4 Words That Trigger Love in A Man | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
  • Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 4 Words That Trigger Love in A Man.
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  • @matboggs
    @matboggs  Год назад +1

    Join the *Manifest Your Man* program and get *coached by Mat Boggs TODAY* : www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/love-relationships/resources/mym/offer/strategy-session

  • @kimlarge4077
    @kimlarge4077 4 года назад +554

    I'm glad I broke up with my EX and moved out. Saying "will you take me" anywhere, even down the street to the store would get a hateful response like I was bothering him and if we did I would have to drive. I'm so glad to have my life back and talking to other men again. There ARE better people out there and I'm glad I didn't settle.

    • @arthurcummins1838
      @arthurcummins1838 3 года назад +47

      when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash.

    • @arthurcummins1838
      @arthurcummins1838 3 года назад +14

      Your a beautiful lady I think you deserve a good man

    • @kimlarge4077
      @kimlarge4077 3 года назад +10

      @@arthurcummins1838 Thank you Boo! I'm on my quest looking for a high quality man.

    • @arthurcummins1838
      @arthurcummins1838 3 года назад +7

      @@kimlarge4077 Am also looking for a quality woman .. You really deserve a good man, where are you from??

    • @kimlarge4077
      @kimlarge4077 3 года назад +2

      @@arthurcummins1838 Florida

  • @shavoniajackson3152
    @shavoniajackson3152 3 года назад +364

    I just sent a text to my husband of 22 years using the "will you...me" phrase. I got a heart emoji! He's never responded in this way! Let's see how fast he gets home today 🤣😘

  • @melindaanne6036
    @melindaanne6036 4 года назад +533

    I love that you give advice for all women not just single women looking for a partner. I’ve been married for 19 years and I leave your videos with ways to make my marriage better! Thank you!

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад +4

      Hi wonderful, how you doing, hope you good out there.. Greetings from 🇺🇸 😊

    • @phionahmwogeza4245
      @phionahmwogeza4245 3 года назад +3

      Wow

    • @naowright9308
      @naowright9308 2 года назад

      My husband and I have been married 15 years and I also appreciate him telling us these secrets.

  • @lyczious
    @lyczious 4 года назад +379

    Matt! I said this phrase in the car today with my boyfriend... He literally melted in his seat! His entire language and face instantly softened up, he looked all googly eyed before he responded “yes” to my request. This is a very alpha alpha man so trust me, it was heart warming to see his heart on all the sleeves in the moment. Thank you!!!☺️☺️

  • @frenchydds2208
    @frenchydds2208 3 года назад +113

    My boyfriend loves when I call him something but I use the word "my" in front of it. "MY man", "MY love", "MY baby", "MY Nathan", "MY stud muffin"😂 Seeing that smile on his face when he hears that just makes me melt😍

  • @sabrinadeangelis3374
    @sabrinadeangelis3374 4 года назад +477

    “I feel safe with you”

    • @sweetsue4204
      @sweetsue4204 4 года назад +21

      Sabrina De Angelis, this one works. Personal experience. 🥰

    • @dollydagger4306
      @dollydagger4306 4 года назад +22

      Oh yes! My boyfriend loves it when I say that! He even told me it makes him feel like a man. "I feel safe with you."

    • @truthseekeralways7050
      @truthseekeralways7050 4 года назад +1

      @@dollydagger4306 ❤️👍🏼

    • @ONLYLOVEIZATION
      @ONLYLOVEIZATION 4 года назад +40

      Please don’t use “I feel safe” unless you are sure that you are 100% safe though.

    • @sabrinadeangelis3374
      @sabrinadeangelis3374 4 года назад +10

      @@ONLYLOVEIZATION i agree with you

  • @vargsmalnorway9246
    @vargsmalnorway9246 4 года назад +339

    4 words *WILL YOU TAKE ME... ?*
    Triggers: *Accomplishments* -> triggers masculine energy, the man feels powerful. Ask him to do smth for you in order for him to feel powerful.
    The *4 words:* *Will you take me... ?* -> gives him the powership role and responsability (you give him the opportunity to serve you).
    Use *"will"* instead of "can" so he doesn't feel like you are questioning his ability to accomplish the request.
    Use *"me"* instead of "it" to not make it sound like a chore (will you take the trash out? Will you go to the store?) *Me = cherished moment* while it = a chore.

    • @kellymcdonald3964
      @kellymcdonald3964 4 года назад +17

      not all heroes wear capes

    • @angelablackthorne3026
      @angelablackthorne3026 4 года назад +13

      Married?
      "Will you take the trash out for us?"
      We're a team and a partnership building a life together..

    • @hortensejones4050
      @hortensejones4050 3 года назад +6

      I’m in long distance relationship. How do I adapt this?

