Let's Talk YouTube! Mean Comments And How Much YouTube Paid Me For My Most Popular Video?!

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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024
  • Hi friends! Today we are going to talk about the good, the bad and the ugly on what it’s like being an over 50 RUclipsr. I will read to you a couple of mean comments I have received and also share with you what RUclips has paid me for my popular video so far. Thank you so much for watching. I hope you enjoy!
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  • @joan6873
    @joan6873 3 месяца назад +7

    Hi - It is so fortunate to see these comments that content creators have to deal with. The 2 you mentioned are to the point of being absurd. Please don't let them get to you. You never know who is behind these comments. You may think they are grown women but they could be fake accounts and are teenagers with nothing better to do than harass someone on this platform. I also think there are keyboard warriors that go from video to video making these type of comments because they are unhappy and love to get the attention. However, they would never be able to put themselves out there. Thank you for making content for us to enjoy!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Joan! I so appreciate your comment! I agree with everything you said. I can only just ignore and delete the negative comments because it's knowing people like you enjoy my content that means more! So thank you!❤️

  • @susanpunako8590
    @susanpunako8590 3 месяца назад +7

    Hi Tina. I’m sorry you had to deal with such meanness. I don’t understand why anyone needs to publicly express their negative mean comments. But I’ve learned in life when people do things like this it’s not at all about you it’s them. It could be jealousy or some other thing that has them feeling the need to lash out. Regardless my opinion is that you RUclips content creators put yourselves on videos for entertainment purposes and give us views and content that we like Sometimes I’ve seen some creators be very vulnerable trying on swimsuits and shape wear etc. all for showing us what we want to see and know about. I commend all of you for your hard work. I’m happy this gives you an outlet for enjoying your time at this stage of life. I couldn’t ever speak to someone like that. If ya can’t find something positive to say just don’t say anything. I enjoy all of your posts and will continue to support and look forward to your posts. You’re a great lady doing a great job. Keep going girl. ❤. Hope to see some more summer content You and Louie have a great summer. Your video friend Susan. ❤

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Hi Susan! I think you are correct that people that say mean things to strangers on the internet are unhappy with something in their own lives and it probably has nothing to do with me.
      I hope you know, that you are one of the "tried and true" viewers I was speaking about. Always so kind and uplifting! Thank you so much for that! I hope you know how much I appreciate it. Thanks for being you!! I hope you have a wonderful day my sweet friend!💕

  • @HeyJudeThrifting
    @HeyJudeThrifting 3 месяца назад +6

    I never comment but have watched and enjoyed many of your videos. I’m sorry you have to deal with awful viewers. Every time I see a mean comment on anyone’s video I want to jump in and chastise them, but I know that won’t do any good. They are just miserable people. I really resonate with where you are in life. I’m a little older than you and also an empty nester after being a stay at home mom and then caring for aging parents. I started a reselling business a few years ago to have something that was mine. It gives me a lot of enjoyment and I have helped friends and family thru my experience. You are helping so many with your channel and by extension making friends of us all! 😊

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Your comment just made my day! It sounds like we have a lot in common. I am so happy you have found something that gives you enjoyment, as I can tell you have given so much to the people you love in your life.
      Thank you again for leaving a comment that really made me smile. I so appreciate it!
      Hope you have a wonderful day!❤️

    • @terrievans4444
      @terrievans4444 3 месяца назад +1

      I’m 60. I retired 6 yrs. ago. I’m an empty nester and also took care of my parents until they passed from lung cancer. I volunteer at the Red Cross facility on Mondays. I need to find a hobby besides shopping. Lol! What led you to opening a reselling business?

