Every Negative Experience Makes You Hotter & More Successful

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @sabrina77769
    @sabrina77769 Год назад +414

    Dylan you’re aging backwards babe

  • @AikiraBeats
    @AikiraBeats Год назад +158

    Once I started going to the gym and planning my routine I realized how much energy I was putting into other people that weren’t giving me the same. Now, I only accept people who actually care and appreciate me. This has made me realize how little I thought of myself in the past. A big change. Got a date, we have amazing healthy communication and boundaries. Thank you, Dylan for this shift.

    • @theauthorgirl-podcast
      @theauthorgirl-podcast Год назад +2

      Likewise. Sometimes, I do feel like I want to go back to those negative ways of being so being strong and reminding myself of my worth is so important to me.

    • @CC-br9qg
      @CC-br9qg Год назад

      God Bless you

    • @CC-br9qg
      @CC-br9qg Год назад

      You got this friend

  • @luvingism
    @luvingism Год назад +29

    After shitty breakup I got my sp back after 5 months of manifesting. I got 6 figure job out of no where. I am now on journey to get engaged to my sp. As my family is not accepting him. I wont give up...

    • @sangeethamarella31
      @sangeethamarella31 Месяц назад

      That's amazing. Congratulations. Hope you're doing even great now💖

  • @peanutbutter4978
    @peanutbutter4978 Год назад +71

    I have a motivational story for anyone who needs it.
    I met my SP a year ago and was in a completely different state then I am now. I was super needy back then and had serious attitude problems.
    I basically started scripting for a month straight (after 5 monthsish of not talking), did it for 2 months, detached completely, moved on, and basically, now are in communication

    • @sxna0214
      @sxna0214 Год назад +1

      ❤❤🎉Yaay! Only up from here x

    • @mermaidx9386
      @mermaidx9386 Год назад +3

      Proud of you ❤

    • @cristinabelle7891
      @cristinabelle7891 Год назад +1

      That is def motivation! Would love to know more about what you scripted. I am better at writing and could see myself doing that

  • @taniaswain-williams1379
    @taniaswain-williams1379 Год назад +46

    Oh my god dylan. This has literally been happening to me. Every time something negative happens i level up and it is making me more secure and hotter i swear i look better at 45 than i did at 40.

  • @daniellefeller4845
    @daniellefeller4845 Год назад +19

    Once you can learn to detach from people, places, things that no longer serve you it is empowering.

  • @thedivinelife3470
    @thedivinelife3470 Год назад +38

    I am grateful that I'm now listening to you in a space where im confident and unbothered. Before when I would listen to you, I would cringe because I was that girl that was chasing and trying to make things happen. that is no longer my story, people show up the way I deserve, and if they don’t, they are not allowed to be in my life.

    • @lawofassumptionqueen
      @lawofassumptionqueen Год назад +5

      Yesss, and when you don’t actually believe what he says it never made sense but now that your beliefs are aligned, everything he says is just so true❤

  • @ashleybanks-wm4cg
    @ashleybanks-wm4cg Год назад +2

    YOU BACK YOU TOOK A LITTLE HIATUS BUT YOU LEFT THE BATCAVE CUS YOU KNOW WE NEED YOU DYLAN!!!!

  • @bitterapple
    @bitterapple Год назад +29

    Hi all, I guess it really makes sense to assume everything that hurt us in the past makes us hotter. In fact, I was badly injured this summer. A guy almost took my eye out and crushed my eye socket and cheekbone, which left one side of my face disfigured. I did not let that affect my self concept, and you're not gonna believe what happened afterwards. Guys have been hitting on me like crazy. I have never received so much attention from men before, and mind you, I am 44. Some men have told me I was even more attractive now, with that flaw in my face, which makes me more intriguing, kind of like a female Viking warrior with a cool scar and that's really sexy 😂 So I said to myself why not? This is what I believe now. Of course I am going to have my face fixed as soon as it's medically possible, and it's healing amazingly fast, however, I am enjoying the cool warrior look while I can 💁🏽‍♀️

    • @cobaltpetals5476
      @cobaltpetals5476 Год назад +3

      This is amazing! ❤

    • @goddesschess
      @goddesschess Год назад +1

      🥰🥰🥰

    • @megan-1600
      @megan-1600 Год назад +1

      I’m sorry that happened to you but I’m so glad things have gotten better for you!! You deserve to feel beautiful

