Good Luck!! Há! ALL HE SAID is the fcking reality.... Personality and a brains is not sexy in this social media idealized world :( The slutter the better... Those 5 tips actually make a lot of sense if you look around and to what the MOST MAJORITY of men fall for.... wao... being straight in theses times is tough.
Ceren Tuncay..... Ya mean being a hooker? I mean it sounds like it wear red, expensive parfumes, them dick sucking red lips come tf on I'll just stick to da white teeth thingy
she: oh my god, he's looking at my mouth all the time ..my lips are so sexy ...this red lipstick is definitely worth 20 bucks ... he: those mustache tho...
one study actually found that big curly hair was the most attractive and catches the most attention.. due to askkimberly, she bases her advice on science too. so dont worry curly haired girls
Tianna No. Not really. It's a soft science which can be changed far quicker then hard science and many times it's just regarded as an annoyance then truth. Sociology or anthropology is a far better tool. But what he used....yeah...no not science just opinion.
Ariane Hannig ...exactly...they want the women to spend all their money to constantly stay beautiful.. so that they can go camp out on porn.. drink all night pop drugs...and watch football all night...right.. I do not think it is the formula for real relationships
Agree ! We have to be pretty, positive, we have to have a personality, know how to dress etc but for WHAT ? For men looking below average or ugly ! WOW it's such a beautiful we are living in .... I'd rather die at this point than forcing myself to be someone else to be able to have a normal relationship with a man !
@@kittyqueen3032 okay I'm a 22 year old boy and don't ask why I even watched this video because even I don't know that. But still... Maybe I belong to the minority of men with my opinion, but I tell you what's my opinion about those things: Above of all things, you will never look perfect to every man! That's not really possible since even men have different tastes. And you don't have to be a super model either. It's not worth it to keep yourself strictly to those 5 points this guy mentioned. About the clothes: There are quite a lot people who would actually prefer dark colors instead of red but okay.... About the teeth: For many people it's not even really possible to have "white" teeth and bleaching your teeth is really not worth it. Some people just have more yellowish teeth by nature and there's nothing wrong with that About the lipstick: That point is kinda difficult. Some men love it but I would say just the same amount of men think that lipgloss and other things like that make you look from unnormal to even creepy and beause of that that they dislike it. So...if you're looking just for a date with anyone...try those tips this guy just told you. But if you're looking for a relationship with the right person for you...you should have a personality. About your opinion you would have to be a super model just that the man could be a slob and play video games....hey have you ever considered that it could work too if you're also a fan of playing video games? It's also kinda cliché how many gys don't have a girlfriend let alone a wife and play video games. But I think you'd be surprised how many guys would actually enjoy it to play videog games with a girl. But that's just my opinion^^ And not every guy is just lazy. Yeah you might not believe it but even men have a personality. Anyway... Your personality doesn't have to be perfect since no human is perfect. Just be yourself. I mean....men aren't that stupid. I think a guy who doesn't act like a monkey and who's more intelligent than a stone would notice if you felt uncomfortable with the way you act in front of him. And you don't even want those men who behave like i mentioned right now so you don't have to care about whether you're looking attractive to them or not.^^
This is funny because all these years I had long straight hair down to my belly button. I thought long hair would make me appear sexy and guys would think I was ugly if I had short hair. I got a boyfriend a few months ago and he told me he prefers short hair, and I was so shocked. I never expected a guy to like short hair. He made me realize that I would be beautiful even if I had no damn hair because your inner light will always shine out of you and you will always look beautiful. I recently cut my hair to my collarbones in a long bob and I love it. I feel so free. I've had long hair my entire life and now I don't and it's so refreshing. And to make things even better, he finds me more attractive with short hair! He thinks bobs are sexy and fun. So fuck what videos like this say, you do you! You are beautiful the way you were created, you're a damn work of art. I'm sick and tired of society telling girls they need to do this and that to be beautiful. THERE'S SO MUCH MORE TO LIFE THAN BEING BEAUTIFUL AND ATTRACTING MALES. Be well-read. Be intelligent. Be passionate. Be loving. Be adventurous, positive, caring. Change people's lives. These things are a million times more important than being attractive. We have plenty of attractive people in this world but we need more good souls. If you are a beautiful soul, you will attract someone who loves you no matter what you look like. If a man only loves you for the way you look, that's not love. Fuck superficiality.
Life is hard enough, and there's plenty of tragedy to go around. Just have fun, don't hurt yourself doing it, try your best not to hurt anyone else, take care of yourself and your loved ones and try to sustain happiness until you're dead. There's a job.
@@elopuff8575 I think you should do what you love. And yes guys like girls with long hair but if you keep living life on what others want, you will never be happy
Hi, you are so lucky to have curly hair. For me since I do my hair vintage/retro I have to curl it often and there are just days were I have no time. You might want to check out LisaFreemontStreet on youtube for brush out tips for curly hair. It totally helped me tame my super curly hair into a smooth sleek style. Even if your not into retro hair the brush out tips are on point.
Same!! I've long curly hair and I find it so attractive! It's not vanity but I look in the mirror and say "Damn, you're so beautiful today!!" On the other hand, if I straighten my hair I don't feel comfortable in my own skin LOL
No shit they'd look at their lips more it's because of the colour it's not because they think it's hot it's because colour draws attention, if you wear a rainbow ass dress you're gonna get a lot of attention
I'm just going to make this video really short for you. Men are attracted to breasts because it signifies both sexual maturity and the ability to breast feed. Same way we are attracted to curved hips because it shows the ability to give birth without dying. Almost all attractive traits are biological indicators that work on our subconscious and demonstrate good genes/capabilities etc. Another example, women are generally attracted to tall, muscular males because it signifies the ability to protect. Everything comes down to reproduction and survival. Attraction is shallow, simple as that.?
@@aneliabacchus753 I guess people always pursue what they don’t have. In developing countries, fat women are recognized hotter because of famine while people in developed countries prefer the opposite because they have enough.
Side tip about number 2: Vanilla has been scientifically proven to be the most universally sexy amongst men who are interested in women. It sounds BS, but I've tried it myself and it works. This one guy who shared a mutual attraction started hugging me while standing behind the couch I was on and said "holy shit is that your perfume? Damn you spell good."
One really attractive trait that women have is when They have standards and strong boundaries.its very very unattractive when I see needy women who try to use sex to gain love or attention it's happened to me 3times this week and it is a huge turn off.
Well, I have white teeth ,red lips ,long straight hair but all I attract is men who wants sex ! I want a real man who loves me not only for the way I look :/
He did just say the most important thing is to love yourself. This isn't for attracting a life partner, it's just about what men look at first, and they don't look for life partners first. Just be yourself, you'll find somebody!
