I returned the engagement ring a month ago. He broke up with me due to our different view in life, financial & family issues etc. 😔 I'm trying my best to heal. Thank you for the video, it's helping me a lot.
Several months ago, my first girlfriend broke with me. I still feel like she was the one and that I will never find another love. I've never understood what went wrong. Thank you for giving me hope, it means a lot.
She's a friend of 12 years. We didn't speak often, but when we did it felt like two kindred souls reconnecting. We were supposed to be just friends with benefits. At least that was the proposition she contacted me with out of the blue, a good 2 months ago, after ending her 3 year long-distance relationship that turned ugly. I naively agreed. The sex and chemistry were incredible, conversations sincere and meaningful. It felt like putting in the last missing piece into our relationship. I fucked up and got careless. I began to develop feelings, like an oblivious junky drugged out on lust and pheromones. She was stepping on all her emotional breaks not to. A week ago she met someone from her town. He's kind, safe, normal. It feels healthy. Me and her, we live in different parts of the country. She desperately craves some semblance of stability because she never had it. She recently found a job that she loves. It grounds her and it helps her with her anxiety. She said she always felt like a bird without a nest, constantly relocating, and that she's exhausted. Hearing that really touched me. She needs this now. For herself and for her child. There remains great respect, attraction, and mutual love between us, but the trajectories of our lives at this point in time are irreconcilably missaligned. I asked her to let me know if she catches herself missing me and she promised me she would. I'm so deeply sad. I care about her so much and I wish her to be happy and fulfilled, but the thought of someone else caressing her soft, warm naked body, holding her close at night, breathing with her...it kills me beyond words. It feels paralyzing. I'm moving on and focusing on myself, but I miss her so damn much and I just want this awful pain to stop. I hope she returns to me some day. The tought of our potential never being explored and dissipating into the white for all eternity is the hardest thing to bear right now. Sorry for the rant. It helps. And most of all, thank you for your videos.
I was waiting for this ever since the last episode came out. Another podcaster called Katy Bellotte recommended it and I have to say I am not disappointed. I've been giving myself a lot of hard time for not being able to move on from a situation that's been going on for way too long and this gave me so much comfort. thank you ❤
Amina, we are so glad to hear that In Your Feelings is helping you heal and grow 🤗💞B just released her newsletter where you can access podcast transcriptions and more updates 📚You can subscribe here if you're interested ☀️thoughtcatalog.us2.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=ce27c7f9ab856e12c6f2bf1da&id=908b754b78
.. your depth into this topic is so profound. The way you describe the beautiful and the incompatible and the freedom of a breakup. It's very painful... you truly relate. It's really hurtful when they were not genuine. They pretended through all the intensity of communication and intimacy. All fake. ..it was like that confrontation in the hallway in Pretty in Pink. Even though that was not the case in the movie...it was for a moment the harsh reality.
Thank you for this. I'm so torn at the moment. I don't want to let go and I'm having these hopes and dreams of 'what if...' but I also know that this situation isn't good for me and that I need to let go for my own sake. I'm happy I got to meet this person, but I also know I need to move on.
Christhian, thank *you* for listening and commenting 🎧 We are so grateful that you are here connecting with us through this episode of In Your Feelings. Feel free to check out more episodes of the podcast and let us know what you'd like to hear in future episodes 🖤
Thankyou for this! I needed this. My crush which is my best friend rejected me... and every day I’m always wondering what if’s. I’m learning to let go and moving on
Thank you for your comment and for listening 🎧We recommend this In Your Feelings episode titled "It's Okay To Outgrow Those Who Do Not Know How To Love You" 🤍Let us know what you think 🤗 ruclips.net/video/Wl_RS1VNV_w/видео.html
Thank you for listening & connecting with us 🎧🖤 You are so strong and so, so loved. Please never forget that 💞 We recommend another In Your Feelings episode titled “It's Okay To Outgrow Those Who Do Not Know How To Love You.” Feel free to check it out & let us know what you think 💜 (ruclips.net/video/Wl_RS1VNV_w/видео.html)
I haven’t seen many of your videos yet but this one was just incredible! Thank you so much for uploading this. Your helping me get through some difficult times. Thank u!