  • @megangilbert1094
    @megangilbert1094 9 месяцев назад +2

    Heck Yes Dylan!
    I am not willing to participate in the bs anymoreeeee...
    I am more willing to become the solution!!!
    This is exactly how I'm feeling! Thank You man!!!🐯❤

  • @oakland4094
    @oakland4094 Год назад +8

    When the glasses come on you hit the gas with these pep talks.. my sister and I start clapping and hollering 🤣🤣🤣

  • @JHVH
    @JHVH Год назад +10

    got this notif at 11:11 😭

  • @cobaltpetals5476
    @cobaltpetals5476 Год назад +16

    Thank you Dylan for this video. This year was pretty rough, and found it difficult to move past two experiences. I got myself in a bit of debt and ended a relationship with a man i truly loved but wasnt priortizing me. I got pregnant and it was not something we wanted at the time and so i termed. But he chose to prioritize hanging out instead of supporting me and i was not going to allow that in my life. I have experienced a lot of guilt, shame, sadness, and grief with this experience. But most recently, i have decided that those experiences brought me down to the studs, a full gut renovation, to be the best version of me. I am now very meticulous with my finances. I am also taking excellent care of myself, being kind and gracious with me. So, i say all this to say, thank you for this message. The timing was perfect and served as confirmation that i am on the right path. ❤

  • @elizabethbachman669
    @elizabethbachman669 Год назад +14

    All of your videos are great! I was over prioritizing my sp because I was so attracted and attached to him. Boy, I wish I heard this years ago where I could have made the right adjustments to put me first.

  • @ladybird131
    @ladybird131 Год назад +6

    Ok...that sign behind you is everything!!! Scar Face❤❤❤

  • @phynekat
    @phynekat Год назад +27

    First off, you look incredible !! 2nd You're always right on time!! Today showed me how much your channel has changed my life!! Literally had a situation where the old Mark would've played victim, but no, I decided that wasn't my story and didn't react. In fact, the person was shocked by my lack of response that they've been blowing up.my phone😅 Love you Dylan ❤

  • @dreamylove4196
    @dreamylove4196 Год назад +7

    this is so wild bc i was thinking abt creating this exact belief for myself this week lolol this might be weird but i was looking at “toxic” ppl that have been in my life in the past and was wondering what I can learn from them and while they sucked and were extremely selfish every experience they had they used to fuel themselves even more whether out of spite or otherwise. they always gas themselves up and even take criticism as fuel for their ego and to get even stronger. they never internalize that something could be wrong w them or feel shame.they had a lot of negative traits too but this one trait is something i want to adopt for the future😈

  • @Sforeverwinning
    @Sforeverwinning Год назад +2

    It’s true it does and then you see how much you have evolved that you see that you are so valuable that you simply remove yourself from circumstances that don’t require your attention

  • @carlap0zo
    @carlap0zo Год назад +6

    That hair Cut thooo❤❤❤ thank you for coming through tonight .

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 Год назад +2

    The title is cracking me up for some reason 😂😂😂

  • @yogirlvero
    @yogirlvero Год назад +2

    The background is BACK ❤

  • @a971sa
    @a971sa Год назад +2

    We missed you Dylan 🫶🏻

  • @shaylack77
    @shaylack77 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this…it’s confirmation that walking away last weekend was the correct decision. I love you and appreciate youuuuu!

  • @nic2859
    @nic2859 Год назад +4

    Perfect content to watch during my midnight snack 😅 it’s a chicken quesadilla if you were wondering

  • @springfairy1290
    @springfairy1290 Год назад +3

    Hi dylan. It's my birthday today. And i can't help but look back on the old me. And I just wanna thank you bc you've been part of my growth and this journey of loving myself. This time last year, i felt the loneliest. But today, I can finally tell myself "I got u, self. And I love you". THANK YOUUU!

