I have to double check, but he's in the Ukraine, dealing with a wife in Europe. I'm pretty sure divorce court is all but shut down, causing him to deal with an adultress while he waits.
Write a letter to your kids explaining the times and dates. Tell the grandparents. Tell her work. Tell the partners of her female friends. She will use any resources you allow her to take the children away from you and leave you penny less.
Yea if family courts weren't so fucked this guy would be a case for the dad being in the 9% of men who get custody I think if this is Europe it's damn near 100% of women getting custody in the E.U.
They are Ukranians as I suspect, it's normal for them (not for everyone but seen it as acceptable on occasions). 7y old watches over 2y old, small one shat her pants.....Well bad but a small irritation nothing more, getting a European hubby who earns a lot more than her ex-hubby is more important. If she pleases her new hubby she can provide her children with better life (though i doubt that even an European simp will agree to move in with 2 children, so she might be making a grave mistake).
Fr man apprently suffering from cancer, depression, exclusion from ur kids, a war, and emotional lonliness means u can still instantly make an informed decision to split Ur family and potentially loose Ur kids Ppl who just comment doormat just don't have the maturity to look at the emotional and physical turmoil op is in
The thing about these reddit posts is that we never get to hear the story of the other side. Of course the authors would always paint themselves as the perfect husbands and martyrs, but how close are they really to the truth? "I loved her for years and never cheated on her." How true could this statement be? Im just convinced that every story in there is made up.
This is one of the largest things that even happen to those fighting in wars because they aren't allowed to leave their most trusted love ones betray them and all they have left is themselves or brotherhood
Surprised the diagnosis alone didn't let OP leave the country, IDK what the draft rules are in Ukraine (I'm assuming given he occasionally drops articles) but usually the sick and injured are entirely disqualified even when countries are boiling down to using child soldiers, because even if they wanted to fight, they physically can't.
I would've taken her phone sent them to myself then deleted them &v leaving kids like that ALONE I am sorry that is child abandonment the father could EASILY get custody & if they are living in the Middle East there HAS to be some harsh punishment for stepping outside of your marriage I do pray for the hubby & the kids & they come out well I hope his cancer stays gone
Take kids back to Ukraine. Change house. Do not disclose location. No one gonna care to spend resources on finding him. Enjoy life with kids without her.
Why does this channel not post the op username. It wpuld be nice to get updates or to keep up with peole like this person if he did make an update instead of needing to wait for telltales to make a video
@@juniormon7514maybe bc just hear us out.....he's facing ya know just a few other major issues and it was hard for him to come to a decision🤔 I know crazy right somone who cant see his kids therefore by throwing divorce in straight away would drastically affect the outcome of custody as well as dealing with depression, cancer, and a war...couldn't just make the decision of "divorce"
@@Maninawigmmmm now why could he not make an informed decision 🤔 Is due to the cancer? The emotional separation from his kids for a year? The war? The depression? Emotional loneliness? Hmmmmmmm I wonder
Sucks that the guy didn't immediately divorce, but she had her chance nonethless and didn't better herself, atleast OP's free now.
If she doesn't respect you, she will never love you
@@ianmoritzplatapino3684 Exactly which is why I would immediately divorce, if I ever get cheated on.
I have to double check, but he's in the Ukraine, dealing with a wife in Europe. I'm pretty sure divorce court is all but shut down, causing him to deal with an adultress while he waits.
@@ianmoritzplatapino3684 Which is why I'd immediately divorce, if I get cheated on.
@@Maninawig ngl I wouldn't hold anything back after getting catching her cheat.
Write a letter to your kids explaining the times and dates.
Tell the grandparents.
Tell her work.
Tell the partners of her female friends.
She will use any resources you allow her to take the children away from you and leave you penny less.
He's still bound to lose because family courts are so absolutely anti male it doesn't matter if the wife is a serial killer
Maybe the first cancer was a blessing in disguise... it opened OP's eyes to the other cancer in his life, that he's about to free himself from.