  • @CarolynandherClothes
    @CarolynandherClothes 3 месяца назад +9

    If she didn’t want to watch it, why did she? And I agree. Just delete the comment. Fortunately, I rarely get mean comments. The second comment is ridiculous.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      I am so happy you don't get many mean comments. The women that watch the clothing videos are the nicest!
      Hope you have a great Sunday Carolyn!💕

  • @Mbytheshore
    @Mbytheshore 3 месяца назад +1

    Oh Tina. To sum it up truthfully & bluntly…some people just suck! It is very sad when someone who is so miserable in their own lives must project their mean/bitter/negative attitudes on others. You are so right…they are hurtful individuals so delete, delete, delete. Whether a person has watched 1 or 1000 of your videos, it is quite plain to see that you always try to exude a positive, pleasant demeanor when sharing your posts. You are the reason why RUclips is such an enjoyable experience for all of us in your community & why we look forward to spending some time catching up with you. Whether it be unboxings; reviews; tips or just life in general…always nice to hang with a friend for a little while 🥰

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      I hope you know you were one of the "good ones" I was talking about in the video! You always have a kind word to share and I hope you know how much I appreciate it!
      Stay cool with this heat here. Bet that ocean breeze helps!!
      Have a wonderful day my sweet friend!❤️

    • @Mbytheshore
      @Mbytheshore 3 месяца назад

      @@tinasbestmidlife I am so glad, I always enjoy corresponding with you sweet friend! 🥰 Father’s Day was a little cooler & I definitely enjoy when that breeze hits. Have a fabulous week & look forward to hearing how your trip went 😎

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      @@Mbytheshore I got back on Monday from my trip to NY and it was so fun! Getting to spend time with my sisters and brother AND meet some new babies was just the best!
      Hope you are staying cool. I cannot believe it's only June and so hot out here in the Chicago area!

    • @Mbytheshore
      @Mbytheshore 3 месяца назад

      @@tinasbestmidlife Good morning Tina…That is fantastic, so happy to hear!! Always so much fun to spend time with family & also have some little ones to meet. Scary to think about right now but in my family the next generation will be coming from my son 😬 who is 23 & moving on to post grad degree very soon, so not looking at that phase yet. I know right, with this crazy heat! Ironically, I was always cold & now can never get cool 😂 Car registered 100 yesterday & I’m pretty sure there was steam coming out of the inground pool 🤣 Sorry to ramble, chitchatty this morning. Have a wonderful day my friend 🥰

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      I have a son who is 23 too!! I’m happy my nieces and nephews are giving me some “baby time “ because I hope my boys still have awhile before that stage!
      Just got back from walking Louie and he is spent from the heat.
      Such a nice way to start the day hearing from you!❤️

  • @TinaHBeautifulJourney
    @TinaHBeautifulJourney 3 месяца назад +3

    The mean comments are the worst. What is it about us that one mean comment and it's all we can think about, negating the hundreds of positive ones???
    I'm still small enough I dont have to deal with it often, but like you, I delete them immediately and don't engage.
    You are one of the sweetest, most honest people I know. Also, the entitlement mentality if someone who is watching pretty much unlimited content for any subject they are interested in for FREE is a bit mind boggling. How can you expect the people who are providing that content for you to not be compensated for their time and effort? I imagine these same people do not have the same level of vitriol for celebrity endorsements.
    You keep doing what you do and remember the hundreds of positive comments. You are awesome!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you Tina! I know you can relate and I am sorry when you get those mean comments too.
      Another great thing about RUclips is that it got me a new friend, co-worker- YOU!❤️

    • @TinaHBeautifulJourney
      @TinaHBeautifulJourney 3 месяца назад

      @tinasbestmidlife making new friends was such am unexpected blessing from youtube! It is pretty solitary in the work aspect. But I think we've got a pretty amazing community of creators, and I'm so glad we've become friends!

  • @nancyannesunboxings
    @nancyannesunboxings 3 месяца назад +3

    Good morning, Tina! 💜 I always love getting ready for church with you. 🥰
    It turns out Sam was watching at the same time I was in the basement. 😂 He just came up to talk with me, and the fact that my experience is almost identical to yours, save the awesome Red Light experience you had. (Loving mine still, BTW. Thanks for turning me on to it!)
    And yeah, when someone's name is on a comment you can be pretty sure they're being sincere in their limited way. Because it's obvious they haven't watched anything else. Otherwise they'd be singing a different tune. 🎶 Your sweet spirit makes it impossible for anyone who knows you even a little to be anything less than kind.
    I hope you left links to the products you mentioned in the description box!
    Please have a wonderful day and soak in and relish all of the NICE comments you get. We value you, my friend! 💜

