Ace is his competitor. If this was Wall Street/Finance They both are going after the same market. Black single women! They both want to corner the same market. When you own the market you set the price and can shape the market how you want it to look. It’s a business strategy nothing more coming from Tony Gaskins.
🌺Tony Gaskins is the only male relationship guru I endorse. He has been consistent, lives what he preaches, is a man of God and is actually married. He’s scandal free. The rest of these clowns are hustling. Period. Great video ❤️
I love listening to Tony and RC Blakes in regards to relationships because they both stand on the word of God, share authenticly about their personal lives and past experiences.
@@dontme4132RC been in the game longer. He is definetly seasoned with wisdom. Tony has been flourishing in the word of God and its very apparent. Love them both.
I agree he’s been consistent since I first came across him 10 years ago on IG. He was just starting his coaching & he has been an upstanding guy. No scandals, no lies. He’s the truth. 💯
@@kingjay1524 Kevin Samuels ain't in this conversation and he definitely pandered to black men. That's why most haven't matured and will die lonely and alone because he has made them feel superior but hasn't really given them the tools to be superior because he didn't have them himself.
@@kingjay1524 Nah! Kevin was not a righteous man & he pandered to disgruntled men at the expense of chiding “wayward women” under the guise of helping people all for money & fame. His intentions were malevolent, not benign.
Tony is great. Shumake is phenomenal! I don't date. I used to but it got me nowhere. If a man likes me, has feelings and vice versa? We court to marry. No more lollygaging and definitely no premarital sex.
If I don't hear nothing else, the brother said "relationships ain't the most important thing in life, eternal life is." You do not know how much that freed me up even the more being a single. Thank you
If being "freed up" means not doing EVERYTHING you can do to find your significant other, then it's just bad advice. Don't let ego or fear get the best of you, the person you marry is the MOST important decision you'll make in your life because it's the building blocks of your family, and you'll spend more years with this person than you spent with your parents and that you'll spend with your own children. Treat finding your future spouse with the reverence it deserves.
You do not understand my point, but I do. I just did not go into expounding my heart. I hear your comment, but it is not near what I am saying.@@jakblk
Singleness is a gift that allows us to focus on our connection with self and God. He nevere COMANDED us to find partners. He said if we are to be sexual then we need to get married. @@jakblk
Exactly. Bible says don't cast your pearls to swine. Not calling names, but just saying that people who are not in the Word are not going to understand. Your only going to cause yourself a headache.
That "I'm 35...we do things a little differently" was so cringy. He said 35 like he is 20....and right, 35 and 39 year olds were in high school at the same time 🤣
Ace feeds the Ego. Tony feeds the spirit. Tony is not making his own assumptions it’s coming straight from the Bible….. Ace was playing in Tony face but Tony handled that like a man! I love me some Tony Gaskins
It's refreshing to see! Men are quick to tell women to hold one another accountable but rarely do so themselves. I highly respect men who practice what they preach and stand by their principles & morals.
Men have always held men accountable. It's the women who have been running amuck for decades without any accountability. Now that men have started speaking on women's behavior suddenly women are upset and acting like men haven't been "calling out men" even though women have had no issue telling men what they think men should be doing for decades.
@@cocoblessingsYou're clearly high on some good stuff. The military, the buildings, the sewage systems, the garbage collectors and everything that keeps society running. If men didn’t hold each other accountabable, nothing will function. The average man who isn’t a TV personality or celebrity needs a shit tonne of accountability. But women on the other hand have the incentive to live in their own reality because men have already done the heavy lifting of creating and maintaining the infrastructure, You don’t have to have precision or accountability because you'll always be bailed out by government, other woman or a man. A man without accountability will fall and lose everything, society will not have mercy on him.
We need more men like Tony, RC and you , and break all these generational curses . I appreciate Tony for calling out his brothers and holding them accountable.
1 Corinthians 7.34 (KJV) 34There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
I’m doing it God’s way completely. My fiancé and I are waiting til marriage. We’re getting married next year. All I hear ppl say is you don’t know what he’s doing.. you don’t know where he’s at all day everyday. We dated on the intention to be married. I have to keep telling myself mentally, worldly people will never understand doing it like it’s says in the Bible. The narrow road is really hard for most ppl. It’s not easy but it’s the most peace you can ever feel living in this world.
The problem I see is that people are pretending that HEALTHY relationships do not have a specific formula. They don't take money advice on how to maintain being a billionaire from someone that is homeless and financially irresponsible. They respect that there is a formula that works for money, but refusing to do things God's way within the formula that He gave us. Tony is correct.
Tony the truth I been rocking with him for years the devil tryna attack him because he tryna live right an do right an tell the truth ima forever support Tony he real 💯
Tony is the G.o.a.t. for this one. I started watching Tony when Covid hit in 2019 and he literally gave me the gems I needed to finally realize, I was in an almost 11 year, toxic relationship with a literal, ‘grown-boy’. One of (if not THEE most) toxic/abusive situations I have ever been in, but I was being lied to and gaslit to the point I thought “I” was insane. Thank you Tony. God bless❤
It’s the worst feeling once the fog clears and you see the relationship for what it was. A lot of times you don’t realize how abusive it was until you’re out. Especially if you’ve experienced that emotional abuse before from like a parent. Tony is definitely a breath of fresh air in such a manipulative and toxic world.
@@gwendolyn79 like for real. & there’s no one around (men) to tell you the truth about men and the women are most likely going through their own form of abuse or worse. Like it takes a RUclips video to finally realize. Tony is definitely helping.
Damn I actually follow Ace on TikTok and this video open my eyes to how confused his thought process is. He does give good advice on what to look out for as a woman in men but at his core his view on relationship is warped and not rooted in purpose. Whether Christian or not morals doesn’t change its timeless.
Same like it’s actually confusing when you really think about it I had to unsubscribe from him because Tony is right it’s like the blind leading the blind.
He’s too emotional which means he’s unstable emotionally and there is no peace. God isn’t the author of any confusion. A torn soul…. You can compare the two souls. One is more at peace than the other. Body language etc.
He is about money which is why he tried to do a relationship tour with Derek Jackson and Tony Gaskin turn that tour down because he felt some of the men didnt practice what they preach and all Ace cared about was the money
YESSSSSS!!!! It's been warped! We women have to use discernment and gear more toward listening to men and women with standards, character and Godliness. Ace is prideful, egotistical, worldy and narcissistic. He is extremely aggressive and lacks substance. He profits off women but I don't believe he really LIKES women. Fake coach and fast talker🚩 He can't hold up to Tony with substance and family values and character.
I see your point, and mostly agree, but Kings David and Solomon had many wives, and I am sure that they loved and supported most of not all of them. I am also sure that there were problems and complications which were likely multiplied by their number. But, it is written and it did happen.
To be fair, Ace does give women good advice about not dating men who do not treat them right and he empowers women to not entertain low level men. So I don’t think its 100% fair to say a single person can’t offer good dating advice. Before I got married, I gave good advice and now that I’m married, I’ve elevated the advice to marriage to better the black community. I get what Tony’s saying but not all his content is centered around sex or sleeping around but helping women make better choices. Always on point Shumake 🙏🏽 so I definitely get your point for sure.
I get what you’re saying but Tony’s point was that if you listen to someone who gives great advice today on “red flags” in men etc and then tomorrow he’s making it seem like it’s ok to indulge in sex before marriage etc, it’s giving mixed messages and you will eventually end up confused
Exactly. The strange thing is that at one point Ace started talking a lot about the Bible. Just don't know what peoples angles are or where they are coming from sometimes.
If the point of dating is to meet your “person” and get married I don’t want advice from someone who is only dating. I want advice from someone who has been SUCCESSFUL at it. Show me how you were dating AND THEN got married.
I watch you and Tony because of your beliefs and you’re clear about your dedication to your wife and family. I still think about one of your videos that you had to hold your newborn the whole time and still got your message across
Married people of the faith constantly say marriage is uniquely attacked by the enemy. On marrying a nonbeliever Jackie Hill Perry says "marriage is hard...I don't want to construct a hard God hasn't called me to."🔥 Single people especially carnal just can't tell you about that.
God working Thru Tony Gaskins , his voice really need to be heard an ppl gone attack him , anything going against him ion feel they believe in god , Tony telling the truth ion care about how he said sum
"There is money being made, but no progress being made". FACTS! Most of these dating podcast people don't even live the lives they are speaking on. They are just saying whatever is sensational enough to get them the most views.
