After 30 years I figured out I was dealing with a psycho. I dislocated my shoulder and he just stood there watching while I called insurance and clinics for treatment. He did drive me to the hospital. I realized any time I was in pain he would look at me with a blank look, almost like a 3 year old studying something interesting.
It's so cringey seeing everyone's comments starting with "My psycho" y'all should all check into Histrionic psychological disorder. Hope y'all get the help y'all need❤
@@VegaRayo It's Histrionic *personality disorder smart guy. Why are you telling people to check into it as if you're so well informed when actually you're so clueless about it you dont even know its correct name.
i did not expect it going in but this was actually a fantastic documentary on psychopaths amidst an ocean of lame and regurgitated ones. great job. thoroughly enjoyed it.
Thank you, Hare's test has opened my eyes about a person I know. I couldn't really understand his behavior. I have been duped from the start, he wasn't as he first showed himself to me: kind, nice, caring. Then, little by little he started to show psycho traits, until arriving to do horrible things. I thought he was a victim, that he needed help, but I finally understand, he scores 30 on the test. As I thought he needed help and I loved him, I have been teaching him how to be more organized, behave, dress, talk to people, etc. I shouldn't have done it. I've just made him more functional, but he has turn much worse in his psychopathic traits, maybe fueled because he gets now the attention of women. He couldn't get it before because he was nerdy and creepy.
Same here! Exactly the same! I didn´t know..I had to find out! I googled his more and more weird behavior also to the people around him. It took me aprox a year to find out! too late though! At least I could run!
YES! it's terrifying to know that they can control their evil tendencies for very long periods of time & that their behaviour in jail counts, because they can fake improvement where non is possible..😵😒
I agree completely- we need public education. We could do it in schools as part of sex ed (relationship ed.). If I had any kind of knowledge on the subject before-hand, I wouldn't have tangled with a psychopath for a year of my life, and then spent the next few years recovering.
Parents should teach you about the real world and people, I would hate to entrust the education system to shape how much child believes a healthy relationship should be.
@@Jxxzph Parents are the most destructive psychopaths out there... ! It's absolutely why, during and since the Pandemic, more children suffer and are committing suicide at rates never before seen in society. Around the globe, even.
Yes! I once read that it is our duty to warn people in case we know a psychopath, so I did, but they all gave me that look as if I was crazy! I have to watch how he keeps on ruining lives! And some still don´t see it´s him being responsible for it!
U u make a crucial remark here but it`s dual edged in a way i think, people who get a psychopath that is not malignent,pathologicly depraved they wont know. But the ones that are evil they often pick people that have isseus themselves, think substance abuse, victimes of child abuse, or victimes that where not believed before are great examples. Why? just rewatch the part whats gets them really exited!! and the isseu u bring has to do with credibility unfornutly. U are being mistreated,manipulated,hurt? Save all apps, emails, record fights videotape fights, etc on alot of sites u can find easy to use cheap devices to help u document the abuse pattern. This might sound crazy but trust me when people see something on b lack&white the are ALOT more quikckly proned to help/take proper action!!
Yep, always been told I'm the crazy one, almost 18 years living with my psychopathic father almost broke me. Had to move literally to the other side of the world to get away and start healing, so glad I made the move! When he got terminally ill, I went home and spent the last 3 weeks of his life with him, it gave me closure I never thought I get.
@@joanbaczek2575 Psychopaths are born. One out of one hundred persons is a psychopath. Very few psychopaths commit murder. They are incapable of feeling love. Conversely, Sociopaths are made and they are capable of love.
My ex is a psychopath, he cheated for many years and when was found out never showed guilt, didn’t apologize, and ten years post divorce is still constantly looking for ways to harm and exploit me.because he can act charming, very few people believe me - he knows how to get people to admire him
Wow Im blown away at how awesome this documentary was made! I thank you & appreciate those who were involved in the making of this video, DAMN ! This was explained in such a way that it has made the topic easier to understand. Highly recommend and should probably be mandatory to watch in schools by employees and students as well
Exactly my thoughts, I am really in awe of how well this documentary has put everything together. Just fantastic and so so insightful. The team behind it should be very proud.
Well made documentary. The doctor explaining how the psychopathic/ narcissistic 'high' works was very much on point with that. I've known diagnosed sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists. Quite a few actually, about 15 in total over the span of my life. There's a whole lot of good information in this video. However, it takes experience and as said knowledge to spot a possible psycho, it's not that easy. So that last advise at the end is often easier said than done.
@@AliciaM5555 Yes it indeed, certain social situations you find yourself in, being well connected, wealthy or lots of time on your hands.. or character traits can have you attract such individuals.
I think more are being born these days. Years ago you'd see one or two amongst hundreds. Now even groups of them seem to be around. Because of their audacity they fool many and seem to get away with it. They manipulate communities.
In the Netherlands, people like this don’t get a prison sentence, they are held in prison clinics where they have a fairly big room, are allowed computers (not internet, I believe) and are treated quite well. Every 2 years there’s a decision about keeping them in or letting them go. Many are kept inside for all their lives.
I'm sure that I just got out of a relationship with a psychopath. He was diagnosed with schizoaffective and bipolar disorder, and would often put the blame on that for his behavior and lack of feelings. But after talking to some people about their schizoaffective disorder I'm convinced he is much more than just that. He told me he did not feel love for me and has never felt love for any woman in his life. He is a reckless driver and would sometimes drive over 100 mph. He got bored often and he felt nothing when firing employees (he's a CEO). I asked if he was sad that we broke up, he said no. I no longer feel sad but relieved that we are no longer together.
Both of the phycos in my past said the same one liners that he's never loved any one and has been with 100s of women . And my kids dad said he can't feel love not even for he's own kids
I agree with those who say this should be taught in high school (and earlier); even kids need to know that there are heartless people out there. If it's not already part of a psychology class, it damn well should be - and in depth. Narcissism should be part of it too. Maybe a stand-alone class on how to protect yourself from potentially harmful people & how to establish personal boundaries. Even "normal" people will use you if you let them or if you're unaware of what they're up to. I've learned the hard way to be careful with strangers & new acquaintances. You just don't know what they might be after. I don't mean that we need to be afraid of everyone, or paranoid, just careful. And early education would certainly help all of us. We need to know what we're dealing with.
That’s brilliant. It would cut down the high schoolers who are baby psychos. Usually teens and teachers don’t know what they’re do with them. When i graduated i moved and it was before social media to keep connected. So someone we knew (same first name) from a different school assumed my identity. She’s been very busy and now I don’t have a choice, I have to attend my reunions for damage control
There is nothing you can use in this program. The experts are coached by the producer to be "dramatic". I would seek better factual data that this glib narrative. Start with what percentage of a given population are this way ...
The weird thing is they can be very charming ,they also get involved with your friends and people you know to find put your weakness and things they can use against you.then again Bundy was very charming.
I think we all have a good side and a bad side. Good people try to keep their bad side locked away. They can't really make this unpleasant side of themselves disappear, but they do try to weaken it, or starve it. For them, the bad side only really comes out in stressful situations, or when the good side is temporarily disabled. And good people feel regret for their laspses -- they feel guilty that their good side has an ugly evil twin that sometimes shows his face. Bad people, by contrast, feel that always keeping a part of themselves locked up is a waste of resources. They feel that they need to use every weapon that they possess to survive in a harsh world & often let their bad side out, on purpose, to accomplish certain objectives. Their good side is also a kind of tool for them. Sometimes they "compartmentalize" and try to keep each side strong and pure; and often, bizarrely, their good and bad sides are basically friends and can cooperate well. They feel free, powerful, and superior. They feel like they've found the cheat-code to life. I think good people have an intuitive understanding that you can really only choose one side or the other. Bad people, who are greedy and selfish by nature, want it all. This kinda works for them for a while, but, I think in the end their goodness becomes fake, because goodness isn't really a tool, as they think, but is a gift we enjoy giving away. Anyway, I agree that evil people/psychopaths can be very charming. And they can even do good, and be good, temporarily. This makes them very dangerous and hard to detect -- and super hard to understand. But there's nonetheless some inner darkness and fakeness to them that sometimes we can feel as a weird vibe they give off. I think that, once discovered, they really should be destroyed or banished. You can't safely keep them around. They're always scheming and working to manipulate others. And their evil side will never really go back in its cage. I think in them, anyway, the cage is gone.
