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I subbed to you a few months ago because you did a really good documentary. Since then it's been almost wall to wall, back to back Prince Harry and Narcissism. No one cares. I've hardly watched anything for ages, and here you are again talking shyte, because you are not even a qualified psychiatrist, are you? {:o:O:}
@@ansfridaeyowulfsdottir8095 Literally in the middle of a premiere for an episode on Wrongful Conviction. If youtube is just giving you the stuff I've done on the royals, then it's singled you out for that: ruclips.net/video/4ZVQElYtC9k/видео.html
"I gave [William] a quick summary of what Meg and I had been dealing with. Don’t worry, Harold. No one believes that shit. Not true. They do. It’s drip-fed to them, day by day, and they come to believe it without even being aware." This, in reference to a story in The Sun that claimed Meghan had done p*rn. I don't know if it's technically narcissism, but it certainly demonstrates his contempt for the public at large. He seems to think everyone shares his level of intelligence.
I used to think it’s was her too, but after ‘Spare’, the interviews and talking about suing Sasha because she ‘violated his privacy’ showed in spades that the relationship with Meghan only revealed who Harry is, when it had been concealed by the PR machine of the British Royal Family.
I dated a guy that went to a private school in South Africa, and he moved in circles with people that were friends with Harry, and let me tell you, all these guys that were in this specific crowd were really horrible people, even they guy i dated turned out to be narcissistic and really looked down on the "common" folk. And this was 20 years ago. From then I believed that Harry wasn't a nice true person, man. He just proved me right, about him and all those guys I met in that specific crowd(school).
@francoiselemeur7325 I'm nice, so I have a right to judge Harry. I'm not a hypocrite. Anyone who is nicer than he is can judge him without being a hypocrite. The bad people can also judge him as long as they are not pretending to be better than he is, but just exposing him as being at their level to protect more innocent victims.
I find it bizarre that he's whining about feeling "caged" and not "safe" because of the security officers protecting him, and is now suing the British government to provide him with security officers to make him feel "safe".
It’s been reported that their Canadian security team often was used to run errands or drive them about. I suspect, the “need for taxpayer funded security” has more to do with getting “free” staff and services… and diplomatic benefits, than actual safety from harm.
I wonder how people in 3rd world countries that have to walk for miles to carry containers of water everyday feel about this. Perhaps they would prefer “ privacy” instead of water.
The point where I knew there was something off with Harry was when he was interviewed by James Corden and he was complaining that he’d never been on a bus, saying ‘poor me’ again. I just thought how stupid he was to think he should be able to hop on a bus because what would happen if he’d been shot or kidnapped and that could cause an International incident. So he believes he has the right to do anything he feels like doing yet he wants security, paid for by the British public, to keep him safe
I didn't know about this. My husband bought the book for me but I find Harry such an off putting person that it's not getting read very much. He will twist anything into him being a victim somehow.
@@flowerjpotter1629 it’s not in the book. It was an interview he did early on, on an open top bus in America with James Corden who was being quite sycophantic, sympathising with him having not been on a bus before.
Yes, it was a begging for sympathy. Maybe he just never wanted to be on a bus. He seems to have not been constrained at various times in his life, e.g, playing strip poker in Las Vegas, losing his virginity outside a pub, investigating his mother's car crash. Also, he could have disguised himself and gone out in public, if he wanted to...Royals have done that in the past.
I live in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. Harry did his military training before being deployed to Afghanistan at CFB Suffield, which is near Medicine Hat, AB, and about 2-3 hours southeast of Calgary. During his training, H spent a LOT of time in Calgary bars, drunk out of his mind, most notably at the bar "Cowboys". He was known for harassing and 'slobbering all over' the waitresses and trying to get them to strip. Calgary is not a huge city, and his behaviour was WELL KNOWN among all of us locals. Harry had his sottish behaviour go unpublished many times, but everyone knew he had done something stupid on the weekend when a puff piece talking about how wonderful he was appeared on Mondays.
Harry was the Queen's favourite and the one everyone, everywhere felt sorry for. Thus he was enabled, mercilessly and like any enabled child never heard the word, or the action "no." Now, as a result, we have a spoiled man-child used to getting his own way through emotional manipulation. He's in the US now, in the Entertainment Industry, it is not a very forgiving place, it is generally filled with lot's of rejection and a place where one's "star" DOES NOT shine brightly for too long. Good luck to Harry where no one cares who he was yesterday. Producing palace dirt and gossip can only go so far.
Everyone seems to forget that he has a brother who grew up in the same circumstances and did not become a narcissist. Harry was a problem since he was very young. His mother even said so.
I grew up in the same house as my 3 siblings and I'm completely different to them. For one they are all religious, I'm not. It's not just your home life that influences you.
His brother seems to have had life experiences that involved the "ordinaries" who are not privileged and work very hard and are still struggle everyday to just get by. Even after William left the military, he volunteered as a medical helicopter pilot. After Harry left the military he seems to go right back to his drunken ways. Remember that video of him naked (or mostly) chasing young women in their underwear around a Las Vegas hotel suite? That's was telling. He never seemed to want to grow up and now he's showing just exactly how immature, self-absorbed, childish and clueless he is about life. He wants to be coddled and treated special and especially MEgz.
I agree! I seemed recall several stories about Harry now that I think about it, he always seemed upset when he was losing a horse race, or something offended him. I recall, him a couple of times storming off just being so upset! He believes in himself and I think no one else! I wish you would just go back to where he came from... That may sound harsh but reality has to set in he can't just come to this country expecting this and that to accompany him and his wife only! He's not my damn king!
@@cindihunter9119 Exactly, he may be a "prince" in the UK but not here in the US. Here he is just Harry, and he impresses no one, in fact, he is a huge turn-off. He is also not a celebrity because he has no talent and is clearly too dumb for his own well-being, as he has been the one to blame for his own demise and destroyed reputation. We don't have a monarchy here in the USA, so you are no prince or duke here. You are less than a spare; you're just an unattractive, coneited, ungrateful, too dumb for words "guy". Yep, hear this, here you are just a regular Joe! Even that is too good for you. I'd take a regular Joe over a "prince" that isn't one! You have yourself to blame for the fact that you have lost all respect from everyone!
Harry doesn't know how the rest of live our lives, not because he is unaware or hasn't seen because he has, it's because he's never cared enough to notice or consider the circumstances and difficulties of any of those people. He just doesn't care, it doesn't affect him.
I haven't read any info on it but I would imagine that narcissism is more common among 2nd borns or the youngest child. The oldest child is given more responsibility & has to assist with the younger child so it seems they do not grow up so self-centered.
I remember Harry scoffing over the idea that people were devastated over Diana’s death. He said (words to this effect) ‘They didn’t even personally know her and acting like they did’ Such a scummy thing to say. Like ‘she was my mum. You didn’t know her.’ Reading that made me realise the sort of person he is. I really dislike him so much
Those two do not want privacy, narcissists want attention and control, they crave it. What they really want, is secrecy, to be absolved of all consequences and to control the narrative.
“Outrageously wealthy but that doesn’t bring happiness.” It seems to bring quite a bit of misery actually. Was speaking with a British pal in the hot tub at my gym last night. Asked him what he feels about Haz/Megs. He said: “They make me feel embarrassed to be English.” I told him the Kardash klan make me feel embarrassed to be American. We had a good ol’ chuckle about it, really. 😂
Wealth doesn't "bring quite a bit of misery" or anything else. Plenty of poor people are miserable and plenty of rich people are miserable. Plenty of poor people are happy and plenty of rich people are happy.
Thank you Andrew for reading his book so we didn’t have to suffer through reading it for ourselves. 💗 I used to think M was the narcissistic one, but now I have realized that H is as well. They clearly deserve each other.
"... the fox was just trying to survive, without a member of the Royal family blowing its brains out" - 🤣 Brilliant line & quick observation Andrew, here here! 👏🏼👏🏼
IS THIS TRUE?! His animal cruelty is obvious! See the photo! But what else is true? If this is true, journalists must do their homework and expose this. Uncovering this is more important than finding the “older woman” to who Harry lost his virginity to. ruclips.net/video/8SjgkKqAbIU/видео.html
I am so tired of his monopolizing Diana’s memory. William was her son too. William was traumatized by her loss as well. He acts like he is the only one who has suffered. What bc William gets to be king he loses the right to have lost his mother as well. Harry is dim witted, selfish and you are right…hates that his beloved privacy has been violated but comes up with every excuse of why he violated others
Of course you become a narcissist when you grow up more important than normal people! I am more shocked that his ghost writer didnt tell him how that makes him look!
Exactly! But he’s so unaware and always got away with stuff He’s got the Messiah complex That will be his downfall he no longer has the palace PR covering for him
maybe even the ghost writer was like "yeah, that's good Harry, but hows about we mention when u served in Afghanistan, somebody suggests that you're a hero & you say, 'no, those guys in the jets, they're the heros, i'm none of that' "
I think he is just not too smart ,putting it lightly, spoiled rotten and in a way neglected emotionally in childhood, so he feels woulnerable ,invalid like with his feelings, like all narcissists. Also never worked on himself mentally or spiritualky. Sure a bit narcissistic ,totally out of touch with real life.... but his wife is a league above on narcissisam.. league of her own
Harry suffers from a superiority complex. I see clearly through his faux humility and virtue signaling. I doubt he has many real friends. I have to feel sorry for him, because I really believe he doesn’t get it. “You can’t get blood from a stone”. Thanks Andrew. Love your channel, and am enjoying watching it grow 😊
@@VaderTheWhite HAROLD values his privacy like a pig 🐖 in mud 🤔He's constantly in the media plus HW puts out her puff pieces so no they don't value anything but the almighty dollar 💰 imo
I think there may be two things overlapping. Narcissists often contradict themselves because they lack self criticism. In this case this is compounded by a deficit in critical thinking skills.
I think that's a very astute observation. We folks in the bushes, in the fields and gutters, in dilapidated homes and driving shabby cars without personal drivers will never, ever truly be seen by those who have their vision eclipsed by privilege and protection so it does leave them exposed to other undiagnosed mental health issues. Funny how one of his alleged platforms is mental health, PTSD, veteran care, etc. He is as thick as the platform he claims to represent and champion. Critical thinking skills has passed by the hazbeen. He will never be able to perform to cause. He's damaged goods.
