today chose you, tomorrow chose another one witch is shiner ... or just simple find that you are not so shine in regard to people around... or because she know you is no more interesting, she move to knowing someone else... just waste of time... for time wasters...
If she want to be with you, she'll show that, she'll never play games, but if she ignores you, you have to ignore her as well. And move on, never chase women , NEVER!!!!!!
My mom use to tell me this... when you don't like a person , the more she tries to have you the more disgust you feel... so better move on when someone doesn't want you.
I saw a comment on a "No Contact" video once before and it sums up ignoring women perfectly: If you ignore a woman and she is genuinely interested in you, she will try to talk to you. If you ignore a woman and she wants your attention and validation, you are doing yourself a favor. If you ignore her and she ignores you still, you also are doing yourself a favor.
I've gotten pretty good at vetting woman who are interested in me. Any woman who doesn't look my way, and at least try to create connection doesn't get a single second of my time. No desire, then I'm not moving forward. Thanks for the content lfa
Yeah man, gotta filter all the bullshit out. The law of reciprocation of energy. If none is being reflected back at you. They ain't worth a crumb of attention.
@Justissier you'll know if a woman is interested in you. She'll look at you a certain way and maybe even stare at you. That's the que to approach, and make conversation. If she touches you while interacting and asks questions about you. That's dead giveaway she wants an emotional connection to be established. It's that easy. If she doesn't like you, you'll clearly know. It's better not to go out of your own way and disrespect yourself by forcing attraction. It'll repulse a non interested woman even more. Just move on and pay attention to the women who are interested in getting to know you. Time is better wasted elsewhere than on a woman who isn't interested in getting to know you
@@greganderson2239 I believe you're right. Yeah it could happen and the signs are obvious like Boom said but that doesn't happen to probably 95% of men.
The worst simp ever is the person that wastes massive amount of time to find the perfect strategy to catch the woman's interest and the more he fails the more he tries.
I had a phase in my life that i actually did ignore woman. i was frustrated and pissed of at that time because of all the nasty games women put on me... man, woman hitting on me while they have boyfriends, giving me their facebook and such but then ghosting me. In that period i wasn't aware of many things in the dating world. I was just winging it with the things i got (which was not much as a mater of fact ) Anyways, i got into that MGTOW stuff and i actually practiced ignoring people in general. You know, i was a person that walked on the streets wondering what people where thinking about me and i got all up in my head all the time making myself anxious. So ignoring helped me to stay present and focused on Me instead of other people. It's hard to explain but it helped me with my anxiety a lot... i just cared less and less about what others thought of me and it gave me a lot of relief. Of course... Lots of the MGTOW and red pill stuff is putting blame onto woman, which i can definitely understand. But it can become a toxic habit if you expose yourself to it to much. I don't ignore woman anymore. some people will like me some don't and that's just fine.
You know, you can put rightful blame on women for the dumb shit they do that sabotage not only themselves but the rest of society in the long run, without being toxic. You simply just hold them accountable and let them self sabotage that. When it’s all said and done, you won’t be the one to be at fault for anything. And if anyone calls you toxic at that point for doing this much. They are a fucking loser and as much a part of them problem as the women who create such problems in the first place. Hope you’re doing better in life these days man. It sucks to look back and see a lot of wasted time not doing shit intentionally. And then seeing the other side of the coin doing the opposite and being a lot more happy and contained.
I ignore her because she got disrespectful. She started showing choosing signals out of nowhere so I approached her and introduced myself. On our 4th meeting, she just got disrespectful and dismissive so I decided I wouldn't give her any of my attention anymore.
Well, the way to punish a woman is by removing your attention. I have to do this from time to time. At the end of the day, you have to be true to self. You don’t have to be some orbiter in her life to tray and act like you’re “unbothered”. One thing I’ve learned is that women believe they can do whatever they want, to whoever they want, and they are just supposed to accept it and act as if it doesn’t matter. I don’t abide by that.
What disrespectful behaviour did she do? Isn't it better do state up front that you dont like that behaviour, and if it's reoccurring then withdraw attention?
@@christopherhogbring7771 that's exactly what I did. She was being dismissive. We were having a conversation and she refused to answer a question that she had asked me which I answered honestly. I probed a few times mind you.
Ignoring strangers is effectively what incels do already. Well they don’t ignore them. They pine after then far away in the corner. But effectively it’s no difference. He’s invisible to her. But incels want to hear the ignoring technique because it enables their ineffective behavior. Meanwhile they keep giving money to the coach to tell them what they want to hear.
@@billyb4790 Haha no that was a line from an early LFA video where he was talking about a woman he saw at the gym who gave him a look as if he disgusted her and he talked about how things are not looking good out there for the average man.
A woman of value (intelligent, kind, loyal, authentic, loving, solid...inner and outer beauty) wants authenticity without games. Reciprocity. A man who is solid in himself and demonstrates integrity in words and actions....you want a good woman, be a good man....treat her as you'd like to be treated. Its not that hard gentlemen.
If your nothing to her, then she couldn't care less if you ignore her. it's really the attention she wants, she wants to be liked, even feel wanted, that's what the attention is really about, you have to mean something to her to begin with.
Exactly. Also, a lot of times, even if the woman does try to contact the guy who's ignoring her, it will be just to satisfy her curiosity over why she's being ignored, and she very likely sought attention from other men while she was ignored.
@JohnnyAllan-vj7sj Most grown men have hobbies and would rather stick to REAL games on a playstation or gaming computer. As opposed to wasting endless amounts of TIME (and money) trying to get dates and talking to bird s.
There are times when you have to ignore a woman, even if she's into you. Like in situations where she wants too much of your time, or you are determining her self-worth, or when you simply don't feel like giving her attention. We all know women will go overboard and destroy a relationship, especially if you give them everything they think they want. I agree with a lot of the premise in this video, but let's not forget that ignoring a woman serves many purposes....and can also save you from bad circumstances.
@@LFANope, and I think I know some of the guys you might be referring to...they are definitely projecting their damaged hearts/egos when they "teach" this kind of stuff. I just wanted to add some nuance to your point.
@@Andrew_406 It's a calibration process sometimes...if she truly can't handle not being #1, then yeah cut her loose. But maybe she's a solid prospect and you want to give her a chance to adjust. In this case, ignoring her for a time, and perhaps later reiterating your priorities is the only course. Or just cut her loose, your call hommie...but you'll have a tough time if you aren't willing to "train" a woman at least a little bit.
You mirror a womens actions. If she texts you on a timely basis you do the same. If she takes forever to text you, you do the same. Blatantly ignoring is stupid, but you should never pursue a women who isnt pursuing you and showing genuine interest.
@@corbdoesvids You don't blindly mirror her actions either. It depends on what you really want out of the situation and how she's shaping up, in terms of potential. If you want to maintain her interest, then yeah, I'd say mirror her but show slightly little less interest/urgency than she shows you.
"A woman has already made up her mind weather or not to have sex with you within the first 15 seconds of checking you out. So if you are over a minute into the conversation and it feels like you are not getting anywhere, you're not!" Paul Elam
Likewise, when women play these same tactics with men (decent men that is, not low value, unprincipled men), she is damaging her chances and relationship with that man.
Yes this doesn't really work, only if the girl already like a guy who ignores her. But speaking of ignoring, what if a girl has continued to disrespect you, use you for free attention, friend zone you, and lie to you? Then the only option i can see is to ignore her. If you don't she will think you are weak and continue the behavior. If you do, the relationship will probably be over but you don't waste any more of your time and energy interacting with the leech. And that is with the added bonus of her realizing you weren't that weak little nice simp she thought you were
@@user-jd3vi2pg1g you should not give a fuck, we are the generation that cannot afford a house im way more stressed and focus on trying to get the money to buy a house that I'm trying to get women, whom will only get me temporarily enjoyment during sex.
