Revert Sisters Be Careful. by brother Faris Al Hammadi
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2022
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Born muslim sisters are also victims of these kind of guys
Of course but reverts are more vulnerable to this
@@alhmmmdd born muslim sister are very vulnerable aswell, i know many of them, good females from good muslim families that were decieved for these guys
@@neveranevera2308 born muslims still have their family and walis, reverts don't always have supportive family, much less understand to go about "dating" in islam
@@luvlihyunjin even if she has muslim family, what can they do? Many times they date without family knowledge and then he decieves or leaves her. It happens many times and i tell u because i m a born muslim and a i know what happens around
@@neveranevera2308 yes I agree, I have many born Muslim friends, I went to school with many. My point is, that even after all that, born Muslims still have their families to fall back on as they can find her a suitable Muslim husband if things fail. Converts don't have that and half the time they don't know the rules
I am a male revert and a Muslim woman and her family treated me like a dog. I hated Islam after that and was so angry. Eventually step by step I came back to Islam and married a beautiful Moroccan Queen
May Allah bless you brother
Congratulations brother
Allah akbar, may Allah bless you and grant you peace
Alhamdulillah brother, Allah swt knows you have a good heart and wants to save you. My cousin was married to a Hungarian man, moved together to UAE back in the early 90s, he hated the discrimination and the racism there, he even one time got kicked out of a masjid and got called 'Kafir' just because he was a blue eyed with blond hair who wanted to pray just like the rest of them. My family didn't make it easier for him neither, sadly got fed up, he discarded Islam, they eventually got divorced and he went back to Hungary. May Allah guide him and keep all of us on the right path🤲🤍
Proud to be Moroccan 🇲🇦
I’m a man and a revert and I’m getting married in 2 weeks to a born Muslim woman Alhumdullilahi raabil alamein. I love your videos Jazak Allahu khairan Assalamu alaykum brother.
Wa alykum salaam 💙
@really not important don't judge, are u not even listening to the video??you Silly guy. the video says to have good treatment of reverts. They are our brothers, sisters. We die for them, they die for us.
@really not important no I became a Muslim and then Alhumdullilah I met my wife.
@@Salim_Habib 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@@okayyeah8699 Masha Allah bro
You lucky 😭🤣
I’m a revert ! - a bad experience actually bought me to Islam ahumdillah
May Allah help you sister
Yes mydaughter is having problems just because she has bit dark eyes n long hair that thin her as an Arab girl. Even though that's not the reason to harass her her work place has a boss who is a bad guy if my daughter daidoesnt take an acttion I will he won't be able y harass anyone anymore inshaAllah
@@saheba1784 can you daughter leave that job
You need to take down you're videos of you're exposed skin of you're RUclips page or else Allah will not forgive you, you should know this is haram.
Maybe you are fake Muslim
Alhamdulilah blessings in disgu
Sisters, dont ever accept a relation other than Marriage..
If a guy want to Marry you, make sure to meet his parents first while you are with your parents, if they are muslims (if they arent its still okay to have your parents on your side).
Ask people if they know the guy, if he pray or not, if he is married or not etc.
Few tips: take your time, be patient, rememeber the Islamic rules and ask a sister of womens right for marriage.
TikTok is a Chinese spyware app.
Reverts sometimes initially are no longer close to the family.
So they can use a guardian. An imam of nearby mosque or something like that.
As a Muslim revert of an American-Syrian Halabi-Jew background I chose to be Muslim long before I met my American-Syrian Muslim husband(he knew my family were Jews but didn't know I was Muslim) I came from an educated secular culturally Jew family... grandma was religious I learned about Judaism from her. It didn't make sense. I take a scientific and logical approach to life. Islamic teaching (Based on Quran, Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim) is logical to me and academically authentic.
My message to ALL Muslims (born Muslims and revert Muslims) Choose 'Allāh over everything and everyone OR leave Islam
@@sweettea1193 are you muslim?
Cuz if you was, you have known, the emam or men is never around women..
The women have their own part of the mosque.
Men alone women alone
What do you mean "if they arent it's still okay for your parents to he around"? 🤣🤣🤣 are you nuts or what? Do you think parents don't want to know their future groom?
As a guy, even though I’m not married and not even close to getting married, and this situation hasn’t happened to others around me, walahi I feel so embarrassed 😞 May Allah save guard our sisters. Ameen.
