@@Junieland01 no one said she shouldn't be proud to have her mother -in-law, but this is Diana's RUclips channel. Please don't attempt to turn a positive comment into something negative.
What I like about you you are fiery you do not let his mother control your marriage and you're not the type of woman to just let things fly over your head and be quiet about it I like that y'all both have dialogue and communicate with each other even if you're do end up having an argument it shows that in marriage you're going to go through ups and downs but you guys are sticking it out and working together
You guys remind me of me and my wife. We went through a bad patch at one point. Caused us both to put on weight and not look out for each other as much. We became roomates really. Number one cause of friction in our lives was my mother. At the time I didn't understand the friction they were causing. She was my mother after all and I love her. But, when my wife packed her bags and left one day flying 13 hours away with my son. It crippled me. it gave me 4 months alone to contemplate. I wanted to give us another ago. So I fought for my wife and my son. But, most importantly I had to tell my mother to stop interefering and criticising my wife. And trust me this wasn't easy there were multiple occaisons were my mother continued to go over boundaries we set. But, everytime I was there to defend my wife. it was the best thing I did for my family. I love my wife more than I have ever done. I'm blessed I come home from work and she treats me like a king because I protect her as my queen. It saved our marriage and our physical health. Henry mate I noticed your mother really gives Diana a hard time. During the twins birthday episode Diana wanted to go to a theme park for her birthday your mother said no. Diana suggested a big restraunt your mother said no. It really hurt me watching that as it reminds me of the pain my wife must have felt. One fella to another you need to speak up for your wife or risk loosing her and your kids in future.
I agree he didn’t married the mom he chooses to married his wife.. It’s call respect on both parts… His mother tolerated Dianne this long and she not a Koran women to control she has her own mind…just as Dianne respect her mother in law she should do as well.. Her husband needs to own up and defend his wife she should not have to please your mother she a grown women not a child… Man up!
Good That Your Not A Mama’s Boy…You Know That Your Holding Responsible For Your Wife. And Biblically Speaking It Is Written…No One Can Separate What God Has Joined.
I think this might be harder for Henry. His mother has actually done ALOT for them financially. More than my mother-in-law could or would’ve ever done even if she had the means. Henry must feel so conflicted wanting to respect his mom. He’s doing the same thing my husband did (MIL has since passed away) always trying to ease the tension and make it seem as if it’s just a matter of Dianna misunderstanding. He’s caught in a hard place since his mother has done so much financially. The women will need to work out their relationship if they can.
Wow I love your comment it's so true. I wish more men did exactly as you did which is speak up for your wife. But at the same time I can see wanting her to feel that respect to. To me I really don't understand mother in law's and why some of them treat wives....Even good wives to their son's like this in Any race or culture. Because I am currently feeling this way myself. I loved that you said the key word you protected your wife.... That's a awesome feeling when your husband protects you as well as your home an marriage.... Blessings to you and your family 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️
Minji needs a little purse/pocketbook or carrying purse for her little things. Yes, time for Minji's styling. Hope you find a nice dress for cousin's wedding Dianna. Jun is speaking Korean very well.
Getting along with your in-laws can definitely be a challenge 💆🏻♀️ I see Diana trying to accommodate to her in-laws in a very conscientious and selfless way. Even though Diana's mother in law wants the best for her, there should be a healthy limit and I think she just stated it very nicely 👏🏼 In my case I love my in-laws, but I believe part of the reason we have such a good relationship, is because they live hundreds of miles away ✈️ In some ways it's hard on our family, but in other ways, it's just so much easier.
Henry's mother loves her grandkids and we need to just sit back and enjoy what they present without making assumptions that could cause hard feelings. The family seems happy.
I can't believe you are going back and forth over sweaters and long sleeve shirts - funny. Diana is right Henry - don't feel so stressed about it. It's her choice what she wears. And Diana, it seems that Grandma cares about you or she wouldn't stress out Henry about you being hot wearing a sweater in the summer. You are both blessed. Beautiful family.
It's not a question of who's right or wrong in this situation. It's not a competition or an one upmanship. Listening to each other and understanding how each person feels is important. It's not like the children visit and see the children every day. It's not like it's hot all year round. Be considerate of your husband, and leave the darn sweater at home.
If she's sweating and wearing a sweater it might be a problem. Sweating causes body odour. I don't know. I used to wear light cardigans in summer to cover up but, i was sweating
@@frugalityishername827 Or, her husband could be considerate enough to accept what makes her comfortable ? She's his wife not his slave. I think they'll be just fine, anyway. They a pretty good couple.
Grandma is racist and picky she just enjoying the boy and ignoring diana and her daughter it's miracle she feed her one spon of rice ,I do not like her attitude
Please don't ignore my baby, Minji. She is such a sweet and intelligent girl. Don't give her insecurity. Dianna, as a Black woman you know what we have to grow through. Give Minji that strength and confidence we wear so well. P.S. She is too cute in her dress and matching head band.🥰🥰
*Diana has done a few videos reinforcing their identity in having Brown skin and curly hair. Pls don't make such a conclusion re her daughter from ONE video.* Diana is a teacher and very balanced in the way she interacts with them BOTH. Minji was just quieter today bcs she LOVES to eat & was focused on THAT.😁 🔹Jun was the center of attention only in these last 2 videos & RIGHTFULLY so. In other videos Minji usually SEEMS to get MORE ATTENTION than Jun bcs she is more outspoken. He is usually quietly sucking his finger while Minji talks more. A lot of twins are opposites. When they go out, she is with her Dad most of the time so by default her brother goes to his Mom. *You don't have to worry. They are not experiencing insecurity or rejection of their skin tone by others. BOTH parents make sure of that.* You can search for the videos where Diana & Henry dealt with these topics. Blessings!💛
Yeah as an outsider looking in, I sometimes feel that way too. But it's important to remember that we don't see all moments in the family's life, since they don't share everything with us. Even still, everyone should be mindful that sometimes we do unintentionally send negative messages to those around us too.