I actually find it a breath of fresh air men talking up more on morals, values, family etc and calling out other men about having purpose when it comes to relationships.Correction is not wrong..we need more of this ❤
You can tell the strength of a man's character by his reaction to a different opinion. I used to listen to ACE metaphor.... Money gets to people's head , and it shows. The loosen their morals, they will say whatever brings in the check. When you gotta bend your values for provision, it reflects your lack of trust on our Father. I pray for our world. There is so much push back on the Bible. Why do we have to see the world continually crumble apart on all levels; BEFORE we actually accept Yahweh?
@@chayo4537 Western culture (Western civilization or lifestyle) is equated to European civilization. It's a term used very broadly to refer to a heritage of social norms, ethical values, traditional customs, belief systems, political systems, & specific artifacts as well as technologies that have some origin or association with Europe.
Well an example of western culture not valuing marriage is Sweden. I live lived there for years and alot of people here don't think marriage is important, and they're living together as partners, in Swedish called "Sambo" and a lot of times have children together. They do everything together without getting married, only a few of them want to get married
There are no cultures outside of Western culture that I can think of that doesn't revere marriage. Unfortunately, Western culture & thought are encroaching upon non-Western cultures which IMO will inherently dismantle those traditional cultures.
@@Bri-nc8yp yes look up her channel it was a while back. I used to follow him until I saw the stuff he was saying online that Tanya posted on her channel. Kevin Samuels did the same thing he used to help BM and he wasn’t getting any attention until he started bashing BW. She posted a video of him saying he prefers women their forties because they know what they want and are more established mentality and financially and they still have the looks etc
Tony is 100% right. Dating coaches that are not married should not exist. The reason why is because dating coaches that are single and dating only want to talk about how to maintain yourself while you were dating. If dating is 100% for marriage then dating coaches who are dating are not coming from a Perspective of the goal being marriage. They may say that but all they can come from is a perspective of maintaining yourself while you’re dating. I’m not saying that they aren’t giving some good advice, but they are not giving advice that will lead to marriage, which is the entire point of dating.
I disagree, how do you know that these dating coaches don't want to be married? I watch Tony's videos and it seems like he has a problem with men that are married and say they are coping him and he constantly says he was the first relationship coach as if they shouldn't be coaches? It's 2023 and there are a lot of relationship coaches men, women, married and single. I like Tony, but he's not the only coach. It's like he's has in his head he's the be all do all, and everyone else is trash. Whether married or single.
14:45 there is a point to be made that not everyone has the same belief systems. I can understand using a platform to discuss your own beliefs but I think it is important to acknowledge that there may be resistance because people for many reasons live/think/worship differently and not all different is bad or of the devil. Also modeling good behavior is great but just you learned through your experiences … some will also learn and come closer to god through their experience
So Derrick Jaxn should have been giving advice? He was married… remember. Plus, Ace give advice to women to lo look out for these gaslighting, manipulating, grooming, aggressive men.
@Sunny-tc3ul This is why I decide who I'm going to listen to. I've been hearing for years that I shouldn't listen to a single person if I'm married and vise versa
I respectfully disagree. As a single person, one of the most important things to learn in preparation for marriage is to become a whole and healthy single person. There's tons of married couples who never learned this.
Your closing statement was so good; the enemy devil does not want to see successful marriage because it will stop his plan to bring further societal breakdowns. I never heard of these men. But you are an honorable person so I'll check out this Tony guy. Thank you for the recommendation.
I have been listening to Tony for years and its so beautiful to watch him mature in the word of God and unapologetically speak about the laws of the Bible. He is very funny as well and authentic.
Tony hit the nail on the head with the dynamics of "Tonight's Conversation!" The people in the audience, I imagine, usually scratch their heads subconsciously about half the fodder the panelists dish out! Also, I love how Tony is very reserved and calm in his responses while Ace is constantly unsettled, looking for a throw down! Ace is just mad that he got found out! Tony just confused the enemy!
I attended one of the live podcasts when they were in my city and I have pretty much stopped watching clips since. It felt impersonal and like a money grab. Not very mindful of the audience. The voice of reason on the stage was a married woman.
*Being married does not automatically make you a good person to speak to about successful marriages.* My ex-husband and I were married for 15 years and at the 15-year mark, he cheated. Never said he was smart... But he would have had 15 years of "successful marriage" under his belt.. Until the day he didn't.
@@brittneydavis7846 Yes he did. He said it was his first job around women and pressured by peers. He blamed the Devil. A demon jumped on him. He blamed ME. He even blamed God. Never his fault. I call BS. But, Baby when I tell you... _I DON'T REALLY NEED A REASON._ I've been doing this thankless wife/mom thing for over 15 years and he finally GAVE ME A WAY OUT!!!! He gets 4 day weekend visits with the children every other week. 4 days FREEDOM FOR MEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bi-Weekly!!!! 8 GLORIOUS DAYS OF SILENCE. 🤌🏾 No more taking care of a grown man like he's a child. Rewashing dookie stains out of his undies. See, I didn't get that before.. I'm blessed. Once you get over the initial shock you're good! Never get married!!! You become a single parent and expected to enjoy it.
@@MarkieMcG.BW love for their ears to be tickled. All a man has to do is say words and they believe it.🙄 They live in their own delusional world then get hurt when they are disappointed each time. The amount of men especially in the black church that say one thing but live the complete opposite even to their own wife having no idea about their true nature is stagerring. I work in healthcare and you got a lot of married women/pregnant married women getting diagnosed and treated for STI. I’m sure this is not what they signed up for the day they took their vows. I’m sure a lot of their husbands professed to be saved and walked with God. Two blocks from me is a black church the First Lady of that church (The pastor wife) died of AIDS back in 2007. She got it from her husband (the pastor) who was sleeping with men on the side. The wife had no idea because her husband presented as a man who walks with God. He said all the right things and did all the right things in public. I say all this to say that BW think all they have to do is find a godly man and their problems are solved … don’t take into account that man is a MAN he’s not Jesus and he’s not God the Father …he’s a man that is capable of hurting you and that’s the chance you take when getting married. Go into your marriage with your eyes open not closed so you can see the red flags if they should ever come so you may act accordingly.
I’ve been learning a lot about spirit spouses and how they attack relationships especially Christians. We open portals to these demons through sexual immorality like watching porn, fornication, etc. and we need deliverance from these evil spirits.
This is VERY true ! I am married and because of sexual sins from pre marital lifestyle is affecting our Godly marriage 4 years later! We are now having to be delivered from strong holds ..addictions and habits ! But God is good and using this season to break things off our bloodline 🙏🏾💕
I acquiesced to going with a friend to a Tonight’s Conversation in September due to being subjected to a gender war for 2+ hours. While I was impressed by the production and the large turnout, I ended up leaving during intermission. It was exactly what I was afraid it’d be, a gender war. There was some good points made, but like mentioned in the video there was no solution based content. Just a room full of people pointing fingers. I don’t believe you have to be married to give dating advice, however, there has to be some type of resolution and less sensationalism.
Glad to read your comment, their tour had a Miami stop and based off seeing clips of their show your experience is exactly how I thought it would be. No thanks
I’m from Chicago and i barely got in lol 😂 5 minutes late cost us 40 minutes of the show smh they didn’t have enough seating for the crowd they anticipated smh 🤦🏾♀️ we had to sit in regular chairs because it was full to capacity so I was turned off bout time I got in there
Man I’m so glad to see this. I feel like a bunch hit dogs get to hollering when tony speaks and to finally see another real grown up man appreciate what tony does is so necessary 🙌🏽
I would love to see a conversation from you and Tony. I am living proof that Tony is the real thing . He has help me getting closer to God and I was able to get married with his wisdoms ❤❤ #much love
You got married because that’s what God had for you. What God has for you no one can take from you. God wrote your life before time existed. This has nothing to do with TG.
@@Bri-nc8yp God uses people to bring them to him. If he didn’t have people how would the word have been spread since the beginning of time ? does it really matter on how I got to god but that I know god for myself now and from TONY being a obedient servant, he help me get to my lord and savior. I’m not sure what was purpose of you stating this to me but be blessed . Nothing wrong with being thankful for true disciples ( which the world lacks these day). Much love ❤️.
Truth be told having both parents in the household is great but if one or both parents are toxic the child/children are better off with the healthy parent….toxicity affects the child/children!!
Thank God for men like you and Tony who are not only thinking about whats in their pants and their pockets but about the future of our community. Blessings on both of your lives as you bless and guide other men and make a difference!
I think Ace looks up to Tony underneath it all and the discomfort and disdain we see in this conversation comes from him realizing that in Tony’s world, he doesn’t get credit for simply also being a good guy. Tony isn’t just a good man, he’s a Godly one and he’s drawing the line.
