For real. For this podcast to work, she should have talked specifics, but is so reluctant it doesn’t even make any sense. Nathan should’ve pushed back on that more.
Nathaniel the title makes you sound like you’re starting a drama podcast - the ur mums house drama was just sad to see friends fall apart i dont wanna see this stirred up again zzz
This is a gentle suggestion so take it as you will (I definitely don’t know the background of how an episode topic comes together) but sometimes it feels like you have a personal motive with what you want your guest to talk about and the guest doesn’t necessarily feel like that’s the most important thing. I felt it in this episode where Annemarie seems to be really beyond this drama and has other insights to offer, I felt it with JH where you seemed really invested in the Mormon side and he obviously had things to share about that but also a lot of other things to say, and I also felt it in the painter in Paris episode where it seemed like you were personally invested in the relation of age and a new career but that didn’t seem to matter to the guest. It’s totally natural to have those personal investments because that’s probably what leads to an interest in the guest, but I often find myself wanting the guest to tell their own story with more open ended questions rather than leading questions. I love your work and in general am a fan of this podcast so I hope this is simply helpful! :)
The examples you give are spot on. It really seems like he's trying to get complaints out of AM to stir something up & get more clicks. That unfortunately seems to be a common thread in his podcast episodes with guests, not that he's trying to stir up drama, but that he's often steering the conversation in a direction that feels unnatural to the flow of the conversation and only asking about things that he's interested in (read: topics he think will do well on social media). For a guy who talks about diving deeper into his art, and not worrying about how things perform on social media, he actually seems like he cares a LOT about performance on social media. Just a thought.
I also find myself wanting to hear the guest tell their own story with more open ended questions rather than his pointed leading questions.. He also tends to follow up with his own experiences right after the guests share theirs which comes across like he's making it about himself. A good interviewer will want to go deeper with the guest by asking them follow-up questions rather than being like OH YEAH MAN, ME TOO, I TOTALLY HAD THAT HAPPEN TO ME ON MY CHANNEL. I hope that he'll take a step back and recognize that he's new to this, that there's room to improve, and that there are many lessons to be learned to become a better podcast host/interviewer. I feel like he could be going a lot deeper than he is with his guests and it would have a much better impact.
Agreed. It came off slimey. Maybe they could have discussed what she was comfortable with ahead of time so that he didn’t have to continuously dip a toe in to see if she would spill the tea. The multiple tries were aggravating because it was clear she had a boundary with how much she wanted to share.
I get where you’re coming from, but I’m looking at this from a different perspective. A guest is asked to come in and talk about a specific topic the host wants to know more about and simultaneously share it with an audience. Sure a guest probably has experienced a lot more in his/her/their life, but is invited on that topic. If you are really interested and invested in such a topic, you’ll ask questions to get a little bit deeper than just surface. So you ask a question again, or rephrase it. It’s not an interview where a guest talks about his or her life in general. It’s a podcast with a specific topic, so that’s what the guest gets asked about. 🤷🏽♀️ maybe I’m wrong, It’s just my way at looking at these podcasts.
This podcast really lacked substance and felt disconnected as a whole from viewers. Not that I have to relate to someone, but some of your other podcasts, like with your dad for example, felt very real, raw, and relatable. This just felt like I listened to an hour of nothing.
she has always been the most mature and well-spoken in the house whether kelly has always come across as the less mature. What it seems to be is that kelly the korean girl started dating and that messed everything up kelly and elliot friendships, the business etc and annemarie just felt like it was too much and decided to leave the ship before it sank... which didnt take that long after, Such a shame she had to go thru that. Karma will hit kelly and the korean girl HARD
@@jiminlovesux It's been months since this stuff happened and I think Ashley and Kelly are the only ones still consistently posting and getting views on their channels. Elliot barely posts and Annemarie doesn't even break 30k views on her videos. I think karma hit who it needed to hit lol
@@RandomVideos-yz5qf idk about annemarie but elliots parents seems ro be well off… if thats the case, he can afford to tale any breaks he wants ro. Karma usually works long term not short term. The korean girl will be alreary for a qhile indeed wait until bts is not hot anore and ahe cant use her lil bro for views…
It’s a little ironic how Annemarie goes on about her principle of respect, but then your title is clickbait to stir the pot.. I feel like this type of internet views-game is what destroyed urmomshouse to begin with and I hope your friend is ok with such a incendiary podcast title when she’s moved on and is doing her own stuff now
What a waste of time listening. This was my first listen to this channel and I’m certain I will never be back. Surface level conversations and politically correct responses. Click baiting only gets you so far.
