#80 DIVORCE This Type Of Woman! || Chai With My Bhai
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- Опубликовано: 30 авг 2023
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Please don’t stop chaii with my Bhai this series is amazing alahumma baarik!
AT the age of 23 I was about to marry a particular girl. One major reason why I changed my mind and did not marry her was that she was stubborn in falsehood right from the beginning. A soon as I became aware and saw that this stubborness is something I as a man cannot deal with when I have to be in charge I said you know what, I am out of it.
@@veiled.monotheist I think it was. Alhamdulillah.
How did you find out brother if i may ask
Good for you for respecting your boundaries Alhamdulilah.
Good. She deserves a more emotionally stable man.
@@marriamamjad6772how toxic
Wow, so proud of Brother Abu Bakr sharing his story of his parents separating. Allah grant you goodness Abu Bakr.
Can you do a video on how best to handle situations as a child when parents are seperated?
Jazakum Allahu khayran for this very real and down to earth podcast
If I hadn’t already divorced due to the EXACT issue you mentioned (extreme stubbornness), I very likely would have after hearing this podcast (and Allah knows the unseen).
Don’t forget making all the episodes that you guys said you were going to make from previous episodes. Great series keep it up!
yesss abbas is back!!!!!!!!!
The lighting, camera settings and dress code from previous 2 vids needs a comeback 😄
الحمدلله
It’s nice to see the frequent uploads اللهم بارك,
May Allah bless you brothers.
آمين
Loving the consistency. May Allah reward you all.
“Righteous women with weak men become tyrannical dogs.” SubhanAllah :/
Please could you do a series about women or men who remarry and have kids involved from the previous marriage.
And the dynamics of the house
jazakAllahu khairun
May Allah make it easy for each married couple. May Allah bring barkaat in all marriages and patience in spouses. May Allah give everyone a righteous spouse who loves and respects each other and most of all May Allah give us spouses where we find pure contentment!
When we look at our spouse we should feel peace. As a Married couple you should always be grateful, Allah opens so many doors when your grateful! Always make dua in your namaz! Never ever underestimate dua! It’s so powerful! No ones spouse is perfect! But there are many qualities to be grateful for. Stay on your deen always ask for forgiveness always pray for your spouse! May Allah swt make it easy for all of us. May Allah swt make our hearts soft.
1:13 can you please clarify if brother Abbas's Awrah (knees) are on show here? If they are pleaee blur it out and advise him to wear more modest clothing
Assalamu Alaikum, where can we contact you with questions brother?
Love these podcasts
Why the black t-shirt guy is wearing half pant , what about the awra?
And our brother sitting with him?
The awrah is covered
My Brother Bilal killing those intros🤣
Please make a episode on how to govern women sheik , as a freind said he governed his wife well he got comfortable was leanent with her for a few things now she’s ungrateful and taking and taking leverage of the relationship.
Host please speak closer to the mic. Pitch goes up and down as you change the tone of your voice. Jazakallah Khair
Amazing work, Sheik Imran (Dawaman)
That’s amazing mashallah, imagine getting your ex a gift when getting divorced.
46:40 what episode is he referring to here?
HAHAHAHHAHA the intro was hilarious hahahah
Amazing episode
We need brother Adam back
Assalamulikum. I just wanted to appreciate what you guys are putting out and it being very valuable to dear brother and sisters.
I do want to emphasize, the overall message is great. In no way should you put up with a spouse who is stubborn in their ways. Without understanding from BOTH sides, it eventually becomes difficult to be with them.
That being said with my brothers, I found it very helpful to be the kind of man that your wife respects and admires. This means to be the best version of yourself and almost be her catch. I have seen examples of love (non haram)/arranged marriages falling apart because the husband is essentially not a character that she almost simps over. A strong masculine husband is very important in ensuring your wife trusts and understands your point at all times.
Respect her as if she’s the only woman on Earth while ensuring you are achieving things outside of just your marrige.
I think the brothers knees were slightly showing if we could cover that a bit more next time iA
you are only supposed to cover the thighs. the knees are covered in prayer
Why is Br Saad so quiet? Allahumma barik he’s a very intelligent individual and always has extremely valuable and thought provoking naseeha’s. Please encourage him to speak more
not to be rude inshallah, but there`s literally no point him being there. There are some episodes where he doesn't say a single thing the whole podcast.
Because he sdviced to read the disease and the cure by ibj al qayyim everyweek and in that ibn al qayyim mentions that a true slave of Allah even his speech,steps all are done for Allah. Sleeping eating etc.
So a wise pious man talks little. This was also the way of Sheikh Sa'di
@@taimurahmad he’s on a podcast champ. Platform may for u to speak. Like me having a speech at working and not speaking at all and staring mute
@@nassrnassr4215to be there allows him to benefit as well. he doesnt need to speak if other brothers express what he thinks
That awrah is barely covered!
Do women have to return the mehr after divorce?