Its too common brother. Muslims in muslim countrues ask me an unmarried woman for brides. Which is confusing right? Makes you think ok maybe im unattractive in some way ok. But they continue asking specifically for a revert. I always wonder why? Theres so many bad reasons: to use for visa, to use their ignorance in deen against them, to marry wit& intent of temporary bc they technically arent real in their eyes like the women in their countries. So too is a born muslimah used if she lives out of those countries. In terms of if men have the choice btw a born n revert that are western the revert will be chosen always. There are many levels to this. The poor economic conditions, the westernization of ppl the attack on deen by govts of muslim countries are all contributing factors.
If you are a young man, I just ask you plz be a hero. We need men like the sahaba and the rasul pbuh. Plz the ummah and the future needs you. May Allah fortify you with his deen. Ameen
how they got into a relationship before marriage. A relationship before marriage is a Girlfriend and Boyfriend which is haram. How the guy and girl don't understand having a relationship before marriage is haram. plz help
@@chromedavid9896 yes, it’s forbidden in Islam to have girlfriend or boyfriend. Marriage is the only right way. But some boys, can’t even call them men; get married and then divorced, married and then divorced, and on and on! They don’t give their wive or wives their rights and duties. And on the day of judgment, Allah will deal with such evil behavior.
@@beast-master2094 Brother, Thank u. I thought they didn't marry but had a relationship before marriage. ya divorcing revert Muslims is very bad. May Allah help the Revert Muslim.
@@chromedavid9896 And that’s what the Sheikh said, imagine turning a revert Muslim away from Islam through your actions! Subhanallah, such evil people! May Allah protect our revert Muslim sisters. Ameen.
I’m not even Muslim but I just HAVE to “amen” this! ❤️👏🏼
Ok I’ll say this even though it will make me look weak. I’m a male revert but I’m autistic. I’m not strong and I’m scared and I’ve been abused. When I converted I ended up in a long distance relationship with a Muslim girl. I felt comfortable with her because she was like the Christians I knew. She played with my heart and promised me so much. I tried my best for her and she broke my heart. I struggled so much in Islam because of all that. Brothers and sisters, please help those Muslims with autism
You're very articulate and with emotional depth...Can you explain what it's like to live with autism to me? I understand there is a spectrum of symptoms/differences in ability to process emotions, nuance meanings of physical and verbal communications... if I am wrong please inform correctly. I find it fascinating that you're on a spiritual path...please remember it is a long and emotional path...when you decide to dedicate to any religion it is about your relationship with the Devine...not a human female or her family. Rely on your logic friend. I am non denominational but deeply spiritual... I want to learn from all the perspectives placed on my path... to find the truth for myself
Allah will help you bro. Focus on imrpoving your deen.
I suggest madinah college only 10 pound subscription 😊.
First - To all the sisters , revert or not, *never* and I repeat *never* get into a relationship with a guy. There is a halal way of approaching this thing. Don't believe in their sweet talks and sugar coated praises. If a guy approaches u , ask him to approach ur father (if he is muslim) or the imam. And investigate about this guy as well. Don't be naive.
Also, revert sisters r easy targets for these manipulative fools , so it's better that u remain firm on ur Deen and stay away from such things . Don't trust any random guy.
Second, before immediately starting to look for marriage, focus on practicing ur Deen, working on building ur character and a strong connection with Allah سبحانه وتعالى. Marriage is not an easy thing. It is a big responsibility, if u r not strong enough physically , mentally and spiritually , u r not gonna be able to give it ur all and perform ur duties.
Exactly my thoughts May Allah protect us
@@somebodyy32 Aameen..
To be honest, although well meaning, this isnt always helpful advice. Reverts sometimes loose their families, a support system and any sense of belonging. Going to mosque doesnt always work either, cause people treat you more like a guest, then a member. Marriage can help a great deal. Marriage shouldnt conflict with any other goal, be it religion, studies or work as long as it is apprached with care and reason
As a Muslim revert of an American-Syrian Halabi-Jew background I chose to be Muslim long before I met my American-Syrian Muslim husband(he knew my family were Jews but didn't know I was Muslim) I came from an educated secular culturally Jew family... grandma was religious I learned about Judaism from her. It didn't make sense. I take a scientific and logical approach to life. Islamic teaching (Based on Quran, Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim) is logical to me and academically authentic.
My message to ALL Muslims (born Muslims and revert Muslims) Choose 'Allāh over everything and everyone OR leave Islam
This is so true, revert or not sisters do your research. Meet his family and friends and see his interactions with them. Never give your heart away to anyone. Speaking from my own unfortunate experiences😔
Alhamdulillah i am revert, i learn my deen first of all, then Allah grant me a good husband even though im a second wife, alhamdulillah my sister-the first wife accepted me and loved me for the sake of Allah (as she tells me) alhamdulillah... Sister love Allah and His rasulullah first, by learning our deen by heart, the more we learn the more imaan comes in sha Allah 🥰🥰🥰, may Allah bless everyone with spouses that fears Allah the most and be a coolness of our eyes 🥰🥰🥰
Ameen. May Allah put barakah in your marriage
That is so beautiful, Alhamdullilah
Ameen!
