Wives submit to your husband is a misunderstood Biblical teaching!

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  • Wives submit to your husband is a misunderstood biblical teaching Men often wrongly use it to try to control their wives in the marriage situation. A proper understanding that God holds man responsible for the things of God will help us to understand that the woman is free to choose and make choices as long as that doesn’t go against God himself. When the man submits to the woman as it pertains to the things that go against God ,this is sin.
    One of the curses from the fall is that of Genesis 3:16 Where God tells the woman that her desires shall be contrary to your husband but he shall rule over her. The exact verse is used in the next chapter when God is talking to Cain ; If you do well will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well Sin is Crouching at the door. its desire is contrary to you but you must rule over it.!
    The same versus used almost the exact same way in chapters 3 and four. God is telling us that when we listen to the voice of anything that takes us away from him it is sin. He can even come in the form of The Voice of your own wife or children. We are always to listen to God first when it comes to the things of God. I believe that people are free to choose whatever they want to as long as it doesn’t violate this command. I am in

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  • @tinaespinosa6277
    @tinaespinosa6277 Год назад +97

    Because of these words , my granddaughter was abused and sexually assaulted by her husband . He raped her all the time , even when she was 8 months pregnant, now she can no longer have anymore children , because of these words he ruined her life . He would say things like ; it’s in Godly for you to with hold sex from me . Narcissists use the words of the Bible so they can commit acts of violence. So , thank you for the true meaning.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +29

      Sorry to hear of this tragedy. Many twist scripture for their own purpose. Love puts God and yourself first. This guy was obviously putting H
      himself before both. Thank you for sharing. Means the world to me and any who may read this. Gods best to you and your family.

    • @christophertutson4788
      @christophertutson4788 Год назад +12

      Sorry to hear this but that's not a man God, we can say the same about males going through a relationship where his wife cheated, disrespectfully and killed his ego. A biblical man's role is very demanding due to the fact that he has to answer to God. When he falls short in his roles it shows in his relationship with others. That is why a biblical foundation is needed if you follow the instructions

    • @youtubegamerpro5200
      @youtubegamerpro5200 Год назад +4

      ​@@BibleSoldier I think you mean "Love puts God and others first."

    • @nicklong7442
      @nicklong7442 Год назад +8

      The problem was her husband was not submitted to God. And even if she didn’t submit to him he would’ve abused her anyways. A horrible person is a horrible person. Doesn’t discount Godly virtue of submission.

    • @finnthinkin7695
      @finnthinkin7695 Год назад +7

      That's Narcissist at its best. That husband is ignorant of and not of God.
      Husband and Wife are equal in God's eys and love. They just have different duties thats all.
      The king makes the final Decision but the Queen must involve and help making the final decision for the sake of their home.
      May God bless you and your daughter.❤

  • @whooareu
    @whooareu Год назад +55

    This makes sense. Unfortunately, ungodly men will continue to abuse their authority. And women who don’t know better will suffer.

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n 10 месяцев назад

      Thank God even non believers are now hearing this scripture and understanding the true non abusive meaning.

    • @rmt74358
      @rmt74358 9 месяцев назад +1

      - This is why we are to make sure people are good for us before we get married, do not rush in.
      - This is why we are given the option to divorce or if sooner we can annul a Marriage.
      - Lastly Gods word says we should not marry and should stay single as Jesus was unless we cannot control our sexual desires that lead us to sin.
      1 Corinthians 7:8-9 (ESV)
      "To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion."

  • @sharons5221
    @sharons5221 Год назад +21

    This is why we need to focus on ephesians 5:21 submitting to each other.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +2

      Absolutely!

    • @jamin1632
      @jamin1632 Год назад +6

      Wrong! Christ doesn't submit to the bride ever. Show me one verse where a husband is called to submit to the wife. The context of the verse you quote sets up the examples of submission.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +7

      @@jamin1632 so you reject Ephesians to hold to a wrong view of what it means to submit?

    • @jamin1632
      @jamin1632 Год назад +5

      @@BibleSoldier Nope, I'm just saying I think you need to take a hermeneutics class because you're wrong one. Not one verse tells Husbands to submit to their wives. The man is the head, and is the leader. No that doesn't mean if he asks his wife to sin that is an obvious given. Ephesians 5:21 sets up the examples of submission. Notice it never says husbands submit to your wives. Because that isn't their role. They are to lead and women are helpers to encourage and submit to their leadership. I do not agree with the egalitarian movement, complementarian, yes. Their roles are not the same.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +4

      @@jamin1632 I never said their roles are the same. Dont know where you are getting that from but it’s not from anything I say or believe. We do submit to one another in love but it does not change the God given roles. Most take that to mean the man is the dictator, but this is not true. Respond more later. But you and I agree more than you seem to understand. My hermeneutical training is literal grammatical historical single meaning hermeneutic . Premillennial dispensationalism

  • @bethanymartinez2264
    @bethanymartinez2264 Год назад +37

    he's talking about the difference between micromanaging your wife as opposed to leading her. a woman is supposed to be managing the house like an office manager but at the end of the day the life changing decision lands on the husband just like the owner of the company chooses where the business goes, the office manager won't go to jail for IRS fraud but the owner sure will. (this is a general example, not a detailed copy and paste for life lol)

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад

      Amen! Exactly!!