I mean, he bangs on and on about "privacy" and then releases this book that digs SO deeply into not just his private life that none of us were REALLY aware of but also the private lives of the people he grew up with. Also, yes he grew up with significant Press "intrusion" but as a member of the Royal Family he is actually FAR more protected from the Press than any celebrity (look at Michael Jackson's poor kids, for example) and should an ordinary member of the public ever find themselves in the Press they have literally NO protection. The Press are a double-edge sword, you get the rough with the smooth, but Harry only wants to see the Press (and life in general) go with the smooth. That's not how life works and, usually, someone who has suffered deep loss, and especially someone who has had to go to War, understands the natural contrast of life and yet somehow he is oblivious to it. Literally has blinders on.
He didn't give his former girlfriend any privacy. He's used them and probably embellished alot about their relationships. Mr. "I value privacy over water" is disgusting.
Harry thinks he is championing the "truth" in his book but the reality is, people bought the book for palace dirt and gossip. No one is interested in Harry's oppressed life and his "journey to freedom." Don't be so naive Harry, no one really cares, just give everyone behind the scenes drama.
@@harrynac6017 yes, that is correct and unfortunately the driver of her car had been drinking mixed in with Prozac and Tiapride so she was actually killed by a drunk driver
This guy has been a brat ALL his life, was never corrected or disciplined by his mom (too busy feeling sorry for herself), dad (who calls him “my darling boy”), or Nannie’s (heaven forbid), and given most everything he wanted. Of COURSE he is supremely selfish, clueless as to how others have to live, and narcissistic. He needs a dose of real life. The royals are better off without him, as well as his cruel, selfish wife. I feel for their babies.
He's been deprived of privacy, but he's never been thirsty. I don't know about the "for those free to search for it" statement. Maybe narcissistic, but on the other hand, his privileged upbringing certainly shielded him from a lot of bad things regular people deal with. I could see someone like that growing up reading about close families leading calm happy lives, and born explorers getting to live out their dreams, and having exactly the thought he described. I have to be careful when dealing with an obvious narcissist not to ascribe everything they say to their vanity. On the other hand, he really does come across as a real jackass.
@@hollystiener16 If he'd have grown up in one of those nice families, who knows how he'd have turned out. But that wasn't my point. He's certainly narcissistic, but even a total sociopath makes observations unrelated to his pathology. I just see how this could have been such a statement.
Touché and well said because Henry didn't get in the army, he packed a redhead tantrum and Queen Granny gave in or just ordered his posting. It took soldiers away from the war to 'shadow' the narcissistic Twat. I could go on but it boils my blood. Flying a Commonwealth flag for New Zealand 🇳🇿 💙
Haven't tuned into HG in a while, but he did not believe H to be a narcissist. Rather the partner of a narcissist will acquire the traits to please their master. Personally, I don't think we have ever seen the real Harry. He definitely has some serious issues.
Jealousy is a sign of narcissism. He's so obviously jealous of his brother on many obvious levels but when he gleefully tells us that William is going bald, and no longer looks like Diana, it struck me that he'd been jealous of his brother's looks, especially the likeness to their mother.
I agree. I believe Harry writes about the only things he's ever done on his own, which isn't much. He grew up with immense privilege, yet has always been unable to really do anything worth writing about which is why his book was filled with insignificant stories. He is blinded by jealousy and hate for his own family. All Harry's wife has done through her own narcissistic need for control is provide an outlet for him to escape the cage his mind has created around him and to vent every transgression he believes has ever been committed against him. He will not stand down even if he is unhappy, because this will prove his brother correct about Harry's wife and her intent. He is dug in and now unreachable.
Let's hope 🤞. If one recalls the many receipted Harry speaking for his brother/my brother feels/thinks so too, interviews even as late as 2016\7 it IS worrying. Obvs.. To sound important but?? Did H just jump the gun with 'their hidden truth'? This can seem paranoid contagion but considering the unbelieveable BS that has been played out before our very own eyes.... Who would have thought it possible???!! Sick.
Such an angry person too, if you really go through Spare there are so many weird, ugly thoughts in there. Like when he compares the click of paparazzi cameras to guns cocking and hints he got PTSD from it(he had only attended bootcamp at the time). You would think a soldier would avoid comparisons of what are really annoyances to wartime horrors, he's a 🤡 Edit: if you liked the magic psychedelic fox, he also says he saw a crying elephant in a river during a rainstorm later in the book lol
I thought he said the clicking of cameras gave him PTSD because they were following his mum when she crashed. So yet another contradictory story. He seems to thoroughly enjoy cameras these days.
@@gallopinggoose7997 Harry must mean that he doesn't feel as emotionally attached to William now that he can no longer imagine him as a substitute for his mother with the same blonde hairstyle.
Calling privacy more important that water in a rural community in Australia?! Having grown up in those communities - that blows my brain. We had times when we were down to less than 10 litres of water per person per day... Think about that - drinking washing cooking cleaning....
The year Harry was referencing (2003) literally had that level of water restrictions. I’m 31 now and I’ve never experienced drought worse than 2002/2003. Like, bucket in the shower to catch water to flush the toilet in a coastal city level of drought. And farmer suicides always spike when there’s drought. So it just compounds the absurdity of his statement about privacy being a more precious resource.
He never went hungry, always had a bed and a warm blanket ….he didn’t have to sleep in a car or the side work. I think he needs to pray to god and thank him for all he has
Just because a narcissist says they are mindful about others doesn’t mean they’re mindful of others if a narcissist says that sort of thing it’s because they want you to THINK they’re such a nice, thoughtful person. Narcissists play mind games very well.
I can't believe he let this go to press. Did no one is his circle, his PR people, say, "This is inane, you can't press this book as-is"? I can't even go to a function without my mother telling me my hips are spreading and I look horrible in cool colors.
Harry is SO much like his great-uncle David, briefly King Edward. Edward let himself be bossed about by Wallis Simpson because , at first, it was novel and amusing. Later when it became embarrassing, cringey and toxic, he seems to have believed that the abuse meant affection. Same with Harry. No one EVER contradicts him (except PaPá and apparently big brother.) When Harry was 2 hours late to his first date with MM, she was furious and told him that was never going to happen again. He was taken aback since most women would wait and be grateful for the experience. Having a self-confessed need for mothering, she fits the bill perfectly. I hope no one ever hears anything from Harry like what the poor ex-king said one night to his harpy-wife Wallis at a party when he had annoyed her ❤in some way: “Oh Mummy. You’re not going to send me to bed in tears again, are you?”
His mother made him a narcissist telling him to do what you want just don't get caught and get into trouble.She had beauty and charm which he doesn't and that's the difference between her and her dim narcissistic son Harry.
Great video Andrew 🤩! I ploughed through Spare on audible and it left me just plain sad and shocked! Sad at what a waste he has made of all his golden opportunities 😢& as you expressed totally shocked by his completely obtuse lack of insight!! To me it has illustrated that the extraordinary level of privilege he has enjoyed has left him with an inflated sense of entitlement and self righteousness and sadly a complete LACK OF GRATITUDE! In fact he moans and wails and is continually jealous, lonely and isolated by all this terrible privilege. Presumably nobody ever tells these people how life really is?! That you get back what you put in… that happiness without gratitude just does not exist! We saw the same result of toxic privilege with Prince Andrew in his terrible interview, & recently the ghastly Ghislaine Maxwell and probably many people from their level of society who just due to the accident of their birth have also enjoyed lives of ridiculous privilege and are just miserable greedy grasping fat cats who contribute nothing to anyone else but themselves… and are never satisfied let alone grateful. The only positive in these peoples lives is hopefully that they show the rest of us just how empty and meaningless their lives truly are! ❤
How did the army need him? Very bizarre. It must have been a nightmare for them, having him. He would have to have security, and people making sure he isn't put at any risk. Like you said, he would have put someone else, out of a job, for his own vanity, and entertainment. He's lied many times about being a pilot. Allegedly he failed the exams, several times. He's really not a good example of much really. Then he & MeGain thought they were too good to be doing charity visits, and shaking people's hands - without getting paid for doing so. Despite Prince Charles, and the British taxpayers paying out many millions each year, just for their upkeep. He just seems to be a self-centred, nasty, greedy, spoilt brat. And extremely narcissistic.
Talk about a sad dichotomy; your summation is spot on. Privacy more than water…😢 Let them eat cake comes to mind. Clueless. Selfish. Cruel. Mind boggling that anyone could be that far removed from those around him.
You've summed it up so we'll. He is a classic case of the grass is greener when he's had enough education and exposure to appreciate his grass is so exclusive, 99% of humanity could never look upon it.
So his privacy is a human right more important than water, but his friends and family are not worthy of privacy? It’s fine for him to describe other people’s personal life in disgusting detail but he gets to write his own story? Laughable
I remember reading somewhere an interview with Princess Diana where she is saying that she is worried about not William, but Harry when they grow up. It is very long time ago when they were children. She knew probably that something was wrong with him.
Great video Andrew. You brought up points that most other videos missed, which was interesting. Am just finishing off the book and found that almost every page is either him being a victim because of what someone said/did/thinks or him bragging about how special he is in some weird way. I also think his short, clipped sentences was him trying to be ‘cool’. Didn’t work. It’s such a shame that all that narcissistic energy was put into getting their revenge instead of something worthwhile. What a waste given their incredible platform to do good.
Once again, I must thank you for reading Harry’s book, so I didn’t have to!😂 The more I think about these passages, the more I think about drug affected thinking! Harry begins to remind me of episodes in Hunter Biden’s life at the height of his drug and alcohol use. Seriously now, would any regular old person writing about themselves, with or without ghost writer help, put in so many things such as their thoughts while looking out a window from “the loo”; illegal drug use; being frost bitten in unusual places that they explicitly define!; give enough of a description of a sexual encounter that all of your friends, and then the world!, could easily identify, with no permission given by the partner; or, discuss the number of people they killed while in the military? No. I don’t think so. Before you explained it, after hearing a particular passage about life in the military, my first thought was “Do they have a lot of Americans serving in the British military?” My husband and I have been privileged to visit the UK a few times, and I was pretty sure that British people do not refer to anybody as “Dude”! You think that Harry’s book points out two things. 1. He is no genius. and 2. He likely has a pretty blemish with alcohol and drug use. Narcissist? “You betcha!” (My in-laws in Minnesota and North Dakota say that! You probably don’t hear that in England!)