@@polarvortex3294 Very well written and describes exactly how I feel as an empath who's bad side generally only comes out as a defense and I feel guilt if I am aggressive or mean in those moments. I grew up as an oldest of six as a scapegoat beating post in a highly narcissistic psychopathic family and went through my fair share of addictions and overall high levels of coping dysfunction before restoring my mental health through my own healing work about seven years ago, now pushing forty. I was with a grandiose psychopathic woman for a year that I finally broke it off with six months ago and halfway through ended up in a psych ward thinking I was losing my mind from the narcissistic style abuse and crazy happenings like my missing cat and six months later her detached bizarre story about killing a cat as a teen to hurt her neighbor. It pretty much dawned on me immediately that this was a sinister confession in a style she knew I would know but of course I'd be crazy if I started asking the obvious questions like "why would you wait six months after my cat is gone to tell me this crazy disturbing personal story about yourself, especially after my cat companion mysteriously disappears and never returns?" It haunts me more than the knowing even that she was unfaithful to me, something about murdering someone's pet to hurt them is ultra sick and twisted and I'm not accusing, I flat out knew and intuitively did all along. A bit of a ramble I suppose but I am thinking you might not mind given your intellectual capacity and similar communicating style as my own. It comes down to a choice, and once you've cracked the code of what's going on here, that choice is either to maintain the righteous path while resisting the dark side, or give up the good fight, which really isn't a fight if you are just a good person by nature, you're right. It's refreshing to hear something being said by someone else that I say to people very often. There is certainly a pendulum which swings in an eternal dance between the forces of good and evil that exists within us all, or at least the real players in this game of life. To me it's not much of a game though. I feel like it's somewhat of a punishment or a sick joke but I am hoping I'm wrong. I think that the light that shines within us reminds them that at some point there will be a judgement for their ill wills and selfish ways, and the mask(s) they wear will all be in a pile of broken shards at their unclothed feet. At least that's the intuitive feeling I get about this journey's completion. It's clear what path you walk :)
the accomplished psycopath is always MORE charming than others when they want to be. they are the kings of charming. they make the best politicians, salesmen etc..
@@terrenceolivido741it took me 30 years to realize that I was involved with a narcissistic psychopath. He was charming and funny. He was extremely successful. He was well thought of in the community. Hell he even has a state park named after him. The deeper I got into the relationship the more I tried to rationalize his actions. I used to tell him jokingly that he should start a cult because he was so good at charming people and getting them to do what he wanted. There were so many red flags that I didn’t see. I believed he had my best interests at heart. He was much older than me when we met. Much more worldly, more life experience than my sheltered self. I would always think back to how understanding and thoughtful he was after my mother died. He listened to me and boosted my confidence. I took everything he said and did at face value. I didn’t know about love bombing. He was a pro at pushing my limits then being Mr wonderful. I’m still having realizations about his actions and coming to terms with what he was actually doing to me. It’s been three years. But I’m happier and healthier than I have ever been. I’m just glad that I woke up and finally realized what was going on. I wish you all the best.
the psycopath must learn early that they are differant and have to hide it. i think one of the greatest indicators of a high IQ psycopath is their ability to recognize others. they gravitate together and secretly wink to each other. two psycopaths should be able to get along very very well. i recently read of a highly educated and well-to-do father and daughter that murdered her husband in cold blood. this cannot happen unless they share these genes seems to me.
Oh my psycho knew what he was doing was wrong but he wanted to do it and he knew he could. He hated his stepmother and stepsister, so he got married so he could reenact his childhood. He always got bored but the mission to destroy me consumed him. Everyone says that they are shocked because he’s such a nice guy.
Damn.....My brother's also on the spectrum and he does that with me. We are both in our 50's but he's unable to move on from our childhood. He's deeply stuck and unable to evolve.
@@Woodman-Spare-that-treeI absolutely have no issue with reading subtitles, but concerning this documentary (and so many other long form videos on RUclips) I’m grateful I can enjoy the content while completing other tasks; that’s why I too appreciate this being dubbed
Not true. They're particularly difficult to differentiate from malignant narcissists (even often conflated with them) because there's a huge overlap between the two (looking at prisoner populations, mostly). Narcissists, malignant or not, will give themselves away. They can't help it. It's built in! They WANT the adoration...
I think some dont even know what they are. A doctor involved with studying psychopathy did the test, and found out he was on the scale. Not wvery psychopath is a serial killer. Some are very accomplished people. Something to think about.
Yes, there are callings where parts of these traits are useful. Also, the traits are those agreed on with little data. Psychology is closer to witchcraft when you go looking for evidence to back a "theory".
I think they explained it well in this episode. Gives the perpetrators a rush/power trip and may get worse due to the law of diminishing returns. Sick and perverted.
The psychopath is the one that innocently destroys people on special occasions. Like their wedding day because they are jealous and can't stand to see anyone else be to happy. And no amount of success or money will ever make them happy so they just keep on having a miserable life.
If you get involved with these types, even to try and “help” them, it will negatively affect your future, your relatives and friend’s futures, your children’s futures ( do not have children with psychopaths or malignant narcissists ), even the futures of those you work with. That is the legacy these types leave upon you and the world. Stay away from them. Remember that some horrific acts are not “forgivable”.
After doing the test..free online..in regards to my 26yr old son...i then asked my daughter to do it..she's a nurse..in respect to my son..i got 35 and she got 37 out of 40 regarding him and his behaviour..i honestly dread to hear from his father..whom he lives with..its never good news..my daughter and I are no longer in his life..
They did the test for a family member . Its only those with a close longstanding history that can really administer this test accurately. Professionals need family, schools and work/ criminal history to make this diagnosis.
I had one in my first job. He used to mix something in people lunch, spread rumours about his victim, tried to create condition to make rumours true, humiliate target victim, secretly tried to smell victim by getting close (some kind of sexual arousal), stare secretly, steal my office stationary, isolate a person by bitching everyone known to me, damaging car, hack phone etc. i completely cut off from the guy but others were very naive to see this. Later i realised i was had a dangerous psychopath after me.
Psychopathic prison sentences need to be different as they are NOT normal & way too charming to not pass parole eventually! They are too calculating and “kind” but BOY will someone pay for it!
Big government people need weak citizens to need big government people. Scared citizens give sociopathic big government people a perverted sense of importance.
Justin Trudeau. Seriously you can't see something horribly wrong with him? The word care has never entered in his mind on a sincere level. I pity Canada.
@@InjectBleach that's kinda the point I'm making my friend. Everyone says the same shit you just said until it's proven. This happens everyday, conspiracy theories proven conspiracy fact. Look into how many police officers and judges and politicians are into kids.
Most psychopaths do no commit murder. But nthey are often very succesful in a work environment because they do not care about things a "normal " person would find questionable.
These are very educational videos. I am thankful to the victims of psychopaths too . Thank-you for sharing your testimonies. I'm wondering if personality disorders lead to more psychopathic tendencies? My family and I are dealing with someone who has been diagnosed with histrionic, personality disorder. She's stalker like , very mean spirited and has zero remorse about the truly evil words she spews. I always go by my gut but feel very uneasy about her behavior. The psychologist that diagnosed her told my family and I that she would get worse with age and she has.
