Because parents don't teach them about value. Most hmong family play favoritism in family. That's why kids becomes an adult, but DON'T have values... it's a sad cycle.
You're so humble and kind! Always be the good you! Your sisters are just jealous of you and for them it's never too late to go back to school to learn. We can be sisters sis.
Koj hais koj sab tuaj mas zoo li lawv tsis hlub koj vim lawv yog 3 leeg ces lawv rov sib hlub lawv lawm. Tab sis yog lawv ho piav lawv sab tuaj no ces lawv yuav hais tias tos lawv tsis tshua xam txog koj los twb vim yog koj tib leeg xwb thiab koj ho yog tus muaj kev kawm siab dua lawv ces koj pheej proud of koj tus kheej heev. Yog li no kuv recommend koj yog tus muaj kev kawm siab thiab yog tus yau dua lawv mas koj xwb hwm lawv ua ntej ces lawv yim huab hwm koj heev rov tom qab in return.
😢 😢 😢 😢 One of the many reasons why I risked my life to have another daughter for my oldest daughter, having a blood sister is the most beautiful thing in the world, someone to turn to when you have stress and sadness. 🙏 FOR YOU SISTER, EVEN THOUGH YOU DON'T HAVE ONE, YOU HAVE YOUR DAUGHTERS.
Tu niam lau aw ca mloog kj zaj neeg no e ua kv tu siab ua lj li o kv tsi muaj viv ncau li kj thb o kv niam kv txiv nkawv yug tau kv ib leeg ntxhai xb kv ntshaw2 viv ncau thiab tu siab heev li o mloog kj zaj no ce kv quaj2 li o
Just don't think of your way only sis. If you want them to love you, you have to learn how to love them to. Sounds like you no give them respect enough. Learn how to call them more talk to them more and go visit them cause that is what you want. If you give them enough they will see.
It sounds like they called you more than you ever called them. At least they acknowledged you when they called you. They shouldn't have said some of the things they said. But if you want a connection with them then you should reach out to them too. But if you want to keep being in this depressed state then just be on your own. It's sad that sometimes they aren't thoughtful towards you but they haven't completely cut you off. Just be happy with those who are close to you.
Agree with you. Every siblings are different. Some just like to live their life with their significant others without acknowledging others. My parents have 7 of us, two lives their life very distant from everyone. The two that are distance, kept everything to themselves but blamed others for not inviting them. Plus they are not as giving when it comes to helping out.
Xob tu siab os mog, Ua lub siab tawv nkuav tias yus Niam yus Txiv tsuas Yug tau yus ib leeg xwb es Lawv hlub yus los yus hlub Lawv thiab xwb Lawv tsi hlub yus los yus Xob hlub Lawv thiab os mog
Txhob tu siab os tus ntxhais aw kuv twb tsis muaj viv ncaus thiab os txhob qaug zog mog tau lub neej thiab hlub yus tus txiv yeej meem npaj kom yus lub neej zoo xwb nawb txob hais tias tsam zoo dua luag ces ho khib luag no koj yuam ke v lawm yog koj lub neej tsis zoo ces lawv haj yam tsis hlub yus nawb .
I can relate to what you are feeling and what you're going through I'm in a similar situation but sister you need to stop being so petty towards yourself stop surrounding yourself with those who doesn't see what you're worth start loving yourself and your family no need to be sad just live your best life...
Txhob tu siab tus niam tsev. Koj 3 tug Viv ncaus ko ces txawj los tsis txawj ntse los yeej tsis ntse 3 niag kuag kab kuag hlau xwb. Tus neeg ntse thiab muaj kev hlub mas yeej tsis xaiv txheeb xaiv ze lub ntsej lub muag kev txawj kev ntse na.
Txhob tu siab os mog, tsis mua sister los txhob tu siab. Sometime water is thicker than blood. I have 3 sister and I love them soo much. Sometime I wish I have more sisters. I have 3 daughters of my own but I want more. I want a team of daughters so they won’t have to look up to their friends for comfort. Your sisters are just old school, different heart, different mind.
