Sex Talk With My Gynecologist Mom | Sejal Kumar Ft.
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Hey guys! My mom (Dr anjali kumar) and I are back with another video! This one is all questions about sex, what age is right, consent in sex, all about sex education which is not talked about openly in India! Hope this inspires you!
Don’t forget to check out other Mom&Me Videos:
My Favorite one: • Get Your Answers From ...
Period Conversation: • Let's Talk About Perio...
Contraception Myths: • My Gynaecolgist Mom Bu...
Questions on PCOD: • Questions Every Girl H...
And the rest of the playlist here:
www.youtube.co....
#MomandMe #sex #SejalKumar
Get my daily updates here:
Instagram: sejalkumar1195
Twitter: / sejalkumar1195
Facebook : TheClothingEdit
what did you like most about this video?
Your voice sweetness
The way you are open about everything
Your guts to make this vedio you are really an inspiration
Hey.
The video is amazing.
Can you post the link of that article(07:10) in the description?
I like how your mother frankly discusses everything with you. If I ask my mother anything she just clams up and gives me a wierd look..lol.
To be honest..You literally have got guts to post this and we really apprectiate you for the same..And I love your mom for talking so openly.
you have a mother with modern viewpoints . 90% of indians don't.
Karan Malhotra I have one ❤️
Ankita Saini Upadhyay it has got nothing to do with being a gynecologist.Her mother is mature enough to understand these things and understands her
Make it 99%
Sinister悪魔 no i feel like delhi bombay and banglore crowd is quite liberal and the moms there too.
Yeah i mean her mother has given
her a different kinda comfort zone to her, wherin she feels okay to discuss any and everything which is good. Very few indian parents have this kinda friendly bond with their kids.
Appreciated
One suggestion ... pls dnt interrupt ur smart mom while she is talking..🥰
I so wanted to say the same 🙈
Same man... It was irritating at a point... She is a gynecologist... For god's sake.. let her speak
Let ur mom speak ya...too much interruptions
true i felt that too
Munmun Panda I was about to comment the same 🙂
This is how a mother-daughter relationship should be. But unfortunately it's so rare specially in our country. Thanks to both of you for such amazing videos.
Sejal's hair at the back just kept bothering me :p
Me too
Mee too
Mee too
Sameeee!!
Seriously
Full marks to this girl for always talking about taboo topics 👏🏻 Awareness increases when conversation begins 👍
True influencer.
Oishika Kar ;p - Yes she’s made us proud :D
Wo tu chalo hindu hai..apna naam dekho.. muslman ho k besharmi ki bat mat kro plz.. kuch tu ehtram kro apny Muslim hony ka
@@khaulajawadjawad16 - Sir, I'm a muslim, and I choose not to indulge in this act before marriage because Islam forbids it. However, all that Sejal is doing is creating awareness and encouraging people to start a conversation with their parents, rather than xyz sources. If parents don't tell children about consent, or what's right/wrong, then who will? She is not promoting sex before marriage, but just talking about things one should consider before indulging in it. And for your information, there are videos on the internet of renowned Maulvis like Tariq Jameel Sb talking about it as well, and nobody calls that besharmi, because it's just educating people, and thats important :)
@@aaminabutt2582 I dont know why we people want to discuss this so called 'education' for awareness...this awareness causes more damages than any single advantage.somethings should be hidden and without reason talking so openly about it doesn't make any sense.. these things and acts require so much privacy.. I have not heard maulana tariq jamil about this though I respect him alottt... this is natural process which happened so systematically .. and you would know sometime InshaAllah that discussion and awareness makes it complicated..
Dont cut off ur mom when she speaks. We love listening to her
I don't.
Then why are you here 😑😑
Yes,don't cut off ur mom,she is talking very wisely...& It's the actual truth... Sex isn’t for just fun & enjoyment
😸... that's true..we do love listening to her mom but afterall she's her child...and we all do it with our parents... it's totally okay and cute🤌🌼
While the other bloggers are still stuck with same old makeup looks , this woman comes up with content that is actually needed in our society ! Sejal , You Go Girl !! 👏🏻👏🏻
Couldn't agree more! 💪🏻
True
Please don't say this
Because they don't have Doctor Parent!