  • @lena-Ramone
    @lena-Ramone Год назад +1

    Yea its boring dealing with bullshit and games. I like focusing on myself.. ❤

  • @OscarsEditing
    @OscarsEditing Год назад +3

    Could you please talk about the 'whatever I love is taken from me' limiting belief. You spoke about it before where as soon as you feel love it the person goes. No idea how id change this belief

  • @godsblossom
    @godsblossom Год назад +8

    Perfect video at the perfect time ✨
    Edit: listening to you is healing every single wound I freely created because my self worth was not high & stable enough 💛

  • @largechungus4209
    @largechungus4209 Год назад +1

    i've deviated away from LOA content lately so i haven't had your videos recommended for a while but literally 10 minutes ago omw home i was thinking about how i should try watching one of your 30 day videos and this being recommended feels like a sign...

  • @yasminselat551
    @yasminselat551 Год назад +1

    This really meant something. Especially because I’m an introverted person and people often see that as an opportunity to control me and think I would do anything about it. I really appreciate your advice ❤

  • @jaimeturland7134
    @jaimeturland7134 Год назад +2

    F@@k Dylan it’s the old you back!!!!! It was your vid’s two years ago that first got me onto manifesting! Your no BS attitude to not blaming external but looking at what are YOu doing to cause what is happening to you was would I so gravitated to. I do love you but this is your first video in a while that I’ve actually clicked with and needed to hear. I love you🥰. Your one of a kind. I know you explained your tough child hood and that has made you the teacher you are today. For me I’m forever grateful

  • @goddesschess
    @goddesschess Год назад +2

    So True 😈😈😈 my past lessons made me so much hotter 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

  • @freshmintsky
    @freshmintsky Год назад +3

    Ohh in with the new cut ✨🌙🥂

  • @yurisong5155
    @yurisong5155 7 месяцев назад

    I’m financially understanding your words. It took me a few years 😅 but finally I am confident! Thank you Dylan!💖

  • @riodeazucar
    @riodeazucar Год назад +2

    You’re a beautiful person in every way

  • @DevAnggraini
    @DevAnggraini Год назад +5

    Dylan’s message is always on point!

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 Год назад +7

    Always here for these much needed reminders! Thank you Daddy Dylan! 🙏💕✨

  • @melissarose888
    @melissarose888 Год назад +2

    Boy what did you do differently? You look amazing! Spill the tea.

  • @allinyourmind8710
    @allinyourmind8710 Год назад +5

    Perfect timing ❤🎉

  • @AmahleKhoza-vq5zu
    @AmahleKhoza-vq5zu Год назад +2

    Guys he looks so goood 😮😊 I love you Dylan you changing my life fr ❤

  • @anonymousb430
    @anonymousb430 Год назад +3

    You should be a model for CK or Dolce and Gabbana 😍

  • @jillkx
    @jillkx Год назад +1

    I love the video titles recently. I just read the title, it gives me a boost and I keep on scrolling for a while (not because I don’t support Dylan but because my mind just confirms it and doesn’t even feel the urge to watch the video. Feeling sassy and confident 💅🏼💁🏼‍♀️)

  • @sunshineonmyshouldersmakes8331
    @sunshineonmyshouldersmakes8331 Год назад +3

    Perfection. How did you know this was exactly the thing I needed today 🙂❤ Thank you so much wise man you

  • @its.jezzik
    @its.jezzik Год назад

    Starting the day with some Dylan James babes! Have a nice day everybody

  • @Mesu1111
    @Mesu1111 Год назад +1

    You're a gem 💎❤

  • @theQueenPeach87
    @theQueenPeach87 Год назад +1

    I love the message. Everything I have gone through has made my light shine brighter.

  • @donna6783
    @donna6783 Год назад

    At 9:20 in the video... yes, yes, yes & yes 😂 you see a good person with such potential & for me the compassion takes over that they've been through a lot & have compassion for what they've been through but honestly if they don't have the bandwidth to know they are a good person & show up properly....why am I bothering with it? I can't prove to you that you are a good person! You have to do the work & realize that. I lose myself in people with such potential & they won't do the work to see that. It's sad all around that they can't see that but also that I spend so much energy in wanting them to see that!

  • @ashleymarierael
    @ashleymarierael Год назад +1

    I love you Dylan! Thanks for everything ❤

  • @addicted183
    @addicted183 Год назад +1

    I bought your mindset mastery course a few days ago. So good.