Txhob Tusiab thiab os me niam hluas awe ! Muaj coob2 li peb no los twb tsi txawj sib hlub li thiab os mog ! Muab lub siab lub ntsw khi rau yus cov menyuam thiab yus tus txuv xwb os mog !
If you have to prove yourself and do everything to be loved and accepted by your family then they are not your real family. You don’t need them. Stop being too fragile and worries too much about the future whether they are going to love you or not. Focus on what you can control and that’s your kids and husband. The more you worries about what you don’t have, the more you are hurting yourself. Don’t let your siblings control your feelings or determine your happiness. You got your own family, they are the real deal and your true happiness. If they really needed you or included you from the beginning, they would have included you by now. I’m willing to bet they will be calling you one day when they needed financial support. Until then just live your life to the fullest and focus on your own family first. You will be fine sister.
Tu siab tshaj plaws li os kuv los yug tau ib tug me ntxhais xwb mas kuv txhawj kuv tu me ntxhais tsam thaum laus tsis muaj viv ncaus Hlub nws thiab no. Kuv mas xav yug kom tau ib tug me ntxhais tabsis vim yug tsis tau lawm xwb os
Me niam hluas ca kj Niam zoo li kv thiab os tu neeg g muaj viv ncaus li yus no txawm chim thiab zoo siab lo cias rau yus lub siab xwb os txob muaj qhias rau lawv cov muaj viv ncaus ce lawv hnos yus xwb os
Yog, txawm yus yog viv ncaus los yog yus tsis hu lawv es yus tos lawv hu yus xwb ces kawg yuav sib nrug zuj zus xwb. Yog xav raug zoo ces taug qab, yog xav tias cia yus thiab yus tus txiv xwb ces txav deb es yus ua yus neej ntsiag to
Don't be sad! I have four sisters but we don't even get alone. So we blocked each other. It's better we don't talk or know about each others lifes. I am the oldest but four younger one they think they're always right. Block toxic people from our lives n will be happier.
txhob tu Siab mog koj tsis muaj viv ncaus los koj tseem muaj nus os kuv li twb tsis muaj hlo li ua ib siab rau yus cov me nyuam thiab yus tus txiv xwb mog
G muaj viv ncaus los tu siab 1 zaug ho muaj los g txawj sib hlub mas haj yam txawj tu siab 1 zaug os mog .you husband and children are the priority of your life just move on
Sister in this story, don't be sad. Txhob Tu Siab mog. Even in a family as big as mine that has 14 siblings- 9 brothers & 4 sisters, we all can't even get along or know to truly love each other. It's almost 2-3 siblings that causes trouble and there are always misunderstandings and judgments and jealousy. Even with a family of 14, it still feels very lonely and still no support or love for each other. Don't be sad because in the end you live your life to the fullest to the way you want and learn to love yourself more. You may think that there is support and much love but there isn't. Do what is best for you only and care about yourself and your immediate family. Help your outside family when they need and ask for it but only do what you can. You don't have to go above and beyond. Just take care of yourself and your family.
Koj twb muaj 3 tug nus ne ntaus phooj ywg rau koj cov nyab thiab niam tij niam ntxawm, nrog lawv mus ub mus no. Thaum koj cov viv ncaus hu, nrog lawv, lawv tsis coj/hu,nrog koj cov nyab, niam tij niam ntxawm. Have your husband be your everything when you need a sister.
Sister, don't envy that you don't have sister. The person that doesn't love you is your mother. Shw inly thinks of herself only. Don't expect your half sisters don't love you. Right now you live your husband and your kids.
Txhob Tu siab os Tus viv ncaus yeej muaj tseeb li lawv sau comments hauv no os. Ib co muaj vi- muaj ncaus lawv twb tsis sib hlub thiab es puam chaws os.
I think it's your fault. You got brain washed by what your dad said. Instead if trying to love and communicate with your step siblings, you kept thinking they will not love you so you stopped communicating with them thats why they stopped loving you. Be happy with what you have.
