60yr old man says young women are NOT the prize+ Her husband changed on her once he moved to America

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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024

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  • @jayscott5618
    @jayscott5618 2 месяца назад +43

    The more he talked the more he revealed why his marriage ended.

    • @Bluntgirly
      @Bluntgirly 2 месяца назад +3

      Usually how it goes 😅

  • @ArtLee68
    @ArtLee68 3 месяца назад +121

    James was not a good representation of an OG. A 52 year old man has no business dating a 20 year old young lady. Her mind has not matured enough yet. But to say, she has nothing to offer is ridiculous. If he is a 52 year old multimillionaire and she is a fine, 20 year WalMart deli employee, she is still the prize. We must stop with the cap. He needs to get in the gym, shave, moisturize his beard and face get his wardrobe together. James, please Sir, stay off these platforms and get into the gym.😊

    • @sparklesp9304
      @sparklesp9304 3 месяца назад

      He wouldn't want her if she had nothing to offer 😅
      That's not what men do, lol.

    • @Szahra87
      @Szahra87 3 месяца назад +5

      Hey you’re dressed sharp!! Be a mentor to the young men who seek to better themselves!!

    • @ArtLee68
      @ArtLee68 3 месяца назад

      @@Szahra87I’m always willing to give back.😊

    • @StillLearnin4332
      @StillLearnin4332 2 месяца назад

      Take your ass to the gym and build a backbone. God’s primary creation was a man; men are the prize.

    • @MiaPiaPanda
      @MiaPiaPanda 2 месяца назад

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @taylorthenatural5509
    @taylorthenatural5509 3 месяца назад +98

    He needs to keep Gen Z out his mouth, I'm tired of older generations throwing dirt on us like they didn't have their issues

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds 3 месяца назад

      Us millennials still catch hell as though we weren't front and center for these older generation's bs! Which is why they try to silence us because we can and do tell on them.

    • @honeydove_4844
      @honeydove_4844 3 месяца назад +14

      They have the most issues. Dating older men was draining asf. They didn’t have to resources to correct their behaviors throughout the years that the younger generation has.

    • @taylorthenatural5509
      @taylorthenatural5509 3 месяца назад +11

      @honeydove_4844 I feel you 😪, I dated older men too. Two words, Arrested development.

    • @honeydove_4844
      @honeydove_4844 3 месяца назад +1

      @@taylorthenatural5509 yes frfr lol

    • @sparklesp9304
      @sparklesp9304 3 месяца назад +1

      Nah, y'all are all of that and more, but Gen X created you guys 😅. It's THEIR fault.

  • @invadingminds
    @invadingminds 3 месяца назад +85

    Do we really care what these old men have to say? The only old man you should listen to is your father and that's only if he has your best interest at heart.

    • @autumnjade815
      @autumnjade815 3 месяца назад +3

      A WHOLE word!!!

    • @ArtLee68
      @ArtLee68 3 месяца назад +3

      You have a right to your own opinion. It is sad that you believe such. An OG can teach you how to avoid a lot of pitfalls. I am not saying, every older man comes with wisdom. I do believe that you must give ear to the correct OG. But again, that was your opinion.

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds 3 месяца назад +10

      @@ArtLee68 Let me correct/clarify myself. Yes, you can learn a lot from older people but in this capacity I don't think young women should listen to a man who is not her father.

    • @autumnjade815
      @autumnjade815 3 месяца назад

      @@ArtLee68 Unfortunately we have watched old men (Black, white or otherwise) ruin the world, start wars, ruin their families and even their own lives, her comment is completely correct.

    • @calikeisha365
      @calikeisha365 3 месяца назад +12

      @@ArtLee68An “OG” who isn’t a father or male relative has nothing to offer a young woman but resources. The original commentary is right. These so-called OGs need to circle back around to sons and daughters that they abandoned or go volunteer at the boys and girls club if they are looking to teach.

  • @jjphillips6292
    @jjphillips6292 3 месяца назад +30

    Whyyyyyy would anyone in their 20s to 49 want anything to do with an old ass dude for anything other than financial. Get real with yourself and stay in your lane.

  • @calikeisha365
    @calikeisha365 3 месяца назад +60

    He has to know any woman under 35 would only want him for his resources. Heck I’m in my 40s, and I would only want him for his resources, doesn’t seem to have much to offer in charm. But best of luck to him.

    • @tinawalker5335
      @tinawalker5335 3 месяца назад +10

      😂

    • @legallycurvy
      @legallycurvy 3 месяца назад

      under 45 !!!! lmao

    • @legallycurvy
      @legallycurvy 3 месяца назад

      bc 45 year olds today can get 35 year old MEN with HARD PENISES to pay all bills lmaoooo🧿 why settle for HIM?

