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    00:00 Intro
    00:26 Career and Income
    01:44 1st Checking's Account & Spending
    07:58 2nd Checking's Account & Spending
    08:38 Dasher Direct
    09:45 Saving's Accounts
    12:01 Car Debt
    15:09 Credit Card 1
    16:31 Credit Card 2
    17:36 Credit Card 3
    18:03 Credit Card 4
    18:54 Credit Card 5
    19:52 Credit Card 6
    20:34 Credit Card 7
    21:10 Credit Card 8
    21:48 Credit Card 9
    22:08 Student Loans
    22:38 Advice & Goals
    27:58 Closing
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    Today we sit down with TyShawn Allen. She is 26 years old and has accumulated $18k in car debt, 9 credit cards, and an unknown amount of student loans... while at the same time, she quit her only stable job.
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  • @CalebHammer
    @CalebHammer  2 года назад +316

    1 of my first 10,000 subscribers will win $1,000, and 5 will each win $100. You will be randomly selected and announced within the first week of hitting 10,000 subscribers!

    • @mehdidarhbar4726
      @mehdidarhbar4726 2 года назад +9

      I love your channel so much. I found you on Tik Tok and just started subscribing on RUclips. Keep it up man!!!

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  2 года назад +3

      @@mehdidarhbar4726 Thank you so much Mehdi!

    • @seangrace8480
      @seangrace8480 2 года назад +2

      I found you on TikTok, but I'm glad to see that you have longer format interviews here on RUclips. Definitely earned a follow from me. Go Forth and Prosper!

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  2 года назад +2

      @@seangrace8480 Thank you so much! Happy to have you here :)

    • @AD-eg6ln
      @AD-eg6ln Год назад

      This taught me so much!

  • @sammcneil4733
    @sammcneil4733 Год назад +1713

    Now that I have a good paying career with some spare money, I’m realizing how much shopping is pushed on us through social media. Especially for girls, influencers make it seem normal to never wear the same outfit twice, go out to eat every other day, and always be getting new beauty products and things that just aren’t necessary! It takes a lot of discipline to not give into it. Financially literate people are the ones who don’t look rich from the outside.

    • @candy2325
      @candy2325 Год назад +43

      I agree! The amount of freakin advertising is pushed down our throats is insane

    • @sweetlady1616
      @sweetlady1616 Год назад +33

      this is so true. whenever i have extra money i find myself wanting to spend it on unnecessary things like beauty products, trendy clothes, eating out. social media definitely has a huge effect because we’re always seeing the next “new” “must have” thing

    • @jesse2576
      @jesse2576 Год назад +30

      I deleted social media and unsubstantiated from emails to online shopping best way to save money 😅 and ignore all your friends for a while

    • @jesse2576
      @jesse2576 Год назад +1

      I deleted social media and unsubstantiated from emails to online shopping best way to save money 😅 and ignore all your friends for a while

    • @holographicfrog1503
      @holographicfrog1503 Год назад +13

      Get off social media. You should've gotten off of it years ago.

  • @kalijustice4918
    @kalijustice4918 Год назад +251

    This was me at her age. 60 k in cc debt and HELOC account with a mortgage and car payment. I got so sick of living like that and feeling so scared all the time. I got two jobs and became so frugal. Paid it all off and just paid off my mortgage 2 days ago. 100 percent debt free at 41. Thank you God

    • @kalijustice4918
      @kalijustice4918 Год назад +4

      @@mmp495 thank you so much. Very painful but worth it. I appreciate your reply. Thank you God and may God bless you!

    • @ianstephens333
      @ianstephens333 Год назад +5

      60k In cc debt and your debt free now? You rock!

    • @normalgirlcvco
      @normalgirlcvco Год назад +2

      God bless 🎉

    • @CaptainPreferences
      @CaptainPreferences Год назад

      Lie

    • @kalijustice4918
      @kalijustice4918 Год назад +2

      @@CaptainPreferences I wish it was bud but it's real shit

  • @joeyk3134
    @joeyk3134 Год назад +1419

    A common theme I've noticed across these audits is to never quit a job without another one already started.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +336

      Especially if you don't have the 6 months of living expenses saved!

    • @cjc2611
      @cjc2611 Год назад +91

      I've never understood this. I literally can't not have a job. I can't imagine it being different for literally anyone else who has bills

    • @chicnoir29
      @chicnoir29 Год назад +38

      @@cjc2611 - Same here. I have a fully funded emergency fund and the idea of not having a job makes me uneasy.

    • @Sunshine4
      @Sunshine4 Год назад +91

      I swear this social media era be telling people to quit if you aren't in love, because life is too short. well you know life will be shorter without a means to live...

    • @lindawang5649
      @lindawang5649 Год назад +38

      Actually I did this! I had a years worth of expenses saved up and a partner who could provide me health insurance.
      I was able to leave a toxic work environment, and focus on finding the right next job. It worked out well for me!

  • @73587358
    @73587358 Год назад +83

    This dude was so much calmer than he is now... Hahaha. Funny to see him just nervous laughing and the other person just not caring about their life.

    • @laurab5849
      @laurab5849 Год назад +10

      He has become way more confident in his role and in front of a camera I think .

    • @LilySaintSin
      @LilySaintSin Год назад +3

      He's more entertaining now

    • @hagelslag9312
      @hagelslag9312 11 месяцев назад +2

      He's also able to talk less loud because of the microphones now, they're much better.

  • @caroljeeben7064
    @caroljeeben7064 Год назад +929

    I'm 30 and I have to say this to those younger than me. GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA! You do NOT need an artisan coffee everyday to be happy. Your home does not have to look like the home decor and home reno accounts you follow. You do not need to wear a brand new outfit every single day. Also, you do not need shapeware or 30 makeup products and face serums that costs hundreds of dollars. You do not need home delivery meal services. The world never used to be this way. I've watched a few of these videos already and each of them the person is spending on things we have been conditioned by scrolling to believe that we need. We don't. You don't. Turn it off, it's so depressing and we do not need to prove to an imaginary audience that you're happy when you're not.

    • @pintobeangaming1620
      @pintobeangaming1620 Год назад +40

      Facts carol, facts !

    • @mst-pierrem5729
      @mst-pierrem5729 Год назад +16

      Unless you make money out of it I totally agree. Damn, I understand now why the country aint gonna work financially period. I dont understand my generation of people who get into gigantic amount of consummer debt!! How arent they crying every single day for most of day??? I'm terrified for us being elderly !!

    • @Destiny-jf5pb
      @Destiny-jf5pb Год назад +24

      This comment needs to be pinned! 💯

    • @emilyknowlton8602
      @emilyknowlton8602 Год назад +22

      Is smiling ,laughing and acting chill/relaxed about serious and negative life events a new trend? I notice this with many younger people and it's baffling to me.