    • @yournightmare7197
      @yournightmare7197 Год назад +4

      I will do a better job than my husband when it comes to big decisions.

    • @jamin1632
      @jamin1632 Год назад +3

      ​@@yournightmare7197Repent and know your role.

    • @yournightmare7197
      @yournightmare7197 Год назад +1

      @@jamin1632 That is my role.

    • @jamin1632
      @jamin1632 Год назад

      @@yournightmare7197 You're evil.

  • @lydiep6814
    @lydiep6814 Год назад +8

    These verses have been verses I’ve wrestled with and grappled with for a few years now. My problem worh these veredas are
    1) men are not God so why do some women expect so much from them?
    2) aren’t wr all supposed to be Christ like and Godly not just men?
    3) the give up his life for her veres implies ‘death do us part’ / ‘love you until I die’ is only coming from the man and that the woman doesn’t have to live the man until the end of her life?
    3) how far does this go with regards to decisions and having an opinion? Eg husband “I’d like four children” but wife “I only want two” do you then have to have four children because it’s want the husband wants?
    4) where does the protection part form a man come from biblically, this doesn’t seem to be in the scriptures.
    5) why can’t a woman look after herself and then help her husband why does she need to help or see to her husband ALL the time. ??

    • @janetcinderella5748
      @janetcinderella5748 Год назад

      I totally agree with this
      Galatians 3:28

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n 10 месяцев назад +1

      You don't want your man to protect you?🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @danicacrowther4609
      @danicacrowther4609 9 месяцев назад

      It's about God's will not the husband or the wife's. It's being obedient to God's word not our own.

  • @plumber1874
    @plumber1874 4 месяца назад

    A husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church a wife is to submit to her husband as unto the Lord. A loving husband isn't a dictator and a submissive wife isn't contentious

  • @stepheniewright5021
    @stepheniewright5021 10 месяцев назад +8

    This is good and true - but people do misunderstand and take submission to mean everything thus many times abusing the wives
    Wives need to remember and know the word of God for themselves so they can do like Jesus did and say - it is written ….. you will see the pretenders and manipulators come into the light and expose the sins of cruelty toward their wives

  • @Charly6-4
    @Charly6-4 Год назад +8

    One persons decision leads to a life time of judgement

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад

      Sorry I am missing to point you are trying to convey. What do you mean in reference to this video?

  • @chocolatesugar4434
    @chocolatesugar4434 Год назад +4

    So the responsibility is on the man to keep the family aligned to Gods will. So if the family fails it’s the man’s fault?

  • @cortannaorient
    @cortannaorient 4 месяца назад

    I’m a woman who’s dating a very jealous man. And the Bible says the wife should be in subjection to the husband in “all things”. Can you please help me understand where the line is for obeying your husband.

  • @ilefttheband
    @ilefttheband 3 месяца назад +1

    oh my god, you cleared it up for me. I'm 18, and a new believer. I recently came across the concept of submission and i just couldn't understand it at all. Cause why would my God be so cruel to women? I couldn't understand it. But after this video, i truly understand the meaning and I'm grateful for it. ❤

  • @hollikrebs
    @hollikrebs 9 месяцев назад

    We are given so much love from Jesus that we want to submit to Him because we know He can be trusted and He IS right in what He wants us to do in obedience. When we submitted ourself to evil, we reaped evil.

  • @zwickshaw7920
    @zwickshaw7920 Год назад +6

    So submit to your wife, except for on those special occasions when she asks you to sin?

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +9

      Not exactly what I am saying! Lol But we are in a relationship of give and take. She is not subject to the man but to God… as the man is. If she is the bread winner or smarter or more experienced in certain areas then she should be free to use whatever gifts God gave her without the man holding his position over her. This would be foolish. But in the things of God the man has the role and the responsibility that God assigned to Him. “ In Adam all fell”, i

  • @rosalynedjoukang7854
    @rosalynedjoukang7854 8 месяцев назад +2

    What if your husband doesn't believe in God and doesn't Preside at home.

