How the Children should Behave with their Parents? 1/20
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
- Morality / Akhlaq
What Quran says,
By Muhammad Shaikh
Part 1
How the Children should Behave with their Parents?
Respect and good behavior towards parents are essential values that every child should uphold. Parents play an invaluable role in nurturing, guiding, and supporting their children, often making countless sacrifices to ensure their well-being. Recognizing this, Islam emphasizes the significance of treating parents with kindness and compassion.
The #quran stresses the importance of gratitude towards #parents and outlines the way children should interact with them. This includes showing respect in words and actions, being obedient in permissible matters, and refraining from causing any hurt or distress. Politeness in tone and gestures further reinforces the bond between parents and children.
To achieve good behavior, children must develop empathy and understanding, recognizing the efforts their parents have made for them. Simple acts, such as expressing gratitude, assisting them in their daily tasks, or spending quality time with them, can make a significant difference. Additionally, children should maintain patience and avoid arguments, even in moments of disagreement.
These practices are not merely social norms but a reflection of strong moral character. When children show consistent care and respect toward their parents, it brings harmony to the family and fosters an environment of love and mutual support. Moreover, fulfilling these responsibilities is a way of earning blessings and success in both worldly and spiritual matters.
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Parents key saath Allah ney hamesha honorable aur respectful rehnay ka hukm dia hey aur aisa karney sey hee hamey sukoon milayga
Parent Children relationship is what makes core of a home.
If we follow the guidlines given to us by Allah, we will make a peaceful home.
The love and care parents give us is unmatched, there is no way we can reply them.
The point is to be humble towards them, care from them no matter what their age is, talk to them with repect. This will give us peace here and good in the hereafter.
This was the 1st correct I made after watching lectures of Muhammad Shaikh, my relationship with parents was poor, after asking Allah's help and making tons of efforts, this relationship became the most beautiful one.
May Allah forgive our parents.
Never let our hearts deviate after He has given guidance to us.
اس لیکچر سے میں نے یہ سبق حاصل کیا کہ والدین کا احترام کرنا ضروری ہے۔ پہلے میں بہت مغرور تھا اور والدین کے ساتھ میرا رویہ سخت تھا، لیکن جب میں نے آیات کو سنا، تو میرا دل نرم ہو گیا۔ اب میں اپنے دونوں والدین سے بے حد محبت کرتا ہوں۔ ان کے ساتھ شفقت اور مہربانی سے پیش آتے ہوئے اپنی عاجزی برقرار رکھنی چاہیے، جیسے انہوں نے میرے بچپن میں میری پرورش کی۔ والدین کو کبھی نظرانداز یا رد کرنے کا سوچنا بھی نہیں چاہیے، بلکہ ان کے ساتھ ادب اور عاجزی کا رویہ اپنانا چاہیے۔ آیات کی رہنمائی کے مطابق، میں نے خود کو اللہ کے احکامات کے سپرد کیا اور ایمان لایا۔ جزاک اللہ !
Very well explained through ayaat
The discourse reflects a gteat deal of #Wisdom for disciplined interaction between childrens and parents.
Adorable approach to pragmatism .
JazakaAllh Sir❤
So much pure moral guidelines by Allah, which if practised give peace of mind
ماشاءاللّٰه
The basic moral principles from the Quran are beautifully explained and can be accepted by individuals of any faith. We do not need to read any other book for moral values or principles, as the Quran itself explains them perfectly.
The moral lesson I have learned is that my relationship with my parents should be one of goodness, humility, and kindness. When either one or both of them grow old, I should take care of them, never speak to them disrespectfully, and lower myself infront of them.