Only if they seek khulla
No. If her husband divorces her she keeps the mahr. She only returns it if she seeks khula (she initiates the divorce)
Where’s the chai tho
Yo foreal, that's the only reason I'm here 😤
Why is the fourth guy on the show if he don’t talk
Are sheikh Saad and Imran real life brothers ? They look alike ma sha Allah
Yes
Its not easy to find a man whom a woman can respect theee days
Don't stop making D'ua. A good spouse is rizq from Allāh.
💯
So "respect" is conditional? You will never win a man's heart without respecting him
It's not easy when a woman is ungrateful and has a disrespectful attitude. Plenty of men have accountability, can't say the same for the women.
@@999legend8 her attitude is from his negligence and his short comings towards her rights
11:30
Asalamu'alaikum!!
Walaikum as salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu
Brother's shorts are riding.
Ustadh Imran If you see this I wanted to ask you that on one chai with my bhai a few years ago, brother Abbas may allah bless him said that there are such things as coincidences in Islam. I wanted to ask if this is correct to say or if there was a mistake as we as Muslims believe In the qadr of allah and that things don’t happen out of luck etc. حفظكم الله
Afwan could you send me the link and time stamp?
May have been a slip of the tongue… but yes as you said we believe everything is decreed by Allah and nothing is random without decree
@@RighteousnRich yes it may have a been a mistake from the brother. I will try find the video if I can find it inshallah, just wanted to clarify for Abbas may allah forgive him
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I believe Abbas explained what he meant in the video in that the coincidence was just two events co-incidentally happening, as in happening at the same time, not necessarily it being random events just occurring at the same moment.
And Allah سبحان وتعالى knows best.
@@abdiomar1344 جزاك الله خير
Honestly don’t think the brother meant bad. May allah bless him and increase him in beneficial knowledge.
@@abdiomar1344yes I remember the video. The brother was taking it literally ie: co-incident (the coinciding of two events) and that these 2 events are happening by the qadar of Allah AZJ
Hate to state the obvious bro but as muslims we should never stoop to a sneaky level. Keep it 💯 all the way and put our trust in Allah. And I give myself that advice first and ask Allah to keep us all on the straight! Ameen!
This podcast should have had in the title "if you have children this podcast doesnt apply to you". MOST women will go through the kuffar courts to get custody of the children. MOST men in the UK regardless or religion will get VERY limited access to their children. This will lead to the children being scarred mentally AND physically. Recommending divorce in the west is dangerous for men.
8:10 it’s ابغض. Not اغضب
"She could have been a good girl for me!!" Bro that's mad.
😂😂😂
Ive noticed the legs exposed. My sincere advice is to cover the legs. Haya is for men just as it is for women. There is an Adhab that we should have especially on a public platform like this. Alhumdulliah. JazakhAllah.
His awrah is covered....
@@reminder3079 modesty is about more than covering just the awrah.
Chill out, men are allowed to dress like that it’s not his awrah showing … focus on the talk !
@@ibrahimakhtar2681likewise. Advice is given , one can take it or leave it . Alhumdulliah.
@@Sarah-pw9bb good reminder but the awrah for the man is above the knee so he is covered.
1. Lighting is whack
2. There’s no chai in these videos
3. Imran needs to correctly reference the quranic verses
4. Abbas laughing about women going to hell when clearly hasn’t studied the hadith, who told him he’s guaranteed entry into Jannah?
I don't think he was laughing about them going to hell... I think it's just the nervous or awkward laugh he often does
He said ungrateful women will go to hell
Please expand on the lady the prophet SAW divorced? DID he saw divorce her or they reconciled?
No. He divorced her also it’s more virtuous to not have a profile picture and Allah knows best.
They reconciled
He divorced her because she said aoothubillah when he went near her.
@@zk321 the reconciliation was with our mother Hafsa... the other wife (not one of the 11 wives) was divorced
@@quranaffirmations tell me her name and give me a reference
Some brothers need to learn to also cover their satr as well...
Brooo I was wondering the same thing. 😂😂. Very borderline.
@jihadulnafs Equivalent to Awrah in Arabic
His awra is covered between navel and knee
إن أبغض الحلال عند الله الطلاق
If i was ten years into my marriage with my wife and i find out she wasn't a virgin when i married her, I'm divorcing her straight up.
Never say never
If she lost her virginity in zina then divorce . But if she lost it in a previous marriage then and she’s a good wife then it’s not that deep.
So you’re going to throw 10 years together away for something that belong to the past? Let alone something that’s not even your business? What silly mindset is this?
May Allah protect sisters from males like you, ameen.
Absolutely right
Will these women marry a rapist?
Or a man known for homo deeds?
Absolutely right
Will these women marry a rapist?
Or a man known for homo deeds?
I’m NEVER getting married 😂
That's the opposite of what our Prophet (ﷺ) did. He got married to multiple women.
If you want success, strive to follow his Sunnah. There will always be tests, but they are worth enduring.
the Prophet was polygynous... but you want to be celibate?
strive to be better... easier said than done, sure, but that's just what you gotta do as a man
It's sad when we take marriage advice from the young and leave the scholars.
جزاك الله خيرا
Scholars teach people then those people who learn from the scholars teach others