We live in a lustful world obsessed with sex and other ungodly pleasures. People want validation that what they are doing is okay but NO you're not getting that because it will never be okay, its immoral on every level including on a spiritual level. It puts bloodlines at risk of destruction and suffering. Tony did well. There's so many women and men even children that lose their lives, every year, people commit murder just for that short moment of ungodly pleasure. I'm not Christian, I'm of a different religion. I've been watching Tony since I was 21, I'm 25 now. If it wasn't for God, my elders including Tony and a few others I'd still feel lost regarding relationships. I'd have lost myself in a man that never cared for me, appreciating the little crumbs he gave me when he felt like it, hoping one day he'd see me. By the grace of God I'm still waiting and saving myself for marriage.
Dear Shumake- i am a senior male and i watch the red pill brothers and you are correct they do not give GODLY advice, however i do not expect them to do so. They are of the world and thus provide wordly advice. Speaking against the advice they provide is not worth the time. They have a different environment and objective. As a professing Christian the world can only offer the advice to them that is of the world. Our message is the message of reconciliation to the cross of Christ. Let the world do its thing. Its judgement -eternal damnation-is forthcoming. We are not of this world-for the things of this world are temporary. There is only confusion and money chasing over there and this cannot change. KEEP PUSHING FORWARD WITH THIS MESSAGE.
I have had plenty of single friends in my life that have tried to push advice about marriage on me and mine. Married 17 years and together 20. Let me tell you something. Those friends have had so many men and women come thru our lives. I can't even remember all they names. If I would have took the advice I would be right where they wanted me to be single and alone just like them. Absolutely not!! Marriage isn't for the weak. It takes work, selflessness, and morals.
@ineedhoez I don't understand how you got that from what I said. No, he has not. Not every man cheats. Not every person cheats. We both have morals. We both stand on raising our kids right. We pour into eachother. When that is done correctly, there is no room for anything else. We BOTH built this life together. We stand on principles and Love. Not sex, keeping up with everyone around us and lust.
Tony comes off prideful with an inflated ego. For him to say RC Blake’s is “good” but HE (TG) has been doing this longer is the height of hubris. Plus he boasts in material possession of what his money buys in almost every video. In a lot of his videos he can’t go without mentioning that Cartier bracelet he bought his wife or that expensive vacation he just took. He sounds like one of those in the end times that will say “LORD LORD did we not prophesied in your name and do good works in your name” and God will say “DePART from Me I never knew you” I hope that doesn’t happen (I’m focused on my own salvation) but those are the vibes TG gives. And as far as this video goes it’s nothing more than a business strategy for TG. Ace is rising in popularity. His RUclips shorts are very popular. They both target the same demographic of people. Black Women. Black women show their support with their WALLETS. Who can corner the market gets to sit at the top because they get the most traffic to their business. This translates to CASH. Who corners the market gets to also set the price. This has nothing to do with God or pointing people to God for TG . Its a business decision to smear his competitor ACE but TG mask it as wanting to lead BW to the promise land. 😂😂😂 I’m good at seeing BS in people.TG is BS same is Stephen Speaks and I always new Derrick Jackson was BS.
@@dii-N-sd His courtship with his wife. He strung her along for some years and only when she started to find happiness with another man of means did he decide to lock her down. The unselfish, loving, and Christian thing to do would have been to move on like he had already chosen
I think people have to understand that most of us have never seen good men in the flesh. I know that’s actually hard to wrap your head around, but most of us haven’t interacted with a good man/father, live in the flesh. Most of their Interactions have been with abusive, sexual, angry, lying or absent men. Not by their own fault either, it’s just what they grew up In. So to see men who value women and their families, is such an abnormal thing. Like a fairytale. This is why what you’re doing is important Shumake, this is why what Tony is doing is important.There are real people that listen to you and are GIVEN hope that there are more people like you out here. And it’s not fake,‘it’s not a movie, y’all are not actors. Representation is CRITICAL in these spaces. As just you saying this, changes sooooooo many lives. Tony will reach ALOT of lives with his message. Tony will encourage a man to be a better man. A woman to trust in God for the desires of her heart, for her love,‘for her purpose, her husband. It’s much bigger than what we think it is.
Tony is literally the only genuine MAINSTREAM “Coach” out there… I have seen it all, had famous coaches slip into my inbox trying to holler years ago, when I was single. Tony is the truth and that’s why a lot of these others in the same sector hate him
Tbh he doesn’t. Ace isn’t red pill content. He has his solo channel and one with a panel of people that aren’t a monolith. The guy Shumake mentioned that would say that dumb stuff (and would get checked real quick) I haven’t seen him on there in a while.
Nope Ave never says that..he’s pro -women. He tells women to not sleep with men that wouldn’t want anything more than $ex. If you listen to ACE then you automatically gonna go celibate because 95% of men don’t date with intentions of marriage. If you take ACE advice you will realize that man that your sleeping with don’t have your best interest at heart. He doesn’t love you..he’s never gonna take you serious to make you a GF much less a wife so if you were smart you would end the relationship block him and delete his number and be okay with being single AKA celibate. He teaches it’s okay to be single and focused on personal goals.
Shumake, TG and RC Blakes are the only 3 men I take seriously. The sole reason is because they live their life off of biblical principles and they're honest about their past and how they learned from it. Keep speaking truth 👏👏👏
Seriously....I LOVE RC Blake's then I started listening TONY then I got introduced to Shumake. Like seriously y'all 3 really need to have a monthly round table discussion I would be glued to the screen👀🍿
I really applaud young man. As God forewarned, the road to destruction is wide and spacious, and many walking in it. Road to everlasting life (literally) however is narrow and strict, only FEW are finding it 🎯
This dude is delusional. Yes there are various perspectives but one of the reasons as to why things aren’t working in the dating realm is because there are too many perspectives. We literally have the blueprint (the Bible) to help steer us in the right path and yet many CHOOSE to remain in chaos. Anyone not speaking on GOD and principles is the OPP and should NEVER be trusted. 😑
@@naomibostonredd7695 the Bible is our guiding 💡 and our God given gift of discernment, moral compass and intuition all plays in hand. Anything outside of that serves as a distraction and will lead you down a dark path of mental chaos.
When you get to know God for real, beyond the surface of what is taught, you receive conviction. You know that you know that you know. Doing things God's way is the only way to truly prosper. Tony helped me a lot with learning men and how they think. I'm forever a supporter because of that. I agree with you Shumake, putting yourself out there and being a testament for others opens you up to spiritual attack. I'm keeping you lifted. Keep doing God's work. It's needed and appreciated. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. Much love💯
Tony is my mentor-I signed up with his mentorship program! He IS THE TRUTH! He’s authentic and very real! He’s passionate about our culture and US winning. What he’s saying is absolutely correct! We need more men that can actually lead from a place of wisdom and love!
Even the people who are married and get a divorce it’s because they have gone outside of his will they again can’t be saved they have been turned over and wonder why it never works
Yes because everyone that has sex before they get married curses theirselves and their family bloodline. The parents before that have cursed them for their sins
There is a dating coach that I used to follow, but I noticed more and more that he is pandering and he is always pushing his books for people to buy or saying things that women want to hear. I also noticed that some of these dating coaches are not married and are giving all this advice. I am using discernment as to which dating advice to listen to.
Tony Gaskin is the Derrick Jaxn for Christian women although he does say some good stuff but like pastors also do in the church they pander heavily towards women
@@Simba365 I used to think so too but as I listened to more of his content, I found Tony pretty reasonable and balanced. He holds women to account as well, sometimes it's even harsh. It's unfortunate that a lot of men don't listen to him as he does give advice to men as well. If more men like yourself tuned in, he'd make more content geared towards men. It's just the nature of demand and supply.
Well technically the hosts did ask TG if it was okay if Ace came on to defend himself and TG said yes. After all, when you call people out by name, you should expect nothing less than for them to answer. Especially if they’re both grown men. So I wouldn’t consider that to be an ambush.
YES THE DISCERNMENT OF THE HOLY GHOST TOLD ME THAT HARDLY INITIATED TYSEAN AND RAYAN SET UP TONY GASKINS PURPOSLY WITH ACE METAPHOR THATS WY TYSEAN AND RYAN WAS ENCOURAGING ACE TO DESRESPECT TONY BUT EVERYTIME TONY WANTED TO SPEAK UP TYSEAN AND RYAN WAS SHUTING TONY UP BUT THEY CLEARLY SET TONY UP BY PLANNING TO INVITE HIM TO THE SHOW AND WHEN I TOLD HARDLY INITIATED THEYVARE HYPOCRITES FOR DOING TONY THAT THEY BLOCKED ME IN THE COMMENT AND DECIDED TO UNSUSCRIBED FROM HARDLY INITIATED THE FACT THAT ACE LYED ON TONY AND HARDLY INITIATED SUPPORT ACE IN HIS WICKENDESS DISGUST ME
I don’t think you should tell non religious people what to do, as long as a human being can comprehend and the right phrases are used correctly it shouldn’t be a big deal. The only time I don’t listen to someone who is religious is when they use god to promote the devils work.
