The way the OP described life as a bubble really resonated - it's a really great way to describe how greif and other experiences are re-lived on occasion.
As someone who has been single for 5 years, I don't understand cheating. Like I'd just be so grateful to have a partner, why would you jeopardize that?!
1:52 For that first story, glad he came clean. I've heard too many true crime stories about guys claiming to have educations they didn't and then murdering a bunch of people to cover up their lie.
Story 4: So like, not only is the necklace just straight up not Ava's, but the family actively cut contact with Op after husband's death, and now she's showing up to try and take yet _another_ thing from the husband away from Op?
I have never, not once, disagreed with a Vincey "Ewww!" Like in the 2nd story about the cheater having an affair with her SIL's ex, my face was already crinkled up in disgust when the "Ewww!" hit. Simultaneous grossout!
My favorite genre of AITA posts are the ones with a title like “AITA for kicking a puppy?” and then the description is like “the puppy killed my family and called me a slur, so I used my foot to gently nudge it out of my house.” I can never tell if people do it to get clicks or if they’re just genuinely unaware of how it sounds
The friend in story 4 might be a good friend, but she's definitely kind of an AH to try comparing her getting rid of her exes' stuff with getting rid of something from someone whose life was cut short tragically.
Related to Post 3: Years ago, my company had a work dinner at a restaurant locally known for their fried chicken and garlic biscuits. One particularly rancid co-worker had put a large freezer bag in her purse, and when the meal was winding down, she picked up the plates of remaining chicken and biscuits and dumped them into the bag. When I commented other people might still want some, she responded by sneering that they should have taken some earlier then, and calling me a "greedy joo-bish" for even questioning her. She was a real peach.
1:47 I agree with this comment. If he does have the transcripts, it could just be that he was super embarrassed for not being able to get a passing grade on his thesis. If he doesn't have the transcripts, it's way worse because it's like he's just lying to lie, and he doesn't even seem to be benefiting from the lie.
It's one thing to be a little messy and things cluttered. It's another to have bad hygiene. I would not want my partner to have his hands in his pants anywhere and then touch my face/hair for a kiss/whatever after without washing his hands. Or reach into the shared bowl of chips/popcorn. Yuck.
I thought the story would go a different way (like accidental farts or burps), but nope it went straight to a differnt kind of hell. Also getting comfortable is probably not the right way to describe it, I feel the BF always was someone unhygenic and just doesn't want to put up a facade anymore. There are different thresholds for couples with what they are comfortable around (Like walking into the bathroom while someone is in the shower or on the loo), but BASIC stuff like brushing your teeth or being dirty enough that it smells when you scratch yourself? Nope nope nope. I can't (and don't want to) imagine a relationship where that flies.
Story 4: How could Ava decide that the necklace means more to her? She can't possibly know what it means to OP. The necklace was made from her and her late husbands wedding rings, so it represents a very big positive event in OPs live. How could that item mean more to her SIL? Also OP is wearing the necklace every day, so it definitly means something to her. Making such a demand is just outright weird.
Story 2: _She's_ mad about the "betrayal"?! Her?! What?! Cheaters are scum, no exceptions. 2:56 wat Story 5: Have you tried using words? Just put it bluntly, his lack of hygiene is making intimacy an issue. How he reacts is how you will know if this is even salvageable. 18:16 "Dude" things, huh? Snnnk. That's man-baby behavior. Reminds me of another Reddit post where OP had a woman roommate who left her monthly surprise flowing everywhere (her clothes, her underthings, her bed), amongst other gross stuff, but of course, OP never said anything to her-just seething and whining the whole time. 18:56 That doesn't matter what kind of alphabet letters you have (fellow ADHD person here), as leaving doom piles is not the same as being disgusting and unhygienic. It's not hypocritical to call out disgusting behavior. Does he want you to wash him or something? Does he have a disability that prevents him from cleaning himself? No? Then it's OK to tell him he's gross.
Post 4: Losing a spouse or a parent is something I feel you can only really understand once you have gone through it yourself. At least for me it was. So I wouldn't hold it against the best friend because she was probably working with what her own experiences have given her (break-ups) without realizing that the experiences are vastly different. As for the SIL, I like the idea of talking with her. Experiences are different, as is grief. Not sure if I would call anyone an AH there without knowing the SIL's side. OP isn't an AH nor is her best friend.