Wait…..the professional she sees spike to u and ur family about her? Are u related to the woman? And did the therapist have permission from her to speak to u about her therapy and diagnosis? There’s strict laws that prevent therapist from gossiping about their clients to prevent this type of assault on someone seeking therapy….it sounds to me more like u and ur family have targeted someone in ur family who has been ur scapegoat and now ur spreading lies about her to try manipulating how people see her….as ur scapegoat…because u and ur family are the actual psychopaths …leave the poor woman alone and go see a therapist urself is what u sound like u need
Well, I think it's important too to remember that the psychopaths in prison is just that a psychopath living in prison. They still associate with other people. They still play their games. They exchange notes and learn from each other and I think most of the time just come out more efficient. Psychopaths. The older they get the worse they are because they learn all the terminology and all the games and they're fantastic actors. It's sad. The life they live is a kind of hell and I was close to one once who told me that anytime alone for him really. Was that just total hell. All he felt was negative emotions such as fear, anxiety, depression, anger and so on. Because they don't have emotional empathy. They can't feel love in a life without love. Well, there's something most of us can't imagine.... Very sad for them and anybody who gets close to them.😢
Nonsense. It’s completely erroneous to think psychos should be in society. My psycho is as gentle as a lamb but used his brain for torturing; or even just to prove he’s smarter. He has ruined scores of lives, including his family so because he’s not violent he can go on and on to ruin lives . Survival of the Fittest.
Darwinian Evolution doesn't include living to honor God with repentance in God's salvation. Everyone who would harm you doesn't think about repentance because they don't have the higher purpose of living to honor God.
@@igotstoknow2 That's your interpretation. I wonder why so many dark triad afflicted people are attracted to religions. Best mask to harm whole generations of people...
@@igotstoknow2I don’t harm people because I know it’s wrong and I feel it’s wrong. It hurts me to harm others. It has nothing to do with religion. As an agnostic person I’ve always felt religious people demonstrate their own lack of internal morality by suggesting that without god there’s no way of knowing right from wrong. To be born with no moral compass and to have to be told & threatened with eternal damnation sounds like a great description of a psychopath. It’s so funny that religious people think it’s some sort of “gotcha moment” to admit they have no innate internal morality. Of course this is not all religious people by any stretch. But I have heard this argument countless times
Put your money into the children, absolutely. This should be so obvious to our government and businesses leaders but tragically they appear to be asleep at the wheel.
my heart goes out to the victims and their families. lets also try to remember these "psychopaths" are also victims of horrible abuse and are perpetuating the traume they experienced. not to say they dont have a choice. but for some, the system has really failed them.
@@eriomnyc6073I am a Monster and It Is no possible for me to change my neural pathway in the brain even if I know I am Dangerous. So I am UNLUCKY for not having a good Life with love, emotions, empathy and a lot of beautiful skills that other human beings have. It s not my choise, Is horrible to live in this way.
@@marinellamarruzzino4703after having people like you try to ruin my life over and over and over again, I have no sympathy for your actions whatsoever . If you have awareness then you know enough to make a choice . Do it or don’t . Case closed .
Which is why you need to learn to shoot guns and get your license to have the gun as well as carry one. You need too wear things like long Chinese hair pins that hold your hair bun which would be a great weapon should you need one always carry mase and be aware of your surroundings. Change your routine often. Always be prepared. Please lock your doors and windows especially your car when out driving. You only have a half of second if that mase is fabulous to blind a attacker. Never let your guard down.
I agree with you. We should all have a weapon and training on how to use it. Observe your significant other for appropriate emotions and reactions. I had a close friend that I eventually discovered that she had no true feelings for anybody. She was very likeable, but she liked feelings.
I think this behavior is pretty much natural (not necessarily in a good or bad way) being that humans are predators and it’s the society and other people who teach kids in a very early age about what’s right and wrong.
To give the Theosophic view on this matter here : Man is comprised of three essential qualities : Thinking, Feeling and Willing. In a sane person these three factors are closely intervined and balance each other out. In a psychopath they are seperated and live ' a life on their own ' with desastrous consequences.
What about those who are not in an abusive environment but demonstrating behaviors? I have had 3-4 of those as students but only one administrator willing to make the investment in behavioral development.
All these therapy solutions will fail because they're based on the assumption that a person who's hurting others will see the wrong in their ways and want to stop doing that. A psychopath may be able to complete a therapy program, but they will do it purely out of self-interest, not because they feel sorry for others. If they get a kick out of hurting others, they will continue that as soon as they're released.
Their brain is wired differently. They can even see it on MRI scans the parts of your brain that feel empathy and remorse aren't functioning the same as a normal persons.
The majority of us are not violent. We have potential to modify our behaviors. Think about it this way: We are chameleons by nature. From early childhood, we have to observe and mimic. That superficial charm results from a coping mechanism to blend in and adapt. Hollywood has done a fantastic hit job on us, leaving you think we are vicious killers. Though those type do exist, the majority of us merely have an emotional disconnect to the feelings of others. We're maladjusted and defective. Crime and victimization results from impulse and choice. After 50 years, I'm far better able to discern emotions and respond appropriately. The same couldn't be said when I was a kid or adolescent.
15:00 I've climbed up. the huge concrete slope on the Brooklyn side of the Verrazano bridge, climbed through a hole in a chain link fence onto the underside roadway which was closed, I then got onto and walked the long catwalk out to the first tower. I could not go any further because of the tower, so I tuned around and went back. I could not hold onto the rails this whole time because they were piled with thick greasy dust, and I was tripping on acid. This adventure was not the fault of the acid. I only dropped acid very rarely (2-3 X a year) and made the decision to do this way before dropping the acid. Every other time I did acid I did safe things. I was about 17 YO.
@@LoveOneAnotherHeSaid It certainly was when I was young. I was a homeless teen and addicted to coke for at least a year in Brooklyn. I ran away for good reason and did not want anything to do with the system. I ran away the second time to the south of the US and had a very hard time of it there. I still suffer from PTSD, so I lived and adventurous life when I was younger, yes.
My brother Gus having taken the entire inheritance, did not feel the urge to give his own brother an obituary. He's simply never cared about any other himself However. He seemed to be a good father. How is that possible?
14:00 I'm like this to a point. I hike alone in bear country (black bear) in the middle of nowhere, but it's a calculated risk. While it's not zero and escalated going alone, other risks included (getting injured, getting lost). What helps is I'm experienced in the outdoors, know orienteering, bring a high caliber handgun... The other aspect is I've pondered strong revenge against bad people, and sometimes carried it out to a lesser extent when i was young, but my Christian values stop me. I also have empathy - I hate seeing innocent people hurt and would not like to hurt them. Regarding sex, if it isn't consentual it isn't happening period. So, altogether I just consider myself eccentric.
I didn't need Christian values to stop me from getting revenge. It doesn't matter to me one bit, if the other person "deserves" to be treated respectfully, in honor of their life, or if they wouldn't do the same for me. All that matters is that I do it for my sake (to honor my existence here), because that's the sort of person I want to be. "God" or whatever doesn't figure in, because all it takes is compassion. And to me, it's what compassion looks like. Jesus represented to people (according to the scriptures) what it looks like to have compassion. That a whole religion popped up around that... well, "in comes the psychopaths"! Why else are religions around the world shaped by these heinous people?
@@trinleywangmo compassion or any of the virtues wouldn’t exist without God, that’s why God is important, but He did endow us with a natural conscience, that is true. God represents all that is good. Jesus does represent compassion, that’s true. He also built a Church (on this rock I will build my Church…Mt 16:18). So, if Jesus isn’t heinous since He represents compassion (among many good things) and He instructed His followers to build a Church, their religion would not be heinous, either since they are following Jesus. Therefore, not all religions are heinous.