Not hate.
@@mayurikedar6511 yes u r right
Today, youtube must be proud of u for utilising the platform so well. Kudos!!!
The only complain I have is that u have interrupted Aunty many times. Please let her finish her sentence, it is always a pleasure to listen to someone as learned as her. ❤️
Loved the effort that you're trying to remove the stigma that many people have. Loved the video ❤ (also aunty is a sweetheart)
I love sax
Hey just a suggestion, when you’re making an informative video like this then please let the other person complete their point of view, don’t cut them in btw .
Yaa I also felt the same
Agree 100%
its an informal type video so i found its okay..its her mom for godsake
I love sax
@@souravdatta9990 exactly
This is where things start getting awkward and parents don't generally want to talk about it with their kids. Thanks for the effort Sejal.
Yeah.. agree with you fully :)
I love sax
@@Dr.Surabhi.SolankiIf your son comes home. And he told you today that I had sex with MILFs. With a woman 15 years older than him. Or more. What will your reaction be?????
If your son comes home. And he told you today that I had sex with MILFs. With a woman 15 years older than him. Or more. What will your reaction be?????
Me to my parents: se.........x
Flying chappal recieved
😂
akanksha singh Same here 🤣
🤣
😂😂
😂😂
It's nice to have akanksha of having more likes.. now ur content (comment) and timing deserves u gonna get it baby..
Sex is such an important thing to talk about . Sex education can actually change people's mindset ...... hats off to you for making this video♡
*Her mom is so calm and I felt like my mom teaching me about some topic... Mom is always right... Thanks sejal*😊💟💟
I love sax
Sejal , we can have a part 2 ! With lots more question answered. Personally, learnt a lot from this video.
love how strong you are and open about these topics!!
never did I see such a powerful girl!
always want you to grow more and never stop growing!
lots of love di!!!!
Jisoo!!
Are you a Blink?
@@anushka6757 lol that's not jisoo that's IU
Personally, I really appreciate you and your mom to share a conversation on topic like this one. This is a very gutsy and thoughtful topic to discuss with parent and child and by watching you both, I can also envision the same with my mom too. You guys really rock! Love you! Thank you! Waiting up for your next vid! :)
I love sax
Also, babe, please don't interrupt your Mom while she's speaking.
True. It's very annoying.
Agreed
Yes, I also hate this type of interuption
She is not interrupting
So so true
Sejal it's just shocking how your mom has this close resemblance to Zeenat Aman!!! :0
kuch bhi??
Kumbh k mele me bichdi hui behene..
Both girls young at heart.. although seals mom is lot more younger..
@@SoulRocketMan are sarrr aap yaha bhi. Ye noob hai jaane do..ignore
Yes... A little
I love sax
I just LOVE the #momandme series of yours,di! You both look like sisters rather than mother and daughter! Love you ❤
And please be safe from the virus 🙁
I know its highly uncomfortable talking about this with your mom, but y is seal Soo emotional and in the verge of crying
I love this content❤️
I soo wish I could show this to my ex and my so called friends who cornered and left me cuz I broke up with him as he would always pressurise me emotionally for sex, won't talk to me because I was not ready! I went through so much even after a year things still haunt me! Thank you sejal for validating my decision!
Shilpi Mall girl more power to you... ❤️they are not your real friends.. I hope you are doing well now. ❤️
Shilpi Mall Hey, you weren't wrong at all. You did right and I loved how you put yourself first in this situation ❤️ #wisedecision #respect
Sooo proud of u ND myself coz I broke up with my ex 4 months ago coz of this reason but....I have got really supportive frndsss Don't be frnd with someone who judge u for ua decisions they should support u in ua good ND not leave u!! Enjoy ua life gal
OMG! you ppl are so supportive! I should have done this long back when I was fighting it all alone! We always talk about hate on the internet...this is a side I never thought of! Thank you! All three of you..it's good to see girls standing for girls after soo long! 😘😘
@@saycheeez9010 you too babe! 😘
I have a cool mom too...to discuss each and every aspect of my life..the things she told me about sex at 15 was same..as you should be mentally prepared for it and later should not repent about it.and she didn't even went to high school..she is just 7th pass..but so knowledgeable..Love you mom..😘😘😘 you saved me from so much of unnecessary anxiety..
