I'm boring lol
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- Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
- I feel like I'm boring but I'm also bored. Why? Because I'm not doing anything at all. I don't know if this is some kind of rut or something, but I should be spending my time in a more fun or productive way. So I guess I just need a hobby, or at leat invest in the things that I like. What even is this video I feel so awkward lololol ALSO WTF IS THIS QUALITY WHAT DID RUclips DO TO MY VIDEO WHAAAAAA
truly, you are not alone. personally, productivity culture has killed my motivation to pay attention to my passions. even passions I love with my whole heart often feel unappealing and its because they don't feel "productive". I hope you find the reason for your lack of motivation and commitment
Thankyou!!
Telling yourself you are too old to learn WHILE IN COLLEGE(a learning institution) is one of the biggest bullshit you have tricked yourself into believing.
well I'm sorry the environment that I'm in is not thaat supportive so i just grew with certain assumptions
Why be so harch unto yourself? Begin to learn sewing the easiest way first and then be encourage to learn more advanced sewing step by step.
How do you pass without even studying?😢😢I study and still fail@@joelssiezz
I've been feeling the same way for a very long time and it only intensified after I ended up dropping out of university. your interests make you interesting, I wouldn't call someone who has tried many, many things "boring". but I understand completely the feeling of being bored or worrying that you aren't interesting enough or good enough at what you do to be interesting. the truth is, it's bullshit. just the desire to explore new things and broaden your horizons is not a trait of a boring person. for me, I find myself overwhelmed by all the choices. there are so many things I could do or try, but I shove it off because it would require effort that I often feel I don't have the energy for. the reality being that hobbies revitalize and enrich your life, and although a skill takes time to develop and you'll never be good at it immediately, it's ultimately rewarding regardless of how skilled you become. no knowledge is ever wasted.
wow, I really resonate with what you said here, thank you for that!
@@joelssiezz of course :) I hope your hobby hunt goes well. don't give up
My hobby is learning new things! Ive realized that I don't need to be or even care if im very good.. I simply enjoy learning and experiencing new things. I also gets a lot of joy from seeing people I care about experience new things. From tanning a hid or making wind-chimes to rafting and meditation... I dabble in it all!❤
greaaaat way to approach it!!
@@joelssiezz I can find satisfaction out of watching a documentary on a lazy day just as well as I can in hiking ancient grounds or learning to run a chainsaw. It's truly the act of acquiring knowledge that stimulates me. The list of things to learn is never ending!
You are so cool to me ❤😊 and also I am trying to implement hobbies
So cool!
Hey babe,there is nothing wrong with you, You are unique, You are different than others, embrace your uniqueness, and take your time to find what motivates you and you find the most interest,passion and zestful energy in learning and mastering.. With a love for fashion , you save up and buy 1 item at time , choice pieces that co-ordinate well with other pieces , like a blouse and flair fit jeans with ankle boots .. And as for seamstress skills there are plenty of turtorials here in you tube .. plus i'm quite there are skills based tuition wherever in the world you ... remember babe , NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU , dont let anyone make believe something wrong with you .. Best advice I was given early in life .. take advice from the people that are living the lifestyle you want to live even if this is many years away and after lots of hard work ,good investment decisions and ( try to find a great mentor ( for whatever field/vocation/academia/arts and sciences You choose? Good Luck Jules, I'll say a few prayers for you and wish you all best with every endeavour you strive to achieve.. xox
Subbed, best thing you can do is keep being real, with everything you do, it'll come, just don't give up! ❤
It’s comforting to me knowing someone else is going through this too :,)
ur never alone!
the scary truth is, time isn't slowing down either!
it's interesting because i have these same thoughts sometimes.
motivation and desire. it's all in the gut.
ur right! and deep down I know that too haha
Thrifting, walking, photography, gardening, camping, reading... I have to many hobbies 😮. Not that I am a professional photographer, but its the fun of doing something you like. So why not pick up that old guitar, break out the paint and brushes and go for it? Even if it's just for an hour a day. And do it for your own pleasure, not to be as good as another person.
