A lazy Girls Guide to Finding the Perfect Aesthetic to Match Your Essence (Pretty Privilege/ kibbe)

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  • Опубликовано: 17 май 2024
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    The Gamine (1:09)
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    The Dramatic (2:36)
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    The Natural (5:25)
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    The Classic (6:56)
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    The Romantic (8:34)
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    The Igungue (10:10)
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    The Ethereal (12:35)
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Комментарии • 524

  • @Tatianaclicks
    @Tatianaclicks  Месяц назад +316

    Hey Guys thanks for your overwhelming support. Just to let you know I do have a speech impediment and it’s something I work on daily.
    Love your Support and Dont forget to comment your mix in the comment section

    • @sherry7347
      @sherry7347 Месяц назад +35

      I didn't even notice your speech impediment. This was fantastic material and has inspired me to get more into my personal style and challenge myself to show it through the summer. thank you :)

    • @SanaaJadeCruz
      @SanaaJadeCruz Месяц назад +27

      I love the way you speak you remind me of my daughter she has a speech impediment and she works so hard too. Your eloquence and ability to spark inspiration in others is remarkable ❤ you have a unique gift 💝

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Месяц назад +7

      @@sherry7347 awee thank you 🩷

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Месяц назад +5

      @@SanaaJadeCruz girl that is so sweet

    • @sherry7347
      @sherry7347 Месяц назад +10

      @@Tatianaclicks I also have a speech impediment and this is so cool to me because it is such an amazing example of not limiting yourself. I have been wanting to do certain things but shy away because of speech . So, amazing job! You doing you on this platform is healing and inspiring 💖. Ty !

  • @unbotheredsis1934
    @unbotheredsis1934 Месяц назад +566

    my comeback is very critical. i’m the main character of my life, so I gotta dress like the main character. period

  • @n.n8991
    @n.n8991 Месяц назад +819

    It's nice to find an essence video specifically for black girls and natural hair! I would also suggest the mob wife and office siren aesthetic for the romantic essence.

    • @sedie94
      @sedie94 Месяц назад +8

      Thanks for this comment! I really identify with the Romantic essence and want to explore more style options~❤

    • @Infojunkie-lj1up
      @Infojunkie-lj1up 29 дней назад

      Yesss

    • @OfJournalandJourney
      @OfJournalandJourney 18 дней назад

      Yes!

  • @rubyreduxx
    @rubyreduxx Месяц назад +180

    FINALLY an essence video geared towards Black Womens

  • @intergalacticbnb
    @intergalacticbnb Месяц назад +801

    I love that your content is geared towards naturals. And not just hair but that it incorporates personality, style, etc. Informative, humorous, and relatable. Please keep it up!

  • @sampledarchives
    @sampledarchives Месяц назад +428

    Utilizing the feminine archetypes in this way was absolutely genius. Begging for more content around this.

    • @gorlunion
      @gorlunion Месяц назад +20

      BEGGINGGGGGGGGGG

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Месяц назад +20

      I plan to make some this month

  • @lillian5550
    @lillian5550 Месяц назад +441

    Essences :
    1:10 "The GAMINE"
    2:35 "The DRAMATIC"
    5:35 "The NATURAL"
    6:56 " The CLASSIC"
    8:34 "The ROMANTIC"
    10:10 "The INGENUE"
    12:34 "The ETHEREAL + INGENUE"

  • @makeithomewithsade4176
    @makeithomewithsade4176 Месяц назад +121

    A classic everyday, a dramatic on a girl’s night, a romantic on a date night

    • @MegaJasmine87
      @MegaJasmine87 Месяц назад +6

      I love this - diff looks for diff occasions 👌🏿

  • @lavellans
    @lavellans Месяц назад +259

    The centering of natural hair is everything ❤ please never stop

  • @Loaf0fBread
    @Loaf0fBread Месяц назад +183

    I’m an Asian girl here, and I wanna say thank you for providing a different perspective, it helped me to better understand the principle behind the essences bc of the variety of examples you provided. I feel like I watched other videos on the same topic but it barely made a dent in my understanding of fashion. Thank you for this!

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Месяц назад +11

      I’m glad I could help!! I barely understood myself when I first learned about them!! So I just wanted to break it down

  • @zahrascrown
    @zahrascrown Месяц назад +172

    It’s so nice to see a guide that truly embraces diverse beauty and encourages us to find our unique aesthetic through our feminine essence.