Listen to this man, please! You will have daughters one day. Treat women the way you'd want your daughters to be treated!
@@BotfromChina which religion other than Islam advocates the protection of women?
@@BotfromChina But apparently people didnt get the memo
@@BotfromChina not really. Look at how the west treat women, many videos of men watching women being beat up by men, and saying well thats what they deserve since they want equality. Equality isn't a thing here, equity is. Islam gave us women the right to own our own money/property and to vote. Not men, not society, but Islam gave us that right. Islam gave both men and women the same punishment for the same sins. Islam protected our rights to inherit money, gave us the right to stay at home and be given money by our husbands, tell me where is it law in any westren world where a women stays at home and is given monthly pay-checks from her husband for it? Tell me where that law is in your societies? Oh right it doesn't exist. That's how you protect women, you make sure we are always in safe environments (women onky schools/train cabins/parking lot) and are provided for no matter what we choose to do.
@@ismingo4264 why are you so blind. Can't you see he didn't point to any specific culture. He just made a general point. You agree with him bc it suits your perspective. But what will happen after death, son? You think that's it. O-kay.
@@jonahjameson9071 you know i was talking about taking advantage of women in Every culture
I do not get why you had to become so agressive i do not believe i showed any sort of insensitivity or hate speech in my comment that warrents a response like that
So true! Subhan Allah. My sisters guard yourself. Not all Muslim men are brave to commit to you. Some will take advantage especially when they found out that you are a new revert. May Allah Subḥānahu wa ta'ala protect us all. Gain knowledge about Islam, educate yourself and always make your salah on time. The right man for you will come in the right time. In Shaa Allah.
Inshallah 🤲🏻
I’m not a Muslim woman but I think this should be a universal message for all men. Thank you for sharing.
“The Messenger of Allaah (pbuh) said: ‘The best of fasting after Ramadaan is fasting Allaah’s month of Muharram.’” (Muslim).
“Fear Allah” I’m a Christian and I felt it when he said that. Listen to him! Fear God.
You r not a Christian and you are a Muslim with a lying tongue!!! Everybody true Christians knows God Lord Yeshua, Jesus is his name not Isa 8s a made up name by a false prophet Mohamed. Everyone who Lord Yeshua, Jesus have truly appeared to n have been a true witness of the risen Lord and truly has been touched by the Lord n became new born in spirit cleansed of all sins by the Lord knows that Allah in Islam faith is a man made religion and would never say they believe in Allah. We R the true Christians because we have seen the Lord n don't say we r Christians but our heart speak for allah who goes around speaking and being an ambassador of him like actually believing more of your allah in the heart that's why this word is spoken by you and came out of your mind, heart n mouth but really you don't believe in the heart that Yeshua, Jesus is Lord. True Christians have seen and been touched by the Lord and they don't say I'm Christian but my heart believes in Allah and speak it out in words. Stop making up things n lying with a lying tongue. You r not Christian because you can't be a Christian believe in God Lord Yeshua, yet speak for another strange God and be ambassador for that God in the strange cult religion. First of all, every true Christians know you can't serve 2 master, it's either you serve the true God, you accept him to be mighty enough that he can be born a man and died on cross, conquered death n resurrected in Yeshua Jesus and you believe in it that is mighty enough to be able to do this or his not mighty enough that he cannot be born a man and fulfill this prophecy. Either you believe you serve him or you stand for Satan in a strange and a cult religion. Get that so that you Muslims do not go n think you make up or come up with lies like that distort truth about the true Christians because we will correct your lies so people knows the truth that there are many liars with a lying tongue and heart like you that the Lord knows you r lying because this has been taught in his teaching himself to recognise those who says they have him in his heart but their actions and words speaks differently that shows they are liars they don't believe n have him in their heart and make up lies about being a Christian but you r Muslim in heart believing in your Allah in this religion, you r not therefore Christian so u don't have the right to even carry this title beside your name. Every true Christian who have seen the Lord and saved by the Lord would never speak for another strange God with a name that God doesn't even accept in Heaven because that's not his name TITLE IS YAHWEH, ADONAI, YESHUA JESUS, EMANUEL, LION OF JUDAH THAT HE GAVE TO HIS TRUE GENUINE CHOSEN PROPHETS AND SENT BY HIM HIMSELF TO REVEAL THE TRUTH OF HIM AND THOSE WHO ARE LIARS in heart and he knows every lie you spoke about being his people because he knows in heart your heart does not have him and you speak for another God that dishonour him and try to lie about his people and the true Christians. I will lift up my prayer to the Lord about you lying so the Lord will deal with you himself. By the way who do you think you are to have this right to pick on a specific group of people that are called the Christians and try make false lies about them and try to make fun of them which was spoken in your qaran instructed by your God allah to pick on the Christians especifically which are God's true people. So your God teaches you pick on a specific group of people which are the Christians, make fun of them, spread lies about them and push them to the corner if you see them on street. What kind of God teaches people to go and pick on a specific group of people and push them to the corner and make fun of them, THAT IS CALLED BULLY. SO, YOUR GOD WHO TEACHES you to pick on the Christians is a bully, what kind of God teaches people to pick on people? You didn't mention Buddhists or Hindus but you mentioned only the Christians because this is taught on your qaran to pick on them n make fun of them. You don't have the right to pick on the Christians BECAUSE GOD NEVER GAVE YOU ANY RIGHT TO BULLY PEOPLE. THE Lord do not like liars and unrighteous people who goes and pick on other people. THE LORD WILL DEAL WITH YOU ACCORDINGLY because Yeshua, Jesus is the God who answers prayers and pays back those accordingly to their work.