Sad to say this episode lacked substance, probably due to the sensitive nature of the topic 😭 I’d love to see Annemarie on again but talking about other things!
It's gotta be from expectations. Cause I felt that way the first time i heard an explanation. This discussion was deeper on it and it was from one person point of view more than just saying things ran it course.. right.
I loved this conversation! Especially the difference between Alaska, how life is more community and friendship based, between NYC which is more career focused and hustle based. That probably changes a community and how people interact withIn it! Even the difference between attending a party in New York City and not knowing if everyone there is genuinely there or if they were paid, and how in Alaska that probably would never happen so you would never even think about it while at a party. That creates a level of subconscious distrust within a group of people for sure. Never truly knowing someone’s intentions or incentives. I wasn’t a watcher of Ur Moms House, but loved this conversation regardless.
Must be influencer problems or rich people problems. I’m not “cool enough” to get into parties where people are paid to fill up space. Lol. Elitism is weird.
As someone who doesn't know anything about her or the group channel she was in, I'm so confused about what's going on in this conversation? It seemed like they were gunna dive deep into why the group split, but that was never addressed.
She was either just saying "yeah", or answering very surface level to the questions... Didn't answer ANYTHING. This interview was pretty useless unfortunately.
I get your frustration bc I also wanted the deets but also respect that everyone involved is human and it aligns with her character that she would try to protect those people, her self/image/brand and whatever relationship she still has with them. I think it’s not her fault the episode was advertised as a tell all about the drama though. Aka clickbait? Still, without the details, a lot was “said” by what was left unsaid.
I wanted details too but respect how she chooses to do the right thing and did not speak badly about her roommates …even though she was obviously hurt by them to the point it took her 6 mos to process the breakup. Sounds like she forgives them and misses them a bit even hinted that a few years difference make them see the world a bit differently.
Eliot got jealous of Ashley then started talking bad about her and that didn’t set will with Kelly then they went on vacation and animarie went to Alaska and Eliot felt left out and lonely when everybody came back from vacation Kelly confronted Eliot about Ashley then they argued about everything and everyone went there separate way
@@karliescott6548 i live in the same aprtment as a youtubers cameramn and he told me thats what caused it. he is shaans camera man the youtuber that asks what are you listening to lol . im taking his word
@@accidentallyanderson i dont want my comment deleted if the last thread was in fact deleted for its content tbh. But I will say, it wasn't that bad though I can see how the implication being made by the commenter made Nathaniel look bad? Still the replies where on both sides and I felt it was an important discourse to be had regarding how we view/judge content creators/influencers based on what they say/show us vs what's the objective truth about their background and lives.
@@ariela_ 😭 what needs to happen is RUclips needs to bring back that inbox feature so you can message someone on RUclips. I don’t even know when that went away because I haven’t thought to use it in 7-10 years!
So I think my comment-to-be is a function of my age, but I am just exhausted by this "privilege" apology. It is life's randomness for one, and survival of the fittest secondly. No need for socializing apologies. If you have privilege, so what? Great. Move on. Everyone, regardless of privilege or lack thereof, has to find their own way. The only thing one can do is do so with kindness.
So does anybody have a link to a Reddit post or something that actually explains what happened to moms house. The title was misleading because he did answer the question but then it was avoided and danced around. If we’re gonna talk about feelings I would’ve felt less lied to if it would’ve been titled “podcast with with special guest Annmarie” rather than something wasn’t gonna be delivered. How they handled this whole break up was weird and this adds to that. I forgot all about this and now I gotta go back on the hunt for an answer. Smh. 🕵️♂️🕵️♂️🕵️♀️
your editing for your podcast is impeccable. and i’m glad to hear more about what happened with Ur Moms House cause i know people have tried to keep the info private, but the situation was soooo public. Any clarity helps
Nathaniel I really want your latest editing course, but $1500 is out my budget 😩 Do you have any other courses that are a bit more cost friendly? Really want to grow as an editor with your courses!