Story 5: Good Lord, he's self-conscious about not being attractive to you, yet at the same time refuses to practice basic hygiene despite knowing it bothers you....and he can't connect the dots here? Either he grows the hell up or it's over. Otherwise you will resent the overgrown manbaby for the rest of your life together.
ugh its so stupid that people are being so icky about the necklace in story 4. it isnt some ex she broke up with or is obsessing over. this is a human being she loved and married, her husband DIED for crying out loud. he is someone she lost and had a huge impact on her and her heart and soul. fondly remembering your past partners dont take away from your new relationship. like if you lose your dog and have keep sakes from them you dont throw it all away as soon as you have a new dog. your allowed to love a past loved one and still love new ones
Day 13 of telling the Vincey Fam god-awful jokes I've heard on the internet: I wanted to buy a pair of camouflage pants, but, unfortunately, I couldn't find any...
oh gosh Vincey did you know if you sleep with your tent open or out in the open while camping a raccoon might come over to investigate you? They're really curious, and I've heard stories about them holding sleeping camper's hands. Its obviously a bit creepy (and not something you want to seek out) but still cute IMO.
It'd be careful though. Racoons are often carriers of rabies and other diseases. There are also feral which means they react defensively when cornered (like in a tent), which isn't their fault but their talons can cause some serious damage. I like racoons, but I like them better from a distance.
My twin sister watches you too but now she’s on the other side of the country so (North Carolina) and I’m still in Washington so I hope she reads this go to bed Kyleia.
The story with the person who is grossed out by her bf... she sounds too stuck up tbh, and he'd be dodging a bullet by leaving! As she proceeds to play the disability card "Oh I have ADHD 🙄" I too have a traumatic brain injury and borderline personality disorder- at no point is it ok for me to be rude to people and then blame my disorder for being a rude c**t 😳😐 it makes me so mad everytime people play that card
@@greergarlick4675 What the hell are you talking about? That man is grown he should know better not to act like that it’s not rude and it’s not being stuck up for wanting someone to have basic hygiene especially when you’re in a relationship with them.
GUYS I FINISHED THE GRAPHING CALCULATOR PROJECT!! it was so hard to get the motivation (especially with summer break) but the 2hr+ vincey episodes definitely helped with getting in the zone. I've been doing characters from Deltarune and am probably gonna do snowgrave Noelle next lol
Why in the hell would a symbol of OP and her husband's marriage mean more to said husband's sister? Maybe if it was an heirloom or something, but at that point I don't think OP would have melted the rings in the first place. I would think the sister is a damn creep for wanting that jewelry (unless it was an heirloom, but OP clarified that it isn't).
This jane Chick is about as sensible as a sim... I've had sims that showed up for parties and then, did in fact, steal entire cakes and food platers...
The woman who lost her husband and made her ring into other jewelry. My mom did that. She reset her engagement ring into another ring with Lee diamonds around it and she loves the new ring. My dad’s memory is always with her but she loves her boyfriend. The only reason she doesn’t marry him is she gets my dad’s social security which is much higher than what my mom would get since he made considerably more than her. Her boyfriend doesn’t feel negatively towards her ring. He understands that she loved him and was with him for 20 years. They’ve been together for almost as long and she is loyal so he doesn’t expect her to get rid of her ring. My dad’s side would never ask her for the ring. My paternal grandmother told my mom, you need to date again when you’re ready, my mom was 44 when my dad died so she was still youngish and no one wanted her to be alone forever. The way my family handled my dad’s death was so unlike how they handle other things but in a good way. No one made my mom feel bad when she met her now boyfriend. I even didn’t want her to be alone. I wanted her to take time to grieve and be on her own a bit before getting a new partner because she’d never lived alone before. She needed to figure out who she was alone and she did and found a guy who treats her well. My point. The jewelry thing is a good way to remember someone and keep them close without it consuming your life.
Let alone the audacity to show up and expect OP to give them cake for takeaway to their home. That's not how having a barbecue together works. You are supposed to have it TOGETHER, not to snatch all the food in order to have it for yourself.
Why would it mean more to Ava than her? It wasn't her engagement ring Or her wedding bands. So therefore it should have absolutely no sentimental value for Ava whatsoever.