All abrahamic religions are the same and should all be pushed back to middle east. No more Abrahamic filth
May Allah guide u to the absolutely truth, ie, Islam...the belief in only one God (Allah) who has no partners or equals!
The ˹true˺ believers are only those whose hearts tremble at the remembrance of Allah, whose faith increases when His revelations are recited to them, and who put their trust in their Lord.
(8:2 Qur’an)
Sister, I don’t know you and I am not in need of you, all I request from you is to pick up and read the Qur’an, it’ll heal your heart in ways you could not imagine!
Bless you sis😊
SubhanAllah!!!! From a revert sister, I appreciate this message. May Allah reward you for the reminder. I think some muslims don't understand how difficult it can be for some of us who revert. Jazak Allah Khair
SubhanAllah, you said truth. Sometimes unknowingly we become the reason for ppl leaving Islam.
They leave Islam because they are fake Muslims. Since when u leave God in name of a human? Why they revert? To get a man? Trick god 😂 God knows everything. They try yo fool Him, he make them pay and that is the price. Simple. Revert from the heart. Be a good Muslim. God will look after u. Now if u revert for appearances, like most of this reverteds this days... God knows.
Thank you for speaking on this. It happens too often.
This is so heart breaking...i am so so so much pained and anguished..
May Allah bless my revert sisters and take care of scoundrels who are taking undue adavantage knowingly.
Never take a Muslim man seriously if his family isn’t involved because it’s probably because he is not being serious
As a Muslim I agree . It’s embarrassing bc they know their family and their religion don’t approve of their behavior but they try to be sneaky about it
As a Muslim guy, you’re completey right
Met him before I reverted and I find out a year later🥺 love is painful. May allah swt ease our struggles
There is a separate place for awful men in hell who play with the emotions!
A Muslim don’t speak this way. Ask Allaah to guide them.
@@salaahkhayr2398 this brother/sister is right they will have special place in hell because of those poor women he tricked you never know they might start to hate Islam and Muslims coz of him
@@thisguy2372 well if you already know who Allaah will forgive or not, who will enter hell or not, I don’t have that ability. Tc.
There are consequences for falling into sin, especially zina!
@@salaahkhayr2398 i don’t know why you feel attacked but every deed has a reward, good for good, bad for bad. Knowing the logic, I know what I have said. Doing wrong is never encouraged! So, please keep your judgment to yourself. I am a Muslim and I will stand by my words.
This doesn't just happen to reverts - this is the reality of the Ummah now
The opposite happened to me, he is a revert and Promised me to marry me then left me and until this day I’m heartbroken and the wound never healed
May Allah give you better
I also am Alhamdulillah a revert, male. If I see any of my brothers treat any of my sisters like this I will be furious and I can’t believe that, We Muslims! Treat each other like the Non believers or even worse, May Allah guide this ummah
Men must stand agsinst this among themselves!
@@randomness8819 Yes, I do totally agree. But on the other side it may cause a lot of separation in our ummah and make a lot of wrong people seem good and good bad
@@Leonardsnotebook I understand your point. If I may clarify mine. Islam is both individual and social. That being said society sets norms and taboos. The admonish and shame acts while embracing others. Today some of these men are openly saying their intent to other men and arent being shunned. The shieks barely talk about this issue. So if men stand firm holding other men accountable and marginalizing others while the scholars speak then, there will be a quick and strong change. Fathers need to hold their sons accountable. Uncles need to be there for their nephews, brothers keeping their other brothers and friends bowing out of inappropriate convos while dropping out of friendships with those who posess bad aqhlaq. Our men have become weak and their weakness cause the break for the fem>nists to siege the women. So its why i say men need to man up amongst each other!