    • @noireknight3013
      @noireknight3013 Год назад +15

      Louder for the people in the Back. !!!!!!

  • @YvonneHansonPhotography
    @YvonneHansonPhotography Год назад +181

    I don't even have any debt and watching these videos is inspiring me to get out of debt...

    • @conceivebelieveachieve9653
      @conceivebelieveachieve9653 Год назад +15

      Nor me, keeps me on the straight and narrow. Temptation hits sometimes I watch Caleb and it's like being in an AA meeting for finances.

    • @sergiyradonezhsky634
      @sergiyradonezhsky634 Год назад +2

      lolz

    • @mannycalavera2335
      @mannycalavera2335 Год назад +7

      Haha. I feel the exact same. It's more like, I need to stop useless spending and add to my savings more than I am.

    • @stutijain3449
      @stutijain3449 5 месяцев назад +1

      right??

  • @TreeofLife_111
    @TreeofLife_111 Год назад +204

    When you think your life isn't going well so you tune into financial audit to make yourself feel better about your life.

    • @simplehousegirl9260
      @simplehousegirl9260 Год назад +3

      Ahahaha 🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @unknowndarkangeluser
      @unknowndarkangeluser Год назад +9

      im guilty of the selfish watch... its a nice reminder for people like me who are doing generally well but still (for some reason) feel completely incompetent lol

    • @ijimenez145
      @ijimenez145 Год назад +2

      You can also view it as a guide and what not to do. But if ur in a similar situation maybe u could use some of the tools to help urself

    • @kassandra57
      @kassandra57 4 месяца назад

      😅🤣🙃@@unknowndarkangeluser

  • @alexgreen2938
    @alexgreen2938 Год назад +310

    Once I got hit with a credit card bill of 3,000 USD. I had no idea how to pay it until I looked at my bank statement. So many Uber eats and Doordash. I realized that their fees and tip were 25% of my order. Cooking at home and meal prepping saved me about $250 a month in "wasted expenses."

    • @laethe230
      @laethe230 Год назад +18

      We're in the middle of quickly saving the deposit and first rent to move, and just by going to the grocery store and cutting 99% of eating out we've saved almost $500 each paycheck. We fell into a bad habit after the lockdowns, it's nice to finally break out of it

    • @Iamjustherek
      @Iamjustherek Год назад +10

      God food delivery takes up a huge chunk of my wiggle room money. One time I tried to add it all up and I was too scared by the number it was approaching. And it's not even that I dislike cooking but it's just so easy...

    • @tmusa2002
      @tmusa2002 Год назад +12

      My son does door dash and he showed me one time that he delivered one single Taco Bell burrito just a few blocks from the restaurant for $14. 😮 Cooking can be fun and rewarding, friends!

    • @vchafab
      @vchafab Год назад +5

      Same, I added up my November doordash and we spent close to $1k. I deleted the app right there and then started cooking. I also lost weight.

    • @unknowndarkangeluser
      @unknowndarkangeluser Год назад +3

      deleting food delivery apps and NOT re-downloading(ever!) will be the easiest money saving decision you ever make. if you feel like you are in a habit you can't break or out of control, just remember that it only takes 14 days of discipline to break a habit

  • @ramirofierros649
    @ramirofierros649 2 года назад +185

    440 on a equinox even a new one is outrageous, dealership really scammed her on that one

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  2 года назад +33

      Yeah, she got bullied hard

    • @UnluckyUmbrella
      @UnluckyUmbrella 2 года назад +18

      Car prices are ridiculous right now. Cars are selling way over what I would consider a good price and people are buying them. So the market is garbage.

    • @Azviman03
      @Azviman03 Год назад +25

      69k mile equinox is about the same as a 369k mile Toyota/Lexus product. buying based on miles is not an intelligent decision.... but clearly these people aren't making intelligent decisions

    • @brocal45
      @brocal45 Год назад +25

      She scammed herself thinking she could afford a $20k car loan while only making $24k a year.

    • @roselyntyson559
      @roselyntyson559 Год назад +19

      @@brocal45 She really scammed herself by quitting her full time job with zero plan.

  • @LuisRamirez-yf3fx
    @LuisRamirez-yf3fx Год назад +223

    "I know I can't afford to pay any of my debts, but let me go ahead and quit my job just because I don't want to talk to people". I truly do not understand how some of these people think.

    • @Antassium
      @Antassium Год назад +56

      Call center jobs, especially customer-facing is SOUL-CRUSHING.
      That said, I 100% agree.
      Never leave a job without ANY other job lined up.
      Even if you have to go to a lower-paying job, at least you'll have SOME income while you're looking for a better one.

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 Год назад +12

      Yh I don’t blame her cause customer service jobs aren’t it…I think the main issue is the fact she’s not putting full effort into instacart and ubereats cause there are good opportunities if you put time in.

    • @anonymity2882
      @anonymity2882 Год назад +4

      They don't. This millenial generation is soo incredibly screwed its amazing (especially the women). Im ashamed to be apart of that generation. At least im financially sound i guess.

    • @sp123
      @sp123 Год назад +10

      Women are quicker to walk ways from nonsense that's why they live longer

    • @nuclearlo0ve
      @nuclearlo0ve Год назад +18

      @@anonymity2882 that’s such a weird thing to say 😂

  • @johnmidi94
    @johnmidi94 Год назад +52

    One thing I've noticed about social media is that they push this thing where you can just pick up quit a job and move to another state like it's fairly easy. You have to have a plan if you're going to make a big move like that.

  • @john-michaelsteiner456
    @john-michaelsteiner456 Год назад +395

    Mad props to this woman for confronting these difficult issues! It may take some time, but you can get over this!! ✊

    • @anonymity2882
      @anonymity2882 Год назад

      You kidding? This chick is a moron for making a video online about her debt situation and poor spending habits. This video will drive away employers, landlords, banks AND possible future spouses. I guarentee this video is hurting her more than its helping.

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 Год назад +8

      But she's not! She's not going to take his advice. A year later it will be worse.

    • @youiloves1242
      @youiloves1242 Год назад +3

      What are you taking about?

    • @youiloves1242
      @youiloves1242 Год назад

      @@suen5006 you too man

    • @St69H
      @St69H Год назад

      @@suen5006 Proof?

  • @undefeatedaj
    @undefeatedaj Год назад +393

    I grew up with a father that had the financial literacy of a 16 year old. I learned from his mistakes as we struggled as a family. I don’t have debt and have multiple income streams. Still learning everyday.

