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  • Опубликовано: 30 май 2024
  • What do you do when your mother-in-law insists on changing your wedding date to her birthday? Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more wedding skits #WeddingSkit #MotherInLawDrama #WeddingDateChange #WeddingPlanning #FamilyDynamics #FunnyWedding #WeddingHumor #DifficultInLaws #WeddingChallenges #WeddingEtiquette

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  • @kristaholman3592
    @kristaholman3592 2 месяца назад +90

    This is why some venues set up a password/phrase with the people in charge of planning.

    • @hrobinson9701
      @hrobinson9701 2 месяца назад +12

      I do appreciate that some venders won't make changes without having the contract amended (with signatures) or a new contract made. Anyone supplying anything for weddings would be nuts to allow changes without a password or seeing the couple in person.

    • @EventsandAffairs
      @EventsandAffairs  2 месяца назад +10

      No changes would be made without the couple signing off of them ❤ there is a lot of paperwork required for a date change. Not sure what this mother in law was thinking 😅

    • @williamsekely1476
      @williamsekely1476 Месяц назад +2

      I came here to recommend this.

  • @doghouse583
    @doghouse583 2 месяца назад +49

    After lying to change the wedding date, mother in-law would find herself uninvited. Got to stop the nonsense at the beginning.

  • @mariegarside8830
    @mariegarside8830 2 месяца назад +32

    I want to see the talk with the groom when his mother interupts the cake cutting

  • @coffeeaddictexpress5038
    @coffeeaddictexpress5038 2 месяца назад +25

    😂I love my son and my daughter but the whole point of raising them is to prepare them to succeed in life. My son got married last year and I love DIL! She takes very good care of my son, and he takes care of her! That’s all you should pray for, someone to love your child and bring out the best in them.

  • @rebecky5ever
    @rebecky5ever 2 месяца назад +49

    this is next level on the narcissists codependency scale

    • @kathleenshabaan3806
      @kathleenshabaan3806 Месяц назад +1

      Isn't it JUST !

    • @lisap2405
      @lisap2405 26 дней назад

      I don't think she's a narcissist. I rather believe she is just so dependant on her son because she fears to be lonely and no one needs her anymore after the son moves out and marries. Ofen happens, mostly to women whose husbands are already dead or divorced. My grandma got depression and suicidal thoughts after my mom and her brother moved out. Never gotten better since that, needs to take anti depressants forever

  • @millersam07
    @millersam07 2 месяца назад +21

    "you don't have kids so you don't know what it's like" has got to be the go to line of every narcissistic parent out there. The moment any parent feels like saying that is the moment they should stop be their acting like a Karen.

    • @lisap2405
      @lisap2405 26 дней назад

      Not every parent as dependant as her is a Karen or a narcissist. Some people just need to feel useful and needed. That stops after their kids move out and marry. This is a feeling that not every person will encounter but many do. My grandma needs to take anti depressants forever because she got depression and suicidal thoughts after her kids moved out

  • @LeslieV.
    @LeslieV. 2 месяца назад +15

    I just wanna hear that convo with James!!!

    • @EventsandAffairs
      @EventsandAffairs  2 месяца назад +6

      Its on my Tiktok but ill be posting it here too ❤

  • @MegaKaitouKID1412
    @MegaKaitouKID1412 2 месяца назад +11

    In terms of the cake... should've been like "Oh I can put that where it goes for you," and then ask the groom if you can give it to the staff as a treat lol.

    • @Gancanna
      @Gancanna Месяц назад

      I'm not so sure I would trust that something isn't off with that cake. If the mother went so far as to attempt to change the wedding plans and bring a cake, I wouldn't put it past her to put something in the cake to disrupt the honeymoon in some way.

    • @lisap2405
      @lisap2405 26 дней назад

      ​@@GancannaI don't think that becuase she'd have her holy son eat that and she couldn't do that to him

  • @dying2survive298
    @dying2survive298 2 месяца назад +19

    Some people are really are completely narcissistic 😬
    You would definitely see it all in that line of work

    • @lisap2405
      @lisap2405 26 дней назад

      Why does everyone see them as narcisstists? Some people just wanna feel needed and useful in life and that ends when their kids move out. Can end in depression and suicidal thoughts, too. Ever thought about that?

