A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
Callling it: He was dared by the bullies - who he has been in kahoots with all along - to marry OP, leave her and ruin her life as a joke. Bonus points if they had a kid he could abandon.
Sadly, I do see this from time to time. Some people just don't mature, others will regress in behaviour under certain circumstances and others learn to mask their immaturity.
Story 1) I'm willing to bet his parents were the only reason he kept it civil. He is now damaged goods and anyone he dates is going to be told about him.
And the bully is still obsessed with OP even after all these years. You think being obsessedly in love with someone is bad, imagine obssessed hating someone...
I despise people who do the whole “You’d better forgive me or I’ll give you a swirly!”. They aren’t remorseful. Dump him. Don’t give back the ring. Feel free to sue him for emotional stress.
I treated my ex like she was complete garbage every moment of every day that she was living with me yeah always on the phone with her ex/new man. I was very adamant that she starts paying half of literally everything in the house or get the fuck out because there’s no other third option and eventually after a bunch of her crying trying to make me feel bad didn’t work she left
This is starting to get convoluted. Here’s an example: Dad was USAF, stationed in Scotland. Met a girl, got married, then he and his pregnant wife moved to the USA, and then he was stationed in Vietnam during the American occupation and resulting conflicts (was never TECHNICALLY a war). Didn’t come home for 18 months…. But when he got back to his home in Mississippi, the Scottish women he’d marked, who then birthed his eldest, then left her alone for a while longer. So upon his return after 18 months, and his wife is pregnant, he has issues. Like any sane monopolistwould, he now ex takes his eldest daughter, plus this younger kid, who has my dad’s name on his birth certificate. And they stayed in Scotland for decades. A couple years back, his eldest called. Saying her mom just died. Even the autistic kid in the back of class (that’s me) figures the self-proclaimed daddy’s girl was completely breaking down., and she just Ed her dad to give her a hug and tell her it’s going to be okay. Not my dad. He reminds her that her mother cheated on him, was a right cunt she was, and in spite of the divorce being over 50yrs ago he’s happy she’s gone, but less happy that she apparently went quickly with no pain
Divorce him his actions are a big red flag, you knew you can't trust him too protect you you knew he will do it again if you stay, because he knows he can BS his way in again!
Divorce him his actions are a big red flag, you knew you can't trust him too protect you you knew he will do it again if you stay, because he knows he can BS his way in again!
'demanding to reconcile, begging for a second chance'. DEAR LORD!
😂
My thoughts exactly!
There wasnt any of that tho. Sounded like he made some half arse attempt and went meh whatever
@@kotorisama3080I mean that's probably the most decent thing this waste of space has done.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
Callling it: He was dared by the bullies - who he has been in kahoots with all along - to marry OP, leave her and ruin her life as a joke. Bonus points if they had a kid he could abandon.
I’d be disgusted and embarrassed if I saw grown women still acting like high school bullies
Sadly, I do see this from time to time. Some people just don't mature, others will regress in behaviour under certain circumstances and others learn to mask their immaturity.
Story 1) I'm willing to bet his parents were the only reason he kept it civil.
He is now damaged goods and anyone he dates is going to be told about him.
And the bully is still obsessed with OP even after all these years. You think being obsessedly in love with someone is bad, imagine obssessed hating someone...
story 1 what is wrong with the ex-husband... his behavior just like trash
Agreed
typical behaviour from a cheater
What kind of man does that to his wife?
One that doesn't care about anyone but himself.
Someone who’s not a man
One that doesn't know that garden shears are exceptionally cheap.
@@LordThanatosIIthat's dark... but accurate
This doesnt sound like much of a man to me. More like a coward
Nice to see that the bullies have peaked in high school
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I despise people who do the whole “You’d better forgive me or I’ll give you a swirly!”. They aren’t remorseful. Dump him. Don’t give back the ring. Feel free to sue him for emotional stress.
Story 1: why would anyone marry someone from the bully clique?
Again I said bullies are monsters
Agreed
Yeah sisters fiancee needs to run if funding the wedding is her greatest concern
I really hope the first story is fake. Like wtf!? The husband is insanity
I missed the part where the fiance was told his bride is abusing her father with the family that abused him and betrayed him.
His efforts to reconcile after such actions are inappropriate and confusing.
Wow, we found a story even the migosynists couldnt pick apart and blame the woman for!
Wait was it story one or two I’m confused
Are you only on these channels for so-called “misogynists” to call out? You’re what they call a “femcel” then.
I treated my ex like she was complete garbage every moment of every day that she was living with me yeah always on the phone with her ex/new man. I was very adamant that she starts paying half of literally everything in the house or get the fuck out because there’s no other third option and eventually after a bunch of her crying trying to make me feel bad didn’t work she left
Ex is for the streets. Let him rot there and continue to work on yourself OP
S1: wtf with the husband?? He's such a monster
I have heard this same story but with reversed genders for op and husband
This is starting to get convoluted. Here’s an example:
Dad was USAF, stationed in Scotland. Met a girl, got married, then he and his pregnant wife moved to the USA, and then he was stationed in Vietnam during the American occupation and resulting conflicts (was never TECHNICALLY a war). Didn’t come home for 18 months…. But when he got back to his home in Mississippi, the Scottish women he’d marked, who then birthed his eldest, then left her alone for a while longer. So upon his return after 18 months, and his wife is pregnant, he has issues. Like any sane monopolistwould, he now ex takes his eldest daughter, plus this younger kid, who has my dad’s name on his birth certificate. And they stayed in Scotland for decades. A couple years back, his eldest called. Saying her mom just died. Even the autistic kid in the back of class (that’s me) figures the self-proclaimed daddy’s girl was completely breaking down., and she just Ed her dad to give her a hug and tell her it’s going to be okay.
Not my dad. He reminds her that her mother cheated on him, was a right cunt she was, and in spite of the divorce being over 50yrs ago he’s happy she’s gone, but less happy that she apparently went quickly with no pain
S2 first daughter is realy her moms hellspawn. Dad, wife and siblings should not pay nor attend the wedding.
Day 48 of telling secretvoices to have a good day
Day 48 of telling you to have a great day
I refuse to believe story 1 is real.
Story one: this is fake. Clearly. But what grown woman can’t stand up to people?? The insults were so childish too.
Story 1 sounds fake as hell.
Farming melons by hand is a sin
That 2nd story can't be real
Divorce him his actions are a big red flag, you knew you can't trust him too protect you you knew he will do it again if you stay, because he knows he can BS his way in again!
Divorce him his actions are a big red flag, you knew you can't trust him too protect you you knew he will do it again if you stay, because he knows he can BS his way in again!