    • @Reply84
      @Reply84 7 месяцев назад

      Yes I would like to know also

    • @kiahampton2225
      @kiahampton2225 7 месяцев назад

      Bless you sister from my own experience my husband was by a non believer.I dedicated myself to pray for my husband without a word against him at first. I read my Bible went to church prayed and always asked him to join me. He refused and became angry and aggressive. It became unsafe for my children and myself. I had to hold on to the strictures. God will hold me accountabile for being a stumbling block to my kids and as much as I loved my husband I had to do what was best fr my kids and leave. He moved on but I still pray for his repentance. And it is well with my soul to live unto the glory of the lord everyday.

    • @Not-Ap
      @Not-Ap Месяц назад

      These rules are for Christians only. If he's not Christian then technically these rules don't apply to him.

  • @kswole000
    @kswole000 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you

  • @MMJ501
    @MMJ501 11 месяцев назад +4

    So how can wives hold ungodly husbands accountable? Are they helpless then?

    • @timetom1635
      @timetom1635 10 месяцев назад +2

      1 Samuel 25 8 the man refused David. short story short the wife brought David gifts for him and his men nabal died and Abigail got married to David.
      A Wife should respect her husband because he’s under the word but if he’s not under the word, she has no reason to respect him.
      For more detail, I would read the whole chapter

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n 10 месяцев назад

      Someone called chris wrote this above:
      'So thankful for Gods word when videos like this pop up...
      And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.””
      ‭‭Genesis‬ ‭3‬:‭16‬ ‭NLT‬‬
      “Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that *even if some do not obey the word* , they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct.”
      ‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭3‬:‭1‬-‭2‬ ‭ESV‬‬
      Wives Be Subjected (meaning Submit ) to your own husband … EVEN IF SOME DO NOT OBEY THE WORD ..they will be Won over without a word by your conduct.
      There’s more verses than that.. read your bible.

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n 10 месяцев назад +2

      I'd rather stay single, as some MANY men will use this as an excuse to abuse and make a wifes life miserable as he is.

    • @mphophale3201
      @mphophale3201 8 месяцев назад

      We cant..we are sinners..the moment you try sy much youre leading your family to sin automatically ..submitting to sin as he said

    • @kiahampton2225
      @kiahampton2225 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes that is equivalent to submitting to Satan himself. No we are not bound as if we are in slavery. I had to learn that God has given us free will with a cost we must use it wisely. My husband abused me and my kids. I was not innocent either. but at the same God called for peace in my home and for the safety of my children. I left my husband last year and I have dedicated my life to living for Jesus I am finally free.

  • @truluvizmynethe1st
    @truluvizmynethe1st 6 месяцев назад +1

    AMEN

  • @hza1203
    @hza1203 6 месяцев назад +1

    Well said!

  • @zariahlafleurpowell7028
    @zariahlafleurpowell7028 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this. It helps a little bit.
    What happens with the trick questions?

  • @Brianrrs37
    @Brianrrs37 9 месяцев назад +2

    That says it all right there. A woman is to blame for the fall of man.

    • @ModernLady
      @ModernLady 8 месяцев назад +2

      Actually, we call it Adam’s sin. Because he was responsible for Eve.

  • @florentinadom6602
    @florentinadom6602 9 месяцев назад

    Amen!

  • @FredBear-uc6xx
    @FredBear-uc6xx Год назад +8

    The man is in authority and the wife is in full submission. If the husband wants to delegate decisions to the wife he can do that, but if he does NOT want to delegate those decisions he does not have to. He is the head, he is in authority, he decides.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +11

      Guess as long as you mean that as it is presented in the Godhead then I would agree. There should be unity and the principle of love. Men are not dictators and the Bible says ,as far as it goes with us we should strive for peace. The things of God are where God holds us responsible. When we stand before God he won’t be pleased because you used your authority to run your house the way you wanted to because it is your RIGHT as a man.you have no rights. You have a responsibility to God to run your home as he would want you to. Rights are pushed out by responsibility. But if you want to decide what color the blinds will be and what you will make your wife cook for dinner just because you believe it is in your power to do so then you has miss the whole point and I can assure you that this is NOT what God intended. Love is primary

    • @christophertutson4788
      @christophertutson4788 Год назад +2

      A household with a biblical foundation is never his problem but if you have a problem following instructions you to talk to God and ask for guidance for your purpose in life

  • @owenduck
    @owenduck Год назад +1

    Its quite simple. The man is spiritually responsible for the family therefore he is also the one in charge. He has a say in whatever he deems necessary to have a say in, in order to run the family in accordance with god. Submit in all things means submit in all things, doesnt mean decisions cant be delegated to the wife. But it does mean the man has the final say in all things if it comes down to it in a decision. Its really not complicated.