Wait, she left two 7 and 2 year olds home alone for over two hours????? This was already a reason to report
I can't believe he let her keep the kids
Yea if family courts weren't so fucked this guy would be a case for the dad being in the 9% of men who get custody I think if this is Europe it's damn near 100% of women getting custody in the E.U.
They are Ukranians as I suspect, it's normal for them (not for everyone but seen it as acceptable on occasions). 7y old watches over 2y old, small one shat her pants.....Well bad but a small irritation nothing more, getting a European hubby who earns a lot more than her ex-hubby is more important. If she pleases her new hubby she can provide her children with better life (though i doubt that even an European simp will agree to move in with 2 children, so she might be making a grave mistake).
It pisses me off that they victim blaming in thes comments
Its the wife u should be calling out
He was going thought cancer yet she cheated
Cheaters always side with their kind
Fr man apprently suffering from cancer, depression, exclusion from ur kids, a war, and emotional lonliness means u can still instantly make an informed decision to split Ur family and potentially loose Ur kids
Ppl who just comment doormat just don't have the maturity to look at the emotional and physical turmoil op is in
The thing about these reddit posts is that we never get to hear the story of the other side. Of course the authors would always paint themselves as the perfect husbands and martyrs, but how close are they really to the truth?
"I loved her for years and never cheated on her." How true could this statement be?
Im just convinced that every story in there is made up.
This is one of the largest things that even happen to those fighting in wars because they aren't allowed to leave their most trusted love ones betray them and all they have left is themselves or brotherhood
@15:24
My favorite line from ALL OP's
"I AM GOING NO CONTACT"
Two weeks later Wife and OP "STILL TALKING 😂😂😂"
Hopefully OP and the kids' bond remains strong.
OP should have immediately divorced.
This is heartbreaking
Bruh, why hide the country. We all know which country it is.
Surprised the diagnosis alone didn't let OP leave the country, IDK what the draft rules are in Ukraine (I'm assuming given he occasionally drops articles) but usually the sick and injured are entirely disqualified even when countries are boiling down to using child soldiers, because even if they wanted to fight, they physically can't.
I would've taken her phone sent them to myself then deleted them &v leaving kids like that ALONE I am sorry that is child abandonment the father could EASILY get custody & if they are living in the Middle East there HAS to be some harsh punishment for stepping outside of your marriage I do pray for the hubby & the kids & they come out well I hope his cancer stays gone
Take kids back to Ukraine. Change house. Do not disclose location. No one gonna care to spend resources on finding him. Enjoy life with kids without her.
This sounds like that guy is from Ukraine considering all that talk about war in the beggining and such, and he probably is.
Yeah find it odd a lot of Ukrainian women moved on like it was no big deal. A whole lot of Dear Johns
Women likes to play victim car no matter what.
Why does this channel not post the op username. It wpuld be nice to get updates or to keep up with peole like this person if he did make an update instead of needing to wait for telltales to make a video
Biggest doormat
Not necessarily
Why tf don't collect proof and show the kids?
Because they're 7 and 2 years old?
Cuz they're kids????
Because they don’t need to be traumatized at a young age?
🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵 another doormat that bites the dust 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶
How the hell is a guy caged in the Ukraine and slammed wirh cancer a doormat?
@@Maninawig he gets cheated on and rather than divorce he does the pick me dance .
@@juniormon7514maybe bc just hear us out.....he's facing ya know just a few other major issues and it was hard for him to come to a decision🤔
I know crazy right somone who cant see his kids therefore by throwing divorce in straight away would drastically affect the outcome of custody as well as dealing with depression, cancer, and a war...couldn't just make the decision of "divorce"
@@Maninawigmmmm now why could he not make an informed decision 🤔
Is due to the cancer? The emotional separation from his kids for a year? The war? The depression? Emotional loneliness? Hmmmmmmm I wonder
@@bradstical86 which is why I asked why the commenter called him a doormat.
Mf hasnt even tried to get custody
Jeez I wonder effing why🤔
Hmm let’s wonder why?😱
Bro really typed this word for word and pressed send🤦🏾♂️