this one hit me very hard. i've been struggling with anxiety since i was 12, and school was hell. people always picked on me for being quiet, they called me mute. even one of my teachers would humiliate me in front of the class, one time i went to the bathroom and just cried. i had no friends, i felt so alone, suicidal several times. i would eat my lunch in the bathroom because i was too scared to sit with anyone because i thought they all hated me and wanted me to go away. my anxiety used to be so bad i couldn't even order my own food at a restaurant, my family would get annoyed at me for asking them to order for me. used to stay up all night because i couldn't stop thinking. still sometimes do. the worst part about anxiety is how a lot of society doesn't understand it. you really feel alone and like the world is against you. i hope people grasp an understanding of not only this but all mental obstacles. because it's really hard.
I got anxiety when I was 8 and I'm 12 now this year has been the worst for anxiety with me I get worried at school and if I walk out everyone stares at me and I miss way to many days because I just can't go I get worried about not being able to breathe and a bunch of other stuff I went to the doctors yesterday they told me to go to hospital to get help right now but the hospital here is hopeless and they did nothing apart from making me sit in a room for an hour I think I'm getting blood test today because I'm to skinny so I'm anxious all the time sad to see other people go through this stuff
I feel you 💔 I got anxiety when I was about 10 and I'm turning 12 next month. I have anxiety about everything. I sit alone at lunch everyday and it's very rare for me to sit with people
Coming from someone with bad anxiety, this is extremely accurate, the fidgeting, the fear, the social anxiety, not wanting to go outside, not wanting to eat at restaurants, etc. And nobody understands, yet everybody blames it on the generation. Sure, it’s a tiny bit exaggerated, but it’s still pretty close. I really like this video because I believe it brings a lot of awareness towards anxiety. If there’s ever anybody with anxiety, please be nice to them. Remember, it’s not the generation. There was never this much awareness back then, it still existed.
The dad is such a mood. Like most parents these days. "It's a phase." Yeah, some kids are in phases, but some of them are actually NOT and require medical attention.
As an INTOVERT I can understand that how anxiety disorders affects people's daily life, there are some times when I don't feel like talking to anyone I think everyone and everything hates me but those with anxiety experience these things on a very extreme level and that too on daily basis so much love and power to u and u are amazing the way u r , don't worry u got this stay strong and beautiful guys.🤗❤️☺️
Something to think about in this situation is that at the end of they day, it doesn't matter who doesn't and does like you, because God didn't create us for popularity or fame or wealth, he created us to spread the love of God and worship him, and when you die, people not liking you for no reason will not be something that matters. I mean no offense when I say this, I'm just sharing tips that might be helpful❤❤😊😊🙂🙂
This actress who is acting the mother’s role is wonderful, every role I see her in, she aces it. You have a gem! Thank you for making your roles believable!
it must suck but these days there are girls on the social media platform tiktok saying they are all depressed, suicidal, anxies this makes it hard to know if someone is telling the truth or not
@@zennkenA this mom is confessing something very important and your going too say give your videos hate comments. That’s so sick. This is something very serious
I have anxiety myself, and honestly, it's not easy to control. Anxiety is something that everyone needs to understand because it's not something to be mad about, or to put a lot of pressure against somebody, it's something that we need to just need to make things calmer. People also need to understand that Anxiety is not something to make fun of, or joke around because like I said, Anxiety is something we cannot control.
Thank u I have anxiety it's hard to deal with as a teen but also as adults because people don't understand its hard to control something that u don't really know about it
I suffer from anxiety and sometimes to the fact i have anxiety attacks. I do have some stuff to help me calm down (Breathing, calming music and lavender). And truth to be told its not really easy to talk about this with parents, they just... dont understand. It's easier to talk with a therapist or some close friends who may understand how you feel. Luckily i have my boyfriend who always hugs me when i get anxiety attack. I really appreciate him by my side. THe first anxiety attack was the worst. I thought like i am dying, i was shaking hard and i felt sick. I drank a lot of water and it went away after a while. After that when i got anxiety attack, i repeat to myself "dont worry, you are okay, its just an anxiety attack" and its easier for me to calm down
I developed an anxiety disorder in my late teens and it's stayed with me for 14 years. I just began to really get a hang of it all and my confidence has finally come back to me this year. Sadly, most of the people I've ever talked to about it are like 'Roger,' the dad in this sketch. A lot of people can't comprehend what it's like to not be able to control it. Like the video suggests, lifestyle has played a huge role in my success. Just before the turn of the year I started to work on stopping negative self-talk, started working out 4-5 days a week, practiced healthier eating habits, and worked really hard on overcoming addictions/habits (like caffeine, thc, and nicotine). In addition, I've been getting out of my comfort zone more often and pushing my boundaries. It really does make a huge difference after a while. The process really is slow, too. I'm 6-7 months into my transformation and I feel like I'm in the best state I've ever been in, in my entire life. Still have a ways to go, and I'm making more progress every day. If you're going through these things, I believe in you. I legitimately gave up on myself, and life. I never even thought I'd make it as far as I have now. You can do it, too! It won't come quickly, but you will get better. I know you will.
Hey, i i developed anxiety aroung 8 yrs old. i get soo embarrassed for petty things that no one even cares abt like when my dad turns the volume really high in the car and then stps the car fr something and opens the door with music blaring through the street . i literally get a panick attack . did u feel the same way. i just always fell like ppl are judging me.
@@bettinajohn9781 I had anxiety to when i was 8 years old. If i would tell my parents that i had anxiety they would't believe that anxiety exist. I wish i can get the anxiety out of my head.
@@erolfatma3357 omg ikr they'll be like stop acting like a adult u just havto study what can u be possibly' anxious about'. oh and I hate going late to places where everyone is facing the door. I guss ull be able to understand that.
I’ve gone through anxiety ever since I was 6. I’ve been so lucky my friends are there for me. I’m scared to tell my mother, because I’m afraid she won’t believe me. It makes it even worse because I want to go to the law magnet, which means I have to talk. The anxiety is going to be REALLLLLL then.
My mum says it's because I'm busy looking for things on the internet. I keep suggesting I might have ADHD but everyone refuses saying idk how to prioritize. But she knows I have depression
I am not gonna self diagnose, but the thing called stress anxiety is like me whenever i have a lot to think of and know im not gonna be able to complete them all
My mom does that to me, she belittles me for it and thinks that when I'm talking to her that something new happened she thinks I'm talking about me being anxious
The last part of the video was very important for those who suffer anxiety, we need to understand that the healing process takes its time, is non-linear and is gradual. Patience is the key.
