I cant remember my "last she's interested in you gym edition", but i would to give another view. Gym is a quality time space and i would be careful how i approach conversations. Keep it cool, authentic and pure imo. You dont wanna ruin this space for you, for this women or for others. If there's a opportunity falling in your place, why not, but i would not force, if there are no signs of similar frequency.
funny, I had a girl who gave 6/10 signs of interest gave her my number but messed up by being on the phone with her for 40 minutes afterwards lol probably gave off boyfriend vibes I didn't even know it was an issue until like a month later and I reflected on why tf would I be on the phone for 40 minutes with a girl before meeting up lol we learn everyday
Facts we learn everyday and there’s always another one. And it might not have been the fact that you were on the phone but maybe how you were coming off or what you were talking about as well. Cause I actually like to FT a girl before meeting up with her so I can make sure she looks like what I think she does if I meet her on a dating app lol and that hasn’t hindered me too much. I just have conversation that lets her know I’m not the boyfriend type.
@ oh that is also possible the conversation went amazing so I was so confused as to why she didn't want to meet up after I used a seductive tone and didn't even give off a friendly vibe, we talked about movies, her gym journey and other things maybe it's because she went on a trip for a few days in between when I gave her my number and when I tried to ask her to hang out I heard it on AMS channel that even something like that can ruin the momentum, unless she's crazy attracted to you we live and learn tho, thanks for your videos been binging them a lot
I sent you an email of my messages with a girl playing games on Facebook dating. Too many dating app chicks are just on there for money. I’m about to watch this rn though. I’m talking tm 😂
Yeah, I just replied to your reply, the situation was so Deja Vú for me but as far as this video…….i don’t think a woman in the gym has ever made it obvious that they liked me. I mean one girl, thought that I was her cousin.
Ive had girls in the gym initiate the convo, ask for my number, then never send the introductory text. The gym seems to be a weird place where they just want to feel validated. Makes me feel ...cheap. Like, why bother me? I look shallow, but im not.lol So now, I just ignore them... even tho, I dislike do so.
lmfao i purposely workout alone upstairs by the changing rooms n treadmills cuz the female only section is right next to it just to do that mirror thing when they passing by🤣🤣 funny
I’ll confirm, chicks will check you out. I get checked out a lot, especially by taken women, in the gym. I do throw some chicks off after having talked to them for a bit and realizing they’re on some bs, walked away, and now those chicks get super pressed about you. It’s weird, but hey, they missed on for being on some stupid shit lol
Facts Brodie I see girls with their man, next day he not there n she be choosing all on me. Catch them then they look away. Sometimes even when the boyfriend is there with them sometimes
What about if your using machines like 15 feet away from her and she comes up to ask to use some Plates that are on your machine when there are plenty of other machines right next to her with plates on them
I would take that as a light sign and ignore it and see if she gives stronger ones. But regardless you can still find a good time and opportunity to start a conversation and see if she’s receptive. But make sure it’s a natural thing.
I have been going to the gym for 7 years and I have never seen any woman ever wearing earphones or headphones at all. I wonder whether that is just an american thing.
@@MarvOverMatter I forgot to mention that I wear earphones all the time though. I think I am also the only person in the gym who puts his phone in the locker
Proximity. Bonus, if she takes one of her ear buds out/has a headphone off when she walks by (and walks by slowly). Be cautious on acting on these choosing signals. Some girls just want the attention/validation and she might often times have a bf on the low and will reject you. If you really think she’s attractive, shoot your shot and take the chance, but don’t rack up many rejections and be known as the guy that tries to hit on every girl at your home gym, girls talk
@@davidwhite206 Same reputation 😂. I've had some obvious choosing signals thrown and I ignore them all. Not going to sh*t where I eat. I'm good. So many other places to meet.
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I cant remember my "last she's interested in you gym edition", but i would to give another view. Gym is a quality time space and i would be careful how i approach conversations. Keep it cool, authentic and pure imo. You dont wanna ruin this space for you, for this women or for others. If there's a opportunity falling in your place, why not, but i would not force, if there are no signs of similar frequency.
Couldn’t have said it better myself. 💯
@@MarvOverMatter thanks❤
I agree. The gym is the only place I have peace. Id rather not have awkwardness in the gym.