Depends on how you look at it. If you don't ignore them and still get rejected for sure, wouldn't it then be better to genuinely ignore them? Im in this exact situation. A girl i had dated for years and been in friend zone with for years has been lying, flaking, and using me for validation. Now im thinking im genuinely better off to ignore her. If she asks about it i will simply explain her disrespect even after i previously warned her about it. In my mind ignoring her/not interacting with her is the only rational decision. If i continue interacting and validating her, i just waste my own time and cement myself as a permanent back up option who doesn't respect his self.
@@truthfulpurpose you might have a point bro, but the term incel is pretty objective, im an involuntary celibate. I'm working towards my goals but one has to be somewhat harsh on oneself to actually see things objectively, in my opinion.
Ignoring works with some women. I know this because I have Avoidant Personality Disorder (an extreme version of social anxiety). It might be because of the emotional low he described, but it makes some women obsessive and aggressive for you. I didn't do this as a strategy, I do it because I am uncomfortable with closeness.
Honestly, ignoring women has worked great for me it seems the less attention I give, the more they give. That being said, I really only ignore/ give less attention to the women that I'm not genuinely interested in or if something happens where I feel the need to pull back for my own sake
Im ignoring someone now because im DONE with them.. I'm now talking to someone who i like because its reciprocated and we're having a great time doing so! No need to overthink and put on a false front...
lol I remember back in school my friend said he could always tell who I had a crush on. With any of the other girls I’d be like “what’s up! High five how you doing??” and if the crush came along I’d out my head down and be like “sup….” 😅😅😅
"Red Pill isn't a dating strategy, but a marketplace of ideas" That's the best description of Red Pill out there. The only positive is that RP gave me an awareness of female nature, nothing more than that.
RP misled you on that sadly. It takes a very contrived, misogynistic and negative view of women and paints four billion humans with the same brush. This man right here speaks nothing but facts and RP philosophy goes against basically everything he teaches . The whole mindset is toxic and flawed
@@Kima89 I agree with you that RP is a big generalization of the western woman. The real problem I have with the current state of RP and all the other RP podcasts online is that it always attacks the promiscuous women and completely ignores any self-reflection on the male side. It is always the female porn stars, Onlyfans girls and women who party that we shame. Meanwhile we have huge amounts of men that indulge in porn, pay for onlyfans content and are being told to be playboy's. So RP is not solving what's hurting our society. But I do think there's some truth in the Rollo Tomassi's The Rational male book that layed out female behaviour patterns, what they seek in men. While being generalization's, some of it are very true due to my own experiences and working for 9 years in a female dominant company, where I hear a lot of stories from the female perspective.
@@LFA the solution i found was to learn to respect myself and others but more so myself. I now treat a woman with the same respct but i make it known by my actions that if she wants to leave she can.
If we were all living in a honest world where people knew what they want, i would agree with the content of this video. Unfortunately people are lost, anxious, insecure,deceptive, narcissistic and greedy. This is why you have to protect yourself and ignore many people, especially women. If a woman is attracted by you she's not going to ask if you're engaged in a relationship. They dont give a damn about your partner.
Big facts bro , not sure why people think trauma bonding is something to play with , these women will cheat on you , unalive you take you through the courts . It’s a freakin nightmare . Been there only have to hurt me once
I remember this girl I was talking to, she had genuine interest in me, and I did what these red pill dating coaches said. That cost me the opportunity of perhaps a genuine relationship.
I’m that girl for this guy that obviously likes me and I like him back (Very much that I considered him being my husband) but lately he’s been into this hot/cold behavior and I’m reevaluating our whole relationship. I can’t marry a man that makes me feel shitty and unstable most of the time. Keep doing this and you’ll loose a good woman.
There is never full mutual attraction! Someone always wants the other person more! We aren’t talking mutual physical attraction we are talking about desire after all couple weeks or a month or several months of seeing this girl! If she acts up I think it is very powerful to ignore her Because 1 of 2 things happen she either never calls you again and you see she wants t that into you! Or you see her blow up your phone and admit she misses and desires you!
@@dereksmith2137 True, my Grandmothers (old women around 80, last generation of true women that had family, home and career) always say the same, side that loves more is at "fragile side" ...also they look at today's women and VOMIT, they are one of main reasons I avoid women today. No single mothers, always separate assets in case of marriage, choose not the prettiest one ...yea, they knew it all long before everything went to shit.
You’re the only manosphere channel I watch. I literally don’t watch anybody else on this topic. I’m done with “game.” It doesn’t work. If it worked, we wouldn’t even need these channels
hey king, 42 yrs old single guy from turkey here. just discovered your content and I'd like to say that your words are gold. this is the exact same mind-set that I have been trying to excel for the last 10 years. thank you so much for spreading the wisdom, keep it up.
Absence diminishes minor passions and enflames great ones. If there is a genuine spark, connection, chemistry between you and a woman and she genuinely likes you and you are for whatever reason pulling back then her desire will only grow. If a woman wants you she will find a way to get you. However, if a woman is anything less than interested then at best she’ll see your withdrawal as potentially intriguing and curious and at worst she’ll simply forget about you and move on (solipsism) this only works if she knows what you will and won’t tolerate. They aren’t mind readers. Meaning if you want this ignoring tactic to potentially work she will need to be aware of her transgressions or at the very least your boundaries and wants. Doing so will show her that you are non needy, have other options, are out come independent, and are not living in a sacristy mindset.
I just like ignoring highly attractive women that give signals that they are into me. Just to be spiteful because of how many times i got rejected or used before.. now its my turn
I love doing that too. Sometimes if she is one of those extroverted girls, check her out a few times And when she actually tries to make a move such as talk to you because that happened to me once, ignore her. She was sexy too. Too sexy if you ask me. She had all us guys looking at her. Why would a Sexy young 22 year old be interested in a then 31 year old at the gym? Now I’m 43 and still a Virgin but women all be fake social media queens. I’d commit suicide if I was in a relationship.
"If a woman doesn't make it blatantly obvious that she wants to be with me, I don't see a reason to move forward." Correct. You express interest, she expresses interest, you have a connection, go forward. She stops, adjust what you expect, do something else.
Seriously, I've never seen a man who understands women better than you do. When you ignore women, just know gents its giving heavy baddie energy. If you’re going for sassy cross-dresser vibes, just do this & she'll quickly become disenchanted. There's nothing more attractive in a man than a man who doesn't talk a lot, but wants to talk. Having worked in hospitality, I came across men who are technically considered "socially awkward", but could talk. I still found them very pleasant to interact with & attractive over extroverted men. Whats ironic is, extroverted men are the ones who push this narrative. It's like telling a baby who is crawling not to try to walk. EVIL. Also these mansophere dudes tell guys to interact with every woman they come across instead of identifying what type of women they're socially compatible with. So they're trying to achieve something logistically impossible. So no wonder they remain awkward & become a nuisance.
You don’t ignore you maintain the fine balance of just enough attention, interest but enough space to give her time to think, a void so she can convince herself you’re the right guy. The opposite shows desperation and kills the mystery/curiosity.
I dated a girl long term, the more i spoke to her the more she pulled backed and was rude when I gave her space she was nice and sweet. I never ignored her if she messaged me but i kept conversations short to avoid overtexting. She broke up with me because we ended spending too much time together the last week and over text so she startred to fight over everything.
this POV (of the content) is subjective, it depends on everybody's experience (this what i've been through), and yes, when you totally ignore a woman whom has desire to be with you (to have you), she might be walking away and ignore you back. However, when you respond in subtle way to a woman who likes you, such as give her lil smile in any occasions or lil chat (not texting) but you keeping to set boundaries until certain phase, that's what makes you "a challenge" to her,.