Wow
🥰
I love sax
I dont know how awkward this is going to sound but can you make it about masturbation? Like there are so many misconceptions about it in the teenage community. As she is a doctor and your mom..it will really help us with the correct facts.
P.S love your idea of making social awareness about certain things like these. Love ❤❤
Yes please!
Right
On the similar lines i suggest you to watch sex education on Netflix like sejal did.
Plz on masturbation.. does excessive masterbating means losing virginity or torn hymen
यू आर टू स्मार्ट.. वैसे भी आप बंगाली लोग भद्र (वैल इन्फॉर्म्ड) केहलाते हो.
💘
You're so inspiring...showing courage to talk abt a topic that the society still thinks is disgusting. Great job Sejal
seriously what a guts Dude
Your mom very intelligent and both are compatible
You're making a real impact with your content Sejal. AWESOME content with coolest mamma ❤️❤️
Hiii Sejal, actually I deliberately sat beside my parents and watched this video in order to grab their attention so that eventually we can have a comfy conversation about sex! And it was a successful one! Big Thank You for doing this! ❤️💞✨
So how did it go?
You are bold girl
Didn't her mother say that you don't need to force it?
My god it takes great courage
I love sax
11:17 made me laugh so hard. Sejal and her mom's expression 😂. When you're trynna get comfortable with parents but then there goes a BLOOPER😂😂😂
We need more parents to be like this!
You should be really lucky to have her as your mom.
She focuses on keeping YOU first! Self love
I love sax
Woah.. this was very chill and comforting to listen to. The content was really nice. Good choice of questions and well discussed👍👍👏👏
In next MOM N ME talk about pregnancy.. I am personally very scared about the process due to the different things I have heard about it.. like nausea, mood swings, dealing with labor pains (which scares me the most) and post pregnancy issues. Though I believe every pregnancy is difference but still the process is same. So dear Sejal pls try to consider this topic, it will be helpful♥️ Your mom will be able to bust myths if there's any!!
Loads of love and good wishes to you🤗♥️
Ayushi Bandyopadhyay yes please
Same with me. I have never seen a pregnant woman in my family ( as we are nuclear, lived away from our real home) so I have never been so attached to kids or grown any feeling for kids. The things I have heard about pregnancy makes me not wanting any kids. No excitement about being a mother. I am kind of detached with this whole idea. But my husband love kids and 8 am afraid how.i will do that
Pregnancy is a beautiful journey...there is nothing to be scared about,esp after hearing people’s stories ..just as there are ups and downs in life ,pregnancy also has its ups and downs in the three trimesters...and my doctor had told me to enjoy my pregnancy to the fullest (even though I had been asked to be on bed rest for almost one month in my 3rd trimester)
Believe me the struggle starts once u have delivered the baby but that too has its phases...U will forget everything when you see your child smiling and happy!!
P.S -I’m commenting like a friend (not trying to preach) and thru my personal experience.
@@aark14 that's so sweet ma'am. Thanks for sharing your experience and giving us courage ♥️
Ayushi Bandyopadhyay most welcome!!
She is such a good content creator, informative as well as so sweet to see her mom engage with such poise without making it awkward. I am stanning her mom!!
SEJAL MOM STAN!!!! WHERE U AT?! SUCH A LEGEND MOM
You both make the perfect duo ❤️ i m glad that I also share the same bond with my mom as you do ! I love you both
Yah!!
Thank you for doing this series! The most important thing to do in the times that we live in. Keep doing this!
I love sax
We love u no one talks bout this but u have so much guts and especially with your mom hats off didi...we love you
Pls keep blogging n vloggin n inspiring us
Pls never change
Loads of love from Mumbai💗💗
This video was an eye-opener 👍
Thank you Dr.Anjali kumar (A.K.A sejal's mom) ♥♥
Love ya
♥💜💚💛💙❤
I don't knew you can put hearts with that many colours 🤔
Good attempt but i really wanted to hear your mom speak more and some more points. I wish in this video Sejal just asked the question and let her mom do all the talking.