I have long straight hair, have white teeth,wear red lipstick,wear a lot of red clothing,not because i want to attract men,because i have one already,i have these traits because i love red,and its me,ive followed this pattern without realising what effect it has? And also it suits me...what is annoying though,men stare at me when im out with my partner!! He just laughs it off,i suppose hes pleased im his girl...i must admit when im out with the girls it can attract trouble.im sure you'll find mr right soon,keeping looking.x
In all honesty, these studies don't sound like they are referring to all woman... Even though I'm not black, I'm still gonna argue this because black woman don't have long straight hair and apparently, "according to studies" this is what men find attractive, so to say that other hair is not much of an acception...Nah this is a bunch of bull cause it sounds like they are discribing the perfect white girl which isn't fair amongst other woman. But like Chong Sun said, "if you want to attract average men then go ahead but if you want a unique guy then be you"🙌🏽
This is just one study, with any study there's going to be tons to counter it. In my experience, guys have looked at me more when I have super curly hair than when I have straight hair.
As a man, I approve all points & agree with you. Doesn't matter what your skin tone is, red lipstick with red dress is really always attractive. And, about hair, I also love long hair, it makes you more & more feminine & beautiful. And, smell is also very important. When a man finds any woman attractive & experience her smell at least once, man can't forget it easily.
Love yourself, the men will follow. Remember to be critical ladies, especially when someone claims "scientific studies show.." For example, it's not necessarily the teeth being whiter that changed the guys perspective. It could be that as a result of whiting her teeth, the woman felt more beautiful and thus exuded more confidence and playfulness hence changing the survey results. Stay critical.
@@redietliora I think this is more what HE finds attractive. I know lots of men who don't like long straight hair or red lipstick. I think these "when they surveyed men..." is a group of 18-28 year olds.
Aimee Dobson yeah yeah whatever. You cant deny it that when youre searching for a partner you want to attract them. Same goes for men. And the fashion and beauty industry is run by mostly women and gay men. Why tf do you always blame straight men for like everything lol.
I think it's about looking well groomed, which favors straight hair in a statistical sense (ungroomed hair falls almost always into the not-straight-hair category). If you have well groomed but curly hair, that's probably just as good, or even better. It's a pretty stupid video anyways.
Really and universally: 1.smile. Stay confident and take care of your breath 2. Keep eyes bright and lips moist 3. Clean nice scent 4. Clean hair! Even straight or Curly 5. Wear clothes that fit and flatter your body. No matter your size.
I’m attracted to a quiet man, and when he speaks he’s very Godly. This is the kind of man I’m attracted to. He must find me attractive too and he doesn’t gossip to other men about me.
Watching this wearing my favorite red lipstick, with my hair down and smiling with all my white teeth at the fact that i'm still single AF because men seem to be intimidated by me most of the time XD
My boyfriend HATES red lipstick. He loves my curly hair but also I wear it straight or wavy and he loves it too! What I'm trying to say is that, physically you can't change a lot of things! But attitude and the way you show your confidence, that's the only thing that matters. Because obvioulsy, THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO if you're not that guy's type (in the physical part). For example, there are men that just like black women, or tiny women, or fat women. There's gonna be one that likes your body and face but you can still do the other things to impress him...
barf. who cares whether a guy finds you attractive or not?! what matters is what you think of yourself. you want to know what is really sexy? confidence.
I have brown eyes, brown hair and wearing hijab, my teeth are not white naturally , never wear a red lipstick! my face features are so average.. and I have attracted many men who fell deeply in love with me just because I was me! You are beautiful the way you are ladies❤️
Short hair here! I have been wearing my hair in a short pixie cut for years, and have never had problems attracting a man. Not trying to grow out my hair just because some guy won't like it. Take it or leave it!
Advice: Just don't try too hard! Be yourself and wear or do things because YOU feel good about them and this is what makes you confident! And confidence is the most attractive thing 😊👏
+alora jade how is curly hair boring lol..... It has different shapes and all sorts of different looks to curly hair. Straight hair is just straight hair lol
Nothing more unattractive than when people comment calling things unfair and biased just Bc of a hair comment 😂😂😂😂 it's a study just Bc a majority prefer smooth silky straight hair doesn't mean there aren't millions that love short curly hair
interesting study. I remember I saw once on the Tyra Banks Show that candle light can instantly make anyone more attractive. so just carry a candle with you everywhere you go, easy as that. haha. I think I might be an exception to the long hair thing. I've had long hair my whole life and I recently cut it to my shoulders and I've never in my life gotten more compliments on it.
Long hair is preferred but you can't overdo it and have that dirty hippy overly long hair that's got blunt ends with no style. It still has to look nice like thoughtfulness and effort was put in.
Lol this list is bollocks! I met my husband when i was coming from the Gym at a petrol station with no make, Curly Hair, smelling sweaty. And he was dressed in an suit.
Some of this sounds eurocentric or based around Caucasian ideals. Us black women must be doomed then with our afro type hair that grows round and curly. And as for red lipstick, it doesn't always suit our skin tones! Ask a man who loves black women what he would find most attractive and it it WOULD fit this. As for the Zeus study, please tell me who the cohort Included? I bet there were no black men involved.
This is it... I commented before seeing this comment. The study is racially biased, and contradicts his statement in his intro, he makes ally of bold statements and to be quite frank this video is probably mainly what he himself finds attractive, he definitely cannot speak for every man. Red lipstick doesn't suit every woman and that don't matter what colour your skin shade is! Very rarely will you see a black woman with long straight hair! Confidence and you being you will attract the man for you! And vice versa... There's no rule book to dating and relationships...
ladies, you don't need validation about what is attractive from a white man. Europeans have different value systems than Africans. Ask African/Black men what they find attractive and go from there. Also...attraction is energetic, it's not entirely physical. Self love...confidence, sensuality, femininity is attractive. African women are not doomed unless a white man's opinion is more valued than a black man's.
I feel like most people didn't even listen to any statistics he even said.. down and straight was ranked #1 with 38% and curly was ranked #2 with 33%.. not that huge of a difference really
red lipstick CAN work for dark skin... even really dark skin. You just gotta find the right shade. There are tons of make up tutorials here on YT about how to find the right lipstic for your dark skin. I got dark skin and i found a classic red lipstick that looks absolutely glorious for my skin tone, and its not just me that thinks that,I get compliments for it too. I have a friend from Kenya and she has really dark skin, and she is a fan of the red lip too, she just found the shade the works with her skin and It looks amazing. Of course the same lipstick my african friends would use may not look good on me, and my lipstick may not look good on her or my white friends, my friend can even pull of a yellow lipstick and look beautifull while I just look like a freaking pikachu. Everyone can wear the classic red lip, you just gotta find the right one for you
I'm agree with you, the most important for any relationship (friends, family, coworkers...) is love yourself, do the things for you ,go behind your dreams to be happy and share a sincerely smile with the others :)
Working on all 5 of these things. Growing out my hair, getting skinny, whitening my teeth, have several scented lotions, and buy some clothes in color red. I've lost 55 pounds in 4 months. Working on seducing a guy at work (NOT a boss).