I'll tell this as an experience relationship dating man. My woman calls me numerous times. When I'm busy. It happens to me. She asks me to marry her and yet she wants kids out of me. Here's the secret don't chase a woman simple.
This is really accurate but if a woman has genuine desire for you you can do almost anything and she will stick around if you are giving her attention. If you have genuine desire for her you can’t ignore her if you want to get her. If she’s not into you though you must walk away. I’d love you to do a video on how this plays once a relationship goes bad because she loses her desire for you. Do you walk away and never speak to her again? Does this change if you were married or have kids? Once I realized my wife no longer liked me or probably never did, I divorced her and never spoke to her again despite having young kids with her. Very tough to do with someone I liked but no longer could be with. Ultimately we learn that as we age many relationships are transactional and no amount of game can do anything to fix it after it runs it’s course. I would never talk to a woman who does not desire me. If she does though, your advice here is spot on. Well done
I can confirm. I get a lot of looks from ladies and have ignored a bunch in places I don't really want to mingle, and their body language gets snappy or they dip after they put themselves in front of me once or twice. If you really want them to want you more, you should chat up whoever is infront of you and she will ease drop and notice your presence next time you're around
Some guys will text a girl they like 10 times a day, and they haven't even had sex yet. Then after 2 weeks of this they are surprised why the mystery/spark is gone. I've met guys like this, and they end up ruining genuine desire real fast. And they keep repeating this mistake. It's easy to forget how bad some guys are with girls. So there is some nuance to this advice I think. Great vid anyway and a good reminder, keep it up LFA.
Yes ignoring a girl who doesn’t know you exist will not work but if there’s a girl you’ve been dealing with and she’s giving you mixed hot and cold signals then you pull back and ignore her she might come running to you…I’ve had this happen to me in the past, so it’s a contextual thing
If a woman is giving you hot and cold signals, that just means your communication skills were not effective enough to keep her engaged. If ignoring a woman is more effective than giving her attention, that simply means that your communication skills are so bad that a lack of communication is more effective than actual communication.
@@LFA no my man I was communicating to her exactly what I wanted but she was taking my attention for granted…every situation is different depending on the context
@@LFA I ignored her because I felt I was being strung along (which I was because she admitted to doing this) and then after a couple weeks she came back to me then had a four year relationship…not all situations are the same and there’s no way I could have been using this as a tactic because this was a long time ago before I even knew about “game” or the “red pill”
The influencers say this because it does work. But not usually on a bit*h or 304, but on a woman who likes you. It is a dark art of manipulation. She cant understand why it's happening and women love to chase a man they have set their sights on, and feel entitled to get him. I didn't use to understand "Aint too proud to beg" by TLC. But I know what you're saying. This is VERY UNLIKELY to work on a woman that was showing no interest, unless youve made her dependent on services you provide, such as money or emotional support. And even then she may simply not care.
Action and reaction. If you ignore someone, that is a non-action and will result in no reaction. When PUAs say that, you know right then that they're clueless. I only ignore when I don't want their attention, such as from married women. It feels cruel, but the possible consequences demand it.
I did, at some point in my life, ignore a girl and she ended up chasing me and everything. So it did work but brother, this girl had some serious issues in her head
The bottom line is that if you attempt to start a relationship on the basis of playing games, you set the tone for that dynamic in your relationship going forward. Only deal with people who match your maturity level. Not just physical attraction. The allure of physicality is the first thing to wear off when toxicity emerges.
7:09 Red pill is indeed not a dating strategy. It is seeing the world as it is, not as one would like it to be. Certain actions and beliefs are categorized as red-pill when they really aren’t. It is more about being aware that we live in a dangerous world, and protecting one’s own interests is paramount because sure as hell no one else is going to do it for you
Bro I see where you're coming from. But the problem with your theory is that for most men there is no such thing as "real genuine desire, organic love or lust". So you're besically giving advice for the top percentages of men which don't have a problem with women in the first place. Most need to fake it till they make it and are reliant on these strategies.
I think there is a balance. You definitely don’t wanna be a dick and totally ignore her but u don’t wanna be an open book either. You don’t wanna be there too much for her. There has to be an element of mystery. If u put yourself out there too much she gets bored quickly
I disagree here. I didn't realize I was ignoring a woman that liked me, unintentionally, which lead her to develop high interest in me. There were no games and it appeared desire was genuine with us both. All the clues were there as well from the constant physical contact that she initiated constantly from hugs to poking when she was behind me or I wasn't looking her way. Moreover, we were giving each other quite a bit of attention...constanst smiling at each other, lustful smiles. This went on for a while and the attraction was obvious. The minute I showed intent and casually and stress casually let her know that we should get together to hang out (invited her to a nice breakfast spot) she suddenly got nervous while repeating 'yes' to my ask and later that day acted distant almost to the point of ghosting me...or so it seemed. She flaked on the breakfast as things between us were suddenly weird. Keep in mind she initiated contact with me always...showed initial interest...etc... I never asked her why or asked how she was doing as her actions were enough for me. It felt like I had wasted my time so I pulled away and the minute i did her interest resumed as she tried to keep my interest. This was an epiphany for me as I'd suddenly realized all the relationships that didn't work out in my life for the ones where I gave them interest, attention, pursued, tried to do the right thing, be there for them. And the relationships where they would cling to me were the ones where I was reluctant to stay...cared less...didn't give the attention and was less focused on them. i do agree that ignoring as a manipulation tactic is a waste of time, but when your time is wasted and you essentally ignore them when pulling away...it seems to have a profound effect on them with regard to them suddenly reinvesting their interest in you.
@LFA Ironically I stumbed across your 'Some women do this if they like you' which encapsulates my situation so you've nailed it bro in this instance. Incidentally, I played it cool and carried on with my life and treated her as it was no big deal or never happened. As you suggest...it appears she still likes me quite a bit.
People can say or teach you whatever they like. But everyone is in a different situation. Until you reach that point in your life when women are no longer such a priority or they do not interest you like they used to then you will understand lads
I was in this situation i dated this girl for a month we went on 2 dates but over that month she was hot and cold basically shit testing me there was a time she didn’t message me for a week but i kept my cool. After the 2nd date she was very cold and awkward she exuded energy that she didn’t want to be there but she had nothing better lined up. So I talked to her the next day but didn’t text her that evening while i was considering how to confront her about her hot and cold behaviour the next morning she messages me and says you dont want to talk to me no more? Needless to say i could of saved her concerns with some bullshit excuse but i just snapped at her and wrote a long ass paragraph telling her i felt used emotionally and not desired etc we stopped talking after that. Some people tell me she was using me for attention others tell me she knew i was genuine and wanted to take her time with me but she was very flirty and promiscious with other men that i knew that was another reason i felt used as an emotional toy.
I ignore women and it pissed them off. But the reason I ignore them is because of my social anxiety disorder. I eventually come around and tell them that I have this problem but they are never understanding or empathetic, just mean and nasty.
This is precisely why dudes want to hear the “ignore women” tactic from a coach. They think “great I already don’t know how to talk to a woman. all I have to do is ignore her and she’ll want me more hurp durp” 🙄 😂
Hey I really love how you bring a new way of thinking in this toxic red pill community. I’ve been watching your videos for some time now and I grew up as a man and have been doing a lot better in relationships. Just be yourself and don’t be toxic you will have more success. God bless man.
I’m 46 and I quit women 2.5 years ago. Starting at age 15 I never had to approach a girl or woman ever. They always applied themselves to me. But I have been with so many women. It’s just there’s no enjoyment to it anymore. And I know marriage is a horrible idea. But there are far far bigger things to worry about them dating.