We need children teenagers young adults, and adults to understand sex before marriage is not supposed to be if you’re having sex before marriage you have already brought a disturbance to the peace that is supposed to be a union of virginity. Both people are supposed to be clear so they have no expectations. Walking in to this lifelong commitment they’re making to each other. Oh yes, by the way marriages are lifelong commitment, if back then I know what I know today life would be different and I guess a lot of us look at this if we can go back to change one or two things. We must start holding ourselves and our families accountable for their actions that could be before marriage is wrong and people are just sharing things you can’t get rid of good conversation guys.!!!
Hi five Tony Gaskins I’ve been watching you for the last three years four years and you’ve been on point every time I was married to my first husband for 40 years. Our commitment was never to let anyone in between me and him not our children not our family no one. And I am waiting for my next husband because I will not be out here in the streets fornicating with people for pleasure. I’m looking for a life partner who I can share the rest of my life with. Shumake Your channel is on point too. You speak truth and you speak the Bible and that’s how you should learn the Bible by being taught by someone who is actually reading the Bible when they speak to you and layman’s terms.,
You Shumake sir, Tony Gaskins and RC Blakes are MUCH NEEDED in this space these days. ALL of you are married with children/families and speak to the benefits of doing things God’s way in an effort to help society as a whole be better. If you not helping people then you are hurting them.
I listen to all three of you and have things I agree with and disagree with... I like the different perspectives... And listening has helped me immensely.
A friend invited me out to Ace Metaphor show and I was not move at all and the same when I see his reels. The show was sold out but I just didn’t get the hype. It’s a money move for him.
If you don’t think it’s a money move for Tony Gaskins then I have a bridge to sell you. That’s why TG sells his services as a dating coach for a premium price and not free. That’s why he has his dad on his website also offering dating advice for a price. You can’t always get Tony Gaskins but you can get someone in his family for a PRICE. Every video posted on RUclips is put up with the hopes of generating a lot of ad revenue which translate to a RUclips check. That’s why he attacks others in the same space as him making BW believe he’s the only one that can lead them to the promise land. It’s to get more traffic to his RUclips Channel which translate to higher revenue. That’s why he can say of RC Blake’s “He’s good but I’ve been doing this longer than he has.” That was a backhanded compliment to a man of God (RC Blake’s). That’s why he attacks ACE because ACE is generating a lot of views. His RUclips Shorts have popular. They both are going after the same demographic BLACK WOMEN. It’s a business move for TG He boasts about buying his wife a Cartier bracelet or a Louis Vitton Bag . He boasts too much on material possessions he has acquired.
My sister and I recently brought up her ex. A close friend of his complained because he was building a following off of someone else’s business and work. The person he knew had reached success and helped people resolve certain issues. The ex did not help anyone solve those issues but acted like he did and started building a following for that content even though he was unqualified. I immediately thought of Tony’s point about it being necessary to be married and how many men saw it as a business opportunity. A healthy marriage would be required..
Tony basically says - you can’t lead nobody where you never been !
Periodt!
Can’t be a dentist with all your teeth missing.
Exactly
Ace is his competitor. If this was Wall Street/Finance
They both are going after the same market. Black single women!
They both want to corner the same market.
When you own the market you set the price and can shape the market how you want it to look. It’s a business strategy nothing more coming from Tony Gaskins.
@@Bri-nc8yp As consumers, which option would you rather invest your resources in? Based on your desires, is Tony or Ace a better fit for you?
@@dahliaherrod4301 Tony, because his advice can help bring forth tangible and intangible fruit in the lives of many youth adult and people period!!
🌺Tony Gaskins is the only male relationship guru I endorse. He has been consistent, lives what he preaches, is a man of God and is actually married. He’s scandal free. The rest of these clowns are hustling. Period. Great video ❤️
I think RC Blakes is at the same level as Tony (if not better)
I love listening to Tony and RC Blakes in regards to relationships because they both stand on the word of God, share authenticly about their personal lives and past experiences.
@@dontme4132RC been in the game longer. He is definetly seasoned with wisdom. Tony has been flourishing in the word of God and its very apparent. Love them both.
I would highly endorse Shumake as well!!
I like Tony Gaskins and RC Blake's as well.
Tony is legit to me. One of the few men that calls men out and whether people like it or not, he’s a man and he knows men.
I agree he’s been consistent since I first came across him 10 years ago on IG. He was just starting his coaching & he has been an upstanding guy. No scandals, no lies. He’s the truth. 💯
Hmmm just like KS, however he didn’t pander to neither and gave hard shots for both.
@@kingjay1524 Kevin Samuels ain't in this conversation and he definitely pandered to black men. That's why most haven't matured and will die lonely and alone because he has made them feel superior but hasn't really given them the tools to be superior because he didn't have them himself.
@@kingjay1524 Nah! Kevin was not a righteous man & he pandered to disgruntled men at the expense of chiding “wayward women” under the guise of helping people all for money & fame. His intentions were malevolent, not benign.
Tony is great. Shumake is phenomenal! I don't date. I used to but it got me nowhere. If a man likes me, has feelings and vice versa? We court to marry. No more lollygaging and definitely no premarital sex.
If I don't hear nothing else, the brother said "relationships ain't the most important thing in life, eternal life is."
You do not know how much that freed me up even the more being a single. Thank you
If being "freed up" means not doing EVERYTHING you can do to find your significant other, then it's just bad advice. Don't let ego or fear get the best of you, the person you marry is the MOST important decision you'll make in your life because it's the building blocks of your family, and you'll spend more years with this person than you spent with your parents and that you'll spend with your own children. Treat finding your future spouse with the reverence it deserves.
@@jakblkyou completely missed the point, but okay.
@@JEPiperWhat did I miss?
You do not understand my point, but I do. I just did not go into expounding my heart. I hear your comment, but it is not near what I am saying.@@jakblk
Singleness is a gift that allows us to focus on our connection with self and God. He nevere COMANDED us to find partners. He said if we are to be sexual then we need to get married. @@jakblk
“The Bible tells you how to live” absolutely spot on. People don’t realize this.
A carnal mind cannot comprehend the things of God.....
It is foolishness and offensive to them ...
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Exactly. Bible says don't cast your pearls to swine. Not calling names, but just saying that people who are not in the Word are not going to understand. Your only going to cause yourself a headache.
You said a mouthful 💖
Amen!!!!
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That "I'm 35...we do things a little differently" was so cringy. He said 35 like he is 20....and right, 35 and 39 year olds were in high school at the same time 🤣
Ace feeds the Ego. Tony feeds the spirit. Tony is not making his own assumptions it’s coming straight from the Bible….. Ace was playing in Tony face but Tony handled that like a man! I love me some Tony Gaskins
Ace had surface-level advice; Tony gives sensible advice!
Calm down: only God feeds the spirit.
In all things give thanks to God not man.
@@Bri-nc8ypUh it’s called implied reasoning…😂
@@Bri-nc8yphe’s a man and a messenger of God…
duh God is using Tony. @@Bri-nc8yp
I'm happy to see the men calling out the men. Good job to the men with real sense.
Yes finally!!!
Now it's time women do the same because the sisterhood is very destructive to society.
It's refreshing to see! Men are quick to tell women to hold one another accountable but rarely do so themselves. I highly respect men who practice what they preach and stand by their principles & morals.
Men have always held men accountable. It's the women who have been running amuck for decades without any accountability. Now that men have started speaking on women's behavior suddenly women are upset and acting like men haven't been "calling out men" even though women have had no issue telling men what they think men should be doing for decades.
@@cocoblessingsYou're clearly high on some good stuff. The military, the buildings, the sewage systems, the garbage collectors and everything that keeps society running. If men didn’t hold each other accountabable, nothing will function. The average man who isn’t a TV personality or celebrity needs a shit tonne of accountability. But women on the other hand have the incentive to live in their own reality because men have already done the heavy lifting of creating and maintaining the infrastructure, You don’t have to have precision or accountability because you'll always be bailed out by government, other woman or a man. A man without accountability will fall and lose everything, society will not have mercy on him.
We MUST be Born-Again! No relationship will be Healthy until we have an intimate relationship with the Creator!
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Correct!
@@Shespretty08Correct..who wants to be led by a unrighteous man?
We need more men like Tony, RC and you , and break all these generational curses . I appreciate Tony for calling out his brothers and holding them accountable.
RC is such a great man!
Love listening to RC Blakes.