I have extremely curly hair, and I really don't want to straighten it. I wear red ALL OF THE TIME I have been told that red is my signature colour, and that red looks best with my skin, eye colour and hair colour.I have medium olive-toned skin and red is a very common colour for me. I have a red winter coat, red shoes and a lot of red shirts. But that's just me, and I don't want to change who I am, especially for some guy. I would rather have a guy except for who I am, or not al all. And that should do for everyone, no one should have to change who they are or what they look for like for anyone or anything. You were born the way you are and were not meant to be changed. So, don't. Don't mess with Mother Nature, it will come back to kick you in the butt later. Believe me. And to add to my pile of red things, my glasses frames are red.
As a Boy I can confirm these are true except the Hair one. Short hair can also be very attractive. Personality is also very important even after all this. Be an open girl who is genuinly interested in boys.Try to approach attractive boys because boys are approached extremely rarely and by just approaching them or by giving them a hint that you like them,you are going to set yourself apart from 95% of girls.Most girls just wait around thinking they are queen and deserved to be approached by all boys. Do not be that girl. Good luck on your journey of being attractive.
I was with you until the long straight hair lol I am black my hair is not naturally straight. But I see where you are coming from a lot of men like straight hair,my hair gets bigger and bigger like a fro. But good advice :), like watching your videos.
It's not science. Trust me, this crap is not science. What he is using is a survey. Not science. Surveys are small groups of people asked a bunch of questions and they conclude what it all means. Science is far more then just that. Trust me, you have nothing to worry about. No matter what you're beautiful in the real eyes of science. Science only states that you are a human and you may or may not be attracted to another human and may go on to make other humans. That's it. Human to human. Nothing having to do with anything else. Now if you want to go more in depth, you have to study anthropology or sociology, otherwise science is very simple. You human, you like other human, you go to human and might make other humans.
Estherjp Jp I know you weren't attacking him. It's just as a woman that works in the science field (Might be small but I am happy) and as a child of a scientist, to hear people claim that physiology is hard science or an exact science or even use surveys as science makes me cringe. It's a soft science and doesn't have that much value compared to hard science which has to go through a much more rigorous study and it has to happen over a time frame of years and years. So I wouldn't ever worry too much of what this man says. What he is talking about is what some men believe within western society, which is not that important to the rest of the world. I would always say this. Screw what others think about you, you will other find another human to love or you wont. It's nothing to really concern yourself with too much.
This is a good vid. It's honest. There's criticism of the tips in a lot of the comments. Whether everyone wants to admit it or not, men are attracted to the physical first. Yes confident and great personality is key but he has to be physically attracted to you to talk to you. These were some good tips outside of the "it's all about confidence" cliche that our friends tell us. While I know I can't do/won't do the straight hair tip (I'm Black with tight coiled hair) I can do the other things like scent, incorporating red articles of clothing in my attire. Whiter teeth, that's a biological attraction. Teeth, smile, oral hygiene is VERY important for me so I can't expect it not to be for someone else.
So basically you're saying that short hair is ugly... How rude. I have short hair, I don't care what people think about it but still. You're basically insulting anyone who actually cares what people think for the people who have short hair. Nice job.
I was with you until you said that about "long straight hair " i have long curly black hair and i can tell you lots of people men and women they love it, i even feel that when i go out with my friends and they have long straight hair i do catch more attention than them so I wouldn't change my hair for some stupid researches!
I appreciate the jovial, upbeat way you are presenting your information. I'm wondering though, are these BIOLOGICAL preferences or SOCIALIZED preferences? Straight hair, Rosey cheeks... Hmmm biologically that would make all men attracted to only ONE type of woman.
Idk bout that but um.. i like shaved girls more that hairy girls (even tho i think hairly girls are cute) and biologically women would be more hairy but society makes women shave and i defenetely like shaved girls so idk about biology preferences
wow people are so dramatic he’s not saying ‘have no personality to attract the standards of men’ WTFFF?? If he made something about personality I guarantee that ppl would say “wow he is telling us to change to be someone else “ you can never win with ppl. I don’t have straight long hair but I loved this video
This video makes me feel really sick inside...the message this sends to girls and to young women like me is really to hyperanalyze your appearance and "work on improving such" just to attract men...this is sexism in our society...imagine raising boys by training them from a young age to be overly concerned about looking good and fit and perfect for girls. This school of thought being portrayed in this video is really misogynistic, someone had to say something.
This isn't misogynistic at all, little girls will think about the way they look without people saying anything about it. It's basic biology. To attract a mate, we're smart humans yes, but still animals. Sorry to say. +Antam was right, it's just for fun.
smile, lipstick and (coconut hair care products) curly hair... FOLKS love the HAIR..its staying. will try to find some red.. my red shirt photos are usually great.
I was told once by a man at work that I smile a lot and am very "inviting". He said that may make a man stay around longer than I may like. I'm not exactly sure what he meant by that but I chose to take it as a compliment lol. So smile a lot, ladies! ;) (I still do not have a man so what do I know hah!)
Why do some black women become overly sensitive about their hair? Why is that. This man mentioned more than four other attractive traits men like in a woman, yet all the majority of black women commentaries can focus on is the part about hair? Enough said. Yall over sensitivity can be a turn off to most men. So who cares if you have coils hair? Own it or straighten the hair out, damn it than let the rest of us hear something else other than the hair topic. Besides, one should know having standards, a great personality, or boundaries is more attractive to any man than whether you have silky, smooth hair texture. Take care of you and call it a day. Gees.
+Lalala123 so was I.. I just cut my hair 7inches for medical reasons and if anything I have got more attention from men. Do what makes you feel best, confidence is the sexiest!
thanks for the info. good to keep in mind. but ladies work with what you've got and be confident in what makes you unique. I say confidence is very attractive 😃
I'm a women blonde curly hair most times I blow it out straight. I changed my hair styles often. Born with curly hair. Most times I wear it in a bun. I have NEVER had a problem attracting men EVER! I live in NYC and I see so many beautiful women with hair styles from short, to long, curly, wavy, braids, finger waves, corn rows, and I've noticed men staring at all of us!
i think you should do a video on how to approach someone you're interested or having a crush on. I'm the type that becomes a awkward blubbering mess in front of some one i like
#3. Red lipstick. If he's not attracted to the rest of you, red lipstick isn't going to change that. #5. Red clothing. Not all men like red. It will attract men who like red, but perhaps repulse men who prefer white, black, etc..