I ignore women because I am not ready yet for a relationship. I had no clue that this became a "thing" to get women. One of my friend's that is a woman actually really wanted me. I got a text from her; "hey (my name) I was really thinking of you and I really miss you." After like 3 weeks to a month of not texting her or doing things with her... So it was like weird because I had no clue... 🤷🏽♂️
I think that if you are gonna start ingoring someone you are dating, do it for a legitimate reason, and if you are being asked why, be honest about the reason why, try to work things out, and if it doesnt, just walk away. Always be respectful, dont be ill intended, and always do what you feel is right, every person and every relationship is different.
Very true and well said. Appreciate the fantastic video as I used to think wrong as well and turned out wrong in the end. My wife already liked me when we first dated and it gave me the green light to take charge. Genuine connection is better than forced game or toxic connections. God first as well. Time is also like money. Except you can't get it back. That should be a reminder to all men. She finds you unattractive, don't wanna give you the time of day, move on. Life isn't only about dating women. Keep yourself busy on making yourself the man of success and women comes to you. You than decide to see who is truly worthy of being wife material if they bring it into the relationship.
This is all well and good... but the data from dating apps and studies on courtship/relationships clearly shows that 9O% of women only have "genuine burning desire" for 5% of men and most women aren't that aroused by their average man. Even if the bottom 95% of men were to "improve" their appeal the average would shift up and the top 5% would still be the only ones seen as desirable by 9O% of women. It's a losing game for the men who weren't born with what women want... plain and simple.
EPIC time you take to bring absolute profoundness. You make real men, realize the path they were on, was a correct path. Your a champion in your viewpoints. This video was a beauty. Thank You
Your content time to time has changed a lot, I remember when you started this channel with a Mgtow content and red-pill, now, your advice to us are more mature and honest, I really appreciate it LFA!
Damn the genuine desire saying is true, them games aren't played by a real man to get someone. Its all about how you feel about each other. Rest be a better version of yourself and genuine dude.
This is true only when she actually likes you. But if a woman sees you, a random woman, and you don’t show her attention like the billion other SIMPS, she will in fact find you more interesting.
That women likely has a personality disorder. Her mind is warped by simps. Not a mentally/emotionally healthy woman. Why would you want that type of woman. Just find the woman that just like you. And be worth liking to be liked instead of playing games.
Where are y'll getting this from? Of course she has to like you. No, she will not find you interesting cause not saying a word won't make you stand out. Thats goofy. I'm starting to think some of y'll are jealous of women getting attention, & are trying to compete instead of pursuing women that are interested in you. This also explains why y'll love bringing up how other males are giving her attention. Guys that move like this assume the woman think like men. It's giving such baddie energy. Lol.
@@-glitch-8195 jealous of women gettung attention? Lmfao 🤣 I don’t give a damn. I’m NOT gassing anyone up. They can have their daily dopamine hit of feeling validated from SIMPS.
Finally a clear, intelligent video on this ignoring chicks topic. Ofc if u ignore her completely she’ll find someone else😂. A lil cat n mouse play might be helpful tho every now and then. Great content as always, brother!!! This is the genuine, mature, human way to deal with women. Respect!
I agree. A co-worker who I thought liked me started giving me less attention so as soon as I detected it I went no contact and started ignoring her without an explanation. She tried to say hello a few times after I started ignoring her and then stopped and just ignored me back. It has been 17 weeks and I haven't said a word to her and she just ignores me back and seems indifferent. Ignoring doesn't work.
Yup.
If a woman ain't choosing you, walk away.
Even if a woman is choosing you, if she’s not physically fit, you better run away 🏃♂️ forget walking away 😂
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@@iloveyou281000 a slightly fast paced walk could get away lol
And if you ain't choosing HER, walk away.
today chose you, tomorrow chose another one witch is shiner ... or just simple find that you are not so shine in regard to people around... or because she know you is no more interesting, she move to knowing someone else... just waste of time... for time wasters...
You ignore her she ignores you and life goes on.
Bad End :(
@@XMehroozno its good end just buy a sax doll bro😂
You ain't neva lie 💯
You ain't neva lie 💯
the ratio for women to men is like 25/1. You be ok king.
If she want to be with you, she'll show that, she'll never play games, but if she ignores you, you have to ignore her as well. And move on, never chase women , NEVER!!!!!!
My mom use to tell me this... when you don't like a person , the more she tries to have you the more disgust you feel... so better move on when someone doesn't want you.
I saw a comment on a "No Contact" video once before and it sums up ignoring women perfectly:
If you ignore a woman and she is genuinely interested in you, she will try to talk to you.
If you ignore a woman and she wants your attention and validation, you are doing yourself a favor.
If you ignore her and she ignores you still, you also are doing yourself a favor.
It seems like a can't lose approach as long as you're genuinely indifferent to the outcome.
I've gotten pretty good at vetting woman who are interested in me. Any woman who doesn't look my way, and at least try to create connection doesn't get a single second of my time. No desire, then I'm not moving forward. Thanks for the content lfa
Yeah man, gotta filter all the bullshit out. The law of reciprocation of energy. If none is being reflected back at you. They ain't worth a crumb of attention.
How do you get women to get interested in you or "look your way" ?
@Justissier you'll know if a woman is interested in you. She'll look at you a certain way and maybe even stare at you. That's the que to approach, and make conversation. If she touches you while interacting and asks questions about you. That's dead giveaway she wants an emotional connection to be established. It's that easy. If she doesn't like you, you'll clearly know. It's better not to go out of your own way and disrespect yourself by forcing attraction. It'll repulse a non interested woman even more. Just move on and pay attention to the women who are interested in getting to know you. Time is better wasted elsewhere than on a woman who isn't interested in getting to know you
You’re going to be single for the rest of your life then because woman don’t show signs usually even if they like a guy
@@greganderson2239 I believe you're right. Yeah it could happen and the signs are obvious like Boom said but that doesn't happen to probably 95% of men.
The worst simp ever is the person that wastes massive amount of time to find the perfect strategy to catch the woman's interest and the more he fails the more he tries.
Yup, she's either interested or not and while it is possible to gradually increase her interest in you. It's rarely worth the time and effort
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@@elijahwilson1422 Yup, she's either interested or not
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If she has no genuine desire for you. Dont waste your time.
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I had a phase in my life that i actually did ignore woman. i was frustrated and pissed of at that time because of all the nasty games women put on me... man, woman hitting on me while they have boyfriends, giving me their facebook and such but then ghosting me. In that period i wasn't aware of many things in the dating world. I was just winging it with the things i got (which was not much as a mater of fact ) Anyways, i got into that MGTOW stuff and i actually practiced ignoring people in general. You know, i was a person that walked on the streets wondering what people where thinking about me and i got all up in my head all the time making myself anxious. So ignoring helped me to stay present and focused on Me instead of other people. It's hard to explain but it helped me with my anxiety a lot... i just cared less and less about what others thought of me and it gave me a lot of relief. Of course... Lots of the MGTOW and red pill stuff is putting blame onto woman, which i can definitely understand. But it can become a toxic habit if you expose yourself to it to much. I don't ignore woman anymore. some people will like me some don't and that's just fine.
You know, you can put rightful blame on women for the dumb shit they do that sabotage not only themselves but the rest of society in the long run, without being toxic.
You simply just hold them accountable and let them self sabotage that. When it’s all said and done, you won’t be the one to be at fault for anything. And if anyone calls you toxic at that point for doing this much. They are a fucking loser and as much a part of them problem as the women who create such problems in the first place.
Hope you’re doing better in life these days man. It sucks to look back and see a lot of wasted time not doing shit intentionally. And then seeing the other side of the coin doing the opposite and being a lot more happy and contained.
Don't confuse mgtow with the modern ,red pill, Andrew tate and ppl like him have nothing to do with us
I ignore her because she got disrespectful.
She started showing choosing signals out of nowhere so I approached her and introduced myself.