Well with anxiety I have it sometimes and talking to people while having anxiety is super hard cause you may feel sad, mad or even scared. And it’s weird cause this is how i act when I have some pretty bad anxiety.
Nobody should be shamed for having anxiety . Everyone deserves to be treated right. 💗 Don’t let people get to you, or even bully you. You are beautiful souls!
0:11 This is called “The Imaginary Audience” And almost everyone with anxiety has it. You feel like everyone is silently, but loudly judging you. And almost everyone who doesn’t have anxiety and has this, deals with it in different ways: Bullying; Ignoring; And getting into fights is common. It’s super common, and anxiety shouldn’t be taken as a joke; or not seriously.
Yes anxiety is REAL. I totally understand what she’s going through because I despise large crowds and gatherings too. Good thing the mom understood what her daughter was going through from her own experiences
Sometimes parents go like: "then how was there not much anxiety when we were kids" they don't understand that this generation *people are more evil, cruel and points out EVERYTHING* So anxiety exists more in this generation.
my mom literally took me out of school the other day for a mental health day, i ligit forgot i had anxiety that day because i wasn’t stressed about kids and school. sometimes we just need days to ourselves
Stop generalising parents like that. I used to have dyslexia and both of my parents understood me. They even helped me recover from it and now I get straight A’s. I know some parents are like that but just stop generalising all parents pls.
@@battletroll1likesminecraft214 ohh okay I re-read it I get it now 😂 I commented when I first woke up I don’t get nothing at that time I woke up at 4:00 am 👁 👄 👁 thanks for not being mean about I though :)
I have struggled with anxiety for as long as I can remember. In fact, I don't remember a time when I wasn't anxious. I wish things like meditating worked for me, but I have to rely on medication to get me through the days. The last time I tried to meditate, I had a panic attack. I wasn't diagnosed with anxiety until I was 21. Getting diagnosed, medicated, and seeing a therapist has completely changed who I am!
As a person who has social anxiety i go through this so often ,feeling people are laughing at me for every mistake i think it make will embarrass me and when i tell my parents they are the same they just dont get it..
Same. I always feel like people are talking about me and judging my every move and breath and my mom sorta tries getting it but when I refuse to go out she calls me lazy and stuff.
This is really sad and my friend used to have depression and anxiety, so this brings me back to those horrible memories. I wish that people would not make fun of people with these problems, as they are very serious. Some parents do not recognise these, and if any of you recognise that they have these, please, at least try to talk it out with them, its the least you could do. When I go outside, it feels like people are silently judging me. Why? Why do I feel like that?
yeah and some parents say "ItS bEcAuSe oF yOuR pHoNe" well axious people actually feel more comfortable talking online since you can be you without exposing your real self.
Ive talk to my dad about my anxiety before, I was expecting him to understand me but instead he blamed it on my phone and told me that therapists are waste of money. I wish they would just understand the point of view of teenagers nowdays.
Why is it funny when someone has anxiety like just leave them alone everyone has been through the feeling of being shy and if you havent then good for you. Just because you havent been shy before doesnt mean you can go picking on others. Edit: Thx for the likes guys it nice to see the helping community online.
My siblings think I have social anxiety since I find it hard to even order at a restaurant because I’m scared of being judged but my mother won’t listen and tells me if I won’t speak up I’ll get bullied and she makes fun of me for not wanting to talk to anyone
@@dadorkybunny Well she's wrong and whoever bullies you should be dealed with. If someone bullies you just ignore them their just not happy with something in their life trust me I know a thing or two about bulies.
Stop overreacting, I'm sure it's okay. Just talk with your family like explain it to them. They're very good parents to you. They just don't understand what anxiety means. It's really fine
@@Lets_looseweighttogether Stop overreacting, I'm sure it's okay. Just talk with your family like explain it to them. They're very good parents to you. They just don't understand what anxiety means. It's really fine
Julia’s mom is so kind empathetic and supportive. And once the dad realized the mom also had anxiety, he also became more kind, understanding and supportive to Julia
When my friends were talking about ‘disabilities’ and I used one of your quotes, I said something along the lines of ‘it’s not a disability, they just have a different ability’ and they took it in and I felt really happy. Thank you Dhar Mann!!
Not to mention that anxiety, unfortunately, doesn’t always involve shaking and sweating. Sometimes it really is hard to see. So sad that so many parents don’t always realize it til it’s too late or almost too late. Always ask for help when you need it😇
I have anxiety and have only had a panic attack like twice in my life. Most of the time, I just feel like I don’t wanna go out and do anything, like I would rather be in bed all day.
Mine is panic attack, sweating in night its hard to breathe because of my sad memories and also if sometimes someone bullies and laughs at me in school I would be sad
I thought that her classmates are gonna humiliate her, but it turned out to be her father.....and her classmates are really nice tho!!......unlike other situations, in this one, no one humiliated her!
Anxiety comes from Satan. God is superior and He gave YOU authority over that piece of trash. You must resist him with the word of God, and he must flee. That’s how you can truly beat anxiety. The only catch is to be ready for when the enemy may strike again
coming from someone who struggles with anxiety, i think this video was very accurate. every person should see this. thankyou dhar mann for these amazing lessons
This is me right now New school No friends Sitting alone Not wanting to talk to anyone Feeling everyone would judge me Not having anyone to talk about it but alone
i’ve been in high school for two years and I have no friends because I got backstabbed I know have major trust issues and I can’t socialise with people
as someone who also has anxiety, it’s really hard sometimes especially because everyone I know always talks about how much they understand when they really don’t and for anyone else struggling with anxiety, u got this
It is not easy for people who have social anxiety, i got it when i turned 12 and since then felt uncomfortable to communicate with the other people. I was always picked on for begin quite and caring so much what others think. I was scared to make new friends and never knew how to get into conversation without making it awkward. I thought this all happen cause i was shy but anxiety is a part of shyness. Now that I’m about to start in college I’m a little better. But when i remember all the times i cried and overthought i seriously wanted to die. This video is so based on a true story, and people who have anxiety i wanna let u know that it will be over after time. As much as u grow up and turn get confidence u will feel better. ❤
I suffer with bad anxiety, I have panic attacks all the time and I’m always scared of everything, barely able to sleep at night. This awareness needs to be spread, anxiety is real.
DONT treat ur kids with anxiety like that. It’s extremely disrespectful and makes them feel like nobody is able to help them with the anxiety. Anxiety isn’t something u can control, nor something u can cure. Never treat someone like this.