    • @tazmania201
      @tazmania201 3 года назад +2

      You’re the real mvp!

    • @lovelygirl8774
      @lovelygirl8774 3 года назад

      @@angelablackthorne3026 lmao no

  • @rosakran
    @rosakran 3 года назад +44

    when I gently said "will we meet again sometimes soon?" on the first time we met, he said that phrase trigger him for wanting to date me

  • @ivymiraculous-fan467
    @ivymiraculous-fan467 4 года назад +628

    “Babe will you take me to ikea this Sunday?” Him: “okay”. Any man who can suffer through an ikea trip on a weekend really is a hero 🤣

  • @magdakidybinska6109
    @magdakidybinska6109 4 года назад +136

    what brings the masculine love out? - a whole-hearted, simple, authentic 'thank you' :)

    • @margaretmyles1523
      @margaretmyles1523 4 года назад +5

      Agree I say thank you it does get good response

    • @nourinshoily8727
      @nourinshoily8727 3 года назад +3

      @@icysnow57cold64 a male will open up with that woman who will cherish him, give him peace, match his thinking n soul... Its a miracle between two worlds..... Men have emotions, but they cant express they way women do.... Thats why the correct one will help him bring it out or just understand the inner him... That's 1 of the beauty of human creation

    • @margotsesnorio3825
      @margotsesnorio3825 3 года назад +1

      @@icysnow57cold64
      But for Me, I had a closest bond with My Dear Father. I have Three Sisters yet I am more closer to My Male Best Friend whom I can Trusted for many years. Women friends are sometimes backbiters!

    • @margotsesnorio3825
      @margotsesnorio3825 3 года назад +1

      @@icysnow57cold64
      Well, It s also normal that a Woman can fall in love with her Male Best Friend when he is Admirable and possessing with Ideal Quality Traits in Men. However, I have a BoyFriend whom I loved most and I don't want to cheat on him so as I don't want him also to cheat to me in return. My Best Male Friend is My Confidante and Coach.. whom I can Trusted a lot and such Trust, I never find on My Women Friends!😉

  • @lisawillis5486
    @lisawillis5486 3 года назад +47

    I love it when you ________. Fill in the blank with anything you truly love. It lets him know you appreciate him specifically and it almost guarantees that you’ll see that behavior again.

  • @OceanLove
    @OceanLove 4 года назад +53

    “You get me and love me in a way i never imagined possible! It makes me feel anything is possible when we are together!”

  • @nadineo1983
    @nadineo1983 3 года назад +171

    Will 📝 you 📝 take 📝 me 📝..... got it.
    I love making my bf feel masculine, strong and protective. He shines when I tell him how safe I feel with him. He grew up in gangs and on the street, been to prison... so, he is a hardened man. But, when I am vulnerable to him and show I trust him and believe in him, he responds in the most gentle ways. This man has spent almost 10 years in prison, been to the hole for a month but will kiss me on the nose while holding me while going to sleep and call me princess. I am not a weak woman, I am fully capable but, I am strong enough to recognize how I can take a step back and speak his love language.

    • @jenniferjer3332
      @jenniferjer3332 3 года назад +5

      So beautiful ❤️

    • @shayk.393
      @shayk.393 3 года назад +6

      he has an awesome heart and you bring that out in him. a great couple

    • @socadream
      @socadream 3 года назад +5

      Omg💕💕💕so beautiful…seems you bring out the love in each other🥰

    • @amandamclean5103
      @amandamclean5103 3 года назад +1

      You got it girl! That is the secret woman forget in the quest for equality..men do not like apha woman...

    • @juwa73g24
      @juwa73g24 3 года назад +8

      I have recently met a man with a similar past. Full of tattoos but I would proudly hold his hands walking down the street and shout that I love this man. His heart and mind is different to any man I have ever met. It’s like a lock and key for two kindled spirits... and empowering them with our vulnerability is such a beautiful thing for both. I love these four words will be trying. Best wishes with your polished diamond God bless you both🥰🥰

  • @LindseyS900
    @LindseyS900 4 года назад +125

    I always thank him for being sweet and thoughtful when he says or does something that makes me smile. Could be a random text etc but he does the sweetest things (not things that cost money) but things that matter to me. I tell him how proud I am of him as a son to his parents, the father he is to his son, and the partner he is to me. Every day, no matter how he feels, he gets up and goes to work to provide (as do I). He gives so much emotionally to others and I regularly remind him how much I love all the qualities he possesses as a man, and a partner. I tell him how handsome he is, how his smile just melts my heart. I simply adore everything about him, even after 20 years together. He's an incredible man and I feel very lucky to have such a wonderful man in my life.

    • @bobbivaneman1584
      @bobbivaneman1584 4 года назад +16

      AWWWWW ... AND HE IS BLESSED TO HAVE YOU, TOO !