This video, and so many others are telling women and girls that everything they do should be to please men. Women aren't objects for men's pleasure, women are people, and this video is degrading people into thinking that they need to conform to what men find attractive. So, if your'e a woman or girl reading this, have short hair, wear as much or as little makeup as you want, and wear whatever the hell you want, because you should always dress for yourself, and wear something that gives you confidence, not dress for men. This video is BS.
#1 can go for guys too. Idk why but I love guys who have nice teeth. It's always a plus and so does smelling good. But like it when it's a hint where I can't tell unless we hug or he walks right past me. And 34% isn't too far off from 38% so ima keep growing out my curls. Straightening is too damaging. Thanks for the red lip tip!
oohh... having long hair... I remembered when I was texting this guy, I suddenly showed him my picture that I cut my hair really really short... he was so shocked and keep telling me WHY? He said he prefer women with long hair but I didn't care. When we finally met, he thought that my short hair wasn't that bad and he liked it afterwards...
wtf? long straight hair ? I have long natural curly hair and I love it. Lots of men are just tired of these standard straight hair and find curly hair really interesting.
Why on earth is this in my recommendations?? I don't care if some basic dude thinks I'm not appealing because I don't wear perfume but I still don't smell. Why would I go out do and buy things for some guy that I am not even dating. If I do something I will be doing it for me or my significant other or because I want to, not to be more appealing to someone who I am not emotionally attracted. If you like me you like me, not my hair out my teeth out for wearing red!
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1. have a personality
2. be healthy
3. love yourself
4. be passionate about life
5. love people you care about
This is better than video's points
Good Luck!! Há! ALL HE SAID is the fcking reality.... Personality and a brains is not sexy in this social media idealized world :( The slutter the better... Those 5 tips actually make a lot of sense if you look around and to what the MOST MAJORITY of men fall for.... wao... being straight in theses times is tough.
I do all.this and I still.can not get a man no one no,s why
Yes this is better if it's more on personal level and more on the person's character. I think this list is much more on physical traits.
Yeah I agreed u r from country
If you want to attract average men, do as he said, but if you want to attract your unique man, be yourself!
so true!
Thank you ... I agree
Preach!
+Malin Wahlberg
Are you Swedish?
Happy Thinking Is Healthy yes why?
red lipstick...red clothes? im attracting a bull? 😂😂😂
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Pufff 🐮🐃
Bulls are colorblind.
Lmao 😂
Play with a bull you'll get the horns
1. White teeth
2. Smell nice
3. Red lipstick
4. Long straight hair
5. Wear red
You re welcome
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Why though? That's so generic and boring
Ceren Tuncay..... Ya mean being a hooker? I mean it sounds like it wear red, expensive parfumes, them dick sucking red lips come tf on I'll just stick to da white teeth thingy
IT'S MINE NOW i guess thats what it means:D
science
Fffffuuuuuck Science make explosions
imma paint myself red
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Lol
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she: oh my god, he's looking at my mouth all the time ..my lips are so sexy ...this red lipstick is definitely worth 20 bucks ...
he: those mustache tho...
LOL my deepest fear😂😭
MJ Watson hahahahahagahaha
My deepest fear acne
i got a stroke trying to read this
MJ Watson 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
one study actually found that big curly hair was the most attractive and catches the most attention.. due to askkimberly, she bases her advice on science too. so dont worry curly haired girls
i was thinking about ask kimberly when he said that too!
It's not science.....It's not hard facts. Science is years of study...What he said and what you said is a survey...Not science.
+teenwitchlovergirl psychology is science...
Tianna No. Not really. It's a soft science which can be changed far quicker then hard science and many times it's just regarded as an annoyance then truth. Sociology or anthropology is a far better tool. But what he used....yeah...no not science just opinion.
it'n not just curly, it can be even wavy
Are you married or do you have a gf? Because I've noticed most men that "coach" are single. Just wondering....
I remember him saying in a previous video that he had a girlfriend, not sure if they're still together.
He said he had I gf in this video lol
he has a girlfriend
+OhNoYouDidnt lol
All the top coaches I've come across are in serious relationships, engaged, or married
1. Be a woman
2. Be a woman
3. Be a woman
4. Be a woman
5. Continue to be a woman.
5.1 If you are in the 10%, be another man. :)
preach!
Right.... End of story lol
amen
lol!
Sorry I'm genderfluid.
curly hair,don't care...
short dark hair don't care..lol
natural long blonde straight hair, don't care
Black hair dont care
foreal no one cares, we get it
+Crystal Lee wtf are you talking about
It seems like women have to be so perfect for men.
Ariane Hannig ...exactly...they want the women to spend all their money to constantly stay beautiful.. so that they can go camp out on porn.. drink all night pop drugs...and watch football all night...right.. I do not think it is the formula for real relationships
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Agree ! We have to be pretty, positive, we have to have a personality, know how to dress etc but for WHAT ? For men looking below average or ugly ! WOW it's such a beautiful we are living in .... I'd rather die at this point than forcing myself to be someone else to be able to have a normal relationship with a man !
It's like we have to be super models or something just so they can be slobs and play video games
@@kittyqueen3032 okay I'm a 22 year old boy and don't ask why I even watched this video because even I don't know that. But still...
Maybe I belong to the minority of men with my opinion, but I tell you what's my opinion about those things:
Above of all things, you will never look perfect to every man! That's not really possible since even men have different tastes. And you don't have to be a super model either.
It's not worth it to keep yourself strictly to those 5 points this guy mentioned.
About the clothes:
There are quite a lot people who would actually prefer dark colors instead of red but okay....
About the teeth:
For many people it's not even really possible to have "white" teeth and bleaching your teeth is really not worth it. Some people just have more yellowish teeth by nature and there's nothing wrong with that
About the lipstick:
That point is kinda difficult. Some men love it but I would say just the same amount of men think that lipgloss and other things like that make you look from unnormal to even creepy and beause of that that they dislike it.
So...if you're looking just for a date with anyone...try those tips this guy just told you. But if you're looking for a relationship with the right person for you...you should have a personality.
About your opinion you would have to be a super model just that the man could be a slob and play video games....hey have you ever considered that it could work too if you're also a fan of playing video games? It's also kinda cliché how many gys don't have a girlfriend let alone a wife and play video games. But I think you'd be surprised how many guys would actually enjoy it to play videog games with a girl. But that's just my opinion^^
And not every guy is just lazy. Yeah you might not believe it but even men have a personality.