I read the book, and I found him insufferable! He is so dumb! Someone needs to educate Harry: Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt. He has sold everything: his family, his privacy, his self-respect and dignity. There is nothing left for him to sell. Before the book, I didn't care about Harry, one way or another. But now, I feel sorry for the guy. He's broken and weak. He is damaged goods and the opposite of what a REAL man looks like. He would have been better off keeping his mouth shut and allowing the rest of the world to be neutral or maybe even like him. But after his interviews and books, etc., all of it, so freaking constantly in our faces, he and Meghan have only hurt themselves. At best, they are a joke; at worst, they are despised. As an American, in regards to the exaggerated, mocking, and disrespectful curtsy to the queen only made Meghan look AWFUL. Her attitude was disrespectful not only to the Royal family and to the Queen (RIP) but also to the Britts and their culture. We (not from the UK) do not need to relate to or even understand their traditions, but any self-respectable person would at least show respect for someone else's traditions. Does she have a clue how bad she made herself look? And is Harry so weak that he cannot tell his wife that some comments or attitudes are unacceptable and should be avoided? Is he so pathetic that he fails to stand up to her, even when it’s to try to protect her from making an ass out of herself? Get it through your head Meghan, we don’t like you because of your skin color, we don’t like you because you are insufferable and unlikeable. Too funny! The Prince and the Penis: A Children's Story of Royalty and Friendship" ruclips.net/video/0YJh6kaxWFA/видео.html Here is another idea for another “book”: Meghan kissed the prince and turned him into a frog, and then they moved to Frogmore where they lived miserably ever after.
Thank you so much for this Andrew. I look for your videos every day. I admire your intelligence and sense of humour. I live in Canada, however, I was born and grew up in the UK which gives me a pretty good perspective on Nutmeg and Ginger. Check out the comment from a fellow Calgarian regarding Hazs’ so-called training before being deployed to Afghanistan, Everything this person said is true. He was an absolute disgrace
👍👍👍🤗🤗🤗 Thank you for verifying what happened here with Harry in Calgary, while he was at CFB Suffield in 2007. I recieved a lot of abuse for recounting what all of our national papers reported and is still in the public domain.
I believe that Megan wrote a lot of this book. Listen to her podcasts. She loves to describe her thoughts with extravagance and blown description. In the rain.cold icy wind….etc. (only an example) that’s her talking, Harry never talks with that kind of flair.
I served in the British Army and later, in the Royal Navy, in the ranks, and later as an officer. I have met Royals in the military but not Harry. I find it odd that Harry appears to have no former military as friends. Odd because the military are good at accepting anyone from any background. Friendships made in the military are often friends for life, through thick and thin. Yet Harry stands out for having none. Says it all to me.
According to HG Tudor, Harry is an empath with strong narcissistic traits. His empathy has been eroded by circumstances. Extensive drug use has increased his paranoia. Regardless, I can't think of any redeeming qualities, he's now just a talentless grifter riding on his royal connections, a very unpleasant person. He and his wife deserve each other, which is good for them since they're still so deeply in love !
It was cool to date a Prince.? 0ld Hollywood PR knew 'single status' was a plus in fanning groupie fantasies. 😜. H lost squealing fans the minute he issued ' official be-girlfriended warrant'!!! If she was attacked was it the basement dwelling twisted envious disillusioned fangirls??
The Australia story is like he gives with one hand by genuinely thinking of the family, but then takes with the other by believing privacy is more precious than water! Utterly mad. He's a spoiled little rich kid. He has suffered difficult times but he's also got incredible wealth, opportunities and education. And the fox passage! I was so annoyed listening to that. The Fox wasn't communing, it was saying don't chase me to exhaustion them let your dogs tear me apart! It was saying don't shoot me! 🤬
One problem when analyzing Harold (and his wife) is separating low IQ from probable narcissism. Just because he was at Eton it doesn’t translate to him being able to actually learn. I like your considerate message at the beginning of the video :-) life is very hard-though less so for the sad poly-victim and killer Harold.
Also in that book, harry recalled a time his father (now the King) came to visit him during the flight training. He actually wrote in the book thinking about sending the jets after his father to do damage 😮 it’s that treason to think about harmful the future monarch ?!?
How many of us has had an evil thought but knew better and didn't act on it? I applaud Harry more for speaking his truth. I'm grateful that he didn't act on it.
Good video thank you. He talks like someone that has had early childhood trauma but has never even as a adult truly dealt with and matured emotionally and mentally
Gawd, I love these reads that you do for us. It is so entertaining. And the more things you reveal in Harry's book the clearer it is to me that yes, Harry is really not very bright and is a narcissist. Although, those characteristics, I think, come from his stunted emotional growth. You rock Andrew.
Cringy, tone deaf, bonkers. You pretty much nailed him. Harry is more about drama than logic. He's just not that bright a bulb. Water, older women, paparazzi on killer scooters (oops, that was one guy on a vespa), having flight training where he was subjected to a 'suprise' stall out by his flight instructor (oops, flight instructor loves him and hates media but still doesn't retract that it didn't happen). But those lines about Chelsea were perhaps as hurtful as much of the rest of the book to someone who seemed loyal and has not shot her mouth off about him. No one who models respect seems to get it in return. And frankly at this point, the drugs have altered what little IQ he had.
The bit about the fox is ludicrouis. I saw one the other day but there was no conversation! I just slowed my car way down and the little guy crossed the road safely. Animals can be so intuitive and aware and I could see him pause and look in my direction just before I hit the brakes.
Wow. It is so strange - how did we never see this side of Harry? Seems to me a lot of people have been covering for him for a long time. I am starting to get the feeling that he might actually bring down the monarchy. Not because of his complaints against them, but because they covered for this self--entitled little twat for so long. My lord. I didn't read the book and don't intent to so these are things I have never heard. It is so telling that he seems to hate all of the people in the "institution" that made him the most popular royal for years. He is so deeply unaware. Hey look, If there is anything in this book that indicates Harry has any redeemable qualities, please tell us. Just speaking for myself, it would have to be something amazing to dig him out of the hole he has created for himself. Sounds like even when he is trying to be nice, he just comes off as dirtbag.
When you were trying to describe areas outside of Eaton, the word "dodgy" popped into my head. And then I realized I got that from Hugh Grant in Love Actually. Brains are weird. 🤣🤣🤣
There is not much to like about The ex prince is there. I’m very relieved that he is exposed for The empty vessel that he is. Well done Andrew on your analysis.
Hi Andrew, absolutely love your channel! It's so informative and interesting. I know H.G. Tudor has said H is an empath with many narcissistic traits. I tend to agree with this, and believe that M's influence is upon him and is bringing out his narcissistic traits. I don't think he's a narc, because he has feelings of sadness, guilt and remorse about his mother, plus M uses guilt trips over e.g. racism, victimisation of herself by treatment of H's family on him which works. If he was a narc, he'd be unable to feel guilt, sadness or remorse. Also, a ghost writer wrote the book, he just provided references. Harry's not very bright, so I doubt he would have thoroughly gone over what had been written, and may have read over it, but may not have caught how crap and self-pitying this book is. Just my opinion, and probably completely wrong, but wanted to put this view out there for discussion. Would be very interested to read what everyone else thinks. 🙂
I haven't read the book but the more I listened to Harry the more he sounds like Meghan. Maybe it was her who actually wrote the book through him? Just a thought.
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I keep swinging between he was always a narcissist and he has been influenced and his insecurities capitalised on. The latter at times because everyone who knew him prior to Meghan has been utterly surprised by his behaviour and often the words "He's not the Harry I knew" is said. Usually narcissists leave a trail of destruction behind them and he seems relatively free from that while Meghan has a large cupboard's full. Its possible that she helped inflate his ego, self importance etc and sometimes we can believe our own lies or narratives we tell ourselves to deal with pain or justify our actions. At it's core, its less a fairytale, more a basic transactional relationship, perfectly timed for them both.
Good points. He definitely has had issues from a very young age, but what they are exactly, I can't be sure. Except that he's clearly quite unintelligent.
@@minihaha5367 Perhaps but look at Prince Andrew, no amount of PR managed to stop the general consensus that he was an entitled pr**k and his unpleasantness was an open secret. Perhaps not the bed full of creepy dolls which I'm sure were subject to an NDA. Its nearly impossible to insulate oneself from a bad reputation, definitely not when you're on your way down.
@@amalali504 Part of Andrew’s issues was a particularly disgruntled employee; his most recent issue with Virginia Giuffre has Meghan Markle’s fingerprints all over-it’s no mere coincidence that she was listed as the key material witness for Virginia’s civil case. The other is his age-like you said, no secret lasts forever. Harry always had bad press followed by fawning press. The press would write a story (usually embargoed in the UK) and the UK press would write an over-the-top and often fictitious tale of Harry’s heroism, military prowess, and cheeky charm. That’s the best PR in the world feeding directly into the third-party hopes and aspirations of a public who felt sorry for Diana’s younger son. I think of Harry spitting a full mouth of water into the face of an Invictus participant in a wheelchair and saying “you looked like you needed it,” smacking the bejesus out of Taylor Hawkins (Foo Fighter drummer) when Hawkins was introducing him to a crowd (that shocking Will Smith slap was child’s play compared to how hard Harry hit Hawkins) and when Hawkins asked why he did it, Harry gave the response, “Because I felt like it.” Animals injured and destroyed because of injuries, and old men he rode his tricycle into as hard as he could. Kicking the crap out of William because Diana hugged William first, tweaking as hard as he could the nipple of a professional soccer player lined up with his team to pay homage to Harry, Harry telling the Ghurkas assigned up mind him to bring his snacks on a tray STAT. There’s the newest rumor from an excellent source that Harry, long said to be rough with “working girls,” beat one young lady into a vegetative state and continues to pay her bills. I have always believed Harry to be a narcissist and a sociopath. In my opinion, there has clearly been something wrong with him since long before Meghan and even before Diana died. He’s a walking suit filled by whatever anyone tells him to be. Meghan was like a match to the keg of gunpowder for him.