    • @melissabrown5104
      @melissabrown5104 3 года назад +8

      I do and say the same things with my BF and I do and say those things because I actually mean them. He recently told me how much those words/ statements mean to him and that it’s made him fall more in love with me. I was kind of shocked how serious he was about it. but also so happy that he appreciated me appreciating him. I don’t get why more couples don’t talk to each other like that. It makes you grow closer and have a stronger bond. I’m so happy for you and I’m so happy you commented because more people need to know what your doing so they do it to their loved ones more, especially men because you only hear how women need to be cherished and complimented all the time but men actually do too. The good men deserve to be just like we do. 🙂

  • @iWannaGoFast20
    @iWannaGoFast20 3 года назад +47

    "I believe in you"...this invokes so much emotion for him to know that he can accomplish anything he sets out to do.

  • @JessieMillerUnboxingsandMore
    @JessieMillerUnboxingsandMore 4 года назад +87

    Very good point about the word "can." I haven't thought of it like that but you're absolutely right.

    • @はII
      @はII 4 года назад +5

      Good he mentioned that , otherwise I wouldn’t have noted the difference 😅

    • @JessieMillerUnboxingsandMore
      @JessieMillerUnboxingsandMore 4 года назад +3

      @@はII yes same!!

    • @Tumi_2000
      @Tumi_2000 3 года назад +1

      Me neither. Needed to hear this

  • @rmhmr279
    @rmhmr279 4 года назад +26

    I always added "please" to those words & when our evening was over I kissed him & said "thanks honey, I had a great time"

  • @leogoddess2473
    @leogoddess2473 4 года назад +42

    I have noticed me saying "I am so appreciative to your help love and understanding " it brings such joy to him...makes me say it all the time!

  • @Fuzzywidgetsam
    @Fuzzywidgetsam 3 года назад +12

    I LOVE how you reiterate the statement of pro feminism, but also reiterate the REQUEST to play to the 'alpha/masculine ' role of "WILL you" . Because as a single mom, this has been a HUGE indicator to me of people who are worth my interest, vs not, in trying to build a relationship that I would introduce my child to.

  • @michiloui9810
    @michiloui9810 3 года назад +11

    A guy said “ I want you to feel safe with me” on a first date & I instantly felt the opposite lol

  • @ingajewell1087
    @ingajewell1087 3 года назад +27

    I always asked my late husband "be my hero" when I couldn't open a jar:)

  • @richardsmith7696
    @richardsmith7696 3 года назад +71

    This is interesting, it gives me hope actually of finding true love someday, it’s been a lonely world since my wife passed on 7 years ago. I miss being married 😒

    • @lanaedoxa
      @lanaedoxa 3 года назад +1

      U will ..have faith

    • @ranvijay1212
      @ranvijay1212 3 года назад

      Will you be my friend??🤝

    • @cynthiauzoka2291
      @cynthiauzoka2291 3 года назад +1

      You will soon. 😊. You'll attract a lovely lovely woman

    • @tabbygititu6940
      @tabbygititu6940 3 года назад +1

      Richard be strong all will be well God Has something good for you

    • @ugandantigress8739
      @ugandantigress8739 3 года назад +1

      Will u take me to be a friend?

  • @cortneykathleen
    @cortneykathleen 4 года назад +107

    As a woman the words that popped out to me instantly were take, eat, sushi & beach lol

  • @sarahnacional7758
    @sarahnacional7758 3 года назад +21

    "I'm proud of you."

  • @barbaradelaney7741
    @barbaradelaney7741 3 года назад +8

    I used this little phrase in, my new relationship with a wonderful Man and, the response from him, took me back to how I felt, the first minute that, I knew I loved him.

  • @sweetlikechocolate437
    @sweetlikechocolate437 4 года назад +54

    I've been single for 9 years. I've given up on finding "The One". But fab vid Matt. ❤

    • @fairy7101
      @fairy7101 4 года назад +5

      Same. And I knew the words were ‘will you take me’ almost immediately. Yet still single

    • @suzihazlove4979
      @suzihazlove4979 4 года назад +1

      Just so rare to find that guy we are willing to give up our time and other options...

    • @KG-bliss
      @KG-bliss 4 года назад

      Smae here... I guess when the one comes along I will be ready... But right now am Happy single...am not yet ready to give up me❤️

    • @taz12184
      @taz12184 4 года назад +2

      Keep watching the vids and learning from them. So When and you will meet Mr right. You will have the tools under your belt and avoid uneducated mistakes with him. And can spend time getting to know him and not stressing.