This lecture helped me understand how I have to keep my emotions and ego in check and always respect and honour my parents
میں آج اس وڈیو سے یہ سمجھا کہ جو بھی رزق ہمیں اللہ تعالٰی نے دیا ہوا ہے وہ ہم زیادہ تر اپنی ہی اولاد کے اوپر خرچ کرتے ہیں بغیر وہ رزق مسکینوں اور رشتداروں کے اوپر خرچ کرتے ہوئے۔ جسے اللہ تعالٰی فضول خرچ کہ رہے ہیں جو صرف ہم اپنے بچوں کو انکی خواہشات کو پورا کرنے کے لیئے خرچ کرتے ہیں۔
Ma Sha Allah excellent explaintion by bro Mohamed shaikh
Allah has explained everything that is necessary to attain peace, and Jannah beatifully explained JazakAllah Br Mohammad Shaikh.
Yes this is true we are so busy in our business, jobs, children and riches of this world that we forget the purpose defined by Allah, thankyou bro. Shaikh for reminding and calling us again n again on straight path.
Is clip se wazaht hoi or hidayat mili ke parents ke samne apne ap ko necha rakhna he on ke sath ache se rehna he. Jo bat parents se aye os ko tasleem karna he exceptional ke alawa.
From this lecture, I learned to honor my parents by humbling myself, showing kindness and mercy, just as they cared for me as a child. I must never think of pushing them away but remain respectful and humble toward them, I submit and believe as you guided through the ayats.
Best ever translation of morality I have ever heard and the verses of Quran related to how childrens behave with parents in old age is very hart touching moral consciousness doesn’t belongs to any religion it’s just a human psychic part but the way Quran verses explains it it’s very deep.
The wisdom in the book of Allah is in our soul which every human being is in conflict with, the children should behave better with their parents and should always keep themselves in front of them because the mother cares about them when they are not there. This also did not change, but Allah showed mercy on my parents as they had raised me in my childhood.
آج کے آیات قرآنی کے سبق سے ہم نے سیکھا اور آج سے یہ ہمارے ایمان علم و عمل کا حصہ ہے کہ والدین کے ساتھ ہمیشہ عمل صالح کرنے کا حکم جو اللہ رب ذوالجلال نے ہم کو دیا ہے اس پر عمل پیرا رہنا ہے
In Islam there is lots of respect for parents and children are ordered by Allah to lower their wings and be respectful to your parents always and unconditionally.
From this lecture I learned that it is important to respect parents. At first I was very proud and had a strict attitude towards my parents, but when I heard the verses, my heart softened Now I love both my parents very much. One should maintain one's humility by treating them with compassion and kindness, as they treated me in my childhood..
اس لیکچر سے میں نے سیکھا کہ اپنے والدین کی عزت کرنی ہے، اپنی عاجزی کا مظاہرہ کرتے ہوئے ان کے ساتھ مہربانی اور رحم کا رویہ اختیار کرنا ہے، جس طرح انہوں نے میری بچپن میں پرورش کی۔ مجھے کبھی ان سے دور ہونے یا انہیں دھتکارنے کا خیال نہیں لانا چاہیے بلکہ ان کے ساتھ احترام اور عاجزی سے پیش آنا چاہیے۔ میں ان آیات کی رہنمائی پر ایمان رکھتے ہوئے اس بات کو سرتسلیم خم کرتا ہوں۔
Morality mentioned in Quran is based upon our psyche which every human being agrees to. No other religious book has the same high level of moral values !
Children must be good to parents and always keep themselves humble in front of them because the parents took care of them when they were nothing! O Allah have mercy on both of my parents like they cherished me when I was little!
This is wisdom for children towards their relationship with parents: to Be good to parents (both of them), Do not dishonour (both of them), Do not repel (both of them) and pray to Allah to be merciful on (both of them) as they were merciful when we were little..Sincerely motivational clip!
