Oh, I needed this. One of the "gifts" of the pandemic was forcing me to realize that I was actually codependent for a long time. Quite a huge realization.
Thank you from the depths of my soul and heart. My chest swelled with much love as I listened to your message. I laughed and cried tears of recognition which contained a vast spectrum of emotions. From joy to grief to humility to love to compassion. Like a rainbow of emotions fading flawlessly in and out of one another. Each one just as important and beautiful as the next. This video is the perfect catalyst for the stage I’m currently in on my personal journey. I am truly grateful and thankful for you and this video. Take care and have a wonderful day!
Your words and work are always so confirming & comforting. I am working through this disentanglement in real time with my husband now ❤ I believe we will make it to interdependence. Thank you Richard 🙇🏾♀️ so much gratitude
What a wonderful teaching Richard! I believe this would help many people to grow to a loving relationship. Both my partner and I have the key 19 defined, although not in our Gene Keys profile: he in his Design Saturn and I in my Personality Saturn. For a long time since we knew each other I thought about what the purpose was that we met and are together. The past few years this has become clearer and clearer and now I can say that we are far in growing to and having that loving relationship you are talking about. Thank you for the insights! 🙏🌀💙
Thank you for this... what if the partner is unwilling to do any sort of work or open up emotionally? I decided to leave eventually, not to find freedom, but find a partner willing to show himself in the relationship....
God , I am right in the middle of a crisis with my partner ...and synchronicity ! your video appears on my screen...I have this co-dependence patern in my SQ ...I d love to stay in the relationship to dive deep into my shadow ,but ...I realize that the other suffers from severe moments of paranoia delirium...I am not sure to be "equipped" to face that ! any support to help me take the right decision would be very welcome . SOS
I have been recognizing how codependent I can be. It's easier to see in romantic relationships.. the last one I was in ended abruptly because I stepped out of the dance our shadows were doing and she jumped ship. It was hard because I would have chosen to keep working on the pulling apart of what was happening. It was intense and deep though, potentially harmful for me. The true freedom felt like it was available with her but it's probably best that it isn't. So so challenging! What I am curious about NOW... is codependence in child/parent relationships. My kids are at an age where I cannot tell if I'm acting from codependence or pushing more towards the reality that they SHOULD be dependent on me. And they're leaving our safe cocoon too soon! It is heart wrenching stuff. My deeeeeep need for interdependence, interbeing, and a true sense of "family" that I have never before experienced.
Amazing insight Richard, so very helpful. I'm currently doing the Venus Sequence at the moment and as my relationship is 11 years old, I'm discovering the exact kinds of situations you described. I'm more confident now in doing the work now.
This is primary for every relationship -
Starting with yourself … self awareness first ❤❤… thank you 🙏
Oh, I needed this. One of the "gifts" of the pandemic was forcing me to realize that I was actually codependent for a long time. Quite a huge realization.
“It only takes one in the partnership… and it’s probably you” 😂😂😂 so good. Excellent video. Thank you.
Thanks so much. I have much to contemplate after hearing this.
Let the journey begin...❤
Thank you from the depths of my soul and heart. My chest swelled with much love as I listened to your message.
I laughed and cried tears of recognition which contained a vast spectrum of emotions. From joy to grief to humility to love to compassion. Like a rainbow of emotions fading flawlessly in and out of one another. Each one just as important and beautiful as the next.
This video is the perfect catalyst for the stage I’m currently in on my personal journey. I am truly grateful and thankful for you and this video.
Take care and have a wonderful day!
Most people dont have the strength and patience for true love. Takes work. 😪 Well done Mr Rudd. Great teaching.
Thank you so so much 🌷😊✨ Its so nurturing listening to you 🪴🌱🎉🌹
Your words and work are always so confirming & comforting. I am working through this disentanglement in real time with my husband now ❤ I believe we will make it to interdependence. Thank you Richard 🙇🏾♀️ so much gratitude
What a wonderful teaching Richard! I believe this would help many people to grow to a loving relationship. Both my partner and I have the key 19 defined, although not in our Gene Keys profile: he in his Design Saturn and I in my Personality Saturn. For a long time since we knew each other I thought about what the purpose was that we met and are together. The past few years this has become clearer and clearer and now I can say that we are far in growing to and having that loving relationship you are talking about. Thank you for the insights! 🙏🌀💙
Thank you for this... what if the partner is unwilling to do any sort of work or open up emotionally? I decided to leave eventually, not to find freedom, but find a partner willing to show himself in the relationship....
So beautiful 🧡 i feel so moved by your message🧡
🙏wonderful explanation that I’ve finally got! Infinite love and gratitude to you dear Richard 🙏
This can only happen with a partner that is willing to do the work.
THAAAAANK YOU THAAAAANK YOU THAAAAANK YOU SOOOO MUCH🌹🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽 Eva from Belgium
God , I am right in the middle of a crisis with my partner ...and synchronicity ! your video appears on my screen...I have this co-dependence patern in my SQ ...I d love to stay in the relationship to dive deep into my shadow ,but ...I realize that the other suffers from severe moments of paranoia delirium...I am not sure to be "equipped" to face that ! any support to help me take the right decision would be very welcome .
SOS
As always, grateful for the soul resonance of your transmissions.
Thank you ❤️🙏
Thank you very very much Richard🙏 It's so helpful. Gene Key 19 is in my Venus sequence and in my Pearl sequence. Thank you Thank you Thank you 🪄✨️💖
I don't pretend to understand this but I want more❤
I have been recognizing how codependent I can be. It's easier to see in romantic relationships.. the last one I was in ended abruptly because I stepped out of the dance our shadows were doing and she jumped ship. It was hard because I would have chosen to keep working on the pulling apart of what was happening. It was intense and deep though, potentially harmful for me. The true freedom felt like it was available with her but it's probably best that it isn't. So so challenging!
What I am curious about NOW... is codependence in child/parent relationships. My kids are at an age where I cannot tell if I'm acting from codependence or pushing more towards the reality that they SHOULD be dependent on me. And they're leaving our safe cocoon too soon! It is heart wrenching stuff. My deeeeeep need for interdependence, interbeing, and a true sense of "family" that I have never before experienced.
This is exactly what I needed to hear today, thank you so so much.
Lovely. So true. Thank you!
Thank you! 🙏
I heard this at the right moment. Thank you!!
🙏🏼 Beautifully explained 💚
Oh, this is so beautiful. Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤
Just what I need to hear ❤ - powerful
I needed to hear this today. Muchas gracias for all the work U do, Richard 🙏💖
Thank you....
wow this was so insanely helpful thank u as always
Amazing insight Richard, so very helpful. I'm currently doing the Venus Sequence at the moment and as my relationship is 11 years old, I'm discovering the exact kinds of situations you described. I'm more confident now in doing the work now.
Thank you for this 😊
Thank you Richard, this was very informative and helpful 🙏
Wow! ❤
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