Anyway... Your personality doesn't have to be perfect since no human is perfect. Just be yourself. I mean....men aren't that stupid.
I think a guy who doesn't act like a monkey and who's more intelligent than a stone would notice if you felt uncomfortable with the way you act in front of him.
And you don't even want those men who behave like i mentioned right now so you don't have to care about whether you're looking attractive to them or not.^^
you kind of look like a pastor for teenagers
Omg this is the best comment
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This is funny because all these years I had long straight hair down to my belly button. I thought long hair would make me appear sexy and guys would think I was ugly if I had short hair. I got a boyfriend a few months ago and he told me he prefers short hair, and I was so shocked. I never expected a guy to like short hair. He made me realize that I would be beautiful even if I had no damn hair because your inner light will always shine out of you and you will always look beautiful. I recently cut my hair to my collarbones in a long bob and I love it. I feel so free. I've had long hair my entire life and now I don't and it's so refreshing. And to make things even better, he finds me more attractive with short hair! He thinks bobs are sexy and fun. So fuck what videos like this say, you do you! You are beautiful the way you were created, you're a damn work of art. I'm sick and tired of society telling girls they need to do this and that to be beautiful. THERE'S SO MUCH MORE TO LIFE THAN BEING BEAUTIFUL AND ATTRACTING MALES. Be well-read. Be intelligent. Be passionate. Be loving. Be adventurous, positive, caring. Change people's lives. These things are a million times more important than being attractive. We have plenty of attractive people in this world but we need more good souls. If you are a beautiful soul, you will attract someone who loves you no matter what you look like. If a man only loves you for the way you look, that's not love. Fuck superficiality.
Caitlin Best comment👌
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Life is hard enough, and there's plenty of tragedy to go around. Just have fun, don't hurt yourself doing it, try your best not to hurt anyone else, take care of yourself and your loved ones and try to sustain happiness until you're dead. There's a job.
All the guys I met begged me not to cut my hair 😂 they told me they prefer long hair on a girl
@@elopuff8575 I think you should do what you love. And yes guys like girls with long hair but if you keep living life on what others want, you will never be happy
I have 4 out of 5..
Sorry, I love my curly hair!
Hi, you are so lucky to have curly hair. For me since I do my hair vintage/retro I have to curl it often and there are just days were I have no time. You might want to check out LisaFreemontStreet on youtube for brush out tips for curly hair. It totally helped me tame my super curly hair into a smooth sleek style. Even if your not into retro hair the brush out tips are on point.
Same!! I've long curly hair and I find it so attractive! It's not vanity but I look in the mirror and say "Damn, you're so beautiful today!!" On the other hand, if I straighten my hair I don't feel comfortable in my own skin LOL
+Rulo Exactly!! And honestly,men seem to like curly hair too!
+VeganVintageGeek I subscribed to your channel. It is very interesting to me! I love the divas from the 50s and their hair styles!!!
+Deborah E. :) thank you for the nice note.
No shit they'd look at their lips more it's because of the colour it's not because they think it's hot it's because colour draws attention, if you wear a rainbow ass dress you're gonna get a lot of attention
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hahahaha for real! :'"D
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but it is normal to want to b stairing at something that gets ur attention regardless what it is
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I'm just going to make this video really short for you. Men are attracted to breasts because it signifies both sexual maturity and the ability to breast feed. Same way we are attracted to curved hips because it shows the ability to give birth without dying. Almost all attractive traits are biological indicators that work on our subconscious and demonstrate good genes/capabilities etc. Another example, women are generally attracted to tall, muscular males because it signifies the ability to protect. Everything comes down to reproduction and survival. Attraction is shallow, simple as that.?
one question. so what happened to the era where the ideal female body was slim and flat. i get u but lost you on this point.
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I guess people always pursue what they don’t have. In developing countries, fat women are recognized hotter because of famine while people in developed countries prefer the opposite because they have enough.
actually love this comment
it starts at 2:04
whoa. thanks
Haha ty
😁 life saver bless you
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Side tip about number 2: Vanilla has been scientifically proven to be the most universally sexy amongst men who are interested in women. It sounds BS, but I've tried it myself and it works. This one guy who shared a mutual attraction started hugging me while standing behind the couch I was on and said "holy shit is that your perfume? Damn you spell good."
People like different things. That's it! That's all you need to know
agreed girl
Ye but if you're gross or unkempt almost nobody wants/likes you. So obvious. Duh🙄
One really attractive trait that women have is when They have standards and strong boundaries.its very very unattractive when I see needy women who try to use sex to gain love or attention it's happened to me 3times this week and it is a huge turn off.
You're so right. It's a sad reality hey.
+Amanda Anderson they are only turn offs to week men. Just walk away from them 💃🏼💃🏼
+Amanda Anderson 🙌🏾
I was going to state that in my comment too. I forgot. that and confidence.
yesssss
Well, I have white teeth ,red lips ,long straight hair but all I attract is men who wants sex ! I want a real man who loves me not only for the way I look :/
He did just say the most important thing is to love yourself. This isn't for attracting a life partner, it's just about what men look at first, and they don't look for life partners first. Just be yourself, you'll find somebody!
I have long straight hair, have white teeth,wear red lipstick,wear a lot of red clothing,not because i want to attract men,because i have one already,i have these traits because i love red,and its me,ive followed this pattern without realising what effect it has? And also it suits me...what is annoying though,men stare at me when im out with my partner!! He just laughs it off,i suppose hes pleased im his girl...i must admit when im out with the girls it can attract trouble.im sure you'll find mr right soon,keeping looking.x
Type commas properly, like I do.
In all honesty, these studies don't sound like they are referring to all woman... Even though I'm not black, I'm still gonna argue this because black woman don't have long straight hair and apparently, "according to studies" this is what men find attractive, so to say that other hair is not much of an acception...Nah this is a bunch of bull cause it sounds like they are discribing the perfect white girl which isn't fair amongst other woman. But like Chong Sun said, "if you want to attract average men then go ahead but if you want a unique guy then be you"🙌🏽
This is just one study, with any study there's going to be tons to counter it. In my experience, guys have looked at me more when I have super curly hair than when I have straight hair.
Thank you! Coming from a black woman with super short curly hair. And the men love it!!✊🏾👩🏾🦱
As a man, I approve all points & agree with you.
Doesn't matter what your skin tone is, red lipstick with red dress is really always attractive.
And, about hair, I also love long hair, it makes you more & more feminine & beautiful. And, smell is also very important. When a man finds any woman attractive & experience her smell at least once, man can't forget it easily.