On our 4th meeting, she just got disrespectful and dismissive so I decided I wouldn't give her any of my attention anymore.
Well, the way to punish a woman is by removing your attention. I have to do this from time to time. At the end of the day, you have to be true to self. You don’t have to be some orbiter in her life to tray and act like you’re “unbothered”. One thing I’ve learned is that women believe they can do whatever they want, to whoever they want, and they are just supposed to accept it and act as if it doesn’t matter. I don’t abide by that.
@@travmarquee3213agreed. Appreciate you.
What disrespectful behaviour did she do? Isn't it better do state up front that you dont like that behaviour, and if it's reoccurring then withdraw attention?
@@christopherhogbring7771 that's exactly what I did. She was being dismissive. We were having a conversation and she refused to answer a question that she had asked me which I answered honestly. I probed a few times mind you.
@@travmarquee3213you don’t punish women lol. Either you ignore her and move on, or go after her. There is no win win here…
Ignoring only works after you tried your shot or had some repoire before hand . Ignoring a perfect stranger wont work !
Perfectly described my scenario.
Ignoring strangers is effectively what incels do already. Well they don’t ignore them. They pine after then far away in the corner. But effectively it’s no difference. He’s invisible to her.
But incels want to hear the ignoring technique because it enables their ineffective behavior.
Meanwhile they keep giving money to the coach to tell them what they want to hear.
He never said ignoring a women is a strategy to get a girl naked lol
nope that is what betas do@@billyb4790
@@billyb4790Bro chill out.
I ignore UNINTENTIONALLY. But, this really attracts Narcissist. Beware!
True, its more of "How dare you!" and they fake it until you lower your guard and they will break you.
@@ralph4370 Facts...that is why you SQUIRT and go. Get her before she TRIES to get you. Have fun with her, then dismiss her. Then keep it moving.
“You disgust me.” -girl at that gym a few years ago.
Lol I think that was the first video I watched from LFA
@@peruvianheat2053 It was definitely my first LFA video!
Ouch. Forgive me for asking but what happened?
@@billyb4790 Haha no that was a line from an early LFA video where he was talking about a woman he saw at the gym who gave him a look as if he disgusted her and he talked about how things are not looking good out there for the average man.
Pretty simple actually. If she's into you, you're golden. If she's not, you'll waste your time trying to get her attention
How do you get women to be into you generaly?
@Justissier be yourself
@@The_PaleRider the best and worst advice haha
@@Justissier get rich, get a 6 pack
A woman of value (intelligent, kind, loyal, authentic, loving, solid...inner and outer beauty) wants authenticity without games. Reciprocity. A man who is solid in himself and demonstrates integrity in words and actions....you want a good woman, be a good man....treat her as you'd like to be treated. Its not that hard gentlemen.
lol very few women of value out here… just make sure you vet the woman out while being a good human and be true to yourself
Just world fallacy.
If your nothing to her, then she couldn't care less if you ignore her. it's really the attention she wants, she wants to be liked, even feel wanted, that's what the attention is really about, you have to mean something to her to begin with.
Exactly. Also, a lot of times, even if the woman does try to contact the guy who's ignoring her, it will be just to satisfy her curiosity over why she's being ignored, and she very likely sought attention from other men while she was ignored.
We're not here to play games. We are in charge in creating the dynamic of the relationship.
😂
I ignore them because they are lame and have 0 convo. I'm to hi to focus on some random
Winning mindset
Where's the fun in not playing games? You guys take this shit way too seriously
@JohnnyAllan-vj7sj Most grown men have hobbies and would rather stick to REAL games on a playstation or gaming computer. As opposed to wasting endless amounts of TIME (and money) trying to get dates and talking to bird s.
There are times when you have to ignore a woman, even if she's into you. Like in situations where she wants too much of your time, or you are determining her self-worth, or when you simply don't feel like giving her attention. We all know women will go overboard and destroy a relationship, especially if you give them everything they think they want. I agree with a lot of the premise in this video, but let's not forget that ignoring a woman serves many purposes....and can also save you from bad circumstances.
That’s obviously not the context that the sphere is using.
@@LFANope, and I think I know some of the guys you might be referring to...they are definitely projecting their damaged hearts/egos when they "teach" this kind of stuff. I just wanted to add some nuance to your point.
@@Andrew_406 It's a calibration process sometimes...if she truly can't handle not being #1, then yeah cut her loose. But maybe she's a solid prospect and you want to give her a chance to adjust. In this case, ignoring her for a time, and perhaps later reiterating your priorities is the only course. Or just cut her loose, your call hommie...but you'll have a tough time if you aren't willing to "train" a woman at least a little bit.
You mirror a womens actions. If she texts you on a timely basis you do the same. If she takes forever to text you, you do the same. Blatantly ignoring is stupid, but you should never pursue a women who isnt pursuing you and showing genuine interest.
@@corbdoesvids You don't blindly mirror her actions either. It depends on what you really want out of the situation and how she's shaping up, in terms of potential. If you want to maintain her interest, then yeah, I'd say mirror her but show slightly little less interest/urgency than she shows you.
"A woman has already made up her mind weather or not to have sex with you within the first 15 seconds of checking you out. So if you are over a minute into the conversation and it feels like you are not getting anywhere, you're not!" Paul Elam
i take 15 seconds too and im a man jaja
Not true. There were girls who hated me first and ended up chasing me after the encounter.
Lmao bruh all I have to do is look for 2.2 seconds to decide if she is worth my time... (as a man) 😂
Likewise, when women play these same tactics with men (decent men that is, not low value, unprincipled men), she is damaging her chances and relationship with that man.
Exactly. If she doesn't make it blatantly obvious that she wants to be with me I will not waste my time. She needs to put in effort as well.
Yes this doesn't really work, only if the girl already like a guy who ignores her. But speaking of ignoring, what if a girl has continued to disrespect you, use you for free attention, friend zone you, and lie to you? Then the only option i can see is to ignore her. If you don't she will think you are weak and continue the behavior. If you do, the relationship will probably be over but you don't waste any more of your time and energy interacting with the leech. And that is with the added bonus of her realizing you weren't that weak little nice simp she thought you were
Just move on. Not worth it.
true
Unless you're an attractive dude ignoring is complete loss of time, in an incel, trust me, ignoring has worked 0 times for me lol
@@user-jd3vi2pg1g you should not give a fuck, we are the generation that cannot afford a house im way more stressed and focus on trying to get the money to buy a house that I'm trying to get women, whom will only get me temporarily enjoyment during sex.
Depends on how you look at it. If you don't ignore them and still get rejected for sure, wouldn't it then be better to genuinely ignore them? Im in this exact situation. A girl i had dated for years and been in friend zone with for years has been lying, flaking, and using me for validation. Now im thinking im genuinely better off to ignore her. If she asks about it i will simply explain her disrespect even after i previously warned her about it. In my mind ignoring her/not interacting with her is the only rational decision. If i continue interacting and validating her, i just waste my own time and cement myself as a permanent back up option who doesn't respect his self.
@@dragorn3212this isn’t even a question about ignoring her as much as it is not wasting your time.
I think the first step for you is to stop self identifying with made up internet terms like “incel” bro.
@@truthfulpurpose you might have a point bro, but the term incel is pretty objective, im an involuntary celibate.
I'm working towards my goals but one has to be somewhat harsh on oneself to actually see things objectively, in my opinion.
Ignoring works with some women. I know this because I have Avoidant Personality Disorder (an extreme version of social anxiety). It might be because of the emotional low he described, but it makes some women obsessive and aggressive for you. I didn't do this as a strategy, I do it because I am uncomfortable with closeness.
Those same women would like you even more if you were more attentive.