    • @winterysummerday
      @winterysummerday 4 года назад +6

      Same here. Ten years and counting. It's so long I don't even know how to date anymore 😅

  • @debbiepostel4385
    @debbiepostel4385 4 года назад +68

    Dan and I just started dating. We text every day and have gone out on one date - - so far. We talk and laugh easily, and have a lot in common. He has begun working as a real estate agent while slowly phasing out his full-time job; plus he's been the sole caregiver to his mom who lives in a memory care unit. So as you can see, his time is precious. Now add to the mix that I'm confined to a wheelchair. Transportation for me is very expensive. What is considered "normal" meet ups don't really work for us. However, he is always willing to help if I ask "Will you help me with . . . ". He makes sure to carve out time (even for a few minutes) and has even postponed a meeting with his mentor to help pick up a piece of furniture and bring it to my place.

    • @suzihazlove4979
      @suzihazlove4979 4 года назад +3

      How did u meet that hero?

    • @venusveryown
      @venusveryown 3 года назад +6

      Congratulations on finding such a guy. I wish you two the best , so beautiful

    • @dianeduplessis9535
      @dianeduplessis9535 3 года назад +1

      Oh Debbie, sounds wonderful. Wishing you both lotsa fun love and happiness. You deserve it♥️💕❤️

    • @ananditaadhikary2179
      @ananditaadhikary2179 2 года назад +1

      Lucky woman! Enjoy your love❤️

  • @gsxr1189
    @gsxr1189 3 года назад +183

    4 Words that men love to hear
    "I am cooking dinner"

    • @jaquaywimberly9148
      @jaquaywimberly9148 3 года назад +7

      True 😂😂😂

    • @nataliee5501
      @nataliee5501 3 года назад +6

      🥳😂

    • @dora7131
      @dora7131 3 года назад +3

      Jajajaja

    • @ciaramaricartan4728
      @ciaramaricartan4728 3 года назад +2

      Lol

    • @walkinginthespiritministri6465
      @walkinginthespiritministri6465 3 года назад +12

      This is not a lie 🤣🤣 but think about why! How amazing is it for us women when a man cooks us a good meal? I don’t know about you but I LOOOOOVEE that. Imagine how a man feels! It’s one of the simplest ways to show your love ❤️

  • @elysemw
    @elysemw 3 года назад +15

    I see this in myself. Ask me "can" I do something and it's like yeah I can but do I want to. Ask me if I "will" and I most likely will bc I was made to feel needed. Makes sense. Thank you!

  • @elleemann
    @elleemann 3 года назад +16

    "I'm proud of you"

  • @angelablackthorne3026
    @angelablackthorne3026 4 года назад +150

    Interestingly men and women take "Can" and "will" differently.
    If you ask a woman if she "will" do something for you, you're subtly questioning her willingness to
    do something for you. It's a subtle affront.
    She's likely to respond by saying "Of course I will" or "I'm perfectly willing, the question is "can I help you?"!
    If you want a woman to respond positively you ask her if she "can" do something for you. Women are socialized to a high expectation of kindness and giving as their primary values.
    If you ask a man "Can you
    help me?" You're subtly challenging his competence.
    A man will say "Of course I can!" He might even add
    "The question is "Will I?"'
    For men the primary values are being competent and self-willed.

    • @arthurcummins1838
      @arthurcummins1838 3 года назад +2

      when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash.

    • @kekeochuko4622
      @kekeochuko4622 3 года назад +1

      You're sooo right

    • @craigpurcell1628
      @craigpurcell1628 3 года назад

      Hello Angela

    • @Kayprofessor
      @Kayprofessor 3 года назад +3

      Very Interesting observation ma’am!!

    • @finna5970
      @finna5970 3 года назад +1

      Angela you nailed it, wow

  • @susan8823
    @susan8823 4 года назад +85

    Great advice!! I’m into decade 6 and I learn something new everyday😊 Going to try this, TY Matt❣️

    • @arthurcummins1838
      @arthurcummins1838 3 года назад +3

      when you believe that you deserve a good guy,that’s when you will attract him.Your brain will filter out the trash. Your a beautiful lady you deserve a good man

    • @richardsmith7696
      @richardsmith7696 3 года назад +1

      Hi Susan, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
      Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉.

    • @williamsbarkley2637
      @williamsbarkley2637 3 года назад

      😊😊

    • @frankale174
      @frankale174 3 года назад

      🇱🇷👆👆
      Finally my toxic relationship is ended after the name above👆 gave me proof from chats i saw was being cheated for long time.,

    • @msBbee-oq7im
      @msBbee-oq7im 2 года назад

      Susan, me to. I am 60 and just started dating a guy, 62, the best man I have ever been with!