  • @tesseworld
    @tesseworld Месяц назад +59

    I dress according to how i feel, and I wear all of these styles

  • @janea8093
    @janea8093 Месяц назад +48

    I’m definitely the natural. I’m chill. I don’t want to be the loudest in the room but I want to be presentable

  • @sssaaaiii21
    @sssaaaiii21 Месяц назад +80

    My best friend and I were messaging each other about this last night😭 about finding an aesthetic that suits us and then this video comes on my recommended👁️👄👁️

  • @pelomk9022
    @pelomk9022 Месяц назад +59

    I gravitate towards natural, classic and romantic essence.

  • @SaadetOZTRK
    @SaadetOZTRK Месяц назад +108

    I don't know my essence but I liked this video a lot

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Месяц назад +5

      Thank you!!

    • @Nwakaego_
      @Nwakaego_ Месяц назад +1

      Same here.

    • @lawsome2068
      @lawsome2068 Месяц назад +11

      Whatever makes you feel the most comfortable to the point that your self confidence shines through. There's not really a set essence it's just people's preferences and what makes them feel their best and most confident.

  • @isabellatatulli8507
    @isabellatatulli8507 Месяц назад +20

    found myself dressing up more dramatic since 2 years and my life literally changed. I have never felt so sexy and so me!

  • @ooops4064
    @ooops4064 Месяц назад +48

    I literally feel so lost about myself as far as styles and what looks good on me hair wise, clothing wise, etc. this is so helpful

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Месяц назад +4

      Np Glad I could help. I will be posting more connect. Also learning my body type helped me a lot in my clothing selection

  • @-Marshy-725
    @-Marshy-725 Месяц назад +36

    Not trying to be weird, but the way you speak is so cute 😭❤

  • @AnisaLeah
    @AnisaLeah 25 дней назад +12

    Loving you by Minnie Riperton was actually for her daughter, Maya Rudolph. She even sings her name at the end of the song. Cool video overall

    • @tifa4034
      @tifa4034 2 дня назад +1

      "Everytime that we ..ooooh I'm more in love with you". THAT was for her daughter ??

  • @autumnof1992
    @autumnof1992 Месяц назад +9

    I love the earthy black girl aesthetic.

  • @commentpoliceofficer7991
    @commentpoliceofficer7991 Месяц назад +51

    I was waiting for someone to break down why everyone is attracted to Tyla and her naturally allure on one of these femininity channels lol 😂 👏

  • @DayeDayeX
    @DayeDayeX Месяц назад +14

    Thank you for centering this around black women 🙏🏾💛

  • @vv0011
    @vv0011 Месяц назад +341

    Respectfully❤
    Sade (Sha-Day)
    Zoe Kravitz (Zo-E Kra-Vitz)
    ballet (ba-lay, it’s a French word drop the t in pronunciation and pronounce the ‘e’ as an ‘a’ like the last e in Beyonce)
    coquette (Ko-Khet)
    ethereal (E-thear-real)
    Amazing video, not being rude just informative ❤

    • @MimiNwabuokuMD
      @MimiNwabuokuMD Месяц назад +48

      ❤ Thank you dearly for being kind! We need kindness out here in these interwebs.

    • @Justonevideoplease
      @Justonevideoplease Месяц назад +11

      Is English her second language? This is my first video

    • @SpiciestBee
      @SpiciestBee Месяц назад +62

      She has a speech impediment and it’s posted in her top comment 👍🏾

    • @TheKonnoisseur11
      @TheKonnoisseur11 Месяц назад +8

      I like her channel but “ballet” and “ethereal” really bothered me

    • @maliahjoy2959
      @maliahjoy2959 Месяц назад

      It was her saying woman instead of women for me​@@TheKonnoisseur11

  • @GoddessCreation
    @GoddessCreation Месяц назад +20

    Definitely have a mix of Ingenue essence (majority) with a tad bit of that dramatic “glam” side. I also love all things heels, furs, and glitter sometimes!

  • @tiaaa7108
    @tiaaa7108 Месяц назад +56

    Awh great video. Thanks for including women of all sizes ❤

  • @AbianahAlmeida
    @AbianahAlmeida Месяц назад +36

    This channel is so unique and a gift to your viewers thank you💖

  • @msylvini
    @msylvini Месяц назад +32

    I LOVE your channel especially it's focus on aesthetics!
    I'm a writer and try to incorporate a variety of black women. These essences have given me another layer beyond our hair and politics! ♥️

  • @iceprincess13
    @iceprincess13 Месяц назад +9

    cracking up at the "I'm gonna cut you" comment about dramatics because it's so true! loved the video 💗

  • @LittleMissSunshine721
    @LittleMissSunshine721 Месяц назад +6

    I feel like I’m a mix of these essences! Great video, and thank you for featuring women of different shapes, shades and sizes! 🥰

  • @kev8006
    @kev8006 Месяц назад +9

    I'm a natural wanting to be a classic lol😂 Thank you for the information!