Nobody cares muhammad
Love yourself, the men will follow. Remember to be critical ladies, especially when someone claims "scientific studies show.." For example, it's not necessarily the teeth being whiter that changed the guys perspective. It could be that as a result of whiting her teeth, the woman felt more beautiful and thus exuded more confidence and playfulness hence changing the survey results. Stay critical.
I don't think African women are the target audience 🤷🏾♀️ and that's okay🙂
Eh, you don’t need it. You’re gorgeous.
Yeah same. I’m an African woman too but the beauty standards are Eurocentric so ig it’s over for us 🥲
You can still wear red and white your teeth
@@redietliora I think this is more what HE finds attractive. I know lots of men who don't like long straight hair or red lipstick. I think these "when they surveyed men..." is a group of 18-28 year olds.
@@dod2304 I know right 😂
New title: "5 ways to live up to society's standards to impress close minded men"
Aimee Dobson Exactly!
Aimee Dobson yeah yeah whatever. You cant deny it that when youre searching for a partner you want to attract them. Same goes for men. And the fashion and beauty industry is run by mostly women and gay men. Why tf do you always blame straight men for like everything lol.
You actually believe we care about your personality? lol
@@razer0072073 😱😱😵
Red lips and red dress what about red shoes OMG i will try that lets see if that work
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don't forget the red and down straight hair 😂
+Eli Gonzalez 😂😂😂
So, have you tried this out? Does it work well?
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I agree!:)
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me too
Was going to like this comment, but wanted to keep it at 69 likes. Hey, it's fitting...
my heart completely sunk when he said long "straight" hair. :| but at least curly came second
Why? This guy thinks his opinion matters. It doesn't.
I think it's about looking well groomed, which favors straight hair in a statistical sense (ungroomed hair falls almost always into the not-straight-hair category). If you have well groomed but curly hair, that's probably just as good, or even better.
It's a pretty stupid video anyways.
Really and universally:
1.smile. Stay confident and take care of your breath
2. Keep eyes bright and lips moist
3. Clean nice scent
4. Clean hair! Even straight or Curly
5. Wear clothes that fit and flatter your body. No matter your size.
ugh. straight hair. curly hair is freaking amazing, and I flaunt it!
I’m attracted to a quiet man, and when he speaks he’s very Godly. This is the kind of man I’m attracted to. He must find me attractive too and he doesn’t gossip to other men about me.
Marilyn Monroe had short hair and she was a sexy woman :p
That's marilyn hunni
Yeah, but it was styled in a sexy way and was colored a sexy platinum blonde color.
Watching this wearing my favorite red lipstick, with my hair down and smiling with all my white teeth at the fact that i'm still single AF because men seem to be intimidated by me most of the time XD
My boyfriend HATES red lipstick. He loves my curly hair but also I wear it straight or wavy and he loves it too! What I'm trying to say is that, physically you can't change a lot of things! But attitude and the way you show your confidence, that's the only thing that matters. Because obvioulsy, THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO if you're not that guy's type (in the physical part). For example, there are men that just like black women, or tiny women, or fat women. There's gonna be one that likes your body and face but you can still do the other things to impress him...
Also people, When you love yourself and confident, that's all you need. Men love those qualities.
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barf. who cares whether a guy finds you attractive or not?! what matters is what you think of yourself. you want to know what is really sexy? confidence.
I have brown eyes, brown hair and wearing hijab, my teeth are not white naturally , never wear a red lipstick! my face features are so average.. and I have attracted many men who fell deeply in love with me just because I was me!
You are beautiful the way you are ladies❤️
Short hair here! I have been wearing my hair in a short pixie cut for years, and have never had problems attracting a man. Not trying to grow out my hair just because some guy won't like it. Take it or leave it!
Shay4YourMind81 So true!!!
Advice:
Just don't try too hard! Be yourself and wear or do things because YOU feel good about them and this is what makes you confident! And confidence is the most attractive thing 😊👏
forget all that! just be yourself and do what you like!
straight hair is boooooring
curly hair is boring😂
Haha I think all hair types are gorgeous
+alora jade how is curly hair boring lol..... It has different shapes and all sorts of different looks to curly hair. Straight hair is just straight hair lol
+Raven Anderson so you cant style straight hair differently lol?
+Klara Rotenmayer it's straight. There's not much diversity with it
"If your teeth are yellow, whiten them." Boiii you ain't no boss
i don't mind following all these tips if the guy looks like a Calvin Klein model. if he doesn't, take several seats.😎
how often do you even run into calvin klein model looking types? lol.. like never
ROLF samee every man even the ugly and good for nothing expect a lot and they ain't shit
Lol yea
+Andrea Moya so true.. These mfs need to chill
+Wichi Woo lmao true😂😂💀
Your Topics are ALWAYS on point😻
I agree with number five. I had talked to my crush with a red sweater on and now he considers me closer to getting a relationship
Nothing more unattractive than when people comment calling things unfair and biased just Bc of a hair comment 😂😂😂😂 it's a study just Bc a majority prefer smooth silky straight hair doesn't mean there aren't millions that love short curly hair
Antam it's not a study. Unless there's evidence or proof of one, stating an opinion is not an official study.
interesting study. I remember I saw once on the Tyra Banks Show that candle light can instantly make anyone more attractive. so just carry a candle with you everywhere you go, easy as that. haha. I think I might be an exception to the long hair thing. I've had long hair my whole life and I recently cut it to my shoulders and I've never in my life gotten more compliments on it.
Long hair is preferred but you can't overdo it and have that dirty hippy overly long hair that's got blunt ends with no style. It still has to look nice like thoughtfulness and effort was put in.
Lol this list is bollocks! I met my husband when i was coming from the Gym at a petrol station with no make, Curly Hair, smelling sweaty. And he was dressed in an suit.
Living Thedream so cute lmao ♥️
Trying too hard with your appearance only just makes you more intimidating.
I like his crisp, concise style. He gets to the point quickly which I appreciate. Some of these videos are so boring and ramble, ramble, ramble
sorry I have short and curly hair😐
Me too lol
Short hair and curly hair is still cute
I hate the fact that he says only straight hair
I hate the fact that he says only straight hair
I hate the fact that he says only straight hair
White teeth, big boobs, groomed appearance, nice perfume will attract opposite gender - indeed cutting edge relationship tips.
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who said big boobs????
Some of this sounds eurocentric or based around Caucasian ideals. Us black women must be doomed then with our afro type hair that grows round and curly. And as for red lipstick, it doesn't always suit our skin tones! Ask a man who loves black women what he would find most attractive and it it WOULD fit this. As for the Zeus study, please tell me who the cohort Included? I bet there were no black men involved.