    • @mikeyPRE6
      @mikeyPRE6 Год назад +15

      Unfortunately same .. my whole family .. like they say it has to be at least one person who will break from the financial curse

    • @adamlynch9153
      @adamlynch9153 Год назад +7

      My father told me everything ok what to do but I didn’t listen out of rebellion. Now I’m playing catch up.

    • @simsanonymous8117
      @simsanonymous8117 Год назад

      What are your income streams if you don’t mind me asking?

    • @undefeatedaj
      @undefeatedaj Год назад +3

      @@simsanonymous8117 earned (small business) and passive (rentals, interest, dividends)

    • @XdakotasapphireX
      @XdakotasapphireX Год назад +2

      When my step father got laid off from his marketing analyst position at Boeing he decided he would be a 'professional' poker player and constantly took my mom's money (including quarterly taxes from her 1099 job) and he was the one to manage their bills because mom said it stressed her out too much to pay the bills. Anyways what I got out of it was to not let anyone touch my money or try to avoid any reckless spending. Eating out is one thing. (We still do we need to reign it in a little but we are a family of four).
      I am working full time (as of now) and doing a side hustle. I also have a household budget sheet and have only missed one credit card payment on my Amazon card for a literal charge of $15. But I do budget for coffee. But I'm not usually buying a crafted drink just brewed coffee or cold brew with added cream

  • @nessapalmer5316
    @nessapalmer5316 Год назад +311

    This was super painful to watch and yet encouraging based on where I am at in my situation. I hope she can get it together. Honestly.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +31

      I hope so too!

    • @aolgum
      @aolgum Год назад +12

      I agree this made it hard to breathe and made my heart stop at a lot of moments. This is the kinda stuff that happens in my nightmares. It is true makes my situation look good at 25 dollars in the green every month.

    • @adamlynch9153
      @adamlynch9153 Год назад +4

      For me it was “I have to talk to people and i don’t wanna do that” 😂

  • @jovescoves6941
    @jovescoves6941 Год назад +264

    I don’t know why everyone is saying she doesn’t care/they hate the faces she makes. She seems like someone who is stressed as hell, but trying to mask it.
    It’s easier to fake it til ya make it.
    I hope she gets to a better place, those interest rates sound so scary!!

    • @bblwarrantydepartment981
      @bblwarrantydepartment981 Год назад +28

      Good comment. People need to be nice. Especially when people are allowing themselves to be vulnerable like she is

    • @Pleasiotic1
      @Pleasiotic1 Год назад +3

      Some of it is that it is generational behavior. There are speech and behavioral patterns that are common among certain age demographics, particularly ones who are heavy SM users.

    • @javianjohnson8746
      @javianjohnson8746 Год назад +13

      Yea I don’t really see the problem with her. Probably just stressed about having to face it

    • @anonymity2882
      @anonymity2882 Год назад

      Her "masking" her stress will lead her straight to bankruptcy. If your correct than she needs to face reality before its too late. Her "coping" strategy will seal her financial fate if she doesnt wake up to the facts.

  • @zacknelson8918
    @zacknelson8918 Год назад +141

    She needs a job, not Uber and door dash, that can be a side job, but she needs a high paying job and career

    • @moisescarrillo6991
      @moisescarrillo6991 Год назад +20

      she needs better work discipline, she cant hold a job if her life depended on it

    • @petermiller9904
      @petermiller9904 Год назад +3

      That modeling career is over 🤣

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 Год назад

      @@petermiller9904 huh

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 Год назад +1

      Idk I’ve heard of people making almost 60k+ a year doing those two but they torture themselves to do it all the time.

    • @TheTbabylati
      @TheTbabylati Год назад +4

      You can make a living with Uber door dash, and Instacart easily. The problem is that she is not working enough or being smart about it

  • @jozefromzero3617
    @jozefromzero3617 Год назад +245

    found you on tik tok don’t know how you get people to do this but i enjoy watching it lol so keep this series going

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +8

      haha, thank you! Every Wednesday, right here!

    • @baitroyale6070
      @baitroyale6070 Год назад +5

      He probably pays them lol.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +44

      @@baitroyale6070 since it was a call online, yes, they got $25 an hour for their time

    • @ManyMannyMan
      @ManyMannyMan Год назад +8

      @@baitroyale6070 well of course he does. People don't do things for free 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @anaalba3012
      @anaalba3012 Год назад

      Haha iPhone i

  • @Tetsu9701
    @Tetsu9701 Год назад +31

    A trend I notice is a lot of these people WASTE money on rides services, food delivery, or high car payments with the flimsy excuse that the new car was needed because it is "safe". Caleb Hammer is basically giving them obvious advice. A roommate of mine once told me I was "good at being poor". I'm in my 30's & have never used ride services, other than taxis when I worked as a teen & had no car, refuse to pay for food delivery service since I have a car, and drive a 99 Honda that is plenty safe enough. I eat out maybe one or twice a week but other than that I go grocery shopping at Aldi & if I can't find the item there I go to Walmart. Basically these people live like they are rich when they are not.

  • @spatty2589
    @spatty2589 Год назад +25

    I like her personality. She seems to be aware of the problem she just doesn't have a plan to tackle the debt and she has no family support. Her situation is honestly scary. I'll pray for her.

  • @blaudiss
    @blaudiss Год назад +90

    This and your other videos hit hard. I'm 34 and just feel like I understood personal finance a couple years ago - and I have a degree in economics and a MASTERS degree in FINANCE. There is 0 personal financial education in our country unless you really seek it out. By the time I reached this point I was treading water for 15 years. Thank you for moving us towards personal financial stability.

    • @grace.1123
      @grace.1123 Год назад +9

      I thought for years that you had to have a full-time job to open a Roth IRA... I only started investing/contributing last year (I'll be 28 in November). It's a hard pill to swallow, but it's always good to remind yourself that investing NOW is still better than NEVER investing at all. There are still tons of people out there that never invested with no savings/retirement and/or don't believe in investing for your future who will be in really shitty situations when they reach retirement age and won't actually be able to quit working because they won't have any money that was set aside in the past. The lack of financial literacy in our country is terrifying but channels like Caleb's are really great because it's the best way to actually reach Millennials/Gen Zs about what we actually were never taught in school growing up

  • @ericaofwaterdeep
    @ericaofwaterdeep Год назад +263

    This has been my favorite of all of them. I feel like she definitely was responsive and understanding of her situation. Definitely a good vid.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +8

      Yeah that's true!!

    • @pikkuporsas
      @pikkuporsas Год назад +17

      She has no clue. She will be poor for the rest of her life.