She wants you ? She behaves accordingly. She doesn't want you enough and genuinely? She plays games. So simple. DONT WASTE TIME. I MADE THIS MISTAKE.
Honestly, ignoring women has worked great for me it seems the less attention I give, the more they give. That being said, I really only ignore/ give less attention to the women that I'm not genuinely interested in or if something happens where I feel the need to pull back for my own sake
Im ignoring someone now because im DONE with them.. I'm now talking to someone who i like because its reciprocated and we're having a great time doing so! No need to overthink and put on a false front...
Social anxiety get the best of me when I'm around my crush. Other people , no problem.
lol I remember back in school my friend said he could always tell who I had a crush on. With any of the other girls I’d be like “what’s up! High five how you doing??” and if the crush came along I’d out my head down and be like “sup….” 😅😅😅
"Red Pill isn't a dating strategy, but a marketplace of ideas" That's the best description of Red Pill out there. The only positive is that RP gave me an awareness of female nature, nothing more than that.
RP misled you on that sadly. It takes a very contrived, misogynistic and negative view of women and paints four billion humans with the same brush. This man right here speaks nothing but facts and RP philosophy goes against basically everything he teaches . The whole mindset is toxic and flawed
@@Kima89 I agree with you that RP is a big generalization of the western woman. The real problem I have with the current state of RP and all the other RP podcasts online is that it always attacks the promiscuous women and completely ignores any self-reflection on the male side. It is always the female porn stars, Onlyfans girls and women who party that we shame. Meanwhile we have huge amounts of men that indulge in porn, pay for onlyfans content and are being told to be playboy's. So RP is not solving what's hurting our society. But I do think there's some truth in the Rollo Tomassi's The Rational male book that layed out female behaviour patterns, what they seek in men. While being generalization's, some of it are very true due to my own experiences and working for 9 years in a female dominant company, where I hear a lot of stories from the female perspective.
all women I treated well and gave attention to disrespected me. all women I ignored chased me like a housefly.
Have you came up with a plan top fix that?
@@LFA the solution i found was to learn to respect myself and others but more so myself. I now treat a woman with the same respct but i make it known by my actions that if she wants to leave she can.
I agree You ignore a women who respects herself she will ignore you
The thing is that giving too much attention indefinitely turn her off even if she had genuine desire.😊
that is so true but never said
If she had genuine desire, it shouldn’t be that easy to turn her off.
@@steven1671 it happens gradually over time.
If we were all living in a honest world where people knew what they want, i would agree with the content of this video. Unfortunately people are lost, anxious, insecure,deceptive, narcissistic and greedy. This is why you have to protect yourself and ignore many people, especially women. If a woman is attracted by you she's not going to ask if you're engaged in a relationship. They dont give a damn about your partner.
Big facts bro , not sure why people think trauma bonding is something to play with , these women will cheat on you , unalive you take you through the courts . It’s a freakin nightmare . Been there only have to hurt me once
I remember this girl I was talking to, she had genuine interest in me, and I did what these red pill dating coaches said. That cost me the opportunity of perhaps a genuine relationship.
You live , you learn
Well then, go select another first round draft pick and make it happen this time, you got this playa.
Same here bro... never again
I’m that girl for this guy that obviously likes me and I like him back (Very much that I considered him being my husband) but lately he’s been into this hot/cold behavior and I’m reevaluating our whole relationship. I can’t marry a man that makes me feel shitty and unstable most of the time. Keep doing this and you’ll loose a good woman.
@@BashaerB-h2c real rap.
You ignore a women if you are/were dating and then she pulls away. Not at the beginning. And you're not ignoring you're moving on!
Agree 100%. If mutual attraction isn't there, why waste time?
There is never full mutual attraction!
Someone always wants the other person more!
We aren’t talking mutual physical attraction we are talking about desire after all couple weeks or a month or several months of seeing this girl!
If she acts up I think it is very powerful to ignore her
Because 1 of 2 things happen she either never calls you again and you see she wants t that into you! Or you see her blow up your phone and admit she misses and desires you!
@@dereksmith2137 True, my Grandmothers (old women around 80, last generation of true women that had family, home and career) always say the same, side that loves more is at "fragile side" ...also they look at today's women and VOMIT, they are one of main reasons I avoid women today. No single mothers, always separate assets in case of marriage, choose not the prettiest one ...yea, they knew it all long before everything went to shit.
why not because it take effort to find another one
You’re the only manosphere channel I watch. I literally don’t watch anybody else on this topic. I’m done with “game.” It doesn’t work. If it worked, we wouldn’t even need these channels
Yeah, me too. He help me to keep it real
There's no such thing as game.
It's what R Tards call communication and being funny/spicy.
Game does work, some people are bad at playing, don't blame the game blame the player is the saying.
Don’t ignore your prey. Play with it.
hey king, 42 yrs old single guy from turkey here. just discovered your content and I'd like to say that your words are gold. this is the exact same mind-set that I have been trying to excel for the last 10 years. thank you so much for spreading the wisdom, keep it up.
You can’t totally ignore them. But you can’t act totally interested either. There’s a line in the middle.
If she likes you, you have nothing to worry about.
How long you been married bro?
Yeah, thought so. Another RUclips poser.
As long as she’s showing emotions ; the good, bad and ugly.
You are golden.
To a degree yes
Problem is the bad takes over, it's always bad and never ends
Long distance is a myth so if she isnt closing the gap, pay her no attention.
Absence diminishes minor passions and enflames great ones.
If there is a genuine spark, connection, chemistry between you and a woman and she genuinely likes you and you are for whatever reason pulling back then her desire will only grow. If a woman wants you she will find a way to get you.
However, if a woman is anything less than interested then at best she’ll see your withdrawal as potentially intriguing and curious and at worst she’ll simply forget about you and move on (solipsism) this only works if she knows what you will and won’t tolerate. They aren’t mind readers. Meaning if you want this ignoring tactic to potentially work she will need to be aware of her transgressions or at the very least your boundaries and wants. Doing so will show her that you are non needy, have other options, are out come independent, and are not living in a sacristy mindset.
I just like ignoring highly attractive women that give signals that they are into me. Just to be spiteful because of how many times i got rejected or used before.. now its my turn
Bro... i can relate super hard, considering i was an ugly duckling
I love doing that too. Sometimes if she is one of those extroverted girls, check her out a few times
And when she actually tries to make a move such as talk to you because that happened to me once, ignore her. She was sexy too. Too sexy if you ask me. She had all us guys looking at her. Why would a
Sexy young 22 year old be interested in a then 31 year old at the gym? Now I’m 43 and still a
Virgin but women all be fake social media queens. I’d commit suicide if I was in a relationship.
You're only hurting yourself by closing yourself off to potential connections by retroactively punishing people who aren't even aware
@@cactusjackhausen8508 it all ends the same way.
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The best advice here is this (11:25): "Don´t move foward unless she has made blatanly obvious that she is into you".
Finally a voice of reason. Well said. Well defined. Well put. Men, listen.
"If a woman doesn't make it blatantly obvious that she wants to be with me, I don't see a reason to move forward."
Correct. You express interest, she expresses interest, you have a connection, go forward. She stops, adjust what you expect, do something else.
Seriously, I've never seen a man who understands women better than you do. When you ignore women, just know gents its giving heavy baddie energy. If you’re going for sassy cross-dresser vibes, just do this & she'll quickly become disenchanted. There's nothing more attractive in a man than a man who doesn't talk a lot, but wants to talk. Having worked in hospitality, I came across men who are technically considered "socially awkward", but could talk. I still found them very pleasant to interact with & attractive over extroverted men. Whats ironic is, extroverted men are the ones who push this narrative. It's like telling a baby who is crawling not to try to walk. EVIL. Also these mansophere dudes tell guys to interact with every woman they come across instead of identifying what type of women they're socially compatible with. So they're trying to achieve something logistically impossible. So no wonder they remain awkward & become a nuisance.
