s crazy.

    • @nowlaterkiss9811
      @nowlaterkiss9811 5 месяцев назад +3

      There are a few hidden gems in the Urban diaspora. But they get scooped up, like me-by my wonderful husband, or get swallowed up by the city.

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 5 месяцев назад

    Ladies:
    1. Treat meeting your future husband like you do your career trying to get promoted to rise up the ranks.
    2. When you get a boyfriend or a husband treat him every day you're with him like you would an interviewer for a job. Treat your man daily like you would going for a job interview and putting your best foot forward

  • @Nocturnal11Guy
    @Nocturnal11Guy 5 месяцев назад

    What is wrong with a female being a bag chaser? Men are bag chasers!

  • @darnayspencer7617
    @darnayspencer7617 5 месяцев назад

    They all have created this unique man that they all cant find lmao. Thats because he is the closest to perfect you can get

  • @ryanvason6818
    @ryanvason6818 5 месяцев назад +2

    if you selling classes you scamming to me....

  • @mrlij6534
    @mrlij6534 4 месяца назад +1

    hats why Africans and Black Americans should connect more. i know a lot of successful couples where both are doing great in their careers abut the women are still very feminine and submissive to their husbands and are home makers but also successful at their jobs at the highest level. this exists but the problem is bad parenting or mothers giving their daughters very bad advise. you can do both if thats the arrangement . even indians do this. the women are doctors , right? but they run home to go cook for their husbands

  • @LifeWithOG1
    @LifeWithOG1 5 месяцев назад

    Great video

  • @sadekiephillips3010
    @sadekiephillips3010 5 месяцев назад

    It’s all about the money

  • @quadbog1826
    @quadbog1826 5 месяцев назад +3

    Saying EYL are scammers is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. As much knowledge that they have given out for free to us as complete strangers to them. There is no price you can put on that. Typically when I see someone call people on their level scammers. Is because they sign up for something, then come to realize that they still need to put in ALOT of work to see the success. People who say certain individuals are "scammers" tend to be Lazy A$$ people.

  • @nikevabrown6614
    @nikevabrown6614 4 месяца назад

    8:00 who is the woman with the green jacket on?

  • @user-on6xc8dk4z
    @user-on6xc8dk4z 5 месяцев назад

    Even iron wears out overtime

  • @LD-je6om
    @LD-je6om 5 месяцев назад

    James Buchanan Jr is the only U.S President that never married.

  • @hatyrel
    @hatyrel 5 месяцев назад

    They’re Scammers by proxy

  • @rebelrocksmm
    @rebelrocksmm 24 дня назад

    Yall call anybody scammers 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @c.anthonyjohnson259
    @c.anthonyjohnson259 5 месяцев назад

    they have law suits right now

  • @jiholmes28
    @jiholmes28 5 месяцев назад

    Is that Beijing in his beard 😳 wtf

  • @MultiMackle
    @MultiMackle 24 дня назад

    Her type probably is not unique. LOL. They talk smooth, but you have to listen carefully.

  • @neckiadaniels5143
    @neckiadaniels5143 2 месяца назад

    She is pretty

  • @DavidRichardson28
    @DavidRichardson28 5 месяцев назад

    What is success for a woman.

  • @guavachev
    @guavachev 5 месяцев назад

    If "the one thats always right is always the brokest" is true....then the complete opposite "the one thats always wrong is always the richest" should also be true right?....🤣

  • @LADETROIT
    @LADETROIT 5 месяцев назад

    Anton jumped to the defense of "Earn your leisure". They may not be scammers. But they consistently have proven grifters on their podcast. Birds of a feather?

  • @certifiedmg3437
    @certifiedmg3437 5 месяцев назад

    I laugh at these women because I’m sure there is a man that suited her but she really wants a Chad and they don’t want her 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @BjtheLawyer_
    @BjtheLawyer_ 5 месяцев назад +1

    She gorgeous, it’s a shame she single w/ no kids. Our primary purpose on earth is to procreate! That’s a fact, absent health issues!

    • @ladellmimms
      @ladellmimms 5 месяцев назад +1

      😅I told a Woman this on another video, she said that’s not a Woman’s purpose

  • @amac23557
    @amac23557 5 месяцев назад +1

    All I heard was accolades and no man…bottom line

  • @mr.biglow7674
    @mr.biglow7674 5 месяцев назад +2

    They not scammers just applied themselves

    • @4rtivist
      @4rtivist 5 месяцев назад +3

      They allowed scammers on, profited off the scams through affiliate marketing, then when confronted didn’t take the videos down. What’s that then?

    • @myafrosheen
      @myafrosheen 5 месяцев назад +1

      Are you one of their students?

  • @yvonnej5574
    @yvonnej5574 5 месяцев назад

    She would not have been the success that she is looking for a man. He would have held you back.