I agree it makes you feel so much worse because then you start worrying that if you tell somebody and don't keep to yourself then you think that is how everyone would react to you telling them and it would make it so much harder. But this is not the case, tell someone who you know you can trust and are close to and they can help you get through it. You are never alone 🙂
@@potatochip868 it's atrocious. My parents used to treat me like this. Well. Not to this level, but. But then when I told them why I had it at 6 years old and why I suddenly hated school. Found out it was caused by my 1st grade teacher. And how she treated me just because I have autism and acted and thought and learned differently. So she started singling me out. And I hated it. It festered into anxiety in my childhood and only got worse in my teens. I still struggle with it in adult hood. Thank God my husband is there and knows the signs of when I need to leave a crowded or loud area.
Things Parents Need to Teach Children: 1. How to Control Your Emotions 2. How to Ignore What Others Think 3. How to Communicate Issues You Have Part of the reason why kids are getting so anxious compared to previous generations is that people didn't have social media, they weren't corrupted by modern-day science telling them that they're depressed, and that they are inferior, and they were more open to just speaking about things. People weren't used to keeping secrets. As a 12-Year-Old, I would honestly rather live in a world without social media, than a world where people couldn't talk with each other.
@@praneethmashetty591 Have you had anxiety? If not, then do NOT speak for people who have anxiety. I’ve had anxiety since 2019, which got way worse in 2020 and this year, and let me tell you, social media isn’t causing it. It’s mainly COVID. I’ve barely had any social interaction with anyone new since I’ve been online in school all year, so even making eye contact with new people is incredibly hard. Also, it has *always* been hard for people to open up about anxiety. It doesn’t matter what generation. People have kept secrets for a long time, too. I have no idea what you’re talking about there. And it’s not easy to ignore what others think for many people. They’re scared of saying something offensive, or scared that someone will laugh at them. And also, not everyone is an extrovert (open about their feelings). I am an introvert, which makes it hard for me to open up about my feelings. Doesn’t matter what my parents taught me. They can’t just say “Stop being so introverted!” that’s going to make it even harder for me to open up. Communication, ignoring people, and controlling emotions are very hard for me, and many, many other teens. Also, there are other things causing anxiety. Bullying, depression, and school are main factors. My mom had anxiety when she was a teen, and was there social media back then? No. Only TV. My older sister also has anxiety, and it’s caused by real life issues, not social media. And social media isn’t all that bad, and has actually helped me a bunch. I have people on there I feel like I can talk to easier than in real life. It’s easier to express my feelings there. Many other teens are the same. Social media is also literally the only thing keeping some teens alive. Life may be easy for you right now because you’re a kid, but when you get into middle school and high school……you’re going to go through a lot. I’m in middle school at the moment, which is harder than elementary, and I’ve heard that high school is the worst for kids. Do me a favor and enjoy your childhood while you still can, life as an adult and teenager is so much harder. And again, please don’t speak for the people who have anxiety until/if you experience it yourself, and/or you have studied it. Have a nice day!
Her dad is causing her anxiety yet preaching about his stupidity and insensitiveness, he just pissed me off. Well, that can only mean he's a good actor but i hope no more ppl like that in real world
@@Mark-mh3fc well you never know how the daughter feels when the people she's supposed to be close with and rely on as moral support just judged her easily
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I have had anxiety since the quarantine has ended. People picked on me every day and even all the teachers picked on me. But this new year, I've been trying to control my anxiety and I've been feeling a lot better . Finally someone showed the problem of anxiety and how dangerous it can be for people 🧡
It’s really is, all you need to do is find someone u trust (like a parent or therapist) and just start small and in a week or two you will be them telling about your life
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“were not just telling storys, were changing lives.”
Anxiety is not something you can control, people have to understand that and not put pressure/humiliate them for that ❤️
Tenzi I agree and I have anxiety as well so I know how it feels
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So true
Very important issue. Thanks for raising awareness.
Agreed men
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@@trigex415 What?
This was good for people who have anxiety, this is very relatable to me sometimes.
This is what happened at school to me
this one hit me very hard. i've been struggling with anxiety since i was 12, and school was hell. people always picked on me for being quiet, they called me mute. even one of my teachers would humiliate me in front of the class, one time i went to the bathroom and just cried. i had no friends, i felt so alone, suicidal several times. i would eat my lunch in the bathroom because i was too scared to sit with anyone because i thought they all hated me and wanted me to go away. my anxiety used to be so bad i couldn't even order my own food at a restaurant, my family would get annoyed at me for asking them to order for me. used to stay up all night because i couldn't stop thinking. still sometimes do. the worst part about anxiety is how a lot of society doesn't understand it. you really feel alone and like the world is against you. i hope people grasp an understanding of not only this but all mental obstacles. because it's really hard.
im with you- i have really bad anxiety of just about everything...
You've gone through alot🥺
I understand you 💔
I got anxiety when I was 8 and I'm 12 now this year has been the worst for anxiety with me I get worried at school and if I walk out everyone stares at me and I miss way to many days because I just can't go I get worried about not being able to breathe and a bunch of other stuff I went to the doctors yesterday they told me to go to hospital to get help right now but the hospital here is hopeless and they did nothing apart from making me sit in a room for an hour I think I'm getting blood test today because I'm to skinny so I'm anxious all the time sad to see other people go through this stuff
I feel you 💔 I got anxiety when I was about 10 and I'm turning 12 next month. I have anxiety about everything. I sit alone at lunch everyday and it's very rare for me to sit with people
Coming from someone with bad anxiety, this is extremely accurate, the fidgeting, the fear, the social anxiety, not wanting to go outside, not wanting to eat at restaurants, etc. And nobody understands, yet everybody blames it on the generation. Sure, it’s a tiny bit exaggerated, but it’s still pretty close. I really like this video because I believe it brings a lot of awareness towards anxiety. If there’s ever anybody with anxiety, please be nice to them. Remember, it’s not the generation. There was never this much awareness back then, it still existed.
Yeah, my parents always think it’s my fault when it’s not because I can’t control it.
Everyone must be treated equally!
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Period.
True that
I love the fact that her classmates were supportive and understanding . Young people learning to be their for each other is a great lesson
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@@tower_legend7364 Not trying to come off rude.
Yes and i love it
Ikr, finally a more realistic Dhar Mann vid
The dad is such a mood. Like most parents these days. "It's a phase." Yeah, some kids are in phases, but some of them are actually NOT and require medical attention.