Sister, don't be sad. Sisters are wonderful to have but if you don't have one/two...just be independent. How come you don't talk about your husband's family? You are now part of his family, too. I hope you understand that there's always a invisible wall between niam hlob and niam yau's children. Love them as much as you can but if they don't include you -- don't be sad about it.
It's impossible for siblings to agree on everything. My full blooded sister is brattier than my half sister but I wouldn't dare hold that against neither of them. But you did. You already admitted that you hold your full blooded brothers to a higher standard than your half sisters.. and yet you're sad that they treat you differently?. Maybe I understood the story wrong but i stopped halfway because it was starting to feel like she was using the victim card. I stand to be corrected. Lol
Txhob tu siab os txawm muaj viv ncaus los tus tsis hlub yus ces yeej tsis hlub. Tsis muaj los tsis tu siab. Txhob tu...yus ua tus zoo, txawm lawv hais lus tsis zoo los yus ua tus zoo lub ntuj yeej hlub yus kawg.
Don't be sad sister. I have 6 sisters and I'm in the same boat as you. Those are your step sisters only, mine are not and I'm the odd ducks in their eyes.
Sister stop playing victim. You were spoiled by your dad and just want to live up to his words. Sounds like you're looking for sympathy from your half sisters and they have none.
Dont be sad at all. I have 4 sisters from the same parents and they dislike me and bullying on me because I have higher education and a husband who loves me most. They would talk about me behind my back and they would make fun of me to the point I cry out loud. I cried so many times and I distance myself from them. I dont talk to them unless necessary because they only want to destory my life by telling me to do bad things to my husband. I wish I dont have any sisters at time or wish I am a boy so I dont need to deal with a sister. Sister blood or not will bullying on you, regardless, if your life is better than them. They would still be jealous of you no matter if you’re blood or not. I cried so many times to my husband and he is my only best friend who stands by me at all times. My parents also favorite me the least out of all my sisters and I received the least love from them. So dont be sad at all because your experience is no different from mine but my is worst because they are my blood sisters.
Don’t be sad. Love yourself and hangout with your kids and husband only. Don’t worry about them because they will never truly love you. Your best friend are your husband and kids only
This makes my heart hurt for my children. I regret not having more children...especially another brother for son. I'm from a family of 9 siblings and still feel lonely sometimes.😥😭😢
I don't get you, if those 3 sisters mistreat you forget them, they think they too good for you. Love yourself. The future still too early you never know what gonna happen
I feel her dad's words did more harm than good to her. It paranoid her and I feel it's herself that is distancing herself from the other step siblings..
It’s okay!!! I have no sisters too and I realized that even if I did they wouldn’t have love me either knowing how siblings and parents treat you. Be grateful that you are alone and the only love you should be looking at are your children and your spouse.
Don't be sad. I think they're jealous of the attention and love you received from your father. Don't expect anything from them so you don't get hurt. Also, you should start speaking up. From the examples in your story, it sounds like you allowed them to say whatever they want. You don't have to get in a fight or argument with them but you should start to say something back. Not saying anything is almost like you agree to it. For example, when they say you don't call them, when your life doesn't work out, you won't have anyone to call. You could say something like "oh don't say that, you all kids are grown up, my kids are still young and they use a lot of my time, its not that i dont want to call you sisters" Find a excuse to let them know that it's not fair they say that to you. Also, the money part was disrespectful from them to make you gave more. If money remark come up again, you should say something like "oh why do you think I have more money?" (Ask this question calm and genuinely, yet confused look to them). Continue with I'm the youngest child, I start my marriage later than you all, my kids are small, they still have a lot of needs, maybe when your kids grow up, you might have money but for now you are just as poor as them. Honestly, I dislike women like your sisters. When they say that, they purposely want to see your reaction and response and making you a fool. Not saying anything is like you are agreeing with them that you have more money than your sisters, and you are a "low key show off" to them. Practice some wits and you will be fine. Best of luck to you sister.
sometimes people care too much and are too nice that they are being taken advantage of. Sometimes "I don't care" is your solution. stop caring for and making your sisters love you, being butt hurt not going to help you. do the minimum that you can and just move on with all of your miserable lives.