    • @sebastiencomeau3520
      @sebastiencomeau3520 Год назад +3

      @@pikkuporsas 😅😅

    • @christine16power
      @christine16power Год назад +6

      He should do a follow up

    • @anonymity2882
      @anonymity2882 Год назад +2

      You kidding??? She wasnt seeious about her debt one bit. She was laughing half the time and kept saying "it'll work out." This is the exact person I dont loan money to.

  • @donovanpar
    @donovanpar Год назад +97

    i hope you know you're gonna be the next big thing on youtube, I am an accountant, and just watching these videos are so entertaining. Your knowledge is amazing too. Keep grinding sir

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +13

      Wow, thank you!

    • @mnrthmrcll
      @mnrthmrcll 10 месяцев назад +9

      And you were right!

    • @donovanpar
      @donovanpar 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@CalebHammer I thought about this today only time i really ever commented on a video. Feels good to be right haha, congrats sir

  • @lexy4154
    @lexy4154 Год назад +181

    What I’ve done this year was difficult but needed. I stopped helping my family and as a first generation that was not easy because guilt and the stigma to help family is so ingrained, I got myself in a lot of debt that way. The way I could help my family would be with financial literacy and to help myself first with my debt before tackling on their debt.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +38

      That's very brave and impressive of you! I know that can be hard, I could not imagine. I'm proud of you!

    • @oqvH
      @oqvH Год назад +13

      Tell me about it Lexy! I recently moved in with my father he understands the hole I put myself and that I want to get out and doing the right things to get out of it. While my mother will ask me for help or assistance and I simply do not have the money because I’m attacking my debt like there’s no tomorrow. It hurts but I appreciate my father for understanding

    • @shemaths1668
      @shemaths1668 Год назад +4

      bruh, I am still on this!! I am the only reliable one so everyone comes to me for help and I do it because....well...they are my family

    • @reeserios3075
      @reeserios3075 Год назад +5

      Just now learning this. You can’t pour from an empty cup. I’ve been helping my dad pay for car insurance and it’s ~$500 in total. Instead I helped him find another source of income because I’ve been struggling so bad

    • @XdakotasapphireX
      @XdakotasapphireX Год назад

      I get it. We helped my parents recently buy new tires with the promise of getting it back. And then the year before I gave them $500 to fix their truck so they have a way to get around and they didn't pay it back with money really. But that's like 1100 bucks not really given back to me.

  • @lizacopeland2388
    @lizacopeland2388 Год назад +221

    It’s so amazing to see young adults in this type of bind. I was never this amount of debt until I was nearly $6000 from a former relationship. I paid nearly everything in the relationship and he took advantage of me. Luckily, I was disciplined in paying it off in 6 months with my close friend who allowed me to stay with her for $200/month until I paid off all my credit cards off then I was able to pay $400/month until I moved out after 18 months staying with her. She was a huge help to get my finances on track.

    • @adamlynch9153
      @adamlynch9153 Год назад +5

      I’d love to meet a girl that has her finances together. It seems most do not.

    • @Miguel-iu9oi
      @Miguel-iu9oi Год назад +34

      Don't lose ties with your friend. Not many people will stand behind you like that unless they genuinely want to see you succeed.

    • @droid2D2C3P0
      @droid2D2C3P0 Год назад +46

      @@adamlynch9153 lots and lots of women, millions, have their finances together. Stop generalizing women.

    • @adamlynch9153
      @adamlynch9153 Год назад

      @@droid2D2C3P0 I’ve just had rough luck dating lol

    • @droid2D2C3P0
      @droid2D2C3P0 Год назад +18

      @@adamlynch9153 yeahhh but that's no excuse to villainize the majority of women

  • @mississippimom2
    @mississippimom2 Год назад +5

    Love that someone links the previous audit. I go back and rewatch the original video so i can remember everything. Extra views!!

  • @nuclearlo0ve
    @nuclearlo0ve Год назад +20

    I really appreciate her honesty. Budgeting, when you are NEVER taught to how to prioritize what and how, is not easy. I speak from experience.

  • @tbaker71
    @tbaker71 Год назад +5

    It's got to be difficult to be a friendly face, and yet reveal so much cold, uncaring, unyielding truth to people, but I feel you do it really well. Hopefully, your kind advice is taken to heart. It's just too easy to get into this kind of financial trouble. I appreciate your work. Thank you.

  • @javianjohnson8746
    @javianjohnson8746 Год назад +105

    I don’t know, but something about her makes me think she’s actually gonna make it out of her most serious debts. She seems understanding of what they are and WHY she has them (she mentions family emergencies with opening the CCs), and is actually accepting of the advice she’s getting from Mr. Caleb. Hope the best for her

    • @anonymity2882
      @anonymity2882 Год назад +16

      Your a terrible judge of character my friend. She wasnt concerned with her debt one bit and just expects everything to "work out." Shes the exact type of person I would NEVER give a loan to. She clearly doesnt take her finances serious at all.

    • @ImperiumLibertas
      @ImperiumLibertas Год назад +5

      Unfortunately I can't agree. She was already in serious debt outspending her income and she gets an expensive car loan. That tells me she values nice things and convince over figuring out how to live within her means.

    • @mikes.4855
      @mikes.4855 Год назад +3

      You don’t know why because you don’t pay attention to the video. She took out an expensive car loan after already having financial issues. Please don’t tell me you navigate life like this?

    • @chiquetashields9022
      @chiquetashields9022 Год назад

      She reminds me a little of myself when I was younger. I’ve seen a few of these videos with people that don’t seem receptive at all. Sometimes it just takes someone telling you how to get out of a situation. You feel like you’re in too deep that there isn’t a way out.
      I was 30 when I lost a house to foreclosure and a car to repossession. I considered bankruptcy but after consulting a lawyer I determined that my credit card and various other debt wasn’t worth filing bankruptcy over. My credit was already shot so I just set about contacting my creditors and settling all of my accounts. I went bare bones with my spending and clawed my way out. I’m much older now but am doing very well. I have a good emergency fund, very good credit and me and my husband are planning on buying a house this year. You can change your mindset. Sometimes you just need people to show you that it’s possible.

    • @ottovcr
      @ottovcr Год назад +2

      Lol

  • @amaurysthatguy7464
    @amaurysthatguy7464 4 месяца назад +3

    Started watching this channel about a month ago. Decided to take a dive back to it's origins. What a fascinating evolution. Good job, Hammer team.

  • @joserobertoalanisbaez
    @joserobertoalanisbaez Год назад +37

    Great content! I come from a poor mindset and rack up debt easily. I had 1 fresh start and yet racked up debt again, this time willing to pay it off instead of just flying away.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +3

      Thank you so much, and yes... time to pay it off and stay out of that debt!!