*flash back to my wolf clan phase*
I would say that Dhar Mann dise not know what anxiety means
i have a medical dog for anxiety it’s the dog on my pfp
like me i have adhe and deppression my dad dont pay attention to me
my dad would of beaten me up lmao
As an INTOVERT I can understand that how anxiety disorders affects people's daily life, there are some times when I don't feel like talking to anyone I think everyone and everything hates me but those with anxiety experience these things on a very extreme level and that too on daily basis so much love and power to u and u are amazing the way u r , don't worry u got this stay strong and beautiful guys.🤗❤️☺️
There is a difference between being an introvert and being someone with anxiety and being someone with social anxiety
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I am an introvert but I don't have social anxiety
Imagine being an extrovert with social anxiety 😬
Something to think about in this situation is that at the end of they day, it doesn't matter who doesn't and does like you, because God didn't create us for popularity or fame or wealth, he created us to spread the love of God and worship him, and when you die, people not liking you for no reason will not be something that matters. I mean no offense when I say this, I'm just sharing tips that might be helpful❤❤😊😊🙂🙂
@@MariahAlshiminow imagine being someone with social anxiety disorder coupled with hyperhidrosis and uncontrollable shaking, HELL
Dhar Mann videos change so many lives it’s unreal.
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This actress who is acting the mother’s role is wonderful, every role I see her in, she aces it. You have a gem! Thank you for making your roles believable!
Yeahh.. she know how to play her role
Yep she's awesome at her job
Her name is Katherine Norland
Did you know she has two diff color eyes??
Ikr
I have a daughter who has anxiety. Breaks my heart how people don’t understand how real this is.
@@zennkenA shut up
it must suck but these days there are girls on the social media platform tiktok saying they are all depressed, suicidal, anxies this makes it hard to know if someone is telling the truth or not
@@zennkenA Shut it.
@@zennkenA this mom is confessing something very important and your going too say give your videos hate comments. That’s so sick. This is something very serious
@@YdanT_37 yeah . But why comment that while someone is talking abt something / someone very important to them? 😵💫
I have anxiety myself, and honestly, it's not easy to control. Anxiety is something that everyone needs to understand because it's not something to be mad about, or to put a lot of pressure against somebody, it's something that we need to just need to make things calmer. People also need to understand that Anxiety is not something to make fun of, or joke around because like I said, Anxiety is something we cannot control.
Thank u I have anxiety it's hard to deal with as a teen but also as adults because people don't understand its hard to control something that u don't really know about it
I don't have anxiety, but I know how she feels.
Sometimes it feels like everyone is staring and judging, but no one is.
I feel that about my own FAMILY. 😓
Yep
I understand totally
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Welcome to low functioning anxiety
“Back in my day...”
Back in your day, you didn’t have the things we have
“And that’s why you are so jealous.”
Back in their day mental health wasn't taken seriously
@@lunarcycle1214 even now in some countries
I didn’t know that they had anything 100 b.c
@Sumyr Thompson's Art LMAO “Moses”
“If you don't come, you’ll be the only one not there.”
Now THATS how you trigger someones anxiety.
Yea
I was thinking that
Lol yeah
I deal with that in real life. Telling someone that just makes them feel more anxious
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I suffer from anxiety and sometimes to the fact i have anxiety attacks. I do have some stuff to help me calm down (Breathing, calming music and lavender). And truth to be told its not really easy to talk about this with parents, they just... dont understand. It's easier to talk with a therapist or some close friends who may understand how you feel. Luckily i have my boyfriend who always hugs me when i get anxiety attack. I really appreciate him by my side.
THe first anxiety attack was the worst. I thought like i am dying, i was shaking hard and i felt sick. I drank a lot of water and it went away after a while. After that when i got anxiety attack, i repeat to myself "dont worry, you are okay, its just an anxiety attack" and its easier for me to calm down
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The scene with her and the dad was so relatable. It’s sad 😔
I feel bad for you. I have bad anxiety but my parents help me trough it. You are implying that they don’t.
same lol
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I developed an anxiety disorder in my late teens and it's stayed with me for 14 years. I just began to really get a hang of it all and my confidence has finally come back to me this year. Sadly, most of the people I've ever talked to about it are like 'Roger,' the dad in this sketch. A lot of people can't comprehend what it's like to not be able to control it.
Like the video suggests, lifestyle has played a huge role in my success. Just before the turn of the year I started to work on stopping negative self-talk, started working out 4-5 days a week, practiced healthier eating habits, and worked really hard on overcoming addictions/habits (like caffeine, thc, and nicotine). In addition, I've been getting out of my comfort zone more often and pushing my boundaries. It really does make a huge difference after a while. The process really is slow, too. I'm 6-7 months into my transformation and I feel like I'm in the best state I've ever been in, in my entire life. Still have a ways to go, and I'm making more progress every day.
If you're going through these things, I believe in you. I legitimately gave up on myself, and life. I never even thought I'd make it as far as I have now. You can do it, too! It won't come quickly, but you will get better. I know you will.
Hey, i i developed anxiety aroung 8 yrs old. i get soo embarrassed for petty things that no one even cares abt like when my dad turns the volume really high in the car and then stps the car fr something and opens the door with music blaring through the street . i literally get a panick attack . did u feel the same way. i just always fell like ppl are judging me.
@@bettinajohn9781 I had anxiety to when i was 8 years old. If i would tell my parents that i had anxiety they would't believe that anxiety exist. I wish i can get the anxiety out of my head.
You're like an idol to me, congrats
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@@erolfatma3357 omg ikr they'll be like stop acting like a adult u just havto study what can u be possibly' anxious about'. oh and I hate going late to places where everyone is facing the door. I guss ull be able to understand that.
as a person who actually has anxiety, this describes it
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𝙄 𝙎𝘼𝙄𝘿 𝙂𝙄𝙑𝙀 𝙈𝙀 𝙃𝘼𝙏𝙀 𝘾𝙊𝙈𝙈𝙀𝙉𝙏𝙎 𝙊𝙉 𝙈𝙔 𝙑𝙄𝘿𝙀𝙊👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽
more u go in, it will he harder to come out, dont let anxiety get over u.
I’ve gone through anxiety ever since I was 6. I’ve been so lucky my friends are there for me. I’m scared to tell my mother, because I’m afraid she won’t believe me. It makes it even worse because I want to go to the law magnet, which means I have to talk. The anxiety is going to be REALLLLLL then.