I understand what you are saying. I’ve noticed from past videos the grandmother appears to favor/show more attention to the grandson. I pray 🙏🏽 I’m wrong 😑
@@sashatv382 You didn’t “see it wrong”, thats just Korean culture (lived there for a year) where boys are valued over girls; it’s unfortunate but it is what it is 🙃
I love that Dianna and support you - “we wear want we want for our own comfort and pleasure - not for others”. Others who disagree and place criticism are reflecting their own insecurities and red flags. You continue to be authentically you Dianna, don’t feel you need to change or bend/negotiate your boundaries for others - your example will teach your children to be authentically and unapologetically themselves and if others don’t like it, than that’s on them and not on you 🙌🏽💫
Not sure where all this negativity and spitefulness is coming from? I wouldn't be surprised if Dianna decides to stop sharing family moments if this is the type of reception she will be getting. It's not fair to paint a negative picture of a family just from a 15 minute snippet of their lives. There are many videos where Minji is shown plenty of love! Hope you and your family are well Dianna 🙏
I don't think it's spite. People very often give advice that isn't asked for without meaning any harm. Also, people fail to communicate properly what it is they truly mean to say. Most people recognize that while they've made these videos about Jun lately, it doesn't mean they prefer him and love him more. Most people here don't see Dianna and Kyungho showing preference for one child over the other. I think what people are trying to communicate is that others in society, other people that make appearances in their video, seem more drawn to Jun and give him attention. I recall a random auntie grabbing Jun, picking him up, swinging him around, giving him a free soda (maybe Minji wondered why she didn't get one); l recall them having a family with young girls over to the house and seeing them taking toys from Minji while running around with, carrying and playing with Jun; some people see Grandma interacting more with Jun. I think people just point it out to Dianna so they can be aware. However, I'm sure Dianna knows very well already that boys, and particularly lighter skinned boys, are treated differently in society everywhere. It will be hard to raise twins because they will always be compared and they will always be comparing their own situation in society with the others' situation. I'm not sure what people expect Dianna and Kyungho to do. I'd say I guess to give Minji love and attention if it looks like others are enamored with Jun. I didn't see anything wrong in this video though..
Actually, Henry's blood pressure is not bad, at all. His diastolic is under 80 and systolic is only just above 120. Considering he just ate a large meal and is engaging with family, its pretty good. With his diastolic number being as low as it is, without medication, he has little to be concerned about.
At the hospital they are checking the bloodpressure, when you`re asleep, to get the right result. When you`re awake, you should be resting alone for half an hour first.
@@48mavemiss2 you are so pathetic!! She said that he's pressure was over the normal(12,6) and that's not true! And it's sad cause as in medical dramas too, lots of people are watching and getting the wrong idea! As for not speaking when you take the blood pressure,when she said she was unsure!!!, it's quite true but that was an instruction for the old pressure gauge as you had to listen the heart beat!! And we never check our blood pressure after eating or exercise or feeling anxiety! We have to rest for a few minutes, put our hand in a stable place,like a table and our hand almost at the height of our heart! We should check twice the pressure and find the average! So it's not jealousy but consern for what a you tuber says and gives a bad information! At least that's what we have learnt in medical school! Protect people!
Dianna just be you don’t worry what others says, you are doing a great job, the children are growing so lovely. Blessings for your family always 👏🏽❤️❤️
The twins are so cute. Also when I see negative and criticizing comments on your videos, I really want to snap back at these people. I hope you ignore these people and don't take any of that to heart.
Dianna it appears you’re doing a great job with your children!! Many continued blessings to you and your family. I understand…I really do (Sweater etc.)
And that is so true she a beautiful gorgeous daughter-in-law and have a beautiful gorgeous mother-in-law and it's so wonderful when you can have good in-laws may God continue to be with them all 🥰😍🤩🤩😌😌✋▶️💫💫💗💗💌💌😍💝💝💝❤️💖💖🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🙂🙂🙂😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️❣️❣️❣️💞💞💓💓🤚😊😊🌍🌍💕💕💯💯💯💯💯💯👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Your mother in law is very outspoken. I watch lots of Korean drama and she is true to form. Lol. But she should not dictate what you should wear and how you should look. I respect how you stay so calm.
Wow,Jun looks so handsome with his new hair cut,it suits him. Grandma enjoy seeing the children, big smile on her face and greeting them with lots of 🤗. Lots of blessings always🙏
… as with other Korean mixed black kids seen, can not help noticing the eagerness they portray eating the food is so mouth watering just watching how they tackle it.
I would not expect anything different . Being , the twins are " Korean mixed black kids, " who are being raised , eating Korean food the majority of the time at home, and away from home. It's no big surprise to me, then, that they eat Korean food so well. This is about culture, not race. The children are culturally Korean. They are Korean citizens , living a culturally Korean lifestyle. They are not even culturally American, because they have spent their whole life, continuously living in Korea, immersed predominantly in Korean lifestyle, and culture. Dianna has taught them to be proud of their melanated skin. She can teach them about black history, but that won't mean they are culturally black, but will instill in them a sense of pride. They can then feel a sense of pride about both their Korean and black heritage.