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh Nancy Anne! Getting to have you for a friend is absolutely one of the best things to come out of RUclips! It is so nice to bounce things off you and know that you understand completely! I am so grateful for our friendship. Thank you for lifting me up (again!) with this incredibly sweet comment.
      You are the best! Have a wonderful Sunday my sweet friend!❤️

    • @nancyannesunboxings
      @nancyannesunboxings 3 месяца назад

      @@tinasbestmidlife I feel the same about you! You've really helped me in times of doubt and frustration, and I just LIKE you in general. RUclips is blessed to have you.

  • @HollyL56
    @HollyL56 3 месяца назад +3

    Hi Tina! I haven’t been as active on RUclips this year, so I have missed many videos. You’re always so kind and those people I’m sure don’t watch your other videos. That’s still no excuse and try to remember if someone can leave a mean message like that there’s a high chance that person is miserable in their own life or going through something that is leaving them very bitter and they are lashing out to anyone in their path.
    As your channel continues to grow it will sadly only get worse, but know it isn’t you and try not to take it personal. Easier said than done I’m sure, but unfortunately these kind of people can’t be avoided on a platform like this.
    Just my humble opinion, I personally think the best thing to do is when you see a mean comment immediately delete it and know it wasn’t personal, then move on and don’t allow an internet bully take your joy because they don’t truly know you to begin with.❤️💗

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Holly. I think you offer very good advice. Even though the people that post these comments are obviously struggling, it is best to delete and move on.
      How are you doing? I know you had been going through some rough spots with your Dad and son and I hope you are doing ok.
      Please take care my friend❤️

  • @beautybydez
    @beautybydez 3 месяца назад +3

    Oh Tina what unpleasant comments! There is something seriously wrong with people who feel the need to write this nonsense. Thankfully they are few and far between and you can delete them and forget them. You are a joy to watch and your infectious enthusiasm brightens up our days! Had a wonderful Sunday and a great week. Sending big hugs ❤❤❤

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Dez! I know you get this and I so appreciate having you as my friend and fellow "co-worker"! Lol!
      You're the best! Have a lovely Sunday my beautiful friend!❤️

  • @reneklein6049
    @reneklein6049 3 месяца назад +4

    Hi my sweet friend. I can't imagine anyone being mean to you, but that 1st comment is inexcusable. I'm so sorry. And the second one, is mind boggling. Talk about mean. What a horrible person.
    You deserve sponsorships and affiliate links!
    You are paid your worth. You are the kindest, sweetest, and most genuine person that I know. I'm so grateful for your channel and your friendship. Not to mention, that you are my little sis. Big hugs and I hope your channel continues to grow. You so deserve it. Lots of love. ❤❤🫂🩷

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh Rene, spoken like a true big sis!!❤️
      I hope you know how much I appreciate our friendship and all the support you ALWAYS give me. You are the biggest sweetheart and I was speaking to you talking about viewers who always make me smile! Thanks for being such a great big sis. I am so lucky to have you!!😘

    • @reneklein6049
      @reneklein6049 3 месяца назад

      ​@tinasbestmidlife I meant to say that you should be paid what you are worth. I'd much rather watch and support you than a 30 something RUclipsr who's not genuine and doesn't care about her subscribers.
      I'm so happy that I found your channel, and that I can proudly call you my little sis. You mean so much to me.
      Block the haters. They have a problem, not you!
      Have a great Sunday. Love to you. ❤❤