Having lost my husband and daughter unexpectedly, I really love how OP expressed grief. It does hurt just as badly every time, but you do think about it less often as time and experiences go on. We have an infinite capacity to love, and a new love doesn't diminish the existing love or grief of loss in any way.❤💔❤️
I always end my phone calls with "I love you." I don't know when the last chance to tell my loved ones that will be, but I want to make sure I don't miss it.
He obviously told her he held a masters degree, but didn't lie on his professional profiles. Then he lied again. The best advice is marriage counselling, however, when women find out their husbands or boyfriends are cowards and liars, it's off putting to say the least. She didn't lie about her credentials. I hope they don't have children.
Story 2: I wish my friend would've told me, but I found out about it when someone in class shouted it in the hallways several times in a singsongy voice. This was in hs so this was particularly devastating. I had to go home because I couldn't stop sobbing. Years later, I also found out he was trying to sleep with him as well. Good riddance, Jojo!
@smsff7 I never spoke to him after that. Not only was he my friend first, but we dated in middle school. I knew him for longer, and he still betrayed me. I only have a few friends now, but they're the best!
For the last story, I would have just added that when OP talks to her bf, she should explain thst she WANTS to want him but those habits are getting in the way and she wants to work together to keep their relationship strong
Obligatory algorithm support. Update from yesterday. Everything went well! My sister was completely surprised and it’s all thanks to the teamwork from the boyfriend and my oldest(the other sister) ❤! I’m so happy for them 😊🎉
@@sopadumacacoumadelicia5 thanks! And yeah lol. My sister can get suspicious of things so her boyfriend had to work around it and make it seem like she made the choices
Last story - she should just purposely drip blood during that time and leave it and when he freaks out draw the connection. If he doesn’t see it and change, leave
Story five: here's s a fun fact that my mother decided to gross me out by telling me yesterday. The reason why people get married in June is because we used to bath once a year which was in May and the bride carries flowers to cover up her disgusting body odor. Just.... bath.
Well I'm happy to tell you that that's not true, eccentrics withstanding it has never really been a fad to only bathe once a year, people would wipe down with wet rags and soap or what not much more often than people think for some reason. Even during the great depression for the most part (droughts will be droughts)
Story 1: Is it really like that? You can do ALL the classes, but they just say no to the thesus and it's all for nothing? Can he redo the thesus, or does he have to redu everything?! He is in the wrong, but i get the anger and embarrassment he has to feel.
Yeah, same thing happened to my mom back in the 80s. She completed everything for her psychology master's and her thesis got rejected at the end. I don't know if you can try again, she didn't and just went on with her bachelor's degree.
I did a quick google and, as I suspected, you'll generally be given the chance to resubmit. An outright fail is very rare and any decent supervisor would do their best to prevent it getting to that point, so I ama teensy bit suspicious of OP's husband's story.
5:34 Huh? He thought she was cheating because she wanted to have more sex with I'm and he thought it was related to a surgery? Was that a typo, or what surgery was this?
Story 5: just a friendly reminder that mental illness can make personal hygiene VERY difficult sometimes. I know I'm entering a depressive episode when brushing my teeth seems like the hardest thing in the world. Yes its gross even in that circumstance, but mental illness tears you down psychologically AND physically. Perhaps OP may need to have a sit down conversation and see if this change in hygiene is truly him showing true colors or related to another issue. Hopefully he can work on his hygiene and self-care with a little extra support on her part! The other "dude things" truly are gross. But there may be a cause for this besides being comfortable
The bubble and spike metaphor was so poignant, I choked up a little. I lost my dad at the beginning of 2020 and what she said about how the spike is right in the middle at first so you bump up against it constantly but overtime the bubble grows so you bump into the spike less often, but when you do it hurts just as much as it ever did is the most perfect metaphor for grief I’ve ever heard. I live this, my bubble has grown a lot since my dad passed away, so thankfully I hit that spike a lot less often, but sometimes I still do and I still burst into tears. But I’m grateful there’s more sparkles and flowers and soft stuff in my bubble now to distract me from the spike. 🫧🌸
Dear lord, people need to understand that partners that die are _not_ exes. You move on from them but not in the same way.
Story 4: I'm glad she's keeping the necklace. The fiancé sounds like a keeper, he's supportive and not jealous at all of her late husband.
The way the OP described life as a bubble really resonated - it's a really great way to describe how greif and other experiences are re-lived on occasion.