I would not tolerate my mother in law telling me what to wear. I feel sorry for Diana. Henry is the kind of of man who doesn't stand up for his woman. What kind of man tell his wife to change clothes because his mother doesn't like it. I watched videos from the early days and her confidence has obviously been affected by Henry's family. I hope you are happy Diana and not just tolerating life. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be respected.
Greetings from California! I love the videos with Grandmother! She always serves good food. It is obvious how much she adores her beautiful grandchildren. 가족을 공유해주셔서 감사합니다. ❤
I think Henry is stuck btw his mom and Dianna when his mom inputs her opinion of how something should be or look. I noticed that his mom when she talks about Dianna, she will ask Henry and not directly to Dianna. I think Dianna is right about asking, if Henry's mom ever tries to learn about other cultures. She should because Jun and MInji are interracial. Jun and Minji is not only learning about Korean cultures, they are also going to learn about Dianna's culture as well. I think Henry's mom is very smart and I think she can learn some English as well, and speak to Dianna a lot more. Dianna, you should dress the way you want to and wear the sweater without getting grief about from anyone. I also thought that the beautiful place you are living in now, that you should have known about it was bought. I know Henry's mom and Henry only talked about on their own and Dianna learned about it later. I think Dianna could have balanced finding a new place, on top of taking care of the kids. I know though, that Henry's mom does love Dianna. Dianna, your Korean is really good and you can see the effort you are putting into learning the language. You should be proud of yourself. Jun and Minji speak Korean really well, Kids pick language a lot more easier than adults. You can tell Halmoni (Grandma) favourit is Jun, not to say she doesn't love Minji, I've always noticed she is more into Jun.
i feel sad for diana she’s moved her whole life to another country and doesn’t have her own family there. i know it’s cultural differences but koreans seem really stressful sometimes and i feel like his mum treats her so badly and it hurts to see another black woman being treated as less than and she always treats the minji different too the grandmother 💔😪i also watch megan moon and her inlaws seem a lot different but is that because megan is light? who knows
@@aestheticsbyjasmine940 Megan , I love her , but she definitely is in a better place of privilege because of her fair skin and fit body- she's pretty much the most "inoffensive" and "agreeable" a foreigner can get, not taking away from anything she is or has done but ,it's much easier for her to assimilate and be accepted compared to Dianna :(
As soon as he started saying "My mother said... My mother complained..." I was like "Ohhhhhh noooooo! Just stop talking now." This is how young men make their wives and moms hate each other. SMH
He all so great husband to her and the good father it not hurt to listen to her husband and keep peace in family after all that his mother and you marry to Asian man you know what you get in to respect never hurt anyone
Also Diana one shouldn't cross legs when taking blood pressure it causes it to rise and you could get false reading...Beautiful family...love the haircut on Jun!!!❤
Mini looks and acts calm like the Grandfather and June looks and acts like the Grandmother.Jun is an energetic boy, so Grandma is keeping him busy and focused.
In these interracial scenarios, the non-black side never really likes the girl child unless she's SUPER MODEL beautiful with loose textured hair unfortunately.
Why is his mother or grandmother trying to dictate what you wear? Maybe their house is too cool for you so you need a sweater. They must not know Americans don’t like to be told what to do, especially how to dress. I’m glad you stood up for yourself and you handled it way better than I would have. I would have been ticked that he even brought up the fact that his mother complained. I could see if you were dressing provocative, but it’s a sweater. Why does she care if you’re wearing a sweater? The kids are so cute! 🥰
Can we talk about Ms Minji’s dress to grandma’s house, she’s is giving fabulous. I live live seeing grandma’s interaction with the grandkids and Dianna kids too. I know Dianna is having a hard time finding dresses/clothes in Korea, but we will ask Mr Moon (Meg Moon’s hubby) to hook her up😃Try to do a collab lady D with them (Making dresses for Dianna)🔥
Yes- when we lived in Okinawa, I was lucky to have a seamstress come one week every month. I showed her pictures, she measured me, and I would have 3 dresses when she left. It was wonderful. She also made my husband and son shirts - fantastic experience.
Your family is totally awesome! Dad, mom, the children and Grandma all of you are so wonderful. It was nice to know that Grandma accept Jun's hair cut.
Is it my imagination or does the grandmother favors Jun over Minji...I heard in Korean/ asian culture parents favor male over female children. Is this true?
I sensed it in this video but in other videos, I felt like granny praises Minji more. I think it’s just simply because of what is being put out on RUclips. We see a few minutes of their lives and we shouldn’t assume based off of something so short
Jun looks so handsome with his new haircut and Minji is super cute as usual 💕🙏 Beautiful family. May god continue to bless you and your husband and kids.
I hope that if either of you feel like you are falling into depression or the anxiety or emotional pressure is becoming too much, then you can feel comfortable enough to find a third person like a social worker or therapist or counselor to talk to privately and release your stress. It's not good to bottle it up or take it out on your spouse. There's online counseling like better help too if you can't find someone local to help.
the blood pressure is fine, besides he was not relaxed, he had his legs crossed, things that are basic when taking the pressure, the clothes thing maybe the mother-in-law did not mean it in a bad way maybe she just wants you to buy more clothes so you have more options but she doesn't know how to express it well, I love your videos, stay healthy and happy videos 💙💜💙💜
Grandma is crazy about Jun. Love seeing the kids visit grandma. Grandparents can be such special people in children’s lives. Not everyone get this opportunity. Kids are growing up so well.