Blessings from the Netherlands!
Thank you Eric!! That's really motivatinggg
Jules, I am nearing the end of my college career and am in the same boat. I used to be so energetic and full of life, and now i kinda just....exist. My boredom isnt just "i have nothing to do lol". Its "i dont know what im doing". Sorry for the ramble, thank you for the vid :)
i feel EXACTLY the same way
@joelssiezz things will get better for us...we can only hope :)
Lockpicking ! It's fun and you can always help someone locked out.
dude thats so original!
my mom too , and me too , i cant move
Hey this may or may not be helpful but like pretty much everything you said resonated a lot with my experience of ADHD. I have wide interests but am naturally very quick to abandon hobbies or spread myself too thin across them (I literally had the exact chain of thought about sewing for example), also this feeling of boredom and of time slipping through your fingers, wasting away, wasted potential..
I don't really like the medicalisation of ADHD etc (though meds themselves are very useful for a lot of people), but just approaching the situation as if I 'have' it has improved my self-understanding and has helped me with this problem you're describing. There are lots of things you can do to live up to your own goals better, I'm happy to send you a link to a cool guide on practical techniques that I read and found helpful sometime ago for example, if you'd like that - could be useful whether you yourself 'have' it or not, you know?
Wishing you all the best anyway, be gentle with yourself :)
Hi there, I don't think I have ADHD? Not sure, I also lack discipline I think but sharing the link could be cool! Mayne also for others who feel the same way. Thank you for sharing!
@@joelssiezz sure sure, give it a read anyway if you'd like, hope it's helpful :)
spacetwinks.itch.io/spacetwinks-adhd
(it's pay as you feel, down to 0, to download!)
Omg i have this exact problem. I do have a hobby I am passionate about but im bad at starting a task and time managing. But i do have one piece of advice as a perfectionist procrasinator myself! I dont know about you, but its like i want all the hobbies that are pleasing aestheticaly and then i wonder why I dont practice them or Im not into them as much as I should be. My advice: base your hobies on your dominant type of intelligence. Everyone has a way in which their brains process information and is better at doing one task over other. When you do that prefered sort of task your brain enjoys it and it makes you feel good. There are many intelligence type tests online you can take for free which i suggest you take. Im not saying that you arent into arts and music, of course we can enjoy any hobby we want, but this was my case and i think it would help
damn okay thank you for sharing!
Sometimes i feel like this, you said that you have been 3 days in your house and i've been like months, i feel trapped like in a quarantine or something i just go out to buy food and i'm losing my mind cuz there's nothing interesting to do here
EXACTLY
Just passing through via random suggestion from the algorithm but you dont seem boring! That's a cool idea, recycling thrifted stuff to modernize it and bring it back to life! If thats the style you're wearing currently, i think you could find a market!
The only time youll regret is the time you spend in ignorance! Everything you have/will learn about could be put into fashion somehow if thats what you are interested in. Just find a way to put the pieces together. Maybe the interests wane and pull you somewhere else, explore that too, maybe its another missing piece.
Way I see it people all over the world, old and young, and everything in between sew. Either by hand or machine. Can try watching some tutorials and see if it seems like it interests you. Maybe youll see a cheap machine in a shop as a sign! Maybe you decide its not right after exploring. But then you know and can explore the next thing!
Doesn't have to be what makes you money today for it to be a good investment in yourself!
Hope you have a great week!
Thank youuuu!! Im going to get my grandmothers sewing machine so very excited to kinda start! Love this comment
sewing is not hard, dont be intimidated. It'll take you five minutes to learn how to hand sew, which can be used for almost anything. As for machine sewing, I learned to to use a machine at my local art center when I was 10, but it took a couple classes to get the hang of it.
omg thankyou! I highly appreciate this
Find a friend with ADHD, they will introduce you to a billion things haha!