  • @SusanPunako
    @SusanPunako 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh wow. How mean some people are. It makes me wonder if they talk or act like that in their everyday lives. I don’t think negativity has a place in somebody’s own RUclips channel. I haven’t begun a channel yet because I truly don’t know what area of my home to dedicate to filming and using. I may buy a she shed and doll it all up really girly someday. I’m sorry for your mean comments. I will someday ask you some of the questions I need to get started with a channel. I’m a straight forward person. I like what I like about clothes and fashion in general. I’m not. Trendy guru I’m simple and classic with a Boho edge I do my own makeup which isn’t really fancy but it’s my personal routine. I admire all of you who have channels. I know that almost everyone i watch has had this conversation at one time to address the mean comments and all the Karen’s out there and there just isn’t a single good reason for it other than their own unhappiness and maybe jealousy is what i figure. But I enjoy your channel and truly know that what you present and promote are things that you believe in because I couldn’t imagine you pretending to like something that you don’t like at all. Anyway support your way always Tina ❤you always make a day a bit brighter for me ❤.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  2 месяца назад

      Oh Susan you are so sweet thank you!! I hope all this didn't sour you on starting your channel, because in spite of the few "meanies" out there, there are so many more positive, supportive people.
      Thank you again for the kind words and please let me know the minute you start your channel because I can't wait to support you!!❤️

  • @salliestephens1252
    @salliestephens1252 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Tina...first, for some reason I leave comments and they keep disappearing (no idea why!) Second: nobody messes with my sweet friend Tina! I'm so sorry these keyboard warriors feel the need to be so mean and negative. You are kind, not pushy, don't try to 'sell' things to your viewers, you do your research, and you are the one of the loveliest people out there in RUclips land.
    Pay no mind to them...if you can. Your true followers know and love you and trust the information you put out for us to watch. Hang in there friend! Hugs!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Sallie! So sorry you have to retype this! I responded to a comment on this video the other day and it too disappeared!
      I hope you know I was talking to YOU when talking about the best parts of doing RUclips. You never fail to lift me up and put a smile on my face. I hope you know how much I appreciate you!
      Hope you have a wonderful day sweet friend!❤️

  • @terrievans4444
    @terrievans4444 3 месяца назад +2

    Those comments make me so sad for you! I’ve got thin skin and it would really hurt my feelings. The people that leave those mean comments have to be miserable. They can’t be happy unless they’re putting someone down. We love you and your videos! Keep making them as long as you’re able to. I look forward to them!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Oh Terri, I love you too! And you are definitely one of the great parts about RUclips I was talking about. Thank you sweet friend!❤️

  • @bethanyabbott6622
    @bethanyabbott6622 3 месяца назад +2

    Try not to let the mean comments rob your joy. It's more than obvious to anyone who consistently watches your content that you are kind, genuine and honest. Thank you for your hard work. Be strong and confident as you're building a community of nice people while doing something you enjoy.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Thank you Bethany! This was so incredibly sweet. I really appreciate!❤️

  • @sheilahall7588
    @sheilahall7588 3 месяца назад +3

    Good morning lovely Tina: I have to say the best thing about your RUclips channel is that I made a special friend that I cherish. Wishing you the best of weeks ahead. ❤😊

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh Sheila, I hope you know I was talking to YOU about the absolute best parts of RUclips!
      I am so lucky to have made a wonderful friend who is just so pure and good through and through!
      Thank you for always being a bright spot!!❤️

  • @cwm5316
    @cwm5316 3 месяца назад +2

    Hi Tina, Happy Sunday!!! I watch RUclips for information and for enjoyment. I really enjoy your videos because you have always appeared as someone who is friendly and genuine. It takes time and money to create videos so if you receive a free product or a discount code for something that you feel is a good product then you should take the opportunity. It's nobody's business but yours. These people who leave mean comments are unhappy so they want to make other people unhappy. Keep doing what you are doing and delete the mean comments. There is a RUclipsr out there who has created a parody channel of the LisaLisaD1 channel. If she is that bothered by Lisa, just stop watching her channel. I hope that you have a great week!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      You are always so kind and supportive and I hope you know how much I appreciate it! And yes, I will keep deleting the comments from the haters.
      I never heard of that parody channel and I think that is so awful!! Some people are just so unkind...
      Thanks again for all your support. I hope you know how much I appreciate it!💕

    • @salliestephens1252
      @salliestephens1252 3 месяца назад +2

      I've seen that LisaLisa parody woman and she is so mean-spirited and awful.