@@Leonardsnotebook As a Muslim revert of an American-Syrian Halabi-Jew background I chose to be Muslim long before I met my American-Syrian Muslim husband(he knew my family were Jews but didn't know I was Muslim) I came from an educated secular culturally Jew family... grandma was religious I learned about Judaism from her. It didn't make sense. I take a scientific and logical approach to life. Islamic teaching (Based on Quran, Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim) is logical to me and academically authentic.
My message to ALL Muslims (born Muslims and revert Muslims) Choose 'Allāh over everything and everyone OR leave Islam
@@randomness8819 yes brother, I agree with you! Thanks for clarifying and may Allah give us Tawfiq
I became a Muslim brother, and I learned very quickly, that Muslims don’t really know their religion. Alhumdulilah, in sha Allah, we all are real good Muslims ameen.
As a revert man I could never do this to anyone.
Becausee as reverts we understand islam better than born muslims...
@@quranman730 yes mom always said they know the real curroption that why the have stronger faith they experinced what is a life without deen so they will appreciate it ..i was born a muslim like never actually cared i do what i'm supposed to do until one day i fully undrestand
@@quranman730 no only difference between muslims is how much good deeds you do
@@Jamaljj yes that's right, but reverts do understand some things better... because we know what being a disbeliever feels like and because we are facing this issuess .
@@quranman730 No its due to Allah he guides whoever he wants so you must thank him you're not lost anymore happens with Muslims too
Jazak-Allah Khair my brother. I'm reverted for 6 years and have had to deal with a brother like this, but I'm also American and even American men are like that so be aware.
Alhamdulillah for my husband as a convert I'm blessed ❤️ I don't understand how someone can be Muslim and behave like this
May Allah bless you brother. For addressing this. As a man I have seen some of these guys. They have no fear and no shame. May Allah guide everyone 🤲🏼
My sisters please protect yourselves from these so-called "brothers", if lack good character and don't fulfil the basic of their duties towards their Lord, what rights will they fulfil of your's?
Well spoken sister
I'm not even Muslim but I can respect the righteousness coming from the words he speak
I think sometimes it’s best that a revert marries a revert also you’ll understand each other best.
And the rule of having a relationship outside marriage is still haraam
This will keep you from getting hurt
As a Muslim married man and a father born and educated in England/London all I want say to all my Muslim and newly reverted sisters is NEVER date any man or boy. Ask your parents to get involved in your love life and for the man's/boys parents too.
Men/boys use woman/girls and after they get what they wanted they up and leave.
My family found my wife for me. I do not believe in love marriage or sex before marriage !
The sad thing is woman who know I am married still lust for me.. May Allah SWT help and guide us all to the right and correct path, Ameen !
Well, make her your second wife if she's Muslim
@@petboy5839
I cannot afford to marry more than once and I will not be able to treat them all equally. I am happy with one wife; Al-Humdulila. Those rich brothers who can marry more than once I am happy for them.
Remember my brothers; treat your woman/wife like a Queen and you will become her King In Shaa Allah, Ameen !
@@crysis4real isn't that like saying you can't afford to have children? You'll have to clothe and feed a child with lots of additional responsibilities. Taking care of a second wife is easier than taking care of a kid.
@@petboy5839 buying a second house is easier?
@@PHANTOmIND8 Huh? Where in the Qur'an or Hadith does it say your second wife has to have a second house? Both of my wives will be living with me in the same house.
Subhanallah I was literally waiting to hear such meanful words for long time and nobody talked about it except you . Baraka Allahu Feekah brother .
One of the embarrassing
Iv came to know to know that there are men out there searching and watching new Muslims revert girls and as soon as they see them, immediately starting texting and asking then for marriage 💑
Pls dear new revert sister just be careful and do not fell easily just bcuz someone says iam Muslim!
Its not like that at all . There are good well educated Muslims and there are not !
Be strong sister 💪 ❤
lesson: don't get into relationship before marriage . marry first
Never get into a romantic relationship until marriage
Always be careful when you're dating someone out of your culture. I know that we are all different and some of those differences cannot be reconciled
My mantra in life is: fear Allah.