Yep. Most people in need of advice need to know how to talk to women. Not ignore them. It’s putting the cart way before the horse.
you analyzed it perfectly
You don’t ignore you maintain the fine balance of just enough attention, interest but enough space to give her time to think, a void so she can convince herself you’re the right guy. The opposite shows desperation and kills the mystery/curiosity.
This is the truth. Find the right person for you. Don't try to manipulate the wrong person with games.
I dated a girl long term, the more i spoke to her the more she pulled backed and was rude when I gave her space she was nice and sweet. I never ignored her if she messaged me but i kept conversations short to avoid overtexting.
She broke up with me because we ended spending too much time together the last week and over text so she startred to fight over everything.
You lucked out at the right time then at least you learned something from the experience and that’s good!
Bro what 😂, you should of exited the moment that crap started.
this POV (of the content) is subjective, it depends on everybody's experience (this what i've been through), and yes, when you totally ignore a woman whom has desire to be with you (to have you), she might be walking away and ignore you back. However, when you respond in subtle way to a woman who likes you, such as give her lil smile in any occasions or lil chat (not texting) but you keeping to set boundaries until certain phase, that's what makes you "a challenge" to her,.
I'll tell this as an experience relationship dating man. My woman calls me numerous times. When I'm busy. It happens to me. She asks me to marry her and yet she wants kids out of me. Here's the secret don't chase a woman simple.
If it's not there then you can't make a person desire you. In other words don't waste time, time is to precious.
This is really accurate but if a woman has genuine desire for you you can do almost anything and she will stick around if you are giving her attention. If you have genuine desire for her you can’t ignore her if you want to get her. If she’s not into you though you must walk away.
I’d love you to do a video on how this plays once a relationship goes bad because she loses her desire for you. Do you walk away and never speak to her again? Does this change if you were married or have kids?
Once I realized my wife no longer liked me or probably never did, I divorced her and never spoke to her again despite having young kids with her. Very tough to do with someone I liked but no longer could be with.
Ultimately we learn that as we age many relationships are transactional and no amount of game can do anything to fix it after it runs it’s course.
I would never talk to a woman who does not desire me. If she does though, your advice here is spot on. Well done
I can confirm. I get a lot of looks from ladies and have ignored a bunch in places I don't really want to mingle, and their body language gets snappy or they dip after they put themselves in front of me once or twice. If you really want them to want you more, you should chat up whoever is infront of you and she will ease drop and notice your presence next time you're around
If the girl I desire friend-zones me. I got to ignore her... there's no other way
Some guys will text a girl they like 10 times a day, and they haven't even had sex yet. Then after 2 weeks of this they are surprised why the mystery/spark is gone. I've met guys like this, and they end up ruining genuine desire real fast. And they keep repeating this mistake. It's easy to forget how bad some guys are with girls. So there is some nuance to this advice I think. Great vid anyway and a good reminder, keep it up LFA.
I’ll text a girl 50 times a day and the chemistry will get deeper with each text.
@@LFA
This is even worse advice lol
It wasn't advice it was a fact.
I'll ignore a woman if I find there is no connection
Yes ignoring a girl who doesn’t know you exist will not work but if there’s a girl you’ve been dealing with and she’s giving you mixed hot and cold signals then you pull back and ignore her she might come running to you…I’ve had this happen to me in the past, so it’s a contextual thing
If a woman is giving you hot and cold signals, that just means your communication skills were not effective enough to keep her engaged. If ignoring a woman is more effective than giving her attention, that simply means that your communication skills are so bad that a lack of communication is more effective than actual communication.
@@LFA no my man I was communicating to her exactly what I wanted but she was taking my attention for granted…every situation is different depending on the context
@@LFA in some situations your approach Is spot on but it’s not always the the right thing to do 100% of the time
If she takes you for-granted, the best option is to leave her. Don’t ignore her to “get her back”
Ignore her to get over her and let her get over you.
@@LFA I ignored her because I felt I was being strung along (which I was because she admitted to doing this) and then after a couple weeks she came back to me then had a four year relationship…not all situations are the same and there’s no way I could have been using this as a tactic because this was a long time ago before I even knew about “game” or the “red pill”
Just.Don't.Bother. They arent worth the investment.
The influencers say this because it does work.
But not usually on a bit*h or 304, but on a woman who likes you.
It is a dark art of manipulation.
She cant understand why it's happening and women love to chase a man they have set their sights on, and feel entitled to get him. I didn't use to understand "Aint too proud to beg" by TLC.
But I know what you're saying. This is VERY UNLIKELY to work on a woman that was showing no interest, unless youve made her dependent on services you provide, such as money or emotional support. And even then she may simply not care.
Action and reaction. If you ignore someone, that is a non-action and will result in no reaction. When PUAs say that, you know right then that they're clueless.
I only ignore when I don't want their attention, such as from married women. It feels cruel, but the possible consequences demand it.
i am too old to ignore people, i just say is like it is. most of the time she will understand and move on. ignoring people is childish.
ATTENTION = AMPLIFIER 💯
The man that tells the truth…
I did, at some point in my life, ignore a girl and she ended up chasing me and everything. So it did work but brother, this girl had some serious issues in her head
The bottom line is that if you attempt to start a relationship on the basis of playing games, you set the tone for that dynamic in your relationship going forward. Only deal with people who match your maturity level. Not just physical attraction. The allure of physicality is the first thing to wear off when toxicity emerges.
You can't ignore someone who doesn't talk to you to begin with
7:09 Red pill is indeed not a dating strategy. It is seeing the world as it is, not as one would like it to be. Certain actions and beliefs are categorized as red-pill when they really aren’t. It is more about being aware that we live in a dangerous world, and protecting one’s own interests is paramount because sure as hell no one else is going to do it for you
Bro I see where you're coming from. But the problem with your theory is that for most men there is no such thing as "real genuine desire, organic love or lust". So you're besically giving advice for the top percentages of men which don't have a problem with women in the first place. Most need to fake it till they make it and are reliant on these strategies.
BINGO THANX
Pathetic
Pretty much
I think there is a balance. You definitely don’t wanna be a dick and totally ignore her but u don’t wanna be an open book either. You don’t wanna be there too much for her. There has to be an element of mystery. If u put yourself out there too much she gets bored quickly
I ignore them and i dont care how it makes them feel.
I DONT OWE THEM ONE CENT OF ANYTHING.
I disagree here. I didn't realize I was ignoring a woman that liked me, unintentionally, which lead her to develop high interest in me. There were no games and it appeared desire was genuine with us both. All the clues were there as well from the constant physical contact that she initiated constantly from hugs to poking when she was behind me or I wasn't looking her way. Moreover, we were giving each other quite a bit of attention...constanst smiling at each other, lustful smiles. This went on for a while and the attraction was obvious. The minute I showed intent and casually and stress casually let her know that we should get together to hang out (invited her to a nice breakfast spot) she suddenly got nervous while repeating 'yes' to my ask and later that day acted distant almost to the point of ghosting me...or so it seemed. She flaked on the breakfast as things between us were suddenly weird. Keep in mind she initiated contact with me always...showed initial interest...etc... I never asked her why or asked how she was doing as her actions were enough for me. It felt like I had wasted my time so I pulled away and the minute i did her interest resumed as she tried to keep my interest. This was an epiphany for me as I'd suddenly realized all the relationships that didn't work out in my life for the ones where I gave them interest, attention, pursued, tried to do the right thing, be there for them. And the relationships where they would cling to me were the ones where I was reluctant to stay...cared less...didn't give the attention and was less focused on them. i do agree that ignoring as a manipulation tactic is a waste of time, but when your time is wasted and you essentally ignore them when pulling away...it seems to have a profound effect on them with regard to them suddenly reinvesting their interest in you.