What do you know about frequency? 😋
@@_FightForYourFreedom_ from which emotions a human operate and how they look into the world. fear and greed for example (low)or love(high)
That convo is a big one
I got the signs then fumbled it like dammit your self esteem takes a hit
It’s all good there will be more. Now you know.
funny, I had a girl who gave 6/10 signs of interest
gave her my number but messed up by being on the phone with her for 40 minutes afterwards lol
probably gave off boyfriend vibes
I didn't even know it was an issue until like a month later and I reflected on why tf would I be on the phone for 40 minutes with a girl before meeting up lol
we learn everyday
Facts we learn everyday and there’s always another one. And it might not have been the fact that you were on the phone but maybe how you were coming off or what you were talking about as well. Cause I actually like to FT a girl before meeting up with her so I can make sure she looks like what I think she does if I meet her on a dating app lol and that hasn’t hindered me too much. I just have conversation that lets her know I’m not the boyfriend type.
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oh that is also possible
the conversation went amazing so I was so confused as to why she didn't want to meet up after
I used a seductive tone and didn't even give off a friendly vibe, we talked about movies, her gym journey and other things
maybe it's because she went on a trip for a few days in between when I gave her my number and when I tried to ask her to hang out
I heard it on AMS channel that even something like that can ruin the momentum, unless she's crazy attracted to you
we live and learn tho, thanks for your videos
been binging them a lot
To me it sounds like gym baddies be only for the trainers
I sent you an email of my messages with a girl playing games on Facebook dating. Too many dating app chicks are just on there for money. I’m about to watch this rn though. I’m talking tm 😂
Yeah, I just replied to your reply, the situation was so Deja Vú for me but as far as this video…….i don’t think a woman in the gym has ever made it obvious that they liked me. I mean one girl, thought that I was her cousin.
Great vid bro
Preciate it 🙏🏾
Ive had girls in the gym initiate the convo, ask for my number, then never send the introductory text.
The gym seems to be a weird place where they just want to feel validated.
Makes me feel ...cheap.
Like, why bother me?
I look shallow, but im not.lol
So now, I just ignore them... even tho, I dislike do so.
Yeah it’s weird in the gym but it’s where most guys are going to be around women without going out of their way
lmfao i purposely workout alone upstairs by the changing rooms n treadmills cuz the female only section is right next to it just to do that mirror thing when they passing by🤣🤣 funny
Lmao we all been there
I’ll confirm, chicks will check you out. I get checked out a lot, especially by taken women, in the gym. I do throw some chicks off after having talked to them for a bit and realizing they’re on some bs, walked away, and now those chicks get super pressed about you. It’s weird, but hey, they missed on for being on some stupid shit lol
That drives them crazy when you don’t want em lol
Right? Cant stand the games
Facts Brodie I see girls with their man, next day he not there n she be choosing all on me. Catch them then they look away. Sometimes even when the boyfriend is there with them sometimes
What about if your using machines like 15 feet away from her and she comes up to ask to use some Plates that are on your machine when there are plenty of other machines right next to her with plates on them
I would take that as a light sign and ignore it and see if she gives stronger ones. But regardless you can still find a good time and opportunity to start a conversation and see if she’s receptive. But make sure it’s a natural thing.
I have been going to the gym for 7 years and I have never seen any woman ever wearing earphones or headphones at all. I wonder whether that is just an american thing.
Should be easier for you then.
@@MarvOverMatter I forgot to mention that I wear earphones all the time though. I think I am also the only person in the gym who puts his phone in the locker
your gym is garbage G
School edition?
Ya fr school edition😂, need that
Lmao school? Y’all in high school or college?
@@MarvOverMatter, college
@@MarvOverMatter am at uni
Proximity. Bonus, if she takes one of her ear buds out/has a headphone off when she walks by (and walks by slowly). Be cautious on acting on these choosing signals. Some girls just want the attention/validation and she might often times have a bf on the low and will reject you. If you really think she’s attractive, shoot your shot and take the chance, but don’t rack up many rejections and be known as the guy that tries to hit on every girl at your home gym, girls talk
Very good point about getting that reputation. You don’t want that at all. Good points
I'm probably more known as the guy who ignores them all. I see the choosing signals, but the risk of fucking up that space for myself is not worth it.
@@davidwhite206dude I think I hav the same reputation, and I work there😅
@@davidwhite206 Same reputation 😂. I've had some obvious choosing signals thrown and I ignore them all. Not going to sh*t where I eat. I'm good. So many other places to meet.
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Women don’t analyze anything about men in the gym. 😂
False
@ show me content of women discussing what men discuss about them. I’ll wait ….