Story 4:Since husband bought the ring himself,It now 100% belongs to OP,so SIL has no rights to it (may people please stop driving while drinking)
I havent watched the video yet, but with zero context this comment seems very random and hilarious 😂
@@dillongageeven though it’s the most heartbreaking and touching story in the video
As someone who has been single for 5 years, I don't understand cheating. Like I'd just be so grateful to have a partner, why would you jeopardize that?!
1:52 For that first story, glad he came clean. I've heard too many true crime stories about guys claiming to have educations they didn't and then murdering a bunch of people to cover up their lie.
3- NTA, She took the whole BBQ tray, ate it then cameback for CAKE! TF! You left the gathering with “ you” leftovers you can't comeback for more!
Story 4: So like, not only is the necklace just straight up not Ava's, but the family actively cut contact with Op after husband's death, and now she's showing up to try and take yet _another_ thing from the husband away from Op?
I have never, not once, disagreed with a Vincey "Ewww!"
Like in the 2nd story about the cheater having an affair with her SIL's ex, my face was already crinkled up in disgust when the "Ewww!" hit. Simultaneous grossout!
Yep
My favorite genre of AITA posts are the ones with a title like “AITA for kicking a puppy?” and then the description is like “the puppy killed my family and called me a slur, so I used my foot to gently nudge it out of my house.” I can never tell if people do it to get clicks or if they’re just genuinely unaware of how it sounds
Lmao
The friend in story 4 might be a good friend, but she's definitely kind of an AH to try comparing her getting rid of her exes' stuff with getting rid of something from someone whose life was cut short tragically.
Related to Post 3: Years ago, my company had a work dinner at a restaurant locally known for their fried chicken and garlic biscuits. One particularly rancid co-worker had put a large freezer bag in her purse, and when the meal was winding down, she picked up the plates of remaining chicken and biscuits and dumped them into the bag. When I commented other people might still want some, she responded by sneering that they should have taken some earlier then, and calling me a "greedy joo-bish" for even questioning her. She was a real peach.
1:47 I agree with this comment. If he does have the transcripts, it could just be that he was super embarrassed for not being able to get a passing grade on his thesis. If he doesn't have the transcripts, it's way worse because it's like he's just lying to lie, and he doesn't even seem to be benefiting from the lie.
Story 5:He's a slob alright
It's one thing to be a little messy and things cluttered. It's another to have bad hygiene. I would not want my partner to have his hands in his pants anywhere and then touch my face/hair for a kiss/whatever after without washing his hands. Or reach into the shared bowl of chips/popcorn. Yuck.
I thought the story would go a different way (like accidental farts or burps), but nope it went straight to a differnt kind of hell.
Also getting comfortable is probably not the right way to describe it, I feel the BF always was someone unhygenic and just doesn't want to put up a facade anymore.
There are different thresholds for couples with what they are comfortable around (Like walking into the bathroom while someone is in the shower or on the loo), but BASIC stuff like brushing your teeth or being dirty enough that it smells when you scratch yourself? Nope nope nope. I can't (and don't want to) imagine a relationship where that flies.
I think it sounds like he's trying to get her to break up with him.
Story 4: How could Ava decide that the necklace means more to her? She can't possibly know what it means to OP. The necklace was made from her and her late husbands wedding rings, so it represents a very big positive event in OPs live. How could that item mean more to her SIL? Also OP is wearing the necklace every day, so it definitly means something to her. Making such a demand is just outright weird.
Story 5: "Dudes are gross sometimes" No we f▒cking aren't, what the hell
Slob: just tell him "dirty don't get nookie"
He will clean up or get gone.
Grief: i think her description is perfect.
Story 2:
_She's_ mad about the "betrayal"?! Her?! What?!
Cheaters are scum, no exceptions.
2:56 wat
Story 5:
Have you tried using words? Just put it bluntly, his lack of hygiene is making intimacy an issue. How he reacts is how you will know if this is even salvageable.
18:16 "Dude" things, huh? Snnnk. That's man-baby behavior. Reminds me of another Reddit post where OP had a woman roommate who left her monthly surprise flowing everywhere (her clothes, her underthings, her bed), amongst other gross stuff, but of course, OP never said anything to her-just seething and whining the whole time.
18:56 That doesn't matter what kind of alphabet letters you have (fellow ADHD person here), as leaving doom piles is not the same as being disgusting and unhygienic. It's not hypocritical to call out disgusting behavior. Does he want you to wash him or something? Does he have a disability that prevents him from cleaning himself? No? Then it's OK to tell him he's gross.