  • @lauragrace4388
    @lauragrace4388 3 года назад +13

    My mother's instilled all this in me by listening to my mother talk to my father

  • @trish8321
    @trish8321 3 года назад +47

    My dude loves it when I say "thank you". I mean, I could say thank you for anything, from just talking to me to driving me, whatever it is.
    He always has this spark in his eyes and his whole demeanor changes, he always says "it's my pleasure" or "the pleasure is mine".
    He loves being thanked lmao! 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @JENALYNE
    @JENALYNE 10 дней назад

    Calling him an affectionate nickname greeting, saying I wanna hold him and be held by him, implying to him he’s just the absolute greatest TO MEEEEE, asking what’s new for him and that I really just like to know *about him,* being tenderly wowed by his appearance/effort in an emotionally affected way…❤ all under God’s giving me his heart.

  •  3 года назад +38

    "I need one of your hugs"
    With the boo or guy friends, I've noticed they love them requests and never say no.

  • @thetaraparker
    @thetaraparker 3 года назад +27

    So grateful for this man!! I love hearing conversations about masculinity.

  • @deborahrachwal8340
    @deborahrachwal8340 4 года назад +29

    It is amazing! I said will you take me... and he visibly puffed up and was eager to answer before I said where I would like to go! He loved the suggestion so much, he added more to it! Thanks for helping woman navigate the world of men!!

  • @MsRight-sb5ds
    @MsRight-sb5ds 3 года назад +5

    “I trust that you will figure it out”

  • @iraqiraq8319
    @iraqiraq8319 3 года назад +7

    Yes , i agree .. their masculinity shows up more when using this tecnique😉 and makes us as women feel so feminine too, which makes the situation sooooo sexy .. they love us to depend on them .. and we love that too ..

  • @nowiknowhy
    @nowiknowhy 3 года назад +10

    I sometimes snuggle up to him and say how I admire his big strong muscles. He has them, but to let him know I notice them, i can see he likes it a lot. I also occasionally call him 'Manly' as a nickname. That always get a smile out of him.

  • @sweetsue4204
    @sweetsue4204 4 года назад +33

    I’m not sure where I read it, but early into my marriage I learned to always ask a man using the words “Will you” or “Would you” because “Can you” or “Could you” called into question his ability to do it, and diminished him in the request. That little piece of knowledge contributed mightily to our happy decades together.
    The words you choose matter. There’s so many we could stand to rephrase to better fit the emotional response we were hoping for.

    • @sjpnnk
      @sjpnnk 4 года назад +1

      It was probably John Gray🙂

    • @sweetsue4204
      @sweetsue4204 4 года назад +1

      Julz, come to think of it, that may have been from his first Mars and Venus book. 😄

    • @sjpnnk
      @sjpnnk 4 года назад

      @@sweetsue4204 yup!

  • @veronicastewart3162
    @veronicastewart3162 3 года назад +12

    If I say "Honey, I enjoy it when you...and then end with it makes me feel so loved ... He pours himself out to me... I think he feels secure to express his feelings for me... He is a saggitarius ... very emotionally intense and purposeful in his emotional expression ... I am an aries ...great match ...we have so much fun together ...

    • @ichuze7312
      @ichuze7312 3 года назад

      My husband is a Sagittarius too and I’m a Leo.

    • @LyttleHoneyBunny
      @LyttleHoneyBunny 3 года назад

      Thank you for a great comment and an even better suggestion!

  • @patty4939
    @patty4939 3 года назад +3

    I texted him”would you take me to the beach to watch the sunset” (on vacay) he said “of course “ 🤩

  • @moniquejackson8635
    @moniquejackson8635 3 года назад +4

    I have triggered his love not by any words but consistent love and appreciation and more. But he has said he appreciates that and it means a lot.

  • @guerlinegillot9978
    @guerlinegillot9978 4 года назад +26

    This totally worked. My bf and I are in a long distance relationship...I texted him Babe, I'm tired of just going to work and coming home. Will you plan a romantic date night for me?
    His response: of course babe, I was already planning on it when I come back.

  • @AkaHeart1
    @AkaHeart1 4 года назад +9

    Taking your advice; as I usually do, and asking him....”Will you take me” back to Lake Minnewaska where we had our first picnic 🧺 amongst the waterfalls? It will have to be early spring next year as the weather is too cold now! Something we both will be waiting for!!
    Thanks Matt!! Love your videos!! ♥️🙏🏻♥️

  • @annmarieveronicajames2536
    @annmarieveronicajames2536 3 года назад +5

    In my past, men get fuzzy when I love the way you accomplished the things you want. When you set your mind to do something you definitely do it. I am impressed 😮. Sweetheart you cooked, thank you(great emphasis for snack). Sometimes a wink with eye 😉helps. He seems warm and buttery inside🙃.