Real courses cost less than that. Why trust an influencer course instead of learning from a professional course? I’m not saying he isn’t qualified to teach in his subject but lots of influencers actually aren’t qualified to teach. And there are far cheaper courses elsewhere. Or even check out community colleges.
idk why everyone is complaining so bad about the title when the youtube algorithm literally favours click bait so ofc it wasn't going to be a super accurate title... most of the vids on this website never are. why are people still dying to know what exactly happened between the Ur moms house members like they owe y'all something and why u gotta dog this guy for it 😭. he just wants to have a conversation
A lot of her points about not going after money being looked down upon, comes from a very privileged point of view of having two parents that are doctors that will subsidize her life if she can’t pay her rent
I love Annemarie, Elliot, Kelly and Ashly but as a person who follows all their videos, I can say that what happend is because of Elliot. Elliot is jealous of Ashley. And believe all of them are very good in filming but Kelly is creativeeee. It started when Kelly went to vacation with his family and inviting Ashly. Guys WHY ELLIOT THINK THAT KELLY COULD NOT INVITE HIS GIRLFRIEND?
The interviewer should have more practice and research in elliciting information from the guest. P.s. the fact that they unfollowed each other means something really wrong has happened. You won’t unfollow someone just to take a break.
I am so surprised that Nathaniel did not have dozens of invitations from fans to stay at their place in NYC. That is sad and unexpected for such an interesting guy . What's that about NYC.
Hahaha omg I watched the same Feng Chua (pretty sure that's not at all how you spell that lol) video she's talking about! And I totally have always thought that; the further I am from the door and can see it, I can see the murderer before they see me lmao 😂
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a lot has been said in this episode but at the same time nothing.
anniemarie had a crush on kelly
Omg I’m five minutes in and they’ve said the same thing seven times
@@biggestbullsfan8569 who’s kelly
For real. For this podcast to work, she should have talked specifics, but is so reluctant it doesn’t even make any sense. Nathan should’ve pushed back on that more.
@@meaganconley2298 yeah it makes the whole title very clickbaity and no one is calling that out but if I invest my time on content I expect something.
Nathaniel the title makes you sound like you’re starting a drama podcast - the ur mums house drama was just sad to see friends fall apart i dont wanna see this stirred up again zzz
This is a gentle suggestion so take it as you will (I definitely don’t know the background of how an episode topic comes together) but sometimes it feels like you have a personal motive with what you want your guest to talk about and the guest doesn’t necessarily feel like that’s the most important thing. I felt it in this episode where Annemarie seems to be really beyond this drama and has other insights to offer, I felt it with JH where you seemed really invested in the Mormon side and he obviously had things to share about that but also a lot of other things to say, and I also felt it in the painter in Paris episode where it seemed like you were personally invested in the relation of age and a new career but that didn’t seem to matter to the guest. It’s totally natural to have those personal investments because that’s probably what leads to an interest in the guest, but I often find myself wanting the guest to tell their own story with more open ended questions rather than leading questions. I love your work and in general am a fan of this podcast so I hope this is simply helpful! :)
The examples you give are spot on. It really seems like he's trying to get complaints out of AM to stir something up & get more clicks. That unfortunately seems to be a common thread in his podcast episodes with guests, not that he's trying to stir up drama, but that he's often steering the conversation in a direction that feels unnatural to the flow of the conversation and only asking about things that he's interested in (read: topics he think will do well on social media). For a guy who talks about diving deeper into his art, and not worrying about how things perform on social media, he actually seems like he cares a LOT about performance on social media. Just a thought.
I also find myself wanting to hear the guest tell their own story with more open ended questions rather than his pointed leading questions.. He also tends to follow up with his own experiences right after the guests share theirs which comes across like he's making it about himself. A good interviewer will want to go deeper with the guest by asking them follow-up questions rather than being like OH YEAH MAN, ME TOO, I TOTALLY HAD THAT HAPPEN TO ME ON MY CHANNEL. I hope that he'll take a step back and recognize that he's new to this, that there's room to improve, and that there are many lessons to be learned to become a better podcast host/interviewer. I feel like he could be going a lot deeper than he is with his guests and it would have a much better impact.