    • @Miamora909
      @Miamora909 Год назад +3

      The husband only has the final say if whatever decision is being made will lead the family into sin but that does not translate into every life decision whether major or minor.

    • @owenduck
      @owenduck Год назад +2

      @Miamora909 so what if a husband and wife disagrees that a decision is something that may or may not lead them into sin? Ships only have one captain for a very good reason. And if you are going to argue that you may aswell argue that children aren't submitted to their parents. Submission isn't a tyranny, it's all voluntary. Men submit and follow christ out of voluntary love, women submit and follow men under christ out of voluntary love. No one is forcing you to do anything, if you don't want to voluntarily submit to your husband, go and become a Buddhist or a Hindu or some other false worldly sect. No man of christ wants to run a tyranny, but he also understands he is held responsible for his family, why would a man of God marry a women who could get him killed because she wants to steer the ship aswell, even though she is not held responsible for it? Your husband will bare the brunt of gods wrath, just like christ bore our sin. Your husband will be crucified, so to speak, for the failure of the family, you will not.

  • @tjwalker1538
    @tjwalker1538 8 месяцев назад

    Checkpoint 💯

  • @chriswestphalen2646
    @chriswestphalen2646 Год назад +3

    So thankful for Gods word when videos like this pop up..
    “And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.””
    ‭‭Genesis‬ ‭3‬:‭16‬ ‭NLT‬‬
    “Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct.”
    ‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭3‬:‭1‬-‭2‬ ‭ESV‬‬
    Wives Be Subjected (meaning Submit ) to your own husband … EVEN IF SOME DO NOT OBEY THE WORD ..they will be Won over without a word by your conduct.
    There’s more verses than that.. read your bible.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +4

      Your missing the point. But thank you for your comment

    • @EdTheWretch
      @EdTheWretch Год назад +1

      ​@@BibleSoldierwhat is point are you trying to get across?

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад

      @@EdTheWretch The point is that it is only biblical truth if it is Biblically accurate. We have no God given rights as a husband unless we act in accordance with what God says a husband should do. Our main job is to make sure we and our family are followers and doers of the things of God. Church family and government are institutions that God ordained. But only when it is in accordance with the word of God are we truly acting out our roles. The only biblically approved husband is a Godly one. We have largely made more out of this in the wrong way than God intended.

    • @EdTheWretch
      @EdTheWretch Год назад +1

      @@BibleSoldier Who is biblically approving the husband's ordination to rule over his family IN REALITY?
      If it's his wife than that's neither biblical nor real. In the final analysis God joins any marriage for His purposes.
      And let's keep one thing straight what I'm talking about is that a loving husband will be careful to listen to his wife and decide yes or no, to any proposition of hers WITHOUT physical violence nor the threat of any physical violence, that also means that he must allow for evil to take place if she refuses to submit to his final decision, hoping that God will open her eyes for the truth. If a husband doesn't have a final say in his family then by extension he is NOT even able to have any position in the church.
      Someone said a father must act like a benevolent tyrant and I fully agree with that statement because that's how God rules at the moment but the time is running out for humanity when this world's evil deeds will be full before the eyes of God and everyone will be judged for their deeds.

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n 10 месяцев назад

      So you can do what you want and the wife should be like a robot by not reacting in the Hope's to win you over. I'll pass.

  • @Patriot-px6pq
    @Patriot-px6pq Год назад +4

    This is actually a very good explanation of how submitting to your husband is truly meant to be.

  • @UPsideDOWNworld321
    @UPsideDOWNworld321 10 месяцев назад

    19999999% correct it's only when it comes to God's word.

  • @isaiahhines1723
    @isaiahhines1723 Год назад +4

    This is heresy and doctrine of error he speaks

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +3

      there are a very few who would foolishly called this non-Salvific teaching a doctrine of heresy. Even those who don't know their bibles that well know better than to say such nonsense. only in ignorance would you believe that God is telling man he has complete dominance over his wife in all situations.
      God given authority comes with Godly expectations. If a Man is not acting how God intended and wants his Christian wife to act against God in some way should the woman listen to God, or to her godless husband. If you say God ( which is always the right answer) then you have made my point for me...you know... the point I was making in my video that you called heretical? A man only has the Biblical authority that god called him to when he is acting in accordance with Gods expectations for him. Only a fool would disagree with this statement.

  • @Frances809
    @Frances809 9 месяцев назад +1

    Plisss what should I do , my husband beating me and am a Christian do I stay or go plizzz help

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  9 месяцев назад +1

      If your husband is beating you then you must get out immediately. Do whatever you must to get away and stay away. I will be praying for you.