No offense, but sister just sounds like a crybaby. I have a ton of sisters and we say worse things to each other. But we still forgive each other and love and move on. That’s the beauty of family. If you have to walk on eggshells, you’re not family. It seems your sisters aren’t walking on eggshells but you are. So you’re the problem.
Txhob ntshaw viv ncaws os mog. Yus yug lo ib leeg xwb ces xyom nyob ib leeg es hlub yus tu kheej tshaj hlub lawm tus lawm xwb os. I was born a loner too, at least you have 2 brothers. I don’t have none, 6 half siblings that today don’t care about me but call me a control freak and that I’m begging for their friendship, invading into their lives. So I learn to let them all go and live for myself and my family only. When you help them, a call you stupid and when you love them they call you investing into their lives. Don’t put yourself through that pain, let them go and love yourself. One day Ntuj will teach them that they will need you one day too. Maybe you will forgive them but I am the oldest of all mines and I will never forgive them for the hurt and words they said to me. Best wishes to you and I both and To those like us.
I think that you are overly sensitive. Grow a thick skin. If your other sisters do not like you then give them the middle finger and move on. Stick up for yourself when they say rude things to you. Stand your ground woman..lol. You have your sister in laws, ask them for help. If no one wants to help you then learn how to do things without needing their help.
Don’t be sad. The ones that have siblings don’t even love each other.
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Because parents don't teach them about value. Most hmong family play favoritism in family. That's why kids becomes an adult, but DON'T have values... it's a sad cycle.
Txhob tu siab mog viv ncau aw peb twb yog kj viv ncau thiab mog
Niam Lau aw kuv mloog koj zag dab neej no mam tus siab tshag Li os
Xum mu zeem viv ncau sab nrauv ntshe hlub koj dua
Yup. Muaj viv ncaus same parents is a totally different feeling❤❤😢..
The 3 sister may not mean it what they say but it hits the heart deeply😮😮
I only have one daughter. Hopefully, someday she doesn't run into this situation. Txhob Tu siab os, sister.
You're so humble and kind! Always be the good you! Your sisters are just jealous of you and for them it's never too late to go back to school to learn. We can be sisters sis.
Koj hais koj sab tuaj mas zoo li lawv tsis hlub koj vim lawv yog 3 leeg ces lawv rov sib hlub lawv lawm. Tab sis yog lawv ho piav lawv sab tuaj no ces lawv yuav hais tias tos lawv tsis tshua xam txog koj los twb vim yog koj tib leeg xwb thiab koj ho yog tus muaj kev kawm siab dua lawv ces koj pheej proud of koj tus kheej heev. Yog li no kuv recommend koj yog tus muaj kev kawm siab thiab yog tus yau dua lawv mas koj xwb hwm lawv ua ntej ces lawv yim huab hwm koj heev rov tom qab in return.
This story touch my heart so bad and it hurt. Thank you for sharing this story.
😢 😢 😢 😢 One of the many reasons why I risked my life to have another daughter for my oldest daughter, having a blood sister is the most beautiful thing in the world, someone to turn to when you have stress and sadness. 🙏 FOR YOU SISTER, EVEN THOUGH YOU DON'T HAVE ONE, YOU HAVE YOUR DAUGHTERS.
It’s good story. Txhob tus siab os tus muam aws muaj ib co es muaj viv muaj cnaus los twb tsis sib hlub thiab os.
Tu niam lau aw ca mloog kj zaj neeg no e ua kv tu siab ua lj li o kv tsi muaj viv ncau li kj thb o kv niam kv txiv nkawv yug tau kv ib leeg ntxhai xb kv ntshaw2 viv ncau thiab tu siab heev li o mloog kj zaj no ce kv quaj2 li o
Just don't think of your way only sis. If you want them to love you, you have to learn how to love them to. Sounds like you no give them respect enough. Learn how to call them more talk to them more and go visit them cause that is what you want. If you give them enough they will see.
