Thank you for this video today. My husband had an affair over a year ago. It still hurts me like it was fresh. He doesn't get it, but it hurts that he gave his whole self to that woman. Pictures of them together makes me so angry, scared, and unwanted.
I'm so sorry that he treated you like that! It's been several years since I found out the real extent of the affair, and it still hurts! Sometimes I stop myself from being "happy"...cuz I will never be able to trust anyone ever again! I hope the future finds you safe, healthy, and in a great relationship with someone who loves you!! God bless!😊🙏
My wife had a month long affair.it’s only been 6 months since I found out and we are still stuck in the d day.she is scared to give me the full truth all at once in fear of it hurting me more.But I know right away when she is trying to cover it up because the story will make absolutely no sense.I pray she will just come out and tell me everything one day so we can move on.This is by far the hardest thing I have ever been through in my entire life.I just sent her this video in hopes she can see how I’m truly feeling
So if its a catalyst why don't the betrayed spouse do the same as the unfaithful? That way they both understand each other and they can now heal faster and easier.
The betrayed has the same choices as the unfaithful. You are free, at any time, to become unfaithful. I can only say that when I accepted that I could do the same thing as she had done I chose not to do it. I didn't find it alluring when I looked at the effects an affair has on the affair participants and those around them. That's not who I am.
Thanks for your video advice 👍! My situation is very like many women's who have a cheating spouse, except that I'm 9yrs older than my spouse; and we have been together since 1999! Dating for 8yrs and married for 16yrs. I was sick going into the marriage, and got worse when my 2 youngest boys were toddlers. So, to be fair, a lack of intimacy was a factor. I was so sick from a thyroid problem (that I didn't know I had) that everything was so very overwhelming and hard that I became really depressed. I realized around that time that certain things were said and done that made me suspicious of him having an affair. My 3yr old spilled the beans that they were " meeting the girl that daddy likes" at the park, and both boys saw them kissing lots of times. I was so sick and upset, on top of being in my late 40s, that I just ignored the whole thing. I started listening to a young singer named Dimash all day every day and realized that I felt better everyday, until I started feeling like myself again! I found a sdcard with tons of pics and text messages between the 2 of them. Devastated me; so I started looking for other evidence. Turns out that cheating had been going on from date 1! Anyway, I am suspicious again. Mostly because I'm hyper vigilant about noticing behaviors that were clues in the past when he was cheating. I'm in my mid 50s now, with no way of supporting myself, and physically probably couldn't hold a full time job to pay for an apartment. I just don't know what to do or even say at this point. I don't know what to do...
I found out by my wife telling me she wanted to sleep with a guy she had been "TALKING" to on Facebook. It blew my mind, D-day was March 29, 2021, and I'm still angry and still believe she doesn't get it. 18 years of marriage and in less than a month of her "TALKING" to another man she was willing to risk losing everything we had!!! I just don't understand unfaithful people.
Thank you for this video today. My husband had an affair over a year ago. It still hurts me like it was fresh. He doesn't get it, but it hurts that he gave his whole self to that woman. Pictures of them together makes me so angry, scared, and unwanted.
I'm so sorry that he treated you like that! It's been several years since I found out the real extent of the affair, and it still hurts! Sometimes I stop myself from being "happy"...cuz I will never be able to trust anyone ever again! I hope the future finds you safe, healthy, and in a great relationship with someone who loves you!! God bless!😊🙏
I’m not sure the unfaithful fully ever understands the damage! It effects every aspect of the relationship. It’s forever!
My wife had a month long affair.it’s only been 6 months since I found out and we are still stuck in the d day.she is scared to give me the full truth all at once in fear of it hurting me more.But I know right away when she is trying to cover it up because the story will make absolutely no sense.I pray she will just come out and tell me everything one day so we can move on.This is by far the hardest thing I have ever been through in my entire life.I just sent her this video in hopes she can see how I’m truly feeling
Wishing you a healthy recovery and good energy
This is our struggle right here. And there are not very many “trained” therapist out there to help us
So if its a catalyst why don't the betrayed spouse do the same as the unfaithful? That way they both understand each other and they can now heal faster and easier.
Thanks for reaching out to AR. Feel free to reach out to info@hope-now.com for assistance.
The betrayed has the same choices as the unfaithful. You are free, at any time, to become unfaithful.
I can only say that when I accepted that I could do the same thing as she had done I chose not to do it. I didn't find it alluring when I looked at the effects an affair has on the affair participants and those around them. That's not who I am.
Thanks for your video advice 👍! My situation is very like many women's who have a cheating spouse, except that I'm 9yrs older than my spouse; and we have been together since 1999! Dating for 8yrs and married for 16yrs. I was sick going into the marriage, and got worse when my 2 youngest boys were toddlers. So, to be fair, a lack of intimacy was a factor. I was so sick from a thyroid problem (that I didn't know I had) that everything was so very overwhelming and hard that I became really depressed. I realized around that time that certain things were said and done that made me suspicious of him having an affair. My 3yr old spilled the beans that they were " meeting the girl that daddy likes" at the park, and both boys saw them kissing lots of times. I was so sick and upset, on top of being in my late 40s, that I just ignored the whole thing.
I started listening to a young singer named Dimash all day every day and realized that I felt better everyday, until I started feeling like myself again! I found a sdcard with tons of pics and text messages between the 2 of them. Devastated me; so I started looking for other evidence. Turns out that cheating had been going on from date 1! Anyway, I am suspicious again. Mostly because I'm hyper vigilant about noticing behaviors that were clues in the past when he was cheating. I'm in my mid 50s now, with no way of supporting myself, and physically probably couldn't hold a full time job to pay for an apartment. I just don't know what to do or even say at this point. I don't know what to do...
Hey Caroline - you can reach out to support@hope-now.com. We would love to support you on your journey. To healing, The Hope-Now Team.
@@AffairrecoveryLLC Thank you for your kind reply! I appreciate it very much!
Another good video thank you 🇦🇺
this was exactly what I thinking ...
Do you take on private coaching clients?
Hey Cindy thanks for reaching out :) please reach out to support@hope-now.com
I found out by my wife telling me she wanted to sleep with a guy she had been "TALKING" to on Facebook. It blew my mind, D-day was March 29, 2021, and I'm still angry and still believe she doesn't get it. 18 years of marriage and in less than a month of her "TALKING" to another man she was willing to risk losing everything we had!!! I just don't understand unfaithful people.
Thank you for the impactful video. You are the only hope I have found with my affair.
Thank you wayne! Id love to hear more about one night stands with a same sex partner, even if they claim to be straight.