Patreon EXCLUSIVE | Gimme Alimony | The Joe Budden Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
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On this Patreon exclusive, The guys discuss when they think is the right age to have children, the importance of schooling for the development of children + MORE!
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Such a good episode. The paradox of waiting until you get financially stable to have kids, is that once you become financially stable you may not want to have kids. Way too real.
The opposite consequence is much more dire
I'm 43. My wife and I dothave kids but I would have wanted them when i was younger. But I was also financially a bum. At this point, we're both spoiled and set in our ways.
@@BlackCultureNetworkExactly. From the perspectives the guys are using: when you have them at a young age, you don’t many choices. As you become older, more financially and mentally stable, your options become plentiful.
That’s me lol
At the same point time is essence , lack of time is what messes people up.
Parks saying "I Ironed today", and the camera panning to HIM in a wrinkled black tee @1:23 got me out my chair for real lmao. Love ya Parks btw.
im 39 and pregnant with my first and grateful I waited. I traveled the world and worked in corporate America in my 20s-mid 30s. Im not as financially prepared as I'd like to be but i feel i have the tools and foundation to set my kid up for success. Ish putting too much stock in societal changes impacting parent/child relationships. Guide your kids with love and respect and they'll give it back to you no matter yalls age difference. 💯
Are you afraid that she or he will not relate to because of your age? As someone that has a parent Joe’s age and I’m 22. Me and my parents have a great relationship that I don’t think I would’ve had with them if they had me at 40. Like I couldn’t imagine my mom being 60 right now in while I’m 22. My grandmother is 60 right now we just can’t relate to her even though I love her and I look to her for guidance. She can’t understand me like my parents do. I’m just curious all love
@@amonnaerwin7851 the advantages of having older parents is that the parents are more established in life so the quality of the child ‘s life would be a lot better compared to the alternative. They def won’t relate unless they’re actively involved in the children’s life.
The 3 stooges at it again 🤣🤣🤣 Joe and his 2 shadows complaining like Karen’s for hours straight 😂
They crazy to think you have to have kids at a young age
Same! I didn’t have my first baby til 29 and now on my second at 31 and my husband is much older than me! I loveeee it!!!
Joe has an abundance mindset. Ppl who want something bad enough will find a way to manifest it. Whether they have to work 16 hours a day, they are typically strict and highly disciplined people. This is a convo for them not the average person who makes excuses if we’re being honest.
This many drops for me concerned the boys taking the longest break ever 😂
They did this last year. We get fed during the holidays.
Same them boys dropping like crazy
No. More money for Joe dropping on RUclips
Naaaah this “Black Cloud Bombing” where they flood the streets as a present for us “brokies”
Nah joe tryna run this qtr up , that's all, RUclips earnings flying in 😂
Jbp best podcast hands down for years now
Great convo. My wife and I are 28 y.o and have a 7, 5, 2 and 6 month old. It was a struggle at first finishing up college and starting our careers, but my kids gave me a sense of purpose and compass I didn’t have prior.
“I was trying to tell you take the condom off long before you did” is crazzzzyyyy 😂😂😂😂
Ice reaction to parks calling him the President of Samsung was hilarious 😂
his corny ass would try to intimidate Parks🙄
@@GratitudeGriot you gotta relax 😂
Phenomenal topic! Once again the guys hit it out of the park as per usual! Great discussion kudos gentlemen on a fantastic segment!
To Ish’s point having kids later means your child will more than likely not have you around for longer and will miss you in those pivotal life moments when they’re an adult. As a child of parents who were older when they had me, losing your parents when you get to be in your 20s is harder if they’re older because you then spend life thinking, “I wish my mom/dad could see me do XYZ.” Those milestones hit different when mom or pop isn’t their to guide you through them.
When kids are a certain age they don't want to hear from you regardless of your age. 😂Also I had one in my 20's and another in my 30's and it's the same thing. Sometimes having kids at any age can be motivating. I've seen guys and women get motivated to more once they had a kid. Lastly, kids born to older parents tend to be smarter.