I agree Sirc I also have anxiety it is not fun at all I cry from fear but you have to learn how to control that fear
I had extreme anxiety it is not fun especially when you are afraid because of bullying
4:09
He was supposed to say *VeRoNiCa OpEn ThE dOoR pLs VeRoNiCa OpEn tHe dOoR* 😫
Veronica can we not fight anymore please can we not fight anymore
Veronica sure you’re scared I’ve been there I can set you free
Veronica don’t make me come in there I’m gonna count to three
@@des7814 1 2 F- it
I have anxiety too :( it’s really hard to speak to people, stand up in a crowd, go into crowded spaces and loud noises :(
@@zennkenA STOP
same :(
same
What's anxiety actually
Yeah:(
When parents don’t understand our problems they blame it on our generation...
or the computer bruh
@@zennkenA shut up
My mum says it's because I'm busy looking for things on the internet. I keep suggesting I might have ADHD but everyone refuses saying idk how to prioritize. But she knows I have depression
*when i was going to school, i had to climb over volcanoes and had to fight a thousand tigers on my schoolway.*
- Boomers
Or our phones
"Everyone is different in their own ways, thats what makes us unique!"
❤
You are right😎🙂
@Çĥŕîşťófêř P̃èžêť (￣ヘ￣）ᵁᴹᴹ why?
Well said 👍💬🗣👍
@Çĥŕîşťófêř P̃èžêť why
"You can't heal what you don't reveal"
-Dhar Mann 2021
As soon as I was watching that part you comment popped up! How cool!
Myron flying troopeze booger in rice...
As someone who has had anxiety since a very young age, I really understand what she is going through, anxiety is so real, and so stressful.
I feel bad but don’t know what it feels like it is hard to understand
Also like ur pfp and name
@@shivamparikh9471 bruh
I am not gonna self diagnose, but the thing called stress anxiety is like me whenever i have a lot to think of and know im not gonna be able to complete them all
Hey! It’s frogshima
It’s concerning that she’s humiliated by her own dad
My whole family does that..
my dad literally does EXACTLY what the dad in this video did
My mom does that to me, she belittles me for it and thinks that when I'm talking to her that something new happened she thinks I'm talking about me being anxious
my parents are saying things to me and all of that exactly as the dad does in the beg of the video
She ain't the only one
its actually really sad when people have anxiety and i feel really sorry for people who go through it
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@@dont2604 not the time yk
The last part of the video was very important for those who suffer anxiety, we need to understand that the healing process takes its time, is non-linear and is gradual. Patience is the key.
“what could you be so anxious about?”
everything, absolutely everything.
literally
Jesus died for your sins and rose again put your faith in him to be saved.
I have anxiety just like hers it's scares me
I am having anxiety from 4th standard and I am still suffering from it to avoid it I don't even go to school regularly I am in 9th now
@@jyk4736 No one asked
Respect to the teacher for not calling on Julia because she didn’t raise her hand 🤩
🔥
right, lol.
But if no one raised their hand, the teacher must call out someone.
They do that because that one student never participates
😂😂😂
There's a difference between anxiety and shyness
Shyness is a personality trait, anxiety is a mental disorder
Bdbdbdbdbdbdbd
Well said
So true I have really bad anxiety and depression x
steven he: SOCIAL ANXIETY
@@airtiger4577 WHAT THE HELL IS SOCIAL ANXIETY??
I also have anxiety and autism. I rock back and forth and talk to myself. This is a real life situation I go through myself.
I have both of those to plus adhd so I don't know y I do the things I do or y I have those quirks
I’m glad that the friends were actually caring for her and worried about her. Great video
@@zennkenA ok
@@zennkenA cool
@@mythiliwarrier1927 what did he say
@@zennkenA you trying to make us hate then report us and get us banned good try :)
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Why do teachers always call on the one kid who's world is falling apart?
I hate it
@FlameHeart12 here u got company
You r not alone
@@clioharles1202 is 3 a crowd, I wouldn't say my world's falling apart, but yes I'm VERY ANXIOUS
That always happens to me and I want to cry when I make a mistake
@@rells2311 but have to join in but like thats a lot of ppl
“Why doesn’t she just talk to someone about it?”
Well that’s the power of anxiety :’) it’s real hard
yes..
yea...
it seams like it (sorry never had it lol)
Well with anxiety I have it sometimes and talking to people while having anxiety is super hard cause you may feel sad, mad or even scared. And it’s weird cause this is how i act when I have some pretty bad anxiety.
Can I just say great profile pic
Nobody should be shamed for having anxiety . Everyone deserves to be treated right. 💗 Don’t let people get to you, or even bully you. You are beautiful souls!
This means so much because everyone and everything around me felt like this. Thank u Dharr
You're welcome. I hope the message of this video inspired you.
@@DharMann i am apart of the texting community because of ur messages every day. They are a blessing. Thank u 4 telling our stories
@@DharMann booo dharr man.
Jk 🙃 🤭
@@DharMann e e ee e e ee e e e e e e e e e e e eee e e e e e e ee e e e e e e e e e e e ee e e e ee e e e e e e.e e e. e e e e e e e ee e
@@DharMann hi dhar
0:11 This is called “The Imaginary Audience”
And almost everyone with anxiety has it. You feel like everyone is silently, but loudly judging you. And almost everyone who doesn’t have anxiety and has this, deals with it in different ways: Bullying; Ignoring; And getting into fights is common.
It’s super common, and anxiety shouldn’t be taken as a joke; or not seriously.
@@zennkenA quitttttt
Kid-“Has anxiety”
Parents-“See, this is the problem with this generation”
@@zennkenA no
@@dont2604 reads
Right as he said that i saw ur comment.
I thought u would be crying after yesterday.bottle united
poppoppop
Yes anxiety is REAL. I totally understand what she’s going through because I despise large crowds and gatherings too. Good thing the mom understood what her daughter was going through from her own experiences
Yeah, when people are close to me in shops, I just breathe loudly and go to my mum.
Moral of the story “ANXIETY IS NOT A JOKE”
You are so right
yep
Yeah
it gets joked about to much by damn tiktok girls so most people these days dont know if someone is telling the truth
Yah I guess
Sometimes parents go like: "then how was there not much anxiety when we were kids" they don't understand that this generation *people are more evil, cruel and points out EVERYTHING* So anxiety exists more in this generation.
This is so true
my mom literally took me out of school the other day for a mental health day, i ligit forgot i had anxiety that day because i wasn’t stressed about kids and school. sometimes we just need days to ourselves
Last generation there was a 13 year old got beheaded, the youngest in history, the social killer was on its spree and way more
@@djgfohjfd oh
Yes when ever I’m crying my mom tells me stop crying or I’ll give you a reason to cry I love my mom but sometimes she doesn’t get it
This is actually how a lot parents treat their kids with anxiety its so sad. I have had so many bad experiences this, people just dont get it.
@Çĥŕîşťófêř P̃èžêť shut up
I feel u 🙂
@Çĥŕîşťófêř P̃èžêť yeah they think it’s just is but it’s not
@Çĥŕîşťófêř P̃èžêť I disliked your comment so there I gave you hate-
EXACTLY
“Are there gonna be a lot of people there?”