  • @taniaswain-williams1379
    @taniaswain-williams1379 Год назад

    I also stopped and was like wait is this video old or new cause you look so much younger but more calm and confident

  • @pin6113
    @pin6113 Год назад +1

    Please make an affirmation tape for confident flirting with girls and improving general communication Skills

  • @oakland4094
    @oakland4094 Год назад +1

    The video we all needed

  • @DeviiiJ
    @DeviiiJ Год назад +2

    I needed this

  • @sarazephyr8224
    @sarazephyr8224 Год назад

    In reality transurfing it's called the "advantage "

  • @iaelborntosing9756
    @iaelborntosing9756 11 месяцев назад

    Your voice is so relaxing 😌

  • @leilani8888
    @leilani8888 Год назад

    Dylan you look AMAZING

  • @nessaearthangel
    @nessaearthangel Год назад +4

    you look hotter with every video! 😍 love it

  • @FollowerofDuck
    @FollowerofDuck 8 месяцев назад

    wow. this was something i really needed to hear

  • @sebastianornowski333
    @sebastianornowski333 Год назад

    Thank You man needed this message, btw looking good in those glasses 🤓💜💕🇸🇪

  • @allysonboyle6968
    @allysonboyle6968 Год назад

    Divine timing 🎉

  • @morganshepherd4757
    @morganshepherd4757 Год назад

    You never miss. I needed this so much. 🔥

  • @kiratk6321
    @kiratk6321 Год назад

    You’re amazing. Love you Dylan ❤️

  • @sandraguevara2930
    @sandraguevara2930 Год назад

    Wow this arrived right on time, glad I’m taking the right steps

  • @niceprincesslucky
    @niceprincesslucky Год назад +1

    I love storytime✨

  • @lynaaaa_
    @lynaaaa_ Год назад

    Omg Dylan!💞You are so gorgeous✨ your videos are really inspiring and helped me a lot through all the processes and manifestations in my life and I kid you not when I say that your video right now is such in a perfect timing with my sp (which is kinda complicated at the moment but I am no longer relying on the old story now)

  • @user77-k6c
    @user77-k6c Год назад

    Thank you. I really really needed this today to change my mindset

  • @msmilopes
    @msmilopes Год назад

    Bless you, dear! ❤🙏😘

  • @storm4515
    @storm4515 Год назад +4

    Woooooowww…Dylan is growing younger 😍😍😍. Wtf are you eating?!

  • @lorenaholanda1504
    @lorenaholanda1504 Год назад +1

    I love you, thank you

  • @fresnosdna437
    @fresnosdna437 Год назад

    Dylan you look amazing!

  • @serenitywellness4
    @serenitywellness4 9 месяцев назад

    This definitely inspired me thank you

  • @S_Nayana
    @S_Nayana Год назад

    Thankyou for the reminder 🎗️❤

  • @firebird3639
    @firebird3639 Год назад

    Thank you. perfect timing. ❤

  • @Inks512
    @Inks512 Год назад

    Thank you, this video came at the right time for me ❤

  • @CCast1111
    @CCast1111 Год назад

    Perfect timing!!! Right before bedtime 🙌🏾

  • @Mimi-ni3il
    @Mimi-ni3il Год назад

    Hi Dylan! I was missing your videos 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @graymats
    @graymats Год назад +1

    Hi Dylan! Can you make a video on abusive situations and healing from them and not being a victim?

  • @ClassicallyAshB
    @ClassicallyAshB Год назад

    Thank you Dylan!!

  • @ladyriver226
    @ladyriver226 Год назад

    I needed this ❤

  • @djphoebalicious
    @djphoebalicious Год назад +4

    Woof... I'm not sure how much I want to believe this one just because I went the dv and intimate partner violence with my former sp. Anddd although it was a real wake up call, I haven't honestly felt so icky about relationships ever in my entire life... so I'm really struggling right now, but it is still really fresh and I'm kind of licking my wounds and trying like hell to grow from this to be the unshaken version of me that gets the best partner, husband for myself and son as well as being the best version of myself as a mother as well. I already know I'm the bomb but I can't figure out where I f'ed up with my former sp ending up being abusive...