@@soroyale7805RC BLAKES is the entire RELATIONSHIP / JESUS OG AND I LOVE HE DONT PLAY AND LIE ABOUT THINGS EVEN HIMSELF
@@crystalssbsnrn9673 He sure doesn't play, but he delivers it so well and not harsh. I love the theme song as well.
I love RC Blakes!
Honestly Shumake, in today’s society, most of the people dating are doing it for the wrong reasons….and wrong reasons give you wrong results.
Facts
Pure facts you get out what you put in
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Amen! Exactly that lol
Ace is triggered because Tony is on point with his message.
Ace is always triggered tho, just watch videos
Tony Gaskins the truth. Point, Blank, Period!!!!
1 Corinthians 7.34 (KJV)
34There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
@@nellymam3710I'm so sorry but ?
Sorry didn't know where to put the verse sorry
Point blank.
Per -eeee-odddd as he would say 😂
I love Tony! He’s the most mature and consistent relationship coach. I appreciate people who stick to the word, and walk the walk and talk the talk.
And he's been doing this for YEARSSS before all these new social media sensations 💯💯
Yep!
I’m doing it God’s way completely. My fiancé and I are waiting til marriage. We’re getting married next year. All I hear ppl say is you don’t know what he’s doing.. you don’t know where he’s at all day everyday. We dated on the intention to be married. I have to keep telling myself mentally, worldly people will never understand doing it like it’s says in the Bible. The narrow road is really hard for most ppl. It’s not easy but it’s the most peace you can ever feel living in this world.
Keep up the good work. God is going to bless your marriage and household at the same time.🎉❤
@@mrs.evelynkerr8799 thank you❤️
@@mrs.evelynkerr8799yes He Will because God loves marriage, it is a covenant between man, woman and Himself 💕📖♾️
❤❤ that's beautiful I kind of wish me and my fiance actually waited
@@MartiniStylezz great work. May God bless your union.
The problem I see is that people are pretending that HEALTHY relationships do not have a specific formula. They don't take money advice on how to maintain being a billionaire from someone that is homeless and financially irresponsible. They respect that there is a formula that works for money, but refusing to do things God's way within the formula that He gave us. Tony is correct.
Great analogy.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK. Baby if it applies to one thing it applies to everything and people refuse to see life that way.
THIS!
Exactly
I wish I could like this comment 50 times.
Tony the truth I been rocking with him for years the devil tryna attack him because he tryna live right an do right an tell the truth ima forever support Tony he real 💯
They’re close to the same age but Tony’s wisdom made Ace look like a little boy.
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Facts!
Way to go Tony. Keep speaking what God loves. THE TRUTH.
Tony is the G.o.a.t. for this one. I started watching Tony when Covid hit in 2019 and he literally gave me the gems I needed to finally realize, I was in an almost 11 year, toxic relationship with a literal, ‘grown-boy’. One of (if not THEE most) toxic/abusive situations I have ever been in, but I was being lied to and gaslit to the point I thought “I” was insane. Thank you Tony. God bless❤
11 years is a long time. I'm glad you made it out alive.
super proud of u
@@NoPickmeishasAllowed ❤️
It’s the worst feeling once the fog clears and you see the relationship for what it was. A lot of times you don’t realize how abusive it was until you’re out. Especially if you’ve experienced that emotional abuse before from like a parent. Tony is definitely a breath of fresh air in such a manipulative and toxic world.
@@gwendolyn79 like for real. & there’s no one around (men) to tell you the truth about men and the women are most likely going through their own form of abuse or worse. Like it takes a RUclips video to finally realize. Tony is definitely helping.
Damn I actually follow Ace on TikTok and this video open my eyes to how confused his thought process is. He does give good advice on what to look out for as a woman in men but at his core his view on relationship is warped and not rooted in purpose. Whether Christian or not morals doesn’t change its timeless.
Same like it’s actually confusing when you really think about it I had to unsubscribe from him because Tony is right it’s like the blind leading the blind.
He's in it for the platform and money not a real care for changes
He’s too emotional which means he’s unstable emotionally and there is no peace. God isn’t the author of any confusion. A torn soul….
You can compare the two souls. One is more at peace than the other. Body language etc.
He is about money which is why he tried to do a relationship tour with Derek Jackson and Tony Gaskin turn that tour down because he felt some of the men didnt practice what they preach and all Ace cared about was the money
YESSSSSS!!!! It's been warped! We women have to use discernment and gear more toward listening to men and women with standards, character and Godliness. Ace is prideful, egotistical, worldy and narcissistic. He is extremely aggressive and lacks substance. He profits off women but I don't believe he really LIKES women. Fake coach and fast talker🚩
He can't hold up to Tony with substance and family values and character.
Tony Gaskins was doing relationship coaching before it was popular. He’s the real deal. Glad he’s calling out these fakes and phonies.
Redpill is about Concubines, NOT wives.
And child brides
@@stepfaniehawkins205 that's not in America may be certain parts of Africa.
@@genovasquez8361Enough with the Nerd shit. You ain't schooling nobody
@@Newfoundspirit2-9 you gonna learn today
I see your point, and mostly agree, but Kings David and Solomon had many wives, and I am sure that they loved and supported most of not all of them. I am also sure that there were problems and complications which were likely multiplied by their number. But, it is written and it did happen.
To be fair, Ace does give women good advice about not dating men who do not treat them right and he empowers women to not entertain low level men. So I don’t think its 100% fair to say a single person can’t offer good dating advice. Before I got married, I gave good advice and now that I’m married, I’ve elevated the advice to marriage to better the black community. I get what Tony’s saying but not all his content is centered around sex or sleeping around but helping women make better choices. Always on point Shumake 🙏🏽 so I definitely get your point for sure.
Derrick Jackson gave “good advice” too. It’s one thing to give advice, but another to give advice while not even believing it yourself.
He’s giving advice because this is who he is….
He has one foot in and one foot out so that makes him wrong
I get what you’re saying but Tony’s point was that if you listen to someone who gives great advice today on “red flags” in men etc and then tomorrow he’s making it seem like it’s ok to indulge in sex before marriage etc, it’s giving mixed messages and you will eventually end up confused
Ace is saying what every woman wants. He should have someone by now if he has been intentional about marriage as he agreed.
“Live in your truth” IS WHATS MAKING THE WORLD SICK. Times were better when we were United by the same foundation of morals & values
Tony is just simply speaking the truth! Any one who is carnal minded will disagree and that’s fine just do it #respectfully #blessedtribe🙏
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If you have Christians and non-Christians, having the same conversation, it’s not gonna be the same. You’re not gonna be on the same page.
That part! Waste of conversation and time at this point.
Exactly. The strange thing is that at one point Ace started talking a lot about the Bible. Just don't know what peoples angles are or where they are coming from sometimes.
@@blacksongbird100right, now he uses a lot of profanity and is more culture based.
It's possible to have Christian values without being a Christian
True
The Bible tells us we should strive for wisdom. It covers many aspects of our life especially relationships.
If the point of dating is to meet your “person” and get married I don’t want advice from someone who is only dating. I want advice from someone who has been SUCCESSFUL at it. Show me how you were dating AND THEN got married.
Tony Gaskins is a real one.
People so worried about generational cycle of poverty when they should be worried about generational cycle of sin.
Great point!
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I watch you and Tony because of your beliefs and you’re clear about your dedication to your wife and family. I still think about one of your videos that you had to hold your newborn the whole time and still got your message across
Yes! They are the only male voices I listen to as well, along with RC Blakes.. a true representation of integrity 🙏🏾
You motivating me how tony motivated you. Keep up good work
Same
Married people of the faith constantly say marriage is uniquely attacked by the enemy. On marrying a nonbeliever Jackie Hill Perry says "marriage is hard...I don't want to construct a hard God hasn't called me to."🔥 Single people especially carnal just can't tell you about that.
Amen!! And Ik exactly which video you’re referring to! Know for sure podcast episode with Jackie Hill Perry.
God working Thru Tony Gaskins , his voice really need to be heard an ppl gone attack him , anything going against him ion feel they believe in god , Tony telling the truth ion care about how he said sum
"There is money being made, but no progress being made". FACTS! Most of these dating podcast people don't even live the lives they are speaking on. They are just saying whatever is sensational enough to get them the most views.
I actually find it a breath of fresh air men talking up more on morals, values, family etc and calling out other men about having purpose when it comes to relationships.Correction is not wrong..we need more of this ❤
Yes
That guy is taking it way too personally, and getting all sassy and emotional. Way to go Tony, you the man for holding it down.
Be honest, Ace needs to give his life to Christ. He make himself sound like he knows Him, but he denies Him in actions and truth.
U do know Christianity is only one of hundreds of religions, right?
You do know to a non Christian, you are pegan, right?
I don't argue or have to defend. And I don't.@@Tee-Star
Yeah I was picking up on that too I'm nowhere near perfect but its like he knows God but sees his ways as outdated
@@dannyphantom3090Bingo.