@@minihaha5367 Oh my goodness! If 1/4 of that is true then ....just wow!!. Between him & Meghan, the kids are doomed! I don't think they're done gaslighting everyone yet.
I complained about having no shoes until I met a man who had no feet. Life is perspective, and most suffering can be comforted by being grateful for what we do have and recognizing our relative blessings. I honestly do not think that Harry is a narcissist. I think he is mentally ill, a peculiar variety that could be ameliorated by gratitude and a year spent serving the homeless in a soup kitchen.
The mood of the book is so different than the vindictiveness that Harry exhibits in his interviews! I have read the book and the book is well written and demonstrates to me that Harry had a wonderful childhood! For Harry to accuse his father of not loving him because he called him “darling boy” and clasped him on the leg instead of a hug is so stupid! I do not remember my mother or father telling me they loved me or hugging me constantly, but I never doubted their love because they demonstrated it in their wonderful care for me! Just because Diane worried about Harry and had a right to!
When HE said that there needed accountability showed me all I needed to know about him. I might respect him when HE takes responsibility for all they did to other people.
It's amazing how Harry, being reasonably far down the pecking order in Royal lineage) has developed such a narcissistic personality and yet his brother William, next in line to the throne, comes across as so selfless. I am not sure Harry was always a narcissist either - when he was younger he was a lot more down to earth in general - but I am pretty convinced that his perspective has been altered, perhaps by his wife but more likely a combination of things including his decadent Californian lifestyle, and now he acts so aloof and even looks back on those days where he was much less selfish with this newly found self-obsession. I know many people who actually knew Harry pretty well back in those days and none of them thought he was a narcissist and they all feel he has changed in the last decade or so.
@@marilyn9138 I never said it was. I think you’ve misinterpreted what I was trying to say. He didn’t write this book 20 years ago, he wrote it recently and his memories of his past are based upon his current warped perception. That’s not to say he didn’t make plenty of mistakes in his past, we all have, but usually we grow and learn from those mistakes. I feel like he has gone backwards though in recent years. Listen to, for example, how a guy I think we can all respect, ex-SBS and double World Record holder Dean Stott, talks about his relationship with Harry. He saw him as a very respectful, down to earth guy right through his military training and even after he had served. Something has changed Harry in recent years.
.. Hello there young man!! I'm an old woman (58) and I really enjoy your take on things, very interesting, thank you for your uploads!! p.s. you have beautiful coppery brown eyes!
@@gracepeterson7483 Nope plus old Meghan has her mucky paws all over that book. He is a clown and now both of them are a laughing stock. They did it to themselves. Dumb and dumber
Great review.I think what you covered tells me a lot more about Harold than much of the "shocking" revelations. BTW, I'm from California, and admittedly Dude is used here, but it still has a trying-too-hard-to-be-cool connotation to it.
I must admit I am a bit surprised by the new revelations or seemingly new through the book Spare that Harry, according to you, is narcissistic and possibly even psychopathic. Narcissists generally tend to attract empaths so I had kind of concluded all along the because Meghan was the malignant narcissist that Harry would not be but I suppose it's possible that narcissists can attract other narcissists. I posted on several channels over the last year that my heart really went out to Harry because being in a relationship with a malignant narcissist is almost akin to domestic violence. The emotional manipulation, control and battery is constant and really brutal. So I just assumed that you know he was pretty much in a relationship with someone that had him bound and tied and pretty much like the Stockholm Syndrome having to do whatever it took to survive within the relationship especially since there are children involved. So again, this comes as a bit of a revelation!
He found someone who not only is a malignant gaslighting narcissist, but someone who gives him the excuses he needs to blame everyone else for his horrible childhood and lack of love. That's truly sad because Princess Diana seemed to make sure she showed her kids lots of love and attention and especially people who weren't privileged as they were to possibly instill empathy for others not so fortunate as them. He chose the life of being coddled and treated special and entitled.
I, too, felt so sorry for him right up until just before the release of the book when he did those awful interviews. But I'm so annoyed that I've been had!
M acted & is ACTING with H that she is an empath. If he had not been manipulated into that first date with her he would never had synced with her. Their eventual path will be of emotional chaos because she cannot keep the facade in place, with him, forever and they will not be able to continue to feed each other the required fuel of a narcissist. Aussie Old Lady
@Sandra Whitmore there's a lot of things wrong with Harry, but I don't believe narcissism is one of those things. I do believe he's fueled by revenge, resentment, and absolute jealousy. The book appears to be evidence of some severe mental health issues.
I loved them in the beginning. Went to the wedding, cheered like a donkey with millions of others. 🤦♀️ Then the whining from Harry about his wife started, then Megxit and Oprah came and we all went "she's manipulated him and messed with his head...then came Netfix, Spare and the interviews and we all realised Harry was warped long before he met Meghan. Having his American actress wife might have given him the boost he needed, but she didnt create the Harry we see now. She just helped him remove his mask and show his true colours, probably because they're as murky and icky as hers. We say a match made in heaven, but is it? Seems like a match made in horror. As a couple they are dangerous, feeding and feeding off one another like two circling black holes... **shudders**
The fact that he acts like he’s the only person alive who was affected by his mothers death is sign enough that he’s a narcissist. William went through exactly the same thing as Harry yet he’s not a lunatic dose of shite 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I don't get the feeling that hes a narcissist. I just get that hes really a bit thick and ignorant, regardless of where he studied.; this could be down to privilege...who you are/know and all that. I think he would have been in the dunce class in my comprehensive school 😂
I love these types of people who act like they're way bigger and cooler and better than they are. Not that they'd make good friends but it's genuinely entertaining AF🤣 I'm sure Harry takes it to a whole new level.. he's a prince after all
He was known in Windsor for exactly the same behaviour ie harassing barmaids, being loud and obnoxious in a ‘do you know who i am way’ and one tale of him throwing up all over the bar and just leaving. Also known for throwing cannabis party’s in Windsor.
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I subbed to you a few months ago because you did a really good documentary. Since then it's been almost wall to wall, back to back Prince Harry and Narcissism. No one cares.
I've hardly watched anything for ages, and here you are again talking shyte, because you are not even a qualified psychiatrist, are you?
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Harry is a narcissist/sociopath
@@ansfridaeyowulfsdottir8095 Literally in the middle of a premiere for an episode on Wrongful Conviction. If youtube is just giving you the stuff I've done on the royals, then it's singled you out for that: ruclips.net/video/4ZVQElYtC9k/видео.html
"I gave [William] a quick summary of what Meg and I had been dealing with. Don’t worry, Harold. No one believes that shit. Not true. They do. It’s drip-fed to them, day by day, and they come to believe it without even being aware."
This, in reference to a story in The Sun that claimed Meghan had done p*rn. I don't know if it's technically narcissism, but it certainly demonstrates his contempt for the public at large. He seems to think everyone shares his level of intelligence.
the *Hero* part was Gold *⟵(o_O)↝
I used to think he wasn’t a narcissist and was wooed by his wife. Now I think they deserve each other.
Yes, the typical "always blame the woman" when a man fs up that publicely f-ed up his whole life ^^
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Yep, there's an old sock for every old boot 😬
Same.
I used to think it’s was her too, but after ‘Spare’, the interviews and talking about suing Sasha because she ‘violated his privacy’ showed in spades that the relationship with Meghan only revealed who Harry is, when it had been concealed by the PR machine of the British Royal Family.
I dated a guy that went to a private school in South Africa, and he moved in circles with people that were friends with Harry, and let me tell you, all these guys that were in this specific crowd were really horrible people, even they guy i dated turned out to be narcissistic and really looked down on the "common" folk. And this was 20 years ago. From then I believed that Harry wasn't a nice true person, man. He just proved me right, about him and all those guys I met in that specific crowd(school).
I totally believe what you said. I always thought Harry was an a******
I've always thought that after seeing his friends in offensive fancy dress just like haz in the "n..z" costume.
Yes, I can believe that.
How many nice people are there on the planet....and we are there judging one an other.what a joke
@francoiselemeur7325 I'm nice, so I have a right to judge Harry. I'm not a hypocrite. Anyone who is nicer than he is can judge him without being a hypocrite. The bad people can also judge him as long as they are not pretending to be better than he is, but just exposing him as being at their level to protect more innocent victims.
I find it bizarre that he's whining about feeling "caged" and not "safe" because of the security officers protecting him, and is now suing the British government to provide him with security officers to make him feel "safe".
Great point!
It’s been reported that their Canadian security team often was used to run errands or drive them about. I suspect, the “need for taxpayer funded security” has more to do with getting “free” staff and services… and diplomatic benefits, than actual safety from harm.
@@Melanie_Star You are correct!
The RCMP officers were treated like gophers.
All on the Canadian taxpayers' dime.
@@tanyas6643 You are right!
I accidentally replied to MelStar if you want to check out what I said.
He has paranoia for sure
I wonder how people in 3rd world countries that have to walk for miles to carry containers of water everyday feel about this. Perhaps they would prefer “ privacy” instead of water.
It must be really difficult being him. A narcissist aswell as being thick as a plank.
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He sure is. He’s sub 65 IQ
The point where I knew there was something off with Harry was when he was interviewed by James Corden and he was complaining that he’d never been on a bus, saying ‘poor me’ again. I just thought how stupid he was to think he should be able to hop on a bus because what would happen if he’d been shot or kidnapped and that could cause an International incident. So he believes he has the right to do anything he feels like doing yet he wants security, paid for by the British public, to keep him safe
haha amazing point mary!
I didn't know about this.
My husband bought the book for me but I find Harry such an off putting person that it's not getting read very much.
He will twist anything into him being a victim somehow.
@@flowerjpotter1629 it’s not in the book. It was an interview he did early on, on an open top bus in America with James Corden who was being quite sycophantic, sympathising with him having not been on a bus before.
Yes, it was a begging for sympathy. Maybe he just never wanted to be on a bus. He seems to have not been constrained at various times in his life, e.g, playing strip poker in Las Vegas, losing his virginity outside a pub, investigating his mother's car crash. Also, he could have disguised himself and gone out in public, if he wanted to...Royals have done that in the past.