Jun looks like a big boy now with his grown up hairstyle. Love it!!!! Both those kids eat so well, they are certainly not picky eaters. It is a pleasure watching them eat. I also love to see them interact with their Korean Grandma, so much love.
I noticed Henry had his legs crossed...not sure if it was crossed during his BP testing but your feet should always be flat...love the kiddos chopsticks 💞I'm still learning to use them & I practice at home on occasions when I wanna show off🤣😅😆 Beautiful Family
126 is fine. There is always 5+/- difference on the electronic ones. 120/80 is the normal blood pressure. He is fine. If he is hypertensive anything 140 or more and two different readings with a difference of 4 hours point towards hypertension and needs to be monitored.
Wasn't going to say nothing about Grandma attention is always on June and not Minji so much, I feel so sad like she love June the most, forgive me if I'm wrong, but I notice this pattern for some time, we can see the difference in Grandma loving June more than Minji😱😘
I really love watching your videos Diana, Your family is beautiful... Minji has been around very little, She is the cutest and most affectionate thing.
Dianna, any mother should be proud to have you as a daughter-in-law. You're smart, and a fabulous mother.
I agree!
How?
She should be thankful to have her mother in law!
@@Junieland01 no one said she shouldn't be proud to have her mother -in-law, but this is Diana's RUclips channel. Please don't attempt to turn a positive comment into something negative.
I agree...but I want Dianna to get herself back !!!!!❣️
June looks so handsome with his new haircut and little Miss Minji is as adorable as ever! ❤
What I like about you you are fiery you do not let his mother control your marriage and you're not the type of woman to just let things fly over your head and be quiet about it I like that y'all both have dialogue and communicate with each other even if you're do end up having an argument it shows that in marriage you're going to go through ups and downs but you guys are sticking it out and working together
You guys remind me of me and my wife. We went through a bad patch at one point. Caused us both to put on weight and not look out for each other as much. We became roomates really. Number one cause of friction in our lives was my mother. At the time I didn't understand the friction they were causing. She was my mother after all and I love her. But, when my wife packed her bags and left one day flying 13 hours away with my son. It crippled me. it gave me 4 months alone to contemplate. I wanted to give us another ago. So I fought for my wife and my son. But, most importantly I had to tell my mother to stop interefering and criticising my wife. And trust me this wasn't easy there were multiple occaisons were my mother continued to go over boundaries we set. But, everytime I was there to defend my wife. it was the best thing I did for my family. I love my wife more than I have ever done. I'm blessed I come home from work and she treats me like a king because I protect her as my queen. It saved our marriage and our physical health.
Henry mate I noticed your mother really gives Diana a hard time. During the twins birthday episode Diana wanted to go to a theme park for her birthday your mother said no. Diana suggested a big restraunt your mother said no. It really hurt me watching that as it reminds me of the pain my wife must have felt. One fella to another you need to speak up for your wife or risk loosing her and your kids in future.
I agree he didn’t married the mom he chooses to married his wife.. It’s call respect on both parts… His mother tolerated Dianne this long and she not a Koran women to control she has her own mind…just as Dianne respect her mother in law she should do as well.. Her husband needs to own up and defend his wife she should not have to please your mother she a grown women not a child… Man up!
That was beautiful and so true!
Good That Your Not A Mama’s Boy…You Know That Your Holding Responsible For Your Wife.
And Biblically Speaking It Is Written…No One Can Separate What God Has Joined.
I think this might be harder for Henry. His mother has actually done ALOT for them financially. More than my mother-in-law could or would’ve ever done even if she had the means. Henry must feel so conflicted wanting to respect his mom. He’s doing the same thing my husband did (MIL has since passed away) always trying to ease the tension and make it seem as if it’s just a matter of Dianna misunderstanding. He’s caught in a hard place since his mother has done so much financially. The women will need to work out their relationship if they can.
Wow I love your comment it's so true. I wish more men did exactly as you did which is speak up for your wife. But at the same time I can see wanting her to feel that respect to. To me I really don't understand mother in law's and why some of them treat wives....Even good wives to their son's like this in Any race or culture. Because I am currently feeling this way myself. I loved that you said the key word you protected your wife.... That's a awesome feeling when your husband protects you as well as your home an marriage.... Blessings to you and your family 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️
Grandmother seemed to give all the attention to Jun. Minji needs recognition as well.
I caught that too. They were 11 minutes into the 15 minute video before she mentioned Minji.
I noticed that too. I wonder is it cultural to pay more attention to the boys.
I’ve noticed this as well,would be curious to know if culturally boys are more valued.
@@ladyjailer I believe they are
She has always been that way. I thought only I noticed this at first
Spot on Dianna, Henry is a man now. He can relax about anything mama says🙂 His own family is #1 now😍
Facts!
Defend your wife. Period. The kids are adorable 😍
"어머니가 많이 얘기해도 심각하게 받아들이지마라 내가 해줄수있는게없다 그말에서 인생의 큰 교훈을 얻었어요.다이애나 통찰력은 거의 법륜스님수준입니다👍
현명한 다이애나 🥰
Minji is the cutest kid I've seen in my life
She looks so much like her dad.
I agree!! Minji has this beautiful features.# Handsome and beautiful 🥰❤️
Adorable children!
Minji needs a little purse/pocketbook or carrying purse for her little things. Yes, time for Minji's styling. Hope you find a nice dress for cousin's wedding Dianna. Jun is speaking Korean very well.
Or a cute baby backpack!