  • @MsRiotCorruption
    @MsRiotCorruption 2 месяца назад +2

    Love to watch some of these older videos to see how much the show has grown... 💕

  • @chriswilliam5203
    @chriswilliam5203 Год назад +209

    I work for a debt relief company & this is exactly how it goes for some people. they’re just irresponsible with money.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +9

      Oh wow :/ Yeah, lots of pain!

    • @Investormillard
      @Investormillard Год назад +4

      Ever meet clients now that we’re punished by things like marriage especially spouses student loans, and other issues like high cost of living area they could not choose or debt from crazy inflation?

    • @truthprevails4386
      @truthprevails4386 Год назад +19

      @@Investormillard those are still things you need to discuss prior to marriage. personal responsibility needs to make a come back

    • @christinaschaefer8725
      @christinaschaefer8725 Год назад +4

      @@truthprevails4386 no one gets married and anticipates divorce wtf

    • @therealbuba
      @therealbuba Год назад +14

      @@christinaschaefer8725 adults do

  • @tmusa2002
    @tmusa2002 Год назад +5

    Thank you for building awareness of this crazy overspending problem we have in the US.

  • @jeremyreyes5452
    @jeremyreyes5452 Год назад +328

    As I was watching this and you read off all these credit card debt, I started to think that this isn't solely her fault. These predatory credit companies do kinda prey on the financially unstable/illiterate group of people. This is also the reason why a lot of people fear Credit Cards. She seems like she knew her mistakes though, so hopefully she's able to recover pretty easily from this :)

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +36

      I hope she's able to as well!

    • @LaSombraa
      @LaSombraa Год назад +31

      @@CalebHammer Seems like she needs to consolidate all her credit cards with a loan, cut all the extra useless spending, pay down that loan, get a job [youre 26, like come on], and save heavily and only use cash.

    • @LaSombraa
      @LaSombraa Год назад +32

      Also forgot, the most important one - COOK AT HOME.

    • @louparker5740
      @louparker5740 Год назад +22

      I think it was the ceo of intel that said "in business, only the paranoid survive". This is good advice for the individual as well. Not sure "financial education" can fix a flippant attitude. People like myself couldn't eat or sleep if we were in this position. I was that way when I was young so I'm not just saying that because I'm middle aged. The auditor in this case was more stressed than the woman. You either have it (a healthy fear of being broke) or you don't.

    • @dynamichunter843
      @dynamichunter843 Год назад +45

      It’s not predatory. She’s just a consumer of far too much than she can pay for. Entirely her fault. She eats out constantly and shops

  • @shaundell23
    @shaundell23 Год назад +64

    She’s literally drowning! Financial literacy is so important and hopefully she gets things together.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +2

      I really hope she does!

    • @njpme
      @njpme Год назад +4

      Even with literacy, she got some bad habits to kick

  • @blasvillanueva7195
    @blasvillanueva7195 6 месяцев назад +3

    Woah only started watching recently but it’s very cool to see what the old videos looked like. Awesome seeing how far you’ve come!

  • @CH-bi8tl
    @CH-bi8tl Год назад +21

    Watching you go over this and stressing more than they are is completely crazy. They are all just resigned to their debts...do you help them potentially budget better? Explain different approaches to attack their debts like snowball vs avalanche? The amount of financial illiteracy in this country is astounding along with the mindset that comes with growing up poor.
    Subscribed ❤️

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +7

      Yeah we go over some of that too, not all makes it into the video

  • @imthemapimthemap
    @imthemapimthemap Год назад +4

    Love your brutal honesty in these interviews!

  • @crowsandbones
    @crowsandbones Год назад +1

    I love watching your videos, it has opened my eyes and made me take control of my finances. Learning what NOT to do from your interviews has been invaluable. Keep it up!

  • @punishernation436
    @punishernation436 Год назад +5

    Love your editing style, very good structure and the little things you do when they say something surprising is genuinely hilarious

  • @kingrolley560
    @kingrolley560 Год назад +15

    This channel has so much potential keep it up brother

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +1

      I appreciate that!! Thank you :)

  • @jellyt8767
    @jellyt8767 Год назад +5

    I'm not really in debt and do not live in the US but I've been watching your channel and other budgeting videos. Budget has been tight lately and watching your videos keeps me in check. I stopped watching haul and travel videos. I've accepted the fact that I am not having much fun this year to save money 😂

  • @thtcynthia
    @thtcynthia Год назад +121

    I too have and am in the same position. Dating someone with an incredible amount of discipline with his own money , savings and investments he really sat me down to get serious with my debt. Literally pushed me to leave my 20k a year job to now I’m making 45k not much for many but a blessing for me. It’s HARD cutting old spending habits … a lot of it for me is going out with friends which I have not done anymore along with eating out and I’ve seen a huge difference… I’ve paid off a good amount of debt off but as I said it’s not easy but not impossible …goodluck to anyone on the same boat. Credit card companies love eating you alive with their interests. Be smart

    • @90kevin20
      @90kevin20 Год назад +12

      Honestly you don't have a spending problem 20k is almost nothing It wouldn't pay my mortgage after taxes even let alone everything else.

    • @dbradford7169
      @dbradford7169 Год назад +9

      @@90kevin20 definitely an income problem not a spending problem

    • @TheGamingAudiophile
      @TheGamingAudiophile Год назад

      Are you dating me?

    • @Outwardpd
      @Outwardpd Год назад +9

      I hope you're still seeing your friends often and you've just cut down on your spending for those events. Don't allow yourself to get isolated from friends and family and becoming reliant on a person that conveniently swoops into your life and changes it.

    • @dmuwina
      @dmuwina Год назад +3

      @@90kevin20 most people have both problems. When their income goes up their lifestyle spending also goes up. The OP has already stated that she struggled with old spending habits but you want to say to her its not spending but income. I say it's both. And if you don't fix your spending a higher income won't fix the problems.

  • @youngblisslife4308
    @youngblisslife4308 Год назад +71

    Girl...I didnt grow up in poverty but we were definitely along the lines of working poor with some hella supportive grandparents. I could never be as care free as her about cc debt.

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 Год назад

      Sameee

    • @anonymity2882
      @anonymity2882 Год назад +2

      She doesnt take any of this seriously AT ALL. Shes clearly delusional.

    • @no0bbbb
      @no0bbbb Год назад

      These people are given breaks and will continue to as long as people keep voting democrat. Watch the student loans get completely forgiven by Biden as his 2024 run campaign pitch. There are no consequences.