Post 4: Losing a spouse or a parent is something I feel you can only really understand once you have gone through it yourself. At least for me it was. So I wouldn't hold it against the best friend because she was probably working with what her own experiences have given her (break-ups) without realizing that the experiences are vastly different.
As for the SIL, I like the idea of talking with her. Experiences are different, as is grief.
Not sure if I would call anyone an AH there without knowing the SIL's side. OP isn't an AH nor is her best friend.
Story 5: Good Lord, he's self-conscious about not being attractive to you, yet at the same time refuses to practice basic hygiene despite knowing it bothers you....and he can't connect the dots here? Either he grows the hell up or it's over. Otherwise you will resent the overgrown manbaby for the rest of your life together.
Story 1:OP,I recommend you be careful
20:06 don't you know peeping yourself is the coolest everybody is doing it lol
Story 5 sounds real nice huh
ugh its so stupid that people are being so icky about the necklace in story 4. it isnt some ex she broke up with or is obsessing over. this is a human being she loved and married, her husband DIED for crying out loud. he is someone she lost and had a huge impact on her and her heart and soul. fondly remembering your past partners dont take away from your new relationship. like if you lose your dog and have keep sakes from them you dont throw it all away as soon as you have a new dog. your allowed to love a past loved one and still love new ones
Day 13 of telling the Vincey Fam god-awful jokes I've heard on the internet:
I wanted to buy a pair of camouflage pants, but, unfortunately, I couldn't find any...
Lol 😂. You should learn to keep your pants on👖
Sorry that’s all I got
I love this. I'm I stealing this. Thank you!
Valorous joketh, cousin. I desire to seeth m're in the future
That's a legitimate knee-slapper! 😂
I am hoping there are updates for more than half of these stories, if not all.
oh gosh Vincey did you know if you sleep with your tent open or out in the open while camping a raccoon might come over to investigate you? They're really curious, and I've heard stories about them holding sleeping camper's hands. Its obviously a bit creepy (and not something you want to seek out) but still cute IMO.
It'd be careful though. Racoons are often carriers of rabies and other diseases. There are also feral which means they react defensively when cornered (like in a tent), which isn't their fault but their talons can cause some serious damage.
I like racoons, but I like them better from a distance.
Vincey, you're not just a RUclipsr, you are the leader of the most wholesome RUclips community ❤
Attraction isn't always about looks guy from the last story needs to learn this ASAP 🙌
Day 760 of reminding everyone to drink some water! Stay hydrated, friends!
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Day 1,055 of reminding everyone to do things for yourself because you're worth it
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You obviously tell when you KNOW. But what do you do when you only suspect?
You seek knowledge to confirm the suspect lol
@@doll9340 Isn’t that crossing a line and interfering in a relationship?
@83gemm not if you're already involved
My twin sister watches you too but now she’s on the other side of the country so (North Carolina) and I’m still in Washington so I hope she reads this go to bed Kyleia.
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Post 3. Maybe they financially needed the food….
I very much disagree that Ava is not a bad person.
Explain?
What?
2 views 1 minute ago, bro fell off
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The story with the person who is grossed out by her bf... she sounds too stuck up tbh, and he'd be dodging a bullet by leaving! As she proceeds to play the disability card "Oh I have ADHD 🙄" I too have a traumatic brain injury and borderline personality disorder- at no point is it ok for me to be rude to people and then blame my disorder for being a rude c**t 😳😐 it makes me so mad everytime people play that card
How was she rude?
She's not rude and he's a pig. Are _you_ a pig or something?
In what dimension is she the rude one?
@@greergarlick4675 What the hell are you talking about? That man is grown he should know better not to act like that it’s not rude and it’s not being stuck up for wanting someone to have basic hygiene especially when you’re in a relationship with them.
GUYS I FINISHED THE GRAPHING CALCULATOR PROJECT!! it was so hard to get the motivation (especially with summer break) but the 2hr+ vincey episodes definitely helped with getting in the zone. I've been doing characters from Deltarune and am probably gonna do snowgrave Noelle next lol
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Fuck yeah bro!!! 🎉🎉🎉
I don't understand what's going on,But Never back down
Congrats❤🎉
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Why in the hell would a symbol of OP and her husband's marriage mean more to said husband's sister? Maybe if it was an heirloom or something, but at that point I don't think OP would have melted the rings in the first place. I would think the sister is a damn creep for wanting that jewelry (unless it was an heirloom, but OP clarified that it isn't).