  • @gigichica
    @gigichica Год назад

    Right, as if a woman has to get permission to do what she wants to do from her husband. And most of the time, a woman is wise than a man, so how does it make sense that she follow him???? Make that make sense to me

  • @reformedzachurban1825
    @reformedzachurban1825 Год назад

    Or what if the husband doesn’t believe and the wife does? How would that work then if the husband is the head and he doesn’t even believe in God

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n 10 месяцев назад

      They're unequally yoked.

  • @fillfinish7302
    @fillfinish7302 Год назад +1

    Christianity was born in the middle east with its values and traditions . there is nothing wrong with a woman submitting to her husband .but Christianity is just an empty sea shell .

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +1

      Well I am sure you are not Christian. But I also never said it was wrong for a wife to submit to her husband. All I said was that biblically this has to do with the man being the godly man and having a godly household. The man put his foot down for the things of God and his family must submit both to the husband and to God in this matter. But the way that people like to confuse the issue is by saying that a woman must submit to her man and all things. What does A man know about giving birth. If he decides to tell his wife to do certain things just because he’s the man does that mean that she must always submit? Just because he’s the man? Not at all. Some men, including myself can be self-righteous and bullheaded and tries to make decisions that can in the long run be hurtful. The man is supposed to know the things of God and run his household accordingly. God is not giving man free reign to act and to make decisions however he sees fit. God put man in authority to do and to serve God the way that God says. God says that man and women are different. Each have their own strengths and weaknesses. When a man comes together with his wife they become one. He is supposed to always act in the best interest of her and his family and this means that he must always submit to God and his ways. If a man is not doing this then he has no business expecting his wife to submit to him because he is not submitting to God.

  • @krisluvsutube2684
    @krisluvsutube2684 Год назад +1

    I like you. You give me things to think about. Thanks.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +2

      Thank you for saying that. My whole purpose is to make people think about what they believe. As a Christian our foundation is scripture. this is how we know who Jesus is and how to have faith in God. there are many "BIBLE " believers out there who really don't stand on the word without corrupting it. Some even say they believe in Jesus but not the Bible, Like Muslims. it is not even the same Jesus, but many do not know this because they don't actually know scripture. i Hope that this is where my channel will be helpful. Gods best to you

  • @armyantlocsta
    @armyantlocsta Год назад

    Western “Christianity” is oftentimes not biblical & oftentimes feminizes men & teaches women to be masculine. It’s spiritual transgenderism. It’s one reason that divorce is so prevalent. It wasn’t a couple of generations ago when each gender knew their biblical (& historical) gender roles

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n 10 месяцев назад

      When divorce was prevalent, women were still being mistreated under the guise of submission being twisted by these weak men who wish they could be women. I feel women are screwed either way at this point.

  • @jamin1632
    @jamin1632 Год назад +1

    1st peter 3:1-2 talks about an unbelieving spouse. So it's not only about following a Godly spouse. It's about respecting a husband's role to lead and for wives to submit to their headship.

  • @1533ramsay
    @1533ramsay 11 месяцев назад

    Im sure Eve came to Adam and said here eat of this fruit. Adam said "Eve, God said not to." Because I've been married for 25 years. I'm thoroughly convince Eve counter back saying "well I guess you don't love me then." So like a fool, Adam reluctantly took a bite, and the rest is history. It's the trump card I've lived with my intire, Marriage. I'm DONE...🫤😕 You'll never hear that angle from The pulpit. 😮

  • @Matthew_007
    @Matthew_007 Год назад +6

    You could insulate your house with this crazy foam....

  • @SharlaMontgomery
    @SharlaMontgomery 11 месяцев назад +2

    So you're saying i HAVE to have sex even if i dont want to? Thats messed up.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  11 месяцев назад +2

      Where and how did you get that from my video?

    • @SharlaMontgomery
      @SharlaMontgomery 11 месяцев назад

      @@BibleSoldier from listening to the whole thing. Then I hit don't recommend channel. Keep pimpin bud 💯

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  11 месяцев назад

      @@SharlaMontgomery you are completely reading into this video with a distorted perception. I am not making any of the points I say I am. Will be praying for u

    • @Abzxcccc
      @Abzxcccc 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@BibleSoldieryour a f ing NARCISSIST WOW!!!!!!!!!

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n 10 месяцев назад +1

      Calm down. The male commenters are actually what got me upset, not the guy in the video.