  • @suriyamohd
    @suriyamohd 4 года назад +3

    I wish i had seen your videos before. I mistakenly hurt his male ego last week. We're fine now and now I'm working on understanding men.

  • @sojoecherry
    @sojoecherry 6 дней назад

    I said “will you take me to get my new dresser” and he said “I don’t know will I? Why do you need me? Because you can’t carry the dresser on your own so you’re just using me” and then he said “no” . I cried and paid the extra 100 dollars to have it delivered. I left him 10 months ago after 14 years and a son. Never been happier!

  • @thelifestyleguru926
    @thelifestyleguru926 4 года назад +11

    I appreciate this man... you have a unique way to seem kind.

  • @nicoladouglas4059
    @nicoladouglas4059 4 года назад +77

    I respect you
    I feel so safe when I'm with you
    I'm looking forward to have dinner with you later.

    • @williamjames808
      @williamjames808 3 года назад

      Hello

    • @williamjames808
      @williamjames808 3 года назад

      How are you❤❤💝💝💔

    • @williamjames808
      @williamjames808 3 года назад

      I can help you attract your ex back to you in two days❤❤💝💝

    • @saimakhan9779
      @saimakhan9779 2 года назад

      If x is x that means God wants you to welcome better person in your life.

  • @hermoinegranger7155
    @hermoinegranger7155 3 года назад +2

    Most of all what I do beleive according to my learnings and beleifs is that any man is melted for tender words. That's why "will u "became more powerful than "can u". Thus use softer tender words with ur gentleman.

  • @priscillaobeng-akrofi619
    @priscillaobeng-akrofi619 4 года назад +11

    It's amazing the stuff you know about relationships. Thanks for sharing them

  • @starburst2245
    @starburst2245 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Mat boggs! I thought that in this video clip, you were going to reveal four keywords that trigger the love within a man, but I think that you've only revealed two or three at the most? Will you please consider creating a couple of informative video clips on how to trigger and awaken the love in a man with actual full phrases / sentences instead of just single words? It would be greatly appreciated I know you can do it! Thank you in advance for your time and consideration. 😊🙏

  • @ricaashley3259
    @ricaashley3259 3 года назад +13

    In a long distance relationship what happens when a man or woman takes long to communicate but they claim to love each other is it healthy

  • @joanmae6373
    @joanmae6373 3 года назад +6

    can i apply this to my boss? not for flirting just to show how I really admire him for being such a good person in and out...thanks

    • @Talinn28
      @Talinn28 3 года назад

      I absolutely would. I work with 200 men and I am using it. I remain respectful and I do appreciate them. They are the only reason I have been here with them for so long. I'm their right hand. It feels good to be appreciated no matter where it comes from.

  • @mariachen2199
    @mariachen2199 3 года назад +13

    Wish I had someone I can say these to😫

    • @karengerber8390
      @karengerber8390 3 года назад +1

      @Maria Chen:
      You do. Your reflection.
      There is both masculine & feminine energy in each of us.

  • @sysimusta3661
    @sysimusta3661 4 года назад +5

    "You look beautiful."
    My man loves to hear that.

  • @jennypatton3886
    @jennypatton3886 3 года назад +3

    I love how you take care of us.

  • @terrifromm5085
    @terrifromm5085 3 года назад +8

    I hung on your every word. This is very powerful. Thank you!

  • @joycee5493
    @joycee5493 6 месяцев назад

    Mat, I really want to thank you for such great advice. I’ve been pursued by a man for two months. I resisted at first, not because I didn’t like him, but I thought he was a playboy. I was concerned for me and did not want to be the “flavor of the month”. Basically, I was terrified of becoming vulnerable again. He did not give up and I slowly came around. Each date has become easier and more fun. Turns out he has a heart of gold and has suffered romantic losses too. I want to let him know that he makes me feel feminine and at ease when I’m with him. We also laugh a lot…a lot. We have a similar sense of humor. Now I know how to let him know I appreciate his masculinity and his kindness. Thank you so much!!!

  • @elenarotestan5823
    @elenarotestan5823 3 года назад +10

    I do have to say your advices are excellent. But at times I wonder what happened to the easiness of meeting someone, taking the time to know each other and let the universe flow. I miss those days.

    • @williamsbarkley2637
      @williamsbarkley2637 3 года назад +1

      Those days are so romantic and are days you wouldn’t want to let go of

    • @faithingutia1226
      @faithingutia1226 3 года назад

      Good mentor, he flows easily

  • @daniellelowrey7805
    @daniellelowrey7805 3 года назад +4

    It’s a beautiful gift you’re giving him that you’re also giving it to yourself and you’ll get to cherish each other in the experience of what you do together as a couple it’s really not about what your doing it’s about the time you spend together and appreciating him in the experience ❤️

    • @maxscot4236
      @maxscot4236 3 года назад

      Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back recently he can also help you just as he did mine too

    • @maxscot4236
      @maxscot4236 3 года назад

      Kindly text on whtzapp

    • @maxscot4236
      @maxscot4236 3 года назад

      +(234),,815,689,64,36

    • @williamsbarkley2637
      @williamsbarkley2637 3 года назад

      That’s so true dear 👍

  • @Spicyleo1
    @Spicyleo1 3 года назад +4

    I try and thank him for everything he does for me.