It sounds like they called you more than you ever called them. At least they acknowledged you when they called you. They shouldn't have said some of the things they said. But if you want a connection with them then you should reach out to them too. But if you want to keep being in this depressed state then just be on your own. It's sad that sometimes they aren't thoughtful towards you but they haven't completely cut you off. Just be happy with those who are close to you.
Agree with you. Every siblings are different. Some just like to live their life with their significant others without acknowledging others. My parents have 7 of us, two lives their life very distant from everyone. The two that are distance, kept everything to themselves but blamed others for not inviting them. Plus they are not as giving when it comes to helping out.
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We come to the world alone and we die alone. Be strong and capable alone and make friends who are sisters of your choosing.
Xob tu siab os mog, Ua lub siab tawv nkuav tias yus Niam yus Txiv tsuas Yug tau yus ib leeg xwb es Lawv hlub yus los yus hlub Lawv thiab xwb Lawv tsi hlub yus los yus Xob hlub Lawv thiab os mog
Txhob tu siab os tus ntxhais aw kuv twb tsis muaj viv ncaus thiab os txhob qaug zog mog tau lub neej thiab hlub yus tus txiv yeej meem npaj kom yus lub neej zoo xwb nawb txob hais tias tsam zoo dua luag ces ho khib luag no koj yuam ke v lawm yog koj lub neej tsis zoo ces lawv haj yam tsis hlub yus nawb .
I can relate to what you are feeling and what you're going through I'm in a similar situation but sister you need to stop being so petty towards yourself stop surrounding yourself with those who doesn't see what you're worth start loving yourself and your family no need to be sad just live your best life...
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Txhob tu siab tus niam tsev. Koj 3 tug Viv ncaus ko ces txawj los tsis txawj ntse los yeej tsis ntse 3 niag kuag kab kuag hlau xwb. Tus neeg ntse thiab muaj kev hlub mas yeej tsis xaiv txheeb xaiv ze lub ntsej lub muag kev txawj kev ntse na.
Txhob tu siab os mog, tsis mua sister los txhob tu siab. Sometime water is thicker than blood. I have 3 sister and I love them soo much. Sometime I wish I have more sisters. I have 3 daughters of my own but I want more. I want a team of daughters so they won’t have to look up to their friends for comfort. Your sisters are just old school, different heart, different mind.
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Cas es koj ho tu siab li kuv thiab. Yus tsis muaj Viv ncaus yuav tau mus tso pa li os
Tsev neeg uas muaj ob peb tug niam ces yeej taug li no ntau os... yus mam muaj yus cov ntxhais los hlub li Viv ncaus
Txhob Tusiab thiab os me niam hluas awe ! Muaj coob2 li peb no los twb tsi txawj sib hlub li thiab os mog ! Muab lub siab lub ntsw khi rau yus cov menyuam thiab yus tus txuv xwb os mog !
If you have to prove yourself and do everything to be loved and accepted by your family then they are not your real family. You don’t need them.
Stop being too fragile and worries too much about the future whether they are going to love you or not. Focus on what you can control and that’s your kids and husband. The more you worries about what you don’t have, the more you are hurting yourself. Don’t let your siblings control your feelings or determine your happiness. You got your own family, they are the real deal and your true happiness. If they really needed you or included you from the beginning, they would have included you by now. I’m willing to bet they will be calling you one day when they needed financial support. Until then just live your life to the fullest and focus on your own family first. You will be fine sister.
kv lub neej tseem tu siab tsaj kj lub os kv twb tsi muaj ib tug viv ncau li kv tu viv ncau ce tsua yog kv tu txiv xwb
Dont be sad sometimes it’s best to be alone…if the sister don’t know to love each other it’s no different.
Tu siab tshaj plaws li os kuv los yug tau ib tug me ntxhais xwb mas kuv txhawj kuv tu me ntxhais tsam thaum laus tsis muaj viv ncaus Hlub nws thiab no. Kuv mas xav yug kom tau ib tug me ntxhais tabsis vim yug tsis tau lawm xwb os
Viv ncaus aw txhob tshaw2 lawv peb viv ncaus os yus tsis muaj ces yus nyob ib leeg xwb txhob nrog lawv tham es thiaj tsis tu siab os nawb
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Me niam hluas ca kj Niam zoo li kv thiab os tu neeg g muaj viv ncaus li yus no txawm chim thiab zoo siab lo cias rau yus lub siab xwb os txob muaj qhias rau lawv cov muaj viv ncaus ce lawv hnos yus xwb os
Like the “OG” always said “vim txoj hmoo” es tsis txhob tu tu siab mog. Some families, siblings even created enemies among themselves for life.