    • @no0bbbb
      @no0bbbb Год назад +1

      Then it gets passed down to the actual financially literate responsible citizens

    • @youngblisslife4308
      @youngblisslife4308 Год назад +1

      @no0bbbb I pay my student loans and will DEFINITELY revote for Biden if he forgive student loans. Us millennials are scrapping by with high rent prices, grocery prices, car prices, insurance prices, interest rates....yea... ill take that student loan forgiveness

  • @Mtgvixen
    @Mtgvixen Год назад +5

    She sounds like me from two years ago. Just no plan, spend how I want, I spent WAYYY more eating out. I found budget youtube + Dave Ramsey, you, etc.. and I've completely changed my life. I started with small, attainable goals and have reached every one and continue to push. It doesn't have to be overwhelming, you got this girl :)

  • @restingsmirkface
    @restingsmirkface Год назад +9

    Just keeping track of 9 CCs seems like a part-time job!
    I've never had more than two credit cards at once. Eventually stopped using one until they closed it (0 balance) because it was just easier to deal with one bill & payment.

    • @baconoftheark
      @baconoftheark 10 месяцев назад

      I have multiple credit cards, and I keep track of my credit cards with Google sheets to keep track of my balance, credit limit, credit utilization, priority spending, welcome bonuses, notes, and when to apply for credit limit increase.
      I pay down my balance in full and keep track of monthly charges for credit cards I rarely use. It's possible to be a credit card person xD.
      It seems like a lot, but seeing a beautiful spreadsheet with functional formulas. I can understand this amount of set could seem overwhelming.

  • @johnpc14
    @johnpc14 Год назад +5

    dude your channel is so addicting it's hard to explain

  • @a.c.n.b.6353
    @a.c.n.b.6353 Год назад +1

    I found this channel two days ago and I’m hooked. I NEED a channel like this. I’m in hella debt and had a shopping addiction since birth practically haha. I’m ready to cut up these credit cards and get through this. Also helps that you’re in the same city!🙌🏾 I subscribed immediately thank you so much for educating the masses. It’s crazy how millions of people are in the same or similar predicament due to lack of financial literacy.

    • @stephanieweeks3489
      @stephanieweeks3489 Год назад

      Same! I discovered this channel like a week ago and have made a good debt snowball plan and I’m committed to getting a lot of it knocked out. My parents weren’t good with money and I’m not BLAMING them, only I think it helps me understand why and how I got here and how I need to challenge those financial beliefs.

  • @instantsus_
    @instantsus_ Год назад +3

    watching these videos to make me feel better about my financial situation cannot be healthy

  • @AdADglgmutShevanel
    @AdADglgmutShevanel Год назад +10

    At least she's admitting to everything and being honest. Most of the people you interview sound like they won't take any of your advice, but she definitely seems like she'll do better.

  • @tikahardy647
    @tikahardy647 Год назад +1

    Glad she took the first step and met with you to figure out the problem

  • @klh2m661
    @klh2m661 10 месяцев назад +1

    I can’t change it until I change it!! She heard everything you shared with her!

  • @theglitchmindset2256
    @theglitchmindset2256 Год назад +6

    Here watching before I watch her second video even tho he told me not to

  • @jasonmart741
    @jasonmart741 2 года назад +115

    Would love to see an update video in a few months with her.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  2 года назад +35

      I absolutely want to do this!

    • @ALEXFVHS
      @ALEXFVHS Год назад +12

      A month later these people are on the street with a cardboard sign demanding tax payers be on a hook for their student loans

  • @debtfreemiggie
    @debtfreemiggie Год назад

    I have been watching some of your newer videos, and really like them. I recently saw the follow up video for Tyshawn and wanted to watch this one. So much can change in a year and so much can stay the same as well. There is so much tied to money and spending that is psychological. Debt is a big problem in the United States. I myself have paid off consumer debt many times over but keep going back into it.

  • @perdybirdie
    @perdybirdie Год назад +72

    She honestly seems like she has a big heart and can do well. It seems like her family takes a lot of her money (unfortunately common for black women), and her sporadic mindset and not having a fulltime job is really messing her up. If she gets therapy for her family issues, mindset and financial help with a higher job I think she will be okay.

    • @anonymity2882
      @anonymity2882 Год назад +1

      She worked at Spectrum. How much money could they take? She basically made next to minimum wage.

  • @arifsadman8501
    @arifsadman8501 Год назад +11

    It's a great, informative video. However, it's disheartening to see so many young people under 30 are going thru what she is going thru. I had to face a similar problem when I moved from NYC to Atlanta, I had to buy a used car and now I have insane monthly payments.

  • @pearlivory3483
    @pearlivory3483 Год назад +5

    Man I remember being in a similar (4 maxed cards) situation… you just gotta pull it together and make sacrifices and make it a priority

  • @tinaharris1627
    @tinaharris1627 Год назад +28

    This makes me sad. A lot of ppl just don’t have the “know how” before coming of age and making these decisions. It took me 3yrs to settle on what car to buy. Mechanic laughed but told him a car is not a benefit as it depreciates as soon as u drive off the lot. I paid all cash for my car to avoid payments n high insurance. Even when i had the cash dealers would bully me to take a payment. Cash buyers don’t keep them fed. But I’m not foolish enough to fall for their ish. I tried to get rid of one of my credit cards but in the end kept it as my b.s. card due to a low credit line. Other two i use. One for “fun” because the points system is great n i love using my points. The other is a back up bill card as some companies don’t accept my debit. Some reason certain companies come back as Fraud in my debit. So it wasn’t worth dealing with that headache. N want to start my son on it to teach him finances. $200 limit i think is reasonable for a b.s. card lol Only one card needs to b paid off n i have it in savings to pay it off. I’m just pacing myself as everything is upside down now. But I’m settled on paying it off this month. Have multiple savings accounts n my 401k. I feel my finances r horrible. Even tho i have no other debt. Not anymore after seeing these videos. But my heart breaks for them all

  • @camaya9065
    @camaya9065 Год назад +24

    I think you’ve helped her learn. If all you’ve been around are broke people then imagine the odds of you not handling money well. I enjoy your content!

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +5

      I hope I did! And thank you so much :)

  • @unhott1893
    @unhott1893 Год назад +31

    This poor girl's future will be ruined if she does not get ahead of these 9 maxxed out credit cards.
    The only people who are genuinely laughing are the credit card companies, who are making a killing off of people like her. It's really sad. She is victim to many financial fallacies, like "it was auntie anne's at the airport, therefore it was a justified expense" - how does that make any sense?
    (Full-disclosure, I am also guilty of these traps! I'll go work on myself now, and best of luck to this girl!)