  • @bible1st
    @bible1st Год назад +4

    This is not a correct teaching. This is falsehood, straight up. Submission of a godly wife applys to even the little things in everyday life. Notice the Bible says submot in ALL things? This guy is wrong. Point blank.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +8

      No, sir, it is you who are wrong. What if the woman is married to an ungodly man? What if this man decides that he wants to discipline his childhood who pooped his diaper by making him wear that diaper until he gets an infection to teach him a lesson. What if the husband is abusive and wants her to discipline the child to harshly? What if he wants her to not tell the child the truth of God? How does your “all things” fit into these scenarios? Like I said in the video; God has given man the authority to be godly and to teachers wife, and his children about who God is by living out the right life, according to what God says is right. It is NOT in the little things as it pertains to womanhood or what to do when having your period or things a man knows nothing about personally. If you still think I am wrong you need to reevaluate and learn what scripture is saying about who men are in the marriage.and on top of this 1 Peter 5:5 says we ALL to submit to one another. You believe he was only speaking to women? It also say to be at peace with each other.we are to be leaders not dictators.

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st Год назад +3

      @@BibleSoldier You completely lack understanding. If a man wants to do the things you described, Then do remember that it is the woman who chose him in the first place! Don't forget that part. What does this come back to? The command of God, " Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers!". Now with that being understood, The Bible literally has verses that tell a wife how to live with an unbelieving husband, and it tells her that he can be won over, without a word by him beholding her obedience to God, and part of obedience to God on the wife's part is obedience to her husband! So.... Now we see the conclusion of the whole matter? Be not unequally yoked with unbelievers!

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +1

      @@bible1st that’s fine unless the wife became a believer after she married the husband. I don’t know why you’re getting so worked up about this and saying that I lack understanding. Something else the Bible tells us is to submit to the governing authorities does it not? If Jesus was to do everything he was told by those who were in power he would’ve never worked miracles, and he would’ve stopped as soon as they told him to . likewise, when the apostles were told to stop, preaching about Jesus Christ by those who were in authority they Rejected that Authority, because it went against what God had told them to do. Just admit that you were wrong and move on. Notice how you didn’t say anything about how wrong it was for a man to tell his woman to do things that are against God. If you believe the man has authority to make his wife do anything anytime anyplace even if it’s wrong just because God told the wife to submit to her husband? Then you were the one who lacks understanding. there are men today who actually prostitute their wives so that they can pocket the money at their wife’s expense. You’re telling me the wife is supposed to submit to him and do all of these things that are against God just because he’s the man in the relationship? if you believe this, then you are nuts to put it politely. You don’t know what the word of God has to say about the man of God. We are to sacrifice our lives for Christ, the way that Christ sacrificed his life for us. This is true for both men and women. We can both live and die for Christ. If a woman chooses to serve God, rather than to do the things that are against God, because of her husband and his wrong way of leading Then I’m sure that God will grant her access to heaven, for obeying Him rather than the evil husband in her life. Yes she should be a godly wife, no matter who her husband is, but no, she should not do godless things just because the man has some kind of imaginary authority. That is not from God in the situation. Point blank.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +1

      Now that I know that you have a RUclips channel I shall watch your videos to see what other things you believe about the Bible. Since you are a Brother In Christ I hope we can use our interaction as iron sharpening iron in order to come to an understanding of biblical truths. I will say right now that I don’t care about a person being right as long as the word of God is able to speak it’s truth I am happy to listen
      And to be proven wrong if this is the case, so that the truth of God is what shines through. I hope you didn’t find this to be a negative interaction, because if you did, then, you have the wrong perspective in coming to a discussion like this. I enjoy chopping it out about the word of God and I hope that you do too, and can do it and be at peace with each other at the same time. We don’t have to agree to have fellowship on minor issues. God bless you.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +3

      @@bible1st oh yes Also….. obedience to God is to love God and if you love God you will not go against His will even if you make a mistake in choosing a bad husband

  • @shansoup1
    @shansoup1 Год назад +1

    Fantastic explanation, love this!

  • @zakiyahjudah1688
    @zakiyahjudah1688 10 месяцев назад

    Someone who gets it.