  • @bettyscott5506
    @bettyscott5506 3 месяца назад +3

    Hi Tina. Why do people write these sort of comments? Probably jealousy. It really annoys me that they say them to you as you’re such an honest, pleasant and cheery girl. Continue to delete those comments. I very rarely read other comments, maybe that’s a good thing 😀. Love the chats you do 🙂 xx

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Betty! Who knows what goes through some people's minds! Lol!
      I hope you know that I was talking to you about someone who always makes me smile!! You are so sweet and I so appreciate all the support you ALWAYS give me. Thank you Betty!!❤️

    • @susanengleman1310
      @susanengleman1310 3 месяца назад

      I totally agree. It’s a mystery to me why people would hate on you Tina. Makes me sad, you don’t deserve that. Ignore the trolls if you can.

  • @dianeschenkelberg8270
    @dianeschenkelberg8270 3 месяца назад +2

    I don't understand the need to post something so negative. Delete the comment, and block the commenter. Focus on all the positive comments!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Diane. You are absolutely right! Reading all these incredibly sweet comments on this video has just filled up my ❤️
      And you are always supportive. Thank you!!💕

  • @melissamccall1182
    @melissamccall1182 3 месяца назад +1

    I weirdly feel like your friend and am so hurt for you. All I can say is that the people who leave mean comments are probably very unhappy and just want to make others unhappy. Delete them and keep being you! I really love your content.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Melissa it is not weird at all, but incredibly sweet! You are always so supportive and kind. Thank you sweet friend!❤️

  • @andreatran2724
    @andreatran2724 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm sorry you ever have to deal with nasty comments. I think you have a positive attitude and give honest reviews and opinions.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Thank you Andrea! I do feel like the over 50 women who watch the fashion videos are the nicest. I hope you don't get any of the meanies on your channel!

  • @marykincheloe5215
    @marykincheloe5215 3 месяца назад +1

    I just think these people don't watch all of your videos. I appreciate your point of view and love watching your videos. Mean people need to keep their comments to themselves.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much for this comment Mary! You have no idea how much I appreciate it!❤️

  • @dianev9253
    @dianev9253 3 месяца назад +2

    What a shame people are so negative. I enjoy your videos and look forward to them. I’m glad you deleted those comments. I’m an empty nester and have the time to watch videos. You are one of the RUclipsrs I watch. Have a great week.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much Diane! Your sweet comment is so appreciated. I hope you know that.
      Thank you for the smile and I hope you have a fantastic day!💕

  • @shannonalwaise8398
    @shannonalwaise8398 3 месяца назад +1

    The mean comments would bother me too

  • @kated5607
    @kated5607 3 месяца назад +3

    You are so sweet - some people aren’t….
    Sorry that you were the recipient of their vitriol!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Hi Kitty. You are definitely one of the kind ones and I hope you know how much I appreciate it! Thank you for being one of the sweet ones who makes me smile!!💕

  • @celesteswank2041
    @celesteswank2041 3 месяца назад +1

    Unfortunately there are more unhappy people out there than maybe ever before and with the ability to lash out at their fingertips, hateful thoughts are a quick text box away. I find you to be kind and so respectful. My hope is that those mean people will find the joy they are missing and maybe start spreading that instead!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Celeste! That would be my hope too!!
      Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to leave me such a nice comment. I really appreciate it!💕

  • @Makeupandmorewithgloriap
    @Makeupandmorewithgloriap 3 месяца назад +1

    Mean comments just boggle my mind. I have gotten my fair share and like you I just delete them.
    I love watching your videos. You are so kind and sweet and just an amazing person.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh Gloria, I am sorry you deal with the haters too... I feel so protective over my RUclipsr friends/co-workers when I see any post a mean comment on their videos!
      Thank you for the support my friend. I truly appreciate it!❤️

  • @BCsells
    @BCsells 3 месяца назад +2

    Good Morning, Tina….Oh yes, totally understand the harsh, mean comments. But as you said, they probably aren’t regular viewers or they wouldn’t have made those comments. You are a lovely, kind, sweet lady and I enjoy your videos (I don’t comment much, but I do watch). Keep being you and we’ll continue watching! Hugs! ❤️