@@sstritmatter2158 MAN wrote the Bible. The Koran, was also written by men. I can think of other scriptures, but ... all were written by men, except for very, very few women in non-traditional religions who played significant roles... However: What rings true in those texts aren't the people/fictions, but the fundamental truths about human existence and how we experience our reality. That's what has these texts endure. But to say that, because someone said, let's build a "church" (didn't even exist in the Hebrew/Aramaic languages at the time, but sure... let's assume he said that!) that religion therefore must be good... ask all the kids who were molested by priests, and clergy, all the women murdered for practicing "magic" and "witchcraft". All the people tortured, and murdered throughout history in raids and religious wars, how "good" religion is. If this is all god's creation, I'd rather be murdered as a heretic than agree with this heinousness!
@@sstritmatter2158that is simply not true. Long before organised religion, humans cooperated with each other to ensure survival. If they were all psycho's the human race would have not survived. Organised religion is just an ancient form of social engineering. There's nothing wrong with social engineering as long as it is of the correct sort which brings out the best of human traits and not the worst.
@@trinleywangmo God instructed man what to write - prophesies weren't phenomenal guesswork, haha. Many of the prophets did not even want their position because it was a tall order asked of them and they would be ostracized, like me to a smaller extent.
Had a Singer in a Punk Band , Queens NY A very difficult person , too much to put here He was talented , buff , and also the Cat Burglar of Forest Hills in the 2010s
I had one in my first job. He used to mix something in people lunch, spread rumours about his victim, tried to create condition to make rumours true, secretly tried to smell victim by getting close (some kind of sexual arousal), stare secretly, steal my office stationary, isolate a person by bitching everyone known to me, damaging car, hack phone etc. i completely cut off from the guy but others were very naive to see this. Later i realised i was had a dangerous psychopath after me.
and they really think you are an idiot because you don't know what they are doing in secret, and/or that you really do know what they are doing but since you don't turn them in, you must be in agreement.
Legit. I feel personally attacked by this entire film. I was just joking when I named my YT account 10 years ago. I had no idea I was the actual psychopath the whole time... It's kind of a relief TBH.
You don't volunteer at the soup kitchen, pay tithes, or check-in on an aging relative because you hate it. You don't do those things and then feel like a POS and then do them again seeking another terrible experience. You get some reinforcement, some feeling that YOU want to feel again, something SELFISH. There are no selfless acts.
I am a woman who lives alone, so I adopted a maladapted dangerous dog. I forgot to lock up one night, and someone came in while I was asleep in spite of warning signs posted. They did not stand a chance. She brutally escorted them out.
Psychopaths are all very different and there isn’t a one size fits all. Sure there are things like early childhood abuse and other stuff that may be the cause but we live in a world that rewards power over others and money above all else and there is a social context to all of this as well. That men should make up most psychopaths in that context is not surprising.
The most salient advice is at the 44 minute mark, "It's protecting ourselves with knowledge because psychopaths walk amongst us."
After 30 years I figured out I was dealing with a psycho. I dislocated my shoulder and he just stood there watching while I called insurance and clinics for treatment. He did drive me to the hospital. I realized any time I was in pain he would look at me with a blank look, almost like a 3 year old studying something interesting.
It's so cringey seeing everyone's comments starting with "My psycho" y'all should all check into Histrionic psychological disorder. Hope y'all get the help y'all need❤
@@VegaRayo It's Histrionic *personality disorder smart guy. Why are you telling people to check into it as if you're so well informed when actually you're so clueless about it you dont even know its correct name.
Yeah, my mom did that.
@@osajohnson1957mine too
My cat is a psychopath.change my mind.
i did not expect it going in but this was actually a fantastic documentary on psychopaths amidst an ocean of lame and regurgitated ones. great job. thoroughly enjoyed it.
Thank you, Hare's test has opened my eyes about a person I know. I couldn't really understand his behavior. I have been duped from the start, he wasn't as he first showed himself to me: kind, nice, caring. Then, little by little he started to show psycho traits, until arriving to do horrible things. I thought he was a victim, that he needed help, but I finally understand, he scores 30 on the test. As I thought he needed help and I loved him, I have been teaching him how to be more organized, behave, dress, talk to people, etc. I shouldn't have done it. I've just made him more functional, but he has turn much worse in his psychopathic traits, maybe fueled because he gets now the attention of women. He couldn't get it before because he was nerdy and creepy.
Same here! Exactly the same! I didn´t know..I had to find out! I googled his more and more weird behavior also to the people around him. It took me aprox a year to find out! too late though! At least I could run!
They learn and grow worse one way or another. What matters is that you learn and grow better, dear one. Much love
Good behavior in prison is no guarantee of good behavior when released. Psychopaths who hurt people or are violent shouldn't be released imo
TRUTH!
YES! it's terrifying to know that they can control their evil tendencies for very long periods of time & that their behaviour in jail counts, because they can fake improvement where non is possible..😵😒
i agree
I agree completely- we need public education. We could do it in schools as part of sex ed (relationship ed.). If I had any kind of knowledge on the subject before-hand, I wouldn't have tangled with a psychopath for a year of my life, and then spent the next few years recovering.
Parents should teach you about the real world and people, I would hate to entrust the education system to shape how much child believes a healthy relationship should be.
@@Jxxzph Parents are the most destructive psychopaths out there... ! It's absolutely why, during and since the Pandemic, more children suffer and are committing suicide at rates never before seen in society. Around the globe, even.
Or a lifetime recovering
20 years stuck 5 years free and I’m waiting on the police now he doesn’t stop 😢
No, not in sex ed that’s controversial. In a budgeting class would be better.
Another very sad thing is when someone is trying to warn others about this psychopath,,,, They are NOT believed until it's too late.!!!!😪
That's another trait: no one believes he is evil. He's totally believed and liked. The one that I know is like that.
Yes! I once read that it is our duty to warn people in case we know a psychopath, so I did, but they all gave me that look as if I was crazy! I have to watch how he keeps on ruining lives! And some still don´t see it´s him being responsible for it!
@@areagial🎯 betrayal blindness by charm and desire for ???
U u make a crucial remark here but it`s dual edged in a way i think, people who get a psychopath that is not malignent,pathologicly depraved they wont know. But the ones that are evil they often pick people that have isseus themselves, think substance abuse, victimes of child abuse, or victimes that where not believed before are great examples. Why? just rewatch the part whats gets them really exited!! and the isseu u bring has to do with credibility unfornutly. U are being mistreated,manipulated,hurt? Save all apps, emails, record fights videotape fights, etc on alot of sites u can find easy to use cheap devices to help u document the abuse pattern. This might sound crazy but trust me when people see something on b lack&white the are ALOT more quikckly proned to help/take proper action!!
Yep, always been told I'm the crazy one, almost 18 years living with my psychopathic father almost broke me. Had to move literally to the other side of the world to get away and start healing, so glad I made the move! When he got terminally ill, I went home and spent the last 3 weeks of his life with him, it gave me closure I never thought I get.
I've watched the 2 parts.
Excellent documentary.
Well researched and explained by experts.
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Informative and thorough
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Yes, I agree! Please do a long documentary on your Canadian psychopath Musicians! Who stalk their audience members…please.
Absolutely the best explanation of the psychopathic mind
“Psychopaths are not human beings, they are predators of human beings.”
- Dr. Robert Hare (Inventor of the Hare Psychopathic Checklist)
I know a few people who are psychopath but not criminal
@@joanbaczek2575let's hope they stay that way lol
Better to be the predator than the prey
@@thomasshoe92 Spoken like a true psychopath
@@joanbaczek2575 Psychopaths are born. One out of one hundred persons is a psychopath. Very few psychopaths commit murder. They are incapable of feeling love. Conversely, Sociopaths are made and they are capable of love.