جزاک اللّہ برادر محمد شیخ صاحب
آمین
इस व्याख्यान से मैंने सीखा कि मुझे अपने माता-पिता का सम्मान करना है, स्वयं को विनम्र रखते हुए उनके साथ दया और करुणा का व्यवहार करना है, जैसे उन्होंने मेरे बचपन में मेरी देखभाल की थी। मुझे कभी भी उन्हें दूर करने या अस्वीकार करने का विचार नहीं करना चाहिए, बल्कि उनके प्रति आदर और विनम्रता बनाए रखनी चाहिए। आयतों की मार्गदर्शन के अनुसार, सरतस्लीम ख़ुम और मैं ईमान लाया।
❤❤❤اَلْحَمْدُلِلّٰه
Scholars do not expose themselves to this extent & demonstrate Such an exemplary family relation & thankfulness & forgiveness towards Allah & all those who helped & departed in life.
Allah ki Kitaab mein mazkoor Akhlaq hamari nafsiat meni hain jis se har insaan mutfiq hai, Aulaad ka apne Walidain ke sath behtar rawayya hona chahiye aur hamesha un ke samnay khud ko aajiz rakhna hai kyunkay Walidain ne un ki dekh bhaal is waqt ki jab woh kuch bhi nahi thay, ae Allah mere Walidain dono par Reham farma jaisa ke unhon ne mujhe bachpan mein paala tha .
This lecture highlighted how we should treat our parents in accordance with the teachings of the Ayahs from the Book of Allah. Although my parents have passed away, I have shared this lecture with my children and continue to pray for my parents' forgiveness in every Salah.
JazakAllah
Jazakallah sheikh sir.
Assalamu alaikum. There are many misconceptions about Islam in the world, including among Jews, Christians, and Hindus, such as associating Islam with terrorism etc....
However, Brother Muhammad Sheikh explained in his lecture, using Quranic verses, that Islam emphasizes good morals, the importance of family relationships, and respect for parents.
Allah has commanded in His book to serve and respect parents, and to avoid using words that disrespect them. Additionally, Islam prohibits unnecessary expenses and fulfilling children's unlawful desires.
These principles and values are accepted in every religion, but they are not part of their religious beliefs. They are only mentioned in Allah's book and are part of Islamic religious beliefs. These are the best moral values prevalent in Muslim societies.
Brother Muhammad Sheikh explained these values in great detail in his lecture. I am grateful to Allah and Brother Muhammad Sheikh.
Surah 17: Verses 23, 24, and 27.
The relationship between parents and children is not an easy task to manage. However, after listening to these verses with sincerity in the lecture series What The Quran Says About the Parent-Child Relationship by Muhammad Shaikh, I began practicing in the light of these verses and continuously worked on improving my attitude toward my parents.
Parents are the only ones on the face of the earth who genuinely want their children to surpass them morally, educationally, financially, and in every other aspect. We must humble ourselves before them, show respect in every interaction, and respond to them with kindness and honor.
لیکچر سے معلوم ہوا کہ بچوں کا اخلاقی رویہ اپنے والدین کے ساتھ کیسا ہونا چاہیے اگر ہم اپنے والدین کے ساتھ اچھے اخلاق سے پیش آئینگے تو ہمیں خوشی ملے گی اور اگر ہم کتنے بھی امیر اور افسر بن جائے ہمیں ان کی عزت کرنی ہے اور ان کے لیے بے عزتی والے کلمات نہیں کہنے اور بیان کی گئی اخلاق پر آیات جو ہماری فطرت میں شامل ہے اس پر عمل کرتے ہوئے اللّٰہ کی بندگی کرنی اور فضول خرچیوں سے بچنا ہے اور مال کا صحیح استعمال کرنا ہے ۔
جن کے والدین حیات ہیں ان بچوں کو چاہیے کہ بیان کی گئی آیات عمل کر کے اپنی زندگی خوشیوں سے بھر لیں اور ہر وقت یہ دعا مانگتے رہنا چاہیے کہ اے اللّٰہ تعالٰی ان پر رحم فرما جس طرح مجھ پر چھوٹے ہوتے انہوں نے رحم کیا ۔
جزاک اللّٰہ برادر محمد شیخ
These verses from the Quran clarifies the relationship of parents and children in the most beautiful way. Parents are the only blood relation who wants their children to be ahead of them in every aspect of life. Parents love to spend on their children out of pure love. Parents sacrifice their likings in order to provide the best life to children as they could. It is the responsibility of children to make sure they don’t use such a word that hurts their parents and lowering down their achievement in front of parents.