We are so honored to be a part of your beautiful healing journey 🌻☀️ Keep going, we are here for you 💛 Feel free to check out more episodes of In Your Feelings & let us know what you’d like to hear about in future episodes. 💓
Thank you. In my case the man who broke my heart was my friend of 4 years....it almost became romantic. We were never intimate. He told me he loved me and wanted a relationship but soon after started seeing another girl (who was still in a relationship he knew about). I cut off communication back in April of 2020 and haven't seen or spoken to him since. All of us work at the same place different shifts. I went through dark night of the soul but i pulled through. It was a catalyst to much needed change.
I got here after reading the Narcissistic Parent article you wrote. Really fantastic stuff. Thank you. One question: I am looking for the exact microphone/headphones and camera that you are using in this YOutube video. Can you kindly tell me the brand/average price? Thank you so much!!!
Not just relationships. It's in jobs, business, emotional health and wellbeing is key when things go south or tits up we need to find resilient and let go of reliance. Everyone needs to develop resilience not dependency. Ade
You really have touched me with your pod casts at this hard time for me at the moment of someone walking away from me 😞 casue they wanted to be alone and doesn’t want anyone in there life at the moment a person that I thought I was going to meet and I invested time in to as well but it’s ok casue I said ok take care all the best very hard for me to say to someone who made me happy someone to share my time with but I walked away and repected there wishes but I really need to protect my self now more than anything I still don’t know why 😢
Edelle, we recommend checking out other In Your Feelings episodes - here is one titled "On Letting Go Of What No Longer Serves You" 🎧Let us know what you think 🤗 ruclips.net/video/6wZ_cJfQ0qg/видео.html
Bianca’s words are so comforting and healing 💖 If you'd like to connect with B further, you can check out her beautiful poetry books at Shop Catalog. (shopcatalog.com/shop/?s=bianca+sparacino) You can also sign up for B’s newsletter with podcast transcripts, weekly reminders and more updates 🤗 (thoughtcatalog.us2.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=ce27c7f9ab856e12c6f2bf1da&id=908b754b78) Stay well!
You mean it actually happened to you too? I thought this only happened to us at the bottom of the gene pool! You must be lying to us to make us all feel better!
A lot of times we get lost in the fantasy of who we want this person to be rather than the reality of the situation or how they truly feel about us.
I returned the engagement ring a month ago. He broke up with me due to our different view in life, financial & family issues etc. 😔 I'm trying my best to heal. Thank you for the video, it's helping me a lot.
Several months ago, my first girlfriend broke with me. I still feel like she was the one and that I will never find another love. I've never understood what went wrong. Thank you for giving me hope, it means a lot.
This podcast is putting me back together Bianca. Thank you for this
Aashi, thank you for being here and connecting with this episode of In Your Feelings 🎧❤️ Stay strong, we are rooting for you ☀️
I saw this in an ad. I have a feeling my phone's listening/spying on me, because I really needed this right now ❤️
Hanzeeeee facts 🥺
💙💙💙
Same..
After you get rejected & got hurt real bad over it your afraid it'll happen to you all over again.
This podcast has help me to not go nuts out of my mind. Thank you for calm....
Thankyou for explaining it so beautifully. Needed this very badly.
Nelson, thanks for being here 🎧Sending you good vibes today! ☀️
Thank you. I needed this. I teared up so many times
We are here for you 💚💚💚
It's been a year, how are you doing now?