Well sure she had but kids sometimes like wired things,it dose not mean they do not have bag
@@coconutorange7609 this is true. I kept alot of my favorite things in disposable packages and tins as a kid as well
할머니의 손주사랑 꿀이 뚝뚝 넘쳐나네요 아이들 착하게 잘 자라거라~~
Getting along with your in-laws can definitely be a challenge 💆🏻♀️ I see Diana trying to accommodate to her in-laws in a very conscientious and selfless way.
Even though Diana's mother in law wants the best for her, there should be a healthy limit and I think she just stated it very nicely 👏🏼
In my case I love my in-laws, but I believe part of the reason we have such a good relationship, is because they live hundreds of miles away ✈️ In some ways it's hard on our family, but in other ways, it's just so much easier.
Henry's mother loves her grandkids and we need to just sit back and enjoy what they present without making assumptions that could cause hard feelings. The family seems happy.
I can't believe you are going back and forth over sweaters and long sleeve shirts - funny. Diana is right Henry - don't feel so stressed about it. It's her choice what she wears. And Diana, it seems that Grandma cares about you or she wouldn't stress out Henry about you being hot wearing a sweater in the summer. You are both blessed. Beautiful family.
It's not a question of who's right or wrong in this situation. It's not a competition or an one upmanship. Listening to each other and understanding how each person feels is important. It's not like the children visit and see the children every day. It's not like it's hot all year round. Be considerate of your husband, and leave the darn sweater at home.
If she's sweating and wearing a sweater it might be a problem. Sweating causes body odour. I don't know. I used to wear light cardigans in summer to cover up but, i was sweating
@@frugalityishername827 Or, her husband could be considerate enough to accept what makes her comfortable ? She's his wife not his slave. I think they'll be just fine, anyway. They a pretty good couple.
@@frugalityishername827 i literally just know you are an old nasty gen x *bleep*
Not you all strangers going wild in comment section about wearing a sweater 🤣😂🤣
Grandmothers enjoy seeing their grandchildren and loving on them. Love your family ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Grandma is racist and picky she just enjoying the boy and ignoring diana and her daughter it's miracle she feed her one spon of rice ,I do not like her attitude
Jun's hair is fierce and fire!🔥 He looks so handsome! The cut is everything! It appears that Grandma loves it, as well.
Looking just like his Dad... ☺️✌️
Please don't ignore my baby, Minji. She is such a sweet and intelligent girl. Don't give her insecurity. Dianna, as a Black woman you know what we have to grow through. Give Minji that strength and confidence we wear so well.
P.S. She is too cute in her dress and matching head band.🥰🥰
*Diana has done a few videos reinforcing their identity in having Brown skin and curly hair. Pls don't make such a conclusion re her daughter from ONE video.* Diana is a teacher and very balanced in the way she interacts with them BOTH. Minji was just quieter today bcs she LOVES to eat & was focused on THAT.😁
🔹Jun was the center of attention only in these last 2 videos & RIGHTFULLY so. In other videos Minji usually SEEMS to get MORE ATTENTION than Jun bcs she is more outspoken. He is usually quietly sucking his finger while Minji talks more. A lot of twins are opposites. When they go out, she is with her Dad most of the time so by default her brother goes to his Mom. *You don't have to worry. They are not experiencing insecurity or rejection of their skin tone by others. BOTH parents make sure of that.* You can search for the videos where Diana & Henry dealt with these topics. Blessings!💛
Yeah as an outsider looking in, I sometimes feel that way too. But it's important to remember that we don't see all moments in the family's life, since they don't share everything with us. Even still, everyone should be mindful that sometimes we do unintentionally send negative messages to those around us too.
I understand what you are saying. I’ve noticed from past videos the grandmother appears to favor/show more attention to the grandson. I pray 🙏🏽 I’m wrong 😑
@@sashatv382 Asian culture...boys are favored over girls.
@@sashatv382 You didn’t “see it wrong”, thats just Korean culture (lived there for a year) where boys are valued over girls; it’s unfortunate but it is what it is 🙃
준이 민지 너무 귀여워요
이제 한국말도 제법 잘하는게 대견스럽네요 ㅎㅎ
다이에나가 문화가 다른 한국에 적응하고 사는게
조금 힘들겠지만 ~ 지내다 보면 한국은 외국인이 살기에 꽤 편하고 좋은 나라입니다!
오늘도 좋은 영상 감사합니다~ 사랑해요 다이애나패밀리🥰
한국이 살기 넘 좋죠~
I love that Dianna and support you - “we wear want we want for our own comfort and pleasure - not for others”. Others who disagree and place criticism are reflecting their own insecurities and red flags. You continue to be authentically you Dianna, don’t feel you need to change or bend/negotiate your boundaries for others - your example will teach your children to be authentically and unapologetically themselves and if others don’t like it, than that’s on them and not on you 🙌🏽💫
Not sure where all this negativity and spitefulness is coming from?
I wouldn't be surprised if Dianna decides to stop sharing family moments if this is the type of reception she will be getting.
It's not fair to paint a negative picture of a family just from a 15 minute snippet of their lives.
There are many videos where Minji is shown plenty of love!
Hope you and your family are well Dianna 🙏
I don't think it's spite. People very often give advice that isn't asked for without meaning any harm.