  • @hm-rl2yx
    @hm-rl2yx Год назад +5

    The car loans are really the kicker for so many of your guests. I sold my leased hyundia veloster during the car peak last year for a profit, bought a 2005 honda CRV from facebook, and put the rest of the money into savings. Best financial decision I've ever made

    • @redstateforever
      @redstateforever Год назад

      IKR? I bought a 2008 Lincoln MKX in 2014 for $14k, paid cash. It just this week rolled 100k miles (I work from home, don’t drive too much except for the occasional long trip to see family). It’s a beautiful car inside, really comfy on long rides, spacious for passengers and cargo. I am now having to put a little into it to keep it in shape, and will probably have to decide whether that’s still worth it at some point, but basically, I’ve spent less than $2k/year for a very nice ride, none of that in interest. I know people with monthly payments bigger than that. I really don’t get it, why do folks want to spend so much money on a nice car when they don’t have to? Crazy to me. And the car’s still worth $6-7k. I could get almost half my money back, 9 years later. Can’t get much cheaper than that, and I’m not even in a beater.

  • @jimmyboy1582
    @jimmyboy1582 Год назад +1

    I love this story. I have been there. I am paying debts as fast possible now.

  • @s1074007
    @s1074007 Год назад +9

    How could she not stress at all? It’s kind of amazing.

    • @c.johnson1789
      @c.johnson1789 Год назад +3

      Nah she looks stressed asl. She's just optimistic and hopeful.

  • @rickyp1835
    @rickyp1835 Год назад +5

    This series is very insightful and exciting. Could you do a video of where you break down where people should be financially by age or income.
    Could be a series going up in age by five years or salary by 10,000 increments.

  • @copertop
    @copertop Год назад +9

    Love the concept and real world interviews! I'd like to see more structure to how you review the Debts, incomes, assets, liabilities, and other things. maybe a running summary on the screen too.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +1

      MOre recent videos are much better at this :)

    • @malakaichanel3321
      @malakaichanel3321 Год назад

      Good idea Jon. A standard review with tables and “bottom line” totals would be helpful. This would make comparisons/contrasts between these financial train wrecks easier.

  • @shedelineulysse3387
    @shedelineulysse3387 Год назад +16

    Hu Caleb, i would love to be featured on your show. Watching these videos has opened my eyes to my terrible spending habits but i dont know how to dig myself out of the hole that I’ve dug. Let me know!

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад

      castingcalebhammer.com if you're able to come to Austin :)

  • @elijahwhite2624
    @elijahwhite2624 5 месяцев назад +1

    Love the random bass drop while talking about Acorns

  • @chubbyamanda6839
    @chubbyamanda6839 Год назад +64

    Just when I thought the card debt would be the last one, you whip out another one🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ best of luck to her honestly. This is breaking my heart

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +8

      Right?! Just kept coming, and they don't stop coming. Fed to the rules and I hit the ground runnin'

    • @raz7573
      @raz7573 Год назад

      It was like a parade.

    • @anonymity2882
      @anonymity2882 Год назад +1

      Why? Would you buy a new car and max out 9 credit cards? This was irresponsibly to the maxed. Get it haha

  • @jmoneybagsss
    @jmoneybagsss Год назад +32

    this page gonna blow up no time when people realize their financial situations can leave them homeless

  • @januaryriches3991
    @januaryriches3991 Год назад +2

    Caleb, this was one of the best vids I’ve seen about cars. Very powerful to realize that building generational wealth is being traded for a car

  • @stephanieweeks3489
    @stephanieweeks3489 Год назад

    I love these episodes, I love seeing what others are dealing with financially and hearing Caleb offer tips and a plan to get out of it. Really motivates me to make smarter decisions financially and also reminds me that I too can get to a debt-free place. I would never be able to go on camera and share my financial statements with Caleb, I’d be smiling on camera and brushing stuff off and then after I’d be scream crying in my car 😅😅😅

  • @dadspokestop
    @dadspokestop Год назад +3

    Jesus this is so addicting, I was recommended by you because of all the Dave Ramsey videos I watch and I think I've watched most of your videos already, keep up the good work, as a fellow Austinite I feel like its our duty to bring financial responsibility to our peers. P.S love the reactions XD

  • @orionmckenzie3009
    @orionmckenzie3009 Год назад +7

    I’m a fresh 18 year old and am excited about trying to have a financially literate future. Especially with my career path of wanting to become a concert violinist as well as a violin professor I’m going to need to learn and use financial tools in order for me to succeed in a. Field where many people fail, even if it means extra side hustles and jobs! Thanks for the great content looking forward to you blowing up in the future! Do you have any other socials besides tik tok and RUclips?

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +1

      Thank you! And I do :) linked in the bio! As a fellow musician, I'm really rooting for you!

  • @baldmadi
    @baldmadi Год назад

    thank you for not using background music through the conversation in your newer videos! i have consumed all the recent ones so moving onto the archives. it’s very hard to concentrate on the speakers with the background noise.

  • @boatenthusiastandexplorer6961
    @boatenthusiastandexplorer6961 Год назад +1

    Like your content new to the channel I watch this cause I want to avoid situations like this and I see videos like this as a learning lesson to be more financially aware and don’t over spend on credit cards I’m new to building credit and already have 2 credit cards

  • @user-hy2jg6eo2o
    @user-hy2jg6eo2o Месяц назад +3

    Caleb is definitely a calmer person in those days.

  • @TBird770
    @TBird770 Год назад +14

    The good news is, now she’s aware. Knocking out any one of those cards will be a big win for her if she uses the snowball method. Hopefully that gives her enough satisfaction to keep going. Time to take control.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад

      Agreed!

    • @nicbell8090
      @nicbell8090 Год назад

      Facts. Hit one or two of those cards, that’s an extra $150 in her pockets, to use to hit another card, and another

  • @JD-jf2tl
    @JD-jf2tl Год назад +2

    IF you see this comment, please don’t do door dash, Uber, etc. the extra miles and ware and tare you will put on your vehicle isn’t worth it. The 2013 Chevy Equinox’s are known for timing chain issues at 80k miles and above. Once it starts you basically have to replace the engine. Please do your research before buying a vehicle.

  • @Mike_Davidson
    @Mike_Davidson 6 месяцев назад +1

    Whenever I feel like my finances are a disaster, I just watch one of Caleb’s videos to cheer me up. 😂😂😂

  • @maddiee623
    @maddiee623 Год назад +3

    And this is why you budget! So stuff like this doesn’t happen.
    Also I need to do this to see what I spend money on and such. These videos are so good to watch!

  • @stonecoldsigma
    @stonecoldsigma 2 года назад +21

    Great stuff! Poor girl is really settling herself up for failure.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  2 года назад

      Thank you, I appreciate it :)

    • @KobeCorona-uj3zb
      @KobeCorona-uj3zb Год назад +1

      She’s like my sister and my sister just got pregnant

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад

      @@KobeCorona-uj3zb ope 😬

  • @leelowe1
    @leelowe1 Год назад +13

    I think sometimes things get so out of whack that people get paralyzed and think its easier to live with it instead of making a change. She has financially screwed herself at 26 and then ups and quits a stable job. It's a sucky place to be and she has to make the sacrifice and effort to do better if she doesn't want to be in the same position 10 years down the lane living paycheck to paycheck. I can't figure out if her nonchalance and lack of urgency is because she feels hopeless or she just doesn't care.