My ex is a psychopath, he cheated for many years and when was found out never showed guilt, didn’t apologize, and ten years post divorce is still constantly looking for ways to harm and exploit me.because he can act charming, very few people believe me - he knows how to get people to admire him
@@InjectBleachso you are a psychopath watching a documentary about psychopaths. It's all about you.
I would like to meet him
@@chebrubinWhy? Are you a masochist?
@glendabarton1914 lol have we found our Narcissist?
Prolly because it's all in your head.
These two parts were really excellent. I'd love to see more like this.❤
Wow
Im blown away at how awesome this documentary was made! I thank you & appreciate those who were involved in the making of this video, DAMN !
This was explained in such a way that it has made the topic easier to understand.
Highly recommend and should probably be mandatory to watch in schools by employees and students as well
@@JoDo777 Facts 💯
Exactly my thoughts, I am really in awe of how well this documentary has put everything together. Just fantastic and so so insightful. The team behind it should be very proud.
The fact that you said by age 12 it’s often too late confirms everything I have witnessed and observed.
I cannot fathom how a person could look you blankly in your eyes and just lie like nothing. This is absolutely not normal.
Thanks!
Well made documentary. The doctor explaining how the psychopathic/ narcissistic 'high' works was very much on point with that. I've known diagnosed sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists. Quite a few actually, about 15 in total over the span of my life. There's a whole lot of good information in this video.
However, it takes experience and as said knowledge to spot a possible psycho, it's not that easy.
So that last advise at the end is often easier said than done.
Why so many? I've known quite a few myself but that's a lot. I often wonder if I attract that. 😕😕
@@AliciaM5555 Yes it indeed, certain social situations you find yourself in, being well connected, wealthy or lots of time on your hands.. or character traits can have you attract such individuals.
@@alainvosselman9960 bullshit
their background will give them away every time
I think more are being born these days. Years ago you'd see one or two amongst hundreds. Now even groups of them seem to be around. Because of their audacity they fool many and seem to get away with it. They manipulate communities.
In the Netherlands, people like this don’t get a prison sentence, they are held in prison clinics where they have a fairly big room, are allowed computers (not internet, I believe) and are treated quite well. Every 2 years there’s a decision about keeping them in or letting them go. Many are kept inside for all their lives.
Are you speaking about psychopaths that have committed crimes?
@@ytkimberly4629 oh yes, this only happens if they’ve committed crimes
We are sick. All of us.
@@LoveOneAnotherHeSaid All of you’s psychopaths, or all of us people?
Interesting. They are definitely worth studying.
AMAZING documentary!!!!
I'm sure that I just got out of a relationship with a psychopath. He was diagnosed with schizoaffective and bipolar disorder, and would often put the blame on that for his behavior and lack of feelings. But after talking to some people about their schizoaffective disorder I'm convinced he is much more than just that. He told me he did not feel love for me and has never felt love for any woman in his life. He is a reckless driver and would sometimes drive over 100 mph. He got bored often and he felt nothing when firing employees (he's a CEO). I asked if he was sad that we broke up, he said no. I no longer feel sad but relieved that we are no longer together.
You can't be diagnosed with schizoaffective and bipolar disorder, it's one or the other, though they both exhibit mania.
leahmelissa,
I would like to hear more about your story of dating a psychopath!!
Both of the phycos in my past said the same one liners that he's never loved any one and has been with 100s of women . And my kids dad said he can't feel love not even for he's own kids
@isla8718 wow!! I didn't realize how common this is.
Thank God you got out of that
Snappppp that was powerful!!! “Nature loads the gun, nurture fires the bullet!!” 😱😱😱
I agree with those who say this should be taught in high school (and earlier); even kids need to know that there are heartless people out there.
If it's not already part of a psychology class, it damn well should be - and in depth. Narcissism should be part of it too. Maybe a stand-alone class on how to protect yourself from potentially harmful people & how to establish personal boundaries.
Even "normal" people will use you if you let them or if you're unaware of what they're up to. I've learned the hard way to be careful with strangers & new acquaintances. You just don't know what they might be after.
I don't mean that we need to be afraid of everyone, or paranoid, just careful. And early education would certainly help all of us. We need to know what we're dealing with.
Psychopaths in treatment,only become better psychopaths.
So true.
EXACTLY!
I feel so bad for the people who got scammed by earl jones... Their rage must be unimaginable
This stuff should be taught in High School
That’s brilliant. It would cut down the high schoolers who are baby psychos. Usually teens and teachers don’t know what they’re do with them. When i graduated i moved and it was before social media to keep connected. So someone we knew (same first name) from a different school assumed my identity. She’s been very busy and now I don’t have a choice, I have to attend my reunions for damage control
The problem with that is that the majority of teenagers will test as at least somewhat psychopathic and narcissistic
It really should and also other disorders. Kids need knowledge of other humans to be able to protect themselves and to have empathy towards others
Yes, it's essential life skills
No, Parents should teach it at the home!!!
Psychopaths don't change. Period.
Nor do people diagnosed with NPD, in other words narcissists.
Agree. Look at Edwin Kemper.
Not sure about sociopaths.
@@robertdeland3390They cannot either.
They Don't and they can't
Extraordinary magnificent documentary.....you learn a lot from watching this.
...mostly, that its not a documentary at all, but a piece of purposfully misleading propaganda against a minority.
There is nothing you can use in this program. The experts are coached by the producer to be "dramatic". I would seek better factual data that this glib narrative. Start with what percentage of a given population are this way ...
NARCISSISM and PSYCHOPATHY most of the time, fit like hand and glove.
There's a lot of over lap, but they aren't the same personality disorder.
All psychopaths have a lot of narcissistic traits but not all narcs are psychopathic.
Ah, the malignant narcissist. I had an eight year relationship with one of those. I'm two years out, but still feel the effects every day.
@@trinleywangmoHe never said they were the same...just that there's a high degree of comorbidity.
Yes
The weird thing is they can be very charming ,they also get involved with your friends and people you know to find put your weakness and things they can use against you.then again Bundy was very charming.
I think we all have a good side and a bad side. Good people try to keep their bad side locked away. They can't really make this unpleasant side of themselves disappear, but they do try to weaken it, or starve it. For them, the bad side only really comes out in stressful situations, or when the good side is temporarily disabled. And good people feel regret for their laspses -- they feel guilty that their good side has an ugly evil twin that sometimes shows his face. Bad people, by contrast, feel that always keeping a part of themselves locked up is a waste of resources. They feel that they need to use every weapon that they possess to survive in a harsh world & often let their bad side out, on purpose, to accomplish certain objectives. Their good side is also a kind of tool for them. Sometimes they "compartmentalize" and try to keep each side strong and pure; and often, bizarrely, their good and bad sides are basically friends and can cooperate well. They feel free, powerful, and superior. They feel like they've found the cheat-code to life.
I think good people have an intuitive understanding that you can really only choose one side or the other. Bad people, who are greedy and selfish by nature, want it all. This kinda works for them for a while, but, I think in the end their goodness becomes fake, because goodness isn't really a tool, as they think, but is a gift we enjoy giving away.
Anyway, I agree that evil people/psychopaths can be very charming. And they can even do good, and be good, temporarily. This makes them very dangerous and hard to detect -- and super hard to understand. But there's nonetheless some inner darkness and fakeness to them that sometimes we can feel as a weird vibe they give off. I think that, once discovered, they really should be destroyed or banished. You can't safely keep them around. They're always scheming and working to manipulate others. And their evil side will never really go back in its cage. I think in them, anyway, the cage is gone.
@@polarvortex3294 Very well written and describes exactly how I feel as an empath who's bad side generally only comes out as a defense and I feel guilt if I am aggressive or mean in those moments. I grew up as an oldest of six as a scapegoat beating post in a highly narcissistic psychopathic family and went through my fair share of addictions and overall high levels of coping dysfunction before restoring my mental health through my own healing work about seven years ago, now pushing forty.