Agreed. It came off slimey. Maybe they could have discussed what she was comfortable with ahead of time so that he didn’t have to continuously dip a toe in to see if she would spill the tea. The multiple tries were aggravating because it was clear she had a boundary with how much she wanted to share.
Yes, he does this a lot.
I get where you’re coming from, but I’m looking at this from a different perspective. A guest is asked to come in and talk about a specific topic the host wants to know more about and simultaneously share it with an audience. Sure a guest probably has experienced a lot more in his/her/their life, but is invited on that topic. If you are really interested and invested in such a topic, you’ll ask questions to get a little bit deeper than just surface. So you ask a question again, or rephrase it. It’s not an interview where a guest talks about his or her life in general. It’s a podcast with a specific topic, so that’s what the guest gets asked about. 🤷🏽♀️ maybe I’m wrong, It’s just my way at looking at these podcasts.
This podcast really lacked substance and felt disconnected as a whole from viewers. Not that I have to relate to someone, but some of your other podcasts, like with your dad for example, felt very real, raw, and relatable. This just felt like I listened to an hour of nothing.
she had a crush on kelly
i had feeling! something happened like that@@biggestbullsfan8569
Annemarie - the way you handled addressing the breakup was classy and graceful. Not willing to give in to trash talking. Good on you girl
she has always been the most mature and well-spoken in the house whether kelly has always come across as the less mature. What it seems to be is that kelly the korean girl started dating and that messed everything up kelly and elliot friendships, the business etc and annemarie just felt like it was too much and decided to leave the ship before it sank... which didnt take that long after, Such a shame she had to go thru that. Karma will hit kelly and the korean girl HARD
shit, thats exactly what i was looking forward to
@@jiminlovesux It's been months since this stuff happened and I think Ashley and Kelly are the only ones still consistently posting and getting views on their channels. Elliot barely posts and Annemarie doesn't even break 30k views on her videos. I think karma hit who it needed to hit lol
@@RandomVideos-yz5qf idk about annemarie but elliots parents seems ro be well off… if thats the case, he can afford to tale any breaks he wants ro. Karma usually works long term not short term. The korean girl will be alreary for a qhile indeed wait until bts is not hot anore and ahe cant use her lil bro for views…
@@RandomVideos-yz5qf Elliot has various business ventures to make money. Being a RUclips vlogger isn't his primary source of income.
It’s a little ironic how Annemarie goes on about her principle of respect, but then your title is clickbait to stir the pot.. I feel like this type of internet views-game is what destroyed urmomshouse to begin with and I hope your friend is ok with such a incendiary podcast title when she’s moved on and is doing her own stuff now
Agreed!
What a waste of time listening. This was my first listen to this channel and I’m certain I will never be back. Surface level conversations and politically correct responses. Click baiting only gets you so far.
Sad to say this episode lacked substance, probably due to the sensitive nature of the topic 😭 I’d love to see Annemarie on again but talking about other things!
Yeah I get what you mean, things were spoken about so surface level and vaguely...
@@Almadallama YEss...
“Opens up on what really happened” and I still don’t know what happened lol
It's gotta be from expectations. Cause I felt that way the first time i heard an explanation. This discussion was deeper on it and it was from one person point of view more than just saying things ran it course.. right.
@@ariela_ they had to grow apart because they have different goals in life
I loved this conversation! Especially the difference between Alaska, how life is more community and friendship based, between NYC which is more career focused and hustle based. That probably changes a community and how people interact withIn it! Even the difference between attending a party in New York City and not knowing if everyone there is genuinely there or if they were paid, and how in Alaska that probably would never happen so you would never even think about it while at a party. That creates a level of subconscious distrust within a group of people for sure. Never truly knowing someone’s intentions or incentives.
I wasn’t a watcher of Ur Moms House, but loved this conversation regardless.
Must be influencer problems or rich people problems. I’m not “cool enough” to get into parties where people are paid to fill up space. Lol. Elitism is weird.