    • @richardsmith7696
      @richardsmith7696 3 года назад

      Hi Spicyleo1, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
      Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉

  • @joycee5493
    @joycee5493 6 месяцев назад

    I just started dating a man and we do a lot of laughing when we are out. When I’m back home I send him a text thanking him for a “really fun evening”

  • @inity3186
    @inity3186 4 года назад +16

    In the 15 phrases you attached the link, you recommended the phrase “ can you “.
    It’s better to revise that I guess.

  • @remarkable937
    @remarkable937 4 года назад +7

    Well that explains it, why he would say, "Take yourself". I always used the words "can you"

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад +1

      Hi wonderful, how you doing, hope you good out there.. Greetings from 🇺🇸 😊

    • @remarkable937
      @remarkable937 4 года назад

      @@turanyoung2323 Hi Us, thanks : ) Same to you

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад

      @@remarkable937 which city you live in

    • @remarkable937
      @remarkable937 4 года назад

      @@turanyoung2323 North Carolina and you?

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад

      @@remarkable937 great Sunday to you, Jules, hope you good and safe.. I'm from washington DC, but

  • @shenadonnagalvez4973
    @shenadonnagalvez4973 3 года назад

    accomplishments-masculinity
    can you take me-leadership
    will you take -

  • @lifegenius763
    @lifegenius763 3 года назад +3

    Another gr8 video. Thanks Mat! You're awesome. It will help me on my dating journey.

  • @msnicolevickers
    @msnicolevickers 2 года назад +1

    "I respect you and value your opinion".

    • @aniechechibuzor5642
      @aniechechibuzor5642 2 года назад

      +2348134090209⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,

  • @lindataylor2085
    @lindataylor2085 3 года назад +2

    I feel alive when I'm with you

  • @susankoech
    @susankoech 4 года назад +9

    2:19 is the start.

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 4 года назад +7

    I'm so grateful for everything we've accomplished together, sweetie💗 my guy melts and smiles everytime I say this. Thank you for the extra loving tips, sir😁God bless you🌺

  • @femsegotier981
    @femsegotier981 4 года назад +4

    Making them feel more masculine☺️

  • @bztoni
    @bztoni 2 года назад +1

    you are my favorite coach - simple, empowering, and very tasteful - LOVE you muchly - thank you!!!

  • @melissabrown5104
    @melissabrown5104 3 года назад +5

    Best phrase to a man “baby, I’m so proud of you” “I trust you” “ I know you can do it/ I know you can handle it”

    • @richardsmith7696
      @richardsmith7696 3 года назад

      Hi Melissa , it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
      Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😊

  • @lindaacosta2435
    @lindaacosta2435 3 года назад +1

    I completely agree with the "can you" inotation.

    • @richardsmith7696
      @richardsmith7696 3 года назад

      Hi Linda, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
      Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉.

  • @susanlee8609
    @susanlee8609 3 года назад +1

    "I understand"

    • @richardsmith7696
      @richardsmith7696 3 года назад

      Hi Susan, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
      Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉.

  • @irenequilang5358
    @irenequilang5358 4 года назад +9

    I like and love the idea. It makes me feel smart and loved if I'll do that. After all, there'sno harm in trying. Thank you.

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад +1

      Hi Irene, how you doing

    • @irenequilang5358
      @irenequilang5358 4 года назад +1

      @@turanyoung2323 Pretty good. Thank you!

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад +1

      @@irenequilang5358 no it might sound awkward 😨 , but where you from

    • @irenequilang5358
      @irenequilang5358 4 года назад

      @@turanyoung2323 Sound ackward? Why is that, ahh maybe because I'm an Asian, I am from the Philipiines.

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад

      @@irenequilang5358 no not that, is just me asking you where you from, that to early.. Didn't mean anything at all, to be honest .. Anyways hope your doing great

  • @brendavaldez8551
    @brendavaldez8551 3 года назад +1

    In Spanish the difference would be:
    can you -> PUEDES
    Would you -> PODRÍAS
    PUEDES ES RETO
    PODRÍAS ESTÁ RELACIONADO CON SI QUIERES O NO.