    • @shelbywilliams
      @shelbywilliams Год назад

      I personally agree that she seems to feel hopeless. When you grow up poor, having money as an adult is a luxury. But that can ruin your future if you don’t get it together. She needs therapy!

  • @AmbitiouslyMotivated
    @AmbitiouslyMotivated Год назад +19

    She did so much talking, but I don’t think she did much listening. Anything that was brought up, she had an excuse for it. She did acknowledge a few things, but she always had an excuse as to why she won’t do it. She seems to be only living for today, or immediately now, no thoughts on the future . I truly hope she and the others absorb what this man is teaching them. Sometimes you need that tough love to change, but who knows if they will.

    • @candy2325
      @candy2325 Год назад

      I agree. So many stories about why she did something gave me anxiety 😥

    • @mzcain1521
      @mzcain1521 Год назад

      I’m confused as to why she thought it was okay to quit her job

    • @navytanutrof1823
      @navytanutrof1823 Год назад +1

      @@mzcain1521 because she does like to talk to people when her job was customer service. This is crazy. This new generation wants no pain but all the gain. Imagine a man trying to get with this lady. SMH.

    • @user-se3zd8bb8h
      @user-se3zd8bb8h Год назад

      She's trying to save face by making up excuses on the fly, because she's really embarrassed about the situation and how she could be perceived for her lack of discipline, restraint and self-control.

  • @davelarry5838
    @davelarry5838 Год назад +45

    Seems like one of the biggest problems is that financial institutions/ corporations are approving people for too much debt. Is there any underwriting anymore or is it this person has a pulse and he is given access to a loan he cannot afford?

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  Год назад +10

      Right?!

    • @4zn1nv4zn3
      @4zn1nv4zn3 Год назад

      totally, isn't it in their best interests to only approve ppl that can actually pay back for the things that these companies are fronting

    • @Lauren_C
      @Lauren_C Год назад +1

      For the creditors themselves, the minuscule limits are probably borderline rounding errors for them.

    • @grazynawolska8160
      @grazynawolska8160 Год назад +1

      I used to think this too... that banks should be more stringent giving a loan but in reality they are a business. If they deny someone in need a loan at 10% thst person will go to private lenders and get a loan at 20 or 30% or higher. The issue is more I think in the moral issue of it all, which businesses won't do because their interest is to make as much money as possible. Therefore the onus is on the customer to protect themselves and live frugally/responsibly.

  • @Azviman03
    @Azviman03 Год назад +11

    it seems the convenience of e-payments for everything disconnects people from how much they are actually spending

  • @christopherduncan803
    @christopherduncan803 Год назад +2

    As a 2012 Equinox owner, I recommend you seriously watch your oil level, especially if you have the 2.4 liter engine.

  • @PhoenixFabled
    @PhoenixFabled Год назад +2

    I sure don't miss this music in the background. 😂😂

  • @InTheNameOfLife1
    @InTheNameOfLife1 Год назад +30

    “I try not to think about it too much”, “at least it’s going towards something” etc. that’s the mentality right there- ignoring the problem and letting it build with excuses. That’s only what she let out verbally, but in her mind there are many more excuses and dismissals. It’s all about rerouting those thoughts. Stopping yourself in your tracks when those “it’s just one more” thoughts come up. My biggest issue was buying takeout because I’m constant too tired for cooking. But discipline saved me there. You have to have a reason and make a serious point about changing these habits. Also I moved out of my main city. It was too expensive, moving 30 minutes away was enough to cut rent quite a bit. Austin is very expensive. I also have a beater Kia! It’s so freeing not to have a monthly car payment with high insurance.

    • @AndrewsProduction100
      @AndrewsProduction100 Год назад

      She doesn’t care, don’t make her care. Let her be poor but educate her that it’s her fault

  • @AylaHirsch
    @AylaHirsch 2 года назад +20

    Her car payment is what I pay on my 2021 hybrid RAV4 😦

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  2 года назад +1

      Yikes!

    • @adesuwa9112
      @adesuwa9112 Год назад

      Yeah I have a 2017 Jetta w/ about a $100 lower car note than hers- the dealership she went to really screwed her over 😫😕

  • @BLee-ik3ty
    @BLee-ik3ty Год назад

    Stable income is a MUST however that work lifestyle is just not for everyone but you can pay off debt overtime. I can do relate to her I have came a long way and I hope she is doing so much better. People need this kind of sit down talk to lay everything out.

  • @flyingscalpel7
    @flyingscalpel7 Год назад +1

    I really hope she gets things under control. I hope you do follow ups!

  • @vlone_slatt3504
    @vlone_slatt3504 2 года назад +36

    $440 a month on a 2013 with 67,000 miles 😧😳

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  2 года назад +2

      It hurts 😬😬

    • @Daniel-jk9ge
      @Daniel-jk9ge Год назад +1

      I thought that was good lol

    • @noseefood1943
      @noseefood1943 Месяц назад +1

      $20k for 2013 equinox with 69k miles financed with sub 600 credit score = monumental bad decision

  • @tmusa2002
    @tmusa2002 Год назад +3

    IMPORTANT NOTE: When you deliver food or give people rides, most insurance companies require added insurance AND ALSO for most, if you are in an accident while working without it, your insurance will not cover you AT ALL. My 19-year-old son pays $60 extra/month to drive Door Dash. Don’t chance this! Get insurance!

  • @soundsokf
    @soundsokf Год назад

    love the interviews, the music is driving everybody crazy though

  • @omarlopez.photos
    @omarlopez.photos Год назад +4

    this is the content RUclips needs! love this!

  • @chantemcnish92
    @chantemcnish92 Год назад +3

    First time watcher: I'm sort of disappointed cause I was truly hoping that the advice at the end took into account her financial intelligence as well as her emotional tie to the situation. When I started working with clients I realized it's truly important to show them the hard truth while uncovering the emotional triggers. There were some glaring themes that weren’t discussed that I think she would have benefited from. But maybe that wasn't the point of the audit, would hope in the future that could be incorporated.

  • @2HootHoot
    @2HootHoot Год назад +3

    I hecka want a financial audit now

  • @MisterModder123
    @MisterModder123 Год назад +1

    I've been working for spectrum (started when it was charter) for almost a decade now and it's a great, well paying job for not needing an education.