    • @harumiayame8586
      @harumiayame8586 Год назад

      When you find out, reply please 🥺

    • @truthheals5723
      @truthheals5723 Год назад +10

      Red flags ignored? Odd things he did that you pacified? Overprioritizing him or extending too much trust on things that should’ve been taken more seriously?

    • @ariah457
      @ariah457 Год назад +4

      It’s not your fault for their behaviour it’s only when you tolerate such behaviours then it’s down to you! All you can do is learn from it it’s not easy though (easy said!)

  • @fhxs
    @fhxs Год назад

    I reallyyyyyy needed this reminder rn, thank you for all that you do! You’re truly an angel 💕

  • @iChocolateex
    @iChocolateex Год назад

    I love and needed this sm, thank you dylan

  • @lisamariew7359
    @lisamariew7359 Год назад

    Thank you 🙏 ❤

  • @MagickandMediums
    @MagickandMediums Год назад

    Thank you so much❤

  • @AsiaRomaria
    @AsiaRomaria Год назад +1

    I thank you so much Dylan!!! If you can please, can you go deeper on “creating a new identity” on what NOT to do? I don’t wanna say me personally, am doing something wrong… butttt… I really am wondering am I missing something. Because I learned about spiritual bypassing today and now I’m wondering wow. I missed that. I wonder if I’m doing other things that’s blocking my manifestations? Just curious on dos and donts on creating a new identity because I’m really trying! What I’ve been doing is breathwork and using people as influences as what I’m trying to embody. But sometimes, the doubt is still there. The fear and lack of trust. So idk 🤷🏾‍♀️ would appreciate your help and insight about this!!!! 💗💗

    • @AsiaRomaria
      @AsiaRomaria Год назад

      I’ve been slightly struggling with this around career and success and also romantic relationships.

    • @graciatakashita6133
      @graciatakashita6133 Год назад +1

      ​@@AsiaRomariame too and i just learn to be compassionate to myself and let go, because we no longer that old version of myself, you got this!

  • @SuperPurpleUniverse
    @SuperPurpleUniverse Год назад

    You look beautiful Dylan ❤

  • @zombie-jg4dd
    @zombie-jg4dd Год назад +2

    Hi Dylan pls bless us with a dream university subliminal❤

  • @Jakilyn
    @Jakilyn Год назад

    8:32 This 🙌

  • @NevilleGLover89999
    @NevilleGLover89999 Год назад

    Dylan you get more gorgeous by the second!❤

  • @theoriginalssfe
    @theoriginalssfe Год назад

    Can u make a vid to why people get scary or odd dreams when listening to the sleep hypnosis tapes

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss Год назад +1

    💩circumstances ->🔥🔥🔥reality

  • @sakyqueen
    @sakyqueen Год назад

    PREACH!!!!!

  • @funkymonk7
    @funkymonk7 Год назад

    Thanks ❤

  • @Hyfae
    @Hyfae Год назад

    Yes!!

  • @yourunclesteacup
    @yourunclesteacup Год назад

    dylan can you make a detailed video about materilaisomg good study habits and competitive exams😊❤

  • @theauthorgirl-podcast
    @theauthorgirl-podcast Год назад

    I'm honestly getting frustrated at the fact that I get these 'buffer' feelings?
    I don't know how else to describe it but it's basically, when I hit a point where I find I'm naturally showing up for myself and being healthy, I experience this wave of fear and emotion that makes me feel like I'm going to backslide into negative behaviours and it kinda completely makes my mind go crazy.
    It's honestly crazy because I have worked so hard to find myself and be all the things you outline in this video so it's really not nice to be in this feeling that I'm going back to square one.

    • @ijuskann
      @ijuskann Год назад +3

      Just take it one step at a time friend, stay present, you'll be fine.

    • @theauthorgirl-podcast
      @theauthorgirl-podcast Год назад +1

      @@ijuskann thank you ❤

  • @Alicia-vq8jg
    @Alicia-vq8jg Год назад

    yesss

  • @trustfaith3466
    @trustfaith3466 Год назад +1

    thats crazy 1212 is my number and ofc this video is 1212mins long

  • @hildazamora9729
    @hildazamora9729 Год назад

    New affirmation “every shitty thing that happens to me, makes me hotter”

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 Год назад

    Period