After 10 Years Together, I Caught My Wife Cheating While I Was Recovering From Cancer Surgery. But..

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  • After 10 Years Together, I Caught My Wife Cheating While I Was Recovering From Cancer Surgery. But She Won't Admit Anything or Talk About It.
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  • @gwenrichard7507
    @gwenrichard7507 7 месяцев назад +82

    Write a letter to your kids explaining the times and dates.
    Tell the grandparents.
    Tell her work.
    Tell the partners of her female friends.
    She will use any resources you allow her to take the children away from you and leave you penny less.

    • @flexjohnson18
      @flexjohnson18 7 месяцев назад

      He's still bound to lose because family courts are so absolutely anti male it doesn't matter if the wife is a serial killer

  • @Khaghaan
    @Khaghaan 7 месяцев назад +132

    Sucks that the guy didn't immediately divorce, but she had her chance nonethless and didn't better herself, atleast OP's free now.

    • @ianmoritzplatapino3684
      @ianmoritzplatapino3684 7 месяцев назад +9

      If she doesn't respect you, she will never love you

    • @Khaghaan
      @Khaghaan 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@ianmoritzplatapino3684 Exactly which is why I would immediately divorce, if I ever get cheated on.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 7 месяцев назад +6

      I have to double check, but he's in the Ukraine, dealing with a wife in Europe. I'm pretty sure divorce court is all but shut down, causing him to deal with an adultress while he waits.

    • @Khaghaan
      @Khaghaan 7 месяцев назад

      @@ianmoritzplatapino3684 Which is why I'd immediately divorce, if I get cheated on.

    • @Khaghaan
      @Khaghaan 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@Maninawig ngl I wouldn't hold anything back after getting catching her cheat.

  • @brianarnold8666
    @brianarnold8666 7 месяцев назад

    Mf hasnt even tried to get custody

    • @bradstical86
      @bradstical86 7 месяцев назад +3

      Jeez I wonder effing why🤔

    • @Ksinloveee
      @Ksinloveee 7 месяцев назад

      Hmm let’s wonder why?😱

    • @therealneutrxl
      @therealneutrxl 7 месяцев назад

      Bro really typed this word for word and pressed send🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @yeyosilver7067
    @yeyosilver7067 7 месяцев назад +58

    Wait, she left two 7 and 2 year olds home alone for over two hours????? This was already a reason to report
    I can't believe he let her keep the kids

    • @flexjohnson18
      @flexjohnson18 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yea if family courts weren't so fucked this guy would be a case for the dad being in the 9% of men who get custody I think if this is Europe it's damn near 100% of women getting custody in the E.U.

    • @MrMonnTM
      @MrMonnTM 6 месяцев назад

      They are Ukranians as I suspect, it's normal for them (not for everyone but seen it as acceptable on occasions). 7y old watches over 2y old, small one shat her pants.....Well bad but a small irritation nothing more, getting a European hubby who earns a lot more than her ex-hubby is more important. If she pleases her new hubby she can provide her children with better life (though i doubt that even an European simp will agree to move in with 2 children, so she might be making a grave mistake).

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar 7 месяцев назад +36

    Maybe the first cancer was a blessing in disguise... it opened OP's eyes to the other cancer in his life, that he's about to free himself from.

  • @stevenmanson6720
    @stevenmanson6720 7 месяцев назад +45

    It pisses me off that they victim blaming in thes comments
    Its the wife u should be calling out
    He was going thought cancer yet she cheated

    • @Khaghaan
      @Khaghaan 7 месяцев назад +14

      Cheaters always side with their kind

    • @bradstical86
      @bradstical86 7 месяцев назад +8

      Fr man apprently suffering from cancer, depression, exclusion from ur kids, a war, and emotional lonliness means u can still instantly make an informed decision to split Ur family and potentially loose Ur kids
      Ppl who just comment doormat just don't have the maturity to look at the emotional and physical turmoil op is in

    • @Porchy.
      @Porchy. 7 месяцев назад

      The thing about these reddit posts is that we never get to hear the story of the other side. Of course the authors would always paint themselves as the perfect husbands and martyrs, but how close are they really to the truth?
      "I loved her for years and never cheated on her." How true could this statement be?
      Im just convinced that every story in there is made up.