  • @t-rex1942
    @t-rex1942 Год назад +1

    You mentioned Adam and Eve and fruit. There was no apple. Partaking of fruit was not eating fruit. The act in the garden resulted in Cain being fathered by satan. Cain was satans offspring. The serpent was not a literal snake. It was satan the devil.
    Gen 4:2
    Key Hebrew translation. word searches: Eve "again" = continue to do a thing. Fraternal twins.
    Gen 3:3
    Do not "touch" the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Touch in Hebrew = to lay with a woman.
    Gen 3:13
    Will put enmity between thy "seed" = sperma children literal and the woman's seed.
    You will not find Cain in Adam's geneology.
    Gen 5:1-
    There is so much to the word than is commonly taught. Shepherd's Chapel RUclips

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +1

      you need to find someone more Biblically accurate than the shepards chaple to listen to my friend. they are not teachers of biblical truth it seems

  • @nickbailey7429
    @nickbailey7429 Год назад +1

    I notice you speak on Adam and Eve but fail to mention that Adam will have authority over Eve after the fall. Eve came from Adam and God is referred to as the father. He came to earth in the form of a man, Jesus. If women were meant to lead men this would be reversed. Some men are abusive in their leadership and are tyrants. This doesn’t mean God’s role for is men to be the same as women outside of spiritual matters. In a marriage you are to be one body with the man as the head. This sounds like a preacher trying to fit in with cultural norms rather than God’s word.

  • @jamin1632
    @jamin1632 Год назад

    I guess then men don't need to love their wife in everything?

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад

      I do understand the point that you were trying to make, but it’s not the same thing and can’t be used as a comparison. If a godly person is leading the household, then the wife can submit and obey without fear of disobeying God. God always acts godly, because he is perfectly righteous, perfectly holy and perfectly just. We can never disobey or disappoint God by obeying God, because obeying God is never going to lead us to going against God. But what if a husband wants his wife to have a threesome.? Is she supposed to obey this act which is against God because her husband is supposed to be in authority over her? Absolutely not! sadly most “Christian men” are not Actually Christian. To be Christian means to be Christ like. if more men were concerned with being Christlike, there would be little room in their mind to argue about the authority they have over their wife, or whether or not she supposed to submit. We are all to submit to God first. If a wife has an ignorant or ungodly husband, who is leaving them against or away from God, even in any obvious way, she should not submit to him, but to God. I am certain that you agree with me.

    • @jamin1632
      @jamin1632 Год назад +1

      @@BibleSoldier if you understand my point you would see that you're twisting scripture to make it go down easier. Show me scripturally where it cannot be compared?

    • @jamin1632
      @jamin1632 Год назад +1

      @@BibleSoldier How do you also explain away where it talks about how a wife is to treat an unbelieving spouse? 1St Peter 3:1-2

  • @user-tu7lw1hh4k
    @user-tu7lw1hh4k 6 месяцев назад

    NO

  • @andykhar1269
    @andykhar1269 11 месяцев назад

    No sir, that's why the Bible verse clearly states in ALL things!!

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  11 месяцев назад

      So if he tells her to drown her baby should she? Thank you for seeing my actual point now. Not ALL things if it goes against god

    • @andykhar1269
      @andykhar1269 11 месяцев назад +1

      @BibleSoldier Correct, that would be a sin, so therefore should would not have to do that. However everything that isn't a sin, the wife has to listen to her husband. Now the Bible also does state husbands have to love their wives as Christ loved the church. So if we love our wives to that extent, we won't tell her to do something that ridiculous. Wives listen to husbands in all things, means big things and small things, but remember a loving husband will not treat his wife as a slave.

  • @blissfuldirtbag2279
    @blissfuldirtbag2279 Год назад

    Lmao imagine me relying on a man's dominion to exist, good news I don't talk to god so the whole gendered ladder of god controls men and men control women or whatever, your whole point is

  • @Discipleofyeshuahamaschiach
    @Discipleofyeshuahamaschiach 8 месяцев назад

    I agree but it also says for women to obey their husbands and it is not unclear don’t be scared bro

  • @gabrielkristine
    @gabrielkristine Год назад

    🤯😮😳

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +2

      Did you like what I had to say ? Not very familiar with emoji’s lol

    • @gabrielkristine
      @gabrielkristine Год назад +2

      @@BibleSoldier lol, yes I loved it! That was extremely insightful and extremely helpful exposition of the relationship between the authority of man and wife in relation to God!! I had to listen to it a couple of times!

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад

      I looked at your channel briefly and you seem solid . Don’t give up on speaking the truth of Gods word. I passed your link on to my friend Corey minor at the smart Christian channel and ask him to check you out. Stay strong sister. God works all things out in His own time

  • @goddessinfinity1
    @goddessinfinity1 Год назад +2

    She created YOU not the other way around so why would she submit to her creation 🧐?

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +6

      Silly. It is submission to God that matters. Your are missing the point and very misguided. SHE does not CREATE any thing. SHE merely conceived with the help of a man. But only God creates and gives the gift of life! Will be praying for you sister

    • @Matthew_007
      @Matthew_007 Год назад +3

      @@BibleSoldier nope. Women have eggs and men have sperm. They're good to go without any intervention and how would you know otherwise?