Exactly the Bible speaks exactly on that honor me with you lip, but deny me with your heart Matthew 15:8.
You can tell the strength of a man's character by his reaction to a different opinion. I used to listen to ACE metaphor.... Money gets to people's head , and it shows. The loosen their morals, they will say whatever brings in the check. When you gotta bend your values for provision, it reflects your lack of trust on our Father. I pray for our world. There is so much push back on the Bible. Why do we have to see the world continually crumble apart on all levels; BEFORE we actually accept Yahweh?
Name a culture outside of western culture that does not respect marriage. Ace sounds ridiculous 😢
What is western culture?
@@chayo4537basically American culture. To be more specific mostly Black American culture.
@@chayo4537 Western culture (Western civilization or lifestyle) is equated to European civilization. It's a term used very broadly to refer to a heritage of social norms, ethical values, traditional customs, belief systems, political systems, & specific artifacts as well as technologies that have some origin or association with Europe.
Well an example of western culture not valuing marriage is Sweden. I live lived there for years and alot of people here don't think marriage is important, and they're living together as partners, in Swedish called "Sambo" and a lot of times have children together. They do everything together without getting married, only a few of them want to get married
There are no cultures outside of Western culture that I can think of that doesn't revere marriage. Unfortunately, Western culture & thought are encroaching upon non-Western cultures which IMO will inherently dismantle those traditional cultures.
Ace is not grounded in anything. Hence, he is rejecting God’s way.
Right he was redpill before he became so called for BW. He switched up according Tanya TKO who xposed him about this
Exactly
@@mjohnson8206really?
His spirit was so upset with the truth, I could sense his aggravation, I hope he discovers the truth & his actually purpose
@@Bri-nc8yp yes look up her channel it was a while back. I used to follow him until I saw the stuff he was saying online that Tanya posted on her channel. Kevin Samuels did the same thing he used to help BM and he wasn’t getting any attention until he started bashing BW. She posted a video of him saying he prefers women their forties because they know what they want and are more established mentality and financially and they still have the looks etc
Tony is 100% right. Dating coaches that are not married should not exist. The reason why is because dating coaches that are single and dating only want to talk about how to maintain yourself while you were dating. If dating is 100% for marriage then dating coaches who are dating are not coming from a Perspective of the goal being marriage. They may say that but all they can come from is a perspective of maintaining yourself while you’re dating. I’m not saying that they aren’t giving some good advice, but they are not giving advice that will lead to marriage, which is the entire point of dating.
I disagree, how do you know that these dating coaches don't want to be married? I watch Tony's videos and it seems like he has a problem with men that are married and say they are coping him and he constantly says he was the first relationship coach as if they shouldn't be coaches? It's 2023 and there are a lot of relationship coaches men, women, married and single. I like Tony, but he's not the only coach. It's like he's has in his head he's the be all do all, and everyone else is trash. Whether married or single.
14:45 there is a point to be made that not everyone has the same belief systems. I can understand using a platform to discuss your own beliefs but I think it is important to acknowledge that there may be resistance because people for many reasons live/think/worship differently and not all different is bad or of the devil.
Also modeling good behavior is great but just you learned through your experiences … some will also learn and come closer to god through their experience
So Derrick Jaxn should have been giving advice? He was married… remember. Plus, Ace give advice to women to lo look out for these gaslighting, manipulating, grooming, aggressive men.
@Sunny-tc3ul This is why I decide who I'm going to listen to. I've been hearing for years that I shouldn't listen to a single person if I'm married and vise versa
I respectfully disagree. As a single person, one of the most important things to learn in preparation for marriage is to become a whole and healthy single person. There's tons of married couples who never learned this.
Your closing statement was so good; the enemy devil does not want to see successful marriage because it will stop his plan to bring further societal breakdowns.
I never heard of these men. But you are an honorable person so I'll check out this Tony guy. Thank you for the recommendation.
Tony Gaskon is good also spiritual man. Married solid man not male
I have been listening to Tony for years and its so beautiful to watch him mature in the word of God and unapologetically speak about the laws of the Bible. He is very funny as well and authentic.
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Don’t forget rc Blake
@@oneandonly3139 indeed you're right! Blessings
Tony hit the nail on the head with the dynamics of "Tonight's Conversation!" The people in the audience, I imagine, usually scratch their heads subconsciously about half the fodder the panelists dish out!
Also, I love how Tony is very reserved and calm in his responses while Ace is constantly unsettled, looking for a throw down! Ace is just mad that he got found out! Tony just confused the enemy!
I attended one of the live podcasts when they were in my city and I have pretty much stopped watching clips since. It felt impersonal and like a money grab. Not very mindful of the audience. The voice of reason on the stage was a married woman.
*Being married does not automatically make you a good person to speak to about successful marriages.* My ex-husband and I were married for 15 years and at the 15-year mark, he cheated. Never said he was smart...
But he would have had 15 years of "successful marriage" under his belt.. Until the day he didn't.
Did he ever tell you why?
@@brittneydavis7846 Yes he did. He said it was his first job around women and pressured by peers. He blamed the Devil. A demon jumped on him. He blamed ME. He even blamed God. Never his fault.
I call BS. But, Baby when I tell you... _I DON'T REALLY NEED A REASON._
I've been doing this thankless wife/mom thing for over 15 years and he finally GAVE ME A WAY OUT!!!!
He gets 4 day weekend visits with the children every other week. 4 days FREEDOM FOR MEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bi-Weekly!!!! 8 GLORIOUS DAYS OF SILENCE. 🤌🏾
No more taking care of a grown man like he's a child. Rewashing dookie stains out of his undies. See, I didn't get that before.. I'm blessed. Once you get over the initial shock you're good!
Never get married!!! You become a single parent and expected to enjoy it.
He was talking about marriage with god involved. Not just being married
@@cdnicole30 I hate to tell you but these men have figured out how to fake a relationship with God just to impress you..
@@MarkieMcG.BW love for their ears to be tickled. All a man has to do is say words and they believe it.🙄
They live in their own delusional world then get hurt when they are disappointed each time. The amount of men especially in the black church that say one thing but live the complete opposite even to their own wife having no idea about their true nature is stagerring.
I work in healthcare and you got a lot of married women/pregnant married women getting diagnosed and treated for STI. I’m sure this is not what they signed up for the day they took their vows. I’m sure a lot of their husbands professed to be saved and walked with God.
Two blocks from me is a black church the First Lady of that church (The pastor wife) died of AIDS back in 2007. She got it from her husband (the pastor) who was sleeping with men on the side. The wife had no idea because her husband presented as a man who walks with God. He said all the right things and did all the right things in public.
I say all this to say that BW think all they have to do is find a godly man and their problems are solved … don’t take into account that man is a MAN he’s not Jesus and he’s not God the Father …he’s a man that is capable of hurting you and that’s the chance you take when getting married. Go into your marriage with your eyes open not closed so you can see the red flags if they should ever come so you may act accordingly.
I’ve been learning a lot about spirit spouses and how they attack relationships especially Christians. We open portals to these demons through sexual immorality like watching porn, fornication, etc. and we need deliverance from these evil spirits.
This is VERY true ! I am married and because of sexual sins from pre marital lifestyle is affecting our Godly marriage 4 years later! We are now having to be delivered from strong holds ..addictions and habits ! But God is good and using this season to break things off our bloodline 🙏🏾💕
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I acquiesced to going with a friend to a Tonight’s Conversation in September due to being subjected to a gender war for 2+ hours. While I was impressed by the production and the large turnout, I ended up leaving during intermission. It was exactly what I was afraid it’d be, a gender war. There was some good points made, but like mentioned in the video there was no solution based content. Just a room full of people pointing fingers. I don’t believe you have to be married to give dating advice, however, there has to be some type of resolution and less sensationalism.
Glad to read your comment, their tour had a Miami stop and based off seeing clips of their show your experience is exactly how I thought it would be. No thanks
I went to the show in LA a few weeks ago, I wanted to walk out too. Stayed the whole show but won't be going back
Which show did you attend? I felt the same way about the DC show I attended.
I’m from Chicago and i barely got in lol 😂 5 minutes late cost us 40 minutes of the show smh they didn’t have enough seating for the crowd they anticipated smh 🤦🏾♀️ we had to sit in regular chairs because it was full to capacity so I was turned off bout time I got in there
I cant believe how dumb we are getting as a society
I can believe it. Listen to the music
We stop holding each other responsible and we as a society stopped trying. Left our standards with God for worldy foolishness.