Joe is the genius that everyone steals from and denounces.
Ish’s mom was probably concerned about the social pressures of being a 2nd grader ( 6/7 year olds) in a class full of 4th graders.( 9/10 year olds) Those 2-3 years make a difference when you’re going through puberty as well as graduating and applying to college at 15, rather than at 18.
That was my first thought
I think it’s so important to be financially mature before you have a child. You never want that blessing to feel like a burden
financially and most importantly mentally.
“instead of buying your children all the things you never had, you should teach them all the things you were never taught. Material wears out but knowledge stays.” - bruce lee
@Silver Joystix people are well aware of their window to have kids. This isn't the 1950's
@Silver Joystix Nah, too many dumbass kids running around nowadays due to their parents also being immature kids. Especially when the young parents still go out and do things they've been doing when they were childless, just breeding and passing they're bad traits that they never learned or grew out of themselves; thus the fatherless or split parent cycle continues; and that's the biggest burden to put on your child due to your own selfish desires or failure to take precaution "because you're young and supposed to be dumb" which is just an excuse made up by losers and idiots to take accountability off themselves.
@@dimendkai One of the greatest pieces of advice you can give raising a living, sentient being.
as a man who was a teenage father at 18, i really appreciate and enjoyed this topic of conversation
Thanks yall for blessing us with all these clips. Keep 'em coming
I'm 29 and working on my Master's degree and just bought a home. My parents are 64 and 70.
I totally agree with the "probability sentiment" because I'm a kid from the hood that went to a "Model C school" and I attained good grades, but there was this one kid who seemingly was "more intellectual" than I, who lived in the suburbs. My teacher always said that I had the potential to be great only if I could put more work in, but she never took into account the fact that come exam time I would have to travel for almost three hours to get home and be greeted by household chores, unlike the other kid that lived 5 minutes away. I lived in a shack which had five or more people in it, in an area that had a lot of "pubs" where music plays nonstop, people getting stabbed or shot and we would be expected to persevere through all of this. I did though, still attaining more greatness.
Exactly. People be having kids for their own selfish reasons, then completely ignore when issues like yours arise & put massive pressure on a child, and usually hve to figure it out on their own as the parents didn't have the life experience to guide you properly. Those who persevere will receive greatness, but we know the majority won't and the cycle of the smart kid stuck in the hood continues.
@@ldope3904 I totally agree with you, bro
It’s always that one person with an Android 😆😆😆😆
The end of the year bonuses gone obviously come from these uploads 😂💪🏾💰
Facts!
LOVE IT when the boys get in those "LIFE" bags.
I’m glad I had my kids early. They in college and I’m not even 40 yet. Rough beginnings but I wouldn’t change it.
Great Pod!!! Can't get enough of this pod.
joes feet look like a fist😂😂😂😂
I like the new JBP where they can get into their older black man bag. Give us youngins some game.
Joe you would be a real one if you drop “Parks Knows” 😂 that’s the one they all wanna see
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TRUST ME. The trauma or lack of nurture/support you'll put your kid through in their early years will follow them their whole life. BE READY!
Dannn for the first time I can’t keep up Joe not playin 😂😂😂😂😂😂
“You good ?” Ice is fucking hilarious!
great opening convo. shit stays the same honestly i love that my moms can still provide some old school knowledge & game. im 37 shes 58. salute to the guys 🏁
This was good asf!! Going to watch it again!
A niggah ironing his plain black Hanes shirts. Is hilarious fam 🤣 😂 😂
On the first day of Christmas Joe Budden gave to me. More pod!
I'm glad that I planned to have kids early in life. The preparation argument is cool, but in reality when we want something for our kids we make it happen, one way or another. I'm just glad I had kids while I was young enough to run wit em. They have a lot more energy than folks think, 😂
Not everyone is lucky to find a suitable partner early in life.