Lol, Jane was totally gonna try to take off with as much cake as she could slink away with too, guarantee.
She's going to break back in at midnight and be caught in the kitchen with the rest of the cake like "what?! You said I could have a slice!"
@@arrowbliss2515"yeah but that's my purse" shes a klepto 100%
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This jane Chick is about as sensible as a sim... I've had sims that showed up for parties and then, did in fact, steal entire cakes and food platers...
This doesn't justify it, but I wonder if she had pregnancy cravings or something.
The woman who lost her husband and made her ring into other jewelry. My mom did that. She reset her engagement ring into another ring with Lee diamonds around it and she loves the new ring. My dad’s memory is always with her but she loves her boyfriend. The only reason she doesn’t marry him is she gets my dad’s social security which is much higher than what my mom would get since he made considerably more than her. Her boyfriend doesn’t feel negatively towards her ring. He understands that she loved him and was with him for 20 years. They’ve been together for almost as long and she is loyal so he doesn’t expect her to get rid of her ring. My dad’s side would never ask her for the ring. My paternal grandmother told my mom, you need to date again when you’re ready, my mom was 44 when my dad died so she was still youngish and no one wanted her to be alone forever. The way my family handled my dad’s death was so unlike how they handle other things but in a good way. No one made my mom feel bad when she met her now boyfriend. I even didn’t want her to be alone. I wanted her to take time to grieve and be on her own a bit before getting a new partner because she’d never lived alone before. She needed to figure out who she was alone and she did and found a guy who treats her well. My point. The jewelry thing is a good way to remember someone and keep them close without it consuming your life.
The audacity to come back after taking everything
Oh, man, and trying to lie and say OP wouldn't let her kids have any cake when OP specifically said they could but she couldn't. What a [redacted].
Let alone the audacity to show up and expect OP to give them cake for takeaway to their home. That's not how having a barbecue together works. You are supposed to have it TOGETHER, not to snatch all the food in order to have it for yourself.
Story 3:I love eating food,But I would never eat so much this I would prevent others from eating,What a leech,NTA at all
Same here. I actually try to be the last person to eat because I'm acutely sensitive to the idea of being thought of as a burden.
Why would it mean more to Ava than her? It wasn't her engagement ring Or her wedding bands. So therefore it should have absolutely no sentimental value for Ava whatsoever.
Having lost my husband and daughter unexpectedly, I really love how OP expressed grief. It does hurt just as badly every time, but you do think about it less often as time and experiences go on. We have an infinite capacity to love, and a new love doesn't diminish the existing love or grief of loss in any way.❤💔❤️
I always end my phone calls with "I love you." I don't know when the last chance to tell my loved ones that will be, but I want to make sure I don't miss it.
Never go to bed angry and always tell the ones you love that you love them. You never know when it's the last time you see them.
I end mine with "love you miss you bye!"
I'm sure your ISP tech support appreciates it too.
He obviously told her he held a masters degree, but didn't lie on his professional profiles. Then he lied again. The best advice is marriage counselling, however, when women find out their husbands or boyfriends are cowards and liars, it's off putting to say the least. She didn't lie about her credentials. I hope they don't have children.
Story 2: I wish my friend would've told me, but I found out about it when someone in class shouted it in the hallways several times in a singsongy voice. This was in hs so this was particularly devastating. I had to go home because I couldn't stop sobbing.
Years later, I also found out he was trying to sleep with him as well. Good riddance, Jojo!
Not telling your friend they're being cheated on is just another betrayal.
So the "friend" knew and did not say anything? Sounds like a shitty ex-friend.
@smsff7 I never spoke to him after that. Not only was he my friend first, but we dated in middle school. I knew him for longer, and he still betrayed me. I only have a few friends now, but they're the best!
For the last story, I would have just added that when OP talks to her bf, she should explain thst she WANTS to want him but those habits are getting in the way and she wants to work together to keep their relationship strong
Story 2 might be a Reddit Classic at this point but I'm not sure
Story 4 def nta
Story 4: The way op described souls and grief with spikes and fluffy things and glitter. That was so beautiful and perfect I'm gonna cry!