@@marybalding1435 I'm pretty sure Diana took both William and Harry on a bus.
I live in Calgary, Alberta, Canada.
Harry did his military training before being deployed to Afghanistan at CFB Suffield, which is near Medicine Hat, AB, and about 2-3 hours southeast of Calgary. During his training, H spent a LOT of time in Calgary bars, drunk out of his mind, most notably at the bar "Cowboys". He was known for harassing and 'slobbering all over' the waitresses and trying to get them to strip.
Calgary is not a huge city, and his behaviour was WELL KNOWN among all of us locals.
Harry had his sottish behaviour go unpublished many times, but everyone knew he had done something stupid on the weekend when a puff piece talking about how wonderful he was appeared on Mondays.
You should tell the papers
Righ, x-Calgarian here. Check the articles, Prince Harry at Cowboys Calgary.
Harry is trash.
@@gilliansmith9134 It was in the Canadian papers in 2007.
Edmonton here. I heard about that as well
Harry was the Queen's favourite and the one everyone, everywhere felt sorry for. Thus he was enabled, mercilessly and like any enabled child never heard the word, or the action "no." Now, as a result, we have a spoiled man-child used to getting his own way through emotional manipulation. He's in the US now, in the Entertainment Industry, it is not a very forgiving place, it is generally filled with lot's of rejection and a place where one's "star" DOES NOT shine brightly for too long. Good luck to Harry where no one cares who he was yesterday. Producing palace dirt and gossip can only go so far.
Everyone seems to forget that he has a brother who grew up in the same circumstances and did not become a narcissist. Harry was a problem since he was very young. His mother even said so.
I grew up in the same house as my 3 siblings and I'm completely different to them. For one they are all religious, I'm not. It's not just your home life that influences you.
His brother seems to have had life experiences that involved the "ordinaries" who are not privileged and work very hard and are still struggle everyday to just get by. Even after William left the military, he volunteered as a medical helicopter pilot.
After Harry left the military he seems to go right back to his drunken ways. Remember that video of him naked (or mostly) chasing young women in their underwear around a Las Vegas hotel suite? That's was telling. He never seemed to want to grow up and now he's showing just exactly how immature, self-absorbed, childish and clueless he is about life. He wants to be coddled and treated special and especially MEgz.
I agree! I seemed recall several stories about Harry now that I think about it, he always seemed upset when he was losing a horse race, or something offended him. I recall, him a couple of times storming off just being so upset! He believes in himself and I think no one else! I wish you would just go back to where he came from... That may sound harsh but reality has to set in he can't just come to this country expecting this and that to accompany him and his wife only! He's not my damn king!
William had the benefit of mixing with real people when he went to University.
@@cindihunter9119 Exactly, he may be a "prince" in the UK but not here in the US. Here he is just Harry, and he impresses no one, in fact, he is a huge turn-off. He is also not a celebrity because he has no talent and is clearly too dumb for his own well-being, as he has been the one to blame for his own demise and destroyed reputation. We don't have a monarchy here in the USA, so you are no prince or duke here. You are less than a spare; you're just an unattractive, coneited, ungrateful, too dumb for words "guy". Yep, hear this, here you are just a regular Joe! Even that is too good for you. I'd take a regular Joe over a "prince" that isn't one! You have yourself to blame for the fact that you have lost all respect from everyone!
I would love for every person whose privacy he invaded with his book would come out like Sasha Walpole and set the record straight.
I think they all need to sue Harry for invading THEIR privacy!
She invaded her own privacy. At no point did he ever name her.
@@djbethell But she was being "outed" by the friends who were at the pub that day. She was receiving texts asking "is this you?"
@@anjiedavie6792 it could have been anyone. Again, she chose to out herself.
@@djbethell You are mistaken. She came forward before the press announced her name
Harry doesn't know how the rest of live our lives, not because he is unaware or hasn't seen because he has, it's because he's never cared enough to notice or consider the circumstances and difficulties of any of those people. He just doesn't care, it doesn't affect him.
You’re right because Diana was in a similar position and she cared
I haven't read any info on it but I would imagine that narcissism is more common among 2nd borns or the youngest child. The oldest child is given more responsibility & has to assist with the younger child so it seems they do not grow up so self-centered.
I remember Harry scoffing over the idea that people were devastated over Diana’s death. He said (words to this effect) ‘They didn’t even personally know her and acting like they did’ Such a scummy thing to say. Like ‘she was my mum. You didn’t know her.’ Reading that made me realise the sort of person he is. I really dislike him so much
Yep - classic narcissist
Unconscious bias I think 🤔🤔🤔!!??
Screamng for privacy all your life is the equivalent of carrying a sign around that says "Dont look at me!" South Park nailed it.
Those two do not want privacy, narcissists want attention and control, they crave it. What they really want, is secrecy, to be absolved of all consequences and to control the narrative.
The ironic thing is that prior to his marriage I always thought of him as seeking a lot of attention. Now he wants his privacy?
They are 2 crazy people.
“Outrageously wealthy but that doesn’t bring happiness.” It seems to bring quite a bit of misery actually. Was speaking with a British pal in the hot tub at my gym last night. Asked him what he feels about Haz/Megs. He said: “They make me feel embarrassed to be English.” I told him the Kardash klan make me feel embarrassed to be American. We had a good ol’ chuckle about it, really. 😂
It's Ok I'm an Aussie & we have old man Murdoch to make us feel proud, now thats a real narsassist.😂🤣🤣🤣
And it's okay for two straight guys to take a bath.
Wealth doesn't "bring quite a bit of misery" or anything else. Plenty of poor people are miserable and plenty of rich people are miserable. Plenty of poor people are happy and plenty of rich people are happy.
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@@susanfudge1737 I don’t understand this comment. Is it something from the book?
Thank you Andrew for reading his book so we didn’t have to suffer through reading it for ourselves. 💗 I used to think M was the narcissistic one, but now I have realized that H is as well. They clearly deserve each other.
That's what I always say when 2 narcissists get together. They can be miserable together.
Did Andrew read it though? Or did he scan it for excerpts he could cherry-pick to run the standard tabloid narrative?
He is a shit.
"... the fox was just trying to survive, without a member of the Royal family blowing its brains out" - 🤣 Brilliant line & quick observation Andrew, here here! 👏🏼👏🏼
The fox knew who Harry was giving him the "evil eye" for killing his kin. Sounds like Harry took alot of drugs while at Eton.
IS THIS TRUE?! His animal cruelty is obvious! See the photo!
But what else is true? If this is true, journalists must do their homework and expose this. Uncovering this is more important than finding the “older woman” to who Harry lost his virginity to.
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All these animals talking and singing, as if those darn singing seals weren't enough.
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I am so tired of his monopolizing Diana’s memory. William was her son too. William was traumatized by her loss as well. He acts like he is the only one who has suffered. What bc William gets to be king he loses the right to have lost his mother as well. Harry is dim witted, selfish and you are right…hates that his beloved privacy has been violated but comes up with every excuse of why he violated others
The fact he is still talking about it to this extent is revolting, it’s in the worst possible taste.
I agree, but I think Meghan is playing a role in triggering it here, too. William married well
Of course you become a narcissist when you grow up more important than normal people! I am more shocked that his ghost writer didnt tell him how that makes him look!
right, u'd think someone, ghost writer or editor,
or the wifey would read that HERO part back to him & ask him to re-consider
Exactly! But he’s so unaware
and always got away with stuff
He’s got the Messiah complex
That will be his downfall
he no longer has the palace
PR covering for him
Great point.
Agreed I think the ghost writer was getting even by leaving inappropriate stories in the book for revenge
maybe even the ghost writer was like
"yeah, that's good Harry, but hows about we mention when u served in Afghanistan, somebody suggests that you're a hero & you
say, 'no, those guys in the jets, they're the heros, i'm none of that' "
Andrew I agreed with you so much that I laughed the entire video. I used to work in humanitarian relief. Nothing ever more precious than water.
Let's not forget that Harry is just plain stupid as well as being a narcissist
I think he is just not too smart ,putting it lightly, spoiled rotten and in a way neglected emotionally in childhood, so he feels woulnerable ,invalid like with his feelings, like all narcissists. Also never worked on himself mentally or spiritualky.
Sure a bit narcissistic ,totally out of touch with real life.... but his wife is a league above on narcissisam.. league of her own
Harry suffers from a superiority complex. I see clearly through his faux humility and virtue signaling.
I doubt he has many real friends.
I have to feel sorry for him, because I really believe he doesn’t get it.
“You can’t get blood from a stone”.
Thanks Andrew. Love your channel, and am enjoying watching it grow 😊
Plus his old wifey also has a superiority complex. The 2 of them are a nightmare!
I suspect he has no real friends. His brother was his best friend, but Harry burned that bridge.
Misplaced sympathy. Sparry is an empty vessel who just does not care about how others feel. It is all about him. Classic narcissist.
His delusions of grandeur are all through his stories!!
This Australian thinks there is nothing more valuable here than water. I can live without privacy, I can’t live without water.
He didn't want to do the hard work in Australia 🇦🇺 so his excuse was to quit because of someone elses privacy 🤔🤔
Or he values privacy as, in case you need a reminder, HIS MOTHER DIED BEING CHASED BY PAPARAZZI!
@@VaderTheWhiteit’s funny how this video is supposedly about narcissism but the only narcissistic I see is Andrew and the people in the comments lol.
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@@VaderTheWhite HAROLD values his privacy like a pig 🐖 in mud 🤔He's constantly in the media plus HW puts out her puff pieces so no they don't value anything but the almighty dollar 💰 imo
I think there may be two things overlapping. Narcissists often contradict themselves because they lack self criticism. In this case this is compounded by a deficit in critical thinking skills.
I think that's a very astute observation. We folks in the bushes, in the fields and gutters, in dilapidated homes and driving shabby cars without personal drivers will never, ever truly be seen by those who have their vision eclipsed by privilege and protection so it does leave them exposed to other undiagnosed mental health issues. Funny how one of his alleged platforms is mental health, PTSD, veteran care, etc. He is as thick as the platform he claims to represent and champion. Critical thinking skills has passed by the hazbeen. He will never be able to perform to cause. He's damaged goods.
You mean he's thick as a brick? Spot on!