“Yeah pretty much the whole class”
There’s literally like 5 people in the class 😂
As a person who had anxiety for several years, getting depressed and feeling lonely, this really hits hard on me, but i feel better now
**pat pat**
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@@FlyUpTech oh great finally i can meet you and have a chat
@@FlyUpTech because i can just video record you and send to youtube that you have geen begging for subs
I still go through these things and it's really hard for me to get over it
Anxiety: exists
Parents: When we were your age …………..
Underrated
Parents: When we were your age we climbed the Himalayas and that would become the reason of us getting anxiety
Stop generalising parents like that. I used to have dyslexia and both of my parents understood me. They even helped me recover from it and now I get straight A’s. I know some parents are like that but just stop generalising all parents pls.
@@srinidnb
*How many subscribers can I gain from this comment*
*Current 65*
@@srinidnb it’s just a joke calm down Jesus.
Dad’s logic: *I didn’t have that, so it doesn’t exist.*
*if I caNt SeE AfRicA, IT DoEsnt eXist!!11*
@@battletroll1likesminecraft214 wtf- Africa is real
@@siimxlyfroggy3583 it was a joke, it’s okay if you didn’t get it
@@battletroll1likesminecraft214 ohh okay I re-read it I get it now 😂 I commented when I first woke up I don’t get nothing at that time I woke up at 4:00 am 👁 👄 👁 thanks for not being mean about I though :)
@@siimxlyfroggy3583 you’re welcome my man/woman
I have struggled with anxiety for as long as I can remember. In fact, I don't remember a time when I wasn't anxious. I wish things like meditating worked for me, but I have to rely on medication to get me through the days. The last time I tried to meditate, I had a panic attack. I wasn't diagnosed with anxiety until I was 21. Getting diagnosed, medicated, and seeing a therapist has completely changed who I am!
"Are there gonna be a lot of people there?"
"Yeah, pretty much the whole class."
The whole class: 10 people including the teacher
Still
That's more than enough
@@isaanu3086 exactly
@@zennkenA nooo
@@emilysalvatore2624 agreed bro
I really liked how they showed her point of view and what she is thinking about.
same
Be kind, for everyone is fighting hard battles
@@zennkenA no
@@zennkenA nah dude
@@zennkenA your so nice thanks for being in this reply section you're such a wonderful person
@@Jotaro3169 I hope you are joking
@@RaghavBabbar i am lol
I struggled with anxiety very badly last year. It’s a very real thing. Thank you for spreading awareness Dhar 😊
I AM SOOOO SCARED OF GETTING ROBBED! KEEPING THE DOOR UNLOCKED *RISKS* GETTING ROBBED!!!!! HEEEEELP..... PLEASE.....
I’m a soccer player and I am so scared to mess thing up for my team and get in trouble
Damn I need some Dhar Mann meditation.
Facts
fax
@@John17TheOGmp4 lol
xd
Here before the self promoting bots
As a person who has social anxiety i go through this so often ,feeling people are laughing at me for every mistake i think it make will embarrass me and when i tell my parents they are the same they just dont get it..
i too feel the same way and i also have social snxiety
I have social anxiety too
same
Same. I always feel like people are talking about me and judging my every move and breath and my mom sorta tries getting it but when I refuse to go out she calls me lazy and stuff.
Talk to your teacher, doctor, nurse... They will know how to help you. Your parents mean well but they don't know how to deal with it.
This is really sad and my friend used to have depression and anxiety, so this brings me back to those horrible memories. I wish that people would not make fun of people with these problems, as they are very serious. Some parents do not recognise these, and if any of you recognise that they have these, please, at least try to talk it out with them, its the least you could do. When I go outside, it feels like people are silently judging me. Why? Why do I feel like that?
i feel the same!
Good
@@emaannaheedchaudhry4664 ?
@@emaannaheedchaudhry4664 fym bro
yeah and some parents say "ItS bEcAuSe oF yOuR pHoNe"
well axious people actually feel more comfortable talking online since you can be you without exposing your real self.
I find this really relatable because I struggle with social anxiety my entire life 💔
Ive talk to my dad about my anxiety before, I was expecting him to understand me but instead he blamed it on my phone and told me that therapists are waste of money. I wish they would just understand the point of view of teenagers nowdays.
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@@FlyUpTech uhm-
Omg I love ur name, lol
Stay forever
@@prathithimshetty6774 thank youuu
the same thing happened to me and it made the situation worse :/
Anxiety: exist and worried abt everything bad might happen
Parents: WhAt MaDe YoU wOrrIeD, YoU DoN't NeeD To PaY eleCtRiciTy or RenTs
THATS LITERALLY EVERY PERSIN DADD
Hey Dhar Mann fam! I hope you enjoyed that mAssage on why cookies aren’t organic! I’ll see you in the nAxtT vAdeo!!
@GxldenHour Wdym?
@GxldenHour but my parents never thought about it
The mom: "So you see"
Me getting comfy and getting my popcorn and drink.
So true 😭🤣😂😭🤣🤣
that is like so true my mom gets ready to tell a story about her life and im like hold on ima get my chips and my soda and get comfy
Same
it was really nice of the girls to invite julia to go to a party
True
@@vvaleriettooo yeah
@@SabiduriaVirtuosa not every girl would do that especially in this case when a girl is new to the school,julia is rlly lucky
I’m so happy that Julia’s Anxiety slowly started to heal, and it’s very lucky to have understanding parents and good friends :)
"When I was a kid there were no such things."
Anxiety and other mental illnesses existed but no one talked about it.
It didn’t exist your gen-z like me but back then people were more happy
@@xylemcocktail9536 how do you know they're a gen z and second it did exist my dad even said there was a girl like that in his class when he was young
@@xylemcocktail9536 boomer
I have Major Depression. And Depression runs on my mother side of the family
@@xylemcocktail9536 so sadness just didn’t exist back then? Tf
Dad: shouts at her cuz she doesn't wanna get ice-cream
Me: *shouts at my dad to get ice-cream*
😂😂😂😂
lololololololollllllll man
@@zennkenA stop!
@@staysweet83 ikr i c dis dude everywhere
Sooooo trueeeeeeee 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
We all should know anxiety is very real and many kids, adults, or any human can struggle with it
Why is it funny when someone has anxiety like just leave them alone everyone has been through the feeling of being shy and if you havent then good for you. Just because you havent been shy before doesnt mean you can go picking on others.
Edit: Thx for the likes guys it nice to see the helping community online.