You only know the value of your parents when they are no longer here.
May Alaah forgive us and our parents and grant Higher Place in Jannah Aameen ya Rabb ❤
SubhanAllah, JazakAllah
It is clear from the verses, we are nothing in front of parents, no matter how much we grow or reach any place.
In Islam, the relationship between parents and children is based on respect, love, and responsibility. Parents are advised to treat their children with kindness, patience, and fairness, while children are urged to honor and obey their parents. The Quran emphasizes that being good to parents, especially in their old age, is one of the highest virtues. A strong, caring bond strengthens the family and nurtures the growth of both faith and character. SubhanAllah!
The real ultimate morality justification begins from this clip, I knew this verse from before, but I came to know after watching this that this is universally accepted morality.
To Love care and respect your parents is a norm around the world.
Allah swt has explained in the Ayats how children should behave with their parents in order to attain peace.
We have to implement and follow as it is written in the verses of Quran because if we do then our relationship with our parents will be good.
If we follow these golden rules, we will be wise person
संक्षिप्त व्याख्या बच्चों और माता-पिता के बीच नैतिक आचार और रिश्ते को स्पष्ट करती है जब वे बूढ़े हो जाते हैं 😢
Is clip sai wazay hoa kai hamara behavior apnay parents kai saath kaisa hona chahye.
Allah nai aayaat mein wazay kya kai hamein apnay parents ko buhat humble,honorable aur respectfully treat karna hai aur unka khayal waisay hi karna hai jaisa hamaray childhood mein unho nai hamara kyayal kya.
How Allah explains the relationship between the parents and the children should be like, regardless of what background anyone is from, because the human nature has the moral conscience to know what is right from the wrong. Like, share, and comment. Peace. 🙏
Whatever states, how rich we are our behavior toward our parents
must be so soft, and polite. eyes fill with love and respect when we look at them.
Talk to them, and ask their advice on different matters.
These small acts will give us unexplainable feelings
O Allah, have mercy on them as they had mercy on me when I was young.
This statement reflects that we have deeply contemplated morality and the importance of treating parents with kindness. It is true that morality is a fundamental aspect of every religion and social system, and Islam particularly emphasizes good conduct toward parents. The Quran provides clear guidance on respecting and serving one's parents, such as in the following verses:
Surah Al-Isra (17:23-24):
"And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them reach old age while with you, do not say to them [so much as], 'Uff,' and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word. And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, 'My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small.'"
These teachings clearly show that serving and respecting parents is an integral part of our faith. While this value is common to all religions, Islam particularly elevates it to the level of worship.
Quranic verses rightly mentioned that parents have made countless sacrifices in raising us, and while it is impossible to repay them fully, showing respect and maintaining a kind attitude toward them is an obligation for us.
The morality described in the Quran aligns with the innate psyche of every human being, a truth universally acknowledged. No other religious scripture upholds such a profound and comprehensive standard of moral values. Among these, the emphasis on being good to one's parents stands unparalleled. Children are commanded to show kindness, respect, and humility toward their parents, remembering that they cared for them selflessly when they were helpless and vulnerable.
Parents, especially mothers, sacrifice their desires, comfort, and even well-being to ensure the happiness and needs of their children. A mother tirelessly nurtures her child, never saying no, no matter how challenging the task. Fathers, too, work hard to fulfill every wish of their children, often concealing their struggles to bring joy to their family. Yet, it is only when Allah softens our hearts through His Ayats that we truly realize the depth of these sacrifices and the immense love our parents have for us.
O Allah, have mercy on both of my parents, just as they cherished and nurtured me when I was little. Thank you, Brother Muhammad Shaikh, for this enlightening explanation that touched my heart and inspired me.