I mean, he bangs on and on about "privacy" and then releases this book that digs SO deeply into not just his private life that none of us were REALLY aware of but also the private lives of the people he grew up with. Also, yes he grew up with significant Press "intrusion" but as a member of the Royal Family he is actually FAR more protected from the Press than any celebrity (look at Michael Jackson's poor kids, for example) and should an ordinary member of the public ever find themselves in the Press they have literally NO protection. The Press are a double-edge sword, you get the rough with the smooth, but Harry only wants to see the Press (and life in general) go with the smooth. That's not how life works and, usually, someone who has suffered deep loss, and especially someone who has had to go to War, understands the natural contrast of life and yet somehow he is oblivious to it. Literally has blinders on.
He didn't give his former girlfriend any privacy. He's used them and probably embellished alot about their relationships. Mr. "I value privacy over water" is disgusting.
Harry thinks he is championing the "truth" in his book but the reality is, people bought the book for palace dirt and gossip. No one is interested in Harry's oppressed life and his "journey to freedom." Don't be so naive Harry, no one really cares, just give everyone behind the scenes drama.
And doesn't care about others' privacy
I don't perticulary like the guy, but want to give him some slack. Remember that his mom died while being chased by paparazzi.
@@harrynac6017 yes, that is correct and unfortunately the driver of her car had been drinking mixed in with Prozac and Tiapride so she was actually killed by a drunk driver
This guy has been a brat ALL his life, was never corrected or disciplined by his mom (too busy feeling sorry for herself), dad (who calls him “my darling boy”), or Nannie’s (heaven forbid), and given most everything he wanted. Of COURSE he is supremely selfish, clueless as to how others have to live, and narcissistic. He needs a dose of real life. The royals are better off without him, as well as his cruel, selfish wife. I feel for their babies.
He's been deprived of privacy, but he's never been thirsty. I don't know about the "for those free to search for it" statement. Maybe narcissistic, but on the other hand, his privileged upbringing certainly shielded him from a lot of bad things regular people deal with. I could see someone like that growing up reading about close families leading calm happy lives, and born explorers getting to live out their dreams, and having exactly the thought he described. I have to be careful when dealing with an obvious narcissist not to ascribe everything they say to their vanity. On the other hand, he really does come across as a real jackass.
I believe that Harry could've grown up in one of those nice families and wrote a book about how awful it was.
@@hollystiener16 If he'd have grown up in one of those nice families, who knows how he'd have turned out. But that wasn't my point. He's certainly narcissistic, but even a total sociopath makes observations unrelated to his pathology. I just see how this could have been such a statement.
@@bjs301 Yes, I understand, but IMO his observations would be, I am not rich enough or still, my brother got the bigger room, etc.
Harry is a predatory criminal. He has committed a lot of crimes that have been covered up by the palaces PR team.
Touché and well said because Henry didn't get in the army, he packed a redhead tantrum and Queen Granny gave in or just ordered his posting. It took soldiers away from the war to 'shadow' the narcissistic Twat. I could go on but it boils my blood. Flying a Commonwealth flag for New Zealand 🇳🇿 💙
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Not only is he a narcissist but he;s also pretty thick ! Would love to hear you and HG Tudor discussing this. It would be interesting.
Haven't tuned into HG in a while, but he did not believe H to be a narcissist. Rather the partner of a narcissist will acquire the traits to please their master.
Personally, I don't think we have ever seen the real Harry. He definitely has some serious issues.
I agree...the unintelligent narcissist....I've known a few.
Jealousy is a sign of narcissism. He's so obviously jealous of his brother on many obvious levels but when he gleefully tells us that William is going bald, and no longer looks like Diana, it struck me that he'd been jealous of his brother's looks, especially the likeness to their mother.
Well, I remember thinking a few years back how much he looked the spitting image of James Hewitt. Lol
@@jonnaughton I can't say that I agree with you but many people do. His eyes are close set, similar to Charles and Prince Philip.
@@anjiedavie6792 photographs of Prince Philip in his youth, bearded in the Navy, show him to be the spitting image of Harry.
Yes, I agree with you, Andrew. Harry sounds undeveloped.
Many famous peeps are developmentally stunted. And lack empathy.
Stuck at about 12 or 13, I'd say. Traumatized and then started using not too long after. What a sad waste.
@@courtneyawalsh That is so sad.
That’s what personality disorders are. Inability to self actualise as children.
In more ways than one 😁
I agree. I believe Harry writes about the only things he's ever done on his own, which isn't much. He grew up with immense privilege, yet has always been unable to really do anything worth writing about which is why his book was filled with insignificant stories. He is blinded by jealousy and hate for his own family. All Harry's wife has done through her own narcissistic need for control is provide an outlet for him to escape the cage his mind has created around him and to vent every transgression he believes has ever been committed against him. He will not stand down even if he is unhappy, because this will prove his brother correct about Harry's wife and her intent. He is dug in and now unreachable.
So glad William was born first!
Yes phew.
Let's hope 🤞. If one recalls the many receipted Harry speaking for his brother/my brother feels/thinks so too, interviews even as late as 2016\7 it IS worrying. Obvs.. To sound important but?? Did H just jump the gun with 'their hidden truth'? This can seem paranoid contagion but considering the unbelieveable BS that has been played out before our very own eyes.... Who would have thought it possible???!! Sick.
Such an angry person too, if you really go through Spare there are so many weird, ugly thoughts in there. Like when he compares the click of paparazzi cameras to guns cocking and hints he got PTSD from it(he had only attended bootcamp at the time). You would think a soldier would avoid comparisons of what are really annoyances to wartime horrors, he's a 🤡
Edit: if you liked the magic psychedelic fox, he also says he saw a crying elephant in a river during a rainstorm later in the book lol
I thought he said the clicking of cameras gave him PTSD because they were following his mum when she crashed. So yet another contradictory story. He seems to thoroughly enjoy cameras these days.
@Galloping Goose and William stiil looks like Diana, imo
@@gallopinggoose7997 Harry must mean that he doesn't feel as emotionally attached to William now that he can no longer imagine him as a substitute for his mother with the same blonde hairstyle.
@Galloping Goose crops do not grow on infertile ground.
He is a phony. Narcissists lie all the time.
Frankly, poor dear H is what was classically known as, 'a bit thick'... Combine that with California voodoo therapy...
Calling privacy more important that water in a rural community in Australia?!
Having grown up in those communities - that blows my brain. We had times when we were down to less than 10 litres of water per person per day... Think about that - drinking washing cooking cleaning....
The year Harry was referencing (2003) literally had that level of water restrictions. I’m 31 now and I’ve never experienced drought worse than 2002/2003. Like, bucket in the shower to catch water to flush the toilet in a coastal city level of drought. And farmer suicides always spike when there’s drought. So it just compounds the absurdity of his statement about privacy being a more precious resource.
He never went hungry, always had a bed and a warm blanket ….he didn’t have to sleep in a car or the side work. I think he needs to pray to god and thank him for all he has
Just because a narcissist says they are mindful about others doesn’t mean they’re mindful of others if a narcissist says that sort of thing it’s because they want you to THINK they’re such a nice, thoughtful person. Narcissists play mind games very well.
I can't believe he let this go to press. Did no one is his circle, his PR people, say, "This is inane, you can't press this book as-is"? I can't even go to a function without my mother telling me my hips are spreading and I look horrible in cool colors.
The people around Harry just simply don't like him very much, the poor bastard.
@@erciliaflores especially his wife. Does anyone wonder why she let him publish it?
Harry is SO much like his great-uncle David, briefly King Edward. Edward let himself be bossed about by Wallis Simpson because , at first, it was novel and amusing. Later when it became embarrassing, cringey and toxic, he seems to have believed that the abuse meant affection. Same with Harry. No one EVER contradicts him (except PaPá and apparently big brother.) When Harry was 2 hours late to his first date with MM, she was furious and told him that was never going to happen again. He was taken aback since most women would wait and be grateful for the experience. Having a self-confessed need for mothering, she fits the bill perfectly.
I hope no one ever hears anything from Harry like what the poor ex-king said one night to his harpy-wife Wallis at a party when he had annoyed her ❤in some way: “Oh Mummy. You’re not going to send me to bed in tears again, are you?”
His mother made him a narcissist telling him to do what you want just don't get caught and get into trouble.She had beauty and charm which he doesn't and that's the difference between her and her dim narcissistic son Harry.
Great video Andrew 🤩! I ploughed through Spare on audible and it left me just plain sad and shocked! Sad at what a waste he has made of all his golden opportunities 😢& as you expressed totally shocked by his completely obtuse lack of insight!!
To me it has illustrated that the extraordinary level of privilege he has enjoyed has left him with an inflated sense of entitlement and self righteousness and sadly a complete LACK OF GRATITUDE! In fact he moans and wails and is continually jealous, lonely and isolated by all this terrible privilege. Presumably nobody ever tells these people how life really is?! That you get back what you put in… that happiness without gratitude just does not exist! We saw the same result of toxic privilege with Prince Andrew in his terrible interview, & recently the ghastly Ghislaine Maxwell and probably many people from their level of society who just due to the accident of their birth have also enjoyed lives of ridiculous privilege and are just miserable greedy grasping fat cats who contribute nothing to anyone else but themselves… and are never satisfied let alone grateful.
The only positive in these peoples lives is hopefully that they show the rest of us just how empty and meaningless their lives truly are! ❤
His grandmother was their commander in chief; he thought they were his friends.
How did the army need him?
Very bizarre. It must have been a nightmare for them, having him. He would have to have security, and people making sure he isn't put at any risk.
Like you said, he would have put someone else, out of a job, for his own vanity, and entertainment.
He's lied many times about being a pilot. Allegedly he failed the exams, several times.
He's really not a good example of much really.
Then he & MeGain thought they were too good to be doing charity visits, and shaking people's hands - without getting paid for doing so. Despite Prince Charles, and the British taxpayers paying out many millions each year, just for their upkeep.
He just seems to be a self-centred, nasty, greedy, spoilt brat.
And extremely narcissistic.
Don't forget his "kill count" in Afghanistan, probably exaggerated.