@@zennkenA I would gladly if It didn’t add a view
@@zennkenA 😐
My siblings think I have social anxiety since I find it hard to even order at a restaurant because I’m scared of being judged but my mother won’t
listen and tells me if I won’t speak up I’ll get bullied and she makes fun of me for not wanting to talk to anyone
@@dadorkybunny Well she's wrong and whoever bullies you should be dealed with. If someone bullies you just ignore them their just not happy with something in their life trust me I know a thing or two about bulies.
Anxiety can be very hard for everyone, especially when you feel something nervous about you 😔❤
Yep
I have anxiety but I don't care cuz I have a loving caring best friend
I have anxiety but who the hella cares my child hood friends always help me out they even helping me type this ;_;
IHAVE ANXIENTY :((
I have anxiety
I can't even talk to my family
Unless I'm really close to my family...
Anxiety is real
And we can't control it
Same here even i can't sometimes it feels its just bcz parents not understanding me even now they dont its feels just so lonly.
And the bad part is I have anxiety when I am talking to my parents
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Stop overreacting, I'm sure it's okay. Just talk with your family like explain it to them. They're very good parents to you. They just don't understand what anxiety means. It's really fine
@@Lets_looseweighttogether Stop overreacting, I'm sure it's okay. Just talk with your family like explain it to them. They're very good parents to you. They just don't understand what anxiety means. It's really fine
Julia’s mom is so kind empathetic and supportive. And once the dad realized the mom also had anxiety, he also became more kind, understanding and supportive to Julia
"Go away!"
My dad: *ah,so you have chosen death.*
Same but with my nana or mom :,)
Same XDDD
My dad would knock down my door and say PICK A SWITCH then u know what happens 💀
*Aha- Into the unknown I go*
That’s really relatable. 😅😅😅😅😅
When my friends were talking about ‘disabilities’ and I used one of your quotes, I said something along the lines of ‘it’s not a disability, they just have a different ability’ and they took it in and I felt really happy. Thank you Dhar Mann!!
Then what abillity is it?If its a different abillity,then what does it do?
@@shrek7467 it depends on what the person has
@@shrek7467 you pretty much just be creative with it and use your imagination/creativity
Why does it seem like everyone thinks this generation makes anxiety and depression up its real.
Cuz some ppl do that
yeah but the person above this said. Many of them have real problems but many also treat it like a game for attention.
Because there are more fakers
Ikr
We shouldn't blame this generation but blame the generation that raised them...
i suffer with severe anxiety and seeing this broke my heart. We need to raise awareness and people need to understand what people go through.
As a person that has been suffering from social Anxiety for years this is really making me emotional....
Same
same. ykw watching stuff like this makes me cry sometimes that i cant do anything about it
Same here
My Past Is Reassembling
Being The "New Kid" Ive Experienced It And I Can Control The Crowd With My Hands UwU
Not to mention that anxiety, unfortunately, doesn’t always involve shaking and sweating. Sometimes it really is hard to see. So sad that so many parents don’t always realize it til it’s too late or almost too late. Always ask for help when you need it😇
I have anxiety
I have anxiety and have only had a panic attack like twice in my life. Most of the time, I just feel like I don’t wanna go out and do anything, like I would rather be in bed all day.
My anxiety is when I'm constantly afraid of the dark and I keep being so hot and sweety even in my dreams😔
I get anxious in school alot but ppl just think im normal i never told no one that y some days i dont go to school
Mine is panic attack, sweating in night its hard to breathe because of my sad memories and also if sometimes someone bullies and laughs at me in school I would be sad
“Why doesn’t she talk to someone about it” I wish it was that simple
Your pfp tho...
@@faaraxcaliwaraabe9675 what’s wrong with it if I may ask ..
Dude change your fuckin profile pic that thing is in peoples dreams and is creepy af😂😂
@@jamezeypoo5747 just ignore the comment
@NotGreatNotTerrible your pfp is giving me some strange vibes, no offense
Finally there’s a Dhar Mann that I can REALLY relate to.
"So you see," The whole Dhar Mann studio revolves around that-
It also I had no idea that happened to you
So you see chees is real
they literally have merch that has that written on it
pretty much yeah
So you see joe mama is still a funny joke
I thought that her classmates are gonna humiliate her, but it turned out to be her father.....and her classmates are really nice tho!!......unlike other situations, in this one, no one humiliated her!
This is what u thought too😂
shut up julia
200th
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Yeah
Anxiety is real 😢 only God knows what I’m going through
Please tell everyone of ur family. I dont want you to die like my aunt stay safe and see a theripest❤️
May god keep you safe🙌🙏
@Olivia Damiani Just remember that there are people who are there for you, and love you ^.^
I know what you're going through...may God grant you peace and strength. 🙏🏾
Definitely 🥺 God is always there
Anxiety comes from Satan. God is superior and He gave YOU authority over that piece of trash. You must resist him with the word of God, and he must flee. That’s how you can truly beat anxiety. The only catch is to be ready for when the enemy may strike again
coming from someone who struggles with anxiety, i think this video was very accurate. every person should see this. thankyou dhar mann for these amazing lessons
Let’s talk about how this amazing teacher doesn’t pick on kids that DONT raise they’re hand 👏
IKR
Mine did pick on me
*their
LOVE MARINETTE IN UR PFP
@Linnea YASSS
This is me right now
New school
No friends
Sitting alone
Not wanting to talk to anyone
Feeling everyone would judge me
Not having anyone to talk about it but alone
I could be your friend! =)
Same we just shifted
Same :/
In my school whenever some is new litterly everyone including me are so excited to talk to them
i’ve been in high school for two years and I have no friends because I got backstabbed I know have major trust issues and I can’t socialise with people
as someone who also has anxiety, it’s really hard sometimes especially because everyone I know always talks about how much they understand when they really don’t and for anyone else struggling with anxiety, u got this
thank you, I think evey kid went through it because me, and my sister did. 💙💙💙
@@paris_5755
thank you, you're appreciated, I still suffer with anxiety, but everyday is a process.. 💕
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@@FlyUpTech what about no?
It is not easy for people who have social anxiety, i got it when i turned 12 and since then felt uncomfortable to communicate with the other people. I was always picked on for begin quite and caring so much what others think. I was scared to make new friends and never knew how to get into conversation without making it awkward. I thought this all happen cause i was shy but anxiety is a part of shyness. Now that I’m about to start in college I’m a little better. But when i remember all the times i cried and overthought i seriously wanted to die. This video is so based on a true story, and people who have anxiety i wanna let u know that it will be over after time. As much as u grow up and turn get confidence u will feel better. ❤
"you are too young to have anxiety"
Guys If you have ever been told this I'm so sorry cause ik what it feels like... Stay Strong!