Man I’m so glad to see this. I feel like a bunch hit dogs get to hollering when tony speaks and to finally see another real grown up man appreciate what tony does is so necessary 🙌🏽
I would love to see a conversation from you and Tony. I am living proof that Tony is the real thing . He has help me getting closer to God and I was able to get married with his wisdoms ❤❤ #much love
You got married because that’s what God had for you.
What God has for you no one can take from you. God wrote your life before time existed. This has nothing to do with TG.
@@Bri-nc8yp God uses people to bring them to him. If he didn’t have people how would the word have been spread since the beginning of time ? does it really matter on how I got to god but that I know god for myself now and from TONY being a obedient servant, he help me get to my lord and savior. I’m not sure what was purpose of you stating this to me but be blessed . Nothing wrong with being thankful for true disciples ( which the world lacks these day). Much love ❤️.
Tony ATE that up and left NO crumbs!!! You shall know a tree by the fruit that it bears!
Truth be told having both parents in the household is great but if one or both parents are toxic the child/children are better off with the healthy parent….toxicity affects the child/children!!
Keep speaking up Tony🔥
Thank God for men like you and Tony who are not only thinking about whats in their pants and their pockets but about the future of our community. Blessings on both of your lives as you bless and guide other men and make a difference!
I think Ace looks up to Tony underneath it all and the discomfort and disdain we see in this conversation comes from him realizing that in Tony’s world, he doesn’t get credit for simply also being a good guy. Tony isn’t just a good man, he’s a Godly one and he’s drawing the line.
Tony definitely prevailed during this interview. The Holy Spirit is with him and Ace couldn’t handle it at all!
Shumake you said it best when you said God is not the author of confusion.
We live in a lustful world obsessed with sex and other ungodly pleasures. People want validation that what they are doing is okay but NO you're not getting that because it will never be okay, its immoral on every level including on a spiritual level. It puts bloodlines at risk of destruction and suffering. Tony did well.
There's so many women and men even children that lose their lives, every year, people commit murder just for that short moment of ungodly pleasure.
I'm not Christian, I'm of a different religion. I've been watching Tony since I was 21, I'm 25 now. If it wasn't for God, my elders including Tony and a few others I'd still feel lost regarding relationships. I'd have lost myself in a man that never cared for me, appreciating the little crumbs he gave me when he felt like it, hoping one day he'd see me. By the grace of God I'm still waiting and saving myself for marriage.
Jesus is The way.❤️
"Christian" is not religion though.
Now, this is the whole truth! You are so correct!
Dear Shumake- i am a senior male and i watch the red pill brothers and you are correct they do not give GODLY advice, however i do not expect them to do so. They are of the world and thus provide wordly advice. Speaking against the advice they provide is not worth the time. They have a different environment and objective. As a professing Christian the world can only offer the advice to them that is of the world. Our message is the message of reconciliation to the cross of Christ. Let the world do its thing. Its judgement -eternal damnation-is forthcoming. We are not of this world-for the things of this world are temporary. There is only confusion and money chasing over there and this cannot change.
KEEP PUSHING FORWARD WITH THIS MESSAGE.
I have had plenty of single friends in my life that have tried to push advice about marriage on me and mine. Married 17 years and together 20. Let me tell you something. Those friends have had so many men and women come thru our lives. I can't even remember all they names. If I would have took the advice I would be right where they wanted me to be single and alone just like them. Absolutely not!! Marriage isn't for the weak. It takes work, selflessness, and morals.
So you're saying that your husband has cheated on you and you stayed?
@ineedhoez I don't understand how you got that from what I said. No, he has not. Not every man cheats. Not every person cheats. We both have morals. We both stand on raising our kids right. We pour into eachother. When that is done correctly, there is no room for anything else. We BOTH built this life together. We stand on principles and Love. Not sex, keeping up with everyone around us and lust.
My heart is so happy with this channel & Tony’s as well! Thank you ❤
Thank you for saying that families need two parent homes.
Gaskin is right. It like taking financial advice from someone who isn't even gainfully employed enough to know what a 401k is.
Absolutely, ACCOUNTABILITY is a must from the pulpit to our home and all in-between!
Shumake, Tony G (Uncle Tony), and RC Blake’s are the only relationship advice I will ever take. That’s all. The end
Tony comes off prideful with an inflated ego. For him to say RC Blake’s is “good” but HE (TG) has been doing this longer is the height of hubris. Plus he boasts in material possession of what his money buys in almost every video. In a lot of his videos he can’t go without mentioning that Cartier bracelet he bought his wife or that expensive vacation he just took.
He sounds like one of those in the end times that will say “LORD LORD did we not prophesied in your name and do good works in your name” and God will say “DePART from Me I never knew you”
I hope that doesn’t happen (I’m focused on my own salvation) but those are the vibes TG gives.
And as far as this video goes it’s nothing more than a business strategy for TG. Ace is rising in popularity. His RUclips shorts are very popular. They both target the same demographic of people. Black Women. Black women show their support with their WALLETS. Who can corner the market gets to sit at the top because they get the most traffic to their business. This translates to CASH. Who corners the market gets to also set the price. This has nothing to do with God or pointing people to God for TG . Its a business decision to smear his competitor ACE but TG mask it as wanting to lead BW to the promise land. 😂😂😂
I’m good at seeing BS in people.TG is BS same is Stephen Speaks and I always new Derrick Jackson was BS.
Ditto !!!!!
On the fence about RC...
@@dollhouseq1530If u don't mind me asking, why are u on the fence about RC?
@@dii-N-sd His courtship with his wife. He strung her along for some years and only when she started to find happiness with another man of means did he decide to lock her down. The unselfish, loving, and Christian thing to do would have been to move on like he had already chosen
I think people have to understand that most of us have never seen good men in the flesh. I know that’s actually hard to wrap your head around, but most of us haven’t interacted with a good man/father, live in the flesh. Most of their Interactions have been with abusive, sexual, angry, lying or absent men. Not by their own fault either, it’s just what they grew up In. So to see men who value women and their families, is such an abnormal thing. Like a fairytale. This is why what you’re doing is important Shumake, this is why what Tony is doing is important.There are real people that listen to you and are GIVEN hope that there are more people like you out here. And it’s not fake,‘it’s not a movie, y’all are not actors.
Representation is CRITICAL in these spaces. As just you saying this, changes sooooooo many lives. Tony will reach ALOT of lives with his message. Tony will encourage a man to be a better man. A woman to trust in God for the desires of her heart, for her love,‘for her purpose, her husband. It’s much bigger than what we think it is.
Tony is literally the only genuine MAINSTREAM “Coach” out there… I have seen it all, had famous coaches slip into my inbox trying to holler years ago, when I was single. Tony is the truth and that’s why a lot of these others in the same sector hate him
Bishop RC Blake as well
@@oneandonly3139facts
Ouch.
“You getting a luh too much bass in your voice”
I bet the man Tony is debating with is quick to call women emotional and argumentative.
Tbh he doesn’t. Ace isn’t red pill content. He has his solo channel and one with a panel of people that aren’t a monolith. The guy Shumake mentioned that would say that dumb stuff (and would get checked real quick) I haven’t seen him on there in a while.
Nope Ave never says that..he’s pro -women.
He tells women to not sleep with men that wouldn’t want anything more than $ex. If you listen to ACE then you automatically gonna go celibate because 95% of men don’t date with intentions of marriage.
If you take ACE advice you will realize that man that your sleeping with don’t have your best interest at heart. He doesn’t love you..he’s never gonna take you serious to make you a GF much less a wife so if you were smart you would end the relationship block him and delete his number and be okay with being single AKA celibate.
He teaches it’s okay to be single and focused on personal goals.
Mr. Gaskins is consistent, God fearing and the truth....periodt. 💯
Shumake, TG and RC Blakes are the only 3 men I take seriously. The sole reason is because they live their life off of biblical principles and they're honest about their past and how they learned from it. Keep speaking truth 👏👏👏
Same here.
That part!!!
Seriously....I LOVE RC Blake's then I started listening TONY then I got introduced to Shumake. Like seriously y'all 3 really need to have a monthly round table discussion I would be glued to the screen👀🍿
I really applaud young man. As God forewarned, the road to destruction is wide and spacious, and many walking in it. Road to everlasting life (literally) however is narrow and strict, only FEW are finding it 🎯
I watch and listen to you Shumake and Gaskin. You both are the real deal ❤❤❤❤.
This dude is delusional. Yes there are various perspectives but one of the reasons as to why things aren’t working in the dating realm is because there are too many perspectives. We literally have the blueprint (the Bible) to help steer us in the right path and yet many CHOOSE to remain in chaos.
Anyone not speaking on GOD and principles is the OPP and should NEVER be trusted. 😑
The Bible is not the only way.
Buddhism, Muslims, and many many other religions all have their own perspective, they all believe in God, which is right ?
