Join our free group: www.skool.com/men-of-action-free Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 1:02 Men’s limiting beliefs 2:00 Tyler’s limiting beliefs 4:04 Tristan’s limiting beliefs 4:43 *Michael’s limiting beliefs 8:06 *Victimhood mentality 9:55 *Inaction 11:50 Being powerless 13:12 Resentment from pick-up artists 16:16 Michael has been coaching for 15 years 17:25 Client’s limiting beliefs 20:16 Locus of control 21:10 *Limiting belief: “I’m too old” 23:00 *Limiting belief: looks 24:53 *Limiting belief: money 28:09 Logic vs emotional language 31:31 Overqualifying yourself 32:16 Reverse engineering successful men 33:39 Being stoic 35:24 Being hyper logical vs reactive 38:37 *Start with the end in mind 42:32 *Mimicking success 44:42 *Men who are only financially successful 51:35 Fitness 55:12 *Paying women for sex 1:01:16 Women want men who just get it 1:02:43 *The problem with learning pick-up 1:07:44 *The power of not showing intent 1:11:04 Women’s self-reporting biases 1:15:03 Men’s over-perception bias 1:20:17 Sounding too good to be true 1:23:28 Validating your excuses 1:25:23 Culture and race getting in your way 1:29:52 *Men living in smaller cities 1:35:25 Naming “Men of Action” 1:40:20 The time required to build a social circle 1:43:29 *“Social circle means you don’t get laid” 1:52:03 Don’t become an event planner 1:53:50 Being friends with women 1:57:20 Pick-up coaches can’t show receipts 1:59:43 Disagreeing with the Red Pill 2:01:14 Dealing with Red Pill rage 2:04:54 *How to make female friends 2:09:42 *Circles of friendship 2:11:29 There are many types of status
Listening to an audio book by Nathaniel Branden on Self-Esteem, intro talks about Chapter 1 "You have the right to be happy". Eyes get wet. I eject the tape and threw it out the window. End of my journey to conquer limiting beliefs 25 years ago or so... :) This is real but difficult to tackle.
Excellent format. So many takeaways. I'm 49. Got into pickup in 2009. Tried for years to apply the teachings. Some successes but I never understood why I couldn't land a solid relationship. I eventually married but then that failed too. Since learning these new concepts here, I feel better about myself. My attitude towards adversity has improved. I now understand that society depends on me to approach life's problems in a masculine fashion even though it may say something different. I will not have my inner bitch be put on display for the rest of the world to observe when things don't go my way. I am in charge of my emotional state.
Having an insurance company, you realize that most of these men, men on the internet, or social media are actually broke. Most of the cars are not owned but leased.
Nice format! Would love to see another episode where you guys get a little more into the details about: 1. How to actually build social circles from scratch (as far as I understand I would say there is some cold approach needed) 2. How to build and sustain high status networks (and using that to "fix your social media") without making a 6-7 figure income, because: how would someone show access to scarce resources without actually acquiring said resources (Luxury Hotels, Holiday Resorts, Club Tables, Exclusive Parties, Fancy Restaurants, Sportscars, Yachts, Private Jets, Helicopters, Mansions, Global Travelling, etc.)? Thanks a bunch for the value you're giving out every single day! Cheers from Germany ;)
At least for me, my main limiting beliefs are that my autism will hinder me, and the biggest one: is that I can make everyone happy. At least, I have reframed my situation to tell myself that God has given me a lifelong challenge to make me stronger, both physically and mentally. I have been forced to learn more about human psychology and communication. The more I learn, it fuels my desire to get better. Failure are only pitstops on the way to become better.
Would love to hear you guys sell the course to a portion of your audience that are currently in relationships. Not really looking to meet women but just build the social circle without hosting photo shoots
8 years of constant red pill rage, anger, bitterness, hatred, how do you stop? I’m just angry all the time, I can’t stop and I cannot stop being suicidal over it, nihilism, depression, no reason to live
Hey bro if you are having ideations it's important to know that you don't really want to end your life. You just want to end the suffering. If you start prioritizing your life around making it as comfortable as possible it will help you get away from the ideations. Once they are Long gone you can start working towards growth but for now just focus on the baby steps of providing comfort in your life. I pray you are still with us brother. And if so, I hope you see this and are able to get into a better place with your life.