I was with a grandiose psychopathic woman for a year that I finally broke it off with six months ago and halfway through ended up in a psych ward thinking I was losing my mind from the narcissistic style abuse and crazy happenings like my missing cat and six months later her detached bizarre story about killing a cat as a teen to hurt her neighbor. It pretty much dawned on me immediately that this was a sinister confession in a style she knew I would know but of course I'd be crazy if I started asking the obvious questions like "why would you wait six months after my cat is gone to tell me this crazy disturbing personal story about yourself, especially after my cat companion mysteriously disappears and never returns?" It haunts me more than the knowing even that she was unfaithful to me, something about murdering someone's pet to hurt them is ultra sick and twisted and I'm not accusing, I flat out knew and intuitively did all along.
A bit of a ramble I suppose but I am thinking you might not mind given your intellectual capacity and similar communicating style as my own.
It comes down to a choice, and once you've cracked the code of what's going on here, that choice is either to maintain the righteous path while resisting the dark side, or give up the good fight, which really isn't a fight if you are just a good person by nature, you're right. It's refreshing to hear something being said by someone else that I say to people very often. There is certainly a pendulum which swings in an eternal dance between the forces of good and evil that exists within us all, or at least the real players in this game of life. To me it's not much of a game though. I feel like it's somewhat of a punishment or a sick joke but I am hoping I'm wrong.
I think that the light that shines within us reminds them that at some point there will be a judgement for their ill wills and selfish ways, and the mask(s) they wear will all be in a pile of broken shards at their unclothed feet. At least that's the intuitive feeling I get about this journey's completion.
It's clear what path you walk :)
A shallow and hollow charm...
the accomplished psycopath is always MORE charming than others when they want to be. they are the kings of charming. they make the best politicians, salesmen etc..
@@terrenceolivido741it took me 30 years to realize that I was involved with a narcissistic psychopath. He was charming and funny. He was extremely successful. He was well thought of in the community. Hell he even has a state park named after him.
The deeper I got into the relationship the more I tried to rationalize his actions. I used to tell him jokingly that he should start a cult because he was so good at charming people and getting them to do what he wanted.
There were so many red flags that I didn’t see. I believed he had my best interests at heart. He was much older than me when we met. Much more worldly, more life experience than my sheltered self.
I would always think back to how understanding and thoughtful he was after my mother died. He listened to me and boosted my confidence.
I took everything he said and did at face value. I didn’t know about love bombing. He was a pro at pushing my limits then being Mr wonderful.
I’m still having realizations about his actions and coming to terms with what he was actually doing to me. It’s been three years.
But I’m happier and healthier than I have ever been. I’m just glad that I woke up and finally realized what was going on. I wish you all the best.
One in one hundred is a very chilling statistic 😮
Congratulations on the documentary. Thank you really.
"Who are you going to believe, me or your lying eyes?" Sadly, I know this personality very well. I hope to never see it again.
Psychopaths' super power is how normal they can appear when the situation calls for it, their the consummate actors
the psycopath must learn early that they are differant and have to hide it. i think one of the greatest indicators of a high IQ psycopath is their ability to recognize others. they gravitate together and secretly wink to each other. two psycopaths should be able to get along very very well. i recently read of a highly educated and well-to-do father and daughter that murdered her husband in cold blood. this cannot happen unless they share these genes seems to me.
"Super Power"? Are you age 6?
@@LoveOneAnotherHeSaid gee whiz who woke up on the wrong side of the bed today?
@jdevine42 yea someone was getting upset over pretty much nothing! Doesn't it make u laugh how people respond 2 comments?
* they're, not their!
This is incredible thank you
I love watching people looking in from the outside and explaining it so eloquently. It's a foolhardy endeavor.
Oh my psycho knew what he was doing was wrong but he wanted to do it and he knew he could. He hated his stepmother and stepsister, so he got married so he could reenact his childhood. He always got bored but the mission to destroy me consumed him. Everyone says that they are shocked because he’s such a nice guy.
Your psycho?
Damn.....My brother's also on the spectrum and he does that with me. We are both in our 50's but he's unable to move on from our childhood. He's deeply stuck and unable to evolve.
I believe they are born their brains are crooked at birth
Excuse me did you own him?
@@InjectBleach people just sharing their experiences here mate
10/10 for dubbing instead of making us read.
I’d rather hear the French. Surely you’re capable of reading?
@@Woodman-Spare-that-tree I can read, but I can also do other things while listening.
@@Woodman-Spare-that-treeI absolutely have no issue with reading subtitles, but concerning this documentary (and so many other long form videos on RUclips) I’m grateful I can enjoy the content while completing other tasks; that’s why I too appreciate this being dubbed
Cognitive therapy: Teaching psychopaths to prey on others in ways they can get away with.
A bleak prospect, but I suspect you are right
What as a society shall we do with them? It’s a difficult question.
Not true. They're particularly difficult to differentiate from malignant narcissists (even often conflated with them) because there's a huge overlap between the two (looking at prisoner populations, mostly). Narcissists, malignant or not, will give themselves away. They can't help it. It's built in! They WANT the adoration...
@@internetperson9121cognitive therapy ain't worth a 💩
Agree! The therapists egos are so caught up in trying to fix people that they get taken too.
What a terrible thing , to rob people like that.😢
I think some dont even know what they are. A doctor involved with studying psychopathy did the test, and found out he was on the scale. Not wvery psychopath is a serial killer. Some are very accomplished people. Something to think about.
If conscience is there...and self awareness they can become brilliant in their fields. H g tutor is one isn't he. But controls himself.
Yeah that doctor is professor Fallon and he is in this documentary
@@Geeronimo99who is h g tutor?
Yes, there are callings where parts of these traits are useful. Also, the traits are those agreed on with little data. Psychology is closer to witchcraft when you go looking for evidence to back a "theory".
I agree. On a wide spectrum.
This whole documentary is absolutely brilliant, the best I’ve seen on this matter. Very well done.
Rape is not a sexual act but rather a act of violence
Yeah, catch phrases without backing in data.
@@LoveOneAnotherHeSaid Well, the _data_ shows he's right. It's always about power.
Sexual violence.
I think they explained it well in this episode. Gives the perpetrators a rush/power trip and may get worse due to the law of diminishing returns. Sick and perverted.
Yep CONTROL
The more I have heard what a psychopath is the more I realise I have had close relationships with them.
1 in 6 people are narcissists. You're more likely to come across those than actual Psychopaths.
were they annoying to be around
Pay attention to the patterns.
No more excuses.
Observe.
Identify.
Remove.
That is just simple and lifesaving ..well put..I may tattoo it on my forehead lol..ty
Avoid. Avoid. Don’t look back. Just avoid and act as if they never existed. It’s the only way to fight back against these demons
Do not engage. They will try to provoke, cajole, bribe, threaten you back in. Don't.
The psychopath is the one that innocently destroys people on special occasions. Like their wedding day because they are jealous and can't stand to see anyone else be to happy. And no amount of success or money will ever make them happy so they just keep on having a miserable life.
So true! But, there is nothing innocent about them.
If you get involved with these types, even to try and “help” them, it will negatively affect your future, your relatives and friend’s futures, your children’s futures ( do not have children with psychopaths or malignant narcissists ), even the futures of those you work with. That is the legacy these types leave upon you and the world. Stay away from them. Remember that some horrific acts are not “forgivable”.
Excellent documentary 👌
Trust your intuition and dont doubt yourselves. Watch out for the red flags and the bad body language. 😮
A psychopath can't un-psychopath himself in prison. He just want's to be released and he will behave to get out.