Talk about a sad dichotomy; your summation is spot on. Privacy more than water…😢 Let them eat cake comes to mind. Clueless. Selfish. Cruel. Mind boggling that anyone could be that far removed from those around him.
You've summed it up so we'll. He is a classic case of the grass is greener when he's had enough education and exposure to appreciate his grass is so exclusive, 99% of humanity could never look upon it.
So his privacy is a human right more important than water, but his friends and family are not worthy of privacy? It’s fine for him to describe other people’s personal life in disgusting detail but he gets to write his own story? Laughable
I remember reading somewhere an interview with Princess Diana where she is saying that she is worried about not William, but Harry when they grow up. It is very long time ago when they were children. She knew probably that something was wrong with him.
Great video Andrew. You brought up points that most other videos missed, which was interesting. Am just finishing off the book and found that almost every page is either him being a victim because of what someone said/did/thinks or him bragging about how special he is in some weird way. I also think his short, clipped sentences was him trying to be ‘cool’. Didn’t work. It’s such a shame that all that narcissistic energy was put into getting their revenge instead of something worthwhile. What a waste given their incredible platform to do good.
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Once again, I must thank you for reading Harry’s book, so I didn’t have to!😂
The more I think about these passages, the more I think about drug affected thinking! Harry begins to remind me of episodes in Hunter Biden’s life at the height of his drug and alcohol use. Seriously now, would any regular old person writing about themselves, with or without ghost writer help, put in so many things such as their thoughts while looking out a window from “the loo”; illegal drug use; being frost bitten in unusual places that they explicitly define!; give enough of a description of a sexual encounter that all of your friends, and then the world!, could easily identify, with no permission given by the partner; or, discuss the number of people they killed while in the military?
No. I don’t think so.
Before you explained it, after hearing a particular passage about life in the military, my first thought was “Do they have a lot of Americans serving in the British military?” My husband and I have been privileged to visit the UK a few times, and I was pretty sure that British people do not refer to anybody as “Dude”!
You think that Harry’s book points out two things. 1. He is no genius. and 2. He likely has a pretty blemish with alcohol and drug use.
Narcissist? “You betcha!” (My in-laws in Minnesota and North Dakota say that! You probably don’t hear that in England!)
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Great comment!!! Well said.
My Father-in-Law from Oklahoma/Texas always said "You betcha!", too!
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I read the book, and I found him insufferable! He is so dumb! Someone needs to educate Harry:
Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.
He has sold everything: his family, his privacy, his self-respect and dignity. There is nothing left for him to sell.
Before the book, I didn't care about Harry, one way or another. But now, I feel sorry for the guy. He's broken and weak. He is damaged goods and the opposite of what a REAL man looks like. He would have been better off keeping his mouth shut and allowing the rest of the world to be neutral or maybe even like him. But after his interviews and books, etc., all of it, so freaking constantly in our faces, he and Meghan have only hurt themselves. At best, they are a joke; at worst, they are despised.
As an American, in regards to the exaggerated, mocking, and disrespectful curtsy to the queen only made Meghan look AWFUL. Her attitude was disrespectful not only to the Royal family and to the Queen (RIP) but also to the Britts and their culture. We (not from the UK) do not need to relate to or even understand their traditions, but any self-respectable person would at least show respect for someone else's traditions. Does she have a clue how bad she made herself look? And is Harry so weak that he cannot tell his wife that some comments or attitudes are unacceptable and should be avoided? Is he so pathetic that he fails to stand up to her, even when it’s to try to protect her from making an ass out of herself? Get it through your head Meghan, we don’t like you because of your skin color, we don’t like you because you are insufferable and unlikeable.
Too funny! The Prince and the Penis: A Children's Story of Royalty and Friendship"
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Here is another idea for another “book”:
Meghan kissed the prince and turned him into a frog, and then they moved to Frogmore where they lived miserably ever after.
He saw the fox and in truth thought ‘I wish I was on my horse with the hounds’
Thank you so much for this Andrew. I look for your videos every day. I admire your intelligence and sense of humour. I live in Canada, however, I was born and grew up in the UK which gives me a pretty good perspective on Nutmeg and Ginger. Check out the comment from a fellow Calgarian regarding Hazs’ so-called training before being deployed to Afghanistan, Everything this person said is true. He was an absolute disgrace
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Thank you for verifying what happened here with Harry in Calgary, while he was at CFB Suffield in 2007.
I recieved a lot of abuse for recounting what all of our national papers reported and is still in the public domain.
Thank you for this message. I am a vegetarian. I love these animals. I do not believe in hunting. Thanks for a great pod cast.
I believe that Megan wrote a lot of this book. Listen to her podcasts. She loves to describe her thoughts with extravagance and blown description. In the rain.cold icy wind….etc. (only an example) that’s her talking, Harry never talks with that kind of flair.
Megan uses word salads all the time, it's like she has a Rogets Thesaurus next to her while she's writing.
I agree. When he’s ragging on William, I think Meghan wrote that because he wasn’t attracted to her and it’s her revenge.
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I served in the British Army and later, in the Royal Navy, in the ranks, and later as an officer. I have met Royals in the military but not Harry. I find it odd that Harry appears to have no former military as friends. Odd because the military are good at accepting anyone from any background. Friendships made in the military are often friends for life, through thick and thin. Yet Harry stands out for having none. Says it all to me.
According to HG Tudor, Harry is an empath with strong narcissistic traits. His empathy has been eroded by circumstances. Extensive drug use has increased his paranoia. Regardless, I can't think of any redeeming qualities, he's now just a talentless grifter riding on his royal connections, a very unpleasant person. He and his wife deserve each other, which is good for them since they're still so deeply in love !
He is definitely NOT AN EMPATH.
Really great video, thanks. Love the fox comments! Not sure what Chelsea saw in him…but I guess she dodged a large bullet
It was cool to date a Prince.? 0ld Hollywood PR knew 'single status' was a plus in fanning groupie fantasies. 😜. H lost squealing fans the minute he issued ' official be-girlfriended warrant'!!!
If she was attacked was it the basement dwelling twisted envious disillusioned fangirls??
Harry raised in the same environment as William, yet Harry is a narcissist and William is a responsible man.
The Australia story is like he gives with one hand by genuinely thinking of the family, but then takes with the other by believing privacy is more precious than water! Utterly mad.
He's a spoiled little rich kid. He has suffered difficult times but he's also got incredible wealth, opportunities and education. And the fox passage! I was so annoyed listening to that. The Fox wasn't communing, it was saying don't chase me to exhaustion them let your dogs tear me apart! It was saying don't shoot me! 🤬
Narcissistic traits yes, but it’s mainly ignorance mixed with paranoia and delusional thinking.
One problem when analyzing Harold (and his wife) is separating low IQ from probable narcissism. Just because he was at Eton it doesn’t translate to him being able to actually learn. I like your considerate message at the beginning of the video :-) life is very hard-though less so for the sad poly-victim and killer Harold.
Also in that book, harry recalled a time his father (now the King) came to visit him during the flight training. He actually wrote in the book thinking about sending the jets after his father to do damage 😮 it’s that treason to think about harmful the future monarch ?!?
No it would only be treason if he did it or made a serious plan to do it.
Yes I was going to include that but figured I'd give him the benefit of the doubt that it was just a joke!
How many of us has had an evil thought but knew better and didn't act on it? I applaud Harry more for speaking his truth. I'm grateful that he didn't act on it.
Many a true word is spoken in jest.
Good video thank you. He talks like someone that has had early childhood trauma but has never even as a adult truly dealt with and matured emotionally and mentally
Gawd, I love these reads that you do for us. It is so entertaining. And the more things you reveal in Harry's book the clearer it is to me that yes, Harry is really not very bright and is a narcissist. Although, those characteristics, I think, come from his stunted emotional growth. You rock Andrew.
aww thanks elizabeth, you rock too!
Cringy, tone deaf, bonkers. You pretty much nailed him. Harry is more about drama than logic. He's just not that bright a bulb. Water, older women, paparazzi on killer scooters (oops, that was one guy on a vespa), having flight training where he was subjected to a 'suprise' stall out by his flight instructor (oops, flight instructor loves him and hates media but still doesn't retract that it didn't happen). But those lines about Chelsea were perhaps as hurtful as much of the rest of the book to someone who seemed loyal and has not shot her mouth off about him. No one who models respect seems to get it in return. And frankly at this point, the drugs have altered what little IQ he had.
The bit about the fox is ludicrouis. I saw one the other day but there was no conversation! I just slowed my car way down and the little guy crossed the road safely. Animals can be so intuitive and aware and I could see him pause and look in my direction just before I hit the brakes.
Wow. It is so strange - how did we never see this side of Harry? Seems to me a lot of people have been covering for him for a long time. I am starting to get the feeling that he might actually bring down the monarchy. Not because of his complaints against them, but because they covered for this self--entitled little twat for so long. My lord. I didn't read the book and don't intent to so these are things I have never heard. It is so telling that he seems to hate all of the people in the "institution" that made him the most popular royal for years. He is so deeply unaware. Hey look, If there is anything in this book that indicates Harry has any redeemable qualities, please tell us. Just speaking for myself, it would have to be something amazing to dig him out of the hole he has created for himself. Sounds like even when he is trying to be nice, he just comes off as dirtbag.
The Palace did an amazing job hiding his true nature.
When you were trying to describe areas outside of Eaton, the word "dodgy" popped into my head. And then I realized I got that from Hugh Grant in Love Actually. Brains are weird. 🤣🤣🤣
There is not much to like about
The ex prince is there.
I’m very relieved that he is exposed for
The empty vessel that he is.
Well done Andrew on your analysis.
Hi Andrew, absolutely love your channel! It's so informative and interesting. I know H.G. Tudor has said H is an empath with many narcissistic traits. I tend to agree with this, and believe that M's influence is upon him and is bringing out his narcissistic traits. I don't think he's a narc, because he has feelings of sadness, guilt and remorse about his mother, plus M uses guilt trips over e.g. racism, victimisation of herself by treatment of H's family on him which works. If he was a narc, he'd be unable to feel guilt, sadness or remorse. Also, a ghost writer wrote the book, he just provided references. Harry's not very bright, so I doubt he would have thoroughly gone over what had been written, and may have read over it, but may not have caught how crap and self-pitying this book is. Just my opinion, and probably completely wrong, but wanted to put this view out there for discussion. Would be very interested to read what everyone else thinks. 🙂
I haven't read the book but the more I listened to Harry the more he sounds like Meghan. Maybe it was her who actually wrote the book through him? Just a thought.