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Hi Barbara! I am sorry you understand about the haters too. But I am sure you can agree, the lovely people far out weigh the meanies!
      I feel bad because I watch your videos too and always enjoy them, but I am not great leaving comments all the time either! But I hope you know how much I appreciate your support and kindness. You are such a sweetheart! ((hugs)) right back at ya❤️

  • @dianeocumpaugh6719
    @dianeocumpaugh6719 3 месяца назад +1

    I just want to add this comment- please don’t listen to those negative comments, you have more of us that enjoy your content. Please keep up the great videos.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much Diane! This was so sweet to hear🥰

  • @caroljohnson7843
    @caroljohnson7843 3 месяца назад +1

    I enjoy your videos and like to see new products. Unfortunately, social media seems to bring out the meanness in people.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Thank you Carol. That really means a lot!
      And yes, there are plenty of mean ones out there on the internet. But just looking at all the sweet comments on this video shows there are more good ones that bad!
      Thanks again for your kind comment. Have a good one!💕

  • @jswansee674
    @jswansee674 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Tina! I just want you to know I feel like you are a friend and you are the best part of RUclips ❤️ there are so many mean people in this world, but there are more that love you and your videos! I look forward to your videos, I don’t always get them watched on that day and don’t always have time to comment but just know you are loved and appreciated 😘 stay just as sweet as you are and delete the meanies😉 and have a great week my friend🌺🌸

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh J, you are and have always been such a sweetheart! I so appreciate you and I hope you know how much it means to me. Thank you sweet friend!❤️

  • @donnab6590
    @donnab6590 3 месяца назад +2

    Both comments sound like they were written by the same person!! Stay strong, we appreciate the information you share on your channel.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Hi Donna. You are right that they sound similar, but the names were different.
      Thank you so much for being one of the "good ones"! I really appreciate it!
      Hope you have a fantastic day!💕

  • @robinsnest4306
    @robinsnest4306 3 месяца назад +1

    Tina I think some of these people say these things just to be mean! I do t even know why! My parents used to say if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all! You are such a sweet beautiful person inside and out that it makes me angry people do this to you! Over the years I now consider you a dear friend and it breaks my heart to hear about these hateful comments! Love ya girl!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Oh Robin, you really are the sweetest!
      I was raised the same way and I think that is why it is hard for us to fathom how people could say these things to strangers?!
      You are most definitely a dear friend and I love ya right back!❤️

  • @KathInNJ
    @KathInNJ 3 месяца назад +1

    People are just ridiculous. They are so miserable in their own lives they have to take it out on others. We love you!!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for this! You have no idea how much you have brightened my day!!🥰

  • @caroltombari9112
    @caroltombari9112 3 месяца назад +1

    You will always have hateful mean people when you deal with the public. The rest of us love your videos and appreciate what you do. I have a precious 55 year old daughter named Tina and if anyone made hateful comments to her it would really hurt. Just laugh at their ignorance and let it go.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Carol! I love your daughter's name! Lol!
      Thank you for being one of the "good ones"! And thank you for saying you enjoy my videos. That means the world to me!❤️

  • @joycedoss1181
    @joycedoss1181 3 месяца назад +1

    Unfortunately, there are a lot of people that are unhappy and unstable that use the Internet to try to bully others. While I feel sorry for them, I refuse to allow their comments to affect my sense of self. Try to ignore them. If pressed, let them know that you do not value their opinions.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Joyce. So true.
      And it's people like you that make it easy to shake off the bad ones. So thank you for that!💕

  • @574shelley
    @574shelley 3 месяца назад +2

    Hi Tina, you’re such a kind soul and I thank you for all you do for us on RUclips. Please don’t listen to the hateful people on RUclips. Unfortunately they might be going through something we don’t know and they surely shouldn’t be taking it out on you or anyone else.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Hi Shelley! I have no idea what happened to my comment I left earlier??
      You are so right that some people that lash out at strangers, are probably dealing with something in their own life. Best just to delete and move on!
      Thank you so much for the sweet encouragement. It truly means a lot!❤