My problem with the concept of stop caring about women and then they'll start chasing you is I'm very ADHD and so I'm kind of all over the place. I mean that literally and figuratively, I travel a lot, I'm into a lot of different hobbies, which means I am a part of a lot of different social groups. In order for the woman to notice that you're not noticing her, you have to be around consistently. And that's not something that I seem to do well. So I don't feel like the approach of not giving s*** about women is going to work when you're all over the place. If you have a strategy that would work in that situation please let me know. If your answer is just stop being all over the place and focus on a couple of social groups, how would I go about choosing between all of my hobbies and travels?
Like everything he has to offer here. Only thing I would caviat is the idea of not shooting your shot and only letting chicks hoping on for the ride. Everyone I’ve dated was due to me shooting my shot. That is the lynchpin that gave the call to action. If it not for that there would be other guys putting out their call to action and those chicks would’ve gone to them
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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
1:02 Men’s limiting beliefs
2:00 Tyler’s limiting beliefs
4:04 Tristan’s limiting beliefs
4:43 *Michael’s limiting beliefs
8:06 *Victimhood mentality
9:55 *Inaction
11:50 Being powerless
13:12 Resentment from pick-up artists
16:16 Michael has been coaching for 15 years
17:25 Client’s limiting beliefs
20:16 Locus of control
21:10 *Limiting belief: “I’m too old”
23:00 *Limiting belief: looks
24:53 *Limiting belief: money
28:09 Logic vs emotional language
31:31 Overqualifying yourself
32:16 Reverse engineering successful men
33:39 Being stoic
35:24 Being hyper logical vs reactive
38:37 *Start with the end in mind
42:32 *Mimicking success
44:42 *Men who are only financially successful
51:35 Fitness
55:12 *Paying women for sex
1:01:16 Women want men who just get it
1:02:43 *The problem with learning pick-up
1:07:44 *The power of not showing intent
1:11:04 Women’s self-reporting biases
1:15:03 Men’s over-perception bias
1:20:17 Sounding too good to be true
1:23:28 Validating your excuses
1:25:23 Culture and race getting in your way
1:29:52 *Men living in smaller cities
1:35:25 Naming “Men of Action”
1:40:20 The time required to build a social circle
1:43:29 *“Social circle means you don’t get laid”
1:52:03 Don’t become an event planner
1:53:50 Being friends with women
1:57:20 Pick-up coaches can’t show receipts
1:59:43 Disagreeing with the Red Pill
2:01:14 Dealing with Red Pill rage
2:04:54 *How to make female friends
2:09:42 *Circles of friendship
2:11:29 There are many types of status
Do you have other clients from the Netherlands that I will be able to connect with if I get in your program?
@@harryharrison3476yes we definitely do what’s ur IG ?
Listening to an audio book by Nathaniel Branden on Self-Esteem, intro talks about Chapter 1 "You have the right to be happy". Eyes get wet. I eject the tape and threw it out the window. End of my journey to conquer limiting beliefs 25 years ago or so... :) This is real but difficult to tackle.
loved this podcast! such great conversation. please have Tyler & Tristan on more often😌🔥
Best one in a long time. Great, relevant topics. Love your openness, Michael. Both guests were good. Actionable. True.
You need to do an MOA panel every 2 or 3 months. I can see how nicely that can work out long term.
Excellent format. So many takeaways. I'm 49. Got into pickup in 2009. Tried for years to apply the teachings. Some successes but I never understood why I couldn't land a solid relationship. I eventually married but then that failed too. Since learning these new concepts here, I feel better about myself. My attitude towards adversity has improved. I now understand that society depends on me to approach life's problems in a masculine fashion even though it may say something different. I will not have my inner bitch be put on display for the rest of the world to observe when things don't go my way. I am in charge of my emotional state.