    • @Quinten4M
      @Quinten4M 2 месяца назад +6

      I'm 40! I'm team sugar daddy all day. I know my lane 😂. (Some man got no self-awareness )

    • @Queenn928
      @Queenn928 16 дней назад

      You are so beautiful ❤

  • @noirefit5954
    @noirefit5954 3 месяца назад +38

    This man has one foot in the grave lol. Young women, carry on 😂😂😂😂

  • @amichonne4578
    @amichonne4578 3 месяца назад +34

    Ask a 20yr old to bring the playdough to the table. Its probably harder than he can get. But in all honesty, heal from your WIFES betrayal. Cause you aint ready

  • @Jesusmirey26
    @Jesusmirey26 3 месяца назад +21

    Looks like he doesn't want to bring nothing to the table and expect to be served 😂😂😂😂 delulu

  • @noirefit5954
    @noirefit5954 3 месяца назад +22

    You have some 25-35 year old women still getting their lives together. Tired of the “what you bring to the table” convo. We can bring all the material things but it’s the intangibles that matter the most.

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 2 месяца назад +2

      Broke men who claim to be rich business owners are the only ones asking this question. Men with unlimited resources could care less.

  • @nicksthegoat
    @nicksthegoat 3 месяца назад +64

    You look so pretty with braids

  • @VitaInDC
    @VitaInDC 3 месяца назад +12

    The Baby Boomer Generation ended in 1964. If he's 60 like the title says, he's a BB, yet clutched his pearls in denial when asked. He ain't 52, I'd consider 58. Doesn't really matter, I can tell he's highly unlikely to ever marry again. Never trust a man who bad mouths his wife like he did.

    • @TheFlyAunt
      @TheFlyAunt 2 месяца назад +2

      Exactly, he's definitely a boomer who needs therapy

  • @itsmetifft
    @itsmetifft 2 месяца назад +16

    They are trying to gain something financially and he is trying to gain some kitty cat - call it even & stop crying.

    • @Quinten4M
      @Quinten4M 2 месяца назад +3

      I'm team sugar daddy all day. Fit is more important to me. I'm 40!

    • @jayscott5618
      @jayscott5618 2 месяца назад +3

      But men usually won’t tell the truth.

    • @GoddessAsha4
      @GoddessAsha4 2 месяца назад +1

      Exactly

  • @ellebelle222
    @ellebelle222 3 месяца назад +21

    She was a cheater , however you should ask him how they met.... Because it was scandalous also

    • @tinawalker5335
      @tinawalker5335 3 месяца назад +11

      You act like you know something 👀

    • @09kenedy
      @09kenedy 3 месяца назад +9

      @@ellebelle222 👀👀👀

    • @ellebelle222
      @ellebelle222 3 месяца назад +17

      @tinawalker5335 I do. They met as cheaters. I don't remember if she had a man or he had a girl or something..
      When they met and decided to marry and so yes unfortunately some people don't ever change. That is why I won't snatched anyone husband. 😊😊😇

    • @DoubleA-ou7pj
      @DoubleA-ou7pj 3 месяца назад +2

      @@ellebelle222how do you know them?

    • @ellebelle222
      @ellebelle222 3 месяца назад

      @@DoubleA-ou7pj we talked on the phone during the winter he is a very open man and conversationalist. Everything he said was true.

  • @sparklesp9304
    @sparklesp9304 3 месяца назад +15

    Gen Z is not for the faint of heart 😅.
    That's why he's targeting the Millenials 😂😂😂

    • @tinawalker5335
      @tinawalker5335 3 месяца назад +5

      Facts!! Some of the millennials are running circles around these older men too

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 2 месяца назад +2

      😂 as they should

  • @HeauxlisticLux
    @HeauxlisticLux 3 месяца назад +13

    He's perfect and she waa just terrible...young women want money, older women want marriage, blah, blah...Whew - what are you here for? Just to hear your own voice and complain #noted

  • @09kenedy
    @09kenedy 3 месяца назад +22

    Youth is more valuable than any amount of money and THAT is what this long I the tooth ninja is leaching off of.

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 3 месяца назад

      Tell older women that and they get mad af

  • @amichonne4578
    @amichonne4578 3 месяца назад +12

    Hahaha we have been telling these younger sisters to know what they want and to get it herself. Get ya papers babysis, get ya money, the rest will follow. Dont fall for the impotent trap. Really!!

  • @khrisi9410
    @khrisi9410 2 месяца назад +3

    Well his old Dusty behind most definitely is not the prize.

  • @AFFTFOMSICHTS
    @AFFTFOMSICHTS 2 месяца назад +5

    Bro is seriously 52 not rich or well off and seriously asking women what they bring to the table 🤣🤣🤣God I am so glad women have realized our worth as a collective.

  • @jennny22233
    @jennny22233 3 месяца назад +39

    Long in the tooth 🥴🤧😂

    • @thaflygirl1
      @thaflygirl1 3 месяца назад +2

      Lol... 😂😂😂😂

    • @lisak8168
      @lisak8168 2 месяца назад +1

      Dat always gets me 😂

  • @chukie30
    @chukie30 3 месяца назад +3

    He’s not divorced yet, has had no time to reflect on his own self healing but if offering an opinion on what women are ready or not ready for…boy bye.

  • @talkswithcookie
    @talkswithcookie 3 месяца назад +12

    😂 2:50 he choose her tho

  • @MsShawn-tw4bo
    @MsShawn-tw4bo 3 месяца назад +10

    Proverbs 17:12 is where he can find out where "the man vs bear " originated, it definitely wasn't gen z and I'm a millennial. Get in your word sir and stay away from the 20 year olds.