Teaching our children how 2 farm 👨🌾💖🌱
I agree with ish. When I was in Junior high I was a problem and later on in life I found out that I was given a chance to move up to high school and my mom didn’t move me up because she didn’t want me to be around older kids.
Drop the Ab Soul patreon exclusive on here please
Damn yo spoiler! Been mia from patreon like 2 months
Or just sub to the patreon.
@@kevinstewart8054 no nigga
👀👀👀COME WITH MEEEE😈😈😈😈
On god
Did ice just pull a iPhone IN THE BOX out his pocket 🤔🤨🤯🤣🤣🤣
Men should wait and women shouldnt. Providing for your kids is the most important for men and being able to even have them is the most important for women. A 35 year old chick is going to have a hell of a time finding a man to want to have kids with them and shes going to have a hell of a time even bearing them. Chicks who wait are more likely to never have them, where a 35 year old dude with his finances together will have no issue.
You think that because in our culture everyone has kids Hella young. But in other cultures it's not unusual for me to see people having kids 35 and above. I had my daughter at 36. When I go around black people they think I'm her grandmother when I go around white people they acknowledge her as my daughter lol
I really enjoy the podcast more when it randomly comes on from auto play
Bro wtf Ish? I got the EXACT same story yo that’s wild 😂 I skipped 1st and my school wanted me to go to 5th and my mom said no so I wouldn’t get bullied 😂😂😂 I was a liiiittle bit of a troublemaker lmao
Great convo. One thing Ill add is that most individuals who have kids at a young age have family support they can lean on when in need of child care while they do what they wabt to do, the same thing goes for individuals who live at home and dont have to pay rent so they can save to invest on themselves. I often see this scenario downplayed as if its not a reliable resource in life..especiallly in todays time.
Nahhh I might have to get on patreon 😂 so that’s where ish be getting in his pod bag at 😂
My mom was 21 when she had me. I couldn't imagine 21 year old me being a father. 35 year old me NOW still ain't ready lol
You don’t need film school or money now to be successful. So like Joe said you gotta find the time regardless of your circumstance. It’s gone be harder for some than others, but we don’t get to pick our life.
But some people LITERALLY are not capable of doing this due to financial, mental, emotional even psychological factors. Having money can solve all this, we see it time and time again
@@niablee money ain’t a factor. Everybody got problems. Ain’t nothing, but time and opportunity. That’s why there’s free therapy and other mental health services available. The ignorance is real and being a loser is easier, more fun and requires zero effort.
@@hashtagfilthy it's 1000% a factor! Someone who has a million dollars right now can go off, build something and get their dreams accomplished quicker vs the person who has to wait for the 'right time" or opportunity 'cause they're broke.
@@niablee you don’t understand me. If you have no money today you can start some shit and get after it. Obviously if you have money you can skip steps, but relationships are more valuable than money. I came from nada and was able to get around the right people to learn and gain opportunities from and be able to create them for myself ultimately.
This Wednesday gonna be our last episode till next 2023 first week😂😂
they better be back on them couches pod after new years 😭😭😭😭😭
@@AliFrankTheTank naw forreal tho they make work go by fast😂😂
My wife and I are purposely having our kids fast and young so we can live with them AND we’ll get our freedom back quicker. Fuck what anybody says, your younger years aren’t your best years.
Yea my girls youngest is 15 she jus turned 40. But she has 2 already out of the house.
My dad told me its better to have money when ur older not younger. Im 33 and all i can think about is retiring. Your best years are when ur older. And im in track to retire by the time im 34, maybe 35.
Facts lol I started late but by my calculations I’ll be 48 when my son turns 18, and 50 when my second son turns 18… I’m planning it out like I’ll still be young when my kids are grown
@@KariFromRUclips I’m in the saaaame boat. The kids gon watch me on hella vacations once they hit 18
“Young Boy Camera” 😂
I was thinking they will never release an episode 3 days in a row. That was hate!
i usually listen on apple so i’m just noticing the background view on the set. is the background moving? is the crib moving? is the camera moving? is it a green screen? am i high rn… do i ever get nervous… tf is happening?? 😅
Amazing topic!!!
