How to Know If She's THE ONE || CHRISTIAN DATING ADVICE for Men

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  • Опубликовано: 10 фев 2023
  • In this video, we talk about our advice on how to know if she's the one! Here on the Sam and Sadie Channel, we give Christian Dating and Relationship advice to help you navigate the world of dating from a Biblical Christian Perspective!
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Комментарии • 47

  • @MrMoon-pz1lm
    @MrMoon-pz1lm 4 месяца назад +12

    Dressing modestly is a big one for me.

  • @jiefeng2946
    @jiefeng2946 Год назад +17

    seasons of singleness is hard, I am 34, and still single, each year is becoming more difficult. I knew God has purpose for me during this particular season , I left my home country to 2018 to do my PhD degree, this past years, I clearly experience up and downs, time of hitting my valley , rejection for courtship, difficulties with my PhD studies, fighting against temptation, the list goes on and on. Last Novermer, I got my doctor degree and now worked as research fellow. In retrospect , he is indeed faithful and delivered me over all these storms. Sometimes, I don't know how long it will take me to remain single , I keep praying for my future partner, hopefully God will lift both of us when time is right. Please praying for me! thanks !

    • @andrefrueh
      @andrefrueh Год назад +1

      I had a friend get married at 36 and he is very happy! Stay faithful to the Lord above all and someone will come into your life if it is meant to be. Everyone’s timing is different. Praying for ya!

    • @jiefeng2946
      @jiefeng2946 Год назад +2

      @@andrefruehThanks brother, I will remain in him and keep equipping myself during this season.

    • @user-qo1wq7vt7t
      @user-qo1wq7vt7t Год назад +1

      31 and single I can understand you

    • @jiefeng2946
      @jiefeng2946 Год назад

      @@user-qo1wq7vt7t And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who[a] have been called according to his purpose. Trust his plan and timing . will pray for you .

    • @NexusofLight777
      @NexusofLight777 8 месяцев назад +1

      Oh my goodness, don't be discouraged, I've been single since August of 1996. Never been married and no children. And I'm a Christian. Now you tell me....who's the one that needs a companion? This guy right here.

  • @jeremiahrichards1264
    @jeremiahrichards1264 8 месяцев назад

    This is so good you guys.

  • @davonkuepfer7331
    @davonkuepfer7331 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great video! Been loving every one of them. Keep up the good work!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks Davon! That means a lot!! 😃

  • @gregorythomasii10
    @gregorythomasii10 Год назад +11

    Great words of wisdom. I believe in finding the right girl who is in the same interests like me and who is respectful to myself and those close to me. I will continue on the path God has put me on that leads me to the right girl someday. Thank you for sharing that wisdom with this video. I also wish you both lots of happiness. 🙂

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Год назад +1

      Hi Gregory! Thank you so much for your encouragement and well wishes! We pray that God would give you peace and joy and that He would give you the desires of your heart! God bless you! 😃🙏🏻

  • @saratoooo2627
    @saratoooo2627 Год назад +6

    I came across your videos last night and I have learnt a lot. I just want to thank you so much!😊I pray that I may have a godly man like Sam one day and a relationship like yours❤
    Also love the blooper scene!😄

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Год назад +1

      Hi Sara! Thanks so much for watching! We’re so glad that God has used our content to bless you! We’re also glad you liked the bloopers! We think it’s a good way to show we’re not at all perfect 😂 We pray that God would bring you the desires of your heart, and that He would help you to have peace and joy along the way! God bless you! 😃🙏🏻

    • @saratoooo2627
      @saratoooo2627 Год назад +1

      @@samandsadie Thank you so much! God bless you too!😁

  • @compilationvlog7246
    @compilationvlog7246 Год назад +3

    God is everything today, thank you for sharing the story😊 🙏.

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Год назад +1

      Amen!! Today and every day!! God bless you! 😃🙏🏻

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic Год назад +3

    Love the blooper scene! You guys seem really mature as-well. Lots of great points here. To add; I think with the father-daughter relationship, not every girl has a father in her life or a father that respects God. Therefore he may not honour his wife or his family. So many times her father may tell his daughter to do wrong things. But it's still important that she doesn't verbally disrespect her father but rather choose to follow God in all things and pray for her father. In this case the man may not be able to see how she's like with family but he can see how she's like with strangers and people in general. Jesus says if you love father more than God, you are not worthy of the kingdom. I know there's families where fortunately every member is saved, but for the daughter who is the only saved one in the family, a man of God should righteously judge that situation and if he prefers a girl who has both parents and that's important to him, then he should pursue her but if he doesn't mind what her past is or where she's coming from (family wise) then he should accept her with his whole heart as the Lord God accepts her. After all, love is a choice, whoever we choose to love, we should love according to God's will for us.❤

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Год назад +1

      We’re so glad you liked it! I think you make a great point when it comes to looking at how a daughter treats her father or a son treats his mother. I think that how someone respects their parents is how they will respect their spouse one day! God bless you and thank you for sharing! 😃🙏🏻

    • @racheloshaksmusic
      @racheloshaksmusic Год назад +1

      @@samandsadie Yes of course. Thank you for your response. God bless you too ♥

  • @user-uk4em9ns4p
    @user-uk4em9ns4p Год назад +3

    Wow words can’t explain how good this video was. See how she treats her dad/male figures in her life was such a bullseye 🎯 tip. My ex treated me terribly and she had no respect for her dad. There really is a connection. Awesome vid thank you!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Год назад +2

      We’re so glad you thought our advice was spot on! We’ve definitely seen the connection between relationships and how someone treats parents too. Thanks so much for watching and for commenting! God bless you 😃🙏🏻

  • @Mrartonaut
    @Mrartonaut 11 месяцев назад +2

    The way she looks at him. That's also one attribute 🙈

  • @johntaylor4193
    @johntaylor4193 9 месяцев назад +1

    thank you for making advice videos, for sharing what you believe, I like that. I love the Bible and the word of the Lord and Jesus Christ.