Also, there were a lot of jump cuts which was bothersome.
Lastly, i wish there were some gender neutral questions. Most questions were answered assuming "the other party" was a boy and questions were mostly from a girl's perspective. Wish they were some queries from a guy's perspective too - about puberty, about their sexual urges, about their partner's sexual approach etc.
Certainly a very much needed and appreciated topic in our country. Kudos!
Ma and my mom watched it together and she was so happy that you came up with such a topic and that to talking with your mom which all people should you...thank you so much.
Much love 😍😊
At 10:30.. makes so much sense!! Being in relationship and choosing not to have sex is really mature of a couple. I totally appreciate it. A strict no to pre-marital sex!!
Everytime your mum was saying something/anything i was like "EXACTLY!"
Edit : My mumma is totally coool with me talking to her about ANYTHING, that includes sex also. We are super comfy with each other. Cool Moms exist!!
@Ankush Mukherjee Same is with us. My boyfriend and I simply do not feel the need to get physically involved rn. We are in it mostly for mental and emotional peace!
I guess i did not misinterpret it..I emphasised more on ability to talk about it with our closed ones.
I have uncool orthodox judgemental mom ,life is a hell when you have such parents
Yeahhh Sejal, please let your mom speak ya. She has so many valid points and you were interrupting which is very irritating.
This video was so liberating and so informative. I am 18 and this video really gave me so much comfort, this let me feel warm about the whole topic
I love sax
Sorry to say you interrupt your mother a lot. It would be nice if you let her complete first and then speak your part. But it was a very nice video and you are blessed to have such an understanding mother.
I think in the next mom and me episode you should talk about PORN and the impact it has on various people. And how is actual sex soo different than porn.
Hit like if anyone else want this topic in the next video ?
YES! SO IMPORTANT! Apparently a lot of unreal sexual expectations come from that. Lot of abuse too when those expectations aren't met.
So true😆😆😆😆
Brilliant topic. The unrealistic expectations set by porn
I totally agree .. Sejal should really discuss this next how unreal is porn compared to actual sex..
Sejal wht abt those parents who are not open minded like they dont even wanna talk,they are always like aisa hmare yha nhi hota n shaadi kra denge etc etc i hope u are getting my point
Like u even cant convince them
You dont have to tell them !! Or anyone its upto you how honest you are with yourself! Parents cannot always make consentual decisions for you and your life
@nisha yadav so true....I think india ka maximum parents aise hi hai
Video dikha dena
It's fine girl you have such videos or maybe some elder sister or maybe at the right time u can always talk to a gynac it's fine.
Don't talk to ur parents about it coz it make create more problems.
@@mk-xm4lv so true
Woww.. One word... "BOLD" 🔥
Sejal, sweetie! STOP interrupting mom.. I just want to hear HER continues train of thought. Please!
Assalamu Alikum....
Hi....
????
O God! Ur mom is so calm,cool, amazing, understanding sejal
U r lucky to have such a mom, may God bless her. Superb mam 😘
You look exactly like your mom.. beautiful intelligent mom beautiful intelligent daughter :) How many of you agree with me?
That's so brave of you Sejal to speak in front of camera with your mom on this subject. And I love this series of mom and me. Keep up the good work. Love from Mumbai 😘
Coolest Mom-Daughter.
Damn your mom is so smart and sweet. I love her. She should have her own channel 😂
She actually have it...'maitri'....and she's Dr.Anjali Kumar...u can surely checkout:)
Sejal... U r cut copy paste of ur mom... Both of u are so compassionate and open towards each other.... Parent-Kid goals 🙌❤
The best answer i have ever listened from anyone. Really amazing how her mother described to whom should we ask before it. Really love for aunty.
yaar this series, Mom and Me...i loveeeee it so much...
specially cuz I have the same kind of bond with my mom,
secondly, it's soo good to see you with your parents again...
(*Lots of Love from Mumbai)
LOVE the chill and open relationship your mom and you share!! Love how informative it was too !