She's a friend of 12 years. We didn't speak often, but when we did it felt like two kindred souls reconnecting. We were supposed to be just friends with benefits. At least that was the proposition she contacted me with out of the blue, a good 2 months ago, after ending her 3 year long-distance relationship that turned ugly. I naively agreed. The sex and chemistry were incredible, conversations sincere and meaningful. It felt like putting in the last missing piece into our relationship. I fucked up and got careless. I began to develop feelings, like an oblivious junky drugged out on lust and pheromones. She was stepping on all her emotional breaks not to.
A week ago she met someone from her town. He's kind, safe, normal. It feels healthy.
Me and her, we live in different parts of the country. She desperately craves some semblance of stability because she never had it. She recently found a job that she loves. It grounds her and it helps her with her anxiety. She said she always felt like a bird without a nest, constantly relocating, and that she's exhausted. Hearing that really touched me. She needs this now. For herself and for her child.
There remains great respect, attraction, and mutual love between us, but the trajectories of our lives at this point in time are irreconcilably missaligned. I asked her to let me know if she catches herself missing me and she promised me she would. I'm so deeply sad. I care about her so much and I wish her to be happy and fulfilled, but the thought of someone else caressing her soft, warm naked body, holding her close at night, breathing with her...it kills me beyond words. It feels paralyzing. I'm moving on and focusing on myself, but I miss her so damn much and I just want this awful pain to stop. I hope she returns to me some day. The tought of our potential never being explored and dissipating into the white for all eternity is the hardest thing to bear right now.
Sorry for the rant. It helps. And most of all, thank you for your videos.
I was waiting for this ever since the last episode came out. Another podcaster called Katy Bellotte recommended it and I have to say I am not disappointed. I've been giving myself a lot of hard time for not being able to move on from a situation that's been going on for way too long and this gave me so much comfort. thank you ❤
Amina, we are so glad to hear that In Your Feelings is helping you heal and grow 🤗💞B just released her newsletter where you can access podcast transcriptions and more updates 📚You can subscribe here if you're interested ☀️thoughtcatalog.us2.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=ce27c7f9ab856e12c6f2bf1da&id=908b754b78
.. your depth into this topic is so profound. The way you describe the beautiful and the incompatible and the freedom of a breakup. It's very painful... you truly relate. It's really hurtful when they were not genuine. They pretended through all the intensity of communication and intimacy. All fake. ..it was like that confrontation in the hallway in Pretty in Pink. Even though that was not the case in the movie...it was for a moment the harsh reality.
Thank you for this. I'm so torn at the moment. I don't want to let go and I'm having these hopes and dreams of 'what if...' but I also know that this situation isn't good for me and that I need to let go for my own sake. I'm happy I got to meet this person, but I also know I need to move on.
So beautifully said, thank you for sharing 🎧🖤 The love that is meant for you will find you.
😇Your a angel thank you and bless you.
Saved my heart ! I’m grateful to you all
I feel so in connection to everything you are saying. Thank you for existing and put into words my feelings. I needed all of this.
Christhian, thank *you* for listening and commenting 🎧 We are so grateful that you are here connecting with us through this episode of In Your Feelings. Feel free to check out more episodes of the podcast and let us know what you'd like to hear in future episodes 🖤
I am amazed at your knowledge and how you use it to reach others and help them heal. 🥰
Soothing voice
Thankyou for this! I needed this. My crush which is my best friend rejected me... and every day I’m always wondering what if’s. I’m learning to let go and moving on
Thank you for your comment and for listening 🎧We recommend this In Your Feelings episode titled "It's Okay To Outgrow Those Who Do Not Know How To Love You" 🤍Let us know what you think 🤗 ruclips.net/video/Wl_RS1VNV_w/видео.html
Thanks for the last reminder. I've been convinced that I had to forget everything about her for me to move on
Thank you for listening & connecting with us 🎧🖤 You are so strong and so, so loved. Please never forget that 💞 We recommend another In Your Feelings episode titled “It's Okay To Outgrow Those Who Do Not Know How To Love You.” Feel free to check it out & let us know what you think 💜 (ruclips.net/video/Wl_RS1VNV_w/видео.html)
Thank You for being here showing us the way , helping us to heal faster ♥️
We are here to help you heal and realize how loved you are 💞Keep going and stay strong 🤗thank you for being here!