Knowing good men think like you gives me strength on my path to true faith
Indeed fear Allah,
May Allah protect the sisters and make them steadfast in their deen
I strongly believe reverts should marry reverts as the struggles will be the same and they will grow together 💕
Pov: every Middle Eastern guy that meets a girl outisde his community
@Danny Al its true or false nothing in between. Its true
Don't generalised u dummy
Well yes hear this : mom said she asked dad have you ever fooled a girl and lied to her about marrige hensaid i almost did he said when he was in his in his twenty he wanted to persude a girl and take advantage of her he was persuding her for a month and she started accepting he said one day he was with his freind and one of them said you know there is this girl that i want and i will fool her and take advantage of her dad laughed and said good luck and as joking he said ok wich girl he said he name is (shatha ) she lives there ..dad was shocked because she is his sister he than told the his freind don't you dare and she's my sister (the freind backed off ) so when he is going back home he thought looke what was goona happen if i wasn't there my sister was gonna be hurt then he rememberd that he was about to do the same thing to the girl he name was (hudda ) he said it was a waring and he almost done a very bad thing ..he went to (huda) and told her the truth and now she is married (hudda) was dad nighbour
Most of the time the enemy is within.
🤔
you are your own worst enemy.
Yep. In this case Muslim men need to tell their brothers this behavior is disgusting.
So true.... good reminder.... jazakallahu khoir Syaikh
THANK YOU!!!....These are major issues that reverts and non reverts face, alike!!!... some so called men need to grow up!!!!
Literally happened to me. Alhamdulilah I’m pass that and marrying a good Muslim man who respects me
Well sayd JAZAK ALLAH KHEIR
As a revert, I've given up on marriage. I've dealt with all these experiences
In Shaa Allah . Allah will give you the best .
Sister, please don't give up. Get your father, brother, uncle, or male relative to find you a husband, talk to the Imam. Talk to the sheikh. You have to make sure he's of good character and personality. Make sure he's religiously devoted. Also, pay attention to his character.
It is a shame... May Allah protect born or revert sisters from such Evil.
I am a Christian woman and when I was a lot younger and single I once dated a Muslim man. He was nothing but respectful and explained why it's important for women to cover themselves, how it protects them and he was lovely but not meant for me. I really hope he's happy now. All the Muslim brothers and sisters I have met have been wonderful people. So sad to hear this happens sometimes.
@Gxyu Exhob Yes. We had dinner together a couple of times and he was lovely but I wasn't ready for marriage.
Wow! Allah bless your heart ❤️ you speak with the truth
You are so right!!!
Thank you for sharing and caring 🙌💗
I always ask Allah to meet someone who fears Allah, I'm a Muslim guy Alhamdulillah from Morocco, never been in a relationship or married, may Allah brought the best for us )
Good said Shaykh please spread this message to all muslims
God bless you and your tongue... muslim brothers need to know and respect Islam before fooling any girl into a relationship (haram).
SubhanAllah I heard similar situations may Allah help us ameen
Jazakallah khairan for saying this so openly. May Allah reward you for your honest concern. Ameen
Thank you for addressing this. May Allah reward you and all the brothers who don’t
Go this route ! Ameen
Even when they marry then they don’t treat them nicely - even the in-laws
True
Reverts are dealing with humans watch out for all humans
Well said brother. May allah guide us all. Ameen
Absolutely true i am going through the same pain and strougle Allah is my witness trust me 😭😭😭😭 I’m so heartbroken 💔
I am a born Muslim
Reverts must be educated on how we do things in terms of choosing a spouse. If they followed the protocols it would be fine.
As a revert who has been approached by these types of brothers I don't completely agree.
ALLAH Akbar
Islam didn't leave anything
Is Muslim who are not perfect but the Islamic religion is perfect
Jazaaka Allaahu khayran to highlight on this. May Allaah protect us all.
WAllaahi akhie reverts على رأس و العين والله
I have a lot of respect for reverts by Allaah! I get inspired by them! Much respect for them! And yes they deserve all good wAllaahi...May Allaah protect us and you all.Ameen
Sorry to say but those scum bags are everywhere unfortunately and it's always the womens fault when she wants to get married to a decent man and finds out how low he trully was. This is why it says at the end of time we won't marry, it's already happening.
A lot of people won't be able to afford to marry, many people have hurt over past issues and refuse to marry, or they can't find a husband.
I think and AllahknowsBest for the reverts before jumping into marriage etc I think you should try find your connection with your
Creator first and ground yourself and work on your Eman/Faith etc.