  • @doniseeverett2209
    @doniseeverett2209 3 месяца назад +2

    This was so interesting! Thank you so much for sharing

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      I am glad you enjoyed it Donise! Thank you!💕

  • @Blinggirl
    @Blinggirl 3 месяца назад +1

    You are a sweetheart❤ I am getting mean comments too! Not fun but I look at it this way they must be very miserable.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh Barbara I am sorry for the mean comments you have gotten too. You are such a sweet soul and I feel so protective over my fellow RUclipsr friends!💕

    • @Blinggirl
      @Blinggirl 3 месяца назад

      Aww Thank you I do what you do delete them❤​@tinasbestmidlife

  • @AmandaPerkins815
    @AmandaPerkins815 3 месяца назад +1

    Like you I seem to get my most negative comments on videos where I have received something free. People just don't understand we do this because we love to and actually receiving these products it opens our eyes to new brands we may have never tried before and end up really liking. You seem so genuine and your personality is so sweet and honest. I know it's hard but you have to just brush off those bad comments. People who truly love watching your videos know the truth.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Amanda! Sorry you can relate! I guess it will always be something we have to deal with unfortunately... But reading all the sweet comments on this video- there are definitely so many more good ones out there!❤️

    • @AmandaPerkins815
      @AmandaPerkins815 3 месяца назад

      @@tinasbestmidlife you are so sweet and I love your channel.

  • @maryannawoodard4495
    @maryannawoodard4495 3 месяца назад +1

    I love your videos. It is sad that some people are so rude. As the saying goes, ‘hurting people hurt people’. I would be hurt too even though my advice would be to ignore them - which is easier said than done.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you! And I agree with you completely!❤️

  • @ckveggie6006
    @ckveggie6006 3 месяца назад +1

    Sorry to hear about the negative comments. I have been thinking about starting a RUclips channel but I haven’t decided yet as I am almost 71 years old and I feel like it may be overwhelming to learn how to film and then how to edit. I may email you if I decide to go ahead. That’s so kind of you to help others.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Definitely reach out if you decide to go ahead! And I hope that I didn't persuade you not to try with this video. As you can see from the comments on this video. There are so many more good ones out there than the meanies! I hope to hear from you!❤️

  • @shbkitchell5097
    @shbkitchell5097 3 месяца назад +1

    It always amazes me the things people will say in comments that they would not say to someone face-to-face. At least I hope they wouldn’t 😳. I can’t imagine they’d have many friends! Don’t think I’d make their friends list. I think the RUclipsrs I watch are way kinder about what they say than what I think sometimes 😂😂😂 You do you, & thank you for doing it. ❤

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Can you imagine if they say these things to people's faces??? 😣
      You are definitely one of the sweet ones and I always appreciate your comments. Thanks for taking the time to leave them. I really do appreciate it!💕

  • @findingmystyle_x
    @findingmystyle_x 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Tina, I don't know why some people have to be horrible, there's no need at all. If it's not their bag they don't have to watch. Thank you for a great video xx

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      I think kind people as yourself just find it hard to comprehend people who act like this?!
      Thank you for watching and taking the time to leave me a nice comment. I appreciate it!💕

  • @RanaChefInternational_786
    @RanaChefInternational_786 3 месяца назад +3

    Hi dear Tina you are looking very beautiful amazing so sweet relaxing voice ❤️ I love you good video thanks for sharing my dear friend like 1 ❤

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      So very kind of you my friend! Thank you and I hope you have a wonderful day!!