❤️❤️
Trying
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I have anxiety
Thank you
I suffer with bad anxiety, I have panic attacks all the time and I’m always scared of everything, barely able to sleep at night. This awareness needs to be spread, anxiety is real.
Spread in your my grandma and parents
I have anxiety too
I have anxiety too but i will never give up so don't give up ☺💜
Go touch grass
@@Urrespectfullyfine me too
DONT treat ur kids with anxiety like that. It’s extremely disrespectful and makes them feel like nobody is able to help them with the anxiety. Anxiety isn’t something u can control, nor something u can cure. Never treat someone like this.
I agree it makes you feel so much worse because then you start worrying that if you tell somebody and don't keep to yourself then you think that is how everyone would react to you telling them and it would make it so much harder.
But this is not the case, tell someone who you know you can trust and are close to and they can help you get through it. You are never alone 🙂
She Has PTSD I THINK I HAVE FLASHBACKS FROM VIETNAM WAR AND WW2 (WORLD OF WAR 2) HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEE
yea "roger's" behavior is really triggering (i know it's an act)
@zoe Marie
Not to mention it can cause other things if pushed to hard.
@@potatochip868 it's atrocious. My parents used to treat me like this. Well. Not to this level, but. But then when I told them why I had it at 6 years old and why I suddenly hated school. Found out it was caused by my 1st grade teacher. And how she treated me just because I have autism and acted and thought and learned differently. So she started singling me out. And I hated it. It festered into anxiety in my childhood and only got worse in my teens. I still struggle with it in adult hood. Thank God my husband is there and knows the signs of when I need to leave a crowded or loud area.
I love how the mother was nice
This video hits different when you actually have anxiety...
Me too
This video makes me anxious tbh
True
Everyone somehow in these comments have anxiety
it is though.
“Back in my day anxiety wasn’t a thing” such ignorance
@@hyperfr3k114 right like “people are still toxic in many different ways bro, I wasn’t you and I will never be lmao”
It just didn't have a label
LMAO my dad’s family be like 🗿
@@faith3679 oi hello stay
@@reytopia_08 is it that obvious ;-;
As someone who has been dealing with anxiety since kindergarten, I feel like a lot of people need to know about this. Thank you for posting this
I have anxiety
Things Parents Need to Teach Children:
1. How to Control Your Emotions
2. How to Ignore What Others Think
3. How to Communicate Issues You Have
Part of the reason why kids are getting so anxious compared to previous generations is that people didn't have social media, they weren't corrupted by modern-day science telling them that they're depressed, and that they are inferior, and they were more open to just speaking about things. People weren't used to keeping secrets. As a 12-Year-Old, I would honestly rather live in a world without social media, than a world where people couldn't talk with each other.
Do you have a massive forehead?
@@praneethmashetty591 You took the words right out of my mouth.
@@praneethmashetty591 Have you had anxiety? If not, then do NOT speak for people who have anxiety. I’ve had anxiety since 2019, which got way worse in 2020 and this year, and let me tell you, social media isn’t causing it. It’s mainly COVID. I’ve barely had any social interaction with anyone new since I’ve been online in school all year, so even making eye contact with new people is incredibly hard. Also, it has *always* been hard for people to open up about anxiety. It doesn’t matter what generation. People have kept secrets for a long time, too. I have no idea what you’re talking about there. And it’s not easy to ignore what others think for many people. They’re scared of saying something offensive, or scared that someone will laugh at them. And also, not everyone is an extrovert (open about their feelings). I am an introvert, which makes it hard for me to open up about my feelings. Doesn’t matter what my parents taught me. They can’t just say “Stop being so introverted!” that’s going to make it even harder for me to open up. Communication, ignoring people, and controlling emotions are very hard for me, and many, many other teens. Also, there are other things causing anxiety. Bullying, depression, and school are main factors. My mom had anxiety when she was a teen, and was there social media back then? No. Only TV. My older sister also has anxiety, and it’s caused by real life issues, not social media. And social media isn’t all that bad, and has actually helped me a bunch. I have people on there I feel like I can talk to easier than in real life. It’s easier to express my feelings there. Many other teens are the same. Social media is also literally the only thing keeping some teens alive.
Life may be easy for you right now because you’re a kid, but when you get into middle school and high school……you’re going to go through a lot. I’m in middle school at the moment, which is harder than elementary, and I’ve heard that high school is the worst for kids. Do me a favor and enjoy your childhood while you still can, life as an adult and teenager is so much harder. And again, please don’t speak for the people who have anxiety until/if you experience it yourself, and/or you have studied it. Have a nice day!
This should be called dad shames daughter with anxiety
Yeah the title right now doesn't make sense.
Her dad is causing her anxiety yet preaching about his stupidity and insensitiveness, he just pissed me off.
Well, that can only mean he's a good actor but i hope no more ppl like that in real world
For some reason this kind sounds like my father
Well you never know how hard it is for the dad so his daughter actin like this
@@Mark-mh3fc well you never know how the daughter feels when the people she's supposed to be close with and rely on as moral support just judged her easily
So true I do sports which makes it worse then yelling and their is a alot of yelling in sports.
Its not even real
This is me every single day I wanted to see how realistic this is and every word is spot on to my life.
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I was like that
I was youst like that
Same I was like that to
Today yay
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You spelt "Dhar" wrong lol
@@DharMann I love you videos
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@N-2048-14 TANISH J CHOKSI ●~●
I have had anxiety since the quarantine has ended. People picked on me every day and even all the teachers picked on me. But this new year, I've been trying to control my anxiety and I've been feeling a lot better . Finally someone showed the problem of anxiety and how dangerous it can be for people 🧡
"Why doesn't she talk to someone about it"
Because it's not always that easy
ikr
FINNALLY SOMEBODY KNOWS!!!!!
It’s really is, all you need to do is find someone u trust (like a parent or therapist) and just start small and in a week or two you will be them telling about your life
@@kaitlynpryor3498 I know right you think that would be obvious
She gets scared a little
my parents: “ur a kid, what stress and anxiety do you even have?”
*rolls eyes* because they don’t understand what it is like to have anxiety or social anxiety
That's only my mom, my dad understands though
this :/
It always pisses me off, and it's always my dad saying that. That's why I don't like to talk about much with others 😔
@@x..lilly.pad..x2082 Oop- mine is the opposite way
I love how the girls in her class aren't making it a big deal, and are actually supporting her
dharr mann is hot
@@santank4 im sorry w h a t 😀
@@santank4 no he’s not hot 🦭
@@santank4 Unrelated
@@santank4 wait what-