Fraternity sound like a GANG lol
Joe is Thanos.
Love this episode. I guess, all these exclusives are in effort to grab more subscribers!
He finally hit 1M Joe and the boys been going hard lately especially with the production
I wanted kids before 28 since I was 13 and it was a conversation I had with an ex. I had many opportunities to become a father with her, when we parted ways when I was 20, I was grateful I didn’t have one early with her. But, now I’m 33 and I wish we made it work and I wish I did have kids, even if I was 18, I wish I started a family already, older I get the less I feel a child is going to happen. No matter how much I want to have one.
Why didn't Tech-Man Ice take the Apple converter off the aux and give it to Ish? 😂😂
Ice ouchea looking like a South African prisoner in that orange fit.
"They hate a scent on some shit" Lol.
Great conversation to start. Cost of living is making it near impossible to have a kid with a good upbringing and let them go to a good school without heaping up loads of debt.
Yooooooo I used to work for that man from the clip Ish played. His name is Patrick Bet David
In about 2 years i'll be checking for the 'Uncle Pod' podcast with Ish lmao
Anyone else in a black frat feeling hella lit from what ish was saying at the end 😂😂😂 HE SAID WE LIKE THE NAVY SEALS LETS GOOO
😂😂😂
Find time for your passion even if you’re not earning from it 💡
This content makes me shut everything else off
This is what yall pay for to see Joe wit his toes out lol yall crazy 🤣🤣
All these patreon exclusives on RUclips is wild
Im 32 and my wife is 30 and we still waiting few more years. We just enjoin freedom of life too much.
Being a parent to your kids > trying to be your kids “friend”. Doesn’t really matter the age, but you gotta be a parent first
Fam my christmas gift to myself is buying the 25 dollar tier of patreon i been cryin all episode😂😂
Fam these episodes making me feel like l jailbroke my firestick and got all them sitting right here at my discretion lmao. Jbp flinging that end of the year content
Joe got on field trip sandals
I’m 27 and just had my first 5 months ago and think it’s perfect and my child’s mother is 34 I’m going to ask how she feels
If I’m Puff Daddy’s kids, I’m still stealing his clothes when he’s 60
Thanks Ish for explaining the Blood Chapters who have violent initiations. It's never right to submit people to mental breakdowns and financial ruin
Ish was on his shit today! The last lil 5 mins was a word
Joe Budden Toes Podcast ...Gucci Birkenstock edition
Damn they cut off at the best part😂😂😂
I never wanna see Joes toes again
needed this pod cause this been on my mind. good joint!
Joe got his feet out on the pod 😩😂 made it💯
just a few things ….
first of all… Joe scored that triple double…
And 2 …stop hatin
That's funny because I said the same thing that Ish did as a freshman in college about frats....
this man said audition for a frat lol
This convo hit me different 🤧 I'm 31 with no kids 😩
33 minutes is wild
Literally we all only know Jcole because he jumped into jay z and gave him a cd and I love Cole. Been a fan since 2010ish
Parks look like Phineus or Pherb...whichever one it may be
A "Samsung aux" they don't know anything 😂
I was fighting in 2nd grade lol moms always said “if anybody put they hands on you, you tee off on they asx” lol so that’s what it was
So what was the pledge to? 😂 seriously I’m lost
Ish be cookin'
Yo when Ish got the Aux 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hazeing? Never heard of it; Humbling.
That sunset
MAN WE SWIMMING IN CONTENT
Joes on Fire🔥🔥🔥
That's Patrick Bet David Ish. He is dope af
Them boys coming back Easter 23'
July 4th special return
I work 10 to 12hrs and make sure I get in studio atleast hour after work. Home Studio comes in handy