Great topic, guests, and format.
Such good content
You boys are doing the Lord's work
Jah Bless
Having an insurance company, you realize that most of these men, men on the internet, or social media are actually broke. Most of the cars are not owned but leased.
Great podcast, really good stuff.
Nice format! Would love to see another episode where you guys get a little more into the details about:
1. How to actually build social circles from scratch (as far as I understand I would say there is some cold approach needed)
2. How to build and sustain high status networks (and using that to "fix your social media") without making a 6-7 figure income, because: how would someone show access to scarce resources without actually acquiring said resources (Luxury Hotels, Holiday Resorts, Club Tables, Exclusive Parties, Fancy Restaurants, Sportscars, Yachts, Private Jets, Helicopters, Mansions, Global Travelling, etc.)?
Thanks a bunch for the value you're giving out every single day!
Cheers from Germany ;)
Thanks guys, kick in the nuts received, understood and eventually appreciated.
Such a beast Michael! Your one of my favorite most competent mentors. Appreciate everything you do
Loved this episode
This was great!
This was great, highly valuable content and good indications of where I’m needing to improve myself. Thanks guys!
Great episode
I wish Mike would reference the first party scene in Schindler’s list in his monologues. This ep is literally that scene in a nut shell.
At least for me, my main limiting beliefs are that my autism will hinder me, and the biggest one: is that I can make everyone happy. At least, I have reframed my situation to tell myself that God has given me a lifelong challenge to make me stronger, both physically and mentally. I have been forced to learn more about human psychology and communication. The more I learn, it fuels my desire to get better. Failure are only pitstops on the way to become better.
Thank you
Masterclass
@ minute 35:00 is the truest thing to have ever been spoken. The absolute bottom line truth.
Would love to hear you guys sell the course to a portion of your audience that are currently in relationships. Not really looking to meet women but just build the social circle without hosting photo shoots
8 years of constant red pill rage, anger, bitterness, hatred, how do you stop? I’m just angry all the time, I can’t stop and I cannot stop being suicidal over it, nihilism, depression, no reason to live
Hey bro if you are having ideations it's important to know that you don't really want to end your life. You just want to end the suffering. If you start prioritizing your life around making it as comfortable as possible it will help you get away from the ideations. Once they are Long gone you can start working towards growth but for now just focus on the baby steps of providing comfort in your life. I pray you are still with us brother. And if so, I hope you see this and are able to get into a better place with your life.
I disagree. The point of welfare is to get you to vote for the people who give you more welfare. 1:59:05
The danger of social circle is slipping into the friend zone and staying there for eternity!
9:55 11:00 11:17 18:00 19:00 20:40-21:00 33:50 34:01 37:57 38:22 …… 50:00 the excuse of “let me do this later,” it should be destroyed. 1:16:30 1:22:24 No ones coming to save you. 1:38:00
My problem with the concept of stop caring about women and then they'll start chasing you is I'm very ADHD and so I'm kind of all over the place. I mean that literally and figuratively, I travel a lot, I'm into a lot of different hobbies, which means I am a part of a lot of different social groups. In order for the woman to notice that you're not noticing her, you have to be around consistently. And that's not something that I seem to do well. So I don't feel like the approach of not giving s*** about women is going to work when you're all over the place. If you have a strategy that would work in that situation please let me know. If your answer is just stop being all over the place and focus on a couple of social groups, how would I go about choosing between all of my hobbies and travels?
Like everything he has to offer here. Only thing I would caviat is the idea of not shooting your shot and only letting chicks hoping on for the ride. Everyone I’ve dated was due to me shooting my shot. That is the lynchpin that gave the call to action. If it not for that there would be other guys putting out their call to action and those chicks would’ve gone to them
1:57:17 1:59:22 2:03:33 so basically all my female friends? 2:09:27
38:11
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1:30:12
Charity scammers
Sartain afraid of john Anthony
Fantastic pod