After doing the test..free online..in regards to my 26yr old son...i then asked my daughter to do it..she's a nurse..in respect to my son..i got 35 and she got 37 out of 40 regarding him and his behaviour..i honestly dread to hear from his father..whom he lives with..its never good news..my daughter and I are no longer in his life..
The results of the HARE checklist are not valid when self-administered, fyi.
They did the test for a family member . Its only those with a close longstanding history that can really administer this test accurately. Professionals need family, schools and work/ criminal history to make this diagnosis.
@@kimrobinson6285it wasnt for them it was their observations of the son/brother.
I had one in my first job. He used to mix something in people lunch, spread rumours about his victim, tried to create condition to make rumours true, humiliate target victim, secretly tried to smell victim by getting close (some kind of sexual arousal), stare secretly, steal my office stationary, isolate a person by bitching everyone known to me, damaging car, hack phone etc.
i completely cut off from the guy but others were very naive to see this. Later i realised i was had a dangerous psychopath after me.
There sense of smell is not very good it's one of there traits to being one Google it if you want to
I've put one in court, he conned me, it;s given me psychogenic tremor
Psychopathic prison sentences need to be different as they are NOT normal & way too charming to not pass parole eventually! They are too calculating and “kind” but BOY will someone pay for it!
The Canadian (in) justice system is a shame.
They seem like they don't care about the safety of the society 😢
Big government people need weak citizens to need big government people.
Scared citizens give sociopathic big government people a perverted sense of importance.
No where.
Justin Trudeau. Seriously you can't see something horribly wrong with him? The word care has never entered in his mind on a sincere level. I pity Canada.
They only care about gays,lesbians and especially TRANSWOMEN😅
Pedophiles dont want to give harsh sentences to Pedophiles. Most judges and politicians are into to kidos.
@@InjectBleach that's kinda the point I'm making my friend. Everyone says the same shit you just said until it's proven. This happens everyday, conspiracy theories proven conspiracy fact. Look into how many police officers and judges and politicians are into kids.
@@outlawandoutdoorstv9901I agree, this has been my thought for a long time. The sentence, time is very lenient, for such an abhorrent crime.
Most psychopaths do no commit murder. But nthey are often very succesful in a work environment because they do not care about things a "normal " person would find questionable.
These are very educational videos.
I am thankful to the victims of psychopaths too .
Thank-you for sharing your testimonies.
I'm wondering if personality disorders lead to more psychopathic tendencies?
My family and I are dealing with someone who has been diagnosed with histrionic, personality disorder.
She's stalker like , very mean spirited and has zero remorse about the truly evil words she spews.
I always go by my gut but feel very uneasy about her behavior.
The psychologist that diagnosed her told my family and I that she would get worse with age and she has.
Wait…..the professional she sees spike to u and ur family about her? Are u related to the woman? And did the therapist have permission from her to speak to u about her therapy and diagnosis? There’s strict laws that prevent therapist from gossiping about their clients to prevent this type of assault on someone seeking therapy….it sounds to me more like u and ur family have targeted someone in ur family who has been ur scapegoat and now ur spreading lies about her to try manipulating how people see her….as ur scapegoat…because u and ur family are the actual psychopaths …leave the poor woman alone and go see a therapist urself is what u sound like u need
Psychopaths are born with a different brain structure, so people don't become "more psychopathic".
Same with my 85 year old mom 🫤
0:58: Why such short jail-time?! Oh, right. Canada has no balls.
The US is catching up fast!
Well, I think it's important too to remember that the psychopaths in prison is just that a psychopath living in prison. They still associate with other people. They still play their games. They exchange notes and learn from each other and I think most of the time just come out more efficient. Psychopaths. The older they get the worse they are because they learn all the terminology and all the games and they're fantastic actors. It's sad. The life they live is a kind of hell and I was close to one once who told me that anytime alone for him really. Was that just total hell. All he felt was negative emotions such as fear, anxiety, depression, anger and so on. Because they don't have emotional empathy. They can't feel love in a life without love. Well, there's something most of us can't imagine.... Very sad for them and anybody who gets close to them.😢
Nonsense. It’s completely erroneous to think psychos should be in society. My psycho is as gentle as a lamb but used his brain for torturing; or even just to prove he’s smarter. He has ruined scores of lives, including his family so because he’s not violent he can go on and on to ruin lives . Survival of the Fittest.
Chilling words.
Darwinian Evolution doesn't include living to honor God with repentance in God's salvation.
Everyone who would harm you doesn't think about repentance because they don't have the higher purpose of living to honor God.
@@igotstoknow2 That's your interpretation. I wonder why so many dark triad afflicted people are attracted to religions. Best mask to harm whole generations of people...
@@igotstoknow2I don’t harm people because I know it’s wrong and I feel it’s wrong. It hurts me to harm others. It has nothing to do with religion. As an agnostic person I’ve always felt religious people demonstrate their own lack of internal morality by suggesting that without god there’s no way of knowing right from wrong. To be born with no moral compass and to have to be told & threatened with eternal damnation sounds like a great description of a psychopath. It’s so funny that religious people think it’s some sort of “gotcha moment” to admit they have no innate internal morality. Of course this is not all religious people by any stretch. But I have heard this argument countless times
Yes they leave a path of destruction throughout their lives.
Put your money into the children, absolutely. This should be so obvious to our government and businesses leaders but tragically they appear to be asleep at the wheel.
Smart test!!! "This is my watch, you want it,how are you gonna get it"?
Much obliged.
Irealy dont think they can ever change.They should be kept in jail,they''re oo clever.
my heart goes out to the victims and their families. lets also try to remember these "psychopaths" are also victims of horrible abuse and are perpetuating the traume they experienced. not to say they dont have a choice. but for some, the system has really failed them.
I don’t feel sorry for these monsters
Not all psychopaths who commit horrible crimes were abused!…
Psychopath are born… not made..
Sociopath are made ../
@@eriomnyc6073I am a Monster and It Is no possible for me to change my neural pathway in the brain even if I know I am Dangerous. So I am UNLUCKY for not having a good Life with love, emotions, empathy and a lot of beautiful skills that other human beings have. It s not my choise, Is horrible to live in this way.
@@marinellamarruzzino4703after having people like you try to ruin my life over and over and over again, I have no sympathy for your actions whatsoever . If you have awareness then you know enough to make a choice . Do it or don’t . Case closed .
Today I have to leave my home.After being stalked for 8 months by a psychopatic couple.
I just had my gallbladder removed 😅 Cheers!
Which is why you need to learn to shoot guns and get your license to have the gun as well as carry one. You need too wear things like long Chinese hair pins that hold your hair bun which would be a great weapon should you need one always carry mase and be aware of your surroundings. Change your routine often. Always be prepared. Please lock your doors and windows especially your car when out driving. You only have a half of second if that mase is fabulous to blind a attacker. Never let your guard down.
"mace" not "mase."
@@pageribe2399 I should proof read my comments when a robot is taking my notes. Thank you
I agree with you. We should all have a weapon and training on how to use it. Observe your significant other for appropriate emotions and reactions. I had a close friend that I eventually discovered that she had no true feelings for anybody. She was very likeable, but she liked feelings.
@@kellyhiggins4234A robot? What?
@@lydiaj7492 😊
Behold for I send you out as sheep amongst the wolves... God
I don't truly believe the psychiatrist, he is not in control of his mental health.
It is a HARD pill to swallow that there are people who could NEVER be human.
They belive it is all about them, so they think and behave accordingly.
Selfish, childish. Evil. Born with a spoiled brain. Idek how to put it.
I think this behavior is pretty much natural (not necessarily in a good or bad way) being that humans are predators and it’s the society and other people who teach kids in a very early age about what’s right and wrong.
To give the Theosophic view on this matter here : Man is comprised of three essential qualities : Thinking, Feeling and Willing. In a sane person these three factors are closely intervined and balance each other out. In a psychopath they are seperated and live ' a life on their own ' with desastrous consequences.