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Месяц назад +2

      Don’t worry you can mix essences

    • @kev8006
      @kev8006 Месяц назад +1

      @@Tatianaclicks Thank you 😊 I'll keep that in mind.

  • @FairyPrincess281
    @FairyPrincess281 Месяц назад +19

    I thought i was ingenue, but I'm really natural 😊❤

  • @channelearth5672
    @channelearth5672 29 дней назад +3

    I'm definitely The Natural and The Classic. I just vibe so well with those looks. I like to keep it simple.

  • @platinumcloset4448
    @platinumcloset4448 26 дней назад +3

    It’s so crazy because I vouch from dramatic to ingenue all the time and the essence are so so different

  • @kemuntomaranga9576
    @kemuntomaranga9576 15 дней назад +3

    Oh this is going to go platinum in the black girl circles

  • @sakura-rc3ed
    @sakura-rc3ed Месяц назад +19

    your videos are so thoughtful and fun to watch especially since our hair is centered. i really appreciate what you do

  • @goddess214
    @goddess214 Месяц назад +1

    I love this channel! Thank you so much for posting all these gems 🤍

  • @MoreOfSiren
    @MoreOfSiren Месяц назад +3

    I love thissss! I’m into essences so this video is perfect for meeeee! I’m definitely romantic but i think there’s a touch of ingenue in there too!

  • @StrawberryPeach707
    @StrawberryPeach707 Месяц назад +1

    Im shook with how helpful this video was. THANK YOU!

  • @withloveandchills7674
    @withloveandchills7674 Месяц назад +3

    You just read my entire life, I'm a natural for sure and now I know some outfits and accessories to go for. Loved the detail of this video and all of the pictures, very wide range of women - love the representation

  • @Thekenyatta
    @Thekenyatta Месяц назад +4

    1. Thank you 🙏🏾 this breakdown is so helpful as I’m building my music career and unneeded to describe my style. I’m definitely a little bit of everything, but an even mix between romantic and classic.
    2. You can sing 🎶 it’s a muscle and your tone is cute 🥰
    3. Love this channel! Love your voice and content ❤️

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Месяц назад

      Awwe thank you! Wish you the best of luck on your music career

  • @Kiki-lo6wp
    @Kiki-lo6wp 16 дней назад +2

    Sometimes dramatic, but classic and romantic are My thing

  • @daniela5748
    @daniela5748 Месяц назад +6

    Oh snap. I’m the “Natural” w/ a touch of “Romantic.” Thank you for this ❤❤

  • @EmL-kg5gn
    @EmL-kg5gn Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for explaining this with a lot of modern examples!! It really helps me understand these more

  • @samanthaslife5190
    @samanthaslife5190 15 дней назад +1

    Absolutely love and appreciate this video!!! Felt so understood when you got to the essence i resonate with❤

  • @strudelh
    @strudelh Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for making this ! I already kinda know which one I am but I’m glad it to see it more in depth !

  • @Sunny49599
    @Sunny49599 Месяц назад +1

    Girrrrllllll you ate with this video!!!!!

  • @girlrey2000
    @girlrey2000 Месяц назад +1

    Love this essence breakdown!

  • @SimplisticallyDigital
    @SimplisticallyDigital Месяц назад

    Great guide! I fit multiple. ✨

  • @mac9683
    @mac9683 Месяц назад

    Love your content. I feel like I’m between romantic and dramatic with a hint of classic

  • @Renaye83
    @Renaye83 14 дней назад

    Sis! This is the BEST video I have seen in a long time! Very visually appealing, clear, concise, great examples! I learned that I'm a natural and will definitely be using this as a guide so i can start intentionally styling myself. Thank you for this information ❤👸🏾

  • @rreyyahh
    @rreyyahh 12 дней назад

    this is my first time seeing a video where the examples look and apply to me wow keep doing what youre doing 💗💗

  • @julyelexis
    @julyelexis Месяц назад

    This was AMAZING! It was helped me a lot with finding my style. I’ve realized I am a classic and every style you named I’ve made a Pinterest board about. THANK YOU!