Islam teaches us the basic moral ethics which are practiced by all religions.
Brief explanations clarify the moral ethics & relationship between children and parents when they became old 😢
We must lower our wings in front of our parents
One of the moral aspect that Allah has explained in Quran is the relationship of Parents and children.
Allah says in verse 17:23 that Children should be good and humble to their parents.
They should be respected.
We have to keep in mind that we have to lower our wings by lowering ourself in front of our parents.
The Quran teaches how to behave with parents , no religion can deny this morality and reject this Ayat , when parents are old children should take care of them like they did when in their childhood
Among the morality listed in the Al-Quran there is the relationship between parents and children. These morales can applied by any religious groups, Christians/Jews or non religious groups such as atheists.
The children are to be good with their parents, speak kindly & without contempt, be humble towards the parents keeping their wings low as parents helped their children from childhood.
Further, children are to wish them well by asking mercy for them during namaz as parents did for them. Parents are not to spend unnecessarily during hardship to fulfil children wishes.
Doing such good will also be a betterment for the children as they also will receive the same.
There are numerous Moral duties and obligations mentioned in Al-Kitab, couple of these are in connection with parent/children relationship. These are the core Ethics (Moral principles) that any person belonging to any religious and/or non-religious group can educate and implement.
The children should always be
- kind/humble (be good) towards parents
- pray for mercy for them like when they nourish/nurture them in childhood.
- should not say word of contempt when they have reached old age.
- no matter how successful children becomes in life they should always remember that in front of their parents they are nothing. They must lower their wings, who raise them up when they were not able to do anything.
The goodness children do with parents it will come back to them. Similarly, parents must not become spendthrifts on themselves and/or on the children trying to fulfil their desires/wishes.
These norms/principles being taught in every society all over the world are stated by Allah in the ayats which none can contradict/wronged.
Jazakallah Br Shaikh
Assalam o Alayikom wa Rahmatullahe wa Barakatuhu!
i have bowed down to the Verse of Allah in which he says to be good with ur parents and say honorable words to parents.
I am unfortunately wasting a lot of money according to the desires of my children but now after hearing the Verse of Allah in which he says that the spendthrifts r the brothers of Satans, I bowed down my head to Allahs Ayat and from now on won’t waste money on children unnecessarily. Inshallah
Assalam o Alayikom
Toofan Zadran, Germany, 34, Linguist.
Among Morality, one aspect would be the behaviour of children towards their parents.
Being good & showing respect to the parents from children, especially when parents grow old. Considering the sacrifices Parents make & emphasis on what they did while children were little, specifically when children have grown & might have become successful (lower the Wings). This should be obvious in children's words & actions in humility towards parents. The goodness children will do to their parents will come back to them.
Islam emphasises on being Good, Merciful & not saying words of dis- honour (Contempt) to the parents which would be agreeable with any normal human being from any background.
Another aspect of Morality would be, not being spendthrift in general & even on children.
shek sahab mera sawl he ke makka main sunnat nifal pari jati he ya nai
درس میں بیان کے گی اےات سے واضع ھوا کہ اخلاقیات کی یہ باتیں ھر انسان چاھے وہ کسی بھی جگہ رھتا ھو اسکا کو بھی مذہب ھو ان ایات کا انکار نھی کریگا ھر والدین یہ ھی چاھتے ھیں کہ انکی اولاد ان کی عزت کرے ان سے رحمدلی سے پیش اے انکا خیال رکھے
Quran is based upon our psyche which every human being agrees to,
No other religious book has the same high level of moral values.
ASALAM U ALIKUM
IN THIS CLIP DESCRIBE CHILDREN'S AND PARENT'S RELATIONSHIP THESE AYATS OF ALLAH IS EYE OPENER FOR ME AND AFTER HEAR THIS AYATS OF ALLAH I REALISED MY WRONG DOINGS WITH MY PARENTS I DO .
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