Koj tsis muaj Los tsis txob tu siab os. Muaj ib cov twb muaj viv ncaus coob2 los twb tsis paub sib hlub thiab.
Yog, txawm yus yog viv ncaus los yog yus tsis hu lawv es yus tos lawv hu yus xwb ces kawg yuav sib nrug zuj zus xwb. Yog xav raug zoo ces taug qab, yog xav tias cia yus thiab yus tus txiv xwb ces txav deb es yus ua yus neej ntsiag to
Sending you lots of hugs from WI! Your story is so sad. I'll be your sister.
Don’t be sad 😢
Ur kids r the best
Don't be sad! I have four sisters but we don't even get alone. So we blocked each other. It's better we don't talk or know about each others lifes. I am the oldest but four younger one they think they're always right. Block toxic people from our lives n will be happier.
txhob tu Siab mog koj tsis muaj viv ncaus los koj tseem muaj nus os kuv li twb tsis muaj hlo li ua ib siab rau yus cov me nyuam thiab yus tus txiv xwb mog
Nco ntsoov tias yus tsua vam luag xwb luag yeej tsis vam yus nawb yus ib leeg luag coob2 nawb mog
G muaj viv ncaus los tu siab 1 zaug ho muaj los g txawj sib hlub mas haj yam txawj tu siab 1 zaug os mog .you husband and children are the priority of your life just move on
So sad. I'll be your sister. I'm an only child and can relate to your story. Don't be so sad. You have your daughters
Eb cas kuv lo nim tsi muaj viv ncau thiab e nim ke mloog ke quaj os
Sister in this story, don't be sad. Txhob Tu Siab mog. Even in a family as big as mine that has 14 siblings- 9 brothers & 4 sisters, we all can't even get along or know to truly love each other. It's almost 2-3 siblings that causes trouble and there are always misunderstandings and judgments and jealousy. Even with a family of 14, it still feels very lonely and still no support or love for each other. Don't be sad because in the end you live your life to the fullest to the way you want and learn to love yourself more. You may think that there is support and much love but there isn't. Do what is best for you only and care about yourself and your immediate family. Help your outside family when they need and ask for it but only do what you can. You don't have to go above and beyond. Just take care of yourself and your family.
Koj twb muaj 3 tug nus ne ntaus phooj ywg rau koj cov nyab thiab niam tij niam ntxawm, nrog lawv mus ub mus no. Thaum koj cov viv ncaus hu, nrog lawv, lawv tsis coj/hu,nrog koj cov nyab, niam tij niam ntxawm. Have your husband be your everything when you need a sister.
niam lau ca koj rov tso dua
Sister, don't envy that you don't have sister. The person that doesn't love you is your mother. Shw inly thinks of herself only. Don't expect your half sisters don't love you. Right now you live your husband and your kids.
I hope their love like that for them forever and one day don't hear that they turn on each other
Txhob Tu siab os Tus viv ncaus yeej muaj tseeb li lawv sau comments hauv no os. Ib co muaj vi- muaj ncaus lawv twb tsis sib hlub thiab es puam chaws os.
I think it's your fault. You got brain washed by what your dad said. Instead if trying to love and communicate with your step siblings, you kept thinking they will not love you so you stopped communicating with them thats why they stopped loving you.
Be happy with what you have.
It's half siblings.
Tej zaj no cas yuav nkim sawvdaws lub sijhawm los mloog 30 Mn pov tseg dawb2.
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Hmoob siab me. Yuav sib cais sib ntxub txog hnub twg os?