@@ItslewieoThe God of the Bible because he is the ONLY True God🙏🏾
I'm not sure about that.
@@naomibostonredd7695 the Bible is our guiding 💡 and our God given gift of discernment, moral compass and intuition all plays in hand. Anything outside of that serves as a distraction and will lead you down a dark path of mental chaos.
When you get to know God for real, beyond the surface of what is taught, you receive conviction.
You know that you know that you know.
Doing things God's way is the only way to truly prosper.
Tony helped me a lot with learning men and how they think. I'm forever a supporter because of that.
I agree with you Shumake, putting yourself out there and being a testament for others opens you up to spiritual attack. I'm keeping you lifted. Keep doing God's work. It's needed and appreciated.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.
Much love💯
Talk Tony!!! I say that all the time about that panel. It's just a bunch of back and forth with no solutions. Sensationalism! Its meaningless!💯
Tony is my mentor-I signed up with his mentorship program! He IS THE TRUTH! He’s authentic and very real! He’s passionate about our culture and US winning. What he’s saying is absolutely correct! We need more men that can actually lead from a place of wisdom and love!
Even the people who are married and get a divorce it’s because they have gone outside of his will they again can’t be saved they have been turned over and wonder why it never works
Is that why usually when people get divorced they keep getting divorced a 2nd 3rd time later on ?
Yes because everyone that has sex before they get married curses theirselves and their family bloodline. The parents before that have cursed them for their sins
They need to repent, find a God fearing man, and get deliverance
There is a dating coach that I used to follow, but I noticed more and more that he is pandering and he is always pushing his books for people to buy or saying things that women want to hear. I also noticed that some of these dating coaches are not married and are giving all this advice. I am using discernment as to which dating advice to listen to.
Tony Gaskin is the Derrick Jaxn for Christian women although he does say some good stuff but like pastors also do in the church they pander heavily towards women
@@Simba365I was not referring to Tony Gaskins in my comment, but another dating coach. Tony gives great advice.
@@Simba365 I used to think so too but as I listened to more of his content, I found Tony pretty reasonable and balanced. He holds women to account as well, sometimes it's even harsh. It's unfortunate that a lot of men don't listen to him as he does give advice to men as well. If more men like yourself tuned in, he'd make more content geared towards men. It's just the nature of demand and supply.
Stephan speaks?
@@MissTiffany01No comment.
I’m so proud you men on here that are true to what you preach, teach and live and trying to lead our people the right way, God, Jesus, the Bible….
I saw this live and I felt like they ambushed him with Ace Metaphor
Well technically the hosts did ask TG if it was okay if Ace came on to defend himself and TG said yes. After all, when you call people out by name, you should expect nothing less than for them to answer. Especially if they’re both grown men. So I wouldn’t consider that to be an ambush.
YES THE DISCERNMENT OF THE HOLY GHOST TOLD ME THAT HARDLY INITIATED TYSEAN AND RAYAN SET UP TONY GASKINS PURPOSLY WITH ACE METAPHOR THATS WY TYSEAN AND RYAN WAS ENCOURAGING ACE TO DESRESPECT TONY BUT EVERYTIME TONY WANTED TO SPEAK UP TYSEAN AND RYAN WAS SHUTING TONY UP BUT THEY CLEARLY SET TONY UP BY PLANNING TO INVITE HIM TO THE SHOW AND WHEN I TOLD HARDLY INITIATED THEYVARE HYPOCRITES FOR DOING TONY THAT THEY BLOCKED ME IN THE COMMENT AND DECIDED TO UNSUSCRIBED FROM HARDLY INITIATED THE FACT THAT ACE LYED ON TONY AND HARDLY INITIATED SUPPORT ACE IN HIS WICKENDESS DISGUST ME
They didn't. You saw him smiling when he heard Ace was in the backroom. He wanted that.
Yup and their acting was terrible lol
Maybe I need to see the whole thing but it appeared Tony was doing a pretty good job. God plus one is a majority.
I just think people that are not religious should not listen to religious people that give advice because they wont take it the way its meant.
I don’t think you should tell non religious people what to do, as long as a human being can comprehend and the right phrases are used correctly it shouldn’t be a big deal. The only time I don’t listen to someone who is religious is when they use god to promote the devils work.
Cardinal and spiritual are like night and day. Cardinal/flesh will never understand spiritual.
Tony Gaskins message needs to be heard more often in this generation
For both Men & Women TG is spot on 💯
No it not. Tony Gawkins is a impressive simp!
Thank you very much brother. You always bless us positively with good messages and information.
Tony Gaskins is on point! I love him and what he promotes. Keep letting your light shine.
We appreciate you Shumake. God is going to bless you and the few other black men out here who are trying to make change. You're a rare breed.
If there's progress, we're going to FEEL it. - Tony Gaskins
We need children teenagers young adults, and adults to understand sex before marriage is not supposed to be if you’re having sex before marriage you have already brought a disturbance to the peace that is supposed to be a union of virginity. Both people are supposed to be clear so they have no expectations. Walking in to this lifelong commitment they’re making to each other. Oh yes, by the way marriages are lifelong commitment, if back then I know what I know today life would be different and I guess a lot of us look at this if we can go back to change one or two things. We must start holding ourselves and our families accountable for their actions that could be before marriage is wrong and people are just sharing things you can’t get rid of good conversation guys.!!!
Hi five Tony Gaskins I’ve been watching you for the last three years four years and you’ve been on point every time I was married to my first husband for 40 years. Our commitment was never to let anyone in between me and him not our children not our family no one. And I am waiting for my next husband because I will not be out here in the streets fornicating with people for pleasure. I’m looking for a life partner who I can share the rest of my life with. Shumake Your channel is on point too. You speak truth and you speak the Bible and that’s how you should learn the Bible by being taught by someone who is actually reading the Bible when they speak to you and layman’s terms.,
I have listened to Tony Gaskins for 4years now. And everything he teaches has wisdom. He has helped me and shown me the way
You Shumake sir, Tony Gaskins and RC Blakes are MUCH NEEDED in this space these days.
ALL of you are married with children/families and speak to the benefits of doing things God’s way in an effort to help society as a whole be better.
If you not helping people then you are hurting them.
I love Tony Gaskins, that man is my brother in spirit.
Tony has always been honest and he stands on what’s right. I like Ace but Tony is the real deal.
I listen to all three of you and have things I agree with and disagree with...
I like the different perspectives...
And listening has helped me immensely.
Amen! Relationship with God most important!
Appreciate the work you & Tony do! We support you both! 🫶🏾🙌🏾
A friend invited me out to Ace Metaphor show and I was not move at all and the same when I see his reels. The show was sold out but I just didn’t get the hype. It’s a money move for him.
It's about the bag for Ace. He was dissing women a few years ago. Black women shouldn't be trusting Ace.
@@ayingi3461exactly Tanya TKO exposed him for this he doesn’t even like BW. Just like KS
It is. He’s a wife beater…. And play boy….Lots of ppl know this but some how he is able to keep it under wraps
I followed Ace Metaphor for a short while and he shouts too much to get his point accross. I also felt thst he was being insincere.
If you don’t think it’s a money move for Tony Gaskins then I have a bridge to sell you.
That’s why TG sells his services as a dating coach for a premium price and not free. That’s why he has his dad on his website also offering dating advice for a price. You can’t always get Tony Gaskins but you can get someone in his family for a PRICE. Every video posted on RUclips is put up with the hopes of generating a lot of ad revenue which translate to a RUclips check.
That’s why he attacks others in the same space as him making BW believe he’s the only one that can lead them to the promise land. It’s to get more traffic to his RUclips Channel which translate to higher revenue. That’s why he can say of RC Blake’s “He’s good but I’ve been doing this longer than he has.” That was a backhanded compliment to a man of God (RC Blake’s). That’s why he attacks ACE because ACE is generating a lot of views. His RUclips Shorts have popular. They both are going after the same demographic BLACK WOMEN. It’s a business move for TG
He boasts about buying his wife a Cartier bracelet or a Louis Vitton Bag . He boasts too much on material possessions he has acquired.
Thank you Shumake for standing for the truth! Gods truth. Keep doing what you're doing and may the Lord continue to use you mightily!
My sister and I recently brought up her ex. A close friend of his complained because he was building a following off of someone else’s business and work. The person he knew had reached success and helped people resolve certain issues. The ex did not help anyone solve those issues but acted like he did and started building a following for that content even though he was unqualified.
I immediately thought of Tony’s point about it being necessary to be married and how many men saw it as a business opportunity. A healthy marriage would be required..
Thank you Tony for doing it God’s way… it’s very inspirational🫶🏼 God created this world and God gave us His blueprint. God’s way is the ONLY way ♥️