  • @peggysuegiggles9383
    @peggysuegiggles9383 3 месяца назад +1

    i say if you want to show something, show it and return it.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Peggy. I don't keep everything, but still it's a lot of extra stuff! I do donate a lot to the resale shop I volunteer at too.
      Thanks so much for watching and I hope you have a good one!💕

  • @aslobos
    @aslobos 3 месяца назад +1

    Tina, you are a beautiful and gorgeous 56!💐🥰 I get so much joy and comfort from your wonderful channel, especially after the death of my sister in February. Thank you for everything you do. 🤩🙏💐 p.s. I'm an empty nester, too. 😥😊

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Oh my gosh, I am so sorry about your sister😢... I have two and I can't even imagine the pain in losing them... I am so, so sorry..
      If I can brighten any of your days, that is the best compliment I could ever receive.
      Sending ((hugs)) to you my friend ❤️

  • @marianne57
    @marianne57 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Tina …. It’s always a good day watching one of your videos. I always want to talk back to you. I also want to say thank you for hanging in there and spreading joy to your real on line friends. ❤️🤗

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Marianne! I am a talker back to videos too! Lol!
      Thank you so much for always having a kind word to share with me. I so appreciate it!❤️

  • @tnic3255
    @tnic3255 3 месяца назад +1

    You are so sweet, love listening to you!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Well you just made my day!🥰

    • @tnic3255
      @tnic3255 3 месяца назад

      @@tinasbestmidlife 🥰

  • @SheriDamron-bu2ib
    @SheriDamron-bu2ib 3 месяца назад +1

    I enjoy your videos! So sorry people can be so nasty!

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you Sheri! It really means a lot that you enjoy my videos! ❤️

  • @nancycronin601
    @nancycronin601 3 месяца назад +2

    Very interesting. Stitch fiix view revenue does not even cover the fee to get a box. Look forward to all your videos as they feel like time with a friend. Really enjoy the ones of just you and Louie in your house doing your daily thing. Take care and thanks for all the joy you share. ❤

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi Nancy! Are you back from your sister's trip? I hope you had a wonderful time! I am so excited about my upcoming trip to spend some time with my sisters❤️
      Thanks for always being one of the "good ones" who make me smile!
      And Louie says hi!💕

    • @nancycronin601
      @nancycronin601 3 месяца назад

      @@tinasbestmidlife Still on our trip. Idaho is lovely and of course loving sister time. Very much miss my husband and Hugh which makes it easier to go home. Have a wonderful time with your sisters.

  • @DaveCollierCamping
    @DaveCollierCamping 3 месяца назад +1

    Excellent video

  • @acnbuckeye6530
    @acnbuckeye6530 3 месяца назад +1

    I have had fleeting thoughts wondering how much time you are spending doing these videos. I never thought about your getting paid but I have no interest in knowing about payments. Time is more important to me. I also never thought about your trying to look younger but in reality we all want to look younger not older. I’m more interested in makeup products and not clothing but you’ll remember I’m the one that pushes dressing in your “colors” because they really do help improve your appearance. Have fun and keep it up if you are enjoying it. Delete those harsh comments and move on.❤

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Hi there! I have never really broken down how much time I spend working on this channel, but it is A LOT! Researching ideas and projects, shopping, testing, shooting the video, editing, responding to comments.. It takes a lot of time! But like I said, at this point I am still enjoying putting in the time.
      As far as trying to look younger, I agree no one wants to look older, but I truly just want to feel good in my skin where I am at right now. Chasing looking younger I think is just too hard!
      I know you are big on dressing your colors and I do use my color analysis as a guide, but I have personally learned that when people wear clothes they love, they light up! And that always makes you look better in my opinion even if it's not one your so called colors. I know you don't like me in navy, but I love it and feel good in it, so it is definitely staying in my wardrobe.
      Because I like to make varied content, I have some viewers who just watch what they like and I get that. Like you said you are mainly interested makeup products and I appreciate that you watch that content, because I too am very interested in makeup as well.
      Well, this was long! Lol! But thank you for watching and I hope you have a great Sunday!

    • @frithschannel270
      @frithschannel270 3 месяца назад

      Hi Tina! I am glad you are getting some return on all your time and investment. I love your Stitch Fix videos 😊 block those meanies! I don’t understand why they feel the need, but that’s not important. I hope you brush it off and don’t let it get to you.

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      Thank you!❤️

    • @tinasbestmidlife
      @tinasbestmidlife  3 месяца назад

      @@frithschannel270 I really appreciate that! Thank you ! And yes, delete the "meanies!"