😢 Don’t be sad sister I very understand how you feel I don’t have sister too
Zoo li yog txoj qub xwb na
Zaj qub tiam siv hnub is txog nrab xwb twb tsi hno lawm os Viv ncau
N.ntsuab teev koj zaj neej neeg no koj twb hais tas lawm zav?
Communication is a two way street.
Sister, don't be sad. Sisters are wonderful to have but if you don't have one/two...just be independent. How come you don't talk about your husband's family? You are now part of his family, too. I hope you understand that there's always a invisible wall between niam hlob and niam yau's children. Love them as much as you can but if they don't include you -- don't be sad about it.
It's impossible for siblings to agree on everything. My full blooded sister is brattier than my half sister but I wouldn't dare hold that against neither of them. But you did. You already admitted that you hold your full blooded brothers to a higher standard than your half sisters.. and yet you're sad that they treat you differently?. Maybe I understood the story wrong but i stopped halfway because it was starting to feel like she was using the victim card. I stand to be corrected. Lol
E ca zoo li kuv e muaj coob2 lo yuv txom2 nyem ce yuvvnim zoo li tu no thiab os to yuv paub ce lawv twb noj hau dua lawm os
Txhob tu siab os txawm muaj viv ncaus los tus tsis hlub yus ces yeej tsis hlub. Tsis muaj los tsis tu siab. Txhob tu...yus ua tus zoo, txawm lawv hais lus tsis zoo los yus ua tus zoo lub ntuj yeej hlub yus kawg.
Don't be sad sister. I have 6 sisters and I'm in the same boat as you. Those are your step sisters only, mine are not and I'm the odd ducks in their eyes.
I have a 6 sisters but I feel like I don’t. All because of jealousy
Sister stop playing victim. You were spoiled by your dad and just want to live up to his words. Sounds like you're looking for sympathy from your half sisters and they have none.
Dont be sad at all. I have 4 sisters from the same parents and they dislike me and bullying on me because I have higher education and a husband who loves me most. They would talk about me behind my back and they would make fun of me to the point I cry out loud. I cried so many times and I distance myself from them. I dont talk to them unless necessary because they only want to destory my life by telling me to do bad things to my husband. I wish I dont have any sisters at time or wish I am a boy so I dont need to deal with a sister. Sister blood or not will bullying on you, regardless, if your life is better than them. They would still be jealous of you no matter if you’re blood or not. I cried so many times to my husband and he is my only best friend who stands by me at all times. My parents also favorite me the least out of all my sisters and I received the least love from them. So dont be sad at all because your experience is no different from mine but my is worst because they are my blood sisters.
Zaj no koj twb hai tag ob hnub is lawm ne ca ho rov hai dua
Zaj no twb hais tag lawm
its okay sister, you have ur husband by ur side always
Ua cas zoo li koj twb muab hais tas lawm cas rov muab los hais dua thiab nas los
Don’t be sad. Love yourself and hangout with your kids and husband only. Don’t worry about them because they will never truly love you. Your best friend are your husband and kids only
This makes my heart hurt for my children. I regret not having more children...especially another brother for son. I'm from a family of 9 siblings and still feel lonely sometimes.😥😭😢
Zoo li zaj qub xwb nas niam ntsuab teev maybe wrong one
She reloaded old one from
Last week
Yep that’s what I thought too already done listen last week
The same story? From yesterday?
I think so
I think she took it down & just reload it. I was getting to the middle of the story & then all of a sudden the video was unavailable to view.
Niam hlob niam yau menyuam ces yeej zoo li ntawv xwb mas, txiv neej Hmoob ntshaw2 menyuam coob2 tab sis lawv tsis xav txog tias coob2 los twb tsis sib hlub os
Zaj qub xwb e
Kuv xav tau nw tu xov tooj koj pua kam tso rau no rau kuv ne thov nawb
Koj 3 tug niam laus ruam xwb os. Yeej muaj ib cov neeg ruam ruam li koj 3 tig niam laus ko os sister aw…
I don't get you, if those 3 sisters mistreat you forget them, they think they too good for you. Love yourself. The future still too early you never know what gonna happen
Lawv has koj muaj nyiaj ces ua lawv tsaug xwb mas me ntxhais
I feel her dad's words did more harm than good to her. It paranoid her and I feel it's herself that is distancing herself from the other step siblings..