Also, people fail to communicate properly what it is they truly mean to say. Most people recognize that while they've made these videos about Jun lately, it doesn't mean they prefer him and love him more. Most people here don't see Dianna and Kyungho showing preference for one child over the other. I think what people are trying to communicate is that others in society, other people that make appearances in their video, seem more drawn to Jun and give him attention. I recall a random auntie grabbing Jun, picking him up, swinging him around, giving him a free soda (maybe Minji wondered why she didn't get one); l recall them having a family with young girls over to the house and seeing them taking toys from Minji while running around with, carrying and playing with Jun; some people see Grandma interacting more with Jun.
I think people just point it out to Dianna so they can be aware. However, I'm sure Dianna knows very well already that boys, and particularly lighter skinned boys, are treated differently in society everywhere. It will be hard to raise twins because they will always be compared and they will always be comparing their own situation in society with the others' situation. I'm not sure what people expect Dianna and Kyungho to do. I'd say I guess to give Minji love and attention if it looks like others are enamored with Jun. I didn't see anything wrong in this video though..
Actually, Henry's blood pressure is not bad, at all. His diastolic is under 80 and systolic is only just above 120. Considering he just ate a large meal and is engaging with family, its pretty good. With his diastolic number being as low as it is, without medication, he has little to be concerned about.
Yeah, the blood pressure is better check before eating meals/workout
Same when a person is under stress their blood pressure is gonna be diferent .
At the hospital they are checking the bloodpressure, when you`re asleep, to get the right result. When you`re awake, you should be resting alone for half an hour first.
@@maryan8798 it’s not gaslighting when she said she is unsure. You sound like an anti fan or someone jealous of her happiness
@@maryan8798 you sound obsessed
@@48mavemiss2 you are so pathetic!! She said that he's pressure was over the normal(12,6) and that's not true! And it's sad cause as in medical dramas too, lots of people are watching and getting the wrong idea!
As for not speaking when you take the blood pressure,when she said she was unsure!!!, it's quite true but that was an instruction for the old pressure gauge as you had to listen the heart beat!!
And we never check our blood pressure after eating or exercise or feeling anxiety! We have to rest for a few minutes, put our hand in a stable place,like a table and our hand almost at the height of our heart!
We should check twice the pressure and find the average!
So it's not jealousy but consern for what a you tuber says and gives a bad information!
At least that's what we have learnt in medical school! Protect people!
Dianna just be you don’t worry what others says, you are doing a great job, the children are growing so lovely. Blessings for your family always 👏🏽❤️❤️
Amen!💕❤️👏🏾
준이 민지 그리고 할머니 다이애나 아빠 정말 완벽한 가족이에요.
저는 왜 아이들 어릴때 이렇게 못했는지 너무 후회가 됩니다. 다이애나 왕팬입니다.
The twins are so cute. Also when I see negative and criticizing comments on your videos, I really want to snap back at these people. I hope you ignore these people and don't take any of that to heart.
Minji is so beautiful. Jun look like his grandma cute little boy
I love the kids' 'tricycle' chopsticks! I've always been fascinated with how Asian kids learn to use chopsticks. Never saw this option!
애기들이 너무 귀여워서 보다가 영상을 몇개나 봤네요. 다른것도 마저 보고 올께요. 너무 사랑스러운 가족이에요.
정주행 감사요 ㅎㅎㅎ
Beautiful interactions in this video. I love seeing them with their grandmother again. Remain Blessed
Dianna it appears you’re doing a great job with your children!! Many continued blessings to you and your family.
I understand…I really do (Sweater etc.)
다이애나가 굉장히 긍정적인분이네요~ 좋은 사람 만나서 행복하게사세요
His curls, look even more lovely.
Awwwwwww, I enjoyed watching the kids eat. Too cute 🥰. GOD BLESS
어머나, 밥도 넘 잘 먹고, 말도 잘하고 넘 이쁘다. 준이야, 민지야, 건강하고 행복하게 잘 자라라..
And that is so true she a beautiful gorgeous daughter-in-law and have a beautiful gorgeous mother-in-law and it's so wonderful when you can have good in-laws may God continue to be with them all 🥰😍🤩🤩😌😌✋▶️💫💫💗💗💌💌😍💝💝💝❤️💖💖🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🙂🙂🙂😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️❣️❣️❣️💞💞💓💓🤚😊😊🌍🌍💕💕💯💯💯💯💯💯👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Your family is so beautiful and loving. Don't stress over the small stuff.
God Bless your whole family. 💐❤️🙏
Seus filhos são lindos e inteligentes.
Their family communication faithfulness to vows marriage and in-laws is such a true awesome testament of his Blessings
Your mother in law is very outspoken. I watch lots of Korean drama and she is true to form. Lol. But she should not dictate what you should wear and how you should look. I respect how you stay so calm.
Wow,Jun looks so handsome with his new hair cut,it suits him. Grandma enjoy seeing the children, big smile on her face and greeting them with lots of 🤗. Lots of blessings always🙏
… as with other Korean mixed black kids seen, can not help noticing the eagerness they portray eating the food is so mouth watering just watching how they tackle it.
I would not expect anything different . Being , the twins are " Korean mixed black kids, " who are being raised , eating Korean food the majority of the time at home, and away from home. It's no big surprise to me, then, that they eat Korean food so well. This is about culture, not race. The children are culturally Korean. They are Korean citizens , living a culturally Korean lifestyle. They are not even culturally American, because they have spent their whole life, continuously living in Korea, immersed predominantly in Korean lifestyle, and culture. Dianna has taught them to be proud of their melanated skin. She can teach them about black history, but that won't mean they are culturally black, but will instill in them a sense of pride. They can then feel a sense of pride about both their Korean and black heritage.