  • @JenniferJohnson-l3r
    @JenniferJohnson-l3r 7 месяцев назад +21

    @15:24
    My favorite line from ALL OP's
    "I AM GOING NO CONTACT"
    Two weeks later Wife and OP "STILL TALKING 😂😂😂"

  • @WarMommy9000
    @WarMommy9000 7 месяцев назад +11

    This is one of the largest things that even happen to those fighting in wars because they aren't allowed to leave their most trusted love ones betray them and all they have left is themselves or brotherhood

  • @ScanTronIndustries
    @ScanTronIndustries 7 месяцев назад +5

    Bruh, why hide the country. We all know which country it is.

  • @chessieray1465
    @chessieray1465 7 месяцев назад +6

    Hopefully OP and the kids' bond remains strong.

  • @reillycurran8508
    @reillycurran8508 7 месяцев назад +2

    Surprised the diagnosis alone didn't let OP leave the country, IDK what the draft rules are in Ukraine (I'm assuming given he occasionally drops articles) but usually the sick and injured are entirely disqualified even when countries are boiling down to using child soldiers, because even if they wanted to fight, they physically can't.

  • @SelflessHero
    @SelflessHero 7 месяцев назад +4

    OP should have immediately divorced.

  • @arhael3594
    @arhael3594 7 месяцев назад +6

    Take kids back to Ukraine. Change house. Do not disclose location. No one gonna care to spend resources on finding him. Enjoy life with kids without her.

  • @19rafar77
    @19rafar77 2 месяца назад

    This sounds like that guy is from Ukraine considering all that talk about war in the beggining and such, and he probably is.

  • @Maxidemt
    @Maxidemt 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is heartbreaking

  • @gamerkat1492
    @gamerkat1492 7 месяцев назад

    I would've taken her phone sent them to myself then deleted them &v leaving kids like that ALONE I am sorry that is child abandonment the father could EASILY get custody & if they are living in the Middle East there HAS to be some harsh punishment for stepping outside of your marriage I do pray for the hubby & the kids & they come out well I hope his cancer stays gone

  • @avishekroy5168
    @avishekroy5168 7 месяцев назад +3

    Women likes to play victim car no matter what.

  • @HydrarGyros7
    @HydrarGyros7 7 месяцев назад

    Why does this channel not post the op username. It wpuld be nice to get updates or to keep up with peole like this person if he did make an update instead of needing to wait for telltales to make a video

  • @GreyLeo
    @GreyLeo 7 месяцев назад

    Yeah find it odd a lot of Ukrainian women moved on like it was no big deal. A whole lot of Dear Johns

  • @legiontepes3474
    @legiontepes3474 7 месяцев назад +10

    Why tf don't collect proof and show the kids?

    • @Khaghaan
      @Khaghaan 7 месяцев назад +17

      Because they're 7 and 2 years old?

    • @yeyosilver7067
      @yeyosilver7067 7 месяцев назад +5

      Cuz they're kids????

    • @Ksinloveee
      @Ksinloveee 7 месяцев назад +2

      Because they don’t need to be traumatized at a young age?

  • @sribashsarkar4382
    @sribashsarkar4382 7 месяцев назад +12

    Biggest doormat

    • @Ksinloveee
      @Ksinloveee 7 месяцев назад

      Not necessarily

  • @ianmoritzplatapino3684
    @ianmoritzplatapino3684 7 месяцев назад +10

    🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵 another doormat that bites the dust 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 7 месяцев назад +13

      How the hell is a guy caged in the Ukraine and slammed wirh cancer a doormat?

    • @juniormon7514
      @juniormon7514 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Maninawig he gets cheated on and rather than divorce he does the pick me dance .

    • @bradstical86
      @bradstical86 7 месяцев назад

      ​​@@juniormon7514maybe bc just hear us out.....he's facing ya know just a few other major issues and it was hard for him to come to a decision🤔
      I know crazy right somone who cant see his kids therefore by throwing divorce in straight away would drastically affect the outcome of custody as well as dealing with depression, cancer, and a war...couldn't just make the decision of "divorce"

    • @bradstical86
      @bradstical86 7 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@Maninawigmmmm now why could he not make an informed decision 🤔
      Is due to the cancer? The emotional separation from his kids for a year? The war? The depression? Emotional loneliness? Hmmmmmmm I wonder

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 7 месяцев назад

      @@bradstical86 which is why I asked why the commenter called him a doormat.