  • @tatsbykiara
    @tatsbykiara Месяц назад +2

    I really love how the examples are all of women of color! I needed this!❤

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia Месяц назад

    Thank youuuu ❤❤❤

  • @lianadotjpeg
    @lianadotjpeg 12 дней назад

    Thank you for making this video. 😍 I really appreciate the focus on natural hair.

  • @ThalvePereira
    @ThalvePereira 13 дней назад

    omg i loved this video *-* all these black references you´re on a spot! they aren´t very common on sm when talking ´bout aesthetics so good job girl u fvckin ruled well i´m Brazilian so i´m into different kinds of aesthetics but i got the point of the essences which made very much sense thank youuu

  • @Awesome00012
    @Awesome00012 Месяц назад

    I love this! Definitely inspiration. Thank you so much!

  • @Heynaninani3069
    @Heynaninani3069 Месяц назад

    I LOVE THIS VIDEO!!! I’ve been trying to find my essence and aesthetic for a while but couldn’t find any catered to people who look like me. Thank you Thank you!!

  • @miamagination
    @miamagination Месяц назад +1

    This video is stellar!!! I love the examples and hairstyles you chose for each type. It made it so clear to figure out which ones resonate with me best (I’m a mix of dramatic + gamine + natural). I’m looking forward to more content like this - keep going, wishing you the very best ✨

  • @Hush-puppy
    @Hush-puppy 22 дня назад

    New subscriber I really enjoyed this! Thank you for taking to time to put this together ❤

  • @prettycyber8332
    @prettycyber8332 Месяц назад +1

    You’re so lovely 🥰 I’m glad
    I have a name for my essences.
    Romantic-classic

  • @UMMH2000
    @UMMH2000 Месяц назад

    I love this ❤❤❤

  • @silviasoares2302
    @silviasoares2302 Месяц назад +1

    I loved it so much!!! ❤ this was so informative and I love that you are including natural hair in it, thanks for the content!

  • @khadijahmuhammad4539
    @khadijahmuhammad4539 15 дней назад

    Sis this video is amazing love it!✊🏾✊🏾

  • @127kawaii
    @127kawaii Месяц назад +1

    This was such an interesting video concept! I really enjoyed all the photo examples ~

  • @sakura-rc3ed
    @sakura-rc3ed Месяц назад +81

    some criticism to help your video include looking up how to properly say and spell certain words. the first essence is GAMINE, for example.

  • @carpediem8855
    @carpediem8855 Месяц назад

    Love love love this video! Keep it up!

  • @jellytots243
    @jellytots243 Месяц назад +1

    Loved this video but I’m all of these 😂❤

  • @keishawnlight
    @keishawnlight 20 дней назад

    YOU ATE THIS VIDEOOOO!!!!!!!

  • @remichantelleb
    @remichantelleb 22 дня назад +1

    Thank you for making this. I have found my essence: the natural and classic. I can work on improving it. ❤️

  • @amaniiexxchnge
    @amaniiexxchnge Месяц назад +3

    I love this video so much. There’s so many diff types of women and that’s why I love them so much and love seeing diff types of styles. I hate when ppl especially women tell eachother what not to wear and how to present themselves because not everyone is the same we all have so much beauty I think we just need to enjoy that instead of tryna mold everyone into the same thing thank you for having natural hair on here. I didn’t kno what my style was until I saw the romantic genre u shared it’s me to the last detail.

  • @ijeomawakama7200
    @ijeomawakama7200 9 дней назад

    well done girl! this was enjoyable to watch! you did really great at organising and categorising everything neatly and easily to understand 😊

  • @quelabydesign
    @quelabydesign Месяц назад

    this was awesome! ❤

  • @shellygarland8766
    @shellygarland8766 Месяц назад

    i loved this so muchh

  • @cheryljohnston8687
    @cheryljohnston8687 27 дней назад +1

    You surprised me. I didn't expect to be on the list. But I have Natural Essance. Comfortable and Simple leaning towards Streetwear. When i was a loose natural i always loved braids and twists, so much so that i left a set in and now have locs. I've always been perceived as chill and a fly on the wall, so it shows in the way I dress. Although as a wife I have an undeniable desire to lean more into Ingenue specifically Soft Girl, so i dress this way while at home. good video