Agreed💯
It’s okay!!! I have no sisters too and I realized that even if I did they wouldn’t have love me either knowing how siblings and parents treat you. Be grateful that you are alone and the only love you should be looking at are your children and your spouse.
You are just so used to being spoiled.
Zaj no koj twb hais ob hnub tag los lawm nev,
Hais txog nrab xwb tu tsi hnov lawm thiaj muab hais dua
Is this is a retell story? Lol!
Don't be sad. I think they're jealous of the attention and love you received from your father. Don't expect anything from them so you don't get hurt. Also, you should start speaking up. From the examples in your story, it sounds like you allowed them to say whatever they want. You don't have to get in a fight or argument with them but you should start to say something back. Not saying anything is almost like you agree to it. For example, when they say you don't call them, when your life doesn't work out, you won't have anyone to call. You could say something like "oh don't say that, you all kids are grown up, my kids are still young and they use a lot of my time, its not that i dont want to call you sisters"
Find a excuse to let them know that it's not fair they say that to you. Also, the money part was disrespectful from them to make you gave more. If money remark come up again, you should say something like "oh why do you think I have more money?" (Ask this question calm and genuinely, yet confused look to them). Continue with I'm the youngest child, I start my marriage later than you all, my kids are small, they still have a lot of needs, maybe when your kids grow up, you might have money but for now you are just as poor as them. Honestly, I dislike women like your sisters. When they say that, they purposely want to see your reaction and response and making you a fool. Not saying anything is like you are agreeing with them that you have more money than your sisters, and you are a "low key show off" to them. Practice some wits and you will be fine. Best of luck to you sister.
sometimes people care too much and are too nice that they are being taken advantage of. Sometimes "I don't care" is your solution. stop caring for and making your sisters love you, being butt hurt not going to help you. do the minimum that you can and just move on with all of your miserable lives.
No offense, but sister just sounds like a crybaby. I have a ton of sisters and we say worse things to each other. But we still forgive each other and love and move on. That’s the beauty of family. If you have to walk on eggshells, you’re not family. It seems your sisters aren’t walking on eggshells but you are. So you’re the problem.
Oh you done this one already. Why you repeat it again?
Because the other day, the sound stopped in the middle of the story.
Cas koj has zaj qub xwb yog koj this nco qab lawm Los yog koj this dab this Tham Tham lawm
Txhob ntshaw viv ncaws os mog. Yus yug lo ib leeg xwb ces xyom nyob ib leeg es hlub yus tu kheej tshaj hlub lawm tus lawm xwb os.
I was born a loner too, at least you have 2 brothers. I don’t have none, 6 half siblings that today don’t care about me but call me a control freak and that I’m begging for their friendship, invading into their lives.
So I learn to let them all go and live for myself and my family only.
When you help them, a call you stupid and when you love them they call you investing into their lives. Don’t put yourself through that pain, let them go and love yourself.
One day Ntuj will teach them that they will need you one day too. Maybe you will forgive them but I am the oldest of all mines and I will never forgive them for the hurt and words they said to me.
Best wishes to you and I both and To those like us.
It's the same story from yesterday??,
Yes, but it has no sound the other day and that is why she upload it again.
You had no story anymore or what keep told story same over and over again
I think that you are overly sensitive. Grow a thick skin. If your other sisters do not like you then give them the middle finger and move on. Stick up for yourself when they say rude things to you. Stand your ground woman..lol. You have your sister in laws, ask them for help. If no one wants to help you then learn how to do things without needing their help.
Right. She seem like a spoiled bratty kid who got everything her way and now just expect her sisters to also keep her on the high pedestal.
I don’t know why these siblings are so selfish at time. I can’t stand some of the words those sisters say you when you call them.
This story was uploaded couple days ago.
Yes, but it has no sound and that is why she upload it again today.
😂😂😂😂ntuj cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os 😭😭
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