  • @megayummyrockstar
    @megayummyrockstar 3 месяца назад +4

    Themis said it best when these so called good guys always defending the bad guys and they wonder why women choose the bear.. he a gen x and he gon fake like he don’t know how he’s peers are oh wait he was perfect husband 🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @theveryplumdarcey
    @theveryplumdarcey 3 месяца назад +5

    Why is this silly topic not just dismissed for the nonsense it is? So low grade.

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 3 месяца назад +18

    60?? He said 52 Ashley

    • @MikoMoJo
      @MikoMoJo 3 месяца назад +3

      Right! That is not the same 😂.

    • @jjphillips6292
      @jjphillips6292 3 месяца назад +6

      He might as well be

    • @alnisaa222
      @alnisaa222 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

  • @SakeenahAn-Nur
    @SakeenahAn-Nur 3 месяца назад +3

    Sending love Katie stay strong focus on you

    • @tcha2107
      @tcha2107 2 месяца назад

      I pray joy increases in your life Katy 🙏 ❤️

  • @GoddessAsha4
    @GoddessAsha4 2 месяца назад +2

    I understand why his wife cheated

  • @tamitakea1368
    @tamitakea1368 Месяц назад

    Ugh, the fact that he’s making Gen X look bad…well, the men look bad…😒 Expecting a 20-something to really HAVE something in this day and age is delusional!😂

  • @tcha2107
    @tcha2107 2 месяца назад +2

    Yeah, James is tripping !!!

  • @SafiarTaliaferro
    @SafiarTaliaferro 2 месяца назад +3

    60 years old...boomerrrrrrr

  • @amichonne4578
    @amichonne4578 3 месяца назад +6

    Sweet Cathy, if he put his hands on you it is OVER! GET OUT! Or you fock m up so bad he wakes up in the hospital with memoryloss. Too many women get killed by their husband. There is a waaaaay better life to live for you. Love, you deserve to be happy. And in this situation you wont be able to grow, and be happy.

  • @pettyandfunny9474
    @pettyandfunny9474 14 дней назад

    Young ladies don’t become a hospice wife these old men kno wat they doing 😂

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 3 месяца назад +5

    Im glad that this dude kept it real with Ashley. Idk why she and a lot of women....even though I F with Ashley heavy...but it seems like she thinks that most women are soooo great out here. No! Just like its a lot of bad men out here...there's a lot of bad women out here....that got a ton of issues.
    Its not that easy finding the right women for you who youre attracted to that has a good head on your shoulders thats honest & good communication skills...cause thats All that im looking for...and that right there seems to be a challenge in itself...especially where I reside in NYC. Most ppl here are cuffed up by somebody. Most of the dudes got more than 1 lady...so that leaves the good men damn near sh*t out of luck...unless I go down south where the numbers can better be in my favor. But then the risk of STDs be in the back of my mind in these places that has more available & open women...like ATL & Houston for example. So what do you do?? 🤷‍♂️🤔

    • @ThreehoodooSisters
      @ThreehoodooSisters 3 месяца назад +2

      You date and get to know people. Dating is a numbers game and you have to be willing to give your time and even resources. Dating is a weeding out process, also being realistic you will not get 10/10. Allot of people are delusional in the dating pool

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 3 месяца назад +2

      @@ThreehoodooSisters Yeah, and it won't get any better for the ladies....until they start vetting these dudes good....not just letting the smooth talking players game yall and tell yall exactly what yall wanna hear all the time...and yall get all giddy...while I'm over there in the cut shaking my head like, she dont know that he already hollered at 10 others ladies the same way today...and that's just today.
      So hopefully most women can get better at that. Cause the players Know how to get you...and women generation after generation after generation fall for it over & over again. SMH 🤦‍♂️

    • @jjphillips6292
      @jjphillips6292 3 месяца назад +1

      It's you....its you

  • @user-gn7in7tp4b
    @user-gn7in7tp4b 2 месяца назад +1

    Blaah blaah blaah dudes have been the same even centuries ago💀 next!

  • @tmston2
    @tmston2 2 месяца назад

    imho James a little goofy to even be considering a relationship with a 29yr old or even entertaining her. he think he got a raw deal with his exwife that 29yr old gonna have his head spin

  • @ebonieriley8309
    @ebonieriley8309 Месяц назад

    Bear over a women.

  • @msn9565
    @msn9565 3 месяца назад +2

    NEXT!!!

  • @DEog8ty
    @DEog8ty Месяц назад

    Why did you lie in the caption ? You heard him say he’s 52 years old

  • @tkjspeaks1491
    @tkjspeaks1491 2 месяца назад

    Ok Byron.

  • @smurfettecute
    @smurfettecute 3 месяца назад

    Nice

  • @YeahIGotNuthin
    @YeahIGotNuthin 4 дня назад

    You can tell the difference between someone who actually got cheated on and someone who was straight lying.

  • @YeahIGotNuthin
    @YeahIGotNuthin 4 дня назад

    Why his old ass worried about what young women think about men 😑