  • @reireiko3522
    @reireiko3522 Год назад +1

    You and sadie are very nice together, may God bless you. The video is very useful. Thank you. But I have a question about [women are not allowed to speak in the church.] What do you mean by that, because it is known that this verse was said by Paul to the Corinthian church because of an issue that sparked controversy in that church and was not set by law for all churches. I hope I have not offended Understanding, but I want you to explain to me what you believed exactly.

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Год назад +3

      Hi Rei! Thank you for the compliment! As far as what we mentioned regarding women not being able to speak in church, we’re referring to women preaching. 1 Timothy 2:11-12 says, “A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. But I do not allow a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet” (NASB). What Paul was meaning here is that women are not permitted to become pastors and exercise authority over the men. We believe that women can speak & lead in other settings (i.e. small groups, teaching women and children, etc) but that the preaching should be left to the men! We hope this answers your question. God bless you!

  • @HaAryehvHaShual
    @HaAryehvHaShual 3 месяца назад +1

    What do y'all think about online relationships? Like is it ok to date online and then eventually meet in real life? I'm curious to this, cause I've met a girl online that I really like and wondering if I should or shouldn't try to go for her.

  • @elijahhitt
    @elijahhitt 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’m 24 and still a single Pringle lol

  • @michaelmorcos8934
    @michaelmorcos8934 6 месяцев назад

    To your 1st point of following the Bible, what do you guys think of adultery before marriage? including girlfriend or fiancee that would be one day your wife?

    • @josiahkeroff9965
      @josiahkeroff9965 3 месяца назад

      Adultery is a sin regardless. Sex before marriage is a sin, however adultery is having sexual relations with someone WHO ISN'T YOUR WIFE.

  • @Littlemiathedreamer
    @Littlemiathedreamer Месяц назад

    I'm hindu, and I want to read the bible..

  • @ethanabrahams8391
    @ethanabrahams8391 11 месяцев назад +1

    I’m 16 and I feel like she MIGHT be the one my heart says I’m in love but my mind says the time isn’t right I’m too young and I have doubt is it to early or is it normal?

    • @pastelpatriot2256
      @pastelpatriot2256 11 месяцев назад +1

      If you're sixteen, I would definitly wait and hold back. She might be the one, but you're not ready at your age for the long term commitment. Seek to just be friends with each other, mainting good boundaries so you don't sin, and pray pray pray. If she's the one, God will eventually bring you two together in the future and if she's not, then you will have avoided much heart ache by not letting your feelings rule you! I will pray for you Ethan, God bless

    • @zippyblessed839
      @zippyblessed839 11 месяцев назад

      Awww puppy love

    • @kelpokonsultti
      @kelpokonsultti 4 месяца назад

      It’s more likely than not that you still have room to grow as a man of God, untill you’re ready for a real relationship.
      I’m 18 now and I’ve been thinking about different girls being ”the one” since I came to know Christ at 15yo.
      Put Christ first and all these things will come in time.

  • @Pedro-of4tn
    @Pedro-of4tn Год назад

    Peace be unto you. Brother and sister, may God bless you for believing in the scriptures and for obeying God, in the name of Jesus Christ.
    2 Timothy 3:16-17
    King James Version
    16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
    17 That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.
    James 1:21-25
    King James Version
    21 Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your souls.
    22 But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.
    23 For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass:
    24 For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was.
    25 But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.
    1 Corinthians 1:1-9
    King James Version
    1 Paul called to be an apostle of Jesus Christ through the will of God, and Sosthenes our brother,
    2 Unto the church of God which is at Corinth, to them that are sanctified in Christ Jesus, called to be saints, with all that in every place call upon the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, both their's and our's:
    3 Grace be unto you, and peace, from God our Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ.
    4 I thank my God always on your behalf, for the grace of God which is given you by Jesus Christ;
    5 That in every thing ye are enriched by him, in all utterance, and in all knowledge;
    6 Even as the testimony of Christ was confirmed in you:
    7 So that ye come behind in no gift; waiting for the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ:
    8 Who shall also confirm you unto the end, that ye may be blameless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.
    9 God is faithful, by whom ye were called unto the fellowship of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord.

  • @graceavai
    @graceavai Год назад

    Hiii, question what do you guys mean by speakers in the church?

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Год назад +5

      Hi there! We just mean women becoming pastors or being placed in a pastoral position that exercising authority over men! Women weren’t meant to be pastors/preachers, so that is what we mean by speakers in the church! Hope this helps!

  • @NexusofLight777
    @NexusofLight777 8 месяцев назад +2

    im sorry but this seems so outdated. Either that or they are of a particular denomination that has slightly different views on Christian dating conduct.

  • @flinnrieks2381
    @flinnrieks2381 Год назад

    *PromoSM*

  • @dansivanovs1062
    @dansivanovs1062 Год назад

    But what if I think she's THE ONE, I think she's God's sent, but she's not a christian?