  • @cherylnegus2441
    @cherylnegus2441 4 года назад +5

    😊 🌺 🌹 🌼 🌺 Accomplishments make him feel masculine and sexy, you say? I agree, and yet, he still refuses to mow the lawns....
    😄

    • @rosehodgman9495
      @rosehodgman9495 3 года назад

      Is he allergic to grass? Does he have a phobia? If you ask to many times your just nagging. Say it and forget it. If the grass gets mowed it will be because you were not hounding him to do so. Or any thing.

  • @globalgoddess1648
    @globalgoddess1648 3 года назад +2

    This is a great tip; clear and to the point. Thank you!

  • @lynettesideris7964
    @lynettesideris7964 4 года назад +6

    I’m single and love ❤️ your videos

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад +1

      Hi wonderful, how you doing, hope you good out there.. Greetings from 🇺🇸 😊..

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад +1

      To be honest too. I'm single could we

    • @richardsmith7696
      @richardsmith7696 3 года назад

      Hi Lynette, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??

  • @annettevandiver12
    @annettevandiver12 Год назад

    I'm just learning all this new I'm back in this I lost my husband about 3 years ago and tired of being alone so I'm watching these videos to try and lure this man that I've been talking to you and maybe I need to step back and let him take the rain. I'm not sure

  • @suriyamohd
    @suriyamohd 4 года назад +7

    How about "will you pick me"... Should have the same effect right?

    • @angewels
      @angewels 3 года назад

      Pick you? You mean over another woman?

    • @suriyamohd
      @suriyamohd 3 года назад

      @@angewels pick me up from home

  • @jaemk449
    @jaemk449 9 месяцев назад

    Omg so I’m thinking really hard right now and I asked this guy “can you do me a favor when you get the chance?” And he said yes before he even knew what it was lml but when you highlighted “will you do me” and I said “can you do me” I’m like 🤦🏾‍♀️ please no. I hope he didn’t really take that to heart or make him feel incompetent in any way. Just prayin’

  • @olympiapelgone9686
    @olympiapelgone9686 3 года назад +1

    Your good Matt Boggs,I'm Filipina watching your video Everytime I'm free,thank you,,,help a lot to me your videos.

  • @rinawilliams6249
    @rinawilliams6249 4 года назад +8

    Wow!!!..this is really mind blowing to me,and so interesting ,men are really from Mars-complex

  • @phindixulu1368
    @phindixulu1368 3 года назад

    I hope to treat my man better with your help and for our love to grow in leaps and bounce for the remainder of this year.

  • @mtvlagunabeach
    @mtvlagunabeach 3 года назад +4

    Interesting. Great stuff, Mat! Would've figured that this comes across as needy, helpless or bossy. Would have never figured that it would trigger the opposite response in a man! Very interesting!! Thanks for all the tips, Mat, empowering. Peace.

  • @marknoelfischer9421
    @marknoelfischer9421 3 года назад +1

    Yes I know I have still have hope still Loving someone 😌

  • @nicolewilkie-page6587
    @nicolewilkie-page6587 2 года назад

    My boyfriend had to take an unplanned business flight while I was at his place, he asked if I could wait 45mins then he'll take me to where I get transport to my place because I stay 2hrs away from him & that drive was a 30-35min drive on its own & he knows I could just get a cab instead of actually waiting that long for him so he asked if that's what I want & I told him no, I'll wait for him 🥰

  • @selihter
    @selihter 2 года назад +1

    Will you take me, this is new to me😄thanks 🙌

  • @remarkable937
    @remarkable937 4 года назад +4

    How about "would you"?

  • @lanettabard8446
    @lanettabard8446 3 года назад +1

    Matt i enjoy your videos i had been married before and remarried a few years he is Military and we spend as much time together that we can.At first i had a lot of trust issues but have been working on them have so many friends tell me that he is cheating in my heart i know he isn't don't want this marriage to be like my first he tells me each and everyday when we talk that he loves me

    • @richardsmith7696
      @richardsmith7696 3 года назад

      What’s most important is if he makes you feel loved not just telling you that he loves you. If you know he is genuinely in love with you, then what others says shouldn’t count, what’s most important is what you both feel for each other.

  • @evangelinemthethwa906
    @evangelinemthethwa906 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for the beautiful advice ❤️

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад

      You seems South African

    • @evangelinemthethwa906
      @evangelinemthethwa906 4 года назад +1

      @@turanyoung2323 of course I am, Proudly 🇿🇦. What's the significance of (my location) your statement regarding Matthew's topic?

    • @turanyoung2323
      @turanyoung2323 4 года назад

      @@evangelinemthethwa906 nothing much, just good

  • @annr3800
    @annr3800 3 года назад +1

    Hey a relationship expert that's married. Good!

  • @reynoldsgomez9592
    @reynoldsgomez9592 3 года назад +2

    Will you take me...thankyou ...for this wonderful pharse....