Wowwwww Sejal. One of your best videos. Some of us already know all of these things but we need someone to come and openly talk about it. It feels like someone you know is directly communicating with you through this video and it brings along a feeling of comfort. 🙏 Thanks!
You inspire us everyday! And your mom is such an amazing person. Aim for the stars, Sejal ❤
I love sax ..I.m Boy
Sejal u r lucky to have mother like her. She treated my elder sis when she was pregnant. She was like God for us in that difficult tme.
I'd love it if you guys did a video on asexuality too! Please! The awareness for it is so important.
I didn't know I was asexual as I never knew there was such a term. I knew I was different and not on the same side of the sexual spectrum as others. I always thought something was wrong with me and sex is something I would eventually have to force myself to confront with. But then I learned what asexuality and felt this relief knowing that nothing is wrong with me and that I need not force myself to come in terms with sex and do it. I don't want any other individual to go through that and do something that violates themselves. So please! Talk about asexuality too.
Omg sameeee❤️😭
But my swthrt evrymother is not like ur mother ...who could understand like that, but ur conversation is excellent to talking with caring n sharing, now i can say every mother must be like ur mother.. If she is not... So must be concern her....mamma this is not this..... This is this🤘...
I JUST LOVE THESE MOM AND ME VIDEOSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!! Keep making more Di :))
I love sax
I usually refrain myself from commenting on any video...but yours is worth it.....the honesty behind the effort to create an impact....amazing....best part the slight awkwardness..so true … reminded me of me and my mom :)
My mother say, "hum log middle class family se hai! We can't talk about sex to our children so openly"! 🙃😪
Samee
I love sax
It is Beacause of social constrain only.
Your mom is the sweetest person and so supportive. I went to her with so much apprehension but i loved her the moment she started talking.
🤔🤔
I wish to be your friend , so i can meet your mum often. Such a darling lady, no wonder you are so well brought up. Bless you :)
I love sax
Your hair at the back distracted me throughout 😔
It's really incredible how u and ur mom have such a bomb bonding😻 anyways, lots of love sejal!!
sejal you are soo lucky you have SUCH a GOOD MOTHER.with such modern view points.she is like really understanding and she is one of the best mom people have....even if I say the letter (S) she is gonna kill me.i wish i had a mother like you
love you sejal sister
hope you and your mom and dad stay happy and safe....
You have the coolest mom!! 😍
Ji 💄💄
I love sax
I'm sure 2020 is going to be your year sejall🥰🥰🥰 I'm having this stong gut feeling ki 2.5 million subscribers pakka he iss saal!
A conversation so much needed Sejal! ! A wonderful topic to be discussed. very Informative😊
Kudos to you Sejal for atleast discussing this topic openly here on social media because alot of teenagers follow you and this is the right kind of social media influence we need in our life !
Also all the people commenting below that their parents are too conservative I just want to say that my parents are the same and you must understand that our parents have been brought up in a certain way by our grandparents so the mindset they're functioning with is (most often than not) a hundred years old wala!
So as suggested by Sejal's mom take it slow,one thing at a time.If you have a very stiff relationship with your parents then you can't just drop the SEX word on them and then expect a wholesome conversation ,trust me that will never go in the right stride!
Instead put in efforts to make them aware of the kind of life you are living, your friends, the kind of books you read , the music you like, your views on social issues etc. This will help you guys in having a better understanding of each other and once that's established over time then the ease of conversation about anything and everything will increase.
And as far as sex is concerned it's just physical intimacy don't attach morality with it it's not a judgement of your character no one decides for you when you want to get sexually active, it's your personal choice. Having said that I would also urge you to ask yourself if you're actually ready for it and if you really wanna do it without any kind of pressure and you're ready for the aftermath and won't go in guilt trips later on!
That's it my TEDx talk is over 😅
I wish every girl can have such conversation with her mother.. 🖤 btw love loads❤️
So firstly respect to you both for openly talking about this. A few points about the video: I felt like you interrupted your mum. I felt she had a lot more to say which cud have been useful to the viewers. 2) The interview felt rushed. There were many instances where I felt that u cud have dived deeper into a specific point/ elaborated more about it. Like asked follow up questions 3) personally I think this video wud have been better had u noted the questions and summarised them beforehand. Meaning what were the general questions that seemed to come up. I just felt it wud have been morr conversational. It felt a bit abrupt when u kept saying this question, next question.