Culture is what determines 'race.' These kids are Korean, with a beautiful Afro American mother.
@@Truthhurts7937 no race is a social concept, determined by physical looks & changes within each society. they’re korean & black, weirdo.
I would not tolerate my mother in law telling me what to wear. I feel sorry for Diana. Henry is the kind of of man who doesn't stand up for his woman. What kind of man tell his wife to change clothes because his mother doesn't like it. I watched videos from the early days and her confidence has obviously been affected by Henry's family. I hope you are happy Diana and not just tolerating life. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be respected.
다이애나 한국말 많이 늘었네요~~~한국말발음
좋으네요~~~^^
아이들도 너무 귀엽구
Greetings from California! I love the videos with Grandmother! She always serves good food. It is obvious how much she adores her beautiful grandchildren.
가족을 공유해주셔서 감사합니다. ❤
I think Henry is stuck btw his mom and Dianna when his mom inputs her opinion of how something should be or look. I noticed that his mom when she talks about Dianna, she will ask Henry and not directly to Dianna. I think Dianna is right about asking, if Henry's mom ever tries to learn about other cultures. She should because Jun and MInji are interracial. Jun and Minji is not only learning about Korean cultures, they are also going to learn about Dianna's culture as well. I think Henry's mom is very smart and I think she can learn some English as well, and speak to Dianna a lot more. Dianna, you should dress the way you want to and wear the sweater without getting grief about from anyone. I also thought that the beautiful place you are living in now, that you should have known about it was bought. I know Henry's mom and Henry only talked about on their own and Dianna learned about it later. I think Dianna could have balanced finding a new place, on top of taking care of the kids. I know though, that Henry's mom does love Dianna.
Dianna, your Korean is really good and you can see the effort you are putting into learning the language. You should be proud of yourself. Jun and Minji speak Korean really well, Kids pick language a lot more easier than adults.
You can tell Halmoni (Grandma) favourit is Jun, not to say she doesn't love Minji, I've always noticed she is more into Jun.
Exactly. I noticed it too
100% sadly
i feel sad for diana she’s moved her whole life to another country and doesn’t have her own family
there. i know it’s cultural differences but koreans seem really stressful sometimes and i feel like his mum treats her so badly and it hurts to see another black woman being treated as less
than and she always treats the minji different too the grandmother 💔😪i also watch megan moon and her inlaws seem a lot different but is that because megan is light? who knows
@@aestheticsbyjasmine940 Megan , I love her , but she definitely is in a better place of privilege because of her fair skin and fit body- she's pretty much the most "inoffensive" and "agreeable" a foreigner can get, not taking away from anything she is or has done but ,it's much easier for her to assimilate and be accepted compared to Dianna :(
Not to mention, her Korean is damn near native , she can really pass as an mixed Korean tbh.
As soon as he started saying "My mother said... My mother complained..." I was like "Ohhhhhh noooooo! Just stop talking now." This is how young men make their wives and moms hate each other. SMH
He all so great husband to her and the good father it not hurt to listen to her husband and keep peace in family after all that his mother and you marry to Asian man you know what you get in to respect never hurt anyone
@@anitarichardson9457 Hmmm. I don't think you understood my comment.
Beautiful family, caring grandma. Diana you look great. Your children are sweet. I like Jun's haircut. He's so handsome. Love you all. 😍
Also Diana one shouldn't cross legs when taking blood pressure it causes it to rise and you could get false reading...Beautiful family...love the haircut on Jun!!!❤
Yes. Feet should be flat on the floor and arms elevated above heart level. So, the arms shouldn't be flexed downwards....
다이애나 가족!
행복한 모습 넘 존경 스러워요!
다이애나의 현명한 엄마의 모습에 박수을
보냅니다!
시어머니 나오시고 일상 보는게 제일 재밌어요 몇번을보는지ㅋㅋ
경호씨 추석때도 명절 영상 부탁드려요 제일재밌어요
Dianna in Korea
I think Korean grandma prefers Jun.
It certainly must hurt his sisters feelings.
😭😭😭Minji is cute 🥰
Mini looks and acts calm like the Grandfather and June looks and acts like the Grandmother.Jun is an energetic boy, so Grandma is keeping him busy and focused.
Thought I was the only one who noticed
In these interracial scenarios, the non-black side never really likes the girl child unless she's SUPER MODEL beautiful with loose textured hair unfortunately.
You Look Beautiful Dianna You Look beautiful !!!! Children and Husband Also
Grandma .👏🏽👏🏽🇯🇲🇬🇧
Why is his mother or grandmother trying to dictate what you wear? Maybe their house is too cool for you so you need a sweater. They must not know Americans don’t like to be told what to do, especially how to dress.
I’m glad you stood up for yourself and you handled it way better than I would have. I would have been ticked that he even brought up the fact that his mother complained. I could see if you were dressing provocative, but it’s a sweater. Why does she care if you’re wearing a sweater?
The kids are so cute! 🥰
Exactly why would he even bring that up to her? He should have defended her to his mother its just a darn sweater!
Can we talk about Ms Minji’s dress to grandma’s house, she’s is giving fabulous. I live live seeing grandma’s interaction with the grandkids and Dianna kids too. I know Dianna is having a hard time finding dresses/clothes in Korea, but we will ask Mr Moon (Meg Moon’s hubby) to hook her up😃Try to do a collab lady D with them (Making dresses for Dianna)🔥
Yes- when we lived in Okinawa, I was lucky to have a seamstress come one week every month. I showed her pictures, she measured me, and I would have 3 dresses when she left. It was wonderful. She also made my husband and son shirts - fantastic experience.