    • @njh8277
      @njh8277 Год назад +1

      Every woman comes from Adam, who was not born of a woman

    • @yournightmare7197
      @yournightmare7197 Год назад

      @@njh8277 He was born androgynous. Female and male, then he was separated.

    • @njh8277
      @njh8277 Год назад

      @@yournightmare7197 the Bible literally says Adam was a man, and eve was female....?

  • @houseofgovernor5061
    @houseofgovernor5061 7 месяцев назад +2

    Please stop trying to teach. You are way off

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  7 месяцев назад

      Teach me then. Don’t tell me I am way off unless you can help me to get back on track

  • @sweetsymphony77
    @sweetsymphony77 Год назад

    Should the wife submit to the husband in everything?
    This is the husband's reason why he rejected his wife. Is the husband right and the wife wrong? READ HIS TEXT BELOW.
    Go ahead and keep trying to excuse your wrong doing against Gods ways. I’m not falling for or accepting your thought on this matter.
    Again your not the head, you have no say.
    You don’t believe Gods ways, you don’t believe I am the savior of your body. You don’t believe God has appointed me to be god over you. You don’t believe I am the way you enter the body of Christ. You don’t believe I’m your head and your savior. You don’t believe Gods ways for the woman. He wrote you instructions for your road you need to follow and you don’t believe him, you chose different path for your eternal salvation. Even after you have been told. “I am the way and the truth and the life. There is no other way but by me.
    There is no other way but by the name of Jesus. Jesus says wives submit to your husbands in EVERYTHING. There is no other way to the kingdom of God but by his ways. You deny him and his way he has therefore now denied you.
    4:31 AM
    Respond to

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад +3

      So you are asking me if this stuff the man said is right? Absolutely not. Woman does not enter the body of Christ by her husband. Her husband is NOT god over her. We are all saved the same way. Wives and husbands are to submit to each other. Whoever said this is wrong and twisted the scripture

    • @yournightmare7197
      @yournightmare7197 Год назад +2

      @@BibleSoldier Submitting to each other is something I’m willing to accept. If I was the only one who had to submit it would make my blood boil.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад

      @@yournightmare7197 well the I guess you are safe from having your blood boil! Now all you need is to find someone who is willing to be a good Godly partner. Be praying for that for you

    • @yournightmare7197
      @yournightmare7197 Год назад +1

      @@BibleSoldier I have an amazing boyfriend. We’re not Christian tho.

    • @user-io3ru9tc1d
      @user-io3ru9tc1d Год назад +1

      ​​@@yournightmare7197 me too sis it's all about partnership

  • @woutervanham8246
    @woutervanham8246 Год назад

    🤓

  • @christophercollins6629
    @christophercollins6629 Год назад +1

    Wrong

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад

      Not at all wrong. Read your bible

    • @christophercollins6629
      @christophercollins6629 Год назад +1

      @@BibleSoldier I have. I'm on my 7th time now. You should quit taking yours out of context.

    • @BibleSoldier
      @BibleSoldier  Год назад

      @@christophercollins6629 let me ask you a simple question. If the husband being In authority over his wife just because he is the man , tells his wife to do something that is against God should she listen to him or honor God. If you say she should obey God rather than her husband then you actually agree with my video. The whole point is that the man is called to be the man that GOD called Him to be.His authority only comes from God when he is acting in accordance with what God expects of him as the man. He does not have the right to make decisions that go against God and his wife is not called to submit to ungodliness. Should a man tells his wife how she should breast feed or what to do in her time of the month?! No ! What does man know of such things? We may not always be qualified to make decisions in all aspects if life , but we should always know God in such a way that we and our family live God honoring lives. That is the responsibility god gave the man.

  • @n9wff
    @n9wff 8 месяцев назад

    The argument is moot.
    Genesis 3:16 The woman will be toward her husband (literally, "man"), but he shall reign over her.
    It started back there BECAUSE Eve was deceived and Adam chose to listen to his wife rather than God.
    What people conveniently forget is the Bible is for righteous people, not for unbelievers. If a man is not acting in a godly way, he is obviously not going to honor God.
    The hierarchy is in place. He leads, she submits. If both are godly, the marriage will be blessed.

  • @tattrichtatt3896
    @tattrichtatt3896 Год назад +2

    Your totally diluted

  • @Bubdiddly
    @Bubdiddly Год назад

    Ew

  • @faceoff3143
    @faceoff3143 7 месяцев назад

    but, the, woman, being, in and transgression..
    1 Timothy 2:14 KJV
    And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression… you false teaching you scripture when you speak

  • @justinweinzierl7547
    @justinweinzierl7547 11 месяцев назад

    Amen.