    • @dying2survive298
      @dying2survive298 26 дней назад

      ⁠@@lisap2405 “but my James needs to know his mommy knows him best”
      😂

    • @lisap2405
      @lisap2405 26 дней назад

      @@dying2survive298 Yeah and why did she say that? In hope that he will remember her being always there for him, remember her loving him and caring for him no matter what happens to his marriage or to himself. She doesn't wanna be alone, seems to me like she went through a horrible divorce herself and has no one to turn to but her son. Often kids seem to forget about their parents once they moved out. She wants to prevent that from happening. But surely you won't ever change your mind no matter what perspective I show you

  • @mazmellem2773
    @mazmellem2773 Месяц назад +6

    "Can't you just change the date?"
    "Well, first I need to check the venue and vendors are all available on the new date. Secondly, I need to calculate the cancellation fees from each vendor for the original date, all of which you'll be paying, won't you, Patricia?"

  • @susanvinson2667
    @susanvinson2667 2 месяца назад +14

    I feel sorry for that couple. They’ll have to end up going no contact with that crazy mama.

  • @catherinekellogg1771
    @catherinekellogg1771 2 месяца назад +10

    Wow, some mother-in-law’s. I’m really enjoying watching your videos.

  • @mihaelaparvu7585
    @mihaelaparvu7585 19 дней назад

    Just bring her cake in the kitchen and have all the staff eat it before the actual wedding cake comes out. 😂

  • @BartlebyHiggensworth
    @BartlebyHiggensworth Месяц назад +3

    "Now, where can I put this cake." Correct answer: "Bend over and I'll show you!"

  • @tinaclayton547
    @tinaclayton547 Месяц назад +4

    My friends grooms x girlfriends new boyfriends cousin tried to get her wedding cancelled. Im not even joking. We found out about it because the cincher. They were getting married at the hotel he was the event planner for. So he answered the call when it dealt with a wedding. The guy pretended to be him, went through the entire thing, the groom just thought "lets see how stupid they are" and went along and "oh no" wouldn't you know the price is higher since its being changed to a PRIME time. Well they had to pay the price and they said they could. The groom filed identity theft because the account they used to pay was actually His. He didnt even know anyrhing about who it was he just thought someone was being a dumba$$.
    When he learned who it was from the family of the ex. (He was close with her brother) He was surprised and had a good laugh. The ex is one thing, but the cousin of the new boyfriend was insane. And why would they think it would work? Bcause the ex knew his job it wasnt a new one. She knew where he worked. Lol

  • @gamingnerdgirlz
    @gamingnerdgirlz Месяц назад

    “I am his world he is mine”
    Me: ma’am your not marrying your son are you ? If so then we need to move this party to Alabama. oh your not. Then you need to talk to the W.I.F.E. And get her to clear it with her. By bye.” 😘

  • @alfr1
    @alfr1 29 дней назад +1

    Go ahead and convince the MIL that all have changed the date.

  • @CyclingM1867
    @CyclingM1867 2 месяца назад +2

    My mom was never like that with my brother when he got married, thankfully.

  • @Kelly_Ben
    @Kelly_Ben Месяц назад +1

    Uninvited. And if the husband to be doesn't agree, the wedding date might be canceled, instead of moved.

  • @aschmidtbrille
    @aschmidtbrille Месяц назад +1

    I didn't know that some people would like to have their kids wedding on their birthday. Last year, I married on my dad's birthday. It was the day before our anniversary and our anniversary was already booked. So we asked beforehand, if it was okay for him. He wasn't too eager but he agreed since we had a personal reason and he wasn't having a major birthday. It still feels a bit weird to share the day because I don't want to "overpower" his birthday in the future.

    • @TheLovelyMissBeans
      @TheLovelyMissBeans Месяц назад

      Well, that's the thing...she wants to claim their anniversary every year. She wants to make sure their special day ends up being about her.

  • @lindaleelaw5277
    @lindaleelaw5277 2 месяца назад +6

    Grooms be honest. You've given in to mummy all your life Be a man ! Or be stuck with her for life
    Love cannot overcome a sonny boy and his momny .
    When my dad picked my mom,and they grew up together , my grandma, his mother found out she threatened to " jump out a window " .
    My mom,from Brookkyn replied , " yeah, she lives in a basement apartment .

  • @lisap2405
    @lisap2405 26 дней назад

    My grandma always wanted to feel needed and therefore got depression and suicidal thoughts when her two kids moved out. I can see why this mom does that, although it feels very weird. Maybe her husband and her got divorced way before that or he even died, what makes her feel lonely without her children around. People always have a reason for their behaviour, you just need to figure thta out so you can help them stop that. Not all people are narcisstists just because they do act a little weird or dependant on others. A narcissist would never say that someone is their world to them, that's way too positive for them to say

  • @Neicorr
    @Neicorr Месяц назад +1

    Oedipus in reverse.

  • @fukushuu_bara
    @fukushuu_bara 2 месяца назад +1

    THE BIRTHDAY STORIESSSS, YESTERDAY WAS MY BDAY! :)