When I was much younger I was all over the place in terms of my interests, and I used to beat myself up for not focusing on one or two areas. I didn't have the discipline to sit still. I wanted to become an artist, and also a filmmaker among other things. Life led me all over the map. It wasn't until I was in my mid 50's and I had a stable home life that I pulled my paint supplies out of bags, and began painting on the regular that I began to develop myself as a painter to a point where I felt "Wow! I really do have some talent". Then during Covid I began to make films on my computer, and have now made almost 250. I say All this to tell you that life is strange, and funny, you have to take each day as it comes, relax, look for inspiration, don't be too hard on yourself. You already have the secret in you, just let it speak to you, and guide you. Best of to YOU!!!!
THANKYOU!
you have lots of hobbies but you should narrow it down to the one you love. Best thing I could recommend. Hope it all works out for you.
Thankyou!
Well, I was almost 30 when I took up leather working as a hobby. If you’re not a vegetarian or a vegan, it’s a fun thing to get into because you can make your own watch straps, wallets, and eventually bags. I’m sure there is faux leather that’s nice to work with if you are vegetarian or vegan . You can give the items you make as gifts until you get better, then you can even sell your work to fund your hobby. It’s never too late to learn a hobby.
Video games have also been a long-standing hobby of mine, and it can be as cheap or as expensive as you allow it to be.
damn that's forsure an original hobby! Thank you for sharing :)
Hey, I'm much older than you and I can tell you with certainty that you are not too old to learn sewing! Go to any fabric shop or hobby shop or even community college and they will most likely have sewing courses. You'll be using a sewing machine, which anyone can learn to use and is much faster than sewing by hand!❤
hiiii thank you so much, that's so kind!
@@joelssiezz you're very welcome my dear. Best of luck! 🤗
I don't know why, but I could instantly tell you're Dutch purely from looking at your living room 🤣like isn't that weird? Anyway echt super herkernbaar deze video, ik weet ook niet wat ik met mijn vrije tijd aanmoet terwijl ik vroeger echt constant aan het tekenen en knutselen was 🥲 En ik kan er ook niet tegen als dingen niet in één keer goed gaan.. Ik heb trouwens pas geleden een naaimachine van marktplaats gehaald omdat ik dat ook wilde leren en de machine besturen opzich is best makkelijk. Het moeilijkste deel is om te zorgen dat de lappen stof niet raar gaan zitten/verschuiven tijdens het naaien waardoor heel je werkstuk scheef uitpakt 😅
oh hey! Ik ben van Antwerpen hihi, kan me soms beter uitdrukken in het Engels ofzo hihi. Denk dat ik ook misschien eens tweedehands moet kijken!
@@joelssiezz oh haha lol sorry voor de vergissing 🥺 Ik woon dicht bij de grens dus ik ben ook bijna een Belg 🤓 ik hoop dat je in ieder geval iets leuks vind om te doen/maken 😊
ben er zeker van!
Nice clock.
If you arent a Christian this may seem like a weird idea but i recommend it anyways. Read the bible. Only read like a page or two a day if needed. Its full of so much ancient history, culture, and is genuinely really interesting. A good way to start feeling like your day if full is by learning a couple little things or making a little progress in something a day. If you do that your brain will feel like doing something more is a piece of cake.
I'm not a christian but readin the bible might actually not be a bad idea haha
Meaby it better for you to be a tradwife and do what you want to do when you have extra time? But you know what is best for you yourself.
Try to build a habit out of something really easy. For example if you wanna draw, spend 5 minutes drawing every day for 3 weeks. If you succeed, you can start doing 10 minutes a day. Drawing is just one example u can do it with anything.
oh that's really helpful! Thank youu
@@joelssiezz you're welcome!
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Thankyou Sarah!
You can do sports? It's summer! You can get a job, you will meet a lot of people and get the attention. Ever thought about psychology? I just bought Freud's "on Narcissism: An Introduction" can't wait to read more.
I'll look into it! Thanks!