She still follows Elliot, Isa and Nic but not everyone else’s 😳
Love Anne Marie respectfulness. Hate that Nathaniel kept pushing to get gossip
Been months and you guys cannot seem to move on with ur mom's house issue. Still using the drama for views huh.
She still follows Elliot , weird they talk so generally in this episode lol
As someone who doesn't know anything about her or the group channel she was in, I'm so confused about what's going on in this conversation? It seemed like they were gunna dive deep into why the group split, but that was never addressed.
That’s the *beauty* of clickbait! 😐
I agree. She never gave a straight forward answer. I still have no idea why she left the house. 🤷🏼♀️
@@rebeccaaraoz3838 she had a crush on kelly
@@biggestbullsfan8569 exactly 💯
@@biggestbullsfan8569 oh really? How do you know? It always seemed like they never liked each other or at the least didn't see eye to eye.
isnt AnneMarie srill friends with Elliot?
Also I thought this would talk about why they stopped being friends but it answered nothing lol
They still follow each other on ig. I think she meant the other two
She was either just saying "yeah", or answering very surface level to the questions... Didn't answer ANYTHING. This interview was pretty useless unfortunately.
I get your frustration bc I also wanted the deets but also respect that everyone involved is human and it aligns with her character that she would try to protect those people, her self/image/brand and whatever relationship she still has with them. I think it’s not her fault the episode was advertised as a tell all about the drama though. Aka clickbait? Still, without the details, a lot was “said” by what was left unsaid.
I wanted details too but respect how she chooses to do the right thing and did not speak badly about her roommates …even though she was obviously hurt by them to the point it took her 6 mos to process the breakup. Sounds like she forgives them and misses them a bit even hinted that a few years difference make them see the world a bit differently.
This guy is digging for views with the house drama. Boo.
It’s funny cause Annemarie left because she wanted to do her own thing, but to this day she’s still most known for urmomshouse…
Eliot got jealous of Ashley then started talking bad about her and that didn’t set will with Kelly then they went on vacation and animarie went to Alaska and Eliot felt left out and lonely when everybody came back from vacation Kelly confronted Eliot about Ashley then they argued about everything and everyone went there separate way
Love Annemarie and how real she is, so thank you for this conversation between you two! Loved it
LOL comments being deleted
most genuine woman on the internet
easy to be genuine when you are this surface level...
I thought Elliot and Anne Marie were still friends...? Did she dance around it to avoid saying her real problem was with Ashley and Kelly?
she had a crush on kelly
@@biggestbullsfan8569is that a theory or was it said somewhere?
@@karliescott6548 i live in the same aprtment as a youtubers cameramn and he told me thats what caused it. he is shaans camera man the youtuber that asks what are you listening to lol . im taking his word
This was an amazing conversation - I love the energy of both of you bring to this
There was a really interesting and teachable moment happening in a thread but then it all disappeared…. Are comments being removed?
What was the thread about?
What was it
@@accidentallyanderson i dont want my comment deleted if the last thread was in fact deleted for its content tbh. But I will say, it wasn't that bad though I can see how the implication being made by the commenter made Nathaniel look bad? Still the replies where on both sides and I felt it was an important discourse to be had regarding how we view/judge content creators/influencers based on what they say/show us vs what's the objective truth about their background and lives.
Say it in code
@@ariela_ 😭 what needs to happen is RUclips needs to bring back that inbox feature so you can message someone on RUclips. I don’t even know when that went away because I haven’t thought to use it in 7-10 years!
So I think my comment-to-be is a function of my age, but I am just exhausted by this "privilege" apology. It is life's randomness for one, and survival of the fittest secondly.
No need for socializing apologies. If you have privilege, so what? Great. Move on. Everyone, regardless of privilege or lack thereof, has to find their own way. The only thing one can do is do so with kindness.