This was the best content I have ever seen... Thank u so much ... I love how open and clear perceptions Ur mom has
You both deserve a big round of applause. Its very very very important to have a good discussion with her mother for a girl to understand this subject. Many mothers can't handle it the way your mother did. Girls need to understand this as well as boys with their fathers in such a way it helps develop a nation to have a groomed generation in our country.
I loved the video....but sejal's hair on the back kept bothering me 🤷
My daughters are 21 and 15 and both of them are very open with us. My elder daughter openly talk with me on sexual matters and younger freely talk with us about friend's boyfriends and all. We like it so much ki now our generation can talk freely with children on such a sensitive issues and can educate them.
Need a part2! Thankyou so much for this video. Super informative!
Cant appreciate this video enough! So good and so nice to see a good rappo between a mom and child like this ! The best you have made Sejal
Your mom is such a soul soother... I love her for being so modern and for supporting u all the damn tym....Also U Sejal, have evolved into such a beautiful and courageous lady.
Congrats for this....ilysm❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Great work both of u ! Feeling proud that indian women are talking about this with public !! 🙏❤️
Loved this video! I so appreciate your efforts to discuss and bring forth such 'taboo' topics for discussion. For the next video of #MomandMe can you make something about endometriosis? there are so many people dealing with it and still it's not properly diagnosed by most of the doctors for some strange reason ( the average time taken for diagnosis is 7 years which is crazy!)
Sejal, i love how ur mom has explained how a person should first look into themselves and answer their own questions before just assuming my parents r against it and making their decisions based on them
Looking at title I was like mom and sex talk suppppper awkward 🙈🙈🙈 but this kind of are needed 😁😁
Thank you sooooooo much Sejal 🤗 At this time ... Such a vedio is the need of the hour ... A lot of misunderstandings are there in the society which are yet to be clarified. "loog kya sochenge" Isse kabhi koi bahar nai aa paega ... I think the most important part is to focus on yourself and ask urself first if u want it or not. You don't need to acquire any validation from anyone but yeah to also take care about everyone's happiness.😊 More power to you👍👍👍 Great job 👌Good going girl💐💐💐 Lots and lots of love ❤️ Watching you since years and I still remember all those old mom and me vedios☺️ Hope to see more of it🌺🌺🌺 Your mom is amazing 🤘 I wish I could have this kind of conversation with my mom as well ... Scared of talking to her about it😶
Hey sejal, why you get so overexcited😂, dude let your mom complete what she's trying to say!!!
and also you're lucky to have her as she's SO COOL.
#helpfulvideo❤️
I truly admire your mother daughter duo. Sadly most people are not willing to have such conversation be it from a parent's side or son/daughter side. Forget sex, we can't even talk about periods with a guy. I hope in near future people will be more open to have such personal yet extremely important topics.
I just loved and respected your moms responses. Good content girl
Sejal I find you very innocent and very kind hearted.. Be like this always.. 😊
Kudos to you!! It's so educating for young people like me❤️❤️
This is one of the best videos I have seen on your channel. Thank you for doing this. I happy and grateful to be blessed with an understanding and supportive mom like yours, but still there are majority of them , and specially in India who cannot have these conversations. Let alone sex, talking about their love interest or crush is also a trouble to many. Hoping to see many more of these . :)
I think you should allow your mom to finish what she has to say first.. Because you're stopping her in between when she's telling something important.....
Your mom is just amazing ...I wish ...every daughter must have mother like you....to say something or make them understand what you want to say ...because it is very difficult in typical conservative family to talk about this topic...they never get it..😒but both of you really admirable ♥️
Since your mom is a doctor can you make a vedio with her on doctors having a good work life balance because I think she is awesome at it . Also her views about a healthy lifestyle along with persuing MBBS
Very proud of u sejal like u r sooooo close to ur mom u can literally share each and everything to ur mom she is so friendly ❤❤
Assalamu Alikum.....
Hi....
?????