  • @marrieabba3607
    @marrieabba3607 13 дней назад

    I recently found my essence, which is the natural essence. I found myself gravitating towards this essence. I love how low maintenance yet chic it is. I also recently got locs too. I haven’t been able to update my wardrobe but I really can’t wait to explore more into this

  • @allaboutliv7402
    @allaboutliv7402 Месяц назад +1

    Omg we need a pt 2! Cuz I feel like I lean more towards edgy/alt but I also love color, heels, pink and things of that nature. So please help me 😭💕

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia Месяц назад +2

    80 % Ethereal + 20 % Classic

  • @Lunar123424
    @Lunar123424 Месяц назад

    I was watching and Waiting….the you said Boho Classic Natural ! That’s me 💚

  • @MisfitJetta-du8rg
    @MisfitJetta-du8rg 26 дней назад

    Thank you so much. I’ve felt so lost with my hair and clothes. I appreciate it so much.

  • @bilqis_abu
    @bilqis_abu Месяц назад +10

    I love your videos.

  • @ravennr97
    @ravennr97 26 дней назад +1

    This was so helpful. I now know I'm a natural with a touch of ingenue.

  • @hannafabian1965
    @hannafabian1965 15 дней назад +2

    Okay now, you are our fairy godmother periooood

    • @Renaye83
      @Renaye83 14 дней назад +1

      Facts!!! 😂

  • @laylakeating8135
    @laylakeating8135 18 дней назад

    Love seeing so many different looks 💓

  • @lisalisa3223
    @lisalisa3223 Месяц назад

    This is such a nice break down bc I feel I embody 3 of these essences.
    For work: Classic
    going out/leisure: Romantic / Natural (I’ll bounce between both)

  • @meeunice
    @meeunice Месяц назад +1

    This was interesting! Thank you for sharing ❤ I shaved my Afro a few months ago. I'm trying to find my style again. It's quite intimidating.

  • @Ethereal-Flower
    @Ethereal-Flower 25 дней назад +1

    Omg I haven’t finished the video but idk what I am! I might be a dramatic natural, but softer. I definitely give natural but when I dress, I dress up. Easily noticed in the room but it’s not a funky dress up. I love jewelry and a lot of it. With hair, and accessories, the bolder the better for me!
    Or sometimes I switch between a romantic aesthetic when I dress up because I kinda have a romantic essence too. People find me extremely feminine and I have petite but curvy features. Idk if I should call myself a dramatic natural or a romantic natural, but most often I’m looking either natural or romantic aesthetics.

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  25 дней назад

      You can be a mix don’t worry almost everyone is

  • @beyouteequeen
    @beyouteequeen Месяц назад

    Love this!!!! ❤

  • @Vhusi
    @Vhusi 12 дней назад

    Thank you so much for this amazing video ❤❤

  • @JustMeg29
    @JustMeg29 Месяц назад

    Another great and beautiful video! I am totally a natural but I really believe that I may be a little mix of everything except wearing sports clothes when I am not working out. It makes me feel ugly lol.

  • @shaniseburris9839
    @shaniseburris9839 3 дня назад

    Loved this video!! Thank you!

  • @leratopheko2804
    @leratopheko2804 4 дня назад

    Wow, this podcast has just made me feel happy. Big Loves 4u 💝

  • @jercoryiac1537
    @jercoryiac1537 24 дня назад

    Thank you SO MUCH for this! I’ve seriously been trying to figure out what my “style” is, and I’ve been so confused lol. This finally put words how I dress. Realized I’m a natural essence✨but I pull from the others depending on my mood. So helpful❤

  • @lexglowup977
    @lexglowup977 Месяц назад

    I identify with Ingenue the most but also Natural. Loved this breakdown!

  • @TylerAnuranita
    @TylerAnuranita День назад

    Love this sis lol I’m the natural and love it! 😂 and got locs and wear a lot of neutral colors so that makes it funnier 😂 thank you for this video as a reminder we’re all lovely 😜

  • @pinkmoonmeadow
    @pinkmoonmeadow Месяц назад +2

    found out i’m an ingenue! just need to start being more confident in wearing it more. tyy for a guide for black girls !

  • @herpderpy9445
    @herpderpy9445 15 дней назад

    You helped me put a vocabulary to what I already knew. I'm probably 80% natural/20% classic, which makes sense since there is a bit of overlap in parts.

  • @munchingmogul
    @munchingmogul 12 дней назад

    Omg , i loved when you sang Minnie Riperton💖✨

  • @KemKem.toronto
    @KemKem.toronto Месяц назад

    Love this ❤