I would personally rather just correct the issue, so I don’t have to ignore them anymore. But to each their own…
@LFA Ironically I stumbed across your 'Some women do this if they like you' which encapsulates my situation so you've nailed it bro in this instance. Incidentally, I played it cool and carried on with my life and treated her as it was no big deal or never happened. As you suggest...it appears she still likes me quite a bit.
People can say or teach you whatever they like. But everyone is in a different situation.
Until you reach that point in your life when women are no longer such a priority or they do not interest you like they used to then you will understand lads
I was in this situation i dated this girl for a month we went on 2 dates but over that month she was hot and cold basically shit testing me there was a time she didn’t message me for a week but i kept my cool. After the 2nd date she was very cold and awkward she exuded energy that she didn’t want to be there but she had nothing better lined up. So I talked to her the next day but didn’t text her that evening while i was considering how to confront her about her hot and cold behaviour the next morning she messages me and says you dont want to talk to me no more? Needless to say i could of saved her concerns with some bullshit excuse but i just snapped at her and wrote a long ass paragraph telling her i felt used emotionally and not desired etc we stopped talking after that.
Some people tell me she was using me for attention others tell me she knew i was genuine and wanted to take her time with me but she was very flirty and promiscious with other men that i knew that was another reason i felt used as an emotional toy.
Don't listen to the idiots. She was using you.
I dont even look at women so I won't even know if women are even there! Also relationships aren't worth it which is really sad in this day and age
I ignore women and it pissed them off. But the reason I ignore them is because of my social anxiety disorder. I eventually come around and tell them that I have this problem but they are never understanding or empathetic, just mean and nasty.
That's the story of my life
Never tell women your problems, they will use it against you.
@@MrOwl69I totally agree 👍
Don't tell them about your condition, hit the gym and work on it. And then go out and smash whatever comes across.
This is precisely why dudes want to hear the “ignore women” tactic from a coach. They think “great I already don’t know how to talk to a woman. all I have to do is ignore her and she’ll want me more hurp durp” 🙄 😂
Basically….,, it’s a gamble! Play games and maybe! Maybe be happy, maybe not! Or be yourself and maybe, maybe not! She either desires you or not!
Hey I really love how you bring a new way of thinking in this toxic red pill community. I’ve been watching your videos for some time now and I grew up as a man and have been doing a lot better in relationships. Just be yourself and don’t be toxic you will have more success. God bless man.
Their should be a balance... make her chase you, but at the same time it's ok to talk or text her first especially if she's into you
You are 100% correct. A lot of these Manosphere advisors are only giving advise to create "relationships" destined to fail.
I’m 46 and I quit women 2.5 years ago. Starting at age 15 I never had to approach a girl or woman ever. They always applied themselves to me. But I have been with so many women. It’s just there’s no enjoyment to it anymore. And I know marriage is a horrible idea. But there are far far bigger things to worry about them dating.
Agree. 52 here had my share also. I’m done too
I ignore women because I am not ready yet for a relationship. I had no clue that this became a "thing" to get women. One of my friend's that is a woman actually really wanted me. I got a text from her; "hey (my name) I was really thinking of you and I really miss you." After like 3 weeks to a month of not texting her or doing things with her... So it was like weird because I had no clue... 🤷🏽♂️
I think that if you are gonna start ingoring someone you are dating, do it for a legitimate reason, and if you are being asked why, be honest about the reason why, try to work things out, and if it doesnt, just walk away. Always be respectful, dont be ill intended, and always do what you feel is right, every person and every relationship is different.
Very true and well said. Appreciate the fantastic video as I used to think wrong as well and turned out wrong in the end. My wife already liked me when we first dated and it gave me the green light to take charge. Genuine connection is better than forced game or toxic connections. God first as well. Time is also like money. Except you can't get it back.
That should be a reminder to all men. She finds you unattractive, don't wanna give you the time of day, move on. Life isn't only about dating women. Keep yourself busy on making yourself the man of success and women comes to you. You than decide to see who is truly worthy of being wife material if they bring it into the relationship.
This is all well and good... but the data from dating apps and studies on courtship/relationships clearly shows that 9O% of women only have "genuine burning desire" for 5% of men and most women aren't that aroused by their average man. Even if the bottom 95% of men were to "improve" their appeal the average would shift up and the top 5% would still be the only ones seen as desirable by 9O% of women.
It's a losing game for the men who weren't born with what women want... plain and simple.
Finally! You totally get it! Someone had to say it. You're a smart man with emotional intelligence. Rare these days.❤
LOL no he's not now become a simp like he's telling you too
@xxxsully420 you're completely fucking clueless regarding women. Best of luck, bud. You're going to need it more than most.
He's legitimately one of the best on YT.
@xxxsully420 you aren't desirable to women whatsoever. That's why you're bitter and spineless.
@@mediumchungus9662 LOL nope Ty X Worldwide is the best hands down
EPIC time you take to bring absolute profoundness. You make real men, realize the path they were on, was a correct path. Your a champion in your viewpoints. This video was a beauty. Thank You
Your content time to time has changed a lot, I remember when you started this channel with a Mgtow content and red-pill, now, your advice to us are more mature and honest, I really appreciate it LFA!
Damn the genuine desire saying is true, them games aren't played by a real man to get someone. Its all about how you feel about each other.
Rest be a better version of yourself and genuine dude.
Never trust a man who speaks to you with sunglasses on.
@@burnaardnufc3173😂😂
@@burnaardnufc3173 What he said applies to that fake blind man Stevie Wonder more than anyone else!
@@burnaardnufc3173or Jim Jones
@@burnaardnufc3173 Or Ray Charles.
You like UV damage?
Just say be a simp 😂😅
Can't relate.
You make more sense than anyone I can remember I've heard with dating advice.
This is true only when she actually likes you. But if a woman sees you, a random woman, and you don’t show her attention like the billion other SIMPS, she will in fact find you more interesting.
That women likely has a personality disorder. Her mind is warped by simps. Not a mentally/emotionally healthy woman. Why would you want that type of woman. Just find the woman that just like you. And be worth liking to be liked instead of playing games.
Lol
Where are y'll getting this from? Of course she has to like you. No, she will not find you interesting cause not saying a word won't make you stand out. Thats goofy. I'm starting to think some of y'll are jealous of women getting attention, & are trying to compete instead of pursuing women that are interested in you. This also explains why y'll love bringing up how other males are giving her attention. Guys that move like this assume the woman think like men. It's giving such baddie energy. Lol.
@@-glitch-8195 jealous of women gettung attention? Lmfao 🤣 I don’t give a damn. I’m NOT gassing anyone up. They can have their daily dopamine hit of feeling validated from SIMPS.
Nope, you'll just be another stranger to her
Finally a clear, intelligent video on this ignoring chicks topic. Ofc if u ignore her completely she’ll find someone else😂. A lil cat n mouse play might be helpful tho every now and then. Great content as always, brother!!!
This is the genuine, mature, human way to deal with women. Respect!
I agree. A co-worker who I thought liked me started giving me less attention so as soon as I detected it I went no contact and started ignoring her without an explanation. She tried to say hello a few times after I started ignoring her and then stopped and just ignored me back. It has been 17 weeks and I haven't said a word to her and she just ignores me back and seems indifferent. Ignoring doesn't work.
Best thing I ever did was get baptized and practice semen retention, game changer
Why getting baptized?
@@javilo2797gave his life to Christ
Semen Retention ?
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this is why BLIND DATES are a bad gamble.. now you have to take her out when you KNOW its not going to happen
I’ve been ignoring a women at the gym that I know is into me because she always workouts next to me but I guess I know what I gotta do
To be honest following random advice on the internet really screwed us over