@@sandragreen9560 awesome 😃
Your family is totally awesome! Dad, mom, the children and Grandma all of you are so wonderful. It was nice to know that Grandma accept Jun's hair cut.
Life will be a lot better if you concentrate on what you like about each other and the reasons you married.
The kids are soo precious! Thanks so much for sharing, my daughter taught in South Korea for 3 years!!
Awesome experience!
I love this family blending 2 unique cultures together.
Is it my imagination or does the grandmother favors Jun over Minji...I heard in Korean/ asian culture parents favor male over female children. Is this true?
It’s probably because the video is about her reacting to the haircut so her interactions with Minji are probably cut.
I sensed it in this video but in other videos, I felt like granny praises Minji more. I think it’s just simply because of what is being put out on RUclips. We see a few minutes of their lives and we shouldn’t assume based off of something so short
Sad
Very nice day with grandma. ☺️🌻Good kids.
Jun looks so handsome with his new haircut and Minji is super cute as usual 💕🙏 Beautiful family. May god continue to bless you and your husband and kids.
Look how good the children eat with the chopsticks. Excellent..but wow how impressive they speak both languages soo well...thats awesome!!!!
I hope that if either of you feel like you are falling into depression or the anxiety or emotional pressure is becoming too much, then you can feel comfortable enough to find a third person like a social worker or therapist or counselor to talk to privately and release your stress. It's not good to bottle it up or take it out on your spouse. There's online counseling like better help too if you can't find someone local to help.
할머니가 준 민지 이뻐 하네요 애교가 많은 쌍둥이 손자 손녀
듣기만하고 심각하게받아들이지마세요
아내분이정말현명하시네요
Diana, your Korean is getting so good.
소소한 일상인데 계속 보게 됩니다. 아이들과 항상 행복한 날들을 보내시길 바랍니다.
좋아요,구독 눌렀어요~^^
The children OMG they're so beautiful !!!
the blood pressure is fine, besides he was not relaxed, he had his legs crossed, things that are basic when taking the pressure, the clothes thing maybe the mother-in-law did not mean it in a bad way maybe she just wants you to buy more clothes so you have more options but she doesn't know how to express it well, I love your videos, stay healthy and happy videos 💙💜💙💜
Grandma is crazy about Jun. Love seeing the kids visit grandma. Grandparents can be such special people in children’s lives. Not everyone get this opportunity. Kids are growing up so well.
Jun looks like a big boy now with his grown up hairstyle. Love it!!!! Both those kids eat so well, they are certainly not picky eaters. It is a pleasure watching them eat. I also love to see them interact with their Korean Grandma, so much love.
I love his haircut. He looks like really handsome:e.
See your family I am so happy, to see every member in family try to respect each other and very openly to each others
I just love Dianna's voice
I was waiting for this video. Looks like grandma really likes Juns hair cut 🥰
I noticed Henry had his legs crossed...not sure if it was crossed during his BP testing but your feet should always be flat...love the kiddos chopsticks 💞I'm still learning to use them & I practice at home on occasions when I wanna show off🤣😅😆
Beautiful Family
Kids are adorable.
Happy his grandma likes his hair cut👏🏻👏🏻
Grandma is adorable I just wish she paid more attention to Minji.
Your children are so beautiful and smart. Great job you two are doing.
준이가 할머니를 많이 닮은것 같아요🤗 다이애나는 한국 음식도 김치도 너무 잘먹는 모습이 정말 예쁘네요 👍❤❤❤
I love listening to Jun & Minji speak in Korean.
126 is fine. There is always 5+/- difference on the electronic ones. 120/80 is the normal blood pressure. He is fine. If he is hypertensive anything 140 or more and two different readings with a difference of 4 hours point towards hypertension and needs to be monitored.
That is correct…his blood pressure is fine
Wasn't going to say nothing about Grandma attention is always on June and not Minji so much, I feel so sad like she love June the most, forgive me if I'm wrong, but I notice this pattern for some time, we can see the difference in Grandma loving June more than Minji😱😘
I really love watching your videos Diana, Your family is beautiful... Minji has been around very little, She is the cutest and most affectionate thing.
Diana you have to visit your parents in us. I miss them... And they must be missing you
Love you guys so much, wear what makes you happy.❤️❤️❤️
아이들도 너무 귀엽고ᆢ
다이애나 오늘 특히 예쁘네요~^^
You are all looking good especially the kids
다이애나 ~~♡ 늘 응원합니다
Don't worry, be happy. Your hair looks great, Diana.
Jun's hair cut looks very nice on him. Now I can tell which is the boy and which is the girl easier.
His blood pressure is wonderful.
I remember when my friend went to Japan it was hard to find a sweater with sleeves long enough for me because I’m 5’7” but this was years ago.
공주님 밥먹을때 어쩜저리 입꼭다물고 오물오물 예쁘게 먹을까요
What a handsome little man with that hair cut 🤗
Both of the kids speak Korean, they are so cute 😊
I so much want to see the kids when they r grown up teenagers and making own videos. I hope for it and to see them happy and healthy
You are beautiful inside and out ...lovely family. Don't let anyone tell you other...you are a great wife and mom..
Dianna keep doing what you are doing with your hair. I see you with different hair styles. Keep changing as needed.
보통의 우리 어머니들이네 ㅋㅋㅋ
손주에 바라는게 많으셔 ㅋㅋㅋ
This was cute. I’m glad grandma liked the hair cut.