Thank you so much for this. This found me at the Right Time
You are so strong and so, so loved. Please never forget that 💞
I haven’t seen many of your videos yet but this one was just incredible! Thank you so much for uploading this. Your helping me get through some difficult times. Thank u!
We are so honored to be a part of your beautiful healing journey 🌻☀️ Keep going, we are here for you 💛 Feel free to check out more episodes of In Your Feelings & let us know what you’d like to hear about in future episodes. 💓
Thank you.
You’ve really helped me take another step to get back on my feet.
Thank you. In my case the man who broke my heart was my friend of 4 years....it almost became romantic. We were never intimate.
He told me he loved me and wanted a relationship but soon after started seeing another girl (who was still in a relationship he knew about).
I cut off communication back in April of 2020 and haven't seen or spoken to him since. All of us work at the same place different shifts.
I went through dark night of the soul but i pulled through. It was a catalyst to much needed change.
This was uploaded at the perfect time - I needed this
We are here for you 💓
Such a beautifil poems!
So glad you enjoyed the poems 🤗 Feel free to check out Bianca's books through the link in the description or at ShopCatalog.com 📚
Thank you
Thank for this video. Very helpful in my healing 💛✨✨✨✨
I needed that , thank you
Stay strong 💕we are here for you 🤗
You’re an absolute godsend! Thank you so much for this clarity! I badly needed this. Keep doing awesome things!😊
So glad to hear this episode of In Your Feelings has brought you clarity 💕keep growing and shining! ☀️
I got here after reading the Narcissistic Parent article you wrote. Really fantastic stuff. Thank you. One question: I am looking for the exact microphone/headphones and camera that you are using in this YOutube video. Can you kindly tell me the brand/average price? Thank you so much!!!
This helps!!!
Not just relationships.
It's in jobs, business, emotional health and wellbeing is key when things go south or tits up we need to find resilient and let go of reliance. Everyone needs to develop resilience not dependency. Ade
You really have touched me with your pod casts at this hard time for me at the moment of someone walking away from me 😞 casue they wanted to be alone and doesn’t want anyone in there life at the moment a person that I thought I was going to meet and I invested time in to as well but it’s ok casue I said ok take care all the best very hard for me to say to someone who made me happy someone to share my time with but I walked away and repected there wishes but I really need to protect my self now more than anything I still don’t know why 😢
I love you so much bianca!!!! Lots of love💛💛
Sending lots of love right back to you ☀️☀️☀️
Hmm why not... its on my homepage and ive come out a long term relationship
You're a goddess, Bianca ❤
I want hear more about this :((
Edelle, we recommend checking out other In Your Feelings episodes - here is one titled "On Letting Go Of What No Longer Serves You" 🎧Let us know what you think 🤗 ruclips.net/video/6wZ_cJfQ0qg/видео.html
i would love to have her as a big sister💖
Bianca’s words are so comforting and healing 💖 If you'd like to connect with B further, you can check out her beautiful poetry books at Shop Catalog. (shopcatalog.com/shop/?s=bianca+sparacino) You can also sign up for B’s newsletter with podcast transcripts, weekly reminders and more updates 🤗 (thoughtcatalog.us2.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=ce27c7f9ab856e12c6f2bf1da&id=908b754b78) Stay well!
Saw this as an ad, ngl I needed to hear it. Thanks.
Thank *you* for listening 🎧sending you light and love today!
💖💖💖
I don't want feelings I have to be desensitized to emotion to endure hardship why don't people respect that?
You're beautiful
You are indeed a Godsend!
Every topic is therapeutic to the core!
You mean it actually happened to you too? I thought this only happened to us at the bottom of the gene pool! You must be lying to us to make us all feel better!
She's just waffling
Satan is your Daddy