Start by learning the shahada that you took Alhamdulillah. ➡️ A Study Of ‘Laa ilaaha illAllah’ a course for new muslims: this book is for beginners you can learn and go through it with Muhammad Huzaifa on this playlist ➡️ ruclips.net/p/PL4nWiA0P5vjJOj6GB_TagMaAjOLf2ULwa also if you check the playlist description there a ( PDF ) of the book his teaching you can print it and make a booklet to. And He has taught this lessons twice this playlist was taught this year few months back here: ruclips.net/p/PLGOfVOabwhqGQ4hmwoMC6JX1KVtYq6bSy Whatever quality you thinks best. Also there absolutely no harm in going through this book or lessons a few times the scholars even recommend and advised that you study this book till death and I'm pretty sure it was this book or Kitab At-Tawheed either way this two books are essential for beginners.
It's obligatory upon Every Muslim to seek knowledge to the best of his ability and know who Allah is to know the Pillers of Islam to know the question in the grave etc. Also 2 Recommended Books 1.( Three Fundamental Principles ) and 2.( Kitab At Tawheed )
Even raised Muslims need to know this but sadly alot don't May Allah Help Us and rectify are affairs.
Also is a most learn for reverts and even raised Muslims for wanting to get married about the condition of nikkah.
Nikkah Part 1..
ruclips.net/video/H2zM84U7AHI/видео.html
@Stephanie Asiya ameen my sister. may Allaah bless you in this life and the next
Allahu Akbar
@@letthesunnahgoforth As a Muslim revert of an American-Syrian Halabi-Jew background I chose to be Muslim long before I met my American-Syrian Muslim husband(he knew my family were Jews but didn't know I was Muslim) I came from an educated secular culturally Jew family... grandma was religious I learned about Judaism from her. It didn't make sense. I take a scientific and logical approach to life. Islamic teaching (Based on Quran, Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim) is logical to me and academically authentic.
My message to all Muslims... choose Allah over everything and everyone or leave Islam.
@@NathanKwadade Muttah marriage is forbidden in islam . Men can have four wives. Muslims who can't be just should marry only 1. The Muslims mentioned in video are sinners
Jazak Allah khair brother
Really we all must fear Allah in our dealings with others. He's made it very clear how we should treat each other and mistreatment from either side shows our ignorance of each others' rights and a lack of responsibility for our actions
Giving someone respect takes nothing from us, but grants us much more than what we gave
Allah guide us all and safeguard us all from our own evil and the evil of others.. Aameen ya Samee'a wa Mujeeb addua'a 🤲🕊️
I'm not a Muslim but I have been looking into Islam bc I wanted to know what the world's largest religion was all about. I myself am a Taoist, but have studied a lot of religions. There are common threads. The belief in living honorably, our need for a spiritual path, that a loving God exists and wants the best for us, and the idea that peace is the way to go. I wish people would be more open to learning about the world around them. I have found Islam is quite beautiful, even in my limited understanding. I didn't know much before, and bc of where I live, I was afraid of what I might learn. Turns out, there are extremists in every way of life, in every religion but that isn't representative of any group as a whole. Islam is a peaceful, honorable spiritual path. ❤️
Read qur'an become muslim.
Watch playlist
Study of la ilaaha illallaah muhammad huzaifa mh.
The problem is that many ladies become muslims because of a man. Sadly, but true. I see many reverts that try soo hard to impress the community, getting involved in this and that (creating online pages , and creating actitivy groups) instead of focusing on learning Islam for real. It becomes a bit annoying because they think they know so much and are so special... then they get heart broken or are disappointed with something qnd start critisizing..
Not only revert sisters ,, muslim guys are playing with the heart n emotions of born Muslim sisters too,, Allah will never forgive them for this sin. Aameen
JajakAllah khair
Thank you for bringing this up,
The revert sisters need to find good muslim men..than any "muslim man".
The problem is they're still as easy as they were before (by taking haram relationships which are red flags themselves, from both sides). You can't start something with haram..then expect something good to come out of it.
That said, the guys take advantage bec she has nobody.. making her vulnerable.
You said a mouthful about the revert female being easy like she used to be in her past and place the blame on her instead of the opportunistic hypocrite Muslim man who wants to self satisfy his greedy urges and fleshly desires especially when they know she is new to your religious beliefs. That's taking advantage of her and being a hypocrite.
@@RManLazarus it takes 2 hands to clap. What you're attracted to are what you are yourself.
If they go into haram. Wrecklessly and aimlessly. They also to blame for their own lack of cation.
But if it goes really haram in those acts.. then it takes 2 hands to clap. Its consensual and not rape. Its a 2 way commitment and both are to blame equally
My comment was in response to scumbags always blaming the men..yet these woman who let such guys achieve their desires...are somehow subject to sympathy and support and freed from any blame.