@@joelssiezz but yeah you are wasting your life
@@RM-qn3ro😂 dude
Reading books gives me headache. I don't even read novels of anime characters because I can't remember shit
Iggy Pop! Check it!
meiddd je moet me toch eens uitleggen hoe je zo netjes Engels spreekt zonder (in mijn ogen) een overduidelijk nl accent haha 👌 en reizen dan! een lekkere last minute naar de zon! heerlijk genieten 🎉
aaaaaaghhhh ik heb geen ideee, ik lees veel in het Engels en ja geen idee heb het alrijd al zo gesproken hihi. Maaarrrr ja ik ga nog naar portugal volgende maaand!
@@joelssiezz echt knap (bij mij hoor je overduidelijk nl accent) ..wat gaaf! heerlijk zeg! hoe lang ga je? ik ben voor t eerst in mn uppie naar Griekenland geweest in juni en ik ga weer weg in oktober! reis je nu ook zelfstandig? ik vind het zelf nog wel spannend maar tot nu toe bevalt t wel moet ik zeggen
ik gaaaa eerst alleen! En dan later komt er een vriendin ook dus ben echt blij! Ma wauw Griekenland wil ik ooook echt is doen
@@joelssiezz ooo geniet ervan hoor! ja griekenland echt een aanrader 34/ 36 graden gehad en een hoop gezien..en jij in Portugal? ga je daar nog op excursie of meer genieten van zon, zee strand?
meer gewoon chillende haha, misschien een museumpje doen enzow, maar ik ga wel gewoon voor de zon!
She has a bit of xQc-ism in her voice and mannerisms 😮
lmao what r u sayinggg?
Sounds like you struggle with perfectionism, being patient and want to be best at once. Jump to one thing to another difficulties making decisions. It all seems to me like an ADHD thing. I would seek help to a doctor. The worst thing is handling frustration because of lack of controlling the emotion rollercoaster having no "break"function in your mind and feeling/emotion. You ending up in looptaughts and freecmode like a prison in your head with spinning taughts of creativity, getting nothing done prakticaly. And then you go into a ADHD burnout period, being exhausted after being overwhelmed fighting this situation and feels like a depression and frustrated at the same time.
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that's all I hear
If anything is getting in the way of you being happy (creating) maybe that is something you should avoid
I know :( it's energy I try not to soak up it's hard when it's ur family tho
@@joelssiezz yeah family always comes first
Read Immanuel Kants Critique of Pure Reason
I might haha
It was a serious suggestion! 🤟😉
Get married & have a family. It's about giving to the next generation.
Ask better questions.
What is the meaning of life?
Did you say, "Love"? That is the correct answer. Do you feel better now?
God is Love. There are many, many people who believe that. Don't you?
Do you think God is boring? Sometimes bored people think weird things.
Jesus is a weird person. Misunderstood. No hobbies. He died young.
That's what they say...he died young. I never understood what they say.
Jesus Christ never died. That is an outright lie.
Jesus Christ is the Resurrection. Jesus cannot be killed. Neither can you.
No one dies. People "appear" to die. No one actually "dies". Do they?
Jesus cannot "die for your bad behavior". That is silly talk by silly people.
Jesus Christ isn't about to make excuses for silly people with silly ideas.
You are young. it's tough to figure out what to do...where to go...who to be.
Be yourself. You'll never figure anything out by avoiding God and God's love.
And forget about the Bible beaters. Yes, they annoy everybody. Get over it.
Jesus wasn't marching around shoving Bible verses in everyone's face.
Jesus didn't have a Bible. Jesus doesn't carry a sub-machine gun either.
You did not make yourself. Your parents did not "make" you. God did.
The sooner you wake-up, the better. Because Jesus NEVER died.
That should tell you that Jesus will have no problem RETURNING.
You probably think that this is a joke. Many, many do.
It would be better for everyone if it was simply a joke.
No one is going to get away with anything.
Everyone already KNOWS that God exists.
That is a no-brainer. Love DOES exist.
Love your enemies.
It confuses them.
Doesn't it?
vaya con Dios.