Thank you!
This is it... I commented before seeing this comment. The study is racially biased, and contradicts his statement in his intro, he makes ally of bold statements and to be quite frank this video is probably mainly what he himself finds attractive, he definitely cannot speak for every man. Red lipstick doesn't suit every woman and that don't matter what colour your skin shade is! Very rarely will you see a black woman with long straight hair! Confidence and you being you will attract the man for you! And vice versa... There's no rule book to dating and relationships...
ladies, you don't need validation about what is attractive from a white man. Europeans have different value systems than Africans. Ask African/Black men what they find attractive and go from there. Also...attraction is energetic, it's not entirely physical. Self love...confidence, sensuality, femininity is attractive. African women are not doomed unless a white man's opinion is more valued than a black man's.
I feel like most people didn't even listen to any statistics he even said.. down and straight was ranked #1 with 38% and curly was ranked #2 with 33%.. not that huge of a difference really
red lipstick CAN work for dark skin... even really dark skin. You just gotta find the right shade. There are tons of make up tutorials here on YT about how to find the right lipstic for your dark skin. I got dark skin and i found a classic red lipstick that looks absolutely glorious for my skin tone, and its not just me that thinks that,I get compliments for it too. I have a friend from Kenya and she has really dark skin, and she is a fan of the red lip too, she just found the shade the works with her skin and It looks amazing.
Of course the same lipstick my african friends would use may not look good on me, and my lipstick may not look good on her or my white friends, my friend can even pull of a yellow lipstick and look beautifull while I just look like a freaking pikachu. Everyone can wear the classic red lip, you just gotta find the right one for you
I don’t know how right are your advices but the best part of your videos are it’s short and to the point.
I'm agree with you, the most important for any relationship (friends, family, coworkers...) is love yourself, do the things for you ,go behind your dreams to be happy and share a sincerely smile with the others :)
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Working on all 5 of these things. Growing out my hair, getting skinny, whitening my teeth, have several scented lotions, and buy some clothes in color red. I've lost 55 pounds in 4 months. Working on seducing a guy at work (NOT a boss).
55 pounds in 4 months?? That's incredible! Keep going
I genuinely like this guy and his videos. - always gets straight to it and doesn't brag on and make me bored. Really worth listening to. Well done.
red is also a power color so it is conflicting because men don't like it when woman have power.
And red also doesn't suit every woman
+Jennifer Cynthia (Hair) true
just like me, I'm not lovin RED ! Black is my taste$ color :)
so I'm not that attaractive - LOL
it takes a certain personality type to be able to wear red
+brunettesweetie21 agreed
I have extremely curly hair, and I really don't want to straighten it. I wear red ALL OF THE TIME I have been told that red is my signature colour, and that red looks best with my skin, eye colour and hair colour.I have medium olive-toned skin and red is a very common colour for me. I have a red winter coat, red shoes and a lot of red shirts. But that's just me, and I don't want to change who I am, especially for some guy. I would rather have a guy except for who I am, or not al all. And that should do for everyone, no one should have to change who they are or what they look for like for anyone or anything. You were born the way you are and were not meant to be changed. So, don't. Don't mess with Mother Nature, it will come back to kick you in the butt later. Believe me. And to add to my pile of red things, my glasses frames are red.
For those who dosen't want to watch the video:
1. White teeth
2. Your smell
3. Long straight hair
4. Red lipstick
5. Wear the color red in clothes
As a Boy I can confirm these are true except the Hair one. Short hair can also be very attractive. Personality is also very important even after all this. Be an open girl who is genuinly interested in boys.Try to approach attractive boys because boys are approached extremely rarely and by just approaching them or by giving them a hint that you like them,you are going to set yourself apart from 95% of girls.Most girls just wait around thinking they are queen and deserved to be approached by all boys. Do not be that girl. Good luck on your journey of being attractive.
I was with you until the long straight hair lol I am black my hair is not naturally straight. But I see where you are coming from a lot of men like straight hair,my hair gets bigger and bigger like a fro. But good advice :), like watching your videos.
So did you hear anything else he said?
+Serena Quaye yeah I said good advice I wasn't negative I still watch his videos.
It's not science. Trust me, this crap is not science. What he is using is a survey. Not science. Surveys are small groups of people asked a bunch of questions and they conclude what it all means. Science is far more then just that. Trust me, you have nothing to worry about. No matter what you're beautiful in the real eyes of science. Science only states that you are a human and you may or may not be attracted to another human and may go on to make other humans. That's it. Human to human. Nothing having to do with anything else. Now if you want to go more in depth, you have to study anthropology or sociology, otherwise science is very simple. You human, you like other human, you go to human and might make other humans.
+teenwitchlovergirl umm I said I agree with what he said but you guys make it look like I was attacking the guy. But thanks for the info :)
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I know you weren't attacking him. It's just as a woman that works in the science field (Might be small but I am happy) and as a child of a scientist, to hear people claim that physiology is hard science or an exact science or even use surveys as science makes me cringe. It's a soft science and doesn't have that much value compared to hard science which has to go through a much more rigorous study and it has to happen over a time frame of years and years. So I wouldn't ever worry too much of what this man says. What he is talking about is what some men believe within western society, which is not that important to the rest of the world. I would always say this. Screw what others think about you, you will other find another human to love or you wont. It's nothing to really concern yourself with too much.
This is a good vid. It's honest. There's criticism of the tips in a lot of the comments. Whether everyone wants to admit it or not, men are attracted to the physical first. Yes confident and great personality is key but he has to be physically attracted to you to talk to you. These were some good tips outside of the "it's all about confidence" cliche that our friends tell us. While I know I can't do/won't do the straight hair tip (I'm Black with tight coiled hair) I can do the other things like scent, incorporating red articles of clothing in my attire. Whiter teeth, that's a biological attraction. Teeth, smile, oral hygiene is VERY important for me so I can't expect it not to be for someone else.
So basically you're saying that short hair is ugly... How rude. I have short hair, I don't care what people think about it but still. You're basically insulting anyone who actually cares what people think for the people who have short hair. Nice job.
Also, most girls with short hair actually have boyfriends. 😒
I was with you until you said that about "long straight hair " i have long curly black hair and i can tell you lots of people men and women they love it, i even feel that when i go out with my friends and they have long straight hair i do catch more attention than them so I wouldn't change my hair for some stupid researches!
In my experience curly long hair makes men go wild! That has been my experience too.
I appreciate the jovial, upbeat way you are presenting your information. I'm wondering though, are these BIOLOGICAL preferences or SOCIALIZED preferences? Straight hair, Rosey cheeks... Hmmm biologically that would make all men attracted to only ONE type of woman.