No. 2 hands to clap. There's boundaries and YOU crossed them. You KNOW what is haram and what isn't. Your actions determine your value and worth.
It's really not that difficult. My point is. Both are to blame.
Yes ! You are right ,.. it's true there's a lot of opportunistic hypocritical deceitful scheming scumbags using their religion using every strategy available not thinking of the shame and embarrassment they bring to the religion .
And yes if the female is new to the religion she won't know how to behave in a new religious community this is why other good wise people from the community give her good advice and guidance...if she's just a return to the religion then maybe she should be aware of what's is expected of her and any reverts and continues to act and behave the the ways of her past.
@@RManLazarus that's basically what i tried to say. But unless revert is really really really new..which is unlikely. She knows fully well what is haram and what isn't. Most know even before converting.
So it wasn't the knowing or lack of knowing...it was following the desire that got them in the mess. It was following the ego and whims. It was the same reason that others get into relationships even Muslims.
But let me tell you, no guy can ever ruin or take the good from a woman that's genuinely innocent. Because she'll simply block it off as she knows her worth and value. No good muslim women would ever open the door to a haram guy.
A good Muslim woman is that one who safeguards herself and doesn't open the door to any guy except her husband when he is found.
Talking “ dating” in Islam is prohibited anyway ,both sides are wrong for starting this sin in the first place
No it’s not. Take your false Hadith literature elsewhere.
@@Mo-sw7ho what? you are not allowed to be alone with a woman who is not your mahram. if you are talking to a girl one of her family ahould be around watching you. and these guys have sexual intercourse before marriage which is great sin. are you really a muslim?
Ma Shaa Allah, I love your message. Very true brother.
Beautifully said Br!!!
So many sisters are being used, lied to, left heart broken and eventually leaving Islam 😔
He's too handsome for his age
He s young
Shameful public behavior. Fear Allah he is a caller to Islaam.and your teacher!
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines:
She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them.
There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32].
She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 .
It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female.
And Allah knows best.
Maybe stop practicing zina first
JazakAllah khairan for addressing this issue!Revert sisters need all the support they can get from us muslims!After reverting to Islam the journey can become very tough n lonely sometimes!May Allah subhana wa t'ala make it easy for them.Aamiin!
‘Oh My servants I have prohibited oppression for myself and made it prohibited amongst you, so do not oppress one another’ (Bukhari).
There are countless verses in the Qur’an on oppression and around 97 verses alone on oppressors.
Someone: Will u be my partner?
Me: Let me talk to your parents😂
me : YES., YOU ARE WELCOME TO TALK TO THEM.
Agreed. My parents would have chosen a horrible partner for me they are not very conscientious people
@@sirderp4925 Thats another situation then😂,
Let me talk to you💭😵
@@sirderp4925 My parents are conscious but just in case of money and beauty🤧😶🌫️
@foujianurraisa Greedy parents😂😅9038
Yes, well the 'revert' sisters aren't too innocent either please. Usually come with their own spectrum of issues and expecting one man to miraculously fix you by marriage is nor realistic. Fix yourself first or you will be disappointed.
That is true on its own but that's not the issue that was raised by this Sheikh.
You don’t hear discrimination against converts out in the open like this. Your comment confirmed my suspicions. How many others share your bigoted view of them, I wonder.
beautifully stated. shukran 🙏 Inshallah we’ll all learn to be the change we wish to see in the world.
I do agree with you, thank you so much for your support your words are just gives me hope that some day we will have a good life
I'm Cristian Orthodox but I do admire this person for his ethos and wise words
Islam is perfect.
Yes and Muslim Are Not.
Thank you for standing up for women 🙏 💙 much respect.
Yes be careful ❤this is so true...be careful l agree❤
It’s not “just because she’s a revert”… it should be “because she’s a revert she deserves….”
You absolutely right brother.
born Muslims and reverts alike must be aware that not all Muslims are actually Muslim, choose your Muslim companions and friends wisely
I am a reverted asian and was scammed and exploited by a proclaimed 'god-fearing' man, raised muslim. Of course, I doubted Islam briefly after I quit the relationship, but subhan Allah, it has only increased my faith in Allah (swt). He sent me this test as a reminder to worship Him and not man, and to be wary of such men who use His name to deceive his believers.
أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطانِ الرَّجِيْمِ
الله أكبر
I'm so baffled, I know so many good Muslim men who are single who would give their left arm to marry a good Muslim woman.
This is quite a difficult situation that we're in as an ummah to be honest.
Allah bless you for this msg brother
Well said my brother.Jazak ALLAH khair in life and the hereafter..
Absolutely correct Sheik. May Allah swt protect all our Muslim sisters.