Andrew, brilliant synopsis, you've made points others have overlooked...well done
The book sounds like MM wrote it. It's a great insight to the mind of a narcissist. Very irrational and grandiose.
Yep she wrote the book 📕
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I keep swinging between he was always a narcissist and he has been influenced and his insecurities capitalised on. The latter at times because everyone who knew him prior to Meghan has been utterly surprised by his behaviour and often the words "He's not the Harry I knew" is said. Usually narcissists leave a trail of destruction behind them and he seems relatively free from that while Meghan has a large cupboard's full. Its possible that she helped inflate his ego, self importance etc and sometimes we can believe our own lies or narratives we tell ourselves to deal with pain or justify our actions. At it's core, its less a fairytale, more a basic transactional relationship, perfectly timed for them both.
I think Harry did in fact leave a trail of destruction, but there were palace PR and crisis managers mopping up and writing Cheques behind him
Good points. He definitely has had issues from a very young age, but what they are exactly, I can't be sure. Except that he's clearly quite unintelligent.
@@minihaha5367 Perhaps but look at Prince Andrew, no amount of PR managed to stop the general consensus that he was an entitled pr**k and his unpleasantness was an open secret. Perhaps not the bed full of creepy dolls which I'm sure were subject to an NDA. Its nearly impossible to insulate oneself from a bad reputation, definitely not when you're on your way down.
@@amalali504 Part of Andrew’s issues was a particularly disgruntled employee; his most recent issue with Virginia Giuffre has Meghan Markle’s fingerprints all over-it’s no mere coincidence that she was listed as the key material witness for Virginia’s civil case. The other is his age-like you said, no secret lasts forever.
Harry always had bad press followed by fawning press. The press would write a story (usually embargoed in the UK) and the UK press would write an over-the-top and often fictitious tale of Harry’s heroism, military prowess, and cheeky charm. That’s the best PR in the world feeding directly into the third-party hopes and aspirations of a public who felt sorry for Diana’s younger son. I think of Harry spitting a full mouth of water into the face of an Invictus participant in a wheelchair and saying “you looked like you needed it,” smacking the bejesus out of Taylor Hawkins (Foo Fighter drummer) when Hawkins was introducing him to a crowd (that shocking Will Smith slap was child’s play compared to how hard Harry hit Hawkins) and when Hawkins asked why he did it, Harry gave the response, “Because I felt like it.” Animals injured and destroyed because of injuries, and old men he rode his tricycle into as hard as he could. Kicking the crap out of William because Diana hugged William first, tweaking as hard as he could the nipple of a professional soccer player lined up with his team to pay homage to Harry, Harry telling the Ghurkas assigned up mind him to bring his snacks on a tray STAT. There’s the newest rumor from an excellent source that Harry, long said to be rough with “working girls,” beat one young lady into a vegetative state and continues to pay her bills. I have always believed Harry to be a narcissist and a sociopath. In my opinion, there has clearly been something wrong with him since long before Meghan and even before Diana died. He’s a walking suit filled by whatever anyone tells him to be. Meghan was like a match to the keg of gunpowder for him.
@@minihaha5367 Oh my goodness! If 1/4 of that is true then ....just wow!!. Between him & Meghan, the kids are doomed! I don't think they're done gaslighting everyone yet.
Harry's childhood made him a narcissistic personality? Seriously? I guess William managed to dodge that, thankfully.
I complained about having no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.
Life is perspective, and most suffering can be comforted by being grateful for what we do have and recognizing our relative blessings. I honestly do not think that Harry is a narcissist. I think he is mentally ill, a peculiar variety that could be ameliorated by gratitude and a year spent serving the homeless in a soup kitchen.
The mood of the book is so different than the vindictiveness that Harry exhibits in his interviews! I have read the book and the book is well written and demonstrates to me that Harry had a wonderful childhood! For Harry to accuse his father of not loving him because he called him “darling boy” and clasped him on the leg instead of a hug is so stupid! I do not remember my mother or father telling me they loved me or hugging me constantly, but I never doubted their love because they demonstrated it in their wonderful care for me! Just because Diane worried about Harry and had a right to!
This is the perfect example of bringing the worst of each other… and believing your own lies.
When HE said that there needed accountability showed me all I needed to know about him. I might respect him when HE takes responsibility for all they did to other people.
It's amazing how Harry, being reasonably far down the pecking order in Royal lineage) has developed such a narcissistic personality and yet his brother William, next in line to the throne, comes across as so selfless. I am not sure Harry was always a narcissist either - when he was younger he was a lot more down to earth in general - but I am pretty convinced that his perspective has been altered, perhaps by his wife but more likely a combination of things including his decadent Californian lifestyle, and now he acts so aloof and even looks back on those days where he was much less selfish with this newly found self-obsession. I know many people who actually knew Harry pretty well back in those days and none of them thought he was a narcissist and they all feel he has changed in the last decade or so.
@@marilyn9138 I never said it was. I think you’ve misinterpreted what I was trying to say. He didn’t write this book 20 years ago, he wrote it recently and his memories of his past are based upon his current warped perception. That’s not to say he didn’t make plenty of mistakes in his past, we all have, but usually we grow and learn from those mistakes. I feel like he has gone backwards though in recent years. Listen to, for example, how a guy I think we can all respect, ex-SBS and double World Record holder Dean Stott, talks about his relationship with Harry. He saw him as a very respectful, down to earth guy right through his military training and even after he had served. Something has changed Harry in recent years.
.. Hello there young man!! I'm an old woman (58) and I really enjoy your take on things, very interesting, thank you for your uploads!! p.s. you have beautiful coppery brown eyes!
My overarching thought is just “What a w*nker”. Yes I’m talking to you Harry.
Read the book. You'll change your mind.
@@gracepeterson7483 no I won’t.
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@@gracepeterson7483 Nope plus old Meghan has her mucky paws all over that book. He is a clown and now both of them are a laughing stock. They did it to themselves. Dumb and dumber
Great review.I think what you covered tells me a lot more about Harold than much of the "shocking" revelations. BTW, I'm from California, and admittedly Dude is used here, but it still has a trying-too-hard-to-be-cool connotation to it.
I must admit I am a bit surprised by the new revelations or seemingly new through the book Spare that Harry, according to you, is narcissistic and possibly even psychopathic. Narcissists generally tend to attract empaths so I had kind of concluded all along the because Meghan was the malignant narcissist that Harry would not be but I suppose it's possible that narcissists can attract other narcissists. I posted on several channels over the last year that my heart really went out to Harry because being in a relationship with a malignant narcissist is almost akin to domestic violence. The emotional manipulation, control and battery is constant and really brutal. So I just assumed that you know he was pretty much in a relationship with someone that had him bound and tied and pretty much like the Stockholm Syndrome having to do whatever it took to survive within the relationship especially since there are children involved. So again, this comes as a bit of a revelation!
He’s got a Personality disorder
all the usual boundaries never
applied to him. I always thought
he was fake now we see who he is
He found someone who not only is a malignant gaslighting narcissist, but someone who gives him the excuses he needs to blame everyone else for his horrible childhood and lack of love. That's truly sad because Princess Diana seemed to make sure she showed her kids lots of love and attention and especially people who weren't privileged as they were to possibly instill empathy for others not so fortunate as them. He chose the life of being coddled and treated special and entitled.
I, too, felt so sorry for him right up until just before the release of the book when he did those awful interviews. But I'm so annoyed that I've been had!
M acted & is ACTING with H that she is an empath. If he had not been manipulated into that first date with her he would never had synced with her. Their eventual path will be of emotional chaos because she cannot keep the facade in place, with him, forever and they will not be able to continue to feed each other the required fuel of a narcissist. Aussie Old Lady
@Sandra Whitmore there's a lot of things wrong with Harry, but I don't believe narcissism is one of those things. I do believe he's fueled by revenge, resentment, and absolute jealousy. The book appears to be evidence of some severe mental health issues.
He felt caged in by having police protection.? 😮
So why is he still wingeing on about needing (taxpayer funded) police protection.
Good post Andrew, love the honest angle you have . Keeping it real is refreshing.
I loved them in the beginning. Went to the wedding, cheered like a donkey with millions of others. 🤦♀️
Then the whining from Harry about his wife started, then Megxit and Oprah came and we all went "she's manipulated him and messed with his head...then came Netfix, Spare and the interviews and we all realised Harry was warped long before he met Meghan. Having his American actress wife might have given him the boost he needed, but she didnt create the Harry we see now. She just helped him remove his mask and show his true colours, probably because they're as murky and icky as hers.
We say a match made in heaven, but is it? Seems like a match made in horror. As a couple they are dangerous, feeding and feeding off one another like two circling black holes... **shudders**
H invaded Sasha Walpole’s privacy.
Very perceptive, Andrew.
I am happy to see a Narcissist not get away with their meanness and deceit!!
I like your insights!!👍
I can't believe that he wrote about water in Australia so flippantly.
Thank you for reading the book for us. I can only imagine going through that torture 😊
Hail yes!😊😬
The fact that he acts like he’s the only person alive who was affected by his mothers death is sign enough that he’s a narcissist. William went through exactly the same thing as Harry yet he’s not a lunatic dose of shite 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I don't get the feeling that hes a narcissist. I just get that hes really a bit thick and ignorant, regardless of where he studied.; this could be down to privilege...who you are/know and all that. I think he would have been in the dunce class in my comprehensive school 😂
Incorporating the orange 👕 👌 well done sir👍
I love these types of people who act like they're way bigger and cooler and better than they are. Not that they'd make good friends but it's genuinely entertaining AF🤣 I'm sure Harry takes it to a whole new level.. he's a prince after all
Like his uncle saying back in the day they were such 'cosmopolitan people' 🙈
He was known in Windsor for exactly the same behaviour ie harassing barmaids, being loud and obnoxious in a ‘do you know who i am way’ and one tale of him throwing up all over the bar and just leaving. Also known for throwing cannabis party’s in Windsor.
Interesting. More stories of his entitlement.