Idk bout that but um.. i like shaved girls more that hairy girls (even tho i think hairly girls are cute) and biologically women would be more hairy but society makes women shave and i defenetely like shaved girls so idk about biology preferences
wow people are so dramatic he’s not saying ‘have no personality to attract the standards of men’ WTFFF?? If he made something about personality I guarantee that ppl would say “wow he is telling us to change to be someone else “ you can never win with ppl. I don’t have straight long hair but I loved this video
This video makes me feel really sick inside...the message this sends to girls and to young women like me is really to hyperanalyze your appearance and "work on improving such" just to attract men...this is sexism in our society...imagine raising boys by training them from a young age to be overly concerned about looking good and fit and perfect for girls. This school of thought being portrayed in this video is really misogynistic, someone had to say something.
It's just a study it's just for fun
+Silly Me says the little girl taking everything he says to heart.
This isn't misogynistic at all, little girls will think about the way they look without people saying anything about it. It's basic biology. To attract a mate, we're smart humans yes, but still animals. Sorry to say. +Antam was right, it's just for fun.
Or...you can just not follow the advice.
i'm just watching ur second video and i have already clicked like before even watching it! love yr energy 😚
smile, lipstick and (coconut hair care products) curly hair... FOLKS love the HAIR..its staying. will try to find some red.. my red shirt photos are usually great.
beautiful lady how are you doing?
I was told once by a man at work that I smile a lot and am very "inviting". He said that may make a man stay around longer than I may like.
I'm not exactly sure what he meant by that but I chose to take it as a compliment lol.
So smile a lot, ladies! ;)
(I still do not have a man so what do I know hah!)
Why do some black women become overly sensitive about their hair? Why is that. This man mentioned more than four other attractive traits men like in a woman, yet all the majority of black women commentaries can focus on is the part about hair? Enough said. Yall over sensitivity can be a turn off to most men. So who cares if you have coils hair? Own it or straighten the hair out, damn it than let the rest of us hear something else other than the hair topic.
Besides, one should know having standards, a great personality, or boundaries is more attractive to any man than whether you have silky, smooth hair texture. Take care of you and call it a day. Gees.
hair is women's life haha
YES!!!!
I'm white and I was offended at the long straight hair comment soooo....
+Lalala123 Will you stop eating meat bc a guy said he only likes vegetables? You can never pls everyone. So careless.
+Lalala123 so was I.. I just cut my hair 7inches for medical reasons and if anything I have got more attention from men. Do what makes you feel best, confidence is the sexiest!
Always be yourself . Don't take yourself to serious. Laugh more and enjoy yourself and their company.
thanks for the info. good to keep in mind. but ladies work with what you've got and be confident in what makes you unique. I say confidence is very attractive 😃
I'm a women blonde curly hair most times I blow it out straight. I changed my hair styles often. Born with curly hair. Most times I wear it in a bun. I have NEVER had a problem attracting men EVER! I live in NYC and I see so many beautiful women with hair styles from short, to long, curly, wavy, braids, finger waves, corn rows, and I've noticed men staring at all of us!
I personally think that all that relationship videos don't work if you don't have the guts to make a move.Not that your work is bad,it's great 😄
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i think you should do a video on how to approach someone you're interested or having a crush on. I'm the type that becomes a awkward blubbering mess in front of some one i like
Dang, I just cut my hair
Me too girl, 7 inches gone😂
Same😂
same! but i still would've cuted it! idid it for myself, not them :*
Dang I'm an African woman with type 4c hair 🤣🤣🤣
#3. Red lipstick. If he's not attracted to the rest of you, red lipstick isn't going to change that. #5. Red clothing. Not all men like red. It will attract men who like red, but perhaps repulse men who prefer white, black, etc..
This video, and so many others are telling women and girls that everything they do should be to please men. Women aren't objects for men's pleasure, women are people, and this video is degrading people into thinking that they need to conform to what men find attractive. So, if your'e a woman or girl reading this, have short hair, wear as much or as little makeup as you want, and wear whatever the hell you want, because you should always dress for yourself, and wear something that gives you confidence, not dress for men. This video is BS.
Be unique and be yourself
Thats it
Thank you for making this video! It is very helpful!
Now that I think about it, my last relationship started falling apart once I cut my long hair into a lob.
my ex boyfriend didnt like lipstick at all. he used to tell me he wants me to remove it before he kiss me:3
I'm glad he's your ex now
Since he's your EX now, please can I date him? I really want some one like him in my life.
+Kay Rai hahahah why? 😂
Zoe Fragou 'coz I don't like wearing Lipstick at all. And ALL of my BFs so far have been pain in the a** about me not wearing Lipstick!
Last tip is the bestest..2 Thumbs up to u Adam:)
at the same time be yourself but dont forget that everything he said in the video are studies from real men not just his own opinion ..
You are so cute! So kind and smart. Love your delivery and charisma. Red Lips Girl 💋 scored big time! Great video 🤟
#1 can go for guys too. Idk why but I love guys who have nice teeth. It's always a plus and so does smelling good. But like it when it's a hint where I can't tell unless we hug or he walks right past me.
And 34% isn't too far off from 38% so ima keep growing out my curls. Straightening is too damaging.
Thanks for the red lip tip!
oohh... having long hair... I remembered when I was texting this guy, I suddenly showed him my picture that I cut my hair really really short... he was so shocked and keep telling me WHY? He said he prefer women with long hair but I didn't care. When we finally met, he thought that my short hair wasn't that bad and he liked it afterwards...
wtf? long straight hair ?
I have long natural curly hair and I love it. Lots of men are just tired of these standard straight hair and find curly hair really interesting.
Attraction goes deeper than the physical...
I have no long or straight Hair, I'm African.
Don't wear lipstick...
And I'm so magnetic
Why on earth is this in my recommendations?? I don't care if some basic dude thinks I'm not appealing because I don't wear perfume but I still don't smell. Why would I go out do and buy things for some guy that I am not even dating. If I do something I will be doing it for me or my significant other or because I want to, not to be more appealing to someone who I am not emotionally attracted. If you like me you like me, not my hair out my teeth out for wearing red!
One guy noticed me just when I cut my hair off, we knew each other for a year. Some guys are attracted to short hair.
What about girls with natural curly hair
Yay! My hair is usually down and is so pretty long. Finally something that is actually natural to me.
long straight hair doesnt fit to my face line. ㅜㅜ
Hi Adam, would it be possible to cite the studies you have referenced; and future studies? Thanks!
I don't like wearing red clothes.. But gimme my red lipstick 👄💄
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If u want people to be attracted by your all u need is to be confident in whatever ure and be proud about yourself self love is important