Well…just wasted an hour of my life I’ll never get back. Anne Marie, why go on a podcast if you’re gonna be so vague lol
Eh. Feels like trying to get clickbait and complaints out of her. This feels off
So does anybody have a link to a Reddit post or something that actually explains what happened to moms house. The title was misleading because he did answer the question but then it was avoided and danced around. If we’re gonna talk about feelings I would’ve felt less lied to if it would’ve been titled “podcast with with special guest Annmarie” rather than something wasn’t gonna be delivered. How they handled this whole break up was weird and this adds to that. I forgot all about this and now I gotta go back on the hunt for an answer. Smh. 🕵️♂️🕵️♂️🕵️♀️
she had a crush on kelly. im in nyc and the cameran for shaan (youtuber) lives in my apartment complex. shaan is a friend of elliot
@@biggestbullsfan8569you are commenting this everywhere. I chose not to believe u lol
@@sheeshee5083 ok just spreading the truth from what ive heard. you can believe me or not
You made her uncomfortable!!
your editing for your podcast is impeccable. and i’m glad to hear more about what happened with Ur Moms House cause i know people have tried to keep the info private, but the situation was soooo public. Any clarity helps
Nathaniel I really want your latest editing course, but $1500 is out my budget 😩 Do you have any other courses that are a bit more cost friendly? Really want to grow as an editor with your courses!
Real courses cost less than that. Why trust an influencer course instead of learning from a professional course? I’m not saying he isn’t qualified to teach in his subject but lots of influencers actually aren’t qualified to teach. And there are far cheaper courses elsewhere. Or even check out community colleges.
love this girl and her content she puts out in the world
I love Annemarei her energy and thought of live, I feel like we come on a lot of things related to, how do you see other people a round you.
These two both knew they wanted to waste our time and I can’t forgive them for that.
Creators. Put out better videos.
Love this episode and guest! Is it me or is the focus off?
Kelly & Ashley still follow & are together
Waste of time & effort
Dude the guys were too messy lol in friends the show the guys n girls always live separately
idk why everyone is complaining so bad about the title when the youtube algorithm literally favours click bait so ofc it wasn't going to be a super accurate title... most of the vids on this website never are. why are people still dying to know what exactly happened between the Ur moms house members like they owe y'all something and why u gotta dog this guy for it 😭. he just wants to have a conversation
A lot of her points about not going after money being looked down upon, comes from a very privileged point of view of having two parents that are doctors that will subsidize her life if she can’t pay her rent
Uninteresting, i just can’t finish her vlogs but I don’t dislike her.
ITS LATE BUT I GOTTA
I really enjoy your podcasts, and love Annemarie’s honesty and kind spirit. Thank you both 🙏 😊
I love Annemarie, Elliot, Kelly and Ashly but as a person who follows all their videos, I can say that what happend is because of Elliot. Elliot is jealous of Ashley. And believe all of them are very good in filming but Kelly is creativeeee. It started when Kelly went to vacation with his family and inviting Ashly. Guys WHY ELLIOT THINK THAT KELLY COULD NOT INVITE HIS GIRLFRIEND?
What made you believe that Elliot was jealous of Ashly?
no feet rubbing please haha
The interviewer should have more practice and research in elliciting information from the guest.
P.s. the fact that they unfollowed each other means something really wrong has happened. You won’t unfollow someone just to take a break.
Everyone else are still friends with Ashley and Kelly but not her and Elliott lol
Nobody ever seems to poo-poo when you like somebody that you have not met yet the opposite is hardly ever true - 43:44
not famous enough for the house 🤣🤣
Yay for new episode!!!
She said nothing
Lex Friedman
Your dad shared “Nathan” recently. I like your choice to be private with Nathaniel. ☺️
What she lacks is maturity..All of them..Get real it was nice to see them all Happy together..But come on how hard is it to pick up a phone and say hi
Shes the most mature. Elliot and kelly were being immature
my queeeeen
Impressive!
So much nonsense Annemarie! You were not even active like Kelly and Ashley! 😡😡😡
I am loving your podcast!
I am so surprised that Nathaniel did not have dozens of invitations from fans to stay at their place in NYC. That is sad and unexpected for such an interesting guy . What's that about NYC.
you guys mesh so well
Annemarie had a crush on kelly thats why the house ended
Love annemarie to the core
Hahaha omg I watched the same Feng Chua (pretty sure that's not at all how you spell that lol) video she's talking about! And I totally have always thought that; the further I am from the door and can see it, I can see the murderer before they see me lmao 😂