Obligatory algorithm support. Update from yesterday. Everything went well! My sister was completely surprised and it’s all thanks to the teamwork from the boyfriend and my oldest(the other sister) ❤! I’m so happy for them 😊🎉
That's great to hear, homie.
Glad things went well, surprises can go south real quick sometimes 🤑
@@sopadumacacoumadelicia5 thanks! And yeah lol. My sister can get suspicious of things so her boyfriend had to work around it and make it seem like she made the choices
Last story - she should just purposely drip blood during that time and leave it and when he freaks out draw the connection. If he doesn’t see it and change, leave
20:01 "You ain't cool unless you pee your pants."
Story five: here's s a fun fact that my mother decided to gross me out by telling me yesterday. The reason why people get married in June is because we used to bath once a year which was in May and the bride carries flowers to cover up her disgusting body odor. Just.... bath.
That’s pretty funny! So every bride with flowers is carrying the tradition of “I stink” lol. *bathe. Bath is the noun, bathe is the verb
Well I'm happy to tell you that that's not true, eccentrics withstanding it has never really been a fad to only bathe once a year, people would wipe down with wet rags and soap or what not much more often than people think for some reason. Even during the great depression for the most part (droughts will be droughts)
@@ConstantChaos1 I am so happy that it's fake because the idea of people not even washing off in a creek bothered me so much
Story 2...Cheating always makes you a jerk, but bringing your affair partner to your house, around your kids?
Story 1: Is it really like that? You can do ALL the classes, but they just say no to the thesus and it's all for nothing? Can he redo the thesus, or does he have to redu everything?!
He is in the wrong, but i get the anger and embarrassment he has to feel.
Yeah, same thing happened to my mom back in the 80s. She completed everything for her psychology master's and her thesis got rejected at the end. I don't know if you can try again, she didn't and just went on with her bachelor's degree.
@@elaexplorer That sucks.
I did a quick google and, as I suspected, you'll generally be given the chance to resubmit. An outright fail is very rare and any decent supervisor would do their best to prevent it getting to that point, so I ama teensy bit suspicious of OP's husband's story.
Depends on the place but you usually get more than 1 chance.
I love the background Vincey ❤
Haha I've known way too many medical doctors to feel intimidated by their education. Half of those guys can't even change their own oil.
Story 4 has already gotten 2 loves of her life and she’s only 27?!?! 😩 no fair, she must be so beautiful
Story 4: "My English is bad..."? OP, you conveyed more feeling and wisdom in your post than a room full of English majors.
post 4: literally holding back tears at work, jesus christ
With story 2, always tell the person being cheated on. If I was with someone that hid an affair, I would not trust them.
5:34 Huh? He thought she was cheating because she wanted to have more sex with I'm and he thought it was related to a surgery? Was that a typo, or what surgery was this?
The first one isn't even r/AITA. Why lie, Vincey?
HOW THE FUCK DO YOU EAT A WHOLE BBQ ON YOUR OWN!?
OMG! I got Comment Of The Day twice! THIS FILLS ME WITH SO MUCH SEROTONIN!
Love the minecraft in the background! Have you considered going into spectator mode for the recordings so mobs cant knock you around? Love the vids
Sometimes when i see some of these titles i automatically think, oh yeah, A hole for sure but then i hear the story and im like.....bruh, my bad. 😂
Same lol
Story 5: just a friendly reminder that mental illness can make personal hygiene VERY difficult sometimes. I know I'm entering a depressive episode when brushing my teeth seems like the hardest thing in the world. Yes its gross even in that circumstance, but mental illness tears you down psychologically AND physically. Perhaps OP may need to have a sit down conversation and see if this change in hygiene is truly him showing true colors or related to another issue. Hopefully he can work on his hygiene and self-care with a little extra support on her part!
The other "dude things" truly are gross. But there may be a cause for this besides being comfortable
The bubble and spike metaphor was so poignant, I choked up a little.
I lost my dad at the beginning of 2020 and what she said about how the spike is right in the middle at first so you bump up against it constantly but overtime the bubble grows so you bump into the spike less often, but when you do it hurts just as much as it ever did is the most perfect metaphor for grief I’ve ever heard.
I live this, my bubble has grown a lot since my dad passed away, so thankfully I hit that spike a lot less often, but sometimes I still do and I still burst into tears.
But I’m grateful there’s more sparkles and flowers and soft stuff in my bubble now to distract me from the spike. 🫧🌸