What about those who are not in an abusive environment but demonstrating behaviors? I have had 3-4 of those as students but only one administrator willing to make the investment in behavioral development.
Ignore em it infuriates
I'm wondering what doubts she had about Uncle but choose to ignore further investigation.
All these therapy solutions will fail because they're based on the assumption that a person who's hurting others will see the wrong in their ways and want to stop doing that. A psychopath may be able to complete a therapy program, but they will do it purely out of self-interest, not because they feel sorry for others. If they get a kick out of hurting others, they will continue that as soon as they're released.
Their brain is wired differently. They can even see it on MRI scans the parts of your brain that feel empathy and remorse aren't functioning the same as a normal persons.
This is so informative and interesting. Thank you 😊
Sorry to hear of Dr Fallon's passing He seemed to be an enigmatic person.
He has the psychopathic charisma
Who
The majority of us are not violent. We have potential to modify our behaviors. Think about it this way: We are chameleons by nature. From early childhood, we have to observe and mimic. That superficial charm results from a coping mechanism to blend in and adapt. Hollywood has done a fantastic hit job on us, leaving you think we are vicious killers. Though those type do exist, the majority of us merely have an emotional disconnect to the feelings of others. We're maladjusted and defective. Crime and victimization results from impulse and choice. After 50 years, I'm far better able to discern emotions and respond appropriately. The same couldn't be said when I was a kid or adolescent.
Our country celebrate psychioaths.
Sad but true
You mean Trump?
WHY should society have these monsters unleashed on to them.
15:00 I've climbed up. the huge concrete slope on the Brooklyn side of the Verrazano bridge, climbed through a hole in a chain link fence onto the underside roadway which was closed, I then got onto and walked the long catwalk out to the first tower. I could not go any further because of the tower, so I tuned around and went back. I could not hold onto the rails this whole time because they were piled with thick greasy dust, and I was tripping on acid.
This adventure was not the fault of the acid. I only dropped acid very rarely (2-3 X a year) and made the decision to do this way before dropping the acid. Every other time I did acid I did safe things. I was about 17 YO.
@@InjectBleach Than why did you read it?
I wanted to write my experience. It did not come with the requirement that some read it. Get lost.
@@InjectBleach I CARE. Greetings from Greenpoint, Brooklyn, asshole.
Life's exciting, then.
@@LoveOneAnotherHeSaid It certainly was when I was young. I was a homeless teen and addicted to coke for at least a year in Brooklyn. I ran away for good reason and did not want anything to do with the system. I ran away the second time to the south of the US and had a very hard time of it there. I still suffer from PTSD, so I lived and adventurous life when I was younger, yes.
My brother Gus having taken the entire inheritance, did not feel the urge to give his own brother an obituary.
He's simply never cared about any other himself
However. He seemed to be a good father.
How is that possible?
He plays at being a good farther that's all
OJ Simpson was a Psychopath
He was innocent. Rip.
14:00 I'm like this to a point. I hike alone in bear country (black bear) in the middle of nowhere, but it's a calculated risk. While it's not zero and escalated going alone, other risks included (getting injured, getting lost). What helps is I'm experienced in the outdoors, know orienteering, bring a high caliber handgun... The other aspect is I've pondered strong revenge against bad people, and sometimes carried it out to a lesser extent when i was young, but my Christian values stop me. I also have empathy - I hate seeing innocent people hurt and would not like to hurt them. Regarding sex, if it isn't consentual it isn't happening period. So, altogether I just consider myself eccentric.
I didn't need Christian values to stop me from getting revenge. It doesn't matter to me one bit, if the other person "deserves" to be treated respectfully, in honor of their life, or if they wouldn't do the same for me. All that matters is that I do it for my sake (to honor my existence here), because that's the sort of person I want to be. "God" or whatever doesn't figure in, because all it takes is compassion. And to me, it's what compassion looks like. Jesus represented to people (according to the scriptures) what it looks like to have compassion. That a whole religion popped up around that... well, "in comes the psychopaths"! Why else are religions around the world shaped by these heinous people?
@@trinleywangmo compassion or any of the virtues wouldn’t exist without God, that’s why God is important, but He did endow us with a natural conscience, that is true. God represents all that is good. Jesus does represent compassion, that’s true. He also built a Church (on this rock I will build my Church…Mt 16:18). So, if Jesus isn’t heinous since He represents compassion (among many good things) and He instructed His followers to build a Church, their religion would not be heinous, either since they are following Jesus. Therefore, not all religions are heinous.
@@sstritmatter2158 MAN wrote the Bible. The Koran, was also written by men. I can think of other scriptures, but ... all were written by men, except for very, very few women in non-traditional religions who played significant roles... However:
What rings true in those texts aren't the people/fictions, but the fundamental truths about human existence and how we experience our reality. That's what has these texts endure.
But to say that, because someone said, let's build a "church" (didn't even exist in the Hebrew/Aramaic languages at the time, but sure... let's assume he said that!) that religion therefore must be good... ask all the kids who were molested by priests, and clergy, all the women murdered for practicing "magic" and "witchcraft". All the people tortured, and murdered throughout history in raids and religious wars, how "good" religion is.
If this is all god's creation, I'd rather be murdered as a heretic than agree with this heinousness!
@@sstritmatter2158that is simply not true. Long before organised religion, humans cooperated with each other to ensure survival. If they were all psycho's the human race would have not survived. Organised religion is just an ancient form of social engineering. There's nothing wrong with social engineering as long as it is of the correct sort which brings out the best of human traits and not the worst.
@@trinleywangmo God instructed man what to write - prophesies weren't phenomenal guesswork, haha. Many of the prophets did not even want their position because it was a tall order asked of them and they would be ostracized, like me to a smaller extent.
Canadian sentences are ridiculously lenient.
AFTER SENTENCE! 37:50 fantastic concept, however, it’s best for them to have the full sentence, then the burn out years should start!
Does anyone know where to find the first part? Thank you in advance…
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Had a Singer in a Punk Band , Queens NY
A very difficult person , too much to put here
He was talented , buff , and also the
Cat Burglar of Forest Hills in the 2010s
Life's not dull then.
I had one in my first job. He used to mix something in people lunch, spread rumours about his victim, tried to create condition to make rumours true, secretly tried to smell victim by getting close (some kind of sexual arousal), stare secretly, steal my office stationary, isolate a person by bitching everyone known to me, damaging car, hack phone etc.
i completely cut off from the guy but others were very naive to see this. Later i realised i was had a dangerous psychopath after me.
Very interesting.
and they really think you are an idiot because you don't know what they are doing in secret, and/or that you really do know what they are doing but since you don't turn them in, you must be in agreement.
Too nice to be true. Fyfe.
Legit. I feel personally attacked by this entire film. I was just joking when I named my YT account 10 years ago. I had no idea I was the actual psychopath the whole time... It's kind of a relief TBH.
You don't volunteer at the soup kitchen, pay tithes, or check-in on an aging relative because you hate it. You don't do those things and then feel like a POS and then do them again seeking another terrible experience. You get some reinforcement, some feeling that YOU want to feel again, something SELFISH. There are no selfless acts.
Freud had it pretty on the spot! I couldn't agree more!
Is feeding hunger pains “selfish?”
I am a woman who lives alone, so I adopted a maladapted dangerous dog. I forgot to lock up one night, and someone came in while I was asleep in spite of warning signs posted. They did not stand a chance. She brutally escorted them out.
Psychopaths are all very different and there isn’t a one size fits all. Sure there are things like early childhood abuse and other stuff that may be the cause but we live in a world that rewards power over others and money above all else and there is